Love, compassion, faith, respect, patience, sacrifices are important factors for a successful marriage. But do you think that after following these rules, couples can stay happy without fighting, arguing, or sometimes creating some annoying scenes?
No that’s not possible. No one is perfect, and everyone is different. When it comes to marriage we have seen opposite attracts. When we accept & love each other with whatever qualities we have before marriage then why most couples are facing problems after marriage.
The first and foremost thing in marriage or a relationship is to stop taking fights & arguments seriously. Practice these 8 words in your daily routine. You can see a tremendous change in your partner if you say these words. They are “Yes dear, I am sorry, It’s my fault” that’ it. And you have won half the battle.
We at saptapadi vivah through our premarital and post-marital counseling, have come across many couples, where despite love, sacrifices, patience, faith between these couples, they are still unhappy with each other. Continuous fights, arguments are adding to the bitterness in their lives. Instead, if you try to practice these simple 8 words gracefully, your marriage not only becomes successful but also an inspirational story for others.
So dear brides and grooms practice these 8 magical words in your relationship and see the wonder happening around you. And yes don't forget to share and comment about your experiences with us.
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Interesting conversation between two generations…..
Son : Do couples in arranged marriage, actually fall in love, or is it mere compatibility??
Father : He looked into her eyes, She shyly looked down and Arranged marriage
didn’t seem arranged anymore.
Our elders had an interesting advantage over today’s generation. Our elders did not begin their marriage with love. Instead, they were taught how to love. They entered marriage with a strong determination to build a relationship that would sustain their marriage for a lifetime.
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Whether you are on the verge of getting married, or you have just begun to talk about it with your partner, there are some questions you simply need to discuss with your partner before deciding whether or not marriage is the right choice for you.

1. What kind of family traditions would your partner want to implement?
2. Where do we see our Lives Going after Marriage?
3. What are our Thoughts on Children?
4. How do we Handle Stress?
5. How do we Handle Conflict?
6. What are our opinions on Gambling, Drugs, and Alcohol, and do we accept it?
7. How will we Manage Finances?
8. What would happen if We Experienced a Change in Work-Life?
9. Do We Accept Change from the Other, After Marriage?
10. How Important is the social status and self Grooming? #saptapadivivah #questionstobeaskedbeforemarriage #arrangmarriage #matrimony

Bitter Truth of Latef Marriage :-

According to Hindu culture, every individual undergoes 4 phases in their life. Brahmcharya, Gruhasthashrama, wanprasthashram, and sanyasashrama.
Among these, Gruhasthashrama is considered to be the most important phase. According to a well-known saint Tukaram Maharaj “ Accurate management of gruhasthashrama, can be the Master key towards Spirituality.”
It mainly includes marriage. Where the bride and groom get tied up in the sacred relation by taking 7 vowes. They love, support each other, and stay together for the rest of their lives. But if you go a little more deeply into this, you will understand marriage is not only about staying together, it is for the procreation of the next generation. And this creation has to be best than the earlier generation.
Many factors will come into the picture when it comes to the procreation of a healthy generation. One among them is Parent’s age.
The ideal Biological fertile age in males is from 18 to 65 yrs on average and in females, it is 14 to 45 years on average. Other priorities like education, job, financial independence go up to 28- 30 years of age. After that when the matrimonial search begins due to some materialistic expectations many good profiles get filtered. results in delay in marriages.
According to one survey, 40% of prospects are between 35- 45 years of age group. And it is unfortunate to see still they are clinging to their non-realistic expectations leading to late marriages and late pregnancy. If you check medical articles, the major reason behind the birth of an abnormal child is the advanced age of the mother during pregnancy. As it is junk food, pollution, unhealthy lifestyles are part of all this but along with that unnatural ways of family- control can lead to infertility in many couples. this can lead to stress, depression, and emotional differences among married couples.
Through this article just wanted to put forward the bitter side of late marriage. and to get aware of this is a need of the hour.

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Right age for a woman to get married..

Relationship’s survival can be determined by communication skills, teamwork, and by sticking to each other during bad times. One important consideration to take before tying the knot is “Age.” Especially the “Age of the Bride".
People with different mindsets may say different things.
But according to my knowledge for a female, 24 to 27 is the best age to get married.
Reasons:
1. At this age you would be a degree holder and be financially independent.
2. At a younger age you are more flexible and can adjust to each other. As you age, it can be difficult to adjust with your life partner. In short, you’re more adaptable and adjusting when you're young. There are more chances of your marriage working when you're tolerant and understanding towards each other.
3. Due to change in food and lifestyle, fertility has reduced hence it is best to have your first kid from age 25 to 29 Years
4. When you are young it's easy to manage kids and after 35 -40 it becomes more difficult. The more you delay, the more it may hurt you and your child in unknown ways.
5. Child’s health is affected a lot because of the health and age of the mother. The younger you conceives, better for the child in long term (NO, I didn't mean 18).
6. Think about your kid’s future, you’ll be there in their life much longer. Imagine having a kid at the age of 25, you would be 50 by the time they finish their education and be somewhat independent. But if you have kids at 35 they’ll be just 15 when you reach 50.
Possibilities of life and death cannot be determined early but still, it would be nice to be tension free at the age of 50, thinking that your kid has finished education and now independent. You can be more relaxed about their future. That helps you to have healthy and stress free life.
7. Nowadays in some women infertility can show up at 30+ age. They may never have any symptoms and hence it’s better to be careful.
8. There are times when marriages go terribly wrong. An early marriage gives you much more time & chance to work on the relationship or restart a new relationship.
According to a few people “Age is just a number, instead of right age, the right time is more important”. Yes, I agree, Right time is important because the person should be matured enough to understand the meaning of marriage and can take responsibility for his/her partner. But in a holistic sense, for a woman, getting married at the right age can solve many problems to maintain her physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing.

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ಬೆಳೆದಿರುವ ದೇಹದ ತೂಕ ಕಡಿಮೆ ಮಾಡುವದಂತು ಮಹತ್ವದ್ದಾಗಿದೆ , ಆದರೆ ಅದರ ಜೊತೆ ನಿಮ್ಮಲ್ಲಿ ಬೆಳೆದಿರುವ ಈ ತೂಕದ ಸ್ವೀಕೃತಿ ಇರುವದು ಸಹ ಅಷ್ಟೇ ಮಹತ್ವದ್ದಾಗಿದೆ . ಯಾವಾಗ ನಿಮ್ಮಲಿ ಸ್ವೀಕೃತಿ ಬರುತ್ತದೋ ಆಗಲೇ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಕೃತಿಯಿಂದ ನೀವು ನಿಮ್ಮ ಆಕೃತಿಯನ್ನು ಬದಲಾಯಿಸುತ್ತೀರಾ.
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Celebrate Rejections:-

Rejection in any form can be disheartening. It not only creates a cloud of doubt in your mind but also shatters your confidence. At some point, you must have come across people who don't think twice before rejecting a person for marriage, most of the time rejection is given on the very first call without even listening to the complete details of the prospective bride or groom.
We have heard Hundreds of reasons for matrimonial rejection. In 99% of cases, these rejections are based on a materialistic perspective. For example- Financial background, property, package, looks, lifestyle. If these calculations are in place then sometimes character, nature, compatibility, habits will come into the picture.
When the initial matrimonial search process begins most of the brides and grooms are still in their dream world, thinking their Mr. or Miss Perfect will enter their lives in a very filmy way.
Most of them even think “I can reject a person but no one can reject me for anything”. Fortunate ones find their dream partner in a short span. But these fortunate ones are very few. The remaining folks have to go through a lot of turmoil and at a certain point; rejection becomes a hard pill to swallow.
Sometimes the reasons seem valid but most of the time 'that final no' is based on some weird beliefs. In a traditional country like India where we respect our marriage values not less than god, we are seeing prospective brides and grooms rejecting each other without even thinking about the consequences.
We have seen 80% of these prospects are in search of their life partner with a very negative attitude. The blame game remains the final product of this process. Do you all really think with this negative approach even if you contact alliances, you will get expected replies?? Unfortunately, the answer is No. We all know the law of action and reaction. The same thing applies here.
Dear brides and grooms, having expectations and high priorities in your matrimonial search is absolutely fine. It is a personal choice and decision. You are rejecting few profiles, the same way others are rejecting your profile.
If you want to be firm with your choices and priorities then stop this Blame Game and try to accept rejections open-heartedly. Do not lose your confidence and patience during this journey. Remember, at some point,” Rejections are really good for life. It is a deep dive for self-realization “. Be optimistic and Celebrate Rejections.
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