Help me with an assignment?

Im doing an assignment for school and as a fellow asexual I thought why not make it about that? Well turns out I need to interview people for a part of the assignment. So do some of you mind helping me out on this 😅

Ps: its about the lack of men in the asexual community, so if you identify as a man please let me interview you 🙏

Pps: anyone willing is welcome, need people for the comparison

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I know they're ace but I just can't prove it
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My first Halloween as the ace icon Luffy himself
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Help me please in this

Long story, I was literally saved to death by someone, we were friends, became very close friends after he never left my side ( as in through helping me, we are in different cities) , taught me how to live again. Now, I don't know I never had any crushes in life, I couldn't feel attracted to anyone , then later felt I am a romantic, asexual. I am asexual. But I didn't know what love was, he atught me, indirectly, it's not just about giving roses, going on dates, it's about being there when no one wanted to be... It's about helping at someone's lowest, it's not about looks.
Ok, I cannot marry, have children etc. ( that's entirely diff topic)


But now I come to the point. Now he juat doesn't want to talk to me anymore.
I still didn't stop trying. Kept reaching out first and he talked, just 2-3 sentences and bye. It always came to how am I, as he may have felt I was not keeping well etc. but never reached out first and I forcefully initiated conversation only for it to come at how am I. Then one day, though I guessed from day 1 , that he was not doing well, he doesn't want to talk ( about his situation) and now he's told me directly that I focus on myself, my well being that's it . That will make him happy.
What should I do, the person whom I shouldn't have fallen in love with, I did, but am still demiromantic, asexual (from my side, We never discussed such things) .
I cannot even help him, that's eating me up, how can I, how should I . And my main question: How do I unlove him?

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i think i’m asexual, looking for others’ opinions/advice

hey, i’m just posting here in hopes to get some advice because this is the kind of thing i can’t really talk to my friends or family about.

so basically, i’m (19f) in my first serious relationship with my girlfriend (21f) who is literally just the most loving, thoughtful, and supportive partner i could ever hope for. not to mention the fact that she’s insanely beautiful, like she’s STUPIDLY attractive, we’ve been together for about 3 months and talking for longer than that but every time i see her i’m still just as gobsmacked by her perfection as i was the first time.

i say all of this to say, i know for sure that there isn’t any issue between us or within our relationship that could be causing me to have such a low libido. but the fact of the matter is, i just don’t really want to have sex.

this isn’t to say i don’t ENJOY our sex. i lost my virginity to her and every time we’ve done it since then, it was fine, like it felt good and i didn’t feel uncomfortable per se. but something i’ve noticed about myself is that i just really don’t like it that much. even when we’re just cuddling and she starts getting touchy, i always feel weirdly disappointed because i already know it means i’m going to have to ‘perform’ in a way (aka, act how somebody SHOULD act when they’re having fun during sex).

the only part of sex i enjoy is giving, and even that’s just because it makes me feel good knowing i’m making HER feel good and i like making her happy, not because i’m ever especially turned on or “in the mood”.

part of me knows it’s completely normal to be asexual, or to just generally not like having sex as much as others might. but part of me can’t help feeling really bad about it, almost guilty. i feel like i SHOULD want to have sex with my girlfriend, you know? i’m sexually attracted to her of course but that desire/need for sex just isn’t there. talking to her about it would probably help and i know this, but there’s this mental barricade telling me it will literally break our relationship or, even worse, make her insecure. my anxiety’s just getting the better of me about this.

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Why must this happen to meeee

I am sex repulsed, very sex repulsed
But for some reason, no matter where I'm staying, or even if I'm just visiting - I always end up overhearing people going at it 🥹 so much I became extremely paranoid to any strange noise and sometimes I go into spirals over it

Is it really that hard to NOT do that while I'm at a very close distance ??? It happened last night again, the rooms aren't even a meter apart and the bed was so noisy I cant get the sound out of my brain it's HAUNTING ME

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Can sex-repulsed asexuals watch spicy vids?

Yeah, ik this sounds stupid but i got curious abt it bc i never heard of asexuals that are sex-repulsed but still tolerate spicy vids or something like that.

Soooo yeah, i would like to know if it is possible for a sex-repulsed asexual to watch them and even enjoy watching it?

And if so, would you like to talk abt it?

Im curious

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Asexual beholder
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Just a few sans pride flags yes I already posted them somewhere else but I thought it fits here too well not to share tho so Um yeah I hope you like em too haha😅🖤🤍💜

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Getting mass downvoted and accused of being pro ai for complaining about gooners
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How to handle the need to be desired?

I (27 ftm) came out as asexual some times ago and I am very confortable with it… Except for the deep craving to be desired! It was taking most of my thought back when my mood disorder wasn’t medicated. Now I think about it way less but I really feel the need to be desired carnally & sexually by someone… does it resonate with anyone and does anyone have an idea how i can handle that so it doesn’t makes me think less of myself??

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Added a little bit of ace pride when I went out for Halloween on Friday night. It's not often that I get to wear the ace accessories, but I always appreciate when I have the opportunity.

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being asexual in november is a VERY good time. cw talk of jorkin it

I love nnn my ego is fucking thriving right now. friend made a comment about how she forgot and was sad she couldn't 'goon' (her words not mine) to some character or whatever and i was immediately like. WEAKLING. she tried to be smug and be like "ohh but you can't to your fave either" BUT THE JOKES ON HER. I don't yoink my shit to the character I just fantasize about him beating me half to death. my friends are weak. my ego is thriving. and to no nut november, I say BRING IT ON, FOR NUTTING MEANS NUTTIN' TO ME!!!!!!! MUAHAHAHAHAHHAA

(disclaimer: this is a joke post, freakiness is natural for a lot of people and I don't actually think it's weakness or whatever. you do you, this is a bit)

(bonus disclaimer: I wasn't being a dick, my friends and I are mean to each other frequently)

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Blursed date

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