Do you believe sapiosexuality is an actual sexuality? I know this question has been debated for years. But I just wanted to know your thoughts



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How's autumn treating you?

Heya! I'm 25 yr old ace girl and autumn is already here still the weather is kinda crazy and feels a bit like summer lol for Southern sphere it'd be spring right?
Anyways I'm just here to say hello to other aces, make sure you love yourself for who you are :) Honestly, these days I feel a little nostalgic about the time when I had friends online all over the world to exchange banters and all, and at that time I had a bf whom didn't bring up the sexual topic at all so I didn't even have to come out as ace. Well looking back at it now maybe he was asexual too? After that I had a relationship with an allo and it didn't go that well, and several years after that, I'm now here feeling content but at the same time being single for long started to make me feel a bit confused like I start to want to fall in love again but idk why I also imagine falling in love with someone like my first bf. It was quite some time ago now, and importantly it's not that Im missing him or anything and there were reasons I broke things off, but the appearance and how he would talk and all just started to randomly pop up in my head. How do you deal with it?
Anyways, feel free to talk to me as I'm totally down for meeting new people to talk to :)

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Asexual Ereasure should be discussed

I've only been nice to this woman in our five meetings. She blurts out some graphic sexual shit from nowhere. Why does everyone assume ulterior motives? Should I get an asex sign and walk around? Sure, people will look at me but, not the way they leer now

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Got an all-ace flush five in Balatro
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I dislike how people assume sex is involved in a romantic relationship

People can date and have a romantic relationship without having sex, you know.

This speaks volumes about how sex-obsessed the United States is. It’s not like this in other places of the world, at least not to this extent.

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Complimentary garlic bread
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It seems like my "boyfriend" doesn't respect that I'm an ace.
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how north/south are you going?
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cómo odio los besos largos y mi enamorado a fuerzas quiere darme beso en los labios

hola, pues verán amo mucho a mi enamorado pero Dios, a veces me incomoda que me bese la boca y él no lo entiende. Según él yo soy la primera chica en besarle y así 7n7 cosa en la que no creo xd pero aún así es muy atascado. Me besa en público, es muy expresivo Y AMO LA INTENSIDAD pero preferiría que solo me abrazara, me diera la mano o no sé besos en el cachete. Pero puaj, no tiene mal olor en la boca, NI NADA MALO, al contrario sus labios son demasiado suavecitos como un malvavisco jaja pero damn 💀 besar en la boca me incomoda y no me hace caso. Ustedes creen que es mucho de contacto físico/ está muy emocionado porque no ha besado a ninguna mujer en la boca en sus casi 20 años o simplemente es alguien que no entiende y me fuerza :’( aaaaaaaaaaayuda

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Does Ace have a fetish?

Can an ace like BDSM related things?

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Apparently, We're Pretty Smart
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Am I Asexual?

If you are questioning whether or not you are asexual (including all microlabels), reply to this post with what made you start questioning, and why.

If you are too shy to post a reply, then you can scroll through the responses for the advice you may be searching for.

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are you attracted to voices?

been listening to a lot of nsfw audios lately and realized i have a thing for voices.i would mainly listen to the ones with very little dialogue, but i moans, whimpers, and breathiness of the voices. i’d rather listen to these audios than have sex lol

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Online Over the Garden Wall Watch Party

I have an aspec discord that's going to have a Halloween Over the Garden Wall watch party at the end of the month if anyone would like to join

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Bracelet
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Family gathering story

I'm at a family gathering and just heard a story of a couple.

There was theis guy who said he's religious and that he'd maintain his purity and wouldn't get married, but yk the desi families.
So he was forced to get married, he made it clear that even if he got married he still won't have any kids and would treat his wife as nothing more than a friend.
They're now married for 16 years and living happily, no kids. The family accept them as religious too.
My cousin who knew them personally told me that they are actually both asexual and used religion to find an excuse

It's really shows the hypocrisy of society.
If they had directly said that they're asexuals the people would probably call then delusional and made weird remarks " it's not real just try it" " how can tht be a thing, having offspring is necessary" etc
But they accepted it when they used religion as a cover up.
*Desi people would accept things they don't really want to if it's religion.

i just wanted to share this story, no hard feelings...

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Questioning if I’m Ace

I know y’all probably get this all the time, but just been thinking for a bit. I’m 20 M, ever since I was 14 I found I had some sort of attraction to men, just kind of an ambiguous thing. (I’ve just called it gay) I’ve watched gay porn and have had fantasies, but in the real world I have had no urge, no desire, like they are not there at all. And no idea what those feelings are truly like outside of a fantasy. Yet I got some weird thing for men. My parents keep on asking when I’m gonna get a boyfriend, but I don’t care if I have one, but yet I have dreams of having one and I’m just kind of confused. Is it asexuality or some mental disconnect I haven’t addressed? Just mostly asking for some more info maybe more perspectives. Thank you for reading, and your time.

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I’m about to mute every lesbian subreddit I’m so frustrated.

I tried once more just to see if maybe there was a “diamond in the rust” type of thing and nope; I was wrong.

Once again this subreddit is the most nicest, kindest and most respectful for me to my sexuality.

So many lesbians are down right horrible.

Like what does it take for someone; somebody like me to find a Cis Butch equivalent of my grunge ass?

Why are there so many mean Butch lesbians? Like oh; all would be fine if only Asexuality wasn’t apart of me.

So you’re telling me that my dream Butch is out there; but only problem is they want sex?

I’m sorry that I love stereotypical 1990’s presenting cis Butch lesbians; but without the softball, axe and sex part.

Is it too much to ask to come across one whether I end up with one or not? To know the Butch version of my grunge ass exists (which by the way is the opposite seeing as Butch and Grunge are like the siblings of the lesbian world if you will) would be nice.


Someone; somebody… Understand. I mean…

It is so frustrating. Gaaaasassssndjdjdjdhrhrhrhdhdhehdh

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Why is sex a flex?

Like 90% of my friends think that a gay ace wants to hear about their straight sexcapades. And they'll go into detail about it too. Like, who asked? Im happy for you and your "throat goat", happy that you can grab his butt while he goes down on you.

I just don't want to hear it. Does anyone else deal with this?

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What is a weirdly specific thing you see alot with people and characters in the ace spectrum?

I say it first: Sharks. I have a shark plushy for as long as my sentient memory goes, a friend of mine that's also ace has about 70 (i envy that), there is the vtuber Rin Penrose aka human asexual flag with her own blahaj, Gwenpool is the original owner of Jeff (if you dont count MODOK) and even Alastor has a rivalry with a TV-headed shark

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