Is there any another asexual women out there

I know there is but it seems so hard to find them frm my small town most women here are straight but then again I havent been activity look either but just out curiously is there asexual lesbsin out there like me

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Pride

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Questioning

I’ve started questioning myself yesterday. Could i be asexual? This is how i feel: It’s like i dont get a signal sent to me that i’m “horny”. I never looked at people/partners and think “i want to have sex”, it was more like a random decision that was made, and what was expected of me in a relationship. Even with self pleasure, i just randomly decide to do it, which was the biggest indicator to me that i may be asexual. I don’t feel tingly for it or crave it or anything like that. I do enjoy the feel of self pleasure, but i could go the rest of my life without having actual sex with someone with no problem because i just don’t desire it. Self pleasure is like a chore as well for me, just to get it over with. I’ve kinda felt that way about sex in my past relationships too. Like, okay “let’s do this” but i’m ready for it to be over. Also, with self pleasure, i’ve mostly always focused on the outside, rather than any penetration. Lastly, I can admire the aesthetic/look of a human body, but at the same time human bodies are weird to me. Thoughts??

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I have given up on dating. I'm tired

Last week, I went on a date with a guy. We went bowling, he brought me beautiful flowers, we had fun he respected me, and were really hitting it off.

At least, so I thought.

He just blocked me on all socials. With no reason. Even after saying he was looking forward to a second date.

This happens every time and I'm tired. I'm sick and tired of being taken for granted every time. It's exhausting. I quit dating.


I read all the romance books and watch these romantic movies and shows like "XO Kitty" or "The Summer I Turned Pretty" hoping and wishing and praying for my turn.

But I'm 21 and I have learned life ain't like the movies or books. Love isn't for everyone. And maybe romance just isn't in my cards. That's alright, I'll love myself even more now, more than any man ever could. I'm gonna be just fine. 💜

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Leave me alone plz
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Asexual
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i think that the ace community has something against sex repulsed aces and im tired of them pretending they dont

so, whoever needs to hear this:
i dont think youre lesser of a person for being a virgin, i dont think youre lesser of a person for "being a prude", i dont think youre lesser of a person for being "vanilla", i dont think youre "boring", i dont think youre lesser of a person or weird for being uncomfortable with sex or talking about sex, i dont think youre "sex negative" for disliking sex and sexual topics, i dont think youre less of a person for criticizing something sexual-related, i dont think youre less of a person for wanting to be in a space without sexual topics popping up, i dont think youre a bad person for feeling grossed out by sexual atteaction being expressed in your direction, i dont think youre lesser of a person for having boundaries, i dont think youre less deserving of love for wanting to be in a sexless relationship

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