Doubts (from someone who doesn't know if is asexual or what)
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Hello everyone! So, there have been some doubts in my mind since some time and I don't know what to think. I am not too aware or informed at all about asexuality so maybe I am asking for things that are "obvious", so sorry since here.
I enjoy masturbating, I have sexual fantasizes and even had had them about celebrities. But the problem is that I don't want those ideas to happen in real life, not only because the idea itself but because I can't imagen myself in an intimate scenario with someone (I even laugh about once I dreamt about how one of those celebrities flirted with me and offered me to go with him to his room and I was like no thanks, besides everything I had thought about him lol). It's like I prefer those scenarios to keep in my mind. Also, it goes with the fact that I don't have problem about reading/watching other people having sex, even I can imagine myself in the situation but, again, not imagine myself doing it some day.
I insist, I know little about asexuality, so I don't know if these kind of questions might be related or are totally out of context. If someone could bring me a hand with these, I'd be grateful.
Thank you all since here.
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(First post in here)
Hello everyone! So, there have been some doubts in my mind since some time and I don't know what to think. I am not too aware or informed at all about asexuality so maybe I am asking for things that are "obvious", so sorry since here.
I enjoy masturbating, I have sexual fantasizes and even had had them about celebrities. But the problem is that I don't want those ideas to happen in real life, not only because the idea itself but because I can't imagen myself in an intimate scenario with someone (I even laugh about once I dreamt about how one of those celebrities flirted with me and offered me to go with him to his room and I was like no thanks, besides everything I had thought about him lol). It's like I prefer those scenarios to keep in my mind. Also, it goes with the fact that I don't have problem about reading/watching other people having sex, even I can imagine myself in the situation but, again, not imagine myself doing it some day.
I insist, I know little about asexuality, so I don't know if these kind of questions might be related or are totally out of context. If someone could bring me a hand with these, I'd be grateful.
Thank you all since here.
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Someone to share time with
I am 74 years old and am looking for a man to spend quality time with . I am a widow and live alone. I just want someone to share my life with. I am lonely and have a lot to offer.
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I am 74 years old and am looking for a man to spend quality time with . I am a widow and live alone. I just want someone to share my life with. I am lonely and have a lot to offer.
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Asexual in Egypt
I'm an asexual girl in Egypt (Egyptian obviously) I'm a demiromantic, I want to know if there's other people like me in Egypt, men women, trans, non-binary wtv
And like maybe we can make a small group of us cause I only like know one ace person, and I feel like I'm all alone in this shit
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I'm an asexual girl in Egypt (Egyptian obviously) I'm a demiromantic, I want to know if there's other people like me in Egypt, men women, trans, non-binary wtv
And like maybe we can make a small group of us cause I only like know one ace person, and I feel like I'm all alone in this shit
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Are You Aro (Advice)?
**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
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**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
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any teenagers?
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I don't know how to tell this guy that I think I'm asexual - help please!
Reaching out to this community with my tale so I can gauge how to broach this. I recently had a bit of a breakthrough with my therapist and uncovered that I may be asexual. I don't really feel sexual attraction towards real people (fictional characters are the exclusion). I have no desire for sex with another person and am opposed to most physical touch in general. Now, I have been dating this guy for a couple months now and we've hugged and held hands but even that has felt really weird to me, like it's wrong for my body to be doing that. The other night after a date he wanted to kiss me but I managed to brush it off as I don't feel comfortable, but didn't know how to tell him. He kissed my cheek and I spent the whole drive home trying to get the feeling off my cheek, very upset. He keeps telling me that I'm beautiful and sexy and I feel really uncomfortable when he says those things. I don't know how to tell him that I think I am asexual and that I don't like the advances, however pure-intentioned they may be. I think he's a lovely and respectful guy, but I can't really see him being okay with me essentially saying "Don't touch me." HELP!
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Reaching out to this community with my tale so I can gauge how to broach this. I recently had a bit of a breakthrough with my therapist and uncovered that I may be asexual. I don't really feel sexual attraction towards real people (fictional characters are the exclusion). I have no desire for sex with another person and am opposed to most physical touch in general. Now, I have been dating this guy for a couple months now and we've hugged and held hands but even that has felt really weird to me, like it's wrong for my body to be doing that. The other night after a date he wanted to kiss me but I managed to brush it off as I don't feel comfortable, but didn't know how to tell him. He kissed my cheek and I spent the whole drive home trying to get the feeling off my cheek, very upset. He keeps telling me that I'm beautiful and sexy and I feel really uncomfortable when he says those things. I don't know how to tell him that I think I am asexual and that I don't like the advances, however pure-intentioned they may be. I think he's a lovely and respectful guy, but I can't really see him being okay with me essentially saying "Don't touch me." HELP!
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Thank you to the Redditor who mentioned these! I had to go to 2 different Spencer's, but I found it!
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My friend just told me this and it’s too good not to share.
My friends boyfriend: “You know, I just can’t imagine me ever having sex. She’d just stare into someone’s eyes and that’s intimate enough for her.”
My friend: “You know she’s ace right?”
Boyfriend: “That actually makes so much sense.”
There’s no way he actually knows what asexuality is. He barely knows me. But he still managed to completely figure me out. I give off ~the vibes~ apparently.
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My friends boyfriend: “You know, I just can’t imagine me ever having sex. She’d just stare into someone’s eyes and that’s intimate enough for her.”
My friend: “You know she’s ace right?”
Boyfriend: “That actually makes so much sense.”
There’s no way he actually knows what asexuality is. He barely knows me. But he still managed to completely figure me out. I give off ~the vibes~ apparently.
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I installed "asexual cupid" and these are some of the profile questions!?
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