I’m not sure of my sexuality
I'm a teenager, so naturally I'm not sure what I am. I can feel physically attracted to both men and women, but I'm not bisexual; it's just that I like cute people. I can also feel attracted romantically, like I want to marry and everything, so I thought I must be heterosexual, right? But I don't even like the idea of having sex or any physical contact. I dislike kisses too. I always thought it was because I'm still too young, but most kids my age have sexual desires (16 going to 17), so I've been wondering if I could be asexual. Can I be both heterosexual and asexual at the same time? ¿Is there a term for it?
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I'm a teenager, so naturally I'm not sure what I am. I can feel physically attracted to both men and women, but I'm not bisexual; it's just that I like cute people. I can also feel attracted romantically, like I want to marry and everything, so I thought I must be heterosexual, right? But I don't even like the idea of having sex or any physical contact. I dislike kisses too. I always thought it was because I'm still too young, but most kids my age have sexual desires (16 going to 17), so I've been wondering if I could be asexual. Can I be both heterosexual and asexual at the same time? ¿Is there a term for it?
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Hello to the peeps scrolling through
I just wanna say hello to all the good folks scrolling through this sub. Hope y'all are having a a great day/afternoon/night/whatever time of the day it is for you.
Don't forget to drink water especially for those living in regions where it is summer time now. Take breaks and smile whenever you see a slice of garlic bread. Peace!
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I just wanna say hello to all the good folks scrolling through this sub. Hope y'all are having a a great day/afternoon/night/whatever time of the day it is for you.
Don't forget to drink water especially for those living in regions where it is summer time now. Take breaks and smile whenever you see a slice of garlic bread. Peace!
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Apparently, these are the first few spacing color options on imgflip. Guess this is why they call it spACEing
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I mean, I can't figure it out either. Then there is the whole doing it thing....
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Sex ist so... Underwhelming
Honestly idk what I expected in detail, but it definitely wasn't this....
Idk so many ppl make such a fuzz about it.
And it's not like I haven't tried a lot of stuff, but it's all so unexiting.
Idk for me it feels like attraction cannot make THAT much of a difference...
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Honestly idk what I expected in detail, but it definitely wasn't this....
Idk so many ppl make such a fuzz about it.
And it's not like I haven't tried a lot of stuff, but it's all so unexiting.
Idk for me it feels like attraction cannot make THAT much of a difference...
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I hate being asexual sometimes
I keep seeing/hearing about people my age on tiktok or irl doing some romantic and sexual things with each other or those tiktok rants with block blast in the background about crushes and all that and I'm jealous. But my jealousy isn't caused by me not having anyone to do these things with, it's because even if I did, I wouldn't want to do these things. But I want to want. That's my problem. I want to feel those things, but I don't and it hurts me. Because I feel like I'm missing out a lot.
Me and my best friend recently kissed (again, 2nd time) (it's a long story okay) and I didn't really feel anything. I just want to like it, but I don't think I do.
Not having sex is okay, because I'm still a teenager, so I feel like it would be too soon anyway, but just to feel the need to make out with someone yk..... I really hope that someday when I'm older, I'll just, idk, stop being asexual. But I don't think that's possible. If in 5 or 10 years time I'm still like this, I don't know how I'm gonna live. Whenever I watch a movie or a tv show and there is a kiss or sex scene I'm just hoping that someday as an adult, I could experience this. But asexuality is not something you can grow out of, is it?
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I keep seeing/hearing about people my age on tiktok or irl doing some romantic and sexual things with each other or those tiktok rants with block blast in the background about crushes and all that and I'm jealous. But my jealousy isn't caused by me not having anyone to do these things with, it's because even if I did, I wouldn't want to do these things. But I want to want. That's my problem. I want to feel those things, but I don't and it hurts me. Because I feel like I'm missing out a lot.
Me and my best friend recently kissed (again, 2nd time) (it's a long story okay) and I didn't really feel anything. I just want to like it, but I don't think I do.
Not having sex is okay, because I'm still a teenager, so I feel like it would be too soon anyway, but just to feel the need to make out with someone yk..... I really hope that someday when I'm older, I'll just, idk, stop being asexual. But I don't think that's possible. If in 5 or 10 years time I'm still like this, I don't know how I'm gonna live. Whenever I watch a movie or a tv show and there is a kiss or sex scene I'm just hoping that someday as an adult, I could experience this. But asexuality is not something you can grow out of, is it?
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How did you knew you were asexual? How are you supposed to deal with it?
Extremely introverted virgin. I've never had a romantic interest in real life, it has been either platonic or online. I've been thinking about being asexual since I was around 16yo, but it's confusing. I do want to have intercourse but my libido is really low, I get frustrated often, and thinking about actually having sex is kinda scary. I have never been able to get a partner, which is kinda sad imo. Any advice?
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Extremely introverted virgin. I've never had a romantic interest in real life, it has been either platonic or online. I've been thinking about being asexual since I was around 16yo, but it's confusing. I do want to have intercourse but my libido is really low, I get frustrated often, and thinking about actually having sex is kinda scary. I have never been able to get a partner, which is kinda sad imo. Any advice?
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What are the 10 most common things acephobes have said to you when you tell them you're asexual?
I got around to thinking today. I had this thought running around in my head. I was thinking of all the times I came out to people as asexual, and these negative experiences ran into my head.
In my case, I decided to make a list. I came up with 17 different responses I've heard in my lifetime by acephobes when I tell them I'm asexual. This is the list that I came up with just instantly. I wonder if anyone has heard any of the same responses I have or if anyone can relate. Let me know.
17 Acephobic things people have said to me.
1. "You just need to get laid!"
2. "How do you know you don't like sex? You've never tried it!"
3. "You're really missing out!"
4. "You just need a good screwing!"
5. "One night with me would change that."
6. "You're only saying you're asexual because you're ugly. No one in their right mind would ever want to screw you!"
7. "You're just repressed and need to live a little."
8. "You're just scared to have sex."
9. "You're only using asexuality as an excuse to avoid sex, because you believe sex is dirty."
10. "You're frigid!"
11. "You must have traumatized as a kid."
12. "You're just a loser who can't get laid. You couldn't get any if you even tried."
13. "You're just picky. You don't give anyone a chance."
14. "You're just an uptight prude."
15. "Nobody waits until marriage anymore, goody, two shoes!."
16. "You're just a weird geek and nerd that no one would ever want anyway."
17. "You're not a real man. You're just a little child who won't grow up."
So, that is my list. What are some things acephobes say to you? Anyone relate to my post?
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I got around to thinking today. I had this thought running around in my head. I was thinking of all the times I came out to people as asexual, and these negative experiences ran into my head.
In my case, I decided to make a list. I came up with 17 different responses I've heard in my lifetime by acephobes when I tell them I'm asexual. This is the list that I came up with just instantly. I wonder if anyone has heard any of the same responses I have or if anyone can relate. Let me know.
17 Acephobic things people have said to me.
1. "You just need to get laid!"
2. "How do you know you don't like sex? You've never tried it!"
3. "You're really missing out!"
4. "You just need a good screwing!"
5. "One night with me would change that."
6. "You're only saying you're asexual because you're ugly. No one in their right mind would ever want to screw you!"
7. "You're just repressed and need to live a little."
8. "You're just scared to have sex."
9. "You're only using asexuality as an excuse to avoid sex, because you believe sex is dirty."
10. "You're frigid!"
11. "You must have traumatized as a kid."
12. "You're just a loser who can't get laid. You couldn't get any if you even tried."
13. "You're just picky. You don't give anyone a chance."
14. "You're just an uptight prude."
15. "Nobody waits until marriage anymore, goody, two shoes!."
16. "You're just a weird geek and nerd that no one would ever want anyway."
17. "You're not a real man. You're just a little child who won't grow up."
So, that is my list. What are some things acephobes say to you? Anyone relate to my post?
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19 Acephobic Things People Have Said To Me When I Tell Them I'm Asexual.
I've been having this thought running around in my head lately. I was thinking of all the times I came out to people as asexual, and these negative experiences ran into my head.
In my case, I decided to make a list. I came up with 19 different responses I've heard in my lifetime by acephobes when I tell them I'm asexual. This is the list that I came up with just instantly. I wonder if anyone has heard any of the same responses I have, or if anyone can relate. Let me know.
19 Acephobic things people have said to me.
1. "You just need to get laid!"
2. "How do you know you don't like sex? You've never tried it!"
3. "You're really missing out!"
4. "You just need a good screwing!"
5. "One night with me would change that."
6. "You're only saying you're asexual because you're ugly. No one in their right mind would ever want to screw you!"
7. "You're just repressed and need to live a little."
8. "You're just scared to have sex."
9. "You're only using asexuality as an excuse to avoid sex, because you believe sex is dirty."
10. "You're frigid!"
11. "You must have traumatized as a kid."
12. "It's probably because of your religious upbringing, I'm sure."
13. "You're just a loser who can't get laid. You couldn't get any if you even tried."
14. "You're just picky. You don't give anyone a chance."
15. "You're just an uptight prude."
16. "Nobody waits until marriage anymore, goody, two shoes!."
17. "You're just a weird geek and nerd that no one would ever want anyway."
18. "You're not a real man. You're just a little child who won't grow up."
19. "No man would ever turn down sex. All men think about is sex."
So, that is my list. What are some things acephobes say to you? Anyone relate to my post?
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I've been having this thought running around in my head lately. I was thinking of all the times I came out to people as asexual, and these negative experiences ran into my head.
In my case, I decided to make a list. I came up with 19 different responses I've heard in my lifetime by acephobes when I tell them I'm asexual. This is the list that I came up with just instantly. I wonder if anyone has heard any of the same responses I have, or if anyone can relate. Let me know.
19 Acephobic things people have said to me.
1. "You just need to get laid!"
2. "How do you know you don't like sex? You've never tried it!"
3. "You're really missing out!"
4. "You just need a good screwing!"
5. "One night with me would change that."
6. "You're only saying you're asexual because you're ugly. No one in their right mind would ever want to screw you!"
7. "You're just repressed and need to live a little."
8. "You're just scared to have sex."
9. "You're only using asexuality as an excuse to avoid sex, because you believe sex is dirty."
10. "You're frigid!"
11. "You must have traumatized as a kid."
12. "It's probably because of your religious upbringing, I'm sure."
13. "You're just a loser who can't get laid. You couldn't get any if you even tried."
14. "You're just picky. You don't give anyone a chance."
15. "You're just an uptight prude."
16. "Nobody waits until marriage anymore, goody, two shoes!."
17. "You're just a weird geek and nerd that no one would ever want anyway."
18. "You're not a real man. You're just a little child who won't grow up."
19. "No man would ever turn down sex. All men think about is sex."
So, that is my list. What are some things acephobes say to you? Anyone relate to my post?
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A comment I made on a post from u/TrippleATransGirl inspired me to make this meme
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Are You Aro (Advice)?
**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
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**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
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Anyone knows why there are more female aces?
Idk if any real tests confirmed this is truth, but i rearly see asexual man (even tho i am one myself).
Is this true? And do you know why is that if it is true?
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Idk if any real tests confirmed this is truth, but i rearly see asexual man (even tho i am one myself).
Is this true? And do you know why is that if it is true?
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