Sex is cool, but have you started drawing enough to be able to draw whatever you want.
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Does anyone else not want sex or children?
I’m someone who doesn’t want to have sex or children. I know this isn’t a common choice in many cultures, and sometimes it feels really isolating because society expects marriage, sex, and kids.
I’m curious how many people here feel the same way and how you handle these expectations, especially around relationships or family.
Also, if you’ve had to talk about this with family or partners, how did you do it? Any advice or stories would mean a lot.
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I’m someone who doesn’t want to have sex or children. I know this isn’t a common choice in many cultures, and sometimes it feels really isolating because society expects marriage, sex, and kids.
I’m curious how many people here feel the same way and how you handle these expectations, especially around relationships or family.
Also, if you’ve had to talk about this with family or partners, how did you do it? Any advice or stories would mean a lot.
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Worst/Funniest thing ever said to you?
I've had people tell me "you'll get over it" or "it's just a phase." Does anyone have any crazier encounters they've had with people? Please post them I'm interested.
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I've had people tell me "you'll get over it" or "it's just a phase." Does anyone have any crazier encounters they've had with people? Please post them I'm interested.
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Is this being Ace flux?
Hey everyone I’m just wondering if this would be ace flux or not. I fluctuate between grey asexuality and then asexuality but I’ve read that being ace flux is like allo, grey and then asexual like that’s one of the definitions I’ve found.
But I’m never allo only grey ace and then sometimes asexual.
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Hey everyone I’m just wondering if this would be ace flux or not. I fluctuate between grey asexuality and then asexuality but I’ve read that being ace flux is like allo, grey and then asexual like that’s one of the definitions I’ve found.
But I’m never allo only grey ace and then sometimes asexual.
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Tips for those who get uncomfortable when the topic of sex comes up
19 y/o male here. First I want to say that if you’ve felt this way before, that is, you get uncomfortable or feel resentment toward allosexual people: you are not alone. I felt this way strongly at first but it subsided after a while. I want to share three ways I learned to get over it:
1. Maintain a support system: this can look like a friend group, online support forum, or even friends that understand or relate to you. You can vent to them and if they understand it can make you feel less alone.
2. Embrace your sexuality: instead of running from it, which is what I did for a while, you can embrace it. People told me constantly “you’ll get over it” or “you’ll find someone someday” and hearing these only made me more confused. I had to learn that it’ll take time for people to understand but I need to stand my ground and find certainty. Doing this helped me navigate my feelings more and now I feel more confident in myself.
3. Realize it doesn’t matter. Allosexual people will do what they are biologically programmed to do: have sex. That doesn’t mean we have any obligation to. I’ve often had people tell me that “it’s in our nature, you can’t just not have sex” and that is a primitive way of thinking. People are biologically programmed to kill others for resources, too, but we evolved. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter so don’t apologize for being you. Once you stop loving for others and realize sex doesn’t matter, and is just a natural part of life’s cycle, it gets easier.
In time, you will find it does get easier. These three things may or may not apply to you, but they applied to me. Hope this helps and stay healthy guys <3
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19 y/o male here. First I want to say that if you’ve felt this way before, that is, you get uncomfortable or feel resentment toward allosexual people: you are not alone. I felt this way strongly at first but it subsided after a while. I want to share three ways I learned to get over it:
1. Maintain a support system: this can look like a friend group, online support forum, or even friends that understand or relate to you. You can vent to them and if they understand it can make you feel less alone.
2. Embrace your sexuality: instead of running from it, which is what I did for a while, you can embrace it. People told me constantly “you’ll get over it” or “you’ll find someone someday” and hearing these only made me more confused. I had to learn that it’ll take time for people to understand but I need to stand my ground and find certainty. Doing this helped me navigate my feelings more and now I feel more confident in myself.
3. Realize it doesn’t matter. Allosexual people will do what they are biologically programmed to do: have sex. That doesn’t mean we have any obligation to. I’ve often had people tell me that “it’s in our nature, you can’t just not have sex” and that is a primitive way of thinking. People are biologically programmed to kill others for resources, too, but we evolved. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter so don’t apologize for being you. Once you stop loving for others and realize sex doesn’t matter, and is just a natural part of life’s cycle, it gets easier.
In time, you will find it does get easier. These three things may or may not apply to you, but they applied to me. Hope this helps and stay healthy guys <3
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Are you guys okay with kissing?
Im a bit conflicted. Like a smooch is fine by me but French kissing.. idk
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Im a bit conflicted. Like a smooch is fine by me but French kissing.. idk
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All the instances of *physical* attraction I've had. (RARE)
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Song I wrote about my asexuality
Hey so I wrote/composed this song about my asexuality, and I was in a very dark place when I made it. I wanted to share it here because I know the lyrics might resonate with some of you as well. If you have the chance to check it out, here's the link:
https://open.spotify.com/track/18Q6NOKd40XxjZI68N9Vv5?si=062cb56e9c25442f
P.S. If this is advertising, I understand if it's taken down or moved
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Hey so I wrote/composed this song about my asexuality, and I was in a very dark place when I made it. I wanted to share it here because I know the lyrics might resonate with some of you as well. If you have the chance to check it out, here's the link:
https://open.spotify.com/track/18Q6NOKd40XxjZI68N9Vv5?si=062cb56e9c25442f
P.S. If this is advertising, I understand if it's taken down or moved
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LIL NERD · STAY IN SCHOOL · Song · 2025
I thought i was a late bloomer or there was something wrong with me medically. but now i think i may actually be asexual
Ever since my body started developing and my peers were dating and experiencing things, i was never interested in sex and never really felt any sexual attraction towards any guy. i know i feel other different types of attraction but i was always uncomfortable or repulsed with sexual attraction. I thought it was because of my birth control that helps with my menstrual cycle but when it was lowered i still couldnt feel sexual attraction. I’m currently talking to a guy, and he told me how he values at least some sexual stuff in a relationship but whenever hes sexual with me i get uncomfortable. i would rather talk about our interests and cute little dates, than about sex. i do like him but i don’t think he’d want to be with someone who doesn’t want sex ever
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Ever since my body started developing and my peers were dating and experiencing things, i was never interested in sex and never really felt any sexual attraction towards any guy. i know i feel other different types of attraction but i was always uncomfortable or repulsed with sexual attraction. I thought it was because of my birth control that helps with my menstrual cycle but when it was lowered i still couldnt feel sexual attraction. I’m currently talking to a guy, and he told me how he values at least some sexual stuff in a relationship but whenever hes sexual with me i get uncomfortable. i would rather talk about our interests and cute little dates, than about sex. i do like him but i don’t think he’d want to be with someone who doesn’t want sex ever
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