Why do fandoms always have to ship two characters that have some friendly scenes?

I'm aro and I'm always really annoyed by this. Fandoms seem to love shipping and sometimes when there is incest or pedophilia involved they say "oh it's just fantasy it's not real so i can ship it", like no! Ok back to the "normal shipping":
Two characters just having fun, doing some normal stuff and acting friendly to eachother, nothing romantic at all, and then people ship it! Like please can't characters just be friends???

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My heart breaks when I see what asexual people go through because of everyone’s ignorance

I just wish you a lot of understanding, love and peace with what and who you are because you deserve it.

That's it.

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I was looking for cute birthday cake ideas and found these cakes and I think I'm in love now 😳💘💘💘💘💘

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Being a tall dude while being aroAce is the only time being a tall dude is nothing but a problem

I'm like 6'5 but now that I am not attracted to anyone the only thing it does for me is make me suffer. There are people who are interested

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Love this shirt :
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It must be trauma, right? (OC)
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Intimacy is more than just sex ❤️
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For the cake aces of the world
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surveillance

I'm out at a popular bar wearing my ace bracelet for the first time and I ment someone who asked if I was ace and I said yes, they said same and showed me their ace ring. All in all great experience.

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Apparently I can't have an opinion because I'm ace?

Also acephobia, I think?

I was talking with a..."friend" about female and male gaze. It was a very long discussion, but we got to a point where I was saying women aren't biologically attracted to "alpha men", that it's a matter of preference. He has known I'm ace for a while. He disregard my point, saying (paraphrasing) I didn't understand because I was missing that part of my biology, and people like me shouldn't talk about it because we didn't understand.

I dunno, maybe this is silly, and I shouldn't be angry about it. It's just the first time my sexuality its brought up to disregard my opinion.

I'm not sure if I'm angry or hurt, but just...dude, wtf?

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Does the world feel unsafe to you now?

I tend to view sexuality as a very private thing, and it always had been this way for me growing up, and not anybody’s business to define another person except for that person (if they even choose to define themselves). Ever since 2015 though, it feels like everyone is so obsessed with sexuality that it makes me feel extremely extremely uncomfortable and unsafe. I want to feel just human, be treated as human, without feel pressed to define myself. I don’t even want to talk about sex and gender and sexuality anymore. I want to feel safe not even talking about it. The only safe setting that I’ve ever felt has been in the professional realm, where things are generally not hypersexualized (depending on the company, but at mine it’s not). I don’t want to feel unsafe anymore, or defined, I just want to feel like I can go on with life without having to discuss sexuality. Thoughts? Anyone relate (or not)?

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