Why does society frown upon having sex but then when you don’t want too it’s either gonna be disappointment or “you’re just young”
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Why does society frown upon having sex but then when you don’t...
Posted in r/asexuality by u/TheGreatAchiever • 84 points and 17 comments
Smol heart attack today
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So my mom came by my apartment to drop some stuff off, saw this lil guy posed under my tv, pointed at him and exclaimed "WHAT IS THAT?". Since I had just woken up and didnt want to have the conversation about being ace before work, I just said "Its a cute little squid". She kinda just looked at me distraught or questioningly, then went about what she had come over for. She didnt say anything else about it.
Kinda shocked me a little that she just went straight to it and questioned me about it. Almost wonder if shes seen the ace flag before to have recognized the colors. Or maybe she just recognized the flag-like pattern from other lgbtq+ communities.
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So my mom came by my apartment to drop some stuff off, saw this lil guy posed under my tv, pointed at him and exclaimed "WHAT IS THAT?". Since I had just woken up and didnt want to have the conversation about being ace before work, I just said "Its a cute little squid". She kinda just looked at me distraught or questioningly, then went about what she had come over for. She didnt say anything else about it.
Kinda shocked me a little that she just went straight to it and questioned me about it. Almost wonder if shes seen the ace flag before to have recognized the colors. Or maybe she just recognized the flag-like pattern from other lgbtq+ communities.
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Sex stories are mega cringe
I hate hate HATE it whenever anyone, on the internet or irl, talks about a time they had sex. It just irritates me and makes me cringe. I’ve been seeing a lot of popular subreddits being flooded with this crap *cough cough r/Askreddit cough* and of course the horny allos give them thousands of upvotes. Also, so many of the stories are obviously fake fap material, especially the teen ones. Seriously, it seems like every post on r/Askreddit is like:
“What’s a thing that secretly turns you on?”
“What’s the worst hookup you’ve ever had?”
“Reddit, what’s the sexiest sex you’ve ever sexed?”
Can anyone else relate?
Edit: I’m gray ace so I DO occasionally have sex. I’m definitely not a prude, it’s just cringe to see people essentially bragging about doing something most humans do. Especially when they add unnecessary details that are overt fantasy fuel. Idk I guess this turned into a rant about allos on Reddit more than anything
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I hate hate HATE it whenever anyone, on the internet or irl, talks about a time they had sex. It just irritates me and makes me cringe. I’ve been seeing a lot of popular subreddits being flooded with this crap *cough cough r/Askreddit cough* and of course the horny allos give them thousands of upvotes. Also, so many of the stories are obviously fake fap material, especially the teen ones. Seriously, it seems like every post on r/Askreddit is like:
“What’s a thing that secretly turns you on?”
“What’s the worst hookup you’ve ever had?”
“Reddit, what’s the sexiest sex you’ve ever sexed?”
Can anyone else relate?
Edit: I’m gray ace so I DO occasionally have sex. I’m definitely not a prude, it’s just cringe to see people essentially bragging about doing something most humans do. Especially when they add unnecessary details that are overt fantasy fuel. Idk I guess this turned into a rant about allos on Reddit more than anything
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Sex stories are mega cringe
I hate hate HATE it whenever anyone, on the internet or irl, talks about a time they had sex. It just irritates me and makes me cringe. I’ve been...
Having sex while being an asexual broke me
Hey, I am sorry if this isn't the right place to post this but I just need to vent a little.
Being in relationships and having to have sex with my partners made me sex repulsive after a while and to be honest, I feel really lost now. I just want to cry when I think about "IT". I feel gross, even. It doesn't help much that I am currently in a relationship with someone not asexual. I mostly avoid the topic now and I know my partner is frustrated but I just can't do this anymore. It is a lot of pressure. I wish I could just live in a sex-free world because it stresses me out so much to always be confronted with it. I am sorry if I sound pitiful, I just had to tell someone because no one knows and I feel lonely.
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Hey, I am sorry if this isn't the right place to post this but I just need to vent a little.
Being in relationships and having to have sex with my partners made me sex repulsive after a while and to be honest, I feel really lost now. I just want to cry when I think about "IT". I feel gross, even. It doesn't help much that I am currently in a relationship with someone not asexual. I mostly avoid the topic now and I know my partner is frustrated but I just can't do this anymore. It is a lot of pressure. I wish I could just live in a sex-free world because it stresses me out so much to always be confronted with it. I am sorry if I sound pitiful, I just had to tell someone because no one knows and I feel lonely.
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Having sex while being an asexual broke me
Hey, I am sorry if this isn't the right place to post this but I just need to vent a little. Being in relationships and having to have sex with my...
Happy to show my ace bracelet I got in the mail! Think it's better than the shirt or hoodie I ordered!
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I love being ace
It took me a long time to figure out who I am. My sexuality seemed so complicated and I thought something was wrong with me but being ace seems so right and seems to fit me so well. and for the first time ever, I don’t care what happens, I don’t care what anyone says. if it changes it changes, if it doesn’t it doesn’t. i’m happy. for the first time in a long time.
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It took me a long time to figure out who I am. My sexuality seemed so complicated and I thought something was wrong with me but being ace seems so right and seems to fit me so well. and for the first time ever, I don’t care what happens, I don’t care what anyone says. if it changes it changes, if it doesn’t it doesn’t. i’m happy. for the first time in a long time.
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I love being ace
It took me a long time to figure out who I am. My sexuality seemed so complicated and I thought something was wrong with me but being ace seems so...
I Told My Boyfriend I am Ace.
So I finally told my boyfriend that I was Ace. When I tell you things got awkward…. This man at first was kinda weirded out cause he has never heard of this word. He then was confused cause we do have sex. I did my best to explain so he understood what Asexual is. And how I identify under that term.It was still so odd between us. I remember thinking that night that we might have to break up. There was a moment where I thought maybe he felt different about me now. Later before we went to be he started asking me questions and thinking. He finally expressed his biggest concern which was that I would eventually having sex with him would become a burden or a chore that I didn’t want to do anymore. I literally explained to him it’s not a chore, I want to do it. We may do it for different reasons. I told him nothing is different. I’m not different. I’m the same girl he met before. He said however that it was different for him which hurt my feelings. So I rolled over and went to sleep. The next morning he hugged and kissed me. He apologized for how he acted. He said I was an amazing woman and individual. He was so glad he had met me. I felt way better that morning.
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So I finally told my boyfriend that I was Ace. When I tell you things got awkward…. This man at first was kinda weirded out cause he has never heard of this word. He then was confused cause we do have sex. I did my best to explain so he understood what Asexual is. And how I identify under that term.It was still so odd between us. I remember thinking that night that we might have to break up. There was a moment where I thought maybe he felt different about me now. Later before we went to be he started asking me questions and thinking. He finally expressed his biggest concern which was that I would eventually having sex with him would become a burden or a chore that I didn’t want to do anymore. I literally explained to him it’s not a chore, I want to do it. We may do it for different reasons. I told him nothing is different. I’m not different. I’m the same girl he met before. He said however that it was different for him which hurt my feelings. So I rolled over and went to sleep. The next morning he hugged and kissed me. He apologized for how he acted. He said I was an amazing woman and individual. He was so glad he had met me. I felt way better that morning.
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I Told My Boyfriend I am Ace.
So I finally told my boyfriend that I was Ace. When I tell you things got awkward…. This man at first was kinda weirded out cause he has never...
Is anyone else sick of pervs?
I believe that we should discuss sex, I’m not against it. I may be ace but I’m always open to talking about sexuality and whatnot, mostly about fetishes because there are a few that make me very uncomfortable and talking with people who like those things usually helps me see their view.
With that said, I absolutely hate how horny it seems… everyone is.
I’ve felt like this for years, and it’s not just because I’m ace, I mean in general. Why is everyone so sex obsessed? I get that it’s a human thing and some people have a higher sex drive, but that’s no excuse to act like an immature 13 year old who just discovered porn.
It makes me so uncomfortable, not just as an ace but as a person. The objectification of people, especially girls, the way people glorify sex as if it’s the only thing that matters, etc.
I know it’s nothing new, but my feelings are the same regardless. It unsettles me how people perceive these topics.
Like, as a message to the world, for the sake of me, you, and any other people who feel the same, please grow the fuck up.
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I believe that we should discuss sex, I’m not against it. I may be ace but I’m always open to talking about sexuality and whatnot, mostly about fetishes because there are a few that make me very uncomfortable and talking with people who like those things usually helps me see their view.
With that said, I absolutely hate how horny it seems… everyone is.
I’ve felt like this for years, and it’s not just because I’m ace, I mean in general. Why is everyone so sex obsessed? I get that it’s a human thing and some people have a higher sex drive, but that’s no excuse to act like an immature 13 year old who just discovered porn.
It makes me so uncomfortable, not just as an ace but as a person. The objectification of people, especially girls, the way people glorify sex as if it’s the only thing that matters, etc.
I know it’s nothing new, but my feelings are the same regardless. It unsettles me how people perceive these topics.
Like, as a message to the world, for the sake of me, you, and any other people who feel the same, please grow the fuck up.
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Is anyone else sick of pervs?
I believe that we should discuss sex, I’m not against it. I may be ace but I’m always open to talking about sexuality and whatnot, mostly about...
After a long time I think this one just fits me best, every ace is different but all are valid.
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After a long time I think this one just fits me best, every ace is...
Posted in r/Asexual by u/Melody3PL • 13 points and 1 comment