Like men and women here but I refuse to have sex

Does anyone else have the same problem?

I don’t really seek or feel sexual attraction much to anybody except select few, but I’m comfortable with nudity and intimacy in certain contexts.

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Aces of reddit: Describe your ideal type of romance/relationship

what I mean) and that question popped into my brain.

So here's the "question" (as said in the title already, but I'm weird):

Describe your personal ideal type of relationship or romance. How you imagine your dream relationship, regarding dynamic, love language if you want, just whatever comes to mind!

As done before, of course I will answer it myself as well. (in the rare case someone's interested lol) And I admit, it's really not an easy question to answer.

Thing is, I'm a very clingy person. I'm a cuddle bear, I could spend the day cuddling on the couch watching movies and it would be a perfect day for me. And in general, I'm just really clingy. (Which was a bad thing in most cases so far, to be fair) Along with that clinginess comes also the loyalty. If I'm in love with someone, they're pretty much all I think about and I could stick to them 24/7. Only issue that comes with that is the jealousy. As mentioned in my previous poll about toxic trait, I get jealous very easily. It simply comes from me having been cheated on before due to my asexuality and that sort of possessiveness that I tend to have, so I just need reassurance... a lot.

Now, it's a long beating around the bush and I apologize for that, but I kinda felt like giving more background on my personality so that my answer makes more sense. Bottom line, as also clearly reflected in the novels I write, is that for me, it's a "ride or die," or "you and me against the world," maybe a little Bonnie and Clyde type of love. All those just generally a little "cute possessive" type. (If you know what I mean... I just hope I dont come across as a maniac or some shit lol)

To be fair, I've never been in it one that before, but that's how I always imagine it idealy for me and I won't ever stop dreaming and wishing for it, even if I die alone.

Anyway, have fun answering! :3

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I put up ace flags (and a carpet!) in my Minecraft room since I’m not allowed to do it in my own room :)
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Saved you a spot!
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low sex drive go brrr
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Am I valid?

I am a female, I am also a minor and when i was around 6-now l had unrestricted internet access which lead me to find nsfw sights and what not and now growing up I find myself with actual hypersexual thoughts and feelings of some kinks that most others would find disgusting and immoral and normal kinks that I also like that are constantly in my head no matter where I am, but I also hate the thought of actual intimacy with anyone and whenever someone tries to do anything I get disgusted and will often ghost the person. I don't crave a relationships either, not because I'm aromantic or anything just because I hate the thought of intimacy with other people but when i do get emotional connections and love someone the second they bring up intimacy I want to leave. The question I ask tho is even tho I have 24/7 sexual thoughts and act on them when I'm by myself and feel like I crave sexual intimacy but when it comes to actual people I completely shut it off and get disgusted am I valid?

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I'm asexual 17 I'm looking for someone asexual who is ready to date I just need his love and time only for indians because I'm from India

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Just saying Hi, I am new to the community
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Some classes are so pointless 🙄
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"You just haven't met the right guy". Meanwhile, the right guy:

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Pov
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Regarding my butthole joke I made earlier.
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my partner is ace and i feel like it isnt working out between us, help

so my partner hates physical affection and i cant help but need it, i love them but i dont think this is working out and i dont want to hurt them please help me

edit: this is the best relationship i've ever been in and i just love them so much but i still dont think this is working

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Am I Asexual?

If you are questioning whether or not you are asexual (including all microlabels), reply to this post with what made you start questioning, and why.

If you are too shy to post a reply, then you can scroll through the responses for the advice you may be searching for.

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Is anyone else disgusted by the amount of low effort sexual posts on Reddit

This is the main reason I stopped going on r/all and after a while most of reddit in general. People talk about sex so explicitly and disgustingly on here its actually insane. Lately it just reminds me of 9gag, which I used to go on just to cringe at the userbase for being so weird and freaky.

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Trying to find fellow asexuals

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