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Feeling pleasure but gets bored and tired of it easily, does anyone also feel this way?

So I’m pretty sure I’m on the aroace spectrum. There times I get in the mood tho. I don’t really have much to think about sex since I think sex is just sex. However whenever I try to jerk off and have sex I’ll feel it and probably ten seconds in I get that bored and tired feeling that it’s is such a chore. It’s not like I don’t feel pleasure from it. I do feel it and would even get horny especially when hormones spike but even so I get that tired and uninterested feeling while I do it or after. I think it just makes my sex life difficult because I don’t really enjoy it as much but still get horny? My words are kinda scattering a bit cuz I’m not sure how to really put how I feel into words but I wonder if there’s anyone who also feels somewhat similar or know what this feeling is when it comes to sex

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People won't let this go, will they?
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This really annoys me.

I see reports of sex-related crimes - horrifying hetero acts having been committed. I see a society so focused on sex, the idea of "bedroom performance" (from stiffy drug ads), the purity culture folks crashing Grindr, wedding attire that looks like a strip club and a bottle of Clorox had a baby, and the utter bigotry of people who think their sexual behavior is the only valid choice.

But aces are the abnormal ones? Puh-leez.

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Warning: Uneducated prick in the following image…
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How people can actually enjoy genitals?

I used to think that it doesn’t happen irl honestly, only in fanfics and porn videos that were made just for people masturbating 😅 how u can actually enjoy touching and even licking reproductive organs of other person? For me it’s really dirty organs, u go to toilet with that and so on, that’s really gross. And I don’t even speak about ass (sorry haha) that’s really awful

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Does anyone go through different phases of alternating between high and low libido?

It’s been like this for me since middle school. Sometimes I can go a while without having sexual urges, or if I do have any, they’re relatively low and I’m able to resist them. Sometimes they’re unusually high and I can’t resist the urge to look at porn and/or jerk off, no matter what I do. It frustrates me to no end, because I have no intention of dating or having sex, and I’d be happy if I never felt these urges ever again. Anyone else relate?

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Do asexual people have crushes?

Like when you look at someone who matches your interests do you get a feeling of "i have to be with them" also a second question on top of that do you all ever feel the need to have physical touch like i don't mean simply "oh hugs are warm and nice" i mean like "if i don't get someone close to me to stick to me like glue I'm gonna collapse" sorry if these questions sound dumb I'm genuinely curious because i haven't met any asexual person before (or maybe i have but due to the certain phobias where I live I didn't know they were asexual) anyway genuinely curious about this and got other questions to.

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Please stop with the "how can people..." and "do people actually enjoy..." posts!

I wonder whether the admins here can clamp down on the endless stream of posts from people who post stuff like this? Does this sub really just exist to assure people that lots of people do, indeed, enjoy a variety of sexual acts? Are these people really so naive that they aren't aware of human sexual behaviour? Do we really need yet another thread in which we have a lot of people saying, "Yeah, that's pretty normal," and a lot of other people saying, "Ew, gross!"

I'm sex averse, myself, but I don't feel the need to go around making gagging noises because other people like sex.

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Can aro and aro-ace people have a dating relationship despite not feeling romantic attraction towards another person?



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