A friend said something odd to me today, linked to me being asexual
So today I was just eating lunch with a friend at school and she randomly asked, “If you weren’t ace, which Harry Potter character would you f***?” I did explain to her that being ace means experiencing little or no sexual attraction, not just whether you are involved in sexual activities but she said she already knew that and seemed to really want an answer. I eventually lied and answered with just the most logical, same-ish age, usually perceived as attractive character I could think of and that was that but it made me feel really uncomfortable (especially since neither of us are even old enough to be involved in that stuff) and a little invalidated, like she wanted to know an idealised, unreal version of me instead of the actual me. Am I overreacting???
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So today I was just eating lunch with a friend at school and she randomly asked, “If you weren’t ace, which Harry Potter character would you f***?” I did explain to her that being ace means experiencing little or no sexual attraction, not just whether you are involved in sexual activities but she said she already knew that and seemed to really want an answer. I eventually lied and answered with just the most logical, same-ish age, usually perceived as attractive character I could think of and that was that but it made me feel really uncomfortable (especially since neither of us are even old enough to be involved in that stuff) and a little invalidated, like she wanted to know an idealised, unreal version of me instead of the actual me. Am I overreacting???
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A friend said something odd to me today, linked to me being asexual
So today I was just eating lunch with a friend at school and she randomly asked, “If you weren’t ace, which Harry Potter character would you...
I fixed my fixed version of a certain comic ("Sex Positive" is not the same "sex favorable". Maybe it's a small and harmless mistake that doesn't make previous version bad, but I just had to)
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Caught up in my feels back there. Can a fanfic somehow turn me straight
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I'm so frustrated ;-;
My boyfriend is allosexual and he knows I'm asexual. I thought he was supportive but now he keeps pressuring me to do shit. And when I expressed that I was uncomfortable he said "I just want to help you get over your fear of sex." HELP ME??? Not only does he undermine my asexuality, but he must also think I'm stupid enough to believe he's doing me a favor by getting his dick wet.
I'm so fucking tired of this :(
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My boyfriend is allosexual and he knows I'm asexual. I thought he was supportive but now he keeps pressuring me to do shit. And when I expressed that I was uncomfortable he said "I just want to help you get over your fear of sex." HELP ME??? Not only does he undermine my asexuality, but he must also think I'm stupid enough to believe he's doing me a favor by getting his dick wet.
I'm so fucking tired of this :(
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I'm so frustrated ;-;
My boyfriend is allosexual and he knows I'm asexual. I thought he was supportive but now he keeps pressuring me to do shit. And when I expressed...
cashier knew what my ring meant!!
so i just went to petco (the only pet store within 3 hours, i’m sorry) to get substrate for my leopard gecko and the cashier recognized my ring. i wear a black ring on my middle finger to show i’m ace and when they saw it they asked if it meant what they thought. i said yes and they immediately said, “me too!” this is the first time someone has recognized it, and has also been ace. i’m freaking out right now even if it was a really small thing!!
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so i just went to petco (the only pet store within 3 hours, i’m sorry) to get substrate for my leopard gecko and the cashier recognized my ring. i wear a black ring on my middle finger to show i’m ace and when they saw it they asked if it meant what they thought. i said yes and they immediately said, “me too!” this is the first time someone has recognized it, and has also been ace. i’m freaking out right now even if it was a really small thing!!
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cashier knew what my ring meant!!
so i just went to petco (the only pet store within 3 hours, i’m sorry) to get substrate for my leopard gecko and the cashier recognized my ring. i...
Hey peeps, i assume you've all seen the news thing about how not having sex raises blood pressure and stuff. Well... Having cats lowers your blood pressure and anxiety and stuff. So if you're scared of dying, just get a cat! Problem solved!
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Hey peeps, i assume you've all seen the news thing about how not...
Posted in r/Asexual by u/Jamie_logan • 59 points and 5 comments
It's nice to see something like this in popular media once in a while :)
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