Why is everyone more concerned about us having sex than ourselves??
I always find it kind of creepy when people (usually 20 years older than me) tell me I don’t know better and I’ll change my point of view as I grow older (even though I have been thinking like this since I was a teenager and now I’m an adult).
I don’t understand why they contradict me instead of congratulating me for not being interested in having sex, most of them think newest generations are full of precocious children, why do they think is acceptable to say I need to have sex in order to say I don’t want to have it?.
If we stop to think about it, it is very creepy how interested they are on opposing us and thinking they know our sexual orientation better than us, not only that but making arguments by offering disgusting comments about having sex (comments I began receiving even before I was of legal age)
Simple disgusting
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I always find it kind of creepy when people (usually 20 years older than me) tell me I don’t know better and I’ll change my point of view as I grow older (even though I have been thinking like this since I was a teenager and now I’m an adult).
I don’t understand why they contradict me instead of congratulating me for not being interested in having sex, most of them think newest generations are full of precocious children, why do they think is acceptable to say I need to have sex in order to say I don’t want to have it?.
If we stop to think about it, it is very creepy how interested they are on opposing us and thinking they know our sexual orientation better than us, not only that but making arguments by offering disgusting comments about having sex (comments I began receiving even before I was of legal age)
Simple disgusting
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Why is everyone more concerned about us having sex than ourselves??
I always find it kind of creepy when people (usually 20 years older than me) tell me I don’t know better and I’ll change my point of view as I...
Shout out to the tumblr comic that helped me settle my sexuality! Original artist is http://krisrix.tumblr.com
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Sure sex is okay, but have you ever earned the trust of a cat?
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This is way too relatable... Send advice... This is the stuff that keeps me up at night..
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Does anyone want to be a virgin for the rest of their life?
I am curious of anybody else feels the way or is okay with the idea of being a virgin for the rest of your life.
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I am curious of anybody else feels the way or is okay with the idea of being a virgin for the rest of your life.
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Does anyone want to be a virgin for the rest of their life?
I am curious of anybody else feels the way or is okay with the idea of being a virgin for the rest of your life.
Sex is great and all - but have you ever tried caramel sticks.
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Fellow asexual men, time for a headcount
Gentlemen,
I believe there are quite many of us here in this subreddit, but, for whatever reasons, we mostly lurk. We're hardly visible - so much so that other asexual men are almost convinced we might not even exist. Which is not optimal. As it stands, I'm of the impression that the pool of redditors posting in this subreddit is heavily female-dominated. I'd like to engage more in this subreddit, but it's abit difficult when most of the posts are about ace women's hassles and joys. Don't get me wrong, it's only a good thing that these problems are brought up and not suffered in silence, and I'm glad that there are that many here, women or otherwise. I just imagine that it might not always be relatable for us ace men, which might not rouse the sense of community as strongly in us as it would in other ace women. I imagine the common issues we, ace men, face are slightly, yet enough to be significant, different from the issues women face.
But it's hard to tell whether this is the case or not. What thoughts do you fellas have on this subject? Are we more rare than ace women or enbies? Am I wrong in my assumption that most posters here are women? Let me know what you think. If there's other things you have on your chest, you just dump them here, too. Why not.
EDIT: Now that we're here and established that we do, in fact, exist, let's talk about ways of driving up aceman™ community engagement. I suggest we, quite simply, make more posts. It's a bit scary at first, but if we all help a brother out, I think it'll be less scary.
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Gentlemen,
I believe there are quite many of us here in this subreddit, but, for whatever reasons, we mostly lurk. We're hardly visible - so much so that other asexual men are almost convinced we might not even exist. Which is not optimal. As it stands, I'm of the impression that the pool of redditors posting in this subreddit is heavily female-dominated. I'd like to engage more in this subreddit, but it's abit difficult when most of the posts are about ace women's hassles and joys. Don't get me wrong, it's only a good thing that these problems are brought up and not suffered in silence, and I'm glad that there are that many here, women or otherwise. I just imagine that it might not always be relatable for us ace men, which might not rouse the sense of community as strongly in us as it would in other ace women. I imagine the common issues we, ace men, face are slightly, yet enough to be significant, different from the issues women face.
But it's hard to tell whether this is the case or not. What thoughts do you fellas have on this subject? Are we more rare than ace women or enbies? Am I wrong in my assumption that most posters here are women? Let me know what you think. If there's other things you have on your chest, you just dump them here, too. Why not.
EDIT: Now that we're here and established that we do, in fact, exist, let's talk about ways of driving up aceman™ community engagement. I suggest we, quite simply, make more posts. It's a bit scary at first, but if we all help a brother out, I think it'll be less scary.
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rant rant rant about how weirdly sexualising some allos are capable of being without noticing
This is all very straight, bear with me on this one. I was talking to a guy friend (we’re all under the age of 16 so pretty young) and he mentioned how of his friends did a survey of what out of tits, ass and thighs, guys in their class preferred. Call me soft but that made me extremely uncomfortable. I brought up how weird it would be if girls did that but I struggled to pick out prominent features women go crazy over. Jaw line? Abs? I mean women have abs and sharp jawlines too. I’ve never seen a girl go awooga over dick either (seriously at least). When we talk about fictional characters, especially anime ones they always bring up their tits or their ass like that’s all that’s interesting about them. Like that can’t be the first impression of every female character you see right? Not even just allo men, all allosexuals, why?1?1 I don’t mean in in a ‘but personality 😩 way’ I just think there’s more to ‘thirst’ over a girl for than tits. It’s getting old.
Personally, I’m omni and what I categorise as pretty in a guy would be like: pretty eyes, fluffy hair, the techwear aesthetic, confident aura; and even my allo cishet female friends would agree dick would be a weird thing to sum up someone’s sexual appeal (?) by.
TLDR: girls have a lot more than just ass and tits, can allos stop acting like it is?
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This is all very straight, bear with me on this one. I was talking to a guy friend (we’re all under the age of 16 so pretty young) and he mentioned how of his friends did a survey of what out of tits, ass and thighs, guys in their class preferred. Call me soft but that made me extremely uncomfortable. I brought up how weird it would be if girls did that but I struggled to pick out prominent features women go crazy over. Jaw line? Abs? I mean women have abs and sharp jawlines too. I’ve never seen a girl go awooga over dick either (seriously at least). When we talk about fictional characters, especially anime ones they always bring up their tits or their ass like that’s all that’s interesting about them. Like that can’t be the first impression of every female character you see right? Not even just allo men, all allosexuals, why?1?1 I don’t mean in in a ‘but personality 😩 way’ I just think there’s more to ‘thirst’ over a girl for than tits. It’s getting old.
Personally, I’m omni and what I categorise as pretty in a guy would be like: pretty eyes, fluffy hair, the techwear aesthetic, confident aura; and even my allo cishet female friends would agree dick would be a weird thing to sum up someone’s sexual appeal (?) by.
TLDR: girls have a lot more than just ass and tits, can allos stop acting like it is?
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rant rant rant about how weirdly sexualising some allos are...
This is all very straight, bear with me on this one. I was talking to a guy friend (we’re all under the age of 16 so pretty young) and he...
How did you know?
I think I might be somewhere on the ace spectrum, but I’m not sure. How did you guys know you were ace?
EDIT: All these replies are supper helpful! I’m definitely on the ace spectrum somewhere. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences!
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I think I might be somewhere on the ace spectrum, but I’m not sure. How did you guys know you were ace?
EDIT: All these replies are supper helpful! I’m definitely on the ace spectrum somewhere. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences!
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How did you know?
I think I might be somewhere on the ace spectrum, but I’m not sure. How did you guys know you were ace? EDIT: All these replies are supper...