Muslima Coaching
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Muslim deen, life, and marriage coaching service for couples, wives, singles, and divorced women.
Website: www.muslimacoaching.com
Contact: +447915765815
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"Searching For The One" Premarital Workshop

Sometimes people put off learning about marriage because they aren't currently talking to anyone or searching for a spouse.

Then when someone actually comes along, they make a rushed, uneducated decision of who to marry.

Don't neglect learning about something that comprises of half your deen!

Learn about what marriage is about, how to know you're ready, and how to choose a spouse in our upcoming workshop inshaAllah!

When: THIS Wednesday, March 30th
Time: 9 PM LONDON / 4 PM NEW YORK
Location: Online via Zoom
Who: Single Sisters & Brothers

Registration Closes in 24 Hours!
https://www.muslimacoaching.com/searching-for-the-one-workshop/
Watch A Sneak Peak From Our Premarital Workshop 👆🏽

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https://www.muslimacoaching.com/course/searching-for-the-one-premarital-workshop/

Feedback From Participants

“I loved this workshop! It was an ocean of beneficial information, advice and real-life anecdotes derived from Ustadha Naielah’s coaching experience. It started with an inspiring, Islamic-based perspective on the wholesomeness and benefits of marriage, then moved to some serious reflections about whether we are ready for marriage or not, and then had a number of practical sections about how to go about finding one’s future spouse – where to look, what to look for, must-ask questions, deal breakers, red flags, how to choose and how to deal with disappointment if things don’t work out. Ust. Naielah also added lots of relevant links for further advice about specific topics.”

“Jazakhallah for your lovely talk on the premarital workshop, I’ve learnt a lot, and know the kind of questions to ask!”

“Thank you for the great presentation.”

“So many useful topics covered. Filled with gems.”
Ramadan Marriage Advice👆🏽
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Ramadan Mubarak!

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Forgive Your Spouse This Ramadan 👆🏽
WordPress sent this message this morning. AlhamduliLlah! Thank you for all your support. InshaAllah look forward to restarting after Eid. Please keep us in your duas during these final moments in Ramadan. May you have a blessed Eid. ❤️
Which acts are sunna on the days of Eid?

The following is a list of recommended actions for Eid al-Fitr.

It is recommended to:

-Wake up early, preferably before Fajr or at the entering of Fajr.
-Pray the Fajr group prayer in the masjid.
-Eat something sweet after the Fajr prayer before going to the Eid prayer area.
-Eat dates if one can find them, and to eat them in amounts of odd numbers.
-Perform the purificatory bath (ghusl) before the Eid prayer, even for a person who is not attending the prayer.
-Clean one’s teeth with a siwak or similar object as much as possible.
-Wear scented perfume. (Women do not wear strong scented perfume outside of their homes.)
-Wear the best of one’s clothes, which consist of the most beautiful, cleanest or newest garments, even if they are not white.
-Make one’s happiness and joy apparent, thanking Allah for one’s blessings.
-Smile and display one’s happiness when meeting others.
-Give much in non-obligatory charity, more than one’s usual habit.
-Direct oneself to the Eid prayer area, while saying ‘Allahu Akbar’ quietly to oneself and to stop saying it when the Imam begins the Eid prayer.
-Go to the Eid prayer area by foot.
-Pay the sadaqat al-fitr (zakat al-fitr) if it is necessary for one to do so.
-Arrive early at the Eid prayer area so one can pray in the first line.
-Return from a different direction after performing the Eid prayer.

Read more about Eid at this link:

https://www.muslimacoaching.com/eid-prayer-recommended-acts/

Eid Mubarak from Muslima Coaching
Spouse Gets On Your Nerves?! 👆🏽
Can't Do It All? Remember This...

We live in a world where it seems like everyone is achieving whatever they want. This can be encouraging from one angle but debilitating from another.

When we see people accomplishing their goals but we cannot do the same, it can create self-esteem issues. The mind can't help but compare. We then blame ourselves for being too lazy, too stupid, too busy, or too incompetent.

Here's the hardcore truth: Whatever is written for you is what you will actually achieve.

We aren't the ones deciding our destiny. Allah is the One running our affairs. That doesn't mean that we shouldn't try to succeed. Rather it means we shouldn't beat ourselves up over not succeeding in every expectation we have.

When you find yourself upset or disappointed in what you haven't been able to achieve, do the following:

1. Remember that Allah Most High has gifted you with many great qualities. Think about how much you have accomplished this week, this month, this year, and these past five years.

2. Celebrate the small steps taken and focus less on only noticing the big wins. Every major goal achieved had minor actions that were taken to lead up to it.

3. Remind yourself that aiming for the Next Life is more important than aiming for anything in this world.

4. Be happy for others in what Allah has granted them, and don't be envious of their blessings. You have been gifted with blessings too.

5. See it as a reminder of what you need to do. Tap into your ambitious self and start moving towards an achievable goal.

When you affirm your conviction that Allah Most High has and will give you what is best, anything is possible.

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Stop Keeping Score of Your Spouse 👆🏽
Want a happy life?

Women often tell me that they want a happy life. Some are tired of the pain they feel. Some are disappointed with their choices. Some are frustrated with their circumstances. What does it take to turn it all around?!

I was recently reading the tafsir to the verse:

"To whoever, male or female, does good deeds and has faith, We shall give a good life and reward them according to the best of their actions." (16:97)

Imam al-Tabari (Allah have mercy on him) mentions that there are three possible meanings for a 'good life.'

1. Allah grants a person halal sustenance, meaning that a believer lives a good life on halal earnings, no matter how small the amount.

2. Allah grants a person contentment, meaning that whatever happens, Allah will create a happiness within the person.

3. Allah gives the person Paradise, the ultimate bliss and true place of happiness.

So let's do the math. That means that there are three possible results from doing good works: good money, a good mindset, or a good ending.

These are the gifts Allah gives us when we do things for His sake. He fills our bodies, minds, and souls with happiness. He leads us to complete and total success - all the way to end.

It is not the fancy job title, the Romeo spouse, the superstar kids, or the luxury vacations that will put a smile on our faces. It is the good that we do in this world for Allah.

That takes sacrifice, maturity, dedication, and purpose. Fortunately, Allah makes the good so easy to do. Even a smile in your fellow Muslim's face is charity!

Don't complicate the equation thinking that you don't have what it takes to make your life good. Allah will transform your affair and facilitate the path if you act for His sake.

How do you do that? It doesn't require much. Just a good intention in your heart and a bismiLlah to start, and off you go...

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