Инсонда бирор ишни қилиш учун пайдо бўладиган иштиёқнинг катталиги, ўша ишни инсон қанчалик хоҳлаб қилаётганига боғлиқ. Ўз стартупимни яратиш ғояси ва уни устида ишлаш, моддий фойда кўрмасам ҳам, ишлаётган компаниям манга яхши ойлик тўлашига қарамасдан икки ишни бажаришимда ҳар доим ўз лойиҳамга кучли хоҳиш билан ёндашаман. Камдан-кам ҳолатлардагина одам бошқалар буюрган ишни қилишга иштиёқманд бўлади. Ичидан келган иштиёқ доим бошқа нарсалардан устун туради.
Шунинг учун инсон бор нарсаларни ҳам қайтадан ўз истаган кўринишда қилишга уринади. Ва бу – ниманидир қилишни хоҳлаш – ўша ишни қилиш учун мутлақо асосли сабаб бўла олади.
Ман X нарсани қурмоқчиман, сабаби ўзим хоҳлавомман.
Ман Y нарсани қилмоқчиман, чунки ўзим хоҳладим.
Ман Z нарсани ёзмоқчиман, сабаби шуни ёзишни хоҳладим.
Аарон Франcис: Атрофдагилар, сани бирор нарсани қилаётганингни кўрганларида доим буни ўрнига тайёр нарсалардан фойдалансанг бўлмайдими деб маломат қилади. Ёки ўз қўлинг билан вақтини бекор сарфлагандан кўра, тайёр ечимлардан фойдаланишни айтишади. Ҳа, эҳтимол тўғридир. Лекин, инсон ўзи қилишни ҳам хоҳлайди. Ҳамма нарсада вақтимизни тежаб қолиб, самарадорликка интилишимиз шарт эмас. Баъзида нимадир қилишни хоҳлаганимиз учун қиламиз. Баъзан тайёр ечимларни кўр-кўрона фойдаланиш ўрнига, ортида улар қандай ишлаётганини билиш учун қайтадан яратамиз. Инсон қизиқувчанлигига интилгани яхши.
Инсон бирор нарсани қилмоқчи, яратмоқчи, ясамоқчи бўлса, борсин, қилсин, яратсин, ясасин. Бажариш хоҳлашни ўзи етарли сабабдир.
Шунинг учун инсон бор нарсаларни ҳам қайтадан ўз истаган кўринишда қилишга уринади. Ва бу – ниманидир қилишни хоҳлаш – ўша ишни қилиш учун мутлақо асосли сабаб бўла олади.
Ман X нарсани қурмоқчиман, сабаби ўзим хоҳлавомман.
Ман Y нарсани қилмоқчиман, чунки ўзим хоҳладим.
Ман Z нарсани ёзмоқчиман, сабаби шуни ёзишни хоҳладим.
Аарон Франcис: Атрофдагилар, сани бирор нарсани қилаётганингни кўрганларида доим буни ўрнига тайёр нарсалардан фойдалансанг бўлмайдими деб маломат қилади. Ёки ўз қўлинг билан вақтини бекор сарфлагандан кўра, тайёр ечимлардан фойдаланишни айтишади. Ҳа, эҳтимол тўғридир. Лекин, инсон ўзи қилишни ҳам хоҳлайди. Ҳамма нарсада вақтимизни тежаб қолиб, самарадорликка интилишимиз шарт эмас. Баъзида нимадир қилишни хоҳлаганимиз учун қиламиз. Баъзан тайёр ечимларни кўр-кўрона фойдаланиш ўрнига, ортида улар қандай ишлаётганини билиш учун қайтадан яратамиз. Инсон қизиқувчанлигига интилгани яхши.
Инсон бирор нарсани қилмоқчи, яратмоқчи, ясамоқчи бўлса, борсин, қилсин, яратсин, ясасин. Бажариш хоҳлашни ўзи етарли сабабдир.
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Инсон ҳаётида оғир дамлар бўлади. Баъзида шу пайтлар шунақа қийинлашиб кетади-ки, гўё, инсон туннелнинг бошида турибди, охири, туннелни тугашидаги ёруғлик эса деярли кўринмайди. Худди, деворлари қулаб тушаётгандек, ёруғликка чиқадиган йўл ёпилаётгандек туюлади.
Юз бераётган воқеалардан довдираб қолади. Нега Аллоҳ манга шу нарсаларни раво кўрвотди. Эрталаб уйғонганимизда яна бошимизга тушиб турган ташвишларни ўйлаб, кунни булар билан қандай ўтқазишни тасаввур қиламиз.
Атрофда, шундай одамларни кўриш мумкин: ҳар қанақа қийинчиликка қарамасдан маҳзун бўлмайди. Ҳаттоки, англаган қийинчиликларимдан баттарини бошидан кечириб туриб ҳам, тилларида “алҳамдуллиллаҳ” сўзини чиқади.
Манам худди шу нарсани излаб юраман. Манам ўзимда шу хислатни шакллантиришни хоҳлайман. Ҳайрон бўламан. Уларда нима борки, манда йўқ.
Қизиқ бир ҳикоя бор. Икки киши, қорнини тўйғазиш учун нонни сувга ботириб еб ўтиради. Шунда бири бир гапни гапиради: агар подшоҳлар, Ислом орқали ҳис қилаётган бахтимизни ва лаззатимизни тушунганларида, қиличлари билан бўлса ҳам биздан уни олишга интилардилар.
Юз бераётган воқеалардан довдираб қолади. Нега Аллоҳ манга шу нарсаларни раво кўрвотди. Эрталаб уйғонганимизда яна бошимизга тушиб турган ташвишларни ўйлаб, кунни булар билан қандай ўтқазишни тасаввур қиламиз.
Атрофда, шундай одамларни кўриш мумкин: ҳар қанақа қийинчиликка қарамасдан маҳзун бўлмайди. Ҳаттоки, англаган қийинчиликларимдан баттарини бошидан кечириб туриб ҳам, тилларида “алҳамдуллиллаҳ” сўзини чиқади.
Манам худди шу нарсани излаб юраман. Манам ўзимда шу хислатни шакллантиришни хоҳлайман. Ҳайрон бўламан. Уларда нима борки, манда йўқ.
Қизиқ бир ҳикоя бор. Икки киши, қорнини тўйғазиш учун нонни сувга ботириб еб ўтиради. Шунда бири бир гапни гапиради: агар подшоҳлар, Ислом орқали ҳис қилаётган бахтимизни ва лаззатимизни тушунганларида, қиличлари билан бўлса ҳам биздан уни олишга интилардилар.
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Аъзам
Уларда нима борки, манда йўқ.
Ибни Таймийя раҳимаҳуллоҳ: бу дунёда жаннат бор, диганларида; атрофдаги одамлар: қандай қилиб бу дунёда жаннат бўлиши мумкин, деб, ҳайрон сўрашган. Шунда, бу дунёнинг жаннати, инсонда иймон бўлиши – Аллоҳ таолони таниш, диб жавоб берганла.
Орамиздаги фарқ аниқ. Бирор қийинчилик, оғир пайтлар бошланиши билан қалбимга ғашлик келади. Сиқиламан, ғамга ботаман. Энди нима қилишни ўйлайман. Баъзида ўйлашни ҳам қиломиман.
Мани уладан, улани мандан ажратиб турган нарса қалб ҳолати. Яъни қалбдаги сакийнат, унга берилган сокинлик ҳисси, ҳотиржамликда. Инсонга қанақадир ғам етса-ю қалби ҳотиржам бўса, буни ғам дейишга арзимиди. Кавний сабаблардан мисол келтирилса, инсонга моддий қийинчилик туғдирмаган кўп қийинчилик, кўнгилсиз ҳолатлар, ғам бўлмайди. Қалбига ғашлик тушмайди. Хотиржамлиги йўқолмайди.
Орамиздаги фарқ аниқ. Бирор қийинчилик, оғир пайтлар бошланиши билан қалбимга ғашлик келади. Сиқиламан, ғамга ботаман. Энди нима қилишни ўйлайман. Баъзида ўйлашни ҳам қиломиман.
Мани уладан, улани мандан ажратиб турган нарса қалб ҳолати. Яъни қалбдаги сакийнат, унга берилган сокинлик ҳисси, ҳотиржамликда. Инсонга қанақадир ғам етса-ю қалби ҳотиржам бўса, буни ғам дейишга арзимиди. Кавний сабаблардан мисол келтирилса, инсонга моддий қийинчилик туғдирмаган кўп қийинчилик, кўнгилсиз ҳолатлар, ғам бўлмайди. Қалбига ғашлик тушмайди. Хотиржамлиги йўқолмайди.
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#tt: Allah will continue to test you again and again not to punish you, but to purify youuntil the desire to commit that sin leaves your heart.
«We will certainly test you 'believers' until We prove those of you who 'truly' struggle 'in Allah's cause' and remain steadfast, and reveal how you conduct yourselves».
«We will certainly test you 'believers' until We prove those of you who 'truly' struggle 'in Allah's cause' and remain steadfast, and reveal how you conduct yourselves».
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Episode 5
Blue Whale Podcast
Узоқ ўйлашлардан кейин яна фикрларимни аудиога ўгиришни хоҳладим. Фақат бу сафар меҳмон билан. Ўзимга бераётган саволларимни Камронга ҳам бериб, фикрларни эшитдим.
00:00 - Интро
01:00 - Меҳмон
01:30 - Комфорт зона яхшими ёки ёмон?
14:55 - End goal'ни аниқлаш керакми?
28:40 - Манзилга етишиш муҳим эмас, ҳаракат муҳим
36:10 - Ҳаётим яхшидек, лекин ичимдиги овоз “нимадир нито” диб шивирлиди
40:10 - Умуман ҳаракатлардан маъно нима?
49:15 - Фикрни қандай қилиб ғояга айлантирамиз
58:00 - Партнер танлаш қарорида нима муҳим?
01:04:40 - Барибир ўзиз яхши кўрган ишни қилин
00:00 - Интро
01:00 - Меҳмон
01:30 - Комфорт зона яхшими ёки ёмон?
14:55 - End goal'ни аниқлаш керакми?
28:40 - Манзилга етишиш муҳим эмас, ҳаракат муҳим
36:10 - Ҳаётим яхшидек, лекин ичимдиги овоз “нимадир нито” диб шивирлиди
40:10 - Умуман ҳаракатлардан маъно нима?
49:15 - Фикрни қандай қилиб ғояга айлантирамиз
58:00 - Партнер танлаш қарорида нима муҳим?
01:04:40 - Барибир ўзиз яхши кўрган ишни қилин
Every month, in my 1n1 with my team lead, I hear about the same mistakes. He always reminds me of a few simple rules to follow.
Don’t hurry. Think deeply. Take responsibility. Focus more. Review your past actions before taking the next step. Don’t be afraid to discuss.
The rules are simple and inevitable. Work and life follow the same ones.
He sees my mistakes at work. And honestly, I see that I make the same mistakes in life too.
The thing is, I already know these rules. I know I should follow them. But still, I fail.
The truth is, everyone knows the rules. There’s nothing special. It’s all about actually doing the obvious things.
Don’t hurry. Think deeply. Take responsibility. Focus more. Review your past actions before taking the next step. Don’t be afraid to discuss.
The rules are simple and inevitable. Work and life follow the same ones.
He sees my mistakes at work. And honestly, I see that I make the same mistakes in life too.
The thing is, I already know these rules. I know I should follow them. But still, I fail.
The truth is, everyone knows the rules. There’s nothing special. It’s all about actually doing the obvious things.
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Forwarded from azam – logs.
It has already been almost 6 months.
I’ve joined a new job. And this feels completely different from my ex-one. In these 6 months, I’ve learned more than I did in two years at Beeline.
I was looking for a team where everyone is technical and the work is product related. I wanted to learn how to manage a team and build a successful product. That reason pushed me to change my workplace.
As an employee — I had no experience working in a team, where the product depends on teamwork, not just one developer. I’ve learned how to work with team members properly and clearly. How to fix, to estimate, to evaluate, to ship.
As a future team lead — I learned how to manage people too. What they want, what I should consider as a leader. I’ve seen what kind of culture should be built and how to talk with employees.
As a startuper — I didn’t know how to ship a real product. I thought just coding is enough, but it’s not. There are many things to care about as an entrepreneur, as a company. I’m ticking everything I see here to use later for my own product.
I noticed one thing in me. My character, my skills, even my brain changed completely — from developer mode to builder mode. I think I can’t stay as a developer anymore. I need to change my field. Product management is one of the options right now. I even asked my CEO to change my role, but he refused and told me to stay as an engineer.
During these 6 months, I also got a job opportunity from Yandex. They reached out, and I had 3 interviews. I passed the first technical one, but failed the second. I was thinking, if I joined Yandex, I’d stay as an engineer. But it didn’t happen.
After all, I’m still doing my programming job and learning tech stuff. But deep down, I still want to become a PdM and build my own product. I’m on that way — just no updates to share yet.
I’ve joined a new job. And this feels completely different from my ex-one. In these 6 months, I’ve learned more than I did in two years at Beeline.
I was looking for a team where everyone is technical and the work is product related. I wanted to learn how to manage a team and build a successful product. That reason pushed me to change my workplace.
As an employee — I had no experience working in a team, where the product depends on teamwork, not just one developer. I’ve learned how to work with team members properly and clearly. How to fix, to estimate, to evaluate, to ship.
As a future team lead — I learned how to manage people too. What they want, what I should consider as a leader. I’ve seen what kind of culture should be built and how to talk with employees.
As a startuper — I didn’t know how to ship a real product. I thought just coding is enough, but it’s not. There are many things to care about as an entrepreneur, as a company. I’m ticking everything I see here to use later for my own product.
I noticed one thing in me. My character, my skills, even my brain changed completely — from developer mode to builder mode. I think I can’t stay as a developer anymore. I need to change my field. Product management is one of the options right now. I even asked my CEO to change my role, but he refused and told me to stay as an engineer.
During these 6 months, I also got a job opportunity from Yandex. They reached out, and I had 3 interviews. I passed the first technical one, but failed the second. I was thinking, if I joined Yandex, I’d stay as an engineer. But it didn’t happen.
After all, I’m still doing my programming job and learning tech stuff. But deep down, I still want to become a PdM and build my own product. I’m on that way — just no updates to share yet.
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i lost my credibility.
i don’t know when it started, but i became much more careless, unserious. i’m not taking things around me seriously. i’m living like a dragonfly from stories.
i’m not taking anything seriously — not my career, my body, my goals, my responsibilities, my life at all. i’m not trying to do anything hard or well. i’m not being responsible. i formed this attitude suddenly. maybe from friends, or maybe i just got it wrong.
i think i’ve become more selfish. every time i talk with my father, he always says it. from my point of view, it doesn’t seem like that, but once i sat and analyzed, it became a fact. i’ve developed an ego inside me — the kind that doesn’t care about others’ opinions, advice, or reprimands. i’m just like: “ok, but i know very well what to do.”
i see it mostly in my work. after a while, i realize that i did something wrong, but it’s too late. or even when my team lead finds mistakes in my work and tells me, i get angry. i don’t like it. i don’t want to learn anything. recently, we participated in a hackathon as well. and you know what? the most annoying member was me. i demotivated everyone. how they managed to deal with me, i don’t know. but why?
i need to change it. because i guess it’ll be a disaster for me. maybe i’ll get fired from my current job, maybe i’ll lose everything. and even now, i’m losing my mind, my views, my principles, my perspectives. i’m losing my professional field. i don’t see anything good ahead. i became soft. i’m lost.
video by then.whynot
i don’t know when it started, but i became much more careless, unserious. i’m not taking things around me seriously. i’m living like a dragonfly from stories.
i’m not taking anything seriously — not my career, my body, my goals, my responsibilities, my life at all. i’m not trying to do anything hard or well. i’m not being responsible. i formed this attitude suddenly. maybe from friends, or maybe i just got it wrong.
i think i’ve become more selfish. every time i talk with my father, he always says it. from my point of view, it doesn’t seem like that, but once i sat and analyzed, it became a fact. i’ve developed an ego inside me — the kind that doesn’t care about others’ opinions, advice, or reprimands. i’m just like: “ok, but i know very well what to do.”
i see it mostly in my work. after a while, i realize that i did something wrong, but it’s too late. or even when my team lead finds mistakes in my work and tells me, i get angry. i don’t like it. i don’t want to learn anything. recently, we participated in a hackathon as well. and you know what? the most annoying member was me. i demotivated everyone. how they managed to deal with me, i don’t know. but why?
i need to change it. because i guess it’ll be a disaster for me. maybe i’ll get fired from my current job, maybe i’ll lose everything. and even now, i’m losing my mind, my views, my principles, my perspectives. i’m losing my professional field. i don’t see anything good ahead. i became soft. i’m lost.
video by then.whynot
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