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Hey guys .so I am 24 female whose never even talked to a guy am not saying I don’t like guys I really love them but I don’t know how to flirt or do anything these days am having a peer pressure cuz of my best friends cuz most of them are dating and they even had sex and no longer v one of my friend told me that the longer I stay virgin the guys won’t even bother to have anything with me as she says they don’t wanna get into al the trouble so for the guys do you not like virgins or what? So anyways my point is I really wanna be with someone please????I really wanna know what it feels like to be loved

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Oky guys there was a girl i loved for over 3 years and she showed me something so i stuck with her but we are apart now because she go for another guy over me.. i thought we will end up together but didn't work out.. i had chances to hook up with other girls but i didn't because of the love i had for her.. so it has been over 3 years since i even had sex.. right now i don't know how to flirt and i get bored easily with other girls.. so i need ur help should i wait for her to break up or move on? and how can i move on? any advice please..

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We'll It seems All med students are regretting from point i c on the very of med-student vents I'm watching out in this group. Actually the opposite is happening to me. Its been a year I felt so stupid for not joining med school though I had a chance to get it.
Ik I'm still not in to it... Just the mentality i had "what if" is getting me mad for real.
Things that I'm hearing from ppl (not joined med) is killing me from regret. Afterall i c med school isn't worth as it is supposed to be. On the other hand the way I'm in seems worthless... I couldn't stop overthinking and having a stable feeling and passion.
I sometimes think of applying for transfer... It wont take a round of minute pointer stick i change my mind.... My decision... Is this normal gn yemr betam gra iyegebagn nw yerasie hunieta...

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hello, this is my first time venting. I don't know if I am doing it right I am just getting straight to it...I am an introvert, passive girl I just took university entrance exam and i am waiting for result but i am constantly worrying and anxious for no reason, I over think everything. I think I have general anxiety. it started last year, i always wanted to study medicine my grades r good but people tell me medicine is a hard course and very stressing I don't mind the hard work but I don't think I can bear any stressing situation so I am confused..even if I join other fields am not sure if I can make it. I can't see any bright future. anxiety makes ur life harder more than y'all can imagine. my anxiety is getting worse these days, staying at home and doing nothing, I don't have friends to talk to...I was thinking of going to my auntie or cousin's house and stay fr a while for a change but I hate leaving my house. do u guys think going out could help to clear my thoughts? what should I do to cure my anxiety

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Ok so here is the thing I want you all to tell me if this counts as cheating say you are with your partner who you love so much but you start to lose the spark with him then you meet a new person and you start to get comfortable with them or like you have that spark with them,but you don’t know yet and aren’t ready to end things with your current partner. So you decide to hang out with the new person just as a friends, you tell them you’re in a relationship and that’s not going to end anytime soon. So the new person agrees. Before long you’re hanging out regularly. No sex No romantic interaction. And you insist you wont take things further with them until you decide to end your relationship with your current partner who doesnt know about the friendship.

So is it cheating or not??

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Hi everyone, so this is about me & my bf. So we have beem together for almost 5 years. Everything is great and all. I love him & he loves me. So the thing is i have religion issues & it started a while ago. I wanna marry him & start a family. We have so many plans for the future. He doesn't mind about it but i do & it is eating me inside. I have talked to him & he was upset about it, he told me that we can work it out by following our religion with out changing. Should we end it & go our separate ways or continue?? I'm so confused. I want us to become one & live a happy life

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I honestly don’t know where to start so am 19 and a guy. Am the type of person who is easy going I hate drama and arguments and yet I find myself constantly in these situations. So back to my story I was dating this amazing girl for a month I have never felt this way for anyone in a long long time I care abt her beyond anything and I fell madly in love with her.she has been through a lot and is rlly strong despite the fact that she has hurt n mistreated and I admired her for her strength but she never saw herself the way I saw her I believed in her n I supported her to reach her full potential I gave her my love my time my energy everything I made sure she never felt like she was alone She was all I have got my best friend my therapist my girl bicha she was everything to me so after our one month anniversary she said that she can’t do it anymore her reason was she didn’t love me the way I loved her n she couldn’t ever get to that level of love so eventually I couldn’t force her to stay so I had to let her go but it fucked me up I wanted her to be in my future I had so many plans I got use to her being in my life that I couldn’t coup with us not talking and I was so angry n hurt the fact that I wasn’t enough for her I couldn’t get her out of my mind our memories haunt me so I reached out I asked her if we could be friends n we started talking again n this one night she called me cuz she was scared so while we were she fell asleep n at some point she told me that she missed me n that she is glad am there n I felt a certain level of warmth n each time I compliment her n stuff she always sends me the blush emoji but today out of the blue she told me she wants us to stop talking n I should forget about her so back to the feeling of emptiness n shit so what do u guys think should I forget abt her or should I fight for her she told me she loves me but not as I do so how can I forget abt her it kills me thinking not having her in my life bicha I hate the fact that I made all those promises that I can’t keep I need advice.

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So here is the thing am 22 and am a college student,me and my best friend got into the same uni and everything was going well until she started being more friends with the other girl that we met in uni we have been friends for 5 year and know she started using drugs weed which I dont like it I always tell her to stop hanging out them this comes to back to bite my own as she started to avoid me and we become strangers she was the only best friend I have and its just getting in my head and feeling lonely idk how to move on I saw a vent which at some point is similar to me if you read this help me how to move on

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It's been almost 3 years since I met you
I didn't know what you looked like for the halve of it. You are different from any other girl out there truly special.
I love you beyond words from the start. we all this years and we never had a major fight and u helped me forget everything in the world like a strong drug and you loved me unimaginably too but it always feels like I love you more than you do. Maybe ur not good at expressing your self. We have been in long distance relationships from the beginning maybe that's it but I saw u from time to time. But now ur gonna go away so far I may not see you agian for years.
It absolutely breaks my heart, the only human that makes me feel like worth something is gonna go abroad and probably never comeback.i tear up when I think about it as if life haven't already gotten me enough lemonades. Does it make me less of a man to be sensitive. U don't like weak men, so I hide everything behid a smile terrible jokes But I crave for your touch, your hug, you smile, the way u say some words the way you hold me when we walk. I want to live the rest of my life with you but I guess I won't be able to. It feels like a fucking century when I don't see u for a month. What am I going to do now? U gave me a meaning to live? To see u smile and in my arms.
Please dont leave me.

I can't tell her to stay to satisfy my selfish needs. Its for her better future

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Hey everyone so I came here just to remind everyone to be grateful for what they have specially the people around them...I recently lost my mom and it's been hell since then ...it hurts to live without her...it hurts to smile without her.. it hurts to exist without her because I feel guilty and I can't do anything about it. I wish if she could have seen me graduate...get married...have a baby ...I WISH. She was my best friend, my sister ....she was my everything and she still is.
Love you mom

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Hi, pls hide my identity.
There’s this woman who’s 7 years older than me, I’m 24 tho.
When we met, she told me she had a man who lived outside the country. We later feel in love. I gave her good sex and made her cum so I think it’s one of the reasons why she’s so attached to me.
Long story short, we broke up like months ago and we ignored each other completely until last month that she started texting me again and wants me back. Told her I’m working hard to get money to sort myself so I’m not thinking about love now.
This lady wants to help me further my education so I intentionally told her I’m done with school. I don’t wanna go to school again. Now, she wants to give me some cash to start a business and I said no.
Finally, she said then she’s loaning it to me.
The truth is, I feel that money is gonna come from her guy that lives abroad; that’s why I’m unable to take the money.
And secondly, I don’t love her anymore.
What should I do please?
I really need help

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Ola friends, a girl here, now before I get to the point I wanna say pls don't be rude or say I'm dumb n stuff, I only want mature advise❗️

So the thing is ik for a fact that most girls out there do not have the courage to trust ur guy after he cheated on u, now I know you're gonna think that's the obvious and smart choice...... once a cheater always a cheater .......if he cheated he never loved u the way he said he did .......even if he regreted it if u forgive him he'll do it again ......he'll take u for granted ...bla bla bla. I know all that. The reason he cheated might be anything literally anything lihon yechelal gn that's not the point and the bottom line is he cheated beka nothing more nothing less. But people make mistakes, intentionally or not. And it takes to be the bigger man to not find excuses for your mistake and actually admit that, and also feel sorry, not just say it, sincerely feel it and it shows when It's real. What I wanna know is how to help him to take control over himself as in not to go back there. To be clear it's not a competition with other girls gn to help him respect the relationship when he's in one, or if he doesn't wanna be then at least have the decency to end it before he starts another one. It clearly says on the bible " Mist le balua zewd nat". SHE IS HIS JEM and if ur jem falls into the mud u don't just leave it there and walk away u take it out and wash off the dirt and shine with it again. I don't see why this doesn't go on for girls too (to their man). I'm intending too help him wash off the dirt he's been in so my question is HOW. I need help on how to do it.

P.S. Guys who've been in this position but never understood, I would really appreciate it if u tell me how u would've wanted ur girl to handle the situation better.

Thanks in advance.

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent I honestly don’t know where to start so am 19 and a guy. Am the type of person who is easy going I hate drama and arguments and yet I find myself constantly in these situations. So back to my story I was dating…
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I hate u, I hate the fact that I loved u I hate the fact that I opened up n gave u everything I hate the fact that I trusted u I hate that I trusted u I hate that I loved u with everything I have got I hate the fact that wiste this feeling of darkness n hate memtatu I am so angry at u I can’t forgive u used me to forget abt the pain u were in the pain ur ex caused n u let me believe u we’re gonna last forever but fuck the moment u felt like it enough u said fuck it am fine with him u didn’t care well congrats u got what u want I fucking hate u I wish I never met u u managed to make me hate myself gn yiblagn lanchi I found someone who cares abt me n who is genuine unlike u I just pray u don’t do shit like u did to me ur never gonna be happy if there is a God up there he will judge i even introduced u to emaye n esu rasu emdeminim alkotershiwim that’s another level of cold bicha ur mot a good person sirash bemula yikeflishal beka idk I have so much anger n hate toward u trusting u n loving u was the biggest tifat I ever did I hate myself for being yihen yahil angry I just need advice how to forget her funny thing after all we said no been through she out there with another guy am here simping over her I hate it

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Okay i am really gonna let all my insecurities and please bare with me????????

Okay I rade some vents here round... bdsm... Domination things. And i have that kinda problem. I mean i am only 22 plus a girl plus I high very high sex drive. And to add it up I have a big desire for bdsm... And i always hate like hate it so much and I really met lot of people...and having more experience.. I really end up falling in to it deeply and badly.. And i came to the point when I don't wanna hide it anymore.. And well i started accepting it. Along the way I found out that I am a true sub and I want a full domination and many things Now the problem is that people pretend to be into kink and they think that it just fun. And as fun it is all i want it to settle living this life. Like have a master that controls me 24/7 but most men don't get this... has any of you guys has been through this? Like I really don't know what to say and... To leave the matter as it doesn't exist is like acting I don't need oxygen...
Becha um lost really. And whenever I started to talk about this stuff with ppl like I get really unconscious and insecure about it????????????‍♀

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So guys i have this question, i know this girl ena she doesn't like me or whatever she didn't tell me how she felt exactly, and then i couldn't bare so i ghosted her for about a week which was so uncomfortable because we share many classes. So one day i put myself together and aproched her to ask how she really feels or work things out maybe and she told me that she felt indifferent about me and doesn't want anything to do with me but i still see her in my dreams and its so painful. What should I do?

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Guys pls this is serious here is the story .... there is my female friend she is 19 and she is depressed as Fuck. She didn’t even sleep. she sleeps like 3 hours by 48 hours and its getting worse. She don’t wanna sleep because she saw someone (she doesn’t even know him ) taking about some place ... and she saw her dead father. she feels like he is sleeping with her ... and she can’t take sleeping pills because she had a heart problem. Beside this she had suicidal thoughts ... i don’t know guys I’m so stressed about her

If any doctors, psychiatrists who have any idea about this pls contact me Pls!!guys I don’t wanna lose her plss!!

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Hey there👋 I am 21 and and here me out. When I was in highschool senior I fell in love with my classmate. I had been a gynophobic and sociophobic guy menamn before that timeal and I still have problems of being sociable and lacked to express my feelings. But things got be changed and some unexpected incident made the change. I loved her but I didn't tell her till we took the matric exam. After we had taken the exam I just told her as I was thinking about her for almost 2 years. But, she told me that I was so late. I mean she got a bf. But we keep talking and we become friends over classmate. Just normal friends. I ask her about her bf and she answers menamn....now we are both campus students. One day when I asked her about her bf, she answered me that they had broken up. I really felt sorry. Because I know how much she loved him. I just told her to calm down and try to talk their problems with her bf. But she said me that "it is over!". Now, we are just talking as before. I mean not in relationship stuffs but like a friend stuff( we have never talked in rs stuff). The thing which I want to ask you guys here (esp girls) here is...Should I ask her to be her bf or keep being normal friends. I don't want her to feel bad again.
Idk what I am feeling about her this time..I mean do I want her in rs or like a friend I amn't sure..I am so confused...someone with the same situation please tell me how you delt with it. And ladies just tell me what kinda thing she might be expecting from me this time.
Thanks all.

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We dated for more than 2 years we had ups and downs mainly communication problems(from him) he made me feel like he wanted to change that he thinks it’s unhealthy how he can’t communicate at all so i wanted to help since he wanted to change we had that understanding atleast I thought we did he used to tell me i was the only positive thing that he got in this life! He said that always now sth inconvenient happened we both had things to deal with and that made a distance he told me he needed space to handle things and that was 2 months ago I promised my self I wouldn’t reach out if the effort doesn’t come from him and he haven’t done that yet hope is a bitch i am still waiting for him but my mind lowkey knows he isn’t going to reach out so do i wait for him or move on how do you tell your heart to let go of something you are so attached too

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent I don’t know how many times I vented but I have done it couple of times So this time I want to talk about relationships and I want an advice from y’all... so what happened is me and my girl are not getting along…
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I used to have a girlfriend we stayed for 2 years now she was more or less my wife literally I loved her Betam more than anyone in this world and then I found out she don’t even love me and she said she wanted time to think if I am important in her life I was so mad and i yell at her and said some bad things that I should have said. I mean the thing she did yemianad neger I believe she deserves it but at the same time I feel like I shouldn’t have said that.
My question is if you where me what have you done?
And that will you be doing after this ?

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I should have moved on by now but its like when i feel like i did somethings just remind me of him & i will back at it again..it can be a guy who is skinny like him or someone who wore a sweater or just someone with a nice smile????‍♀ we were not even in a relationship eko its just a crush gn i was done picturing our future and our kids mnamn????bcha he made it clear to me he wants to stay as friends and i didnt want that and my friends told me i deserved better ena ykrbsh blew..... but now even when i dont see him everyday the feelings are still there i guess,he had everything i wanted in a guy..i even found his shyness cute. So how can i move on? And those crush norwachu move on yaregachihut pls help me out????

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Hi,guys...
I think i have ADHD and its been eating my life away cuz i can't seem to do anything in life even tho am smart and creative cuz the lack of discipline has been my BIGGEST issue in life...and do any of u know where a good psychiatrist is in addis? Or i have heard about the medicine Adderall and do any of u know if i can buy that without subscriptions...i can't seems to keep a job or even an activity consistently no Matter how much am interested in that activity and its like a decade has passed without me accomplishing a single shit.

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