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Hey im 19yo Algerian female And me and my sisters just found evidence that my dad is cheating on my mum
We suspected at first cuz whenever we go to our other appartement which is in another city he closes his door and at 11:30 pm smth we can hear him talk to a woman and it isn’t my mum and they laugh and he makes jokes but like we were im denial plus we thought maybe its one of our aunties we werent sure ( we were we just didn’t want to admit it) and after that day i tried to put my phone in his car and record but nada nothing and when we went back to our hometown my twin sister saw him driving his car inside in the passenger seat there was a woman with blue hijab and it was definitely not my mum plus my aunts live in France so no chance Again me my older sister and my dad went to the other city last Thursday and my mum my older brother and younger brother and my twin stayed home
So me and my older sister decided to go shopping and dad drove us and i just had this idea to leave my phone in his car and tap record and i did and when we finished shopping and went home i forgot my phone in his car and he went to pray in the mosque so i called him from my sisters phone and told him that i forgot my phone in the car he brought it to me and at 11:30 pm my older sis heard him talk and we went beside his door and started listening but we couldn’t hear well and then i remembered the recording so yay we listened to it and now we know for sure he is cheating there is no denying it he was talking to her we heard her voice on the phone she’s also married with kids and for the firsttime in my life i was disgusted with my dad
He doesn’t talk that kindly to my mum he doesn’t chat with her that much becuz whenver she asks about his work stuff ge starts acting up and not telling her anything but when he was talking to his other chick he immediately started gossiping like wtf is wrong with u
And i thought maybe now he doesn’t want my mum but dude whenver he has the chance he acts all lovey dovey towards her like hugging her or kissing her infront of us
But the problem is there were signs of him cheating like how he always brings homemade cake with him and tells mum its from work and how he tells us he is driving but we can hear him in the phone that he is in a closed space
My mum and dad have been married for 26 years and i can’t believe he did this
Also i remember from my childhood that the cheating happened and she confronted him and told him that shes gonna tell his kids( us) and he regretted it and started apologizing and begging and telling her he would never do such a thing again and me and my siblings thought a woman messed with him like he wasn’t cheating but he was texting a woman but in reality he was we just were to young to understand and we loved out father so we never thought he cheated
So till now the only ppl that know are me my older sis and my twin and we cannot tell mum becuz if my dad was emotionally absent our whole lives my mother was very very suffocatingly present and we know that she would never leave him and that if we do tell her she’sgonna make our lives a living hell
And now we are trying to know who that woman is and we are close we know her name and where she lives but who is she in person and what does she do we dont know
All we know is my older brother is an asshole becuz we disnt tell them about dad but we were like we have this friend and her father is cheating and stuff and my older brother was like well he can do whatever he wants he is a man and we were like imagine this happening in our family and the motherfather was like i will support my father if he ever does something like that
Imagine if mama knows how her favorite son thinks about her
Sometimes im convinced he hates us all and he is just waiting for our parents to die so he can inherit money and takes everything from us believe me when i say he is greedy its sickening
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Hey im 19yo Algerian female And me and my sisters just found evidence that my dad is cheating on my mum
We suspected at first cuz whenever we go to our other appartement which is in another city he closes his door and at 11:30 pm smth we can hear him talk to a woman and it isn’t my mum and they laugh and he makes jokes but like we were im denial plus we thought maybe its one of our aunties we werent sure ( we were we just didn’t want to admit it) and after that day i tried to put my phone in his car and record but nada nothing and when we went back to our hometown my twin sister saw him driving his car inside in the passenger seat there was a woman with blue hijab and it was definitely not my mum plus my aunts live in France so no chance Again me my older sister and my dad went to the other city last Thursday and my mum my older brother and younger brother and my twin stayed home
So me and my older sister decided to go shopping and dad drove us and i just had this idea to leave my phone in his car and tap record and i did and when we finished shopping and went home i forgot my phone in his car and he went to pray in the mosque so i called him from my sisters phone and told him that i forgot my phone in the car he brought it to me and at 11:30 pm my older sis heard him talk and we went beside his door and started listening but we couldn’t hear well and then i remembered the recording so yay we listened to it and now we know for sure he is cheating there is no denying it he was talking to her we heard her voice on the phone she’s also married with kids and for the firsttime in my life i was disgusted with my dad
He doesn’t talk that kindly to my mum he doesn’t chat with her that much becuz whenver she asks about his work stuff ge starts acting up and not telling her anything but when he was talking to his other chick he immediately started gossiping like wtf is wrong with u
And i thought maybe now he doesn’t want my mum but dude whenver he has the chance he acts all lovey dovey towards her like hugging her or kissing her infront of us
But the problem is there were signs of him cheating like how he always brings homemade cake with him and tells mum its from work and how he tells us he is driving but we can hear him in the phone that he is in a closed space
My mum and dad have been married for 26 years and i can’t believe he did this
Also i remember from my childhood that the cheating happened and she confronted him and told him that shes gonna tell his kids( us) and he regretted it and started apologizing and begging and telling her he would never do such a thing again and me and my siblings thought a woman messed with him like he wasn’t cheating but he was texting a woman but in reality he was we just were to young to understand and we loved out father so we never thought he cheated
So till now the only ppl that know are me my older sis and my twin and we cannot tell mum becuz if my dad was emotionally absent our whole lives my mother was very very suffocatingly present and we know that she would never leave him and that if we do tell her she’sgonna make our lives a living hell
And now we are trying to know who that woman is and we are close we know her name and where she lives but who is she in person and what does she do we dont know
All we know is my older brother is an asshole becuz we disnt tell them about dad but we were like we have this friend and her father is cheating and stuff and my older brother was like well he can do whatever he wants he is a man and we were like imagine this happening in our family and the motherfather was like i will support my father if he ever does something like that
Imagine if mama knows how her favorite son thinks about her
Sometimes im convinced he hates us all and he is just waiting for our parents to die so he can inherit money and takes everything from us believe me when i say he is greedy its sickening
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I’m a genuine person and my heart is pure, I don’t have many friends my cousins used to be my best friends
They’re 3 sisters and I’m the only child so I used to spend bezu gize at their house gen I’ve been trying to distance myself because sometimes I don’t feel comfortable around them i feel like they don't give the chance to talk about me, how i feel mnamn she always talk about herself and they are 2 years older than me gen endmalawek ende mogn new treat miyargugn I'm 24 btw ena it’s hard because they’re family i can’t just cut them off
So when I don’t see them they say tefash engenagn mnamn eyalu yaschnkugnal keza when we hang out
sometimes it’s actually nice but most of the time whenever there’s a bigger gathering with other cousins or friends I always feel left out
When they meet other people they completely forget about me and don’t include me and it really hurts
I don’t know what to do because I still want a relationship with them we’re family but I don’t like how this makes me feel
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I’m a genuine person and my heart is pure, I don’t have many friends my cousins used to be my best friends
They’re 3 sisters and I’m the only child so I used to spend bezu gize at their house gen I’ve been trying to distance myself because sometimes I don’t feel comfortable around them i feel like they don't give the chance to talk about me, how i feel mnamn she always talk about herself and they are 2 years older than me gen endmalawek ende mogn new treat miyargugn I'm 24 btw ena it’s hard because they’re family i can’t just cut them off
So when I don’t see them they say tefash engenagn mnamn eyalu yaschnkugnal keza when we hang out
sometimes it’s actually nice but most of the time whenever there’s a bigger gathering with other cousins or friends I always feel left out
When they meet other people they completely forget about me and don’t include me and it really hurts
I don’t know what to do because I still want a relationship with them we’re family but I don’t like how this makes me feel
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Let me tell you something I’ve been carrying for a while.
Back when I was in like grade 5, I had this “role model.” She was my neighbor just finished matric, got into AAU, and suddenly she was that girl. Everyone talked about her like she made it. And to me, she really had.
Then she went to university, and everything about her felt… elevated. The clothes changed trendy, a little bold, the kind you notice. Her hair was always done. She had this 4 tight circle of friends, always together, always going somewhere. I remember her showing me pictures eating out, concerts, laughing, glowing, just living. Those soft, pretty pictures that look effortless but somehow perfect.
And I internalized that.
I thought that was what your 20s looked like. I thought growing up meant stepping into that exact life the fun, the friendships, the freedom, the aesthetic of it all.
But now I’m 22. Almost graduating.
And I keep asking myself…
where is it?
Where are those moments I imagined so clearly?
Where are the friends that feel like a constant fun?
Where are the pictures that tell a story I actually want to remember?
And yeah, I know I’m not naive. I know social lives aren’t always what they look like from the outside. I know people curate what they show. But still… I wanted to feel it for myself. Not perfectly. Not all the time. Just enough to say, “yeah, I lived my early 20s.”
Because right now, it feels like I blinked and went straight into “serious life” without passing through that phase I was promised or at least thought I was.
So I’m wondering…
Is it just me?
Or are there other girls in their 20s quietly feeling like they missed something they were supposed to experience?
If you get it… you already know what to do.
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Let me tell you something I’ve been carrying for a while.
Back when I was in like grade 5, I had this “role model.” She was my neighbor just finished matric, got into AAU, and suddenly she was that girl. Everyone talked about her like she made it. And to me, she really had.
Then she went to university, and everything about her felt… elevated. The clothes changed trendy, a little bold, the kind you notice. Her hair was always done. She had this 4 tight circle of friends, always together, always going somewhere. I remember her showing me pictures eating out, concerts, laughing, glowing, just living. Those soft, pretty pictures that look effortless but somehow perfect.
And I internalized that.
I thought that was what your 20s looked like. I thought growing up meant stepping into that exact life the fun, the friendships, the freedom, the aesthetic of it all.
But now I’m 22. Almost graduating.
And I keep asking myself…
where is it?
Where are those moments I imagined so clearly?
Where are the friends that feel like a constant fun?
Where are the pictures that tell a story I actually want to remember?
And yeah, I know I’m not naive. I know social lives aren’t always what they look like from the outside. I know people curate what they show. But still… I wanted to feel it for myself. Not perfectly. Not all the time. Just enough to say, “yeah, I lived my early 20s.”
Because right now, it feels like I blinked and went straight into “serious life” without passing through that phase I was promised or at least thought I was.
So I’m wondering…
Is it just me?
Or are there other girls in their 20s quietly feeling like they missed something they were supposed to experience?
If you get it… you already know what to do.
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I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship not even once.one time i had this talking stage but didn't take it further cause i felt like it is only one side feeling. I know it sounds hard to believe, but it’s the truth. I’ve always wanted something real, something that actually means something… like finding that one person. But somehow, it just never happened for me.
Lately, it’s been getting to me. I just want someone to talk to someone who could be a friend, or maybe something more if it naturally grows into that. But even that feels complicated, because I can’t seem to figure out what I really want or who I’m looking for. My “type” feels like a moving target, and it makes everything harder than it should be.
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I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship not even once.one time i had this talking stage but didn't take it further cause i felt like it is only one side feeling. I know it sounds hard to believe, but it’s the truth. I’ve always wanted something real, something that actually means something… like finding that one person. But somehow, it just never happened for me.
Lately, it’s been getting to me. I just want someone to talk to someone who could be a friend, or maybe something more if it naturally grows into that. But even that feels complicated, because I can’t seem to figure out what I really want or who I’m looking for. My “type” feels like a moving target, and it makes everything harder than it should be.
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Hi guys I just wanna vent 26m, life is good, job is great, working out hard. but I really want a girlfriend, since i am a quiet person and don't talk much with girls my chances of getting one is very low, I really need ur advice what should I do? Or maybe I don't need one my desires are playing with me
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Hi guys I just wanna vent 26m, life is good, job is great, working out hard. but I really want a girlfriend, since i am a quiet person and don't talk much with girls my chances of getting one is very low, I really need ur advice what should I do? Or maybe I don't need one my desires are playing with me
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I'm 24 F | Seeking a positive, non-judgmental bestie! 🌸 I love deep conversations, laughing until it hurts, and spending real quality time together. I want a safe space where we can both be ourselves and support each other. Positive vibes only! 💖
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My X had a fantasy to be dominated and serve me as a sub we staid in this relationship for two years because of my travel to Europe we brook up she wasn't interested on long distance relationship to make it short now when I date normal girl it becomes hard for me accept and live with the normal stuff without knowing it i becomes really dom please tell me how I can get back to old me or how to find girl accept this part of me in Addis
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My X had a fantasy to be dominated and serve me as a sub we staid in this relationship for two years because of my travel to Europe we brook up she wasn't interested on long distance relationship to make it short now when I date normal girl it becomes hard for me accept and live with the normal stuff without knowing it i becomes really dom please tell me how I can get back to old me or how to find girl accept this part of me in Addis
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I can't believe I fall in love. Fikir miyizegn sw alneberkum ahunm yizognal biye mamen alfelekum gn lijitua ke ahmroye litweta alchalechm besua mknyat bizu sw reject ignore adergalew. I'm not good looking gn I don’t know how girls are interested to me . Lijitua gar abren gibi ande class nbrn 3 amet tru guadegnamoch nbrn ena health temari silenebern 6 month apparent sinweta ande gibi wst nbr bet yetekerayenew ya degmo betam endnkerareb aderegen . Bezi hulu kiririb gn ene mnm ngr alasbm nbr lk temerken sinweta gn ke ahmroye liteweta alchalechm 3 amet mulu asbatalew gn aldewilim anaweram esua betam tidewl nafkehegnal tilalech gn 1 amet honen lemecheresha gize kaweran ene gra yegebagn wedjatalew alwededkuatm milew nw
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I can't believe I fall in love. Fikir miyizegn sw alneberkum ahunm yizognal biye mamen alfelekum gn lijitua ke ahmroye litweta alchalechm besua mknyat bizu sw reject ignore adergalew. I'm not good looking gn I don’t know how girls are interested to me . Lijitua gar abren gibi ande class nbrn 3 amet tru guadegnamoch nbrn ena health temari silenebern 6 month apparent sinweta ande gibi wst nbr bet yetekerayenew ya degmo betam endnkerareb aderegen . Bezi hulu kiririb gn ene mnm ngr alasbm nbr lk temerken sinweta gn ke ahmroye liteweta alchalechm 3 amet mulu asbatalew gn aldewilim anaweram esua betam tidewl nafkehegnal tilalech gn 1 amet honen lemecheresha gize kaweran ene gra yegebagn wedjatalew alwededkuatm milew nw
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The biggest turning point of my life I trusted my gut, it yelled at me every single day to move to somewhere and try something new and I did it I am proud of my self!!
Egziabher redagn I did it!
Mewesed yalebetn risk wesedku negen alferam zaren gn lenege eseralew. wend lij እግር enji አገር yelewm ylegnal abate esu bene edme be ቀን sra yalzorebet bereha Ena ገጠር yelem እኔ ደሞ ahun yeteshale alem lay hogne esu kanoregn belay esun ena yewedefit mist, lejochechen manor echlalew !
Gn beteseboche Betam nafkewgnal besreat akfo enkuan yeshegegnn yelem heywet andande ke kalate belay nat. sewm kemiwedew sw ayley!
ስደት melkam ነዉም አይደለምም ከተወደድንበት enderasachew kasebuln Beteseb ena mahbereseb ይነጥቅና ጥሩ ተስፋ ይሰጣል። Huletum balubet lemenor እንድትድታገል ያደርግሀል ፣ ከማትወደዉ ከራስህ ጋር አጋፍጦ የምትደው አንተን አፍርሶ ይሰራሀል።
ብቻ ብዙ አላዉራባቹ ወርቅ በእጃቹ እስካለ ዋጋዉን እወቁ
ማጣቱ ወይ መራራቁ ቀድሞ ሳያስተምራቹ
ለቤተሰቦቻችሁ የሚገባቸዉን ፍቅር እና ክብር ስጡ………….
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The biggest turning point of my life I trusted my gut, it yelled at me every single day to move to somewhere and try something new and I did it I am proud of my self!!
Egziabher redagn I did it!
Mewesed yalebetn risk wesedku negen alferam zaren gn lenege eseralew. wend lij እግር enji አገር yelewm ylegnal abate esu bene edme be ቀን sra yalzorebet bereha Ena ገጠር yelem እኔ ደሞ ahun yeteshale alem lay hogne esu kanoregn belay esun ena yewedefit mist, lejochechen manor echlalew !
Gn beteseboche Betam nafkewgnal besreat akfo enkuan yeshegegnn yelem heywet andande ke kalate belay nat. sewm kemiwedew sw ayley!
ስደት melkam ነዉም አይደለምም ከተወደድንበት enderasachew kasebuln Beteseb ena mahbereseb ይነጥቅና ጥሩ ተስፋ ይሰጣል። Huletum balubet lemenor እንድትድታገል ያደርግሀል ፣ ከማትወደዉ ከራስህ ጋር አጋፍጦ የምትደው አንተን አፍርሶ ይሰራሀል።
ብቻ ብዙ አላዉራባቹ ወርቅ በእጃቹ እስካለ ዋጋዉን እወቁ
ማጣቱ ወይ መራራቁ ቀድሞ ሳያስተምራቹ
ለቤተሰቦቻችሁ የሚገባቸዉን ፍቅር እና ክብር ስጡ………….
God bless y’all ❤️
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Hello guys, I'm a 22-year-old male. I have something to get off my chest. I have been in two serious relationships that lasted from nine months to one and a half years, with some situationships in between. I never truly loved any of the girls I dated. I experience a reciprocal kind of love when I get close to a girl and she seems interested, that makes me want to make her my girlfriend, but I never had that intention before she showed interest. It is like, "If she loves me, I will love her." This made the relationships difficult for me, especially after the "honeymoon" phase ended. I would lose interest entirely. It wasn't that I stopped being a good boyfriend, but I felt I was doing too much to cover up the fact that I had lost my feelings. I don't even know what loving someone on my own, without their effort, feels like. Both relationships ended the same way: I was told I was too good for them and that I deserved better. I know I am not the victim here; I should have been transparent about my feelings, but I have a weird attachment issue. Anyway, I just need advice on how I can learn to love someone like a normal person. Thanks.
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Hello guys, I'm a 22-year-old male. I have something to get off my chest. I have been in two serious relationships that lasted from nine months to one and a half years, with some situationships in between. I never truly loved any of the girls I dated. I experience a reciprocal kind of love when I get close to a girl and she seems interested, that makes me want to make her my girlfriend, but I never had that intention before she showed interest. It is like, "If she loves me, I will love her." This made the relationships difficult for me, especially after the "honeymoon" phase ended. I would lose interest entirely. It wasn't that I stopped being a good boyfriend, but I felt I was doing too much to cover up the fact that I had lost my feelings. I don't even know what loving someone on my own, without their effort, feels like. Both relationships ended the same way: I was told I was too good for them and that I deserved better. I know I am not the victim here; I should have been transparent about my feelings, but I have a weird attachment issue. Anyway, I just need advice on how I can learn to love someone like a normal person. Thanks.
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Guys help me betKut tnzhm bihon info lene ytkmgnal i want to leave this country ena yaw slkbde kelel yale hager new yasbkut china or Dubai chine khone be tmhrt new half scholar slhone paymentu ykbdgnal so Dubai endet bemn way new mhed emchlew mol lay mnamn sra lemaggnet process us endet new i have no clue so Please ematkutn info sharw argugn ty 💞
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Im 23F The thing is I have some issues. After my mom died due to a lot reasons ( tho idk lmn edzi edmaderg gen after she passed away) I have severe kind headaches like migraine and sometimes a headache that goes more than 5 days mnmn and also I have a little anger issues (that goes to self harm ) like for me what I did is normal i just get mad over something that seems silly. And the moment yhon ngr pissed me off mnmn nedeten mewtaw erase ly nw or if things don’t went as I planned it or I got depressed mnmn I don’t see mnm teru ngr ena I feel the urge to hurt myself i just get tired of everything mnmn ena suddenly i become suicidal. Then eventually I hurt my self i makes me calm hememu aysmagnm knedet eskewtam des Mel ngr nw memslgn . Then one day idk why I took pics gen i took pics of my hand which I harm it was in wrist it’s not that much for me uk then my bf saw it tenadedbgn he reacted btm mnmn then aserdawt now he knows except him manm ayakm edza edmaderg i always cover it and this week was also tough i feel depressed mnmn ena telant berase menaded gmerku i was depressed plus alaweram ayastawkbgnm I was so calm bka yetergagaw sw nw memslew. Except him manm ayakem sedbrgnm esum selmngrew thinking maybe he could help me behon ngr . Gen he was mad be ene lmn sel debergn like teru ngr eytsmagn edalhon lek edalhonku constant yhon headache ednbrbgn ngrewalw. Gen still i was trying to be normal ngrewm gen telant alchalkum gen ene seldebrgn eyawrash adelm blo debrew. Salagegnew befit btm kerase gar setagel selnbr I didn’t gen i hide it alayewm ena still i was tryingggg to make it up to him sagegnew teru energy ly edalew lmemsel bfit erasen enkuan selew yedenget yechnek nbr. Then akorfgn mnm sanawra bseratu saytykgn mnm sayarglgn hed yezane hula lalkes nbr sew mehal . Gen hed bselkem eyaweran he just took it personal alterdagnm aysmagnm ngrew he knows my issues he knows exam edalgn eyanbbku edalhonm gen he didn’t check on me he didn’t call or text to make me feel comfortable he just didn’t do anything. And I couldn’t control the urge to harm my self it been almost 3 yrs abren kehonen. Normal nw ? Cheltegna hon nw bzi lek ? Or he just doesn’t care at all he was faking? Or he is not mature enough to know how to treat me ? I hate myself I have stopped doing those things ketewawkn gmero tnsh tesfa hongn nbr why ko fetari rasu destgna edhon ayfelgem . Am I born to be sad cause it feels like that . He knows me manm kmeyakgn belay gen he didn’t treat me edza aytenkeklgnm algbawm yhon . Dmo awertnal I have told him a thousand times communicate maderg is not working for us .
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Im 23F The thing is I have some issues. After my mom died due to a lot reasons ( tho idk lmn edzi edmaderg gen after she passed away) I have severe kind headaches like migraine and sometimes a headache that goes more than 5 days mnmn and also I have a little anger issues (that goes to self harm ) like for me what I did is normal i just get mad over something that seems silly. And the moment yhon ngr pissed me off mnmn nedeten mewtaw erase ly nw or if things don’t went as I planned it or I got depressed mnmn I don’t see mnm teru ngr ena I feel the urge to hurt myself i just get tired of everything mnmn ena suddenly i become suicidal. Then eventually I hurt my self i makes me calm hememu aysmagnm knedet eskewtam des Mel ngr nw memslgn . Then one day idk why I took pics gen i took pics of my hand which I harm it was in wrist it’s not that much for me uk then my bf saw it tenadedbgn he reacted btm mnmn then aserdawt now he knows except him manm ayakm edza edmaderg i always cover it and this week was also tough i feel depressed mnmn ena telant berase menaded gmerku i was depressed plus alaweram ayastawkbgnm I was so calm bka yetergagaw sw nw memslew. Except him manm ayakem sedbrgnm esum selmngrew thinking maybe he could help me behon ngr . Gen he was mad be ene lmn sel debergn like teru ngr eytsmagn edalhon lek edalhonku constant yhon headache ednbrbgn ngrewalw. Gen still i was trying to be normal ngrewm gen telant alchalkum gen ene seldebrgn eyawrash adelm blo debrew. Salagegnew befit btm kerase gar setagel selnbr I didn’t gen i hide it alayewm ena still i was tryingggg to make it up to him sagegnew teru energy ly edalew lmemsel bfit erasen enkuan selew yedenget yechnek nbr. Then akorfgn mnm sanawra bseratu saytykgn mnm sayarglgn hed yezane hula lalkes nbr sew mehal . Gen hed bselkem eyaweran he just took it personal alterdagnm aysmagnm ngrew he knows my issues he knows exam edalgn eyanbbku edalhonm gen he didn’t check on me he didn’t call or text to make me feel comfortable he just didn’t do anything. And I couldn’t control the urge to harm my self it been almost 3 yrs abren kehonen. Normal nw ? Cheltegna hon nw bzi lek ? Or he just doesn’t care at all he was faking? Or he is not mature enough to know how to treat me ? I hate myself I have stopped doing those things ketewawkn gmero tnsh tesfa hongn nbr why ko fetari rasu destgna edhon ayfelgem . Am I born to be sad cause it feels like that . He knows me manm kmeyakgn belay gen he didn’t treat me edza aytenkeklgnm algbawm yhon . Dmo awertnal I have told him a thousand times communicate maderg is not working for us .
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Hey guys, how're you all doing. So what is wanted to vent about is, I'm a guy around his mid twenties. I kinda always had a dysfunctional family and that issue got more bigger when we had some disaster some years back. Ever since that I've been abused, bullied and used as an escape goat since I entered my early teenage years and because of that I didn't have the normal, fun and vibrant teenage years. Now, imagine having a bully as your father and the other family members being even worse. No father figure and no mother figure. Just raw dogging bad years as a confused kid. I also didn't really have any real friends or someone I can call real close (all fake people that showed their true colors when they had the chance.) I'm doing good now and I'm trying to work on myself but I can still feel the residues of my past. The two main issues I notice is that, 1. I can't process my emotions and I feel numb almost all the time, i miss feelingsomething deep and real ... 2. I zone out and dissociate (if u know what I mean) I can't even feel like my self and can't really pin point who I am as a person and I believe these are caused by my past. What I'm asking from you guys is (whether you're a professional in psychology or not) any advice you think you can help me. Hope I didn't bore you guys and thanks in advance🙏
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Hey guys, how're you all doing. So what is wanted to vent about is, I'm a guy around his mid twenties. I kinda always had a dysfunctional family and that issue got more bigger when we had some disaster some years back. Ever since that I've been abused, bullied and used as an escape goat since I entered my early teenage years and because of that I didn't have the normal, fun and vibrant teenage years. Now, imagine having a bully as your father and the other family members being even worse. No father figure and no mother figure. Just raw dogging bad years as a confused kid. I also didn't really have any real friends or someone I can call real close (all fake people that showed their true colors when they had the chance.) I'm doing good now and I'm trying to work on myself but I can still feel the residues of my past. The two main issues I notice is that, 1. I can't process my emotions and I feel numb almost all the time, i miss feelingsomething deep and real ... 2. I zone out and dissociate (if u know what I mean) I can't even feel like my self and can't really pin point who I am as a person and I believe these are caused by my past. What I'm asking from you guys is (whether you're a professional in psychology or not) any advice you think you can help me. Hope I didn't bore you guys and thanks in advance🙏
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Hey I’m 23, female, even though I’m okay on my own 😅 I don’t really have a social circle and I don’t go out much mnamn but I’d really like to make some female friends gen idk where to meet new people
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Hey I’m 23, female, even though I’m okay on my own 😅 I don’t really have a social circle and I don’t go out much mnamn but I’d really like to make some female friends gen idk where to meet new people
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If I'm held at a gun point by a person who knows the answer and asked why do u think this guy does not want you I'd definitely say cuz he didn't find me attractive... No matter how much i tried, no matter how much i glew up or so i thought, no matter how much i tried to look beautiful in his eyes he still sees that fat past version of me. I mean am still kinds fat gn not in unattractively fat way idk if that's a thing bcha yeah. Gn it's just i hate to believe that he thinks I'm unattractive, i really aches to think that he thinks I'm not worthy of being invested on even for a date like one date. I hate to think how he thinks about me to the point of not being eager to ask me out on a date which i pretty much made easy to be asked. Anyways yeah i think he thinks I'm ugly and undeserving of his time, energy and money ( which i don't even want ) and yeah even just one date. Gn yeah alferdbhm and altelahm u just did what any guy who is not interested would do😊
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If I'm held at a gun point by a person who knows the answer and asked why do u think this guy does not want you I'd definitely say cuz he didn't find me attractive... No matter how much i tried, no matter how much i glew up or so i thought, no matter how much i tried to look beautiful in his eyes he still sees that fat past version of me. I mean am still kinds fat gn not in unattractively fat way idk if that's a thing bcha yeah. Gn it's just i hate to believe that he thinks I'm unattractive, i really aches to think that he thinks I'm not worthy of being invested on even for a date like one date. I hate to think how he thinks about me to the point of not being eager to ask me out on a date which i pretty much made easy to be asked. Anyways yeah i think he thinks I'm ugly and undeserving of his time, energy and money ( which i don't even want ) and yeah even just one date. Gn yeah alferdbhm and altelahm u just did what any guy who is not interested would do😊
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Hey guys👋 endet nachu yehone situation ship wst neberku keza bemehal fkregnaw ke america endemtmeta negeregn keza endngenagn endemayfelg negeregn actually keza befitm ke 1amet behwala endemiyageba ynegregn neber then tewkutna hiweten keteleku lereft neber yemetachw stmeles dewlelgn ena enketl alegn keza gen ene fkregna yze neber ena bemn ftnet drom setoch mnamn alegn endemaywedegn bedemb awkalew gen ene keftegna obsession wst neber ena gen bemechersham ke fkregnaye gar endleyayna kesu gar abrew endhon teyekegn ene demo fkregnaye kemnm belay afekrewalew ye fkrn trgum asaytognal siketl disrespect argo sichers dgami wede hiwete ligeba?so mn tlugnalachu
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Hey guys👋 endet nachu yehone situation ship wst neberku keza bemehal fkregnaw ke america endemtmeta negeregn keza endngenagn endemayfelg negeregn actually keza befitm ke 1amet behwala endemiyageba ynegregn neber then tewkutna hiweten keteleku lereft neber yemetachw stmeles dewlelgn ena enketl alegn keza gen ene fkregna yze neber ena bemn ftnet drom setoch mnamn alegn endemaywedegn bedemb awkalew gen ene keftegna obsession wst neber ena gen bemechersham ke fkregnaye gar endleyayna kesu gar abrew endhon teyekegn ene demo fkregnaye kemnm belay afekrewalew ye fkrn trgum asaytognal siketl disrespect argo sichers dgami wede hiwete ligeba?so mn tlugnalachu
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What the actual hell is this koy
Donu think this is a curse mnamn
Bcz sew endet esp set ande enkuan aysakalatm
1 i started taking wz a guy i met on tinder he was really welcoming and warm and as soon as he saw my pic he got cold asf and yeah eventually kept me on read
2 never had a proper boyfriend who actually loved me
3 was kinda close friends with a guy who was telling me that at this point he just wants a woman just a woman and when i made it super easy for him he blew me off
4 i am so freakingly easy to be forgotten by guys who were to the slightest bit involved with me
5 whoever i met online i don't meet a proper and descent human being who wants a genuine connection. Never I've tried many times but never
6 connected with a guy on some deep stuff exchanged numbers and yeah he didn't call at all,
7 i tried and shoot my shot on to some guy he told me he is baletdar and yea he didn't wear and ring
8 had a class with some guy that i liked i tried for us to get some training and suggested that he said he didn't want to go at all also this same guy replied with just 🤟 or something to very continueable conversation
9 some guy friend would just leave me in the class room to hangout with a girl who didn't even like him even after telling him i hate people who ditch me. Got his karma tho😅 i like how she'd mistreat him
10 another guy friend whom i supposedly thought liked me went along and got married. He didnt give a flying shit abt me after that he'd just ignore my calls, messages mnamn( which were innocent i promise just hw u doins )
11 has stng small wz some guy i was the only one who'd call, text yeah i was dumb and just 18years old while doing that but even after i left him he didn't bother to come back
12 thought i started something genuine with some guy i met online turned out he was a catfish
13 i met someone here on venthere and as soon as he saw my pic he got cold
14 i thought i found the love of my life at only one point in my life. I met him online and turned out he was a catfish
15 my friend thought some guy from church had a crush on me we'd talk intermittently and he'd reply years later and for some unrelated reason i started talking to him through anonymous account and turned out his replies were faster than the flash or flush whoever he is
16 started talking to my highschool crush anonymously and he blocked me as soon as he found out who the freaking hell i was 😭
17 met a guy online who was really miserable tbh gn esu rasu he'd just leave me after sexting, make me beg him for replies, tells me that he just wants to fuck wz me and yeah I'd stay
These are all different guys
Do u guys think it's a curse
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What the actual hell is this koy
Donu think this is a curse mnamn
Bcz sew endet esp set ande enkuan aysakalatm
1 i started taking wz a guy i met on tinder he was really welcoming and warm and as soon as he saw my pic he got cold asf and yeah eventually kept me on read
2 never had a proper boyfriend who actually loved me
3 was kinda close friends with a guy who was telling me that at this point he just wants a woman just a woman and when i made it super easy for him he blew me off
4 i am so freakingly easy to be forgotten by guys who were to the slightest bit involved with me
5 whoever i met online i don't meet a proper and descent human being who wants a genuine connection. Never I've tried many times but never
6 connected with a guy on some deep stuff exchanged numbers and yeah he didn't call at all,
7 i tried and shoot my shot on to some guy he told me he is baletdar and yea he didn't wear and ring
8 had a class with some guy that i liked i tried for us to get some training and suggested that he said he didn't want to go at all also this same guy replied with just 🤟 or something to very continueable conversation
9 some guy friend would just leave me in the class room to hangout with a girl who didn't even like him even after telling him i hate people who ditch me. Got his karma tho😅 i like how she'd mistreat him
10 another guy friend whom i supposedly thought liked me went along and got married. He didnt give a flying shit abt me after that he'd just ignore my calls, messages mnamn( which were innocent i promise just hw u doins )
11 has stng small wz some guy i was the only one who'd call, text yeah i was dumb and just 18years old while doing that but even after i left him he didn't bother to come back
12 thought i started something genuine with some guy i met online turned out he was a catfish
13 i met someone here on venthere and as soon as he saw my pic he got cold
14 i thought i found the love of my life at only one point in my life. I met him online and turned out he was a catfish
15 my friend thought some guy from church had a crush on me we'd talk intermittently and he'd reply years later and for some unrelated reason i started talking to him through anonymous account and turned out his replies were faster than the flash or flush whoever he is
16 started talking to my highschool crush anonymously and he blocked me as soon as he found out who the freaking hell i was 😭
17 met a guy online who was really miserable tbh gn esu rasu he'd just leave me after sexting, make me beg him for replies, tells me that he just wants to fuck wz me and yeah I'd stay
These are all different guys
Do u guys think it's a curse
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Am i doomed
I graduated in medicine
I have no motivation for anything
I wash my whole body be 6 wer and ( I'm not lying i swear to God ), but i wash the important ones every 1or 2 weeks or I make my bed be 2 samnt ande, i clean my room be wer ande, i change my panties besamnt ande, my room is smelly i mean understandable 🙄, now i am suffering from scabies, i have no motivation to make my CV and to apply to jobs, i don't have any motivation to go out and meet up wz friends, all i want to do is lay down on a bed and scroll, i had a lot things that i wanted to achieve, i feel really behind compared to my friends they get informations quickly and easily am always the receiver, I'm always fezaza, kalsiye yshetal, academically betammmmmm kenshalew, all i do is sleep,
I was not always like this trust me. And yeah i don't have a depression i don't fullfil the criteria but i think i have some thing which is fundamentally wrong wz me pls don't judge me,i procrastinate a lot not just a lot there is nothing that i can do on time tbh, I'm not depebdable, I'm clumsy, i have no fucking idea what my future would look like, my parents they are really concerned abt me. I don't feel like I'd be good enough for any job that's why i don't apply for jobs
Bcha idk idk if am a mere lazy person or somthing had changed my brain chemistry for the worst bezam ale bezi idk bcha
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Am i doomed
I graduated in medicine
I have no motivation for anything
I wash my whole body be 6 wer and ( I'm not lying i swear to God ), but i wash the important ones every 1or 2 weeks or I make my bed be 2 samnt ande, i clean my room be wer ande, i change my panties besamnt ande, my room is smelly i mean understandable 🙄, now i am suffering from scabies, i have no motivation to make my CV and to apply to jobs, i don't have any motivation to go out and meet up wz friends, all i want to do is lay down on a bed and scroll, i had a lot things that i wanted to achieve, i feel really behind compared to my friends they get informations quickly and easily am always the receiver, I'm always fezaza, kalsiye yshetal, academically betammmmmm kenshalew, all i do is sleep,
I was not always like this trust me. And yeah i don't have a depression i don't fullfil the criteria but i think i have some thing which is fundamentally wrong wz me pls don't judge me,i procrastinate a lot not just a lot there is nothing that i can do on time tbh, I'm not depebdable, I'm clumsy, i have no fucking idea what my future would look like, my parents they are really concerned abt me. I don't feel like I'd be good enough for any job that's why i don't apply for jobs
Bcha idk idk if am a mere lazy person or somthing had changed my brain chemistry for the worst bezam ale bezi idk bcha
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Aight hear me out,.. what if we just disappear for like 4-5 days like tomorrow ain't even real ? No future stress, no what am i doing with my life thoughts... just us being young, outside and prsent fr. I am not saying let's do dumb stuff but can we live a little?? No overthinking , no weird energy , no gossip, just us doing what we are afraid of doing because of society and good energetic vibe,
Let's link up with some strangers, hit a place that's not expensive, spend like 10k each, and make memories that will have us laughing for the rest of our lives. And listen ..... NO alchol, no addictive nonsense, b.c we not escaping life , we actually living it, real life ,real vibes.
Trust me this ain't just about me, i am just tired of seeing people stuck in survival mode like a video game, so yeah we plan it, make a group , and we out. No gender drama, no extra stuff just nature, good energy, freedom.
Memento vivere......
We not here to collect things, i ain't saying be broke 💀, BUT we here to praise God and enjoy life too
And honestly what's the worst that could happen ¿¿¿
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Aight hear me out,.. what if we just disappear for like 4-5 days like tomorrow ain't even real ? No future stress, no what am i doing with my life thoughts... just us being young, outside and prsent fr. I am not saying let's do dumb stuff but can we live a little?? No overthinking , no weird energy , no gossip, just us doing what we are afraid of doing because of society and good energetic vibe,
Let's link up with some strangers, hit a place that's not expensive, spend like 10k each, and make memories that will have us laughing for the rest of our lives. And listen ..... NO alchol, no addictive nonsense, b.c we not escaping life , we actually living it, real life ,real vibes.
Trust me this ain't just about me, i am just tired of seeing people stuck in survival mode like a video game, so yeah we plan it, make a group , and we out. No gender drama, no extra stuff just nature, good energy, freedom.
Memento vivere......
We not here to collect things, i ain't saying be broke 💀, BUT we here to praise God and enjoy life too
And honestly what's the worst that could happen ¿¿¿
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