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I need people opinion from medical doctors or pharmacist who are in the professional world.
I will be soon graduating with pharmacy degree and the problem arises what path will I take after graduation. Studying medicine was my dream even after I grew up but due to multiple reasons even though I tried my best I couldn't get into medshool so I went to pharmschool. Now I heard there is an opportunity for me to join medshool after completing my pharmacy degree and I am eager to try that. Mind you I am 25 F and It will take me another 5 years to finish med school. But through the next 5 years I want to work using my degree, get stable , build my career , start a relationship and and get married and travel(possibly )but I don't think most of my desires are possible if I go to med school now. I feel like I am at the greatest dilemma of my life because based on the information I have , either I have to let go one or the other. So the question I have for pharmacists is should I just start working with my degree and establish my career and let go of medicine ? Will this profession satisfy me in the future? And for the doctors, should I spend another precious 5 years of my life to become a doctor and become both things ? Is it worth all the sacrifices I am willing to make to become a doctor? And also I would like to hear anyone experience related to this like people who were in the same confusion as I am and how you deal with it and how does the outcome looks like? I would greatly appreciate all your advices and opinions in advance. Thank you.

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Am M 26 I hv gf and she's 27 we're together almost 1 year I loved her so much I respect her and I cared for her, I don't want anything to happen to her, I gave her everything and she's virgin, she wants to marry by teklil I respect that even when she came to my house sometimes she stays like for weeks they know me her fam so I didn't even wants to touch her cos I don't want to shatter her dreams. The things she's acting weird lately after she found out that am 🇨🇦 citizen and I hide it the whole time that upset her i apologized so many times and when i told her i hide it cos i don't want to go back and wants live her. she's doing that I don't wants her to do like she's talking to her ex behind my back and she didn't wants me to meet her, talk to me, she's not picking her phone I don't know guys what to do am tired her shit.

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Uv temari nbrku 2nd yr lay iyalew i got 3 f then in second semester be academicall warning temarku then ahunim i got 1 course f meselgn so 3rd year 1,sem, altemrkum i think dissmisal new aydel?? Gin temlshe memar chilalew new wayis ebkachu badenb asrdugn ??

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I gave this guy my phone number ik him from before but he doesn't i have seen him before from afar ena semonun we had a chat not that long and he took my phone number it has been like 4 days he still hasn't called is he playing hard to get or has he forgotten me orr am not enough orrr he just isn't into meeee even if he calls what do i do, do i play hard to get??? Or should i just not care am so confused😭😭🙏🏼

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I’ve had a lot of “best friends” since I was little… but somehow it always ends the same.
we get close, then it breaks and honestly, those friendship breakups hurt more than anything else.even with guy friends, it’s not always real... sometimes it turns into something conditional or just feels off.I think I just want something genuine for once.a real best friend even if it’s online, I don’t mind. no weird energy, no games.yeah, it might sound random to say this out loud, but if you feel the same… maybe we can just talk and see where it goes.

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girls is it suppose to hurt like hell i did it for the first time and i bled like hell like every thing was covered in blood i wanted to get over with it and after 30 min we tried it again and i still bled and i could see his d when he did me on my stomach i dont knw any thing i just got married and we havent done it since am scared to do it he said it is okay when ever you are ready

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Hey I’m a 21 female I feel like I’m not where I want to be in life Ik many people feel this way but for me it’s a big problem
I see potential in myself but I have low self esteem I want to grow financially, spiritually, and academically I want to become well spoken, educated, knowledgeable person and I’ve tried, but I can’t change this cuz alwekm keyet endmjmer and I'm lazy for that and i hardly attend my classes meknyatum it’s very hard for me and i lost interest
Sometimes I find myself crying while studying because I don’t understand things mnm aygbagnm tolo eresalu
This thing affects my relationships I usually attract nerdy, smart people but I feel like I don’t deserve them I feel like I’m not at their level and I don’t have interesting things to talk about this keeps happening again and again and i want to change this but idk how!!!

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I'm 29M Lately I’ve been thinking about something and I just want to say it out loud.

I’m a calm, respectful guy, easy to get along with. But when it comes to women, I’m not that close or open. Maybe it’s because I’m more introverted, I don’t know. It’s not like I’m boring or don’t have personality, it just doesn’t come naturally to me. Sometimes I wonder if that’s normal or if it’s just me.

Another thing is, I have strong sexual feelings like any man, and honestly I wish I could meet someone who understands that and feels the same way. Not in a bad way, just in a real, mutual, honest way. At the same time, I’m trying to understand how to control myself better and stay balanced.

And one more thing I don’t fully understand — why is it that when men talk about sexual topics, many women get uncomfortable or even dislike it? Is it the way it’s said? The timing? Or is it just something people see as inappropriate?

I’m not complaining, just thinking and trying to understand myself and others better. If anyone relates or has a different perspective, I’d honestly like to hear it

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Hey guys, I’m not a bad person honestly but I have a type i prefer taller guys
I met this guy and we talked online for about 5 months Personality wise he’s perfect He’s caring, sweet, and mature We really got along well when he asked me to be his girlfriend I said yes that was so fast for me but I don’t think I fully thought it through at the time
I expected him to be at least a little taller than me maybe like 3 cm so when we met in person for the first time he was shorter than I expected I suddenly felt turned off I know physical attraction sometimes matters and even though his face is nice his body type didn’t attract me
So when I got home I told him I didn’t want to continue and I broke his heart now I feel really bad
What do you guys think?

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I wore the jacket you borrowed from me to work today, it still smells like you. Somehow I keep missing you more everyday

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Is it normal to not be in a relationship by 18? I'm turning 19 in two months, yet I have never been in a relationship once. I don't know if it's the fear of getting rejected; I tend to take the friendship route. Every time I start talking to someone, I talk to them like they're my friends. What should I do?

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I was in a relationship where I gave everything I had. I was loyal, I cared deeply, I showed up fully. I wasn’t playing games, I was serious abt it. And somehow, even with all that, it still drained me.

If I’m being honest… he wasn’t even what I truly wanted. Not my type at all. I like tall men, good-looking, someone who carries himself well, someone who’s actually smarter than me or at least challenges me mentally. I value intelligence a lot because I know what I bring. I’m academically smart, I think deeply, I have goals, I’m not just anyone. I’m the kind of person someone should be proud to have. And I ignored that standard for way too long.

I stayed and tried to make it work anyway. I thought effort could fill in the gaps. It didn’t.

I’m not even bitter abt it. I learned, I left, and I kept moving. That part of me is solid.

But now I’m stuck in this weird in-between space.

One side of me wants to fully focus on myself. Build my life, level up, be independent, disciplined, that version of me that doesn’t need anyone. And I know I’m capable of that. I’ve always been that girl. But at the same time… it feels a little boring. Like life is missing some color.

Another side of me just wants to enjoy life. Go out, go on dates, be around energy, feel wanted, have fun without overthinking everything. But I don’t want anything toxic or empty. I don’t want to end up in something meaningless that drains me again.

And then there’s the part of me that wants to just wait. Be patient. Protect myself and only give my energy to the right person. Someone who actually meets me where I am, not someone I have to shrink or adjust for.

The confusing part is… I feel all of this at once.

Because right now, if I’m being real, I want to be spoiled. I want a man who takes care of me, who gives, who makes me feel soft and wanted without me stressing abt anything. I want that lovey-dovey energy, attention, consistency… but not in a toxic or confusing way. I don’t want some fwb situation or something half real. I want it to feel natural, easy, and genuine.

And I don’t even know if what I’m looking for fits into one path or if I’m asking for too much.

So now I’m just here trying to figure out which version of myself to follow… the one that builds, the one that enjoys, or the one that waits.

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Hey im 19yo Algerian female And me and my sisters just found evidence that my dad is cheating on my mum
We suspected at first cuz whenever we go to our other appartement which is in another city he closes his door and at 11:30 pm smth we can hear him talk to a woman and it isn’t my mum and they laugh and he makes jokes but like we were im denial plus we thought maybe its one of our aunties we werent sure ( we were we just didn’t want to admit it) and after that day i tried to put my phone in his car and record but nada nothing and when we went back to our hometown my twin sister saw him driving his car inside in the passenger seat there was a woman with blue hijab and it was definitely not my mum plus my aunts live in France so no chance Again me my older sister and my dad went to the other city last Thursday and my mum my older brother and younger brother and my twin stayed home
So me and my older sister decided to go shopping and dad drove us and i just had this idea to leave my phone in his car and tap record and i did and when we finished shopping and went home i forgot my phone in his car and he went to pray in the mosque so i called him from my sisters phone and told him that i forgot my phone in the car he brought it to me and at 11:30 pm my older sis heard him talk and we went beside his door and started listening but we couldn’t hear well and then i remembered the recording so yay we listened to it and now we know for sure he is cheating there is no denying it he was talking to her we heard her voice on the phone she’s also married with kids and for the firsttime in my life i was disgusted with my dad
He doesn’t talk that kindly to my mum he doesn’t chat with her that much becuz whenver she asks about his work stuff ge starts acting up and not telling her anything but when he was talking to his other chick he immediately started gossiping like wtf is wrong with u
And i thought maybe now he doesn’t want my mum but dude whenver he has the chance he acts all lovey dovey towards her like hugging her or kissing her infront of us
But the problem is there were signs of him cheating like how he always brings homemade cake with him and tells mum its from work and how he tells us he is driving but we can hear him in the phone that he is in a closed space
My mum and dad have been married for 26 years and i can’t believe he did this
Also i remember from my childhood that the cheating happened and she confronted him and told him that shes gonna tell his kids( us) and he regretted it and started apologizing and begging and telling her he would never do such a thing again and me and my siblings thought a woman messed with him like he wasn’t cheating but he was texting a woman but in reality he was we just were to young to understand and we loved out father so we never thought he cheated
So till now the only ppl that know are me my older sis and my twin and we cannot tell mum becuz if my dad was emotionally absent our whole lives my mother was very very suffocatingly present and we know that she would never leave him and that if we do tell her she’sgonna make our lives a living hell
And now we are trying to know who that woman is and we are close we know her name and where she lives but who is she in person and what does she do we dont know
All we know is my older brother is an asshole becuz we disnt tell them about dad but we were like we have this friend and her father is cheating and stuff and my older brother was like well he can do whatever he wants he is a man and we were like imagine this happening in our family and the motherfather was like i will support my father if he ever does something like that
Imagine if mama knows how her favorite son thinks about her
Sometimes im convinced he hates us all and he is just waiting for our parents to die so he can inherit money and takes everything from us believe me when i say he is greedy its sickening

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I’m a genuine person and my heart is pure, I don’t have many friends my cousins used to be my best friends
They’re 3 sisters and I’m the only child so I used to spend bezu gize at their house gen I’ve been trying to distance myself because sometimes I don’t feel comfortable around them i feel like they don't give the chance to talk about me, how i feel mnamn she always talk about herself and they are 2 years older than me gen endmalawek ende mogn new treat miyargugn I'm 24 btw ena it’s hard because they’re family i can’t just cut them off
So when I don’t see them they say tefash engenagn mnamn eyalu yaschnkugnal keza when we hang out
sometimes it’s actually nice but most of the time whenever there’s a bigger gathering with other cousins or friends I always feel left out
When they meet other people they completely forget about me and don’t include me and it really hurts
I don’t know what to do because I still want a relationship with them we’re family but I don’t like how this makes me feel

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Let me tell you something I’ve been carrying for a while.

Back when I was in like grade 5, I had this “role model.” She was my neighbor  just finished matric, got into AAU, and suddenly she was that girl. Everyone talked about her like she made it. And to me, she really had.

Then she went to university, and everything about her felt… elevated. The clothes changed trendy, a little bold, the kind you notice. Her hair was always done. She had this 4 tight circle of friends, always together, always going somewhere. I remember her showing me pictures  eating out, concerts, laughing, glowing, just living. Those soft, pretty pictures that look effortless but somehow perfect.

And I internalized that.
I thought that was what your 20s looked like. I thought growing up meant stepping into that exact life the fun, the friendships, the freedom, the aesthetic of it all.

But now I’m 22. Almost graduating.
And I keep asking myself…

where is it?
Where are those moments I imagined so clearly?
Where are the friends that feel like a constant fun?
Where are the pictures that tell a story I actually want to remember?

And yeah, I know  I’m not naive. I know social lives aren’t always what they look like from the outside. I know people curate what they show. But still… I wanted to feel it for myself. Not perfectly. Not all the time. Just enough to say, “yeah, I lived my early 20s.”
Because right now, it feels like I blinked and went straight into “serious life” without passing through that phase I was promised or at least thought I was.

So I’m wondering…
Is it just me?

Or are there other girls in their 20s quietly feeling like they missed something they were supposed to experience?

If you get it… you already know what to do.

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I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship not even once.one time i had this talking stage but didn't take it further cause i felt like it is only one side feeling. I know it sounds hard to believe, but it’s the truth. I’ve always wanted something real, something that actually means something… like finding that one person. But somehow, it just never happened for me.
Lately, it’s been getting to me. I just want someone to talk to someone who could be a friend, or maybe something more if it naturally grows into that. But even that feels complicated, because I can’t seem to figure out what I really want or who I’m looking for. My “type” feels like a moving target, and it makes everything harder than it should be.

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Hi guys I just wanna vent 26m, life is good, job is great, working out hard. but I really want a girlfriend, since i am a quiet person and don't talk much with girls my chances of getting one is very low, I really need ur advice what should I do? Or maybe I don't need one my desires are playing with me

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I'm  24 F  | Seeking a positive, non-judgmental bestie! 🌸 I love deep conversations, laughing until it hurts, and spending real quality time together. I want a safe space where we can both be ourselves and support each other. Positive vibes only! 💖

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My X had a fantasy to be dominated and serve me as a sub we staid in this relationship for two years because of my travel to Europe we brook up she wasn't interested on long distance relationship to make it short now when I date normal girl it becomes hard for me accept and live with the normal stuff without knowing it i becomes really dom please tell me how I can get back to old me or how to find girl accept this part of me in Addis

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