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Gosh! It is hard to write when you have a frog in your throat, and your tears come at a rate more than you can wipe. But... something is screaming inside me. I can't cope up with this... I have got to vent.
I "am" a highschooler, who is about to take the national exam early in March(starting on 'Yekatit 29'). Along with my classmates, I was prepping for it until the pandemic broke out and I lost touch with most of them. Dash 7 months later and we were all together again to revise for the 12th grade national exam. At least that was what I thought ....except it wasn't.
One of us was missing. Days passed without her. She didn't even show up for the online registration. At first we all thought she had left the country because she had won a scholarship in the U.S. last year for she was one of the brightest mind in the COUNTRY. We weren't able to contact her or someone else who was willing to tell us about her situation for some reason I don't know. Man! we knew something was wrong.
And two days ago, I figured from some of my classmates that she passed away that day after being very sick for several months. I am not going to try to describe the agony that rushed through my veins when I heard the news . Of course it is not something you look forward to hear.
It has been a painful couple of days. And why aren't those "she-is-in-a-better-place" condolences not helping? Why isn't this world enough for her for now? I don't mean to be offensive here... but has God made the right decision? Has he really ?

I wasn't super-close to her but we were in the same class for about 4 years and.....God!..... it is eating me alive that I wasn't able to say a goodbye. She just vanished from existence but not from my memory. Couldn't concentrate on anything right now: I couldn't get her out of my head. It getting darker for me, and frankly this unnecessarily high level of fragility of the human being is not affirming my belief in God.

For her close friends and relatives, who might have read this and perhaps figured out whom I am talking about, I can't imagine your pain and I am sorry that sometimes the world is too nuts.

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Well hello it is my first time venting and it took me some time to decide venting but I think u can give some advice. So the thing is am 14. I had few boyfriends before. Everyone in my surroundings my friends made out and they talk about it but I really wanna know if it is right to make out at this age and kiss also. Because I have never kiss any guy. So can u give me some advice pleaseee

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Hi there, I am a 20 years old guy. And the reason why am venting is that i am really insecure about my sexual potency. I have a girlfriend and we never had sex even if we are together since i was 18. She even suggests but i usually say no giving her some reasons like religion and others. I also want to have sex with her but the reason why I always say no is because i really fear that i may cum quickly. I felt this way because i always cum within 2 minutes when i masturbate and even last time she sucked for me and i cum real quick. I really need help. At this point all my friends enjoy their sex life and I am the only one who is not. And I have the opportunity but am not using it. I always fear my gf will one day start seeing other options because i always say no to her sexual needs. Please help me if u know any med or solution.

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Hv u ever felt bad cuz ur leading a normal life with ur stable family ? I mean this couple of months my bestie is goin through some family matter ena I can't do ntn abt it I feel bad whenever I'm smiling uk that makes me feel like a bad person I feel guilty for being happy or leading a normal and stable life. I wish I was the one who was goin through all of this I wish I had bigger problems than her I wish she was living my life I wish a lot of things that I could be sad and she could be happy uk that's hard asf when ur friend doesn't think u understand her when she thinks ur jst living ur life u don't care abt her mnamn bt u hv no idea he am stressed out I feel like a bad person for nt goin through all that i wish I could trade places with her I rlyyy do I can handle it bt she can't ik she can't she too emotional

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So here's the thing... I had actually have a hug crashe on this guy and we were like just friends and staff for a while. then at some point he started distancing himself from me. We dont talk like before or I think we r not....... I don't know bcha it feels like it. now I'm reading this signs his may be dating some one else or he is literally not seeing me the way I see him...... I dont have the courage to ask but I'm dying inside and I want to accept the harsh truth before getting hurt. I just want this whole thing to get out of my chest caz I cant tell my friends or anyone

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Hey I am a girl and 22 years old. I have a boyfriend and I love him . he's 23 years old. we had sex many times and I feel like his penis is not satisfying me. I think it's about size.I don't know which type is perfect and I want experience more. I can't leave him because I love him and I sometimes think about cheating honestly. should I do?any girls have same experience?

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A girl here,
I have a friend n she used to have this bf now they've broken up. I was not close with him till corona,then we got close through that time nd became friends,his z nicest friend ever. So z thing is,my friend keeps telling me how bad he was to her through the relationship,how badly he treated her mnamn then she says "I don want u to hate him,um just telling u z truth".I believe her nd he has also admitted his fault but like I said I didn know him well before,as I know him now, he's a good friend to me. so my question is why do u think she's doin that? I don wanna lose them both,do I have to side wiz one of them?
P.s when I said he's my friend,I literally meant friend

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Okay so imma go straight to the point. I was in a relationship that drained me. I love that person. I loved a person for the first time in my life like that. The relationship didn't last for long but I felt like we have been together for so long. And it was over I went through a lot. I got over that person. Now I'm looking for sth new (btw it's been about a year since we broke up) and all that feeling is all gone like I can't love or feeling anything serious for someone. As if he took all the love I had. I have tried even though it's not really sth you try lmao. But I mess around here an there but I never commit, I'm scared of committing like it's sth that could eat me. And I can't trust people. And I can't love someone. I don't believe I'm gonna say this but I'm becoming a player so much so fast. I don't want to be that person( even tho I don't disrespect your thought about this) I need yall to help me. I don't want this. Thanks

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so my problem is that i don't know what is wrong with me. I want to sleep i feel so tired but when i get in bed and try to sleep i can't. there is too much in my mind and every bone in my body seems to be in pain i don't feel myself healthy.
i don't want to eat, i don't want to study, i cant sleep i just want to sit and just do nothing and it feels worthless. i don't know what is wrong with me.

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I'm in a tight situation. I love my girlfriend. She makes things easier to bare. She makes me happy. She pulled me out of the guilt and misery I was drowning in and showed me light. I would basically die for this girl. But she's asking me to lose all connections with my ex. Which I seriously can't. My moral compass wouldn't let me. Men meselachu, my ex got pregnant a year ago and I demanded for her to get an abortion. She was scared of her family too so she gave into the pressure. I didn't care about her or the baby at first. I was arrogant. But I saw the amount of pain the abortion made her go through inside and outside. I felt bad for her. But things became toxicly sad after that. We couldn't go back to how amazing things were before she got pregnant. The guilt was making me suicidal at some point and I decided it's not good for either for us to continue the relationship. But I still keep contact with her because she's not okay mentally. I'm trying to keep her from taking her life. But I can't tell this to my current girlfriend because she doesn't know about the abortion and will probably leave me if she knows about how much I initiated it. But she's also mad at how I give my ex more attention and care. My ex doesn't even know I'm dating someone knew. I'm not sure how to solve this. Any ideas?

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My suicidal ideations have become inbuilt pattern for whatever setback I am facing now I was going to throw myself off the bridge today but it was fenced I have friends loving family and good life I just couldn't match my high expectations and I feel like I am at the lowest level (compared to my peers who are super active) that keeps on killing me. I told my mom and she was like αˆαŠ• αŒŽα‹΅αˆŽ αŠα‹ α‹¨αˆαŠ• αˆ˜αŒ¨αˆ›αˆˆα‰… everything that I used to love like going to church studying listening to αˆ˜α‹αˆ™αˆ­ I can't do them now how can I get out of this vicious pattern please help me out I am dead inside

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ay guys so here is the deal am a 25 years old dud and am just tired of dating the games and stuff i just want somone mature someone very older than me you know someone fun but still way older than me am i being weird?? am just totally into older girls now they are mature and understanding and cool is it just me or are y'all feeling this too?? evem the sex with an older women is amazing amd the conversations you have makes more sense idk bcha correct me if am wrong,thanksπŸ˜‰

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Hey guys, so i was watching this video on "gaslighting" on youtube and i had the weirdest realization. The video was about this woman that was loosing her mind because her husband made her doubt her entire reality and the way she beat it was by constantly telling herself objective truths. And it downed on me..isn't that what the world is doing to us?? We constanly get caught up in meaningless struggles and illusion. But there was a time before we were born. And there will be a time after we die. Everything changes and everything passes. Those are completely true objective truths. Would we live the same life if we reminded ourselves of that everytime we faced something? What if our reality isnt really real?? Anbody ever have those thoughts??

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I'm 22 n last week i aborted my helpless baby....i griefed my child's death and the fact that my baby only got me to remember him/her is so depressing and the fact that the father didn't give a little damn.... i imagined my baby faceπŸ₯Ί gender and imagined the process my child going through and i was happy i saw my body change but life didn't want me to have him in zs state of my life i can't have him I'm a student n i don't wanna marry my baby father. I just feel like i am at the bottom of existence,everything my parents warned me not to do in life and that girl everyone pictured as bad became me
I wanna ask for help how can i go through this and i am scared that i won't because of this mentally n physically

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Hey guys!
If you met me on the street, I would seem like a normal 22year old guy. I may not be the smartest, most handsome person in the room, but I’m studying for a graduate degree and working on my own business.

Over the past 3years, though, I haven’t been able to maintain romantic relationships for more than a few months. Furthermore, many of my friendships fizzled out within a month. The reason? I grew bored with my sexual partners quickly and constantly sought new partners from within my social circle. As you can imagine, my sexual antics never went well, and they always ended with everyone blaming me and walking out. But somehow, I always absolved myself of responsibility and didn’t see myself as a sex addict.
That's why am coming to you guys.if any one of you is going through this please let me know. Thank you

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Hey..I'm a girl..in my early 20s..I had a tough life. My childhood was really messed up..family matter.. single narcissistic mom..abandoned by my dad..I'm not gonna bore u with the details..and I've gone through a lot.. and now I'm sick. I've been diagnosed with major depressive disorder and insomnia. Last year was a hell of a ride for me..with all the therapy and psych meds. Now we're called to campus again and I'm literally lost. I don't even know how to be normal anymore..it's just everything is a lot rn.
I've been suicidal for a while now. But there was always some part of me..hopeful about life and all. But during the last month, I've become desperate more than ever. I'm drained out and idk how to go on anymore. I really want to kill myself. I'm not venting here for u to save me or anything. I just want to know the most effective way. Don't say google it. Because I already did. Gn not that helpful. So can u pls tell me suicidal methods? And any ideas how I should spend my last days..specially I want my friends to take it easy as much as possible. Any thoughts?
Pls try not to be meanπŸ™

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Hey i'm 20 yo boy...long story short i'm in a hell of mess and its kind of family tension on the one side and in the other my ex girlfriend is driving me crazy its like i'm feelin empty now loosing hope in everything and this suicidal thought is messing me like a hell...

I just want somebody to talk to i'm so much broke and hopeless now pls help me guys ...πŸ˜”

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Sometimes i wanna live and do all the great things and travel this beautiful world and meet great people and make a community of wierd people with my weird sense of humor and change the world somehow, atleast contribute for society and help humanity create things unthinkable of by other creatures where as Some other times, all I think of is about this useless short trial of existence we call life and how pointless it is and breaking this loop of everlasting misery casted up on me by ending it all.

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Hey ppl hw r u doing, i want an advice that is making me so stressed, in my family am z first (bekur lij), and my parents are old, which means after sometimes it will be my responsibilty to manage z house, as I think of that I ask myself "how could I do that, like my father is doing" I'm second year grade 12 studentπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚,z thing is that after my grade 10 matric exam, which my result was pretty nice, I choose to be a social student. But all my friends chose to be natural student, which makes them ask(even billed me) y I chose to be social student even though I'm good at maths and physics(which most science students think that we choose to be art to hide from phy and the like), at that time I thought to be a law student (now which I don't want to be)

So my question is to the ppl which r familiar (that graduated in art department), what department are their which r good for my future,

Tnx 4 reading

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Hello everyone
My question is for those who are in a relationship. Girls does your man see his future with you? Like marriage? And boys does your girl share ur thoughts on a future together? What does it say about the relationship if one or both parties dont see the future with eachother.
Ps. This question applys those those with relationship longer than one year

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