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This is going to be Long so grab a sit & enjoy ๐๐ I feel like our generation's perceptions of a relationship are changing. The guys think that if you show your utmost care & compassion to the the girl she is there's. & they feel they are entitled to get the girl just cause they treated her nice.& when they reject them they feel bitter towards girls & some even try to act a certain way i.e,like a bad boy. What am saying is for guys & girls who are reading this Just do you,Try to be the best version of yourself,Try to improve as a human being & work on yourself. When the time comes & you want to pursue a relationship you would be confident & know what you want & what you want to settle for. So to wrap this up don't let one bad relationship change your whole outlook on men/women.
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This is going to be Long so grab a sit & enjoy ๐๐ I feel like our generation's perceptions of a relationship are changing. The guys think that if you show your utmost care & compassion to the the girl she is there's. & they feel they are entitled to get the girl just cause they treated her nice.& when they reject them they feel bitter towards girls & some even try to act a certain way i.e,like a bad boy. What am saying is for guys & girls who are reading this Just do you,Try to be the best version of yourself,Try to improve as a human being & work on yourself. When the time comes & you want to pursue a relationship you would be confident & know what you want & what you want to settle for. So to wrap this up don't let one bad relationship change your whole outlook on men/women.
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I am 18 and I have an older sister but she not like normal person and she have a mental problem am not sure but I think she she kinda have mental retardation which means she can't think critically so she have no friends to go out and have fun or something.so my probelm is my parents specially my dad always forcing me to take her out averytime I go out with my friends and that kinda bother me coze they are my friends not hers and since she is not normal people always asking some stupid question and am tired of trying to make them understand and also I am kinda "yabate lege" bezu geza erasu alwatame ena lana erasu wato magbate is strange thing to me. taking my older sister with me damo is another level.so I always arguing with him and he told me am selfish and bad person.did u think I am like that???
asbute esti she the older one and I am the youngest and he expect me to do a lot of things to her๐I don't even know how to take care and do things to my self.
so any advice.....
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I am 18 and I have an older sister but she not like normal person and she have a mental problem am not sure but I think she she kinda have mental retardation which means she can't think critically so she have no friends to go out and have fun or something.so my probelm is my parents specially my dad always forcing me to take her out averytime I go out with my friends and that kinda bother me coze they are my friends not hers and since she is not normal people always asking some stupid question and am tired of trying to make them understand and also I am kinda "yabate lege" bezu geza erasu alwatame ena lana erasu wato magbate is strange thing to me. taking my older sister with me damo is another level.so I always arguing with him and he told me am selfish and bad person.did u think I am like that???
asbute esti she the older one and I am the youngest and he expect me to do a lot of things to her๐I don't even know how to take care and do things to my self.
so any advice.....
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Hey guys hear me out.After this corona virus lockdown am facing a serious issue. I have been spending a lots of time at home and i was alone i didn't interact with people at all. And now after class started am sick about it when ever i go to class all i feel is nervous and throwing up. Everyday is hell for me. I get anxious when i talk with my friends. I was not like this at all before corona happened. If you guys know whats going on with me please help me out.
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Hey guys hear me out.After this corona virus lockdown am facing a serious issue. I have been spending a lots of time at home and i was alone i didn't interact with people at all. And now after class started am sick about it when ever i go to class all i feel is nervous and throwing up. Everyday is hell for me. I get anxious when i talk with my friends. I was not like this at all before corona happened. If you guys know whats going on with me please help me out.
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Why does everything go bad for me.. I can't be happy just for a split of a second... it always has been like this ..i accepted that i might just have a little bit of a bad luck but it wasn't that much I couldn't gotten over ....but now it has grown in folds i thought it was cause of something from me so i tried changing every bad thing i could think of but no no no it doesn't matter the world has something else planned for me...i lose on life's every lottery a family with no love between parents...my parents cursing on me and my brother for being born..i handled that like a champ but again the outside world is a lot, now u might think it's all about relationships and real friendships but no that's another conversation..never really had both of them but it's not about that every great opportunity that i get has a thousand times bad thing attached to it.. I can't even express it without telling the whole thing so I can't do that...u might think that I'm just exaggerating or I'm an asshole and this is my payback but no I'm not that kinda guy.... to even say this today it's not one bad day that made me write this i have been brewing this for a lot of years...becha and ken yehone dena neger yefeteral eyalku enoralew enji I haven't enjoyed life till now...
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Why does everything go bad for me.. I can't be happy just for a split of a second... it always has been like this ..i accepted that i might just have a little bit of a bad luck but it wasn't that much I couldn't gotten over ....but now it has grown in folds i thought it was cause of something from me so i tried changing every bad thing i could think of but no no no it doesn't matter the world has something else planned for me...i lose on life's every lottery a family with no love between parents...my parents cursing on me and my brother for being born..i handled that like a champ but again the outside world is a lot, now u might think it's all about relationships and real friendships but no that's another conversation..never really had both of them but it's not about that every great opportunity that i get has a thousand times bad thing attached to it.. I can't even express it without telling the whole thing so I can't do that...u might think that I'm just exaggerating or I'm an asshole and this is my payback but no I'm not that kinda guy.... to even say this today it's not one bad day that made me write this i have been brewing this for a lot of years...becha and ken yehone dena neger yefeteral eyalku enoralew enji I haven't enjoyed life till now...
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To All The Teens and Members On Their Early 20s
Do Not Prematurly Optimize, NOW Is Not The Time For You to Pick a Lane & Go Hard In It or Find That Perfect One Who is Gonna Rock Your Soul And Have That Perfect Family That You Always Dreamt Of, Now Is The Time To Play, Explore, Be Joyful & Explore What You're Supposed to Do, Later When You Identified Your Lane Then You Go Hard in That Direction, DO NOT Be Afraid To Be Lost For a While, Don't Be Afraid To Play Around, Be Aimless, Fail, Get Faded or Get Your Heart Broken, a Dog Always Finds His Way Home, You Don't Discover If You Don't Explore.
There Is Something That Has Gotten To Our Culture, Where Our Society Has Gotten Lost to It, People Has Different Meaning To This Word "Culture", Group Of Peoples Create Their Own Culture,Generations Create Their Own Culture, and a Person Creates its Own Culture, Never Get Lost In Anybodys Theory, Do You, Be You, Create Your Own Fantasy World, What Worked 10 Years Ago Might Not Work Today, There Is No Rule To This Life Create Your Own.
Take That Unsupervised Play Time and Go Do Something Crazy, Go Find Yourself Doing The Wildest Thing That You Always Wants To Do Like WHATEVER !
Don't Try To Prematurly Optimize & Drive Yourself to an Early GRAVE.
If The Person You Look Up To Can Do It You Can Do it Too ! Anybody Can Do It ! You Have No Idea The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind, So at Any Point You Can Decide ahh ! I Know What I Wanna Do Then You Put All Your Time and Energy Into It, NOW IS NOT THE TIME FOR OBSESSION. What Refuse To Love You Back Will Get Relaced By a Better One, What Has Been Making Your Head Felt Like a Stove Top Will Make You Smile, What You Felt Is Impossible Would Become Something You Can Do With a Snap Of Finger. Again Don't Be Afraid To Explore, Fail Over & Over and DISCOVER (& This Is The Time To Fail, Get Outta Your Comfort Zone & Stop Playing It Safe You Only Fail When You Stop Trying)
This is @McKaLiii a Psychologist, Feel Free To Inbox Me, Im Willing To Offer My Service For Free ! To Who Ever Needs It.
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I am Fรญre Crรกcker
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To All The Teens and Members On Their Early 20s
Do Not Prematurly Optimize, NOW Is Not The Time For You to Pick a Lane & Go Hard In It or Find That Perfect One Who is Gonna Rock Your Soul And Have That Perfect Family That You Always Dreamt Of, Now Is The Time To Play, Explore, Be Joyful & Explore What You're Supposed to Do, Later When You Identified Your Lane Then You Go Hard in That Direction, DO NOT Be Afraid To Be Lost For a While, Don't Be Afraid To Play Around, Be Aimless, Fail, Get Faded or Get Your Heart Broken, a Dog Always Finds His Way Home, You Don't Discover If You Don't Explore.
There Is Something That Has Gotten To Our Culture, Where Our Society Has Gotten Lost to It, People Has Different Meaning To This Word "Culture", Group Of Peoples Create Their Own Culture,Generations Create Their Own Culture, and a Person Creates its Own Culture, Never Get Lost In Anybodys Theory, Do You, Be You, Create Your Own Fantasy World, What Worked 10 Years Ago Might Not Work Today, There Is No Rule To This Life Create Your Own.
Take That Unsupervised Play Time and Go Do Something Crazy, Go Find Yourself Doing The Wildest Thing That You Always Wants To Do Like WHATEVER !
Don't Try To Prematurly Optimize & Drive Yourself to an Early GRAVE.
If The Person You Look Up To Can Do It You Can Do it Too ! Anybody Can Do It ! You Have No Idea The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind, So at Any Point You Can Decide ahh ! I Know What I Wanna Do Then You Put All Your Time and Energy Into It, NOW IS NOT THE TIME FOR OBSESSION. What Refuse To Love You Back Will Get Relaced By a Better One, What Has Been Making Your Head Felt Like a Stove Top Will Make You Smile, What You Felt Is Impossible Would Become Something You Can Do With a Snap Of Finger. Again Don't Be Afraid To Explore, Fail Over & Over and DISCOVER (& This Is The Time To Fail, Get Outta Your Comfort Zone & Stop Playing It Safe You Only Fail When You Stop Trying)
This is @McKaLiii a Psychologist, Feel Free To Inbox Me, Im Willing To Offer My Service For Free ! To Who Ever Needs It.
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๐๐๐๐yo yo yo yo yall you've already made it,finally you broke๐ค through it all and guess who finally took that fine piece breath !..
Ik ...its the human nature ,emotion and curiousity that makes this ๐ง pink or wt ever coloured cake debate with โค๏ธ this other beautiful creation ,well believed to be called the heart๐ ..uve finally managed and uve finally got the all fought for answer that no matter what ever be the ๐universe got swaying your way through nature, through spirit or through information , YOU GOT AROUND ITTTT ....you prepared and beared all the moments to manage ur self by self awareness,self respect, selfcare, selfdiscipline and self love to YOUR SELF
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE BROTHER๐
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE SISTER ๐ค
NOTHING ELSE MATTERS AS LONG AS U SURVIVE AND THANK YOUR EXISTANCE AND YOUR CREATOR WHEN YOUR SOUL IS IN THE FLOW๐
That's why most love the saying
eat -pray -love
Protect yo self's yall and keep that thang beatinโค๏ธ๐ฅณ and enjoy this one way ticket journey dawwg ....in and out the rest is to rest in peace with a calm mind and heart....make sure yall pay your self the time you deserve. for all we know time is that one expensive thing .
BEYOND ALL self relationship MATTERS ABOVE ALL CUZ WITHOUTCHA your world doen matter to en bode .....we all forget
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I'm spreading love after a 8 years time of depression and stress.... take it from me ...what ur mind attends ur future pretends and then attains ....
๐คpeace out travelling companions!!!
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Greetings to the worlddd๐
๐๐๐๐yo yo yo yo yall you've already made it,finally you broke๐ค through it all and guess who finally took that fine piece breath !..
Ik ...its the human nature ,emotion and curiousity that makes this ๐ง pink or wt ever coloured cake debate with โค๏ธ this other beautiful creation ,well believed to be called the heart๐ ..uve finally managed and uve finally got the all fought for answer that no matter what ever be the ๐universe got swaying your way through nature, through spirit or through information , YOU GOT AROUND ITTTT ....you prepared and beared all the moments to manage ur self by self awareness,self respect, selfcare, selfdiscipline and self love to YOUR SELF
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE BROTHER๐
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE SISTER ๐ค
NOTHING ELSE MATTERS AS LONG AS U SURVIVE AND THANK YOUR EXISTANCE AND YOUR CREATOR WHEN YOUR SOUL IS IN THE FLOW๐
That's why most love the saying
eat -pray -love
Protect yo self's yall and keep that thang beatinโค๏ธ๐ฅณ and enjoy this one way ticket journey dawwg ....in and out the rest is to rest in peace with a calm mind and heart....make sure yall pay your self the time you deserve. for all we know time is that one expensive thing .
BEYOND ALL self relationship MATTERS ABOVE ALL CUZ WITHOUTCHA your world doen matter to en bode .....we all forget
#factsss
I'm spreading love after a 8 years time of depression and stress.... take it from me ...what ur mind attends ur future pretends and then attains ....
๐คpeace out travelling companions!!!
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so, I don't know where to start.
I am a fresh graduate, not even couple of weeks after graduation. but here is the thing I didn't graduate I have 2 F there making me effectively unable to graduate because of that. This one might come as a surprise but I didn't want to graduate at all you might think that might be because I enjoyed the university life. on the contrary I despised every second of it. all I want is to work by myself and figure things out by myself I don't even want to be hired add to that I have a girl best friend and we close real close and I told her that I liked her but she said that we shouldn't be together as that might mess the balance of our bond I agreed, but then she starts telling me that we might have a chance of being together but earlier today we had a plan together but she told that she couldn't make it cause, guess what? she has a date with someone else. that kinda pissed me of for a second but does that mean I can go on dates with other girls? not that I want a relationship or anything though, so what should I do about my stubbornness to get a job or the fact that I don't want to fix my F's by going back. and is it normal to not want a relationship? I was willing with that girl but even when she told me we had a chance I didn't want now you might think it's cause she is leaving me but it was long before that .......
and add to that my psychiatrist said that I apparently has
self sabotaging characteristics
fear of commitment and a whole lots of things, so tell me wtf should I do?
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so, I don't know where to start.
I am a fresh graduate, not even couple of weeks after graduation. but here is the thing I didn't graduate I have 2 F there making me effectively unable to graduate because of that. This one might come as a surprise but I didn't want to graduate at all you might think that might be because I enjoyed the university life. on the contrary I despised every second of it. all I want is to work by myself and figure things out by myself I don't even want to be hired add to that I have a girl best friend and we close real close and I told her that I liked her but she said that we shouldn't be together as that might mess the balance of our bond I agreed, but then she starts telling me that we might have a chance of being together but earlier today we had a plan together but she told that she couldn't make it cause, guess what? she has a date with someone else. that kinda pissed me of for a second but does that mean I can go on dates with other girls? not that I want a relationship or anything though, so what should I do about my stubbornness to get a job or the fact that I don't want to fix my F's by going back. and is it normal to not want a relationship? I was willing with that girl but even when she told me we had a chance I didn't want now you might think it's cause she is leaving me but it was long before that .......
and add to that my psychiatrist said that I apparently has
self sabotaging characteristics
fear of commitment and a whole lots of things, so tell me wtf should I do?
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Those who have the sword and know how to use it but choose to keep it sheathed will inherit the world, says the Bible. That is the individual I'm trying to be. I want to know how to use that sword. I Don't want to inflict pain on others but if it comes to that I want to be in a position where I'm not the prey.
I don't want to be harmless. I want to be capable of being a monster but only when I need to for a harmless man is not a good man, a good man is a very dangerous man but chooses to keep his urges to be violent under voulantary control. That's the path I want to walk on. That's who I want to be. But I'm meek. I have a limited life experience.
I am on this journey because someone in my life caused me a great deal of pain. I hate to admit it but whether I like it or not some people have the power to alter my life once they have entered. They do this in a way that their actions trigger emotions with in me. They determine whether I feel resentment, vengeance, rage or love. I don't want people to have this power over me. Or is this a pipe dream? After all I can't be indifferent to what people think of me for I am a social being. If I can't defend my self at least I want to make them feel resentment, vengefulness, rage and love if the situation calls for it.
How do I go from this meek persona of mine to the individual I disire to be?
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Those who have the sword and know how to use it but choose to keep it sheathed will inherit the world, says the Bible. That is the individual I'm trying to be. I want to know how to use that sword. I Don't want to inflict pain on others but if it comes to that I want to be in a position where I'm not the prey.
I don't want to be harmless. I want to be capable of being a monster but only when I need to for a harmless man is not a good man, a good man is a very dangerous man but chooses to keep his urges to be violent under voulantary control. That's the path I want to walk on. That's who I want to be. But I'm meek. I have a limited life experience.
I am on this journey because someone in my life caused me a great deal of pain. I hate to admit it but whether I like it or not some people have the power to alter my life once they have entered. They do this in a way that their actions trigger emotions with in me. They determine whether I feel resentment, vengeance, rage or love. I don't want people to have this power over me. Or is this a pipe dream? After all I can't be indifferent to what people think of me for I am a social being. If I can't defend my self at least I want to make them feel resentment, vengefulness, rage and love if the situation calls for it.
How do I go from this meek persona of mine to the individual I disire to be?
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Hello everyone m a guy. 25 yrs old. Soon to b graduated. M a civil engineering student. I had good grades on the first year but then i failed. Failed really hard.bottom line, i dont have good grade. M always on my toe around my family. They see me a failure but wht i think is, If i manage to have a good life, It will b alright. I cant even say my opinion eko cuz thy bring up something related to grade n shut me up. My little sister is heard more than me. They see her as the queen. I was smart too but at some point i lost my track. The whole point of the vent is there anyone one who went through what m going n can give me an advice if i can survive n have job with low grade? Or is there no future for me? Thank you in advance n sorry for this long ass vent.
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Hello everyone m a guy. 25 yrs old. Soon to b graduated. M a civil engineering student. I had good grades on the first year but then i failed. Failed really hard.bottom line, i dont have good grade. M always on my toe around my family. They see me a failure but wht i think is, If i manage to have a good life, It will b alright. I cant even say my opinion eko cuz thy bring up something related to grade n shut me up. My little sister is heard more than me. They see her as the queen. I was smart too but at some point i lost my track. The whole point of the vent is there anyone one who went through what m going n can give me an advice if i can survive n have job with low grade? Or is there no future for me? Thank you in advance n sorry for this long ass vent.
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Okey this is gonna be one of the weirdest vents I think. The thing is I am attracted to girls who are older than me...I always fantasize being with an older mature woman who can teach me, advise me and also give me a sexual experience...I am a 24 yrs old virgin guy btw ...& I don't how to find and talk to with those kind of woman...and don't mistake my inclination with an interest on sugar mmy thing...I hate that thing...all I want is to be with a woman who is older than me and to be friends with her, talk about life, discuss about intellectual things, and also if possible to have my first physical experience...so what do you say about this (specially girls and boys who have been in relationship with an older woman than u)
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Okey this is gonna be one of the weirdest vents I think. The thing is I am attracted to girls who are older than me...I always fantasize being with an older mature woman who can teach me, advise me and also give me a sexual experience...I am a 24 yrs old virgin guy btw ...& I don't how to find and talk to with those kind of woman...and don't mistake my inclination with an interest on sugar mmy thing...I hate that thing...all I want is to be with a woman who is older than me and to be friends with her, talk about life, discuss about intellectual things, and also if possible to have my first physical experience...so what do you say about this (specially girls and boys who have been in relationship with an older woman than u)
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Once upon a Time I was a 10-year-old child. I had no idea about perception.
I have always been told that I am larger than my peers are. I have always been told I look taller than my friends. I have always been told to not act like a child because people think I'm older. And I never really cared because I never really could see myself.
Once upon a Time when I was in fifth grade, 10 years old I looked down on myself and realized yeah they are right. From that day on I never liked being seen. I never liked knowing that people could see me I wanted to be invisible, without judgment, without fear.
From that day on I never really liked getting out of my room. Or being in public and I always second guessed everything I did. Based on the perception of being perceived.
Looking back at it I was normal physically. I wasn't as exaggerated as I thought I was. I have always had my growth accelerated. When I was 12 years old I was mistaken for an 18-year-old boy. In hindsight that was okay but as a child I wanted to be treated like everyone else I wanted to run around and be normal. But whenever I did that people will look at me weird and think why is this 20-year-old running around with children when I was just a child. My mom used to tell me before we go places in public to not run around and to sit down with her because people assume I'm older. People think I'm older because of my body. and people used to argue with me whenever I tell them my age as if they gave birth to me. when I tell them I'm 10 years old they look at me and disbelieve and say no you're not you're probably 15.
From that day on I started hiding my body wearing larger clothes to hide my disgusting body. Wanting larger clothes to hide myself in them. I thought I was I didn't know what I actually looked like because of all the judgment I thought my body was disgusting I still have problems with that. I didn't know it then but what I had was called body dysmorphia.
I always thought I was larger than I actually were. I used to wear this big ass jacket, made me comfortable the fact that people couldn't see me. Even if when it was inconvenient. even when the sun was out I always wore my jacket whenever I was outside people used to joke is it raining inside and I laughed and waved them off. I felt comfortable and the sad part is that shouldn't have been an issue for a 10 year old girl.
I wandered how many people feel like this. How many people were being shamed for their existence. And how many people experience body dysmorphia. How many people are lead to eating disorders. How many people have problems accepting love because they always assume people hate them. How many ignorant comments we make actually affect children and how they perceive themselves. How many times the love has been used as a reason for this hurtful comments. How many times has the meaning of love been warped and twisted to an extent that is unrecognizable. It's as if, if you're really love someone you can't really do any harm to them.
So my question is how many of you are suffering behind closed doors. How many of you experience these type of things and brush them off because you didn't think you was serious. How many of you realized as you got older.
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Once upon a Time I was a 10-year-old child. I had no idea about perception.
I have always been told that I am larger than my peers are. I have always been told I look taller than my friends. I have always been told to not act like a child because people think I'm older. And I never really cared because I never really could see myself.
Once upon a Time when I was in fifth grade, 10 years old I looked down on myself and realized yeah they are right. From that day on I never liked being seen. I never liked knowing that people could see me I wanted to be invisible, without judgment, without fear.
From that day on I never really liked getting out of my room. Or being in public and I always second guessed everything I did. Based on the perception of being perceived.
Looking back at it I was normal physically. I wasn't as exaggerated as I thought I was. I have always had my growth accelerated. When I was 12 years old I was mistaken for an 18-year-old boy. In hindsight that was okay but as a child I wanted to be treated like everyone else I wanted to run around and be normal. But whenever I did that people will look at me weird and think why is this 20-year-old running around with children when I was just a child. My mom used to tell me before we go places in public to not run around and to sit down with her because people assume I'm older. People think I'm older because of my body. and people used to argue with me whenever I tell them my age as if they gave birth to me. when I tell them I'm 10 years old they look at me and disbelieve and say no you're not you're probably 15.
From that day on I started hiding my body wearing larger clothes to hide my disgusting body. Wanting larger clothes to hide myself in them. I thought I was I didn't know what I actually looked like because of all the judgment I thought my body was disgusting I still have problems with that. I didn't know it then but what I had was called body dysmorphia.
I always thought I was larger than I actually were. I used to wear this big ass jacket, made me comfortable the fact that people couldn't see me. Even if when it was inconvenient. even when the sun was out I always wore my jacket whenever I was outside people used to joke is it raining inside and I laughed and waved them off. I felt comfortable and the sad part is that shouldn't have been an issue for a 10 year old girl.
I wandered how many people feel like this. How many people were being shamed for their existence. And how many people experience body dysmorphia. How many people are lead to eating disorders. How many people have problems accepting love because they always assume people hate them. How many ignorant comments we make actually affect children and how they perceive themselves. How many times the love has been used as a reason for this hurtful comments. How many times has the meaning of love been warped and twisted to an extent that is unrecognizable. It's as if, if you're really love someone you can't really do any harm to them.
So my question is how many of you are suffering behind closed doors. How many of you experience these type of things and brush them off because you didn't think you was serious. How many of you realized as you got older.
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I say I don't mind long distance relationships ...bc I know I can't handle a normal one ... somebody close by to actually give a fuck about me ...I find it bizarre that you from far away even care I exist ....it's still a question to me how YOU found me interesting...maybe it's the well ingrained self worth issues rearing their heads up ...
I have a hard time loving myself some days ...so it's sort of an oddity that you do ... YOU love ME...
I honestly am scared ... Love is such a delicate thing ...and what if I break it ...what if I made you sad that you decided to love me ...what If I made you regret giving me the time of your day ....
What if what if what if ....with all the what ifs ...what scares me most is what if you were close by ...what if you saw me when I was mad ...or sad ...or hyper ...or depressed or anxious ....what if you were close by to see all this would you still care...
Relationships terrify me yet I want one so bad ...like in the movies ...like in songs ....like in history ...
I'm terrified bc I know I'm a bad person ...what if one day I get bored ...how do people do this ...stay together forever ...what's the key
What if one day YOU get bored ...this is less sad thou ....I'm used to rejection ....it's kinda my norm ...so it doesn't hurt as much
...what if one day I no longer feel love ... What if I'm just not made for love and meant to be alone ...
I can't human like any other human
They seem to have it all figured out ...
I like perceiving the world as an outsider looking in ....it makes more sense ...but I enter the equation I tend to ruin stuff
So I say I don't mind long distance relationships ...bc I know if you lived close I might ruin something.... something quite so delicate
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I say I don't mind long distance relationships ...bc I know I can't handle a normal one ... somebody close by to actually give a fuck about me ...I find it bizarre that you from far away even care I exist ....it's still a question to me how YOU found me interesting...maybe it's the well ingrained self worth issues rearing their heads up ...
I have a hard time loving myself some days ...so it's sort of an oddity that you do ... YOU love ME...
I honestly am scared ... Love is such a delicate thing ...and what if I break it ...what if I made you sad that you decided to love me ...what If I made you regret giving me the time of your day ....
What if what if what if ....with all the what ifs ...what scares me most is what if you were close by ...what if you saw me when I was mad ...or sad ...or hyper ...or depressed or anxious ....what if you were close by to see all this would you still care...
Relationships terrify me yet I want one so bad ...like in the movies ...like in songs ....like in history ...
I'm terrified bc I know I'm a bad person ...what if one day I get bored ...how do people do this ...stay together forever ...what's the key
What if one day YOU get bored ...this is less sad thou ....I'm used to rejection ....it's kinda my norm ...so it doesn't hurt as much
...what if one day I no longer feel love ... What if I'm just not made for love and meant to be alone ...
I can't human like any other human
They seem to have it all figured out ...
I like perceiving the world as an outsider looking in ....it makes more sense ...but I enter the equation I tend to ruin stuff
So I say I don't mind long distance relationships ...bc I know if you lived close I might ruin something.... something quite so delicate
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Second time venting with different issue so its about my little brother it started last year แ แฃแ แญแจแแแแ แ tv แตแ แฉแแแต แ แฝแณ แซแฌ แณแแแต แณแญแแแ แฉแแแดแ แ แแแ แฅแ แญแฐแแ แฐแแญ แแตแฅ แแจแคแต แจแแ แ แฝแณ แณแแ แจแฐแฃแ แฅแฑแ แณแญแแญ แซ แ แฝแณ แ แแแ แญแแ แฅแแ แซแแดแ แแแด แแ แแญแแซ แ แตแญแ แแแ แ แฝแณ แฅแแฐแแแ แต แฐแแแฎแณแ แจแ แแฐแแฐแ แแ แตแถแต แแ แญ แญแแแฑ แฐแแแ แฐแ แแแถ แญแแแฑ แแแฎแณแ แฅแแฐแ แแฑ แฅแแณแซแแ แฅแแซแแ แญแแแ แแแฅ แ แตแญแ แต แ แญแ แแ แฅแแ แแ แ แญแฐแแ แแฅแ แแแญ แซแณแตแ แแ แญแแแ แซแแ แณแ help me out what should i do for him am stressed แจแ แญแแ แฃแแแซ or แดแซแแตแต แจแแแฝแ แซแแฝแ แ แฐแแญ แจแแแณ give me advice thanks for ur time
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In short am 3rd year student & recently am having a hard time because of boys...like am best friend to them like them as a friend i like being wz them & spent ma bad & good times but i dont know y the hell they fall in love wz me...i hv feelings for some1 & they know too but still they love dont want to lose them but also i cant continue like this what should i do help me out???
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In short am 3rd year student & recently am having a hard time because of boys...like am best friend to them like them as a friend i like being wz them & spent ma bad & good times but i dont know y the hell they fall in love wz me...i hv feelings for some1 & they know too but still they love dont want to lose them but also i cant continue like this what should i do help me out???
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hello everyone hope u all r doing fine..there is a thing which has been making me feel down..which is i got a very handsome bf we have been together for about 4 months now z thing is he most of z times call me 'funga'n tho he compliments me with "emr blobshal" sometimes and he treats me well he even says zat am his wife everyone we meet while we r together he accepts me in public..so lets make this clear..am feeling bad these days when he calls me "funga" eventhough i beliebe amn't..am actually average looking..but am starting to doubt it these days..what would u do if u were in ma place? Thanks in advanceโบ๏ธ
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hello everyone hope u all r doing fine..there is a thing which has been making me feel down..which is i got a very handsome bf we have been together for about 4 months now z thing is he most of z times call me 'funga'n tho he compliments me with "emr blobshal" sometimes and he treats me well he even says zat am his wife everyone we meet while we r together he accepts me in public..so lets make this clear..am feeling bad these days when he calls me "funga" eventhough i beliebe amn't..am actually average looking..but am starting to doubt it these days..what would u do if u were in ma place? Thanks in advanceโบ๏ธ
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Hello everyone i hope you all are doing well so here is the thing this days I'm nat feeling okay what i feel is rly strange i don't even know what to call it but i feel like I'm paralyzed when I'm still walking i feel likecan't breathe like someone chocked me or sth eventho i look okay hate to say this but I'm in a deep pain and i would rly appreciate it if u consider helping me out i know i sound pathetic but I don't wanna be that depressed girl who nobody wants to be around and i can't even talk about my problem with my friends or family ๐๐๐๐
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Hello everyone i hope you all are doing well so here is the thing this days I'm nat feeling okay what i feel is rly strange i don't even know what to call it but i feel like I'm paralyzed when I'm still walking i feel likecan't breathe like someone chocked me or sth eventho i look okay hate to say this but I'm in a deep pain and i would rly appreciate it if u consider helping me out i know i sound pathetic but I don't wanna be that depressed girl who nobody wants to be around and i can't even talk about my problem with my friends or family ๐๐๐๐
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I know my question sounds dumb but I really want this to be approved cause the answer is gonna mean a lot to me and my faith too. My question is about God's goodness. Why let us be born if he knows that we are going to sin, if he knows that we are going to end up in hell?
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I know my question sounds dumb but I really want this to be approved cause the answer is gonna mean a lot to me and my faith too. My question is about God's goodness. Why let us be born if he knows that we are going to sin, if he knows that we are going to end up in hell?
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Hello everyone,
I'm 25yr old female. I want advice on, what does it mean to be a normal human being. My state of mind right now is that I'm a nobody, and it's not like am upset about it or anything, I'm rather neutral.
I don't seem to have any interest in trying to make connections, I don't seem to care about it though I'm well aware of the fact that humans always need humans to rely upon. I am literally a boring person, all about something that nobody gives a damn about, people are talking about my marriage, I don't have a problem I'm okay with it. But I haven't ever fallen in love or anything, it seems something hypothetical, I know I'm wrong but that's how I feel.
The thing is I don't have anything to offer, I mean what does a person see in another person so as to make that person it's significant other. I am not sad or anything, I am living, I will perhaps do something to earn after my studies are complete and perhaps I'll find a reason.
But what is this neutrality, am I losing something like the precious time with my family or perhaps somebody needs me but I'm just being a nobody and I don't know, what is this, I don't get it. What is it like to be a normal person?
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Hello everyone,
I'm 25yr old female. I want advice on, what does it mean to be a normal human being. My state of mind right now is that I'm a nobody, and it's not like am upset about it or anything, I'm rather neutral.
I don't seem to have any interest in trying to make connections, I don't seem to care about it though I'm well aware of the fact that humans always need humans to rely upon. I am literally a boring person, all about something that nobody gives a damn about, people are talking about my marriage, I don't have a problem I'm okay with it. But I haven't ever fallen in love or anything, it seems something hypothetical, I know I'm wrong but that's how I feel.
The thing is I don't have anything to offer, I mean what does a person see in another person so as to make that person it's significant other. I am not sad or anything, I am living, I will perhaps do something to earn after my studies are complete and perhaps I'll find a reason.
But what is this neutrality, am I losing something like the precious time with my family or perhaps somebody needs me but I'm just being a nobody and I don't know, what is this, I don't get it. What is it like to be a normal person?
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Good day everyone.... I'm a 19 year old student in need of help.... Financially my parents have been having issues and I tried getting a job but the pay barely helps, anytime I reach out online people assume I'm a scammer because I'm Nigerian.... I don't know what else to do... I'm not sure anyone cares or is even willing to help..... I'm thinking of deferring for a year to work.
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Good day everyone.... I'm a 19 year old student in need of help.... Financially my parents have been having issues and I tried getting a job but the pay barely helps, anytime I reach out online people assume I'm a scammer because I'm Nigerian.... I don't know what else to do... I'm not sure anyone cares or is even willing to help..... I'm thinking of deferring for a year to work.
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แฐแแ แคแ แญแตแฅแแ แแต แจ แฌแแต แแ แ แจแฐแฅ แค แฅแ แ แแ แ แฃแ แฅแซแจแแต แจแแฃแแต แจแแฃแแต แ แแแซแฝแ แแตแฅ แจ แแแแ แแ แ แแตแแแต แฅแ แ แฐแแญแ แแแฅแตแ (organised crime) แแฒแแฝแแ แ แตแแต แฅแแฐแ แจแแต แฅแแ แจแ แฅแจแฐแฐแฃแฝแ แฝแ แแแต แแญแแ แซแแแฐแณแฐแฅ แแแ แฅแตแชแฐแญแตแ แต แแ แแแต แจแฐแแแฐ แแแ แณแขแซ แฅแแตแแแซแญ แแแข แแผแ แจแแ แฅแญแแต แฐแแฃ แซแแแ แแญแ แคแฐแฐแฅ แแแฑ แแฐแแ แซแแแ แแ แจแแ แฅแ แฅแแฐ แตแแแต แแ แแแตแจแ แ แแฅแ แแญแแ แจแฅแแแแ แ แตแฐแณแฐแฅ แแแจแณแต แฅแ แ แแฅแณแ แแ แ แฐแแแแช แตแแถแปแฝแ แจแฝแแฉ แ แซแ แฅแแฐแแ แแแจแณแณแต แแแข แ แแฐแแแแ แธแญ แฅแแฐแแฅแตแข
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แฐแแ แคแ แญแตแฅแแ แแต แจ แฌแแต แแ แ แจแฐแฅ แค แฅแ แ แแ แ แฃแ แฅแซแจแแต แจแแฃแแต แจแแฃแแต แ แแแซแฝแ แแตแฅ แจ แแแแ แแ แ แแตแแแต แฅแ แ แฐแแญแ แแแฅแตแ (organised crime) แแฒแแฝแแ แ แตแแต แฅแแฐแ แจแแต แฅแแ แจแ แฅแจแฐแฐแฃแฝแ แฝแ แแแต แแญแแ แซแแแฐแณแฐแฅ แแแ แฅแตแชแฐแญแตแ แต แแ แแแต แจแฐแแแฐ แแแ แณแขแซ แฅแแตแแแซแญ แแแข แแผแ แจแแ แฅแญแแต แฐแแฃ แซแแแ แแญแ แคแฐแฐแฅ แแแฑ แแฐแแ แซแแแ แแ แจแแ แฅแ แฅแแฐ แตแแแต แแ แแแตแจแ แ แแฅแ แแญแแ แจแฅแแแแ แ แตแฐแณแฐแฅ แแแจแณแต แฅแ แ แแฅแณแ แแ แ แฐแแแแช แตแแถแปแฝแ แจแฝแแฉ แ แซแ แฅแแฐแแ แแแจแณแณแต แแแข แ แแฐแแแแ แธแญ แฅแแฐแแฅแตแข
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