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So here i am telling my problem to u people ,so i am getting married..........the problem is i want a simple thing as simple as it gets....like i want yamesk foto then go to mezegaja or kebele then meferaram then start my life .....i beleive the marriage is the important part not the wedding......and i presented this idea to my mom she flips she said u r my only daughter hw can u say this mnamn we will hv small ceremony(ik for fact it wob't be small) because it is my family i know hw it gets they want to party every moment wether it is graduation or wedding becha everything ......besnt cheqcheq i said ok only serg .........so for the serg eyatazagajan sala demo she want mels ......beqa yazane we fought for real she told me i should be thankfull i said .......dgs kamdegeshebat birrun sechegn let me start my life with it becha i am stressed betam hule chqchq hule kurfia newu i canot do this demo hule ........becha help me if u hv been in same situation
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So here i am telling my problem to u people ,so i am getting married..........the problem is i want a simple thing as simple as it gets....like i want yamesk foto then go to mezegaja or kebele then meferaram then start my life .....i beleive the marriage is the important part not the wedding......and i presented this idea to my mom she flips she said u r my only daughter hw can u say this mnamn we will hv small ceremony(ik for fact it wob't be small) because it is my family i know hw it gets they want to party every moment wether it is graduation or wedding becha everything ......besnt cheqcheq i said ok only serg .........so for the serg eyatazagajan sala demo she want mels ......beqa yazane we fought for real she told me i should be thankfull i said .......dgs kamdegeshebat birrun sechegn let me start my life with it becha i am stressed betam hule chqchq hule kurfia newu i canot do this demo hule ........becha help me if u hv been in same situation
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If there was ever one book (or books) you believe everyone should read in their life time what would it be?
It could be a spiritual, philosophical, psychological, historical, biographical, fictional, political, self help, or whatever.
I'm a 24yrd old man that truly hated reading till I gave it a try last year and It touched me. so I'm curious to know the variety of suggestions random people can recommend me.
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If there was ever one book (or books) you believe everyone should read in their life time what would it be?
It could be a spiritual, philosophical, psychological, historical, biographical, fictional, political, self help, or whatever.
I'm a 24yrd old man that truly hated reading till I gave it a try last year and It touched me. so I'm curious to know the variety of suggestions random people can recommend me.
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Hey guys, um 24 girl, the thing is why every guy want me for only sex, everyone i know want me for only sex, manem chegern lesemam mefeleg sw yelem manem meyaweragnem yelem plus sometimes i feel like mabed babechegnenet , um Orthodox but now god ale beye erasu meterater jemerku for real...
who um i, um i crazy or gena labed nw wayes zs feeling normal nw
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Hey guys, um 24 girl, the thing is why every guy want me for only sex, everyone i know want me for only sex, manem chegern lesemam mefeleg sw yelem manem meyaweragnem yelem plus sometimes i feel like mabed babechegnenet , um Orthodox but now god ale beye erasu meterater jemerku for real...
who um i, um i crazy or gena labed nw wayes zs feeling normal nw
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Hey guys so am just gone jump to my question . Am a girl 18 years old and this past couple of months I've been stressing a lot .Its about my weight i was okay with it malet yan yahl fat balhonem am starting to hate my body especially my ass i don't know whats happening to me but i'm getting insecure about my ass .dero dero menged lay sehed when people say some stuffs like ye yanchi becha nw weys... ????????♀ yaw enaded nbr keza i will forget it .gn nowadays sw kena belo siyayegn erasu they're going to say something about my ... beye i stressed a lot and i had this guy ena eskahun alaghegnehutm malet i know he won't say anything malet normal lihon yechlal le esu gnu bezu meknyat eyakerebku nw endalagegnew... and please guys help me out ????????????
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Hey guys so am just gone jump to my question . Am a girl 18 years old and this past couple of months I've been stressing a lot .Its about my weight i was okay with it malet yan yahl fat balhonem am starting to hate my body especially my ass i don't know whats happening to me but i'm getting insecure about my ass .dero dero menged lay sehed when people say some stuffs like ye yanchi becha nw weys... ????????♀ yaw enaded nbr keza i will forget it .gn nowadays sw kena belo siyayegn erasu they're going to say something about my ... beye i stressed a lot and i had this guy ena eskahun alaghegnehutm malet i know he won't say anything malet normal lihon yechlal le esu gnu bezu meknyat eyakerebku nw endalagegnew... and please guys help me out ????????????
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So I met this guy like 9 months ago in a taxi and I really liked him ..we exchanged numbers and stuff ...then we started talking on Facebook and telegram ...and we became friends one thing led to another we became intimate and he proposed me to be his girl and I accepted and we're in relationship now ...but ..funny thing is we never met but I love him he says he loves me to ...I really really wanna see him he says he does too but he never made it happen it's not like I'm accusing him of it but if all those weeks n months passed not once he had asked me to go out with him ...so I need ur help ...with what I should do to make him meet me ...and if u ask me where he is ...he is here in addis so is I....
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So I met this guy like 9 months ago in a taxi and I really liked him ..we exchanged numbers and stuff ...then we started talking on Facebook and telegram ...and we became friends one thing led to another we became intimate and he proposed me to be his girl and I accepted and we're in relationship now ...but ..funny thing is we never met but I love him he says he loves me to ...I really really wanna see him he says he does too but he never made it happen it's not like I'm accusing him of it but if all those weeks n months passed not once he had asked me to go out with him ...so I need ur help ...with what I should do to make him meet me ...and if u ask me where he is ...he is here in addis so is I....
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I just wanna say this isn't about having a big problem in my life. I just don't know where my life is going and if I'm gonna make it. I don't know if I'm gonna have a bright future. I dont know if this is anxiety but it's just so scary...
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I just wanna say this isn't about having a big problem in my life. I just don't know where my life is going and if I'm gonna make it. I don't know if I'm gonna have a bright future. I dont know if this is anxiety but it's just so scary...
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What am I doing with my life like honestly I'm I the only one feeling this way? Damn this days I just bing watch something and waste my life away. Uhhh please tell me a hobby I could do to at least get me up and going. Like anything please I'm desperate here
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What am I doing with my life like honestly I'm I the only one feeling this way? Damn this days I just bing watch something and waste my life away. Uhhh please tell me a hobby I could do to at least get me up and going. Like anything please I'm desperate here
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im burnedout
I have no motivation, its not that i think life is pointless (or do i)its just im too lazy and sad to try and thats not the only problem it gets worse cuz i also have anxiety
im not stable and i dont try, i cant concentrate
and not doing the main tasks im not even able to do high dopamine activities cuz im sinking into agony anxiety and hopelessness
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I have no motivation, its not that i think life is pointless (or do i)its just im too lazy and sad to try and thats not the only problem it gets worse cuz i also have anxiety
im not stable and i dont try, i cant concentrate
and not doing the main tasks im not even able to do high dopamine activities cuz im sinking into agony anxiety and hopelessness
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Same 23 year old dude from previous vent. I read my vent again and i understand how it could come off as being arrogant. I must admit my personality is a bit dickish to some people but that's only because i know EXACTLY what i want. But before you guys go off the rails again, let me assure you i loved her for her. I mentioned her flaws only because i don't see them as flaws. I hate perfect girls. Perfect girls are boring. She was edgy and i loved her for that. She was very hot but that wasn't what set her apart from the other girls. It is who she is as a woman. I loved her drive, her ambitions, and the way she carried herself. She always has her eyes set on the prize and would stop at nothing to get that. Nothing would make me happier than starting a life with her, and having her be my baby mama. We have talked about this endless times and she too wanted me to be her baby daddy. She was everything i could ask for, and more. She was my kind of perfect! I can't go into grave detail about why i think I'm the only one for her in a vent, but let's just say it's because i picked up on the subtleties others might have missed. She gets me. I get her. It's that simple. Our relationship was different. It was like us against the world and nothing could stop us. I am at a point in my life where getting into a rship is the hardest thing because if i decide to commit, it's only because I'm in it for the long haul. Looks isn't the most important thing for me. It's like a bonus to the amazing person that she is. Plus, she is just as cocky if not more. That is why it felt like we were two lost souls who finally found each other. Take this into consideration and give me advice on whether i should hit her up in a month to see where it goes. It's not going to be easy but that's a must. We both need to work on ourselves a bit and decide what's best for us. I am waiting because i love her, not on the contrary. Thank you.
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Same 23 year old dude from previous vent. I read my vent again and i understand how it could come off as being arrogant. I must admit my personality is a bit dickish to some people but that's only because i know EXACTLY what i want. But before you guys go off the rails again, let me assure you i loved her for her. I mentioned her flaws only because i don't see them as flaws. I hate perfect girls. Perfect girls are boring. She was edgy and i loved her for that. She was very hot but that wasn't what set her apart from the other girls. It is who she is as a woman. I loved her drive, her ambitions, and the way she carried herself. She always has her eyes set on the prize and would stop at nothing to get that. Nothing would make me happier than starting a life with her, and having her be my baby mama. We have talked about this endless times and she too wanted me to be her baby daddy. She was everything i could ask for, and more. She was my kind of perfect! I can't go into grave detail about why i think I'm the only one for her in a vent, but let's just say it's because i picked up on the subtleties others might have missed. She gets me. I get her. It's that simple. Our relationship was different. It was like us against the world and nothing could stop us. I am at a point in my life where getting into a rship is the hardest thing because if i decide to commit, it's only because I'm in it for the long haul. Looks isn't the most important thing for me. It's like a bonus to the amazing person that she is. Plus, she is just as cocky if not more. That is why it felt like we were two lost souls who finally found each other. Take this into consideration and give me advice on whether i should hit her up in a month to see where it goes. It's not going to be easy but that's a must. We both need to work on ourselves a bit and decide what's best for us. I am waiting because i love her, not on the contrary. Thank you.
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This is going to be Long so grab a sit & enjoy 😏😂 I feel like our generation's perceptions of a relationship are changing. The guys think that if you show your utmost care & compassion to the the girl she is there's. & they feel they are entitled to get the girl just cause they treated her nice.& when they reject them they feel bitter towards girls & some even try to act a certain way i.e,like a bad boy. What am saying is for guys & girls who are reading this Just do you,Try to be the best version of yourself,Try to improve as a human being & work on yourself. When the time comes & you want to pursue a relationship you would be confident & know what you want & what you want to settle for. So to wrap this up don't let one bad relationship change your whole outlook on men/women.
Stay blessed❤️
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This is going to be Long so grab a sit & enjoy 😏😂 I feel like our generation's perceptions of a relationship are changing. The guys think that if you show your utmost care & compassion to the the girl she is there's. & they feel they are entitled to get the girl just cause they treated her nice.& when they reject them they feel bitter towards girls & some even try to act a certain way i.e,like a bad boy. What am saying is for guys & girls who are reading this Just do you,Try to be the best version of yourself,Try to improve as a human being & work on yourself. When the time comes & you want to pursue a relationship you would be confident & know what you want & what you want to settle for. So to wrap this up don't let one bad relationship change your whole outlook on men/women.
Stay blessed❤️
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I am 18 and I have an older sister but she not like normal person and she have a mental problem am not sure but I think she she kinda have mental retardation which means she can't think critically so she have no friends to go out and have fun or something.so my probelm is my parents specially my dad always forcing me to take her out averytime I go out with my friends and that kinda bother me coze they are my friends not hers and since she is not normal people always asking some stupid question and am tired of trying to make them understand and also I am kinda "yabate lege" bezu geza erasu alwatame ena lana erasu wato magbate is strange thing to me. taking my older sister with me damo is another level.so I always arguing with him and he told me am selfish and bad person.did u think I am like that???
asbute esti she the older one and I am the youngest and he expect me to do a lot of things to her😔I don't even know how to take care and do things to my self.
so any advice.....
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I am 18 and I have an older sister but she not like normal person and she have a mental problem am not sure but I think she she kinda have mental retardation which means she can't think critically so she have no friends to go out and have fun or something.so my probelm is my parents specially my dad always forcing me to take her out averytime I go out with my friends and that kinda bother me coze they are my friends not hers and since she is not normal people always asking some stupid question and am tired of trying to make them understand and also I am kinda "yabate lege" bezu geza erasu alwatame ena lana erasu wato magbate is strange thing to me. taking my older sister with me damo is another level.so I always arguing with him and he told me am selfish and bad person.did u think I am like that???
asbute esti she the older one and I am the youngest and he expect me to do a lot of things to her😔I don't even know how to take care and do things to my self.
so any advice.....
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Hey guys hear me out.After this corona virus lockdown am facing a serious issue. I have been spending a lots of time at home and i was alone i didn't interact with people at all. And now after class started am sick about it when ever i go to class all i feel is nervous and throwing up. Everyday is hell for me. I get anxious when i talk with my friends. I was not like this at all before corona happened. If you guys know whats going on with me please help me out.
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Hey guys hear me out.After this corona virus lockdown am facing a serious issue. I have been spending a lots of time at home and i was alone i didn't interact with people at all. And now after class started am sick about it when ever i go to class all i feel is nervous and throwing up. Everyday is hell for me. I get anxious when i talk with my friends. I was not like this at all before corona happened. If you guys know whats going on with me please help me out.
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Why does everything go bad for me.. I can't be happy just for a split of a second... it always has been like this ..i accepted that i might just have a little bit of a bad luck but it wasn't that much I couldn't gotten over ....but now it has grown in folds i thought it was cause of something from me so i tried changing every bad thing i could think of but no no no it doesn't matter the world has something else planned for me...i lose on life's every lottery a family with no love between parents...my parents cursing on me and my brother for being born..i handled that like a champ but again the outside world is a lot, now u might think it's all about relationships and real friendships but no that's another conversation..never really had both of them but it's not about that every great opportunity that i get has a thousand times bad thing attached to it.. I can't even express it without telling the whole thing so I can't do that...u might think that I'm just exaggerating or I'm an asshole and this is my payback but no I'm not that kinda guy.... to even say this today it's not one bad day that made me write this i have been brewing this for a lot of years...becha and ken yehone dena neger yefeteral eyalku enoralew enji I haven't enjoyed life till now...
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Why does everything go bad for me.. I can't be happy just for a split of a second... it always has been like this ..i accepted that i might just have a little bit of a bad luck but it wasn't that much I couldn't gotten over ....but now it has grown in folds i thought it was cause of something from me so i tried changing every bad thing i could think of but no no no it doesn't matter the world has something else planned for me...i lose on life's every lottery a family with no love between parents...my parents cursing on me and my brother for being born..i handled that like a champ but again the outside world is a lot, now u might think it's all about relationships and real friendships but no that's another conversation..never really had both of them but it's not about that every great opportunity that i get has a thousand times bad thing attached to it.. I can't even express it without telling the whole thing so I can't do that...u might think that I'm just exaggerating or I'm an asshole and this is my payback but no I'm not that kinda guy.... to even say this today it's not one bad day that made me write this i have been brewing this for a lot of years...becha and ken yehone dena neger yefeteral eyalku enoralew enji I haven't enjoyed life till now...
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To All The Teens and Members On Their Early 20s
Do Not Prematurly Optimize, NOW Is Not The Time For You to Pick a Lane & Go Hard In It or Find That Perfect One Who is Gonna Rock Your Soul And Have That Perfect Family That You Always Dreamt Of, Now Is The Time To Play, Explore, Be Joyful & Explore What You're Supposed to Do, Later When You Identified Your Lane Then You Go Hard in That Direction, DO NOT Be Afraid To Be Lost For a While, Don't Be Afraid To Play Around, Be Aimless, Fail, Get Faded or Get Your Heart Broken, a Dog Always Finds His Way Home, You Don't Discover If You Don't Explore.
There Is Something That Has Gotten To Our Culture, Where Our Society Has Gotten Lost to It, People Has Different Meaning To This Word "Culture", Group Of Peoples Create Their Own Culture,Generations Create Their Own Culture, and a Person Creates its Own Culture, Never Get Lost In Anybodys Theory, Do You, Be You, Create Your Own Fantasy World, What Worked 10 Years Ago Might Not Work Today, There Is No Rule To This Life Create Your Own.
Take That Unsupervised Play Time and Go Do Something Crazy, Go Find Yourself Doing The Wildest Thing That You Always Wants To Do Like WHATEVER !
Don't Try To Prematurly Optimize & Drive Yourself to an Early GRAVE.
If The Person You Look Up To Can Do It You Can Do it Too ! Anybody Can Do It ! You Have No Idea The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind, So at Any Point You Can Decide ahh ! I Know What I Wanna Do Then You Put All Your Time and Energy Into It, NOW IS NOT THE TIME FOR OBSESSION. What Refuse To Love You Back Will Get Relaced By a Better One, What Has Been Making Your Head Felt Like a Stove Top Will Make You Smile, What You Felt Is Impossible Would Become Something You Can Do With a Snap Of Finger. Again Don't Be Afraid To Explore, Fail Over & Over and DISCOVER (& This Is The Time To Fail, Get Outta Your Comfort Zone & Stop Playing It Safe You Only Fail When You Stop Trying)
This is @McKaLiii a Psychologist, Feel Free To Inbox Me, Im Willing To Offer My Service For Free ! To Who Ever Needs It.
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To All The Teens and Members On Their Early 20s
Do Not Prematurly Optimize, NOW Is Not The Time For You to Pick a Lane & Go Hard In It or Find That Perfect One Who is Gonna Rock Your Soul And Have That Perfect Family That You Always Dreamt Of, Now Is The Time To Play, Explore, Be Joyful & Explore What You're Supposed to Do, Later When You Identified Your Lane Then You Go Hard in That Direction, DO NOT Be Afraid To Be Lost For a While, Don't Be Afraid To Play Around, Be Aimless, Fail, Get Faded or Get Your Heart Broken, a Dog Always Finds His Way Home, You Don't Discover If You Don't Explore.
There Is Something That Has Gotten To Our Culture, Where Our Society Has Gotten Lost to It, People Has Different Meaning To This Word "Culture", Group Of Peoples Create Their Own Culture,Generations Create Their Own Culture, and a Person Creates its Own Culture, Never Get Lost In Anybodys Theory, Do You, Be You, Create Your Own Fantasy World, What Worked 10 Years Ago Might Not Work Today, There Is No Rule To This Life Create Your Own.
Take That Unsupervised Play Time and Go Do Something Crazy, Go Find Yourself Doing The Wildest Thing That You Always Wants To Do Like WHATEVER !
Don't Try To Prematurly Optimize & Drive Yourself to an Early GRAVE.
If The Person You Look Up To Can Do It You Can Do it Too ! Anybody Can Do It ! You Have No Idea The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind, So at Any Point You Can Decide ahh ! I Know What I Wanna Do Then You Put All Your Time and Energy Into It, NOW IS NOT THE TIME FOR OBSESSION. What Refuse To Love You Back Will Get Relaced By a Better One, What Has Been Making Your Head Felt Like a Stove Top Will Make You Smile, What You Felt Is Impossible Would Become Something You Can Do With a Snap Of Finger. Again Don't Be Afraid To Explore, Fail Over & Over and DISCOVER (& This Is The Time To Fail, Get Outta Your Comfort Zone & Stop Playing It Safe You Only Fail When You Stop Trying)
This is @McKaLiii a Psychologist, Feel Free To Inbox Me, Im Willing To Offer My Service For Free ! To Who Ever Needs It.
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Greetings to the worlddd🌏
😃😃😃😃yo yo yo yo yall you've already made it,finally you broke🤝 through it all and guess who finally took that fine piece breath !..
Ik ...its the human nature ,emotion and curiousity that makes this 🧠 pink or wt ever coloured cake debate with ❤️ this other beautiful creation ,well believed to be called the heart😅 ..uve finally managed and uve finally got the all fought for answer that no matter what ever be the 🌌universe got swaying your way through nature, through spirit or through information , YOU GOT AROUND ITTTT ....you prepared and beared all the moments to manage ur self by self awareness,self respect, selfcare, selfdiscipline and self love to YOUR SELF
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE BROTHER👊
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE SISTER 🤗
NOTHING ELSE MATTERS AS LONG AS U SURVIVE AND THANK YOUR EXISTANCE AND YOUR CREATOR WHEN YOUR SOUL IS IN THE FLOW🌊
That's why most love the saying
eat -pray -love
Protect yo self's yall and keep that thang beatin❤️🥳 and enjoy this one way ticket journey dawwg ....in and out the rest is to rest in peace with a calm mind and heart....make sure yall pay your self the time you deserve. for all we know time is that one expensive thing .
BEYOND ALL self relationship MATTERS ABOVE ALL CUZ WITHOUTCHA your world doen matter to en bode .....we all forget
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I'm spreading love after a 8 years time of depression and stress.... take it from me ...what ur mind attends ur future pretends and then attains ....
🤟peace out travelling companions!!!
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Greetings to the worlddd🌏
😃😃😃😃yo yo yo yo yall you've already made it,finally you broke🤝 through it all and guess who finally took that fine piece breath !..
Ik ...its the human nature ,emotion and curiousity that makes this 🧠 pink or wt ever coloured cake debate with ❤️ this other beautiful creation ,well believed to be called the heart😅 ..uve finally managed and uve finally got the all fought for answer that no matter what ever be the 🌌universe got swaying your way through nature, through spirit or through information , YOU GOT AROUND ITTTT ....you prepared and beared all the moments to manage ur self by self awareness,self respect, selfcare, selfdiscipline and self love to YOUR SELF
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE BROTHER👊
YOU DESERVE A BIG ONE SISTER 🤗
NOTHING ELSE MATTERS AS LONG AS U SURVIVE AND THANK YOUR EXISTANCE AND YOUR CREATOR WHEN YOUR SOUL IS IN THE FLOW🌊
That's why most love the saying
eat -pray -love
Protect yo self's yall and keep that thang beatin❤️🥳 and enjoy this one way ticket journey dawwg ....in and out the rest is to rest in peace with a calm mind and heart....make sure yall pay your self the time you deserve. for all we know time is that one expensive thing .
BEYOND ALL self relationship MATTERS ABOVE ALL CUZ WITHOUTCHA your world doen matter to en bode .....we all forget
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I'm spreading love after a 8 years time of depression and stress.... take it from me ...what ur mind attends ur future pretends and then attains ....
🤟peace out travelling companions!!!
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so, I don't know where to start.
I am a fresh graduate, not even couple of weeks after graduation. but here is the thing I didn't graduate I have 2 F there making me effectively unable to graduate because of that. This one might come as a surprise but I didn't want to graduate at all you might think that might be because I enjoyed the university life. on the contrary I despised every second of it. all I want is to work by myself and figure things out by myself I don't even want to be hired add to that I have a girl best friend and we close real close and I told her that I liked her but she said that we shouldn't be together as that might mess the balance of our bond I agreed, but then she starts telling me that we might have a chance of being together but earlier today we had a plan together but she told that she couldn't make it cause, guess what? she has a date with someone else. that kinda pissed me of for a second but does that mean I can go on dates with other girls? not that I want a relationship or anything though, so what should I do about my stubbornness to get a job or the fact that I don't want to fix my F's by going back. and is it normal to not want a relationship? I was willing with that girl but even when she told me we had a chance I didn't want now you might think it's cause she is leaving me but it was long before that .......
and add to that my psychiatrist said that I apparently has
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fear of commitment and a whole lots of things, so tell me wtf should I do?
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so, I don't know where to start.
I am a fresh graduate, not even couple of weeks after graduation. but here is the thing I didn't graduate I have 2 F there making me effectively unable to graduate because of that. This one might come as a surprise but I didn't want to graduate at all you might think that might be because I enjoyed the university life. on the contrary I despised every second of it. all I want is to work by myself and figure things out by myself I don't even want to be hired add to that I have a girl best friend and we close real close and I told her that I liked her but she said that we shouldn't be together as that might mess the balance of our bond I agreed, but then she starts telling me that we might have a chance of being together but earlier today we had a plan together but she told that she couldn't make it cause, guess what? she has a date with someone else. that kinda pissed me of for a second but does that mean I can go on dates with other girls? not that I want a relationship or anything though, so what should I do about my stubbornness to get a job or the fact that I don't want to fix my F's by going back. and is it normal to not want a relationship? I was willing with that girl but even when she told me we had a chance I didn't want now you might think it's cause she is leaving me but it was long before that .......
and add to that my psychiatrist said that I apparently has
self sabotaging characteristics
fear of commitment and a whole lots of things, so tell me wtf should I do?
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am Jarvis
I need to vent
Those who have the sword and know how to use it but choose to keep it sheathed will inherit the world, says the Bible. That is the individual I'm trying to be. I want to know how to use that sword. I Don't want to inflict pain on others but if it comes to that I want to be in a position where I'm not the prey.
I don't want to be harmless. I want to be capable of being a monster but only when I need to for a harmless man is not a good man, a good man is a very dangerous man but chooses to keep his urges to be violent under voulantary control. That's the path I want to walk on. That's who I want to be. But I'm meek. I have a limited life experience.
I am on this journey because someone in my life caused me a great deal of pain. I hate to admit it but whether I like it or not some people have the power to alter my life once they have entered. They do this in a way that their actions trigger emotions with in me. They determine whether I feel resentment, vengeance, rage or love. I don't want people to have this power over me. Or is this a pipe dream? After all I can't be indifferent to what people think of me for I am a social being. If I can't defend my self at least I want to make them feel resentment, vengefulness, rage and love if the situation calls for it.
How do I go from this meek persona of mine to the individual I disire to be?
Vent Here
I am Jarvis
I need to vent
Those who have the sword and know how to use it but choose to keep it sheathed will inherit the world, says the Bible. That is the individual I'm trying to be. I want to know how to use that sword. I Don't want to inflict pain on others but if it comes to that I want to be in a position where I'm not the prey.
I don't want to be harmless. I want to be capable of being a monster but only when I need to for a harmless man is not a good man, a good man is a very dangerous man but chooses to keep his urges to be violent under voulantary control. That's the path I want to walk on. That's who I want to be. But I'm meek. I have a limited life experience.
I am on this journey because someone in my life caused me a great deal of pain. I hate to admit it but whether I like it or not some people have the power to alter my life once they have entered. They do this in a way that their actions trigger emotions with in me. They determine whether I feel resentment, vengeance, rage or love. I don't want people to have this power over me. Or is this a pipe dream? After all I can't be indifferent to what people think of me for I am a social being. If I can't defend my self at least I want to make them feel resentment, vengefulness, rage and love if the situation calls for it.
How do I go from this meek persona of mine to the individual I disire to be?
Vent Here
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Hello everyone m a guy. 25 yrs old. Soon to b graduated. M a civil engineering student. I had good grades on the first year but then i failed. Failed really hard.bottom line, i dont have good grade. M always on my toe around my family. They see me a failure but wht i think is, If i manage to have a good life, It will b alright. I cant even say my opinion eko cuz thy bring up something related to grade n shut me up. My little sister is heard more than me. They see her as the queen. I was smart too but at some point i lost my track. The whole point of the vent is there anyone one who went through what m going n can give me an advice if i can survive n have job with low grade? Or is there no future for me? Thank you in advance n sorry for this long ass vent.
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I need to vent
Hello everyone m a guy. 25 yrs old. Soon to b graduated. M a civil engineering student. I had good grades on the first year but then i failed. Failed really hard.bottom line, i dont have good grade. M always on my toe around my family. They see me a failure but wht i think is, If i manage to have a good life, It will b alright. I cant even say my opinion eko cuz thy bring up something related to grade n shut me up. My little sister is heard more than me. They see her as the queen. I was smart too but at some point i lost my track. The whole point of the vent is there anyone one who went through what m going n can give me an advice if i can survive n have job with low grade? Or is there no future for me? Thank you in advance n sorry for this long ass vent.
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Okey this is gonna be one of the weirdest vents I think. The thing is I am attracted to girls who are older than me...I always fantasize being with an older mature woman who can teach me, advise me and also give me a sexual experience...I am a 24 yrs old virgin guy btw ...& I don't how to find and talk to with those kind of woman...and don't mistake my inclination with an interest on sugar mmy thing...I hate that thing...all I want is to be with a woman who is older than me and to be friends with her, talk about life, discuss about intellectual things, and also if possible to have my first physical experience...so what do you say about this (specially girls and boys who have been in relationship with an older woman than u)
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Okey this is gonna be one of the weirdest vents I think. The thing is I am attracted to girls who are older than me...I always fantasize being with an older mature woman who can teach me, advise me and also give me a sexual experience...I am a 24 yrs old virgin guy btw ...& I don't how to find and talk to with those kind of woman...and don't mistake my inclination with an interest on sugar mmy thing...I hate that thing...all I want is to be with a woman who is older than me and to be friends with her, talk about life, discuss about intellectual things, and also if possible to have my first physical experience...so what do you say about this (specially girls and boys who have been in relationship with an older woman than u)
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Once upon a Time I was a 10-year-old child. I had no idea about perception.
I have always been told that I am larger than my peers are. I have always been told I look taller than my friends. I have always been told to not act like a child because people think I'm older. And I never really cared because I never really could see myself.
Once upon a Time when I was in fifth grade, 10 years old I looked down on myself and realized yeah they are right. From that day on I never liked being seen. I never liked knowing that people could see me I wanted to be invisible, without judgment, without fear.
From that day on I never really liked getting out of my room. Or being in public and I always second guessed everything I did. Based on the perception of being perceived.
Looking back at it I was normal physically. I wasn't as exaggerated as I thought I was. I have always had my growth accelerated. When I was 12 years old I was mistaken for an 18-year-old boy. In hindsight that was okay but as a child I wanted to be treated like everyone else I wanted to run around and be normal. But whenever I did that people will look at me weird and think why is this 20-year-old running around with children when I was just a child. My mom used to tell me before we go places in public to not run around and to sit down with her because people assume I'm older. People think I'm older because of my body. and people used to argue with me whenever I tell them my age as if they gave birth to me. when I tell them I'm 10 years old they look at me and disbelieve and say no you're not you're probably 15.
From that day on I started hiding my body wearing larger clothes to hide my disgusting body. Wanting larger clothes to hide myself in them. I thought I was I didn't know what I actually looked like because of all the judgment I thought my body was disgusting I still have problems with that. I didn't know it then but what I had was called body dysmorphia.
I always thought I was larger than I actually were. I used to wear this big ass jacket, made me comfortable the fact that people couldn't see me. Even if when it was inconvenient. even when the sun was out I always wore my jacket whenever I was outside people used to joke is it raining inside and I laughed and waved them off. I felt comfortable and the sad part is that shouldn't have been an issue for a 10 year old girl.
I wandered how many people feel like this. How many people were being shamed for their existence. And how many people experience body dysmorphia. How many people are lead to eating disorders. How many people have problems accepting love because they always assume people hate them. How many ignorant comments we make actually affect children and how they perceive themselves. How many times the love has been used as a reason for this hurtful comments. How many times has the meaning of love been warped and twisted to an extent that is unrecognizable. It's as if, if you're really love someone you can't really do any harm to them.
So my question is how many of you are suffering behind closed doors. How many of you experience these type of things and brush them off because you didn't think you was serious. How many of you realized as you got older.
Vent Here
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
Once upon a Time I was a 10-year-old child. I had no idea about perception.
I have always been told that I am larger than my peers are. I have always been told I look taller than my friends. I have always been told to not act like a child because people think I'm older. And I never really cared because I never really could see myself.
Once upon a Time when I was in fifth grade, 10 years old I looked down on myself and realized yeah they are right. From that day on I never liked being seen. I never liked knowing that people could see me I wanted to be invisible, without judgment, without fear.
From that day on I never really liked getting out of my room. Or being in public and I always second guessed everything I did. Based on the perception of being perceived.
Looking back at it I was normal physically. I wasn't as exaggerated as I thought I was. I have always had my growth accelerated. When I was 12 years old I was mistaken for an 18-year-old boy. In hindsight that was okay but as a child I wanted to be treated like everyone else I wanted to run around and be normal. But whenever I did that people will look at me weird and think why is this 20-year-old running around with children when I was just a child. My mom used to tell me before we go places in public to not run around and to sit down with her because people assume I'm older. People think I'm older because of my body. and people used to argue with me whenever I tell them my age as if they gave birth to me. when I tell them I'm 10 years old they look at me and disbelieve and say no you're not you're probably 15.
From that day on I started hiding my body wearing larger clothes to hide my disgusting body. Wanting larger clothes to hide myself in them. I thought I was I didn't know what I actually looked like because of all the judgment I thought my body was disgusting I still have problems with that. I didn't know it then but what I had was called body dysmorphia.
I always thought I was larger than I actually were. I used to wear this big ass jacket, made me comfortable the fact that people couldn't see me. Even if when it was inconvenient. even when the sun was out I always wore my jacket whenever I was outside people used to joke is it raining inside and I laughed and waved them off. I felt comfortable and the sad part is that shouldn't have been an issue for a 10 year old girl.
I wandered how many people feel like this. How many people were being shamed for their existence. And how many people experience body dysmorphia. How many people are lead to eating disorders. How many people have problems accepting love because they always assume people hate them. How many ignorant comments we make actually affect children and how they perceive themselves. How many times the love has been used as a reason for this hurtful comments. How many times has the meaning of love been warped and twisted to an extent that is unrecognizable. It's as if, if you're really love someone you can't really do any harm to them.
So my question is how many of you are suffering behind closed doors. How many of you experience these type of things and brush them off because you didn't think you was serious. How many of you realized as you got older.
Vent Here
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