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So why did the ebs host need to apologise I don't get it ? Jesus was born human and every human inherited sin from Adam and Eve so if that's the case jesus was born from merry he was sinful because he inherited the same sin from Adam and Eve that's why he got baptized the god himself acknowledged jesus christ as his rightfull son infront of john " Jesus came to John the Baptist while he was baptising people in the River Jordan. John tried to make him change his mind, but Jesus answered, βIn this way we will do all that God requires.β So John agreed. As soon as Jesus was baptised, he came up out of the water. Heaven was opened and he saw the spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. Then a voice said from heaven, βThis is my own dear son with whom I am pleased.β" so until then jesus had the sin nature and after the baptism jesus became absolute and became the savior we all know . Try to read the Bible before criticizing and insulting other people.... christianity is not about insults and make people regret what they believe y'all should be ashamed. We listen to the priests too much instead of reading for ourselves that's our problem. how long are we going to harass others for what they believe ?
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So why did the ebs host need to apologise I don't get it ? Jesus was born human and every human inherited sin from Adam and Eve so if that's the case jesus was born from merry he was sinful because he inherited the same sin from Adam and Eve that's why he got baptized the god himself acknowledged jesus christ as his rightfull son infront of john " Jesus came to John the Baptist while he was baptising people in the River Jordan. John tried to make him change his mind, but Jesus answered, βIn this way we will do all that God requires.β So John agreed. As soon as Jesus was baptised, he came up out of the water. Heaven was opened and he saw the spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. Then a voice said from heaven, βThis is my own dear son with whom I am pleased.β" so until then jesus had the sin nature and after the baptism jesus became absolute and became the savior we all know . Try to read the Bible before criticizing and insulting other people.... christianity is not about insults and make people regret what they believe y'all should be ashamed. We listen to the priests too much instead of reading for ourselves that's our problem. how long are we going to harass others for what they believe ?
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This is my 2nd time trying to vent. Hello i am a guy, 22 my problem is i don't usually get the type of girl that i want i always dream of having a dominant type of female like i love when a girl is dominant and is there any type of help i can get from you guys?
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This is my 2nd time trying to vent. Hello i am a guy, 22 my problem is i don't usually get the type of girl that i want i always dream of having a dominant type of female like i love when a girl is dominant and is there any type of help i can get from you guys?
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I'm a girl...and this is gonna be long asf.
I'm an introvert, betam shy in person(textrovert), insecure about my whole body, gets self conscious if a person stares at me for a beat longer and i hate the outside.
Like I hate the outside so much, my mom tells me to 'go out n have fun esti'πand I refuse.
Bcha I'm getting older(I'm 19) and I get that I'm going to have to start socializing and shit(π¬) but I don't even know the basic stuff. I get anxious whenever I even think about going out with friends or on a date mnamn. Like what do we talk about? If we're gonna eat, what do I order? And who pays? Where r we going? (I don't like fancy places and expensive stuff mnamn, i just wanna live simple and be happy) Do we kiss? (I've been in relationships and made out n stuff but not knowing just unnerves me) Like I need to have each and every action figured out before I even go there and doing that just gives me headaches and i drop the whole meeting up thing. And I don't know how to stop thatπ³.
Ohhh and the 'what do I wear?' StuffππΎi don't sleep the whole night think about that. I like to wear comfortable clothes and I feel like guys want me to dress fancy or sexy and I HATE thatπ
I'm the calm and quiet type of person and I don't jump around and be free around other people...I'm betam collected. I'm in my head even when there is company..I think weird thoughts ,like, I'd be sittin with someone and two flies land on the table n do stuffπ and in my head, I'm like, so do u love her or is this just a 'satisfying my needs' thing? U gonna ignore her n do u your own thing after?
I have a whole world in my head and I'm sooo used to living that, that I'm scared to leave that n start living in the real world now. The real world sucksπlike, people, I can't flyπ³
Bchaa I don't even know what I'm asking u guysπ just say something, I guess. Or maybe I'm just writing all this to hear(read) myself talkπ€idk...thanks anywayπ
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I'm a girl...and this is gonna be long asf.
I'm an introvert, betam shy in person(textrovert), insecure about my whole body, gets self conscious if a person stares at me for a beat longer and i hate the outside.
Like I hate the outside so much, my mom tells me to 'go out n have fun esti'πand I refuse.
Bcha I'm getting older(I'm 19) and I get that I'm going to have to start socializing and shit(π¬) but I don't even know the basic stuff. I get anxious whenever I even think about going out with friends or on a date mnamn. Like what do we talk about? If we're gonna eat, what do I order? And who pays? Where r we going? (I don't like fancy places and expensive stuff mnamn, i just wanna live simple and be happy) Do we kiss? (I've been in relationships and made out n stuff but not knowing just unnerves me) Like I need to have each and every action figured out before I even go there and doing that just gives me headaches and i drop the whole meeting up thing. And I don't know how to stop thatπ³.
Ohhh and the 'what do I wear?' StuffππΎi don't sleep the whole night think about that. I like to wear comfortable clothes and I feel like guys want me to dress fancy or sexy and I HATE thatπ
I'm the calm and quiet type of person and I don't jump around and be free around other people...I'm betam collected. I'm in my head even when there is company..I think weird thoughts ,like, I'd be sittin with someone and two flies land on the table n do stuffπ and in my head, I'm like, so do u love her or is this just a 'satisfying my needs' thing? U gonna ignore her n do u your own thing after?
I have a whole world in my head and I'm sooo used to living that, that I'm scared to leave that n start living in the real world now. The real world sucksπlike, people, I can't flyπ³
Bchaa I don't even know what I'm asking u guysπ just say something, I guess. Or maybe I'm just writing all this to hear(read) myself talkπ€idk...thanks anywayπ
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This is going to be a really long message but please hear me out. Those of you who are going to get married, those of you who plan to eventually get married this concerns you. I am a just a guy in an almost broken up house hold and this is my message. Before you get married α°α αα i know some people use this as an excuse for pushing time away but you need to do it. Live together for a while. See what both of you would do in good and bad times be it economically, health wise, or even in just bad times see what would you do if you happen to make better money than before and how your behaviour would change. How you act around people and your partner. Before jumping into marriages plan your family together how many kids you want, what kind of place you want to live in, how you want to parent your kids and so on. For the sake of your kids, you don't want them to go through hell. You don't want them to live in a dysfunctional household where there are fights every day, you don't want them to hate holidays because their mom is always in the kitchen to avoid fighting with your dad, you don't want them to live in a house which will eventually be sold after the divorce, you don't want them to contemplate suicide, you don't want them to try to break up fights between you two and get hurt, you don't want them to worry that there is a fight everytime you two speak loudly, you don't want them to loose hope in getting married and start a family because they think they will end up like their parents. And those of you who already got married and are not in a good place if it doesn't work it doesn't work, it is better to end up devorced than to live in suffering. Living together while hating each other is NOT better than divorce. If it has to end it has to end. For those of you who are living in this type of house hold don't loose hope. Focus on your education and get yourselves out of that house and start your family where you learned from mistakes your parents done.
P.S for the ladies please have an income before you get into a marriage(or even after) if you have an income you can survive lots of things.
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This is going to be a really long message but please hear me out. Those of you who are going to get married, those of you who plan to eventually get married this concerns you. I am a just a guy in an almost broken up house hold and this is my message. Before you get married α°α αα i know some people use this as an excuse for pushing time away but you need to do it. Live together for a while. See what both of you would do in good and bad times be it economically, health wise, or even in just bad times see what would you do if you happen to make better money than before and how your behaviour would change. How you act around people and your partner. Before jumping into marriages plan your family together how many kids you want, what kind of place you want to live in, how you want to parent your kids and so on. For the sake of your kids, you don't want them to go through hell. You don't want them to live in a dysfunctional household where there are fights every day, you don't want them to hate holidays because their mom is always in the kitchen to avoid fighting with your dad, you don't want them to live in a house which will eventually be sold after the divorce, you don't want them to contemplate suicide, you don't want them to try to break up fights between you two and get hurt, you don't want them to worry that there is a fight everytime you two speak loudly, you don't want them to loose hope in getting married and start a family because they think they will end up like their parents. And those of you who already got married and are not in a good place if it doesn't work it doesn't work, it is better to end up devorced than to live in suffering. Living together while hating each other is NOT better than divorce. If it has to end it has to end. For those of you who are living in this type of house hold don't loose hope. Focus on your education and get yourselves out of that house and start your family where you learned from mistakes your parents done.
P.S for the ladies please have an income before you get into a marriage(or even after) if you have an income you can survive lots of things.
Thank you so much for reading this far.
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Hello guys so I am a 22 yo girl please I need your opinion so I had a bf for about 4 yrs but we started spending less time together once the pandemic hit. Eventually there was a disagreement between us that we decided to break up. Like I loved him sooo much but I was having a bad day at home when he said some words which made me even more sad. I am a crybaby. After the break up now, like I have been sick for months I dont eat and I am like always sick I get even worse when I take medicines like I lived with medicines for months now for a disease I dont know what it is. Just I feel myself burning. That was when I went to my parents and begged them to send me abroad. Like they agreed finally and I started the process. I felt like I would forget him once I stay far from him. I had a hope that I would heal. But then again a few weeks ago I met this boy on somewhere we were both supposed to be at. Like he treated me as he always did like before break up. Disclaimer: I am the type of girl who doesnt like to talk straight forward about smtn. Be that as it may, I cannot like forget about him now that I met him. I sometimes think should I let go of everything and tell him the truth apologize, leave evrtn and be with him....but then again how about my parents they have got to know I am hurt becoz of smtn and spent a lot of money to send me abroad what should I do please I need advice.
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Hello guys so I am a 22 yo girl please I need your opinion so I had a bf for about 4 yrs but we started spending less time together once the pandemic hit. Eventually there was a disagreement between us that we decided to break up. Like I loved him sooo much but I was having a bad day at home when he said some words which made me even more sad. I am a crybaby. After the break up now, like I have been sick for months I dont eat and I am like always sick I get even worse when I take medicines like I lived with medicines for months now for a disease I dont know what it is. Just I feel myself burning. That was when I went to my parents and begged them to send me abroad. Like they agreed finally and I started the process. I felt like I would forget him once I stay far from him. I had a hope that I would heal. But then again a few weeks ago I met this boy on somewhere we were both supposed to be at. Like he treated me as he always did like before break up. Disclaimer: I am the type of girl who doesnt like to talk straight forward about smtn. Be that as it may, I cannot like forget about him now that I met him. I sometimes think should I let go of everything and tell him the truth apologize, leave evrtn and be with him....but then again how about my parents they have got to know I am hurt becoz of smtn and spent a lot of money to send me abroad what should I do please I need advice.
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Hey guys I am girl 20 and the thing is I have boyfriend really good in all things and caring.but my problem is that my feeling change in all days like someday I love him so much that I can't imagine my life without him and other day I feel bored and regret to be with him so how can I know what's going in me what is this feeling help guys ?? thanks for reading
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Hey guys I am girl 20 and the thing is I have boyfriend really good in all things and caring.but my problem is that my feeling change in all days like someday I love him so much that I can't imagine my life without him and other day I feel bored and regret to be with him so how can I know what's going in me what is this feeling help guys ?? thanks for reading
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This is my second vent here this is a question more for the guys idk becha here goes....
So like theres this dude I know and we are friends I guess.. that's what I'm trying to convince myself hehe. And we went on a trip with friends together and we had lots of fun we ate, drank, danced all that and I just discovered that I had a crush on him. I mean he was tryna make me laugh all the way he held my stuff for me he opened doors too and even gave me his jacket when I was cold. Everyone else was like these people are in a relationship lol and we decided to play along with it acting like we're a real couple. The trip happened over a month or two ago and we've called each other multiple times and like he really makes me laugh and I love his personality. But like how do I know if he likes me back? And I dont want to tell him I like him I dknt have that type of confidence lol anyway boys help me and girls tell me what I should do too. Thanksπ€β€οΈ
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This is my second vent here this is a question more for the guys idk becha here goes....
So like theres this dude I know and we are friends I guess.. that's what I'm trying to convince myself hehe. And we went on a trip with friends together and we had lots of fun we ate, drank, danced all that and I just discovered that I had a crush on him. I mean he was tryna make me laugh all the way he held my stuff for me he opened doors too and even gave me his jacket when I was cold. Everyone else was like these people are in a relationship lol and we decided to play along with it acting like we're a real couple. The trip happened over a month or two ago and we've called each other multiple times and like he really makes me laugh and I love his personality. But like how do I know if he likes me back? And I dont want to tell him I like him I dknt have that type of confidence lol anyway boys help me and girls tell me what I should do too. Thanksπ€β€οΈ
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Hey guys i am 20 and i have been in a mood swinging for almost 3 years..... Like in some moments i feel so encouraged and so focused i keep all my plans in control and after a month or two this depression starts i become so not in the mood to anything feel so hopeless..... I have been reading about bipolar disorder lately so what do you think
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Hey guys i am 20 and i have been in a mood swinging for almost 3 years..... Like in some moments i feel so encouraged and so focused i keep all my plans in control and after a month or two this depression starts i become so not in the mood to anything feel so hopeless..... I have been reading about bipolar disorder lately so what do you think
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Hi everybody!
This is my second time venting. The first one really helped me out. I am hoping the same would happen to this one too.
Ok , to give you the backstory I was raised in a family and society of multi-religion. Like some of the family are Orthodox some are Muslim in a whole different sect some sufi some salafi, and my dad was a Protestant at some time. When it comes to the society I grew up they live harmoniously. The thing is growing up in this diverse society made me search my own path and I did. I have read those religions manuscripts attended their ceremonies and lectures. At some time I was a Protestant because my dad was. Then later on I became Muslim now I am an Atheist.
I am not here to argue who is right and wrong or disrespect one and praise the other. I grown up in a society where you will not be judged by your religion. I am here because being an Atheist is an alien concept to the society and I don't know how to deal with it.
To get to my question my belief was one of the reasons my last relationship had ended. And this made my self confidence very low and my mental worse. Now I can't date because I am afried when she finds out she will leave me. As you know more than 99% of the population is religious. so i kept my self from dating or flirting.
If their is anybody who have gone through this kind of thing. Am very confused and alone πplease share your story or say something.
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Hi everybody!
This is my second time venting. The first one really helped me out. I am hoping the same would happen to this one too.
Ok , to give you the backstory I was raised in a family and society of multi-religion. Like some of the family are Orthodox some are Muslim in a whole different sect some sufi some salafi, and my dad was a Protestant at some time. When it comes to the society I grew up they live harmoniously. The thing is growing up in this diverse society made me search my own path and I did. I have read those religions manuscripts attended their ceremonies and lectures. At some time I was a Protestant because my dad was. Then later on I became Muslim now I am an Atheist.
I am not here to argue who is right and wrong or disrespect one and praise the other. I grown up in a society where you will not be judged by your religion. I am here because being an Atheist is an alien concept to the society and I don't know how to deal with it.
To get to my question my belief was one of the reasons my last relationship had ended. And this made my self confidence very low and my mental worse. Now I can't date because I am afried when she finds out she will leave me. As you know more than 99% of the population is religious. so i kept my self from dating or flirting.
If their is anybody who have gone through this kind of thing. Am very confused and alone πplease share your story or say something.
Thanks for reading!
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I was In relation w this guy who played me like a fool ???? He cheated many times and I forgiven him b.c he apologize and I luv him but Im hurt now b.c he did some thing and I broke up and he begged me to get back and i said Eshi so I can play him now he cheated on me all the time we were in relation with different girls and Iβm mad than hurt now b.c I should have been smart and not dumb in luv how can I break his heart as he did to me. Idc if you say I should talk to Jesus or karma I tried it doesnβt work so tell me how do I stab someone who stabbed me????
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I was In relation w this guy who played me like a fool ???? He cheated many times and I forgiven him b.c he apologize and I luv him but Im hurt now b.c he did some thing and I broke up and he begged me to get back and i said Eshi so I can play him now he cheated on me all the time we were in relation with different girls and Iβm mad than hurt now b.c I should have been smart and not dumb in luv how can I break his heart as he did to me. Idc if you say I should talk to Jesus or karma I tried it doesnβt work so tell me how do I stab someone who stabbed me????
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Have you ever been someone who has always been a third wheel in your relationship with friends that is what has been for me for the past 10 years after my best friend switched school I made new friends but I wasn't the funny nor the talking kind so they ditched me and after that I have stopped eating lunch for the coming 10 years because I have no one to eat with whenever a class break approaches I will have anxiety because all people will leave the class and I will be the only one left even if class mates invite me over l will still remain the third wheel so I refrained from being with two friends because I don't want to disappoint the other friend have anyone went through the same thing as of me no matter what I tried (includes bearing with small talks despite being an introvert) it won't work what should I do I am having a feeling that I don't belong in this realm of the universe
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Have you ever been someone who has always been a third wheel in your relationship with friends that is what has been for me for the past 10 years after my best friend switched school I made new friends but I wasn't the funny nor the talking kind so they ditched me and after that I have stopped eating lunch for the coming 10 years because I have no one to eat with whenever a class break approaches I will have anxiety because all people will leave the class and I will be the only one left even if class mates invite me over l will still remain the third wheel so I refrained from being with two friends because I don't want to disappoint the other friend have anyone went through the same thing as of me no matter what I tried (includes bearing with small talks despite being an introvert) it won't work what should I do I am having a feeling that I don't belong in this realm of the universe
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Guys I really need ur help....so I have a cousin same age as mine(she's almost 20) and she got a brother( 16 years old) her mom and dad were divorced a year ago, her mom lives abroad and thier dad is here but their mom doesn't want them to live with there dad coz thier mom pays for everything and thier dad doesn't give a fuck about them so the 2 kids lives alone in one room ,so nobody is gonna watch over them, they have to look out for eachother, so my male cousin he start smoking and drinking and getting high because nobody is controlling him so what I really wanna get help about is he is trying so hard to rape her he even texted her saying " wanna have sex with me" and last night he even took all of his clothes in the middle of the night but she suddenly wake up so he freaked out and he went back to sleep, she tried to tell her dad but he got reckless and she don't wanna tell her mom coz she gonna stress the fuck out and I can't do anything about it....she needs help, what u guys think ??
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Guys I really need ur help....so I have a cousin same age as mine(she's almost 20) and she got a brother( 16 years old) her mom and dad were divorced a year ago, her mom lives abroad and thier dad is here but their mom doesn't want them to live with there dad coz thier mom pays for everything and thier dad doesn't give a fuck about them so the 2 kids lives alone in one room ,so nobody is gonna watch over them, they have to look out for eachother, so my male cousin he start smoking and drinking and getting high because nobody is controlling him so what I really wanna get help about is he is trying so hard to rape her he even texted her saying " wanna have sex with me" and last night he even took all of his clothes in the middle of the night but she suddenly wake up so he freaked out and he went back to sleep, she tried to tell her dad but he got reckless and she don't wanna tell her mom coz she gonna stress the fuck out and I can't do anything about it....she needs help, what u guys think ??
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Hey guys...second time venting
I wanna ask the ladies in the channel like what is wrong, what are we doing wrong koy?
I mean me personally i have loved nd tried to give my 100+ to my girl but it always in the middle ends up breaking me down you know...
Koy do you guys hate being loved and taken care of ha!? Is it true that youre into the ones who treat you otherwise?
And siketel demo...why do you start new rships if you believe in the fact that you cant get over your first love?
Why hurt the new guy ha!?
And you guys say...men are this men are cruel and something...
Well you guys are somehow building cruel men along with every rejection, every betrayal, every thought you have bout you old love while youre with this one!
Ive lost a friend just cause she wasnt satisfied enough you know...Looks, nd other stuffs nd extra things that will absolutely have no use in the love equation
why do you have to make it complicated?π
Why cant you girls just be loved in the most simplest ways beka why?
All some of us want is to provide unconditional love to you regardless of athg else!
why cant you just accept that peacefullyπ
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Hey guys...second time venting
I wanna ask the ladies in the channel like what is wrong, what are we doing wrong koy?
I mean me personally i have loved nd tried to give my 100+ to my girl but it always in the middle ends up breaking me down you know...
Koy do you guys hate being loved and taken care of ha!? Is it true that youre into the ones who treat you otherwise?
And siketel demo...why do you start new rships if you believe in the fact that you cant get over your first love?
Why hurt the new guy ha!?
And you guys say...men are this men are cruel and something...
Well you guys are somehow building cruel men along with every rejection, every betrayal, every thought you have bout you old love while youre with this one!
Ive lost a friend just cause she wasnt satisfied enough you know...Looks, nd other stuffs nd extra things that will absolutely have no use in the love equation
why do you have to make it complicated?π
Why cant you girls just be loved in the most simplest ways beka why?
All some of us want is to provide unconditional love to you regardless of athg else!
why cant you just accept that peacefullyπ
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Hey how you doin? So my vent is a question for guys who ghost girls after having sex. How do you feel after breaking someone's heart? Don't you have any feeling at all? After calling and texting her for like months and talking about your future stuff together don't you miss her a little? don't you get attached too? Wats wrong with you endet sew le weratoch siawarw yenebern sew sex siareg yiresal? Beka leza new yan hula gize metatefut? Don't you think how much she will miss you and she will be brokenπ cos of u.. Lemen atnegruatem from the begining koy? Rather than fooling her in to thinking that you are the one.. And she have a future with you.. U are full of shit...
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Hey how you doin? So my vent is a question for guys who ghost girls after having sex. How do you feel after breaking someone's heart? Don't you have any feeling at all? After calling and texting her for like months and talking about your future stuff together don't you miss her a little? don't you get attached too? Wats wrong with you endet sew le weratoch siawarw yenebern sew sex siareg yiresal? Beka leza new yan hula gize metatefut? Don't you think how much she will miss you and she will be brokenπ cos of u.. Lemen atnegruatem from the begining koy? Rather than fooling her in to thinking that you are the one.. And she have a future with you.. U are full of shit...
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So i always feel different from others it like i don't fit in any way within the society for example religiously i do believe in God and he's the center of my life but i don't like the religious debate like which religion is right or criticizing others religion i just believe I'm Christian and that's it i want talk about God and his love not about how we differentiate from eachother and socially i want to communicate about deep emotions and thinkings how we feel but in our society it's considered as being weak but it's ok when we talk about others i just wanna say do people like me exist cause i feel so lost and i tried to fit in but I'm not happy that way
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So i always feel different from others it like i don't fit in any way within the society for example religiously i do believe in God and he's the center of my life but i don't like the religious debate like which religion is right or criticizing others religion i just believe I'm Christian and that's it i want talk about God and his love not about how we differentiate from eachother and socially i want to communicate about deep emotions and thinkings how we feel but in our society it's considered as being weak but it's ok when we talk about others i just wanna say do people like me exist cause i feel so lost and i tried to fit in but I'm not happy that way
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Halo I'm a 16 yo girl who is so sick and tired of people above the age 18 telling me I'm too young for some things. Why the hell are adults rude koy? They think everything I do revolves around what my peers think of me which isn't. My siblings, who are all older than 21, never ever take me seriously. A guy I liked who is 19 made fun of me when I told him. It's taking a toll on my self esteem and I know this happens to any teen out there. What should I do for them to take me seriously?
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Halo I'm a 16 yo girl who is so sick and tired of people above the age 18 telling me I'm too young for some things. Why the hell are adults rude koy? They think everything I do revolves around what my peers think of me which isn't. My siblings, who are all older than 21, never ever take me seriously. A guy I liked who is 19 made fun of me when I told him. It's taking a toll on my self esteem and I know this happens to any teen out there. What should I do for them to take me seriously?
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Ow I hear the voices alright, but why do they all sound like me? why am I telling myself all those God awful things?! why do I gotta think of the worst in everything? always vigilant! always 5 steps ahead! always buying into being a "fuck up" no matter how hard I find excuses to buy into it. How come I always find my way back only to lose it again?? I've heard people talk about hearing voices in their heads, assumed that they were crazy or something and now that I realize I am standing in their shoes may be I am crazy as well. "crisis" they call it, crisis indeed! pacing around the block 10-15 times, running here and there like a startled deer...tired...scared, alone, broken and weeping like a baby yet still unable to stop myself from turning every rock on earth to find a sanctuary that only exists in my dreams of yesterday. It was after the damage that was done and I eventually found myself under the wrong rock that It hit me that one needs to sleep forever in order to wake up from a never ending nightmare.
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Ow I hear the voices alright, but why do they all sound like me? why am I telling myself all those God awful things?! why do I gotta think of the worst in everything? always vigilant! always 5 steps ahead! always buying into being a "fuck up" no matter how hard I find excuses to buy into it. How come I always find my way back only to lose it again?? I've heard people talk about hearing voices in their heads, assumed that they were crazy or something and now that I realize I am standing in their shoes may be I am crazy as well. "crisis" they call it, crisis indeed! pacing around the block 10-15 times, running here and there like a startled deer...tired...scared, alone, broken and weeping like a baby yet still unable to stop myself from turning every rock on earth to find a sanctuary that only exists in my dreams of yesterday. It was after the damage that was done and I eventually found myself under the wrong rock that It hit me that one needs to sleep forever in order to wake up from a never ending nightmare.
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So it's my first time venting and if it helps y not
Sooo the thing is their is this guy in my life uk the person u prayed for the brother u have been wishing the shoulder u wished u could get to cry on the person u wanna hug when u feel low a real brother that would never take things romantic if that's how u say it bicha he came into my life after some time ena I truly love him as a brother and ntn else for real I swear and now he got married ena uk "setoch yekenalu"sibal semtachu kehone idk ena I feel like ene esun endebefit mekreb yelebegnem just for the sake of her feelings idk if she understand that or not gn be akal balakatem I was trying to metenkek for her feelings gn at the same time missing my brother betammmm ena lastewawkesh silegn esun selemefera eskahun altewawekuatem what do I do am I makabedking it weyes it's normal π€·ββοΈ
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So it's my first time venting and if it helps y not
Sooo the thing is their is this guy in my life uk the person u prayed for the brother u have been wishing the shoulder u wished u could get to cry on the person u wanna hug when u feel low a real brother that would never take things romantic if that's how u say it bicha he came into my life after some time ena I truly love him as a brother and ntn else for real I swear and now he got married ena uk "setoch yekenalu"sibal semtachu kehone idk ena I feel like ene esun endebefit mekreb yelebegnem just for the sake of her feelings idk if she understand that or not gn be akal balakatem I was trying to metenkek for her feelings gn at the same time missing my brother betammmm ena lastewawkesh silegn esun selemefera eskahun altewawekuatem what do I do am I makabedking it weyes it's normal π€·ββοΈ
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Hey everyone hope y'all doing great. This vent/memory was triggered by a tiktok video. Homies hear me out. So I've never had a problem with my body. I was never over weight or over skinny. So I didn't care and was okay with my height and whatever weight I was on. Plus my friends and families have always told me I have good body so I had no reason to think about gaining or lossing weight. Until I liked this dude, we vibed and everything which was great so I was low key head over heels. The problem here is he's really skinny and kinda short well shorter than me (5'5) like most of our habesha dudes but i had NO problem with it like zero I didn't give a tiny . Anyway he didn't feeling the same, that's when I started feeling unworthy and not good enough because everything was great but the difference of our body. It's not even a drastic difference. I been thinking what else went wrong or what I said ena couldn't really find any other reason or difference. Then recently I saw a tiktok video of a girl saying women's insecuries come from men insecurities. She explained further by saying how she's always been tall and loved it but felt bad when she went out with a guy. And how a lot of girls don't wear heels because of being afraid of taller than their dates, even read somewhere that med school guys are so scared of being outsmarted by med school girls. Like this is insaneee. Also there's this tall girl in my class she's so sweet, nice, feminine but all my guy classmates say weyne esua ategb sikom betam yechenkgnal, tasferalech miniamn just some crap. lezaw eko they're like 4 to 5 years older than her. Ena this tiktok even got me thinking how even when I was liked or ask out before it was because of a fault like because of they way I sound (I have a lisp and a child's voice even tho I'm 20 now), or I forget something or I say something dumb like never because of the actual good qualities.
Anywhoo bros, homies why you guys gotta be intimated by a girl who's taller, smarter, even a just little bigger than you? I'm just really hurt about this. Kindly answer. Thanks βΊοΈ
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Hey everyone hope y'all doing great. This vent/memory was triggered by a tiktok video. Homies hear me out. So I've never had a problem with my body. I was never over weight or over skinny. So I didn't care and was okay with my height and whatever weight I was on. Plus my friends and families have always told me I have good body so I had no reason to think about gaining or lossing weight. Until I liked this dude, we vibed and everything which was great so I was low key head over heels. The problem here is he's really skinny and kinda short well shorter than me (5'5) like most of our habesha dudes but i had NO problem with it like zero I didn't give a tiny . Anyway he didn't feeling the same, that's when I started feeling unworthy and not good enough because everything was great but the difference of our body. It's not even a drastic difference. I been thinking what else went wrong or what I said ena couldn't really find any other reason or difference. Then recently I saw a tiktok video of a girl saying women's insecuries come from men insecurities. She explained further by saying how she's always been tall and loved it but felt bad when she went out with a guy. And how a lot of girls don't wear heels because of being afraid of taller than their dates, even read somewhere that med school guys are so scared of being outsmarted by med school girls. Like this is insaneee. Also there's this tall girl in my class she's so sweet, nice, feminine but all my guy classmates say weyne esua ategb sikom betam yechenkgnal, tasferalech miniamn just some crap. lezaw eko they're like 4 to 5 years older than her. Ena this tiktok even got me thinking how even when I was liked or ask out before it was because of a fault like because of they way I sound (I have a lisp and a child's voice even tho I'm 20 now), or I forget something or I say something dumb like never because of the actual good qualities.
Anywhoo bros, homies why you guys gotta be intimated by a girl who's taller, smarter, even a just little bigger than you? I'm just really hurt about this. Kindly answer. Thanks βΊοΈ
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18 and a guy. I wanna become mature enough to stick to one person all my life but I'm scared cuz idt I'm able to hold on to one person for so long. My friends tell me it's just a fear of relationship with no apparent base but I'm not sure. People tell me I could be a very good husband and father but I just fear that I might screw up sth once I get in a relationship. It's not that I'm afraid of fights or disagreements that come up in a relationship, ik they're inevitable n I believe communication is key and that it can fix most (if not all) the problems between people. But idk where my fear of commitment comes from. There's a girl I like and I asked myself what I'd do if I asked her and she agreed to be with me, and I think I might even back out. But idk, maybe I'd actually be good at it. I just have too much anxiety when it comes to relationships. I tend to worry if my girl would like this or not mnamn. I'm not much invested in a girl until I make sure she's interested in me the same way I am, but after that my anxiety kicks in. Any help please. I also wanna start reading books on relationships so if you happen to know any, feel free to suggest.
I also wanna appreciate 'certified simp' for his comments on some of the vents I checked out. You really are amazing, bruh. Keep up the good work.
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18 and a guy. I wanna become mature enough to stick to one person all my life but I'm scared cuz idt I'm able to hold on to one person for so long. My friends tell me it's just a fear of relationship with no apparent base but I'm not sure. People tell me I could be a very good husband and father but I just fear that I might screw up sth once I get in a relationship. It's not that I'm afraid of fights or disagreements that come up in a relationship, ik they're inevitable n I believe communication is key and that it can fix most (if not all) the problems between people. But idk where my fear of commitment comes from. There's a girl I like and I asked myself what I'd do if I asked her and she agreed to be with me, and I think I might even back out. But idk, maybe I'd actually be good at it. I just have too much anxiety when it comes to relationships. I tend to worry if my girl would like this or not mnamn. I'm not much invested in a girl until I make sure she's interested in me the same way I am, but after that my anxiety kicks in. Any help please. I also wanna start reading books on relationships so if you happen to know any, feel free to suggest.
I also wanna appreciate 'certified simp' for his comments on some of the vents I checked out. You really are amazing, bruh. Keep up the good work.
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