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Hey I’m 19 and a guy. Just broke up with my gf cuz she starts to lose feelings. I never been through breakups and it’s killing me. She was my first. I’m really in a bad mood. I’m starting to hate people. I hate everyone idk why though. I wish I’m dead right now. Please I need you guys to help me (especially those who went through breakups).
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Hey I’m 19 and a guy. Just broke up with my gf cuz she starts to lose feelings. I never been through breakups and it’s killing me. She was my first. I’m really in a bad mood. I’m starting to hate people. I hate everyone idk why though. I wish I’m dead right now. Please I need you guys to help me (especially those who went through breakups).
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The thing is am crushing hard on someone I don't even know.
Y'all know him and most of you dislike him IDK why. but He's one of the Admins of this channel and Oh My God!
The way he comments, he's open mindedness, his grammar and he's respect for women is just so hot and a big turn on.
Even his profilepictures are dope.
Am not some sera fet teenage girl, but if you Have he's Instagram or Twitter account please drop it in the comment section.
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The thing is am crushing hard on someone I don't even know.
Y'all know him and most of you dislike him IDK why. but He's one of the Admins of this channel and Oh My God!
The way he comments, he's open mindedness, his grammar and he's respect for women is just so hot and a big turn on.
Even his profilepictures are dope.
Am not some sera fet teenage girl, but if you Have he's Instagram or Twitter account please drop it in the comment section.
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So am a dude 22 there is 2 thing am worried about the first one is my dad is HIV POSITIVE and we didn't know anything about it my mom told me last week because she can't handle it any more me and my brother don't know about this at all. He always told as he take a pill for his kidney but thats not for what he say about its antiretroviral therapy or HIV medication but the scary thing is i have been using his tondos(የጸጉር መላጫ) for all my life i even use it last week and i bleed my mom told me its normal cause his viral load is undetectable am scared i will be hiv positive if is there any doctor or HO tell me about viral load help me out the second thing is did i need to tell my brother or keep it secret
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So am a dude 22 there is 2 thing am worried about the first one is my dad is HIV POSITIVE and we didn't know anything about it my mom told me last week because she can't handle it any more me and my brother don't know about this at all. He always told as he take a pill for his kidney but thats not for what he say about its antiretroviral therapy or HIV medication but the scary thing is i have been using his tondos(የጸጉር መላጫ) for all my life i even use it last week and i bleed my mom told me its normal cause his viral load is undetectable am scared i will be hiv positive if is there any doctor or HO tell me about viral load help me out the second thing is did i need to tell my brother or keep it secret
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This is what happened i started a relationship with a guy which i met met in workplace through time i fall in love with him and he told me that he had that feeling too and i was happy but after days he told me that he is a married guy 😳 and we stopped the relationship
This is before years
But I still love him I can't move on
I have been in 2 relationships after him but i can't do that, I hurt them 😔
i mean i still have the feeling to him😭
I want him badly but i can't get him
Anyone who pass through this please help me out 🥺🥺🥺
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This is what happened i started a relationship with a guy which i met met in workplace through time i fall in love with him and he told me that he had that feeling too and i was happy but after days he told me that he is a married guy 😳 and we stopped the relationship
This is before years
But I still love him I can't move on
I have been in 2 relationships after him but i can't do that, I hurt them 😔
i mean i still have the feeling to him😭
I want him badly but i can't get him
Anyone who pass through this please help me out 🥺🥺🥺
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I honestly can't figure if I am the only one in this country who wants something more out of sex. All everyone seems to want to do is swing hips and be done with it. I can't tell if it's the judgement or just plain disinterest holding people back but hey, I can at least admit to somethings anonymously.
I want to see what it's like being a submissive even though I am a guy, I want to actually be with someone okay with anal and even though I am not gay, I want to try it once just because. I know I know, this is all undignified and what not. I also know I can go through life happy without doing any of it but in an open and free society, I so would have done it all.
So come stand in solidarity, show some anonymous "me too"s and "I feel the same way"s cause I only took the time to write this so I can hear some of that.
P.S. To all the people that will comment, it was the porn. Your superior intellect knows no bounds so don't waste your time with the likes of us.
And some extra P.S. for those who would use their stunning wit to protect their beliefs from us degenerates. Good luck dummy :)
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I honestly can't figure if I am the only one in this country who wants something more out of sex. All everyone seems to want to do is swing hips and be done with it. I can't tell if it's the judgement or just plain disinterest holding people back but hey, I can at least admit to somethings anonymously.
I want to see what it's like being a submissive even though I am a guy, I want to actually be with someone okay with anal and even though I am not gay, I want to try it once just because. I know I know, this is all undignified and what not. I also know I can go through life happy without doing any of it but in an open and free society, I so would have done it all.
So come stand in solidarity, show some anonymous "me too"s and "I feel the same way"s cause I only took the time to write this so I can hear some of that.
P.S. To all the people that will comment, it was the porn. Your superior intellect knows no bounds so don't waste your time with the likes of us.
And some extra P.S. for those who would use their stunning wit to protect their beliefs from us degenerates. Good luck dummy :)
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Hey there it’s my first time here , it’s not a confession nor seeking for adivce but it’s more of a question for my ladies out there.
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So the question is do you guys really enjoy sex with your partner like have you ever felt so satisfied or do you just pretend to be happy at the moment.
My next question how many of you are honest to your partner about this issue.
Last but not least what do you guys want from your man on this kind of situation.
From the research I have done most women don’t actually enjoy sex they just go with the flow so I wanna what the other girls have to say about this .
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Hey there it’s my first time here , it’s not a confession nor seeking for adivce but it’s more of a question for my ladies out there.
⚠️ No mens allowed 😂😂scroll up
So the question is do you guys really enjoy sex with your partner like have you ever felt so satisfied or do you just pretend to be happy at the moment.
My next question how many of you are honest to your partner about this issue.
Last but not least what do you guys want from your man on this kind of situation.
From the research I have done most women don’t actually enjoy sex they just go with the flow so I wanna what the other girls have to say about this .
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Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well, so am a dude and am very sensitive and vulnerable person and am in a journey of self improvement but there are challenges at work and life in general am trying to get stronger but the thing is it gets worse and worse and I don't think if I could take it all in at the same time, loneliness, home sick, dependency, insecurities...how do I over come those things, what's the thing that gives you excitement?
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Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well, so am a dude and am very sensitive and vulnerable person and am in a journey of self improvement but there are challenges at work and life in general am trying to get stronger but the thing is it gets worse and worse and I don't think if I could take it all in at the same time, loneliness, home sick, dependency, insecurities...how do I over come those things, what's the thing that gives you excitement?
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I'm 24 yrs old guy. So I lost my virginity to my ex. We were both virgins so we knew absolutely nothing😂 Anyway the sex was great for me but in almost a year of constant sex she never reached orgasm. Ik ik 😭. Becha I tried reading books, and videos and techniques and stuff but ntng worked! Believe me I've tried!! I figured some girls are like that. It is what it is.🤷♂ Anyway that lowkey ruind my sexual confidence and IDK how to recover from that. Now I'm kinda in an "entanglement" with a girl and the sex is just not great. And I feel like I am the problem and Idk what to do.
Btw it's not a size thing I'm fairly above average. It's not being unable to perfom either. I just don't get the reaction I expect to get and that totaly tuns me off. I'm not the fuckboy type and I don't do casual either so Idk how to get experiance.
What do you guys think? What should I do? How can I be the satisfaya everyone dreams of? 😂
I appreciate any comment from girls.
I'm expecting a lot of troll too so don't hold back. Lol.
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I'm 24 yrs old guy. So I lost my virginity to my ex. We were both virgins so we knew absolutely nothing😂 Anyway the sex was great for me but in almost a year of constant sex she never reached orgasm. Ik ik 😭. Becha I tried reading books, and videos and techniques and stuff but ntng worked! Believe me I've tried!! I figured some girls are like that. It is what it is.🤷♂ Anyway that lowkey ruind my sexual confidence and IDK how to recover from that. Now I'm kinda in an "entanglement" with a girl and the sex is just not great. And I feel like I am the problem and Idk what to do.
Btw it's not a size thing I'm fairly above average. It's not being unable to perfom either. I just don't get the reaction I expect to get and that totaly tuns me off. I'm not the fuckboy type and I don't do casual either so Idk how to get experiance.
What do you guys think? What should I do? How can I be the satisfaya everyone dreams of? 😂
I appreciate any comment from girls.
I'm expecting a lot of troll too so don't hold back. Lol.
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I am 18 and is it ok to have sexual feelings? I mean its really stressing me out thinking that I shouldnt be fantasising this much dirty in my mind????. There is religion, family culture and norma you know. Its like they are in my bones and they are making me feel bad everytime I fantasies sexual things. I am a virgin but I did make out????. Bcha am feeling like am doing wrongg
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I am 18 and is it ok to have sexual feelings? I mean its really stressing me out thinking that I shouldnt be fantasising this much dirty in my mind????. There is religion, family culture and norma you know. Its like they are in my bones and they are making me feel bad everytime I fantasies sexual things. I am a virgin but I did make out????. Bcha am feeling like am doing wrongg
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Quick questions for both girls and the dudes too
What is the advice you are gone give for someone who never been in relationship and what are the good qualities you expect them to have and help out a fellow dude from experiance to do and not do list for the guys
Thank you🙏 i really need to know
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Quick questions for both girls and the dudes too
What is the advice you are gone give for someone who never been in relationship and what are the good qualities you expect them to have and help out a fellow dude from experiance to do and not do list for the guys
Thank you🙏 i really need to know
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Ihv been in relationship for 4 years now n nearly for 2yrs in longdistance rnship. Yup i loved her but now im giving up on her ,on this LDR. Why? Cause she is not a kind of girl that i tell evrything when am down. So does for her. Lemn endehone balawekut huneta kekrb gize wedi hazenen( feelin) lagarat alchalkum esuam endezaw negragn atakm azna endamatak new feel madergew yemr betam engbabalen gn mnm atnegregnm hazenuan. n also ytayachu snrarak like no call no text lewerat enkoyalen . When we met be akal gn lela tarik enem esuam🤷♂... plus no freindship beka its relationship only u know wht, i didnt even kiss her lips Im thankful slaladerekut ahun ahun. guys can feel me more in this aspect. 4 amet be fkr koyten without kiss tnsh nonsense new tho Its not a big deal for me. i respect her boundary( btw ididnt kiss anybody) .sew maskefat betam nw malchlew..u kn solution bye yasbekut hula mifelgat guadegnaye ale kesu gar fkr endijemru new yasebkut endtgodabgn alfelgm beka i just want to get out from her life. im losin feelin for her bemiyasazn huneta. Gn esua mnm sense alderegechm awka atleast solve endtadergew lemasayet mokryalehu but she didnt..hulum neger endedrow new mimeslat mnm bifeter endemalleyat new mtasbew.i never dreamt or want my rnship to be like this (beftsum beka). Dont think i didnt try to fix it..yeteleyayu wayochn mokryalehu ena bzu metsahft anbbe lemeftat mokryalehu chgrachnn but kesamnt ayalfm solnu 🤷♂..btw i hv lots of dream ihv good grade in university.arif new lelaw neger hulu except rnship. so guys help me on this endet adrge cool behone way salaskefat ke hywetua lwta....pls🙏🙏 smbody yeteredagn kale say smthin
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Ihv been in relationship for 4 years now n nearly for 2yrs in longdistance rnship. Yup i loved her but now im giving up on her ,on this LDR. Why? Cause she is not a kind of girl that i tell evrything when am down. So does for her. Lemn endehone balawekut huneta kekrb gize wedi hazenen( feelin) lagarat alchalkum esuam endezaw negragn atakm azna endamatak new feel madergew yemr betam engbabalen gn mnm atnegregnm hazenuan. n also ytayachu snrarak like no call no text lewerat enkoyalen . When we met be akal gn lela tarik enem esuam🤷♂... plus no freindship beka its relationship only u know wht, i didnt even kiss her lips Im thankful slaladerekut ahun ahun. guys can feel me more in this aspect. 4 amet be fkr koyten without kiss tnsh nonsense new tho Its not a big deal for me. i respect her boundary( btw ididnt kiss anybody) .sew maskefat betam nw malchlew..u kn solution bye yasbekut hula mifelgat guadegnaye ale kesu gar fkr endijemru new yasebkut endtgodabgn alfelgm beka i just want to get out from her life. im losin feelin for her bemiyasazn huneta. Gn esua mnm sense alderegechm awka atleast solve endtadergew lemasayet mokryalehu but she didnt..hulum neger endedrow new mimeslat mnm bifeter endemalleyat new mtasbew.i never dreamt or want my rnship to be like this (beftsum beka). Dont think i didnt try to fix it..yeteleyayu wayochn mokryalehu ena bzu metsahft anbbe lemeftat mokryalehu chgrachnn but kesamnt ayalfm solnu 🤷♂..btw i hv lots of dream ihv good grade in university.arif new lelaw neger hulu except rnship. so guys help me on this endet adrge cool behone way salaskefat ke hywetua lwta....pls🙏🙏 smbody yeteredagn kale say smthin
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Bare with me please. I need an insult or a smack in the head.
Last week I saw my ex. I haven't seen him since corona lock down. We broke up right before it broke out. We were together for 4 months. There was no teeth and claws when we broke up instead the day we did we laughed so hard that I kind of thought we were sick in the head, who laughs after breaking up. I loved him and I've felt he did too. When we got busy, he started forgetting to call or text me. At first I didn't mind but even when he was free and keep forgetting I wanted to call it quits cause I needed it, was tired of reminding him & I didn't want to remember us with the arguments, with anger towards him or with sadness or I wanted to give him an out. It took him a while to sink in. but when it does we realise we are so much better as friends or besties . So I kept in touch. And this guy have a sick sense of humor, is genius & hardworking so he was in a way perfect and I liked hanging out with him.
So back to when I saw him last week, he looked good but he was cold. I mean I didn't expect to see the sparks in his eyes since we broke up but it was like I didn't even matter anymore and we used to talk on the phone in the lockdown but then he didnt even show a bit of excitement, or happiness or anything to see me. And I felt hurt.
So my question is, I'm not sure what it is but is it gonna be like that here on out? Should I repay the coldness or should I just accept it saying he's introvert and these are the privileges I lose since we broke up? And do I have the right to get angry?
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Last week I saw my ex. I haven't seen him since corona lock down. We broke up right before it broke out. We were together for 4 months. There was no teeth and claws when we broke up instead the day we did we laughed so hard that I kind of thought we were sick in the head, who laughs after breaking up. I loved him and I've felt he did too. When we got busy, he started forgetting to call or text me. At first I didn't mind but even when he was free and keep forgetting I wanted to call it quits cause I needed it, was tired of reminding him & I didn't want to remember us with the arguments, with anger towards him or with sadness or I wanted to give him an out. It took him a while to sink in. but when it does we realise we are so much better as friends or besties . So I kept in touch. And this guy have a sick sense of humor, is genius & hardworking so he was in a way perfect and I liked hanging out with him.
So back to when I saw him last week, he looked good but he was cold. I mean I didn't expect to see the sparks in his eyes since we broke up but it was like I didn't even matter anymore and we used to talk on the phone in the lockdown but then he didnt even show a bit of excitement, or happiness or anything to see me. And I felt hurt.
So my question is, I'm not sure what it is but is it gonna be like that here on out? Should I repay the coldness or should I just accept it saying he's introvert and these are the privileges I lose since we broke up? And do I have the right to get angry?
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I am a Guy 24 yr old turning to 25 and i am V and have never been in a r/n ship
My Friends are all in relation ship and have been jumping from one r/n ship to other and sex minamin this is putting me a lot of ideas to my mind which is bothering me alot
I am feeling like i am missing alot and that there is some thing wrong with me so latly ideas are coming to my mind that i should just get into r/n ship and sex or what shall i do?
But still i want to V and be married in holy marrage?
I am really confused please help
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I am a Guy 24 yr old turning to 25 and i am V and have never been in a r/n ship
My Friends are all in relation ship and have been jumping from one r/n ship to other and sex minamin this is putting me a lot of ideas to my mind which is bothering me alot
I am feeling like i am missing alot and that there is some thing wrong with me so latly ideas are coming to my mind that i should just get into r/n ship and sex or what shall i do?
But still i want to V and be married in holy marrage?
I am really confused please help
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There's always some unsatisfied customer that you face at some point in your job. But now that I've started my own business I feel down when that happens. Today what happened was the order came through a 3rd person, the design was approved so it was made by on the approved design. Now that I've sent them many samples and they still sent me another thing to make. But upon delivery they said I should've made it in the "hulem endemeseraw" I was like 😦 or still is like that. I made sure there were no mistake made demo eko ena the question is how do you communicate clearly especially when there's a third person involved.
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There's always some unsatisfied customer that you face at some point in your job. But now that I've started my own business I feel down when that happens. Today what happened was the order came through a 3rd person, the design was approved so it was made by on the approved design. Now that I've sent them many samples and they still sent me another thing to make. But upon delivery they said I should've made it in the "hulem endemeseraw" I was like 😦 or still is like that. I made sure there were no mistake made demo eko ena the question is how do you communicate clearly especially when there's a third person involved.
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Sup peeps.
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No reason for me to talk here, but I just wanna change some mindsets of people being too judgmental of others’ lifestyles. Let me talk of mine, for instance.
I’m a firm believer in people’s free will and hence that’s the reason I’m a capitalist. A few folks might identify me from this vent, so I want to take this chance to apologize as well.
In my dating life, I’ve never been in a serious relationship, I just go out with random people at random times and enjoy the short bit of time I’m with them. I don’t enjoy being with one person for a short time and I don’t think love exists, so I do it this way. I know there’s definitely people that will be in the comments judging me for this by citing verses from the Quran or the Bible but y’all should see yourselves before judging others and y’all know that the very principle of religion lies within free will. I do whatever I want and I bear the consequences. Telling me I’m not on the right path is good, but an overly self-righteous perspective is bad.
So this gets me to my second point and it is that I wish people understood that not all dating leads to a relationship. It’s a way to see if things will work in the future. Some people wanna date for marriage, others just wanna have fun so please lol stop living others’ lives and live your owns.
And for the women I’ve dated, most of them understood and knew it was a fun thing but for some who might take it as they have been hurt, I apologize for not being loving enough.
So if you take two points from this vent, it’s is 1. Live your own life whatever your choices might be, good for you! And 2. Dating is not just commitment, you’re always single until married.
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Sup peeps.
Guy, 19.
No reason for me to talk here, but I just wanna change some mindsets of people being too judgmental of others’ lifestyles. Let me talk of mine, for instance.
I’m a firm believer in people’s free will and hence that’s the reason I’m a capitalist. A few folks might identify me from this vent, so I want to take this chance to apologize as well.
In my dating life, I’ve never been in a serious relationship, I just go out with random people at random times and enjoy the short bit of time I’m with them. I don’t enjoy being with one person for a short time and I don’t think love exists, so I do it this way. I know there’s definitely people that will be in the comments judging me for this by citing verses from the Quran or the Bible but y’all should see yourselves before judging others and y’all know that the very principle of religion lies within free will. I do whatever I want and I bear the consequences. Telling me I’m not on the right path is good, but an overly self-righteous perspective is bad.
So this gets me to my second point and it is that I wish people understood that not all dating leads to a relationship. It’s a way to see if things will work in the future. Some people wanna date for marriage, others just wanna have fun so please lol stop living others’ lives and live your owns.
And for the women I’ve dated, most of them understood and knew it was a fun thing but for some who might take it as they have been hurt, I apologize for not being loving enough.
So if you take two points from this vent, it’s is 1. Live your own life whatever your choices might be, good for you! And 2. Dating is not just commitment, you’re always single until married.
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Hey, to the girl who was at Gerji Robas branch of Tele today(Dec. 22, 2020), (wearing a black mask and black leggings), I was too nervous to say anything back then. Now I realize a whole vent is a bit much for this but then again, I've got nothing to lose.
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Hey, to the girl who was at Gerji Robas branch of Tele today(Dec. 22, 2020), (wearing a black mask and black leggings), I was too nervous to say anything back then. Now I realize a whole vent is a bit much for this but then again, I've got nothing to lose.
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I'm in a bit of a dilemma and in the past this platform rly he helped me get some perspective so here we go again. So the thing is me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. The split wasn't rly on bad terms i just felt like i couldn't continue being with her anymore. Reasons mainly stemming from the fact that we had been together for a little while now and i thought we should have sex but she didn't agree. So i thought she didn't trust me so i explained to her why i wanted to be intimate with her and she agreed but me looking back and analysing at the things i said to her i just felt like i was trying to convince her to do smth she didn't want to do. I just felt so disgusted by that although the only thing i said was that i loved her and i wanted to be with her which was all true. After that i just couldn't shake that feeling and i resented her for making me feel that way. In all my past experiences i never had to talk someone into having sex with me it just happend naturally and the fact that i had to take her out of her shell little by little just didn't sit right with me. So before anything happend I ended it with her although i did care for her. But i still couldn't shake the feeling so i made a promise to my self that for a little while that i wouldn't get physical with anyone despite my colorful past and prove to myself that it was never about the sex. So I just reprioritized started working more and going out less, just focusing on my family and frnds not rly actively perusing anyone even going as far as shutting any girl out. Then a little while ago a met someone, she's great we hang out quite a lot... so far nothing physical has happend bn us and i can tell that she's getting very frustrated with me. She tires much to make smth happend but I laugh off every advance she makes And I'm afraid if i tell her about her the whole ordeal she would think that I'm not over my ex. It's true that me and my ex never had any closure i just ended things abruptly and maybe talking about how i feel with her might help but that would just be opening another can of worms and dragging her back to smth she's probably already moved on from. I just don't know what to do.
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I'm in a bit of a dilemma and in the past this platform rly he helped me get some perspective so here we go again. So the thing is me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. The split wasn't rly on bad terms i just felt like i couldn't continue being with her anymore. Reasons mainly stemming from the fact that we had been together for a little while now and i thought we should have sex but she didn't agree. So i thought she didn't trust me so i explained to her why i wanted to be intimate with her and she agreed but me looking back and analysing at the things i said to her i just felt like i was trying to convince her to do smth she didn't want to do. I just felt so disgusted by that although the only thing i said was that i loved her and i wanted to be with her which was all true. After that i just couldn't shake that feeling and i resented her for making me feel that way. In all my past experiences i never had to talk someone into having sex with me it just happend naturally and the fact that i had to take her out of her shell little by little just didn't sit right with me. So before anything happend I ended it with her although i did care for her. But i still couldn't shake the feeling so i made a promise to my self that for a little while that i wouldn't get physical with anyone despite my colorful past and prove to myself that it was never about the sex. So I just reprioritized started working more and going out less, just focusing on my family and frnds not rly actively perusing anyone even going as far as shutting any girl out. Then a little while ago a met someone, she's great we hang out quite a lot... so far nothing physical has happend bn us and i can tell that she's getting very frustrated with me. She tires much to make smth happend but I laugh off every advance she makes And I'm afraid if i tell her about her the whole ordeal she would think that I'm not over my ex. It's true that me and my ex never had any closure i just ended things abruptly and maybe talking about how i feel with her might help but that would just be opening another can of worms and dragging her back to smth she's probably already moved on from. I just don't know what to do.
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So there is this guy whom I met briefly through 1 of my friends and he kinda had my no. so he texted me on tg and we got to know each other then he asked me out and I said no but he told me he will wait and we met in person and we started dating and we were in distance r/n ship for 2 months So when we last met he told me he was really happy and stuff then after 2 days he posted a picture with his ex and when I asked him for explanation he said I'm a child and told me he is having a hard time trying to make me understand his adult complexities mnamn and we broke up but I always tried to understand him and we never fought and he is 6 yrs older than me and it's been a month but I still can't get over him and I have no idea how to move on so help me out
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So there is this guy whom I met briefly through 1 of my friends and he kinda had my no. so he texted me on tg and we got to know each other then he asked me out and I said no but he told me he will wait and we met in person and we started dating and we were in distance r/n ship for 2 months So when we last met he told me he was really happy and stuff then after 2 days he posted a picture with his ex and when I asked him for explanation he said I'm a child and told me he is having a hard time trying to make me understand his adult complexities mnamn and we broke up but I always tried to understand him and we never fought and he is 6 yrs older than me and it's been a month but I still can't get over him and I have no idea how to move on so help me out
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Im a dude in my early 20's
This is my first time venting i fill so suffocated i want to let the shit out of my system the thing is i have a perfect life,friends,family but the problem is with my own self like im livin in blurred life like i want to be alone everytime my friend callin me to chill or party i give execuses i just sit in my room listning music till its dark i havent dated for ones in my life not to brag but like most girls tryed to ask me out but i give excuses prople see me as a "gurena" type and odd Guy but thats my behaviour i didnt choose to be this way they cant undrestand how im hurting they see me as a dude who dont give a fuck about others & i wanna change but how i have been like this since middle school if u have any thing advises that change this type of behaviour Tell me cant deel with this shit anymore
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Hey unihorse
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Im a dude in my early 20's
This is my first time venting i fill so suffocated i want to let the shit out of my system the thing is i have a perfect life,friends,family but the problem is with my own self like im livin in blurred life like i want to be alone everytime my friend callin me to chill or party i give execuses i just sit in my room listning music till its dark i havent dated for ones in my life not to brag but like most girls tryed to ask me out but i give excuses prople see me as a "gurena" type and odd Guy but thats my behaviour i didnt choose to be this way they cant undrestand how im hurting they see me as a dude who dont give a fuck about others & i wanna change but how i have been like this since middle school if u have any thing advises that change this type of behaviour Tell me cant deel with this shit anymore
Thanks
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Eshi well where do I start, I am a very very complicated and also an introverted but a confident guy and I think excessively of scientific stuff and always logically assess things, I had went through some one-sided relationships before and things didn't turn out well because I get so vulnerable once I trust other people into relationships and its my weakness as a human being. A kryptonite of some sort. Ena after realizing this I kinda gave up on relationships because I don't ever want to be damaged again, and in addition I developed some mistrust of women for relationships over time and it's not that I hate women at all its just self protection from being damaged, and so lela mn lebel this makes the idea of commitment a terrifying thought for me. And I have read everything about my issue and I know it really, really well, but sometimes I feel its okay to be like this and fully enjoy life and then some other times I feel like I am missing out on a wonderful experience with a lady and I wonder what are all your thoughts on this?
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I need to vent
Eshi well where do I start, I am a very very complicated and also an introverted but a confident guy and I think excessively of scientific stuff and always logically assess things, I had went through some one-sided relationships before and things didn't turn out well because I get so vulnerable once I trust other people into relationships and its my weakness as a human being. A kryptonite of some sort. Ena after realizing this I kinda gave up on relationships because I don't ever want to be damaged again, and in addition I developed some mistrust of women for relationships over time and it's not that I hate women at all its just self protection from being damaged, and so lela mn lebel this makes the idea of commitment a terrifying thought for me. And I have read everything about my issue and I know it really, really well, but sometimes I feel its okay to be like this and fully enjoy life and then some other times I feel like I am missing out on a wonderful experience with a lady and I wonder what are all your thoughts on this?
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I just have to let this out.. mmm So..In my past life i was such a dushbag a cheater ,drug addict and player who loved to play with girls emotion and all it is something i am not and will never be proud of. But this girl changed my life, my current gf. She became my priority i left everything and everyone for her. She made me a better man. But lately she is having mood swings that hurts me so much. she might even ghost me for days for a silly reason. I remained faithful ad loyal after all she is doing. I tried to talk to her abt it but Idk what has got into her nothing seems to change. its killing me more than u can imagine. I swore in the name of God not to be the man i used.to be n not to leave her but i dont think i deserve this being a loyal and a truly caring bf. Or do you think God is punishing me for my past deeds?
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I just have to let this out.. mmm So..In my past life i was such a dushbag a cheater ,drug addict and player who loved to play with girls emotion and all it is something i am not and will never be proud of. But this girl changed my life, my current gf. She became my priority i left everything and everyone for her. She made me a better man. But lately she is having mood swings that hurts me so much. she might even ghost me for days for a silly reason. I remained faithful ad loyal after all she is doing. I tried to talk to her abt it but Idk what has got into her nothing seems to change. its killing me more than u can imagine. I swore in the name of God not to be the man i used.to be n not to leave her but i dont think i deserve this being a loyal and a truly caring bf. Or do you think God is punishing me for my past deeds?
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