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Hey unihorse Hide my identity I need to vent Hey unihorse I feel a real connection but I can’t tell if its innocent catch my self-looking lost in your beauty. I don’t feel tempted to do anything I just like what I see. Its love like pure unadulterated love its just love. Nervous yes I’m nervous I have zero intentions like I don’t care at all what we are what we will do zero plans what’s so ever. I just know that I feel better with you every love song makes sense when I’m with you. Time stops my heart skips a beat I don’t feel like I’m falling I feel like I’m floating I feel like there is no ground. I wish I could feel even the slightest bit of emotion with them but I can’t cause they are not u I used to be scared this would turn into lust. You just make me nervous I feel euphoric… only physical emotion I feel is the beat of my heart beating faster than usual. I know you don’t know this but I almost had a heart attack once. Prom. I hate the fact that you can still my attention and you don’t even have do anything. I hate the fact that I honestly can’t focus on what your saying heycause you just look so God dame good saying it. Love the way you pronounce words. Why do I find it cute you say chenguara instead of cheguara. Love your singing voice no matter how completely off pitch you are… I dnt expect any thing literally nothing I just miss you. I find my self recalling past events catch my self smiling in the car alone like a crazy person. I hate that every one in my house thinks I’m flirting with someone every time I text you cause I can’t help but smile. Hate the fact that I look at your profile when you don’t text me back quickly. What do you want me to say bitch I love you. #dontgetytoococky
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Hey unihorse Hide my identity I need to vent Hey unihorse I feel a real connection but I can’t tell if its innocent catch my self-looking lost in your beauty. I don’t feel tempted to do anything I just like what I see. Its love like pure unadulterated love its just love. Nervous yes I’m nervous I have zero intentions like I don’t care at all what we are what we will do zero plans what’s so ever. I just know that I feel better with you every love song makes sense when I’m with you. Time stops my heart skips a beat I don’t feel like I’m falling I feel like I’m floating I feel like there is no ground. I wish I could feel even the slightest bit of emotion with them but I can’t cause they are not u I used to be scared this would turn into lust. You just make me nervous I feel euphoric… only physical emotion I feel is the beat of my heart beating faster than usual. I know you don’t know this but I almost had a heart attack once. Prom. I hate the fact that you can still my attention and you don’t even have do anything. I hate the fact that I honestly can’t focus on what your saying heycause you just look so God dame good saying it. Love the way you pronounce words. Why do I find it cute you say chenguara instead of cheguara. Love your singing voice no matter how completely off pitch you are… I dnt expect any thing literally nothing I just miss you. I find my self recalling past events catch my self smiling in the car alone like a crazy person. I hate that every one in my house thinks I’m flirting with someone every time I text you cause I can’t help but smile. Hate the fact that I look at your profile when you don’t text me back quickly. What do you want me to say bitch I love you. #dontgetytoococky
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I never been in a r/ship. And whenever i think of girls i feel like they’re the devil. I recently made a new friend and he had a gf. Last week they argued on silly stuff, then she went on and fucked 4 of his other friends(gang bang). They guy is literally torn apart right now. And my hatred for females is more than ever. So girls, why are so devilish? Also if possible, please leave our planet.
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I never been in a r/ship. And whenever i think of girls i feel like they’re the devil. I recently made a new friend and he had a gf. Last week they argued on silly stuff, then she went on and fucked 4 of his other friends(gang bang). They guy is literally torn apart right now. And my hatred for females is more than ever. So girls, why are so devilish? Also if possible, please leave our planet.
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I've been down lately,like dead down, you know how life around you moves pretty fast and you're just wondering what the fuck is gonna happen to you, that's been me for the last year, I chose social class and it was an honest decision but it seems wrong these days,like I'm so fucking stupid to choose that, and then my career is also another heart attack I have absolutely no idea what the fuck in gonna do, I'm the most confused person in the whole world, then comes the part about relationships, no one likes me, no fucking one, I've never been in a relationship and I might die alone I'm never gonna find that one girl, that one who will stick by me forever, I tend to be a toxic to anyone I talk to on line or even in person, my life is a joke and I'm gonna die alone, I'm a loser with no future
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I've been down lately,like dead down, you know how life around you moves pretty fast and you're just wondering what the fuck is gonna happen to you, that's been me for the last year, I chose social class and it was an honest decision but it seems wrong these days,like I'm so fucking stupid to choose that, and then my career is also another heart attack I have absolutely no idea what the fuck in gonna do, I'm the most confused person in the whole world, then comes the part about relationships, no one likes me, no fucking one, I've never been in a relationship and I might die alone I'm never gonna find that one girl, that one who will stick by me forever, I tend to be a toxic to anyone I talk to on line or even in person, my life is a joke and I'm gonna die alone, I'm a loser with no future
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Hola peps! It is first time venting please admins approve my vent so here is the thing when ever I have sex with ma bf it is so painful not always actually buh most of the time n plus I use contraceptive pill ena gn after having sex with him all his sperm flow out from ma Vagina for like three days n above ena is in normal guls have u ever been in this situation? Am thinking that I can not get pregnant in the future am so worried plz be nice n give some advice thanks stay safe✌️
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Hola peps! It is first time venting please admins approve my vent so here is the thing when ever I have sex with ma bf it is so painful not always actually buh most of the time n plus I use contraceptive pill ena gn after having sex with him all his sperm flow out from ma Vagina for like three days n above ena is in normal guls have u ever been in this situation? Am thinking that I can not get pregnant in the future am so worried plz be nice n give some advice thanks stay safe✌️
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Hi am 22 am single. And no that's not the problem. The problem is i have been single all my life like i have never went out on a date EVER. You guys might probably think that i might be ugly or don't get a lot of guys attention but no my problem is not like that. The thing is am afraid of flirting with guys or the fear of liking someone and them not liking me. It like i need to be perfect and am not. Ughhh and the only guys that like me are the ones that are not my type. You don't need to be some perfect man to be my type. I just need some literate man with some sense of humor. And the guys that like me are mostly one of the two not both. So tell me what the fuck i should do. And am a girl so time is ticking so please me what to do!!!!
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Hi am 22 am single. And no that's not the problem. The problem is i have been single all my life like i have never went out on a date EVER. You guys might probably think that i might be ugly or don't get a lot of guys attention but no my problem is not like that. The thing is am afraid of flirting with guys or the fear of liking someone and them not liking me. It like i need to be perfect and am not. Ughhh and the only guys that like me are the ones that are not my type. You don't need to be some perfect man to be my type. I just need some literate man with some sense of humor. And the guys that like me are mostly one of the two not both. So tell me what the fuck i should do. And am a girl so time is ticking so please me what to do!!!!
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Hi everyone, i have been in this relation for the last 1 year and we both are at the same campus and things were going well. But this pandemic came and we all stayed home ena megenagnet alchalnim keza bohala long distance relationship wust geban. So the thing is that these days he is acting different ; the way he talk, the way he chat and everything with him has changed but i know personally sewun satagegnu be silk bicha judge mareg kebad nw gn betam tekeyerebign he don't even call me anymore it is me who always call or text ena i'm confused that he might be tired of this relationship ena i'm afraid of loosing him and the heart break. Ena beka yihen semon yale esu maseb alchalkum wuste yichenekal bizu negative negerochin eyasebku my mind liregaga alchalem. I don't even know what to do without him. Please guys i need ur suggestion. Thank you
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Hi everyone, i have been in this relation for the last 1 year and we both are at the same campus and things were going well. But this pandemic came and we all stayed home ena megenagnet alchalnim keza bohala long distance relationship wust geban. So the thing is that these days he is acting different ; the way he talk, the way he chat and everything with him has changed but i know personally sewun satagegnu be silk bicha judge mareg kebad nw gn betam tekeyerebign he don't even call me anymore it is me who always call or text ena i'm confused that he might be tired of this relationship ena i'm afraid of loosing him and the heart break. Ena beka yihen semon yale esu maseb alchalkum wuste yichenekal bizu negative negerochin eyasebku my mind liregaga alchalem. I don't even know what to do without him. Please guys i need ur suggestion. Thank you
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I was wondering ..when I was a teen I wasn't as depressed as the teens that vent here ,I was ...happy😐,I mean ofc there were tons of things to keep me down,to make me grump ,to make me give up but I didn't give much tot and focused on wt makes me happy which were all will be well tmrw, am not the only one going thru this there r hundreds ppls who have it worse mnamn eyalku ena esti teens pls think this way dont let ur tots get to u ,visualize wt u want and go for it ,focus only the happy moments ,the good things. If u dont hv frnds u got family ,if u Dont hv both u got God who's might who can be both a frnd and Lord. If ur atheist well idk focus on other things ...just don't let the gloomy tots consume u ..please! Am 20 yrs old btw
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I was wondering ..when I was a teen I wasn't as depressed as the teens that vent here ,I was ...happy😐,I mean ofc there were tons of things to keep me down,to make me grump ,to make me give up but I didn't give much tot and focused on wt makes me happy which were all will be well tmrw, am not the only one going thru this there r hundreds ppls who have it worse mnamn eyalku ena esti teens pls think this way dont let ur tots get to u ,visualize wt u want and go for it ,focus only the happy moments ,the good things. If u dont hv frnds u got family ,if u Dont hv both u got God who's might who can be both a frnd and Lord. If ur atheist well idk focus on other things ...just don't let the gloomy tots consume u ..please! Am 20 yrs old btw
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Hello.
I am anxious I don't want to be. It's becoming a loop, how shall I get out of it. I have phobia of opening up I talked to therapist, it was good but I did nothing afterwards neither did I call back. I don't have the courage to.
This all seems to be too childish, do I need validation? Is that the reason I'm venting.
It's useless, I can cry but I'll space out right at that time, I'll think 'wth why am I crying'
I don't know what to say.
I don't have the energy to vent.
I don't want to sleep but I'm sleepy.
I can laugh harder than anyone can imagine but I'm tired of watching movies, videos or anything it's too much for my brain. I can't take it.
I feel like breaking bonds but I know I have to endure otherwise I will regret it.
I don't know even know what to talk about.
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Hello.
I am anxious I don't want to be. It's becoming a loop, how shall I get out of it. I have phobia of opening up I talked to therapist, it was good but I did nothing afterwards neither did I call back. I don't have the courage to.
This all seems to be too childish, do I need validation? Is that the reason I'm venting.
It's useless, I can cry but I'll space out right at that time, I'll think 'wth why am I crying'
I don't know what to say.
I don't have the energy to vent.
I don't want to sleep but I'm sleepy.
I can laugh harder than anyone can imagine but I'm tired of watching movies, videos or anything it's too much for my brain. I can't take it.
I feel like breaking bonds but I know I have to endure otherwise I will regret it.
I don't know even know what to talk about.
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Okay guys how much is it to take a test for STDS and HIV for private or government clinic's ? I wanna know the total value pls help !!!
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Okay guys how much is it to take a test for STDS and HIV for private or government clinic's ? I wanna know the total value pls help !!!
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hi endetnachu😊 jus wanna take some advice from you guys ena mn meselachu am grade 12 student going to take exam on hedar. academically arif negn mnm alelem ena everyone's eye is on me👀 I swear zemedazmad beteseb gorobet mnamn bka ytebkugnal🙆yelalu enji ene gn all I have and all I trust is lord🙇 lately family demo yalenbet situation arif aydelem my dad got sick and we all are expecting him to be fine endemimeslegn gn job melkeku mnamn hula aykerm yaw gn geta yredawal bye amnalew mom tecenkalech bla bla bcha yehone yahl things are getting worse ena here's the thing ahun ye exam portion'm slanese gerami netb amtche lasdestachew efelgalew So,eski seqay temariwoch specially ke 580mnamn belay ametetachu campus mnamn yalachu eski ye atenan zede mnamn share argugn ena tchiyalesh belugn👀💪😊coz it means a lot to me ena please no -ve comments
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hi endetnachu😊 jus wanna take some advice from you guys ena mn meselachu am grade 12 student going to take exam on hedar. academically arif negn mnm alelem ena everyone's eye is on me👀 I swear zemedazmad beteseb gorobet mnamn bka ytebkugnal🙆yelalu enji ene gn all I have and all I trust is lord🙇 lately family demo yalenbet situation arif aydelem my dad got sick and we all are expecting him to be fine endemimeslegn gn job melkeku mnamn hula aykerm yaw gn geta yredawal bye amnalew mom tecenkalech bla bla bcha yehone yahl things are getting worse ena here's the thing ahun ye exam portion'm slanese gerami netb amtche lasdestachew efelgalew So,eski seqay temariwoch specially ke 580mnamn belay ametetachu campus mnamn yalachu eski ye atenan zede mnamn share argugn ena tchiyalesh belugn👀💪😊coz it means a lot to me ena please no -ve comments
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Hide my identity so people here I go I'm a girl 20 and I'm kind of a girl you want to have sex with right when you see me(physically) and I was Soo annoyed with like every single guy who talked to me but last year I met a guy that changed my whole mind and heart I never believed in love or relationships nobody believed me when I say I was single and then we started talking and I fell in love with him. I think he did too and I was Soo happy and didn't even try to see what he feels i could smile whenever I see him I couldn't control myself around him I felt something that I'll never feel and I know it I was HEAD OVER HEELS for him bca like in a relationship 7 wer kekoyeh bwala I felt somethings changed and I did something i regret till today and lost him I tried to put things bihind me ena mnm endalhonkugh lmasmesel dmo I'm very good at it ???? he never knew how I felt I should've done things write i should've belived him I regret everything like every thing I've done.and 3months letter I started going out tried to laugh and change myself and stuff met some guys and when ever they touch me or kiss me BOOM he is there.maybe it's so soon I said ena lela sewm skerb kesuga mawedader hone sraye I can't get him out of my mind I don't even know what to do he moved on real quick.why can't I and I've never been this honest with nobody.nobody knows how I feel please tell me what I can do I'm really making myself useless why can't I move on whyy?
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Hide my identity so people here I go I'm a girl 20 and I'm kind of a girl you want to have sex with right when you see me(physically) and I was Soo annoyed with like every single guy who talked to me but last year I met a guy that changed my whole mind and heart I never believed in love or relationships nobody believed me when I say I was single and then we started talking and I fell in love with him. I think he did too and I was Soo happy and didn't even try to see what he feels i could smile whenever I see him I couldn't control myself around him I felt something that I'll never feel and I know it I was HEAD OVER HEELS for him bca like in a relationship 7 wer kekoyeh bwala I felt somethings changed and I did something i regret till today and lost him I tried to put things bihind me ena mnm endalhonkugh lmasmesel dmo I'm very good at it ???? he never knew how I felt I should've done things write i should've belived him I regret everything like every thing I've done.and 3months letter I started going out tried to laugh and change myself and stuff met some guys and when ever they touch me or kiss me BOOM he is there.maybe it's so soon I said ena lela sewm skerb kesuga mawedader hone sraye I can't get him out of my mind I don't even know what to do he moved on real quick.why can't I and I've never been this honest with nobody.nobody knows how I feel please tell me what I can do I'm really making myself useless why can't I move on whyy?
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Hey guys ...to keep it short ..im a teenager but my lower back is killing me ...i can walk i can run i can sitdown but when i stand and bend to reach my toes my back hurts like a toe truck sitting on my back and then when i get back up tinsh yamegh ena yeteweghal...i think its disc mnamn gn what u guys think??..thanks in advance
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Hey guys ...to keep it short ..im a teenager but my lower back is killing me ...i can walk i can run i can sitdown but when i stand and bend to reach my toes my back hurts like a toe truck sitting on my back and then when i get back up tinsh yamegh ena yeteweghal...i think its disc mnamn gn what u guys think??..thanks in advance
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Hi.. so iam a guy first time to vent..so lets get to the point..i have a gf she is btm cute, awesome and i love her betam bcha this corona thing started and we dont meet as usual expectedly! So i dont mind waiting for her coz as i said i lover her betam but something is bothering me her ex is her neighbour and yeah they still talk😂😂😂😂 he comes over to her house and stuff....so shes not a type of girl to cheat...but come on im not that bad to be cheated on....yeah bcha she changed....you know we start a conversation and she be like owk ...thats how our conversations are .....she tells me to be offline mnamn that she is mad at me for no reason mnamn idk maybe to talk to him ......bcha wat do u think do u think im a side nigga or sth😂😂😂 wat should i do
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Hi.. so iam a guy first time to vent..so lets get to the point..i have a gf she is btm cute, awesome and i love her betam bcha this corona thing started and we dont meet as usual expectedly! So i dont mind waiting for her coz as i said i lover her betam but something is bothering me her ex is her neighbour and yeah they still talk😂😂😂😂 he comes over to her house and stuff....so shes not a type of girl to cheat...but come on im not that bad to be cheated on....yeah bcha she changed....you know we start a conversation and she be like owk ...thats how our conversations are .....she tells me to be offline mnamn that she is mad at me for no reason mnamn idk maybe to talk to him ......bcha wat do u think do u think im a side nigga or sth😂😂😂 wat should i do
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Hello guys, i really need your help here.I am a guy and 21....So i was that happy person who has a lots of friends a loving family. And i was also University student and everything was perfect until i moved to the US. I got lucky and won dv lottery and i had to move to the us in strangers house b/c i do not have any relatives here. So the struggle started there and it was really hard for me so i had to move out quickly from their house. After that i started working 6 days a week 10 hours a day and this whole thing was like a year ago and I've been depressed since then i have no friends or relatives who listen to the struggles I've been going through and you guys know how most Habesha people think that America is genet and every thing is easy and perfect right? That's exactly what happened to me.Nobody even my family don't want to listen my mental struggle and they only hear what they want to hear which is the tru tru bcha.When i try to tell them everything most of them think i am just lying to their face. And now i am having really bad mood swings. Imagine being alone with no friends or family to talk to for almost a year and also have to deal with financial stuff and paying rent and everything. So to make things short what should i do and how am i going to be back to my old me????????
I really need your help guys bians ayzoh belugn because no one said that to me le werat
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Hello guys, i really need your help here.I am a guy and 21....So i was that happy person who has a lots of friends a loving family. And i was also University student and everything was perfect until i moved to the US. I got lucky and won dv lottery and i had to move to the us in strangers house b/c i do not have any relatives here. So the struggle started there and it was really hard for me so i had to move out quickly from their house. After that i started working 6 days a week 10 hours a day and this whole thing was like a year ago and I've been depressed since then i have no friends or relatives who listen to the struggles I've been going through and you guys know how most Habesha people think that America is genet and every thing is easy and perfect right? That's exactly what happened to me.Nobody even my family don't want to listen my mental struggle and they only hear what they want to hear which is the tru tru bcha.When i try to tell them everything most of them think i am just lying to their face. And now i am having really bad mood swings. Imagine being alone with no friends or family to talk to for almost a year and also have to deal with financial stuff and paying rent and everything. So to make things short what should i do and how am i going to be back to my old me????????
I really need your help guys bians ayzoh belugn because no one said that to me le werat
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So I am currently 25yrs old. Married at 17, had my son at 19 divorced at 22. Then had another proposal for marriage after my divorce and later another boyfriend. All 3 serious relationships in my life has gone through. Keza I started fucking around mnamn for a year having some sexual partners. Then at the beginning of 2020 I decided to stop what I was doing ena rasen lemegzat. So it's been difin 1 amet since I had sex now and I no longer crave it. I am focusing on business only. What should I do to start flirting or relationships again and get back my natural desire.
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So I am currently 25yrs old. Married at 17, had my son at 19 divorced at 22. Then had another proposal for marriage after my divorce and later another boyfriend. All 3 serious relationships in my life has gone through. Keza I started fucking around mnamn for a year having some sexual partners. Then at the beginning of 2020 I decided to stop what I was doing ena rasen lemegzat. So it's been difin 1 amet since I had sex now and I no longer crave it. I am focusing on business only. What should I do to start flirting or relationships again and get back my natural desire.
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So am 18 gl if it helps the thing is i can't concentrate on things i wanna do am too lazy and that is making me feel sick and tired i can't use my time i just cancel everything i planned for just cuz am lazy to get up from my bed it's depressing me lately please help if i continue like this idk where i will end please guys i want your help how do u motivate ur self to work for wht u want
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So am 18 gl if it helps the thing is i can't concentrate on things i wanna do am too lazy and that is making me feel sick and tired i can't use my time i just cancel everything i planned for just cuz am lazy to get up from my bed it's depressing me lately please help if i continue like this idk where i will end please guys i want your help how do u motivate ur self to work for wht u want
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Hey everyone am a girl 21 and I am like home girl staff I never got out unless its school and church staff and I work betam in ma house ena ma friends stopped asking me if I wanted to hang out mnamn coz they now the answer will be no its not like I hate hanging out with them its moms insecurity about me going out that got me stranded iv never had a boy friend ena am kinda worried for ma future coz am dark as hell and I beef the sheet out of anyone to disrespect me mnamn ena help me eski what do I have to do to get rid of ma depression and negative attitude thank you
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Hey everyone am a girl 21 and I am like home girl staff I never got out unless its school and church staff and I work betam in ma house ena ma friends stopped asking me if I wanted to hang out mnamn coz they now the answer will be no its not like I hate hanging out with them its moms insecurity about me going out that got me stranded iv never had a boy friend ena am kinda worried for ma future coz am dark as hell and I beef the sheet out of anyone to disrespect me mnamn ena help me eski what do I have to do to get rid of ma depression and negative attitude thank you
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I know this vent might be disgusting but i really need your help guys please
I scratch my butt a lot to the point where am in pain, it happens at night. when am sleeping the itching starts.
I wash it constantly everyday with water( no sope) but still the itching doesnt stop
And am embarrassed to tell anyone about this and am scared it might have something to do with health problems so if any of you know about this please help me please
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I know this vent might be disgusting but i really need your help guys please
I scratch my butt a lot to the point where am in pain, it happens at night. when am sleeping the itching starts.
I wash it constantly everyday with water( no sope) but still the itching doesnt stop
And am embarrassed to tell anyone about this and am scared it might have something to do with health problems so if any of you know about this please help me please
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I really do not understand why the habesha community is so homophobic? If people were homophobic for the sake of religion, then why do they stop their hate-mongering at just the LGBTQ+ community. Wouldn’t they be attacking other religions? Or other groups of people who commit “sinful” actions? Is it because y’all automatically sexualize mlm or wlw relationships and rather than seeing two people loving each other, you only see them as objects of sex? What is it that makes you HATE people who have done nothing to intentionally hurt you in any way? Potentially people you know, your brothers or sisters, your friends, maybe even your children? Their existence does nothing to harm you and yet you feel the need to go out of your way to harm them. I’m bisexual. It’s taken me a long time to be able to say those words. Because in addition to the hate I see take place in my surroundings, I’ve also been dealing with the hate for myself that i have due to my sexuality. People often don’t like to acknowledge that members of the LGBTQ+ community are also people, so they can hurt us without feeling guilty for their actions. But we can’t do the same, so as we’re faced with hate from others, we start to hate ourselves. We try our hardest to make it go away, to make ourselves normal. But we can’t, because it’s not a choice. That causes the pain, the pain inflicted on us by others, the pain inflicted on us by ourselves. And the fear, the constant crippling fear of being outed and disowned, possibly assaulted or even murdered for who we are. And something we don’t talk about that often, is the longing. The longing we constantly have to be accepted, to be treated like human beings, to be loved. Because end of the day, that’s what it comes down to. We’re not hurting anyone, we don’t have any ulterior motives. We just want to be happy and we want to be loved. Just like every single other person in this world. Remind yourself of that the next time you feel the need to hurt or attack a person of the community. And ask yourself why you so desperately want to hurt someone who hasn’t hurt you?
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I really do not understand why the habesha community is so homophobic? If people were homophobic for the sake of religion, then why do they stop their hate-mongering at just the LGBTQ+ community. Wouldn’t they be attacking other religions? Or other groups of people who commit “sinful” actions? Is it because y’all automatically sexualize mlm or wlw relationships and rather than seeing two people loving each other, you only see them as objects of sex? What is it that makes you HATE people who have done nothing to intentionally hurt you in any way? Potentially people you know, your brothers or sisters, your friends, maybe even your children? Their existence does nothing to harm you and yet you feel the need to go out of your way to harm them. I’m bisexual. It’s taken me a long time to be able to say those words. Because in addition to the hate I see take place in my surroundings, I’ve also been dealing with the hate for myself that i have due to my sexuality. People often don’t like to acknowledge that members of the LGBTQ+ community are also people, so they can hurt us without feeling guilty for their actions. But we can’t do the same, so as we’re faced with hate from others, we start to hate ourselves. We try our hardest to make it go away, to make ourselves normal. But we can’t, because it’s not a choice. That causes the pain, the pain inflicted on us by others, the pain inflicted on us by ourselves. And the fear, the constant crippling fear of being outed and disowned, possibly assaulted or even murdered for who we are. And something we don’t talk about that often, is the longing. The longing we constantly have to be accepted, to be treated like human beings, to be loved. Because end of the day, that’s what it comes down to. We’re not hurting anyone, we don’t have any ulterior motives. We just want to be happy and we want to be loved. Just like every single other person in this world. Remind yourself of that the next time you feel the need to hurt or attack a person of the community. And ask yourself why you so desperately want to hurt someone who hasn’t hurt you?
#LGBTQ+ ????????
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Hey I am girl in my 20's. I read books and I try to grow. People say that maturity also comes with age. But I have never seen so much change in my life. In fact, when I was 20, what I thinking and doing was better than what I am doing now.manebebem It didn't help me that much.I don't know what my problem is. pls recommend me how I can be a wise and intelligent woman.
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Hey I am girl in my 20's. I read books and I try to grow. People say that maturity also comes with age. But I have never seen so much change in my life. In fact, when I was 20, what I thinking and doing was better than what I am doing now.manebebem It didn't help me that much.I don't know what my problem is. pls recommend me how I can be a wise and intelligent woman.
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I’m in a tough position so please admins approve. I’ve been in relationship with this guy for a couple years and I’ve been seeing red flags those days. It’s not like he cheating on me or anything but I dont feel like he’s the one. He don’t call and we argue over silly things. He says things I’ll never expect from him and that gets me real angry sometimes. We don’t talk serious stuffs recently as we should. I love him and he says he do too but is love enough to make a relationship work? Also I’ve compromised a lot of things in this r/s and idk what do anymore. But I’m tired and exhausted of arguing .. imagine what would happen in the future if we have one. I don wanna hurt him so I don wanna decide quick but I feel like the longer we stay the bigger the damage will be.
Thanks in advance.
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I’m in a tough position so please admins approve. I’ve been in relationship with this guy for a couple years and I’ve been seeing red flags those days. It’s not like he cheating on me or anything but I dont feel like he’s the one. He don’t call and we argue over silly things. He says things I’ll never expect from him and that gets me real angry sometimes. We don’t talk serious stuffs recently as we should. I love him and he says he do too but is love enough to make a relationship work? Also I’ve compromised a lot of things in this r/s and idk what do anymore. But I’m tired and exhausted of arguing .. imagine what would happen in the future if we have one. I don wanna hurt him so I don wanna decide quick but I feel like the longer we stay the bigger the damage will be.
Thanks in advance.
#Relationship #Adult