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Hey so am a girl in my early 20s. This might be so triffling compared to what most people vent abt buhh idk what to do. Soo here is the deal, my sis and her bf broke up a year back . Buhh the break up went a lil hard on him compared to her ,he got depressed and shit . Him being that way started affecting her so i decided to head in and idk make shit better. Plus we are in the same college and i used to hang out with them while they were together so i thought it was a great idea and I started talking to him keza through time he became better and better which led to her feeling less guilty . Everything was good until he said he was having feelings for me and atfirst i turned him down jockingly and stuff buhh through time he started getting serious and saying that if i wont be with him that he will hurt himself. And i have always been that girl who is a pushover and easily manipulated . So inorder for him to not be hurt i became involved with him . Through time i started developing self hate .. i just couldnt bear the fact that am with my sisters bf. And the fact that he manipulated me into the r/nship made it even worse. She compeletly moved on from the r/nship (in a serious r/nship)buhh still feel bad .So a few months ago i came to the verge of ending it but he started to selfharm .so i didnt end it . Anyways why are men so toxic and manipulative ? Bicha in conclusion idk what to do ..please give me some advice ,anything would do .????
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So here me out I'll tell u how my whole 20 years have been I was born outside of adis and I came here when I was like 2 I grew up here and I had a few friends first one thought it was a good idea to tell everyone in class I was poor I promise I wasn't even that poor so everyone decided to make fun of me and kick me out of free periods ikr messed up well life continued and I forgave her cause people didn't like her for long they said she was some things I can't say and then she decided to have relevance by telling my class mates I had fistula mind you I've never even heard of that word at that time so I was basically bullied to a point where I had to change school and then guess who decided to fall in love with a dude out of my league ☺️ me again so well turns out my bsf also liked him so...uk I dropped it then I changed school again people bullied me for having an affair with my teacher my freaking teacher and I was only in grade 5 it was just that I liked science and he liked me cause I was smart changed school again lost all hope so I stopped having friends people don't seem to let me go tho,girls get jealous of something I don't even have( beauty),and literally all my boy friends were like "I have feelings for u"I was so harsh with my words damn but anyways if u guys saw me ud be like tf is wrong with them why they simping over this but trust me idek and then time passes I'm now 20 with no friends lonely asf on my bed 🛌 rethinking life so yeah thanks for listening 🎧

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Hi everyone, so a question i wanna ask for religious people, because idk I'm Confused i think...why do you believe in God? Does it make sense to believe in a God that has seen so many horrific acts on humanity yet done nothing? Like growing up i was an orthodox Christian but lately i just don't see the point. Malet why would I believe in him if he never helps me or anyone for that matter? Just so that i could get into heaven? Doesn't that make it a transaction.. Do this for me and you'll get this.. If my simple Parents can love me unconditionally without asking for anything, Why can't he love us all without all the tests, all the rules or the preconditions? Why can't he make our life easier...

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Hey it's not my first time Venting here but I think it's time I did it again. Now I'm here because I'm an 18 year old boy who is always an introvert, I never really stood out, I never real fit in anywhere and I didn't hate it, but when time came by i had a crush on the most beautiful girl i have ever seen, I swear she has the prettiest smile, but I never dared to talk to her, I was just too afraid I don't know what to say to my close friends let alone my crush, I really need your help, is it ok to be like this, I would really love answers

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My life is a wreck, I hate it, I was hoping 2013 was gonna be a good year with good opportunities and new things but it might be even worse than 2012, I can feel it, why do the good and nice guys has always to suffer ha, why???... I'm interested in a girl so is my friend, he is a player but am a nice guy, she fall for him knowing he is a player, you know what I think it's time to quit being nice, it's very hurt ful, why does other ppls plans succeed but mine, doesn't matter what the plan is, he plans to sleep with her... mission success, I plan to sleep with her, for me a wishful thinking, you know I don't even have idea why it's hurting she has the right to kiss him and be interested in him but not me, am only sexually attracted to her, so is he, succeed for him, the nice guy is always the one who get hurt, and the girl feels sorry for me demo lol so funny, the worst part I live together with them...any ways it is what it is life goes on...I want u guys to give me advice how to be an alpha male, nice guy is who I have always been and will be, it's who I am.

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Hi.
I'm a liar, I lie constantly not that it want to but it makes it easier to deal with things, the guilt that comes with it is mine to take care of.
I lie to myself, I don't believe in my thoughts, there are so many kinds of me when I'm thinking or in a situation, every one of myself tells me so many different things that I completely don't understand what to do.
I went to therapist not really sure what for, his behaviour made me feel like I've made up everything about my problems, nothing felt real when I told him.
He referred me to some other place, and that's it. That was when I broke.
I stopped opening up. Now that I talk to myself I don't remember what I was feeling to begin with and I forget what should I do. It sounds so simple but the problem is I have to deal with everyone I can't hide even if I want to. And that's makes it more difficult. I don't understand human things. It's so difficult. I don't understand the way humans work, it has pressurised me to such an extent that I don't understand what I am doing anymore.
I simply rely on instructions that makes it easier.
I don't know what my problem is what I actually want to talk about, it seems there are thousands of problems but when I open my mouth I've nothing to say.
If I tell myself it's all in my head, I'm good. But I can't close my mind, I don't understand what is happening.
I don't understand why do I need someone to listen to me, why is it necessary? I don't understand anything. I'm so confused.
I don't understand. I know for a fact this won't be approved but that's ok. I don't know what hashtag to use. I don't know what I'm feeling. I'm crying while writing this but i don't believe in my emotions I feel like they are delusional as well, a pretentiousness.

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Hey so I've never exactly vented before so sorry if this is messy
So I'm a guy 18 never actually been in a relationship I mean I think I'm decent looking been mentioned before😅
I don't know if it's being a good guy but nothing I ever really wanted happens to me I've been in love twice I don't even beg like other people do if it's a no I just respect the decision and keep hurting by myself
I don't think I could ever be loved especially in this quarentine everything is just I'm spending too much time in my head no one to vent It to every girl that approaches me for a certain thing just leaves after getting to know me
And I don't even open up to anyone it takes me much time to do but after I do when i need that emotional support that I've seen other girlfriends give to their bf
Idk won't let keep blabbing 😅

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I am lazy. I have a lot of expectations from myself, that I don’t meet of course. I also have self doubt. the funny thing is I want to be influential, I want to motivate people and stuff. However my motivation is just occasional. that alone kills my motivation to motivate others.
some part of me tells me that I can make this thing work, that I can teach people how to live a happy life and how to win ...some part of me thinks that’s a bullshit!
I want you guys to share me your ideas, including the negative shifts

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My parents specially my father had been through a lot while raising me up. they sacrificed many of their things for z sake of mine and my siblings' future. I mean only my dad had a job and he was the only provider for the family.. for some reason he hadn't gone farther in his school so he didn't want his kids to suffer as much as he did, he wanted us to be excellent in our education and now his struggle seems to bear a fruit; i'm learning medicine, my siblings are also in a good place. but our economic status is not still good. nobody has got a job yet and started to help my dad in providing for z family
and from z way my parents specially my mom talks, i can c dat i'm their hope in assisting my dad in providing for z family and that was my primary goal too, and i thought nothing is gonna prevent me from doing so. But lately, i started dating this girl and i began to think what and how my life's gonna be when i get married and it made me feel awful, i'm afraid that i will let my parents down cuz they expect much from me and obviously getting married isn't one of those, at least not yet.
so what do u think?
Thanks in advance for ur advice

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So I don’t know how to tell this cuz it’s just so confusing to me. But this time i ll try to vent it all since it’s been 7 months since i knew my biggest nightmare. I had been in this relationship with this guy I loved for like 2 years. He is literally the most toxic person I have ever seen. It was like hell like he just turn simple situations in a big ass fights, he’s a control freak. He don’t wanna me to hangout with my girl best friends..and don’t even think about male best friends . I literally stopped all my connection with friends. He would beat me , insult me.... and when i tell hem that this has to stop he would literally cry begging me to stay with em. Like every goddamn time! So long story short I found the courage to break things with him before 11 months and i was doin fine.mind you am not that type that someone would control me and do all that stuff normal buhh for em it’s like easy . I accept it as if it’s ok. Then after 4 months of the break up i discovered my worst nightmare which is my mom was abused by my father before they divorced and left me.... i was a kid when this happened like 4 year mnamn ena she was literally crying when she told me that. And my dad who has been my hero in my life was that narcissistic person for her. And raising me .... he told me how my mom left me... how he begged her to stay with em bla bla... that she is selfish and arrogant....and I hated her for this matter. But now am like she did the right thing to do on her place. I don’t want her to sell her life for me by living with someone who abused her mentally and physically. So this” having a narcissistic parents sets you up to accept abuse in later relationships “ thing makes me wonder a lot cuz before 1 month that dude called me and begged me to be with em and that he’s changed bla bla.... the city we live in is so far from other but he even came to see me. Bla bla . And yes my dumb as forgived em for the millions times and am with him now. But I couldn’t be like before anymore...... and i am watching his narcissistic behaviors come up with time..... and any one with narcissistic divorced parents and toxic people and has moved on from the trauma please help me out 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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Have u ever thought what life would have been like if we were always honest with all that matters or atleast honest enough to be ourselves? Even when we meet new people instead of giving them the sugarcoated side of ourselves wouldn't it be easier more certain they will stay if we were honest.
Hi I'm Ma. I'm cheerful, passionate, good hearted, friendly, kind and warm person also real jealous, pessimist, lost, overthinker, emotional and miserable. I love surprises nature and art and I hate stupidity, judgement and not being center of attention. I'm too hopeful to believe in true love & destiny and too desperate to have kissed handful guys to know they arenot the one. I'm too smart, assertive & observant enough to give mind blowing advices and to stupid enough to procastinate everyday. Im dark & twisted. I would say pleased to meet u but I'm not sure....
This would be my greeting
I dont know yours but this is me.

Who would you be? Does it scare you? Is that all you are? Would I run away if u show me your true self? Would you?

If we were honest maybe it wouldnt be that big of a problem.

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Hey guys, so this is my second time venting and it's a related topic to the first one, i hope u can give me opinions, am having a difficult time in my life right now, I missed the days I used to spend time with my friends at campus, I missed the days I used to spend time with my family, I missed the days were I used to talk and hang out with my friends and family, but slowly and gradually it all started to disappear, I passed a lot of ups and downs in my life and I always hope better things to come but it doesn't seem to end😔...am now living with my uncle spending time alone, I don't hang out with my friends late alone call them, my family are not here and i am Currently struggling for happiness, I want true friends, best friends, who can accept me for who I am because most people tend to hate me, I am an introvert guy who u call meskin ena am not good at communication too, am spending my days sad, no where to go, no one to talk to, I want to change, I want to have a goal and a purpose, were I can get back home feeling happy and satisfied, I don't know how to change, I have certain addictions I can not get rid of, do share ur opinions pls

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I want to begin by saying this is one of those things that I have tried to change about my self with a propelling proportion but have failed to do so. Human biochemistry in our brains and nervous systems are very different from one human to human so it's difficult for one human to understand another humans internal structure, decision making tree, and why the DNA fluke that created you might behave differently because of different distribution of cells and hormons. Our subjective perspective of the world and life is relative and therefore it's easy for us to criticize each other without realizing there is a universal one force that unites us and guides us make the decisions we make, to shape it's own unison. we forget we are simple animals here to serve our natural purpose, to do our best for the universe, give birth and die, the story is not about us. It's not even about our kids. It's about their kid. It's not even about their kid. It's about their kid's kid... Nature is a weird force I tell you. I understand that and I want you to read with caution because I have criticized and augemented myself to live by the unspoken social contract we all live by. But I still think I should share my human feelings of my subjective life and it's struggles.

When I was younger I fantasized a lot about having sex with my daughter. From very young till she married and it got pretty intense at times. I’ve had to masturbate countless times while thinking about her. I’ve sniffed her panties and masturbated with them too. When she was young it was difficult for me to see her naked without becoming erect, then as she grew it became more and more difficult to hide my hard on. She would tease me from time to time so I knew she knew about my situation. Many times I would hurriedly finish whatever I was doing when I catch a sight of her nude then I’d excuse myself to go get myself off. Nothing ever happened physically but it was always a near miss. We are and have always been very close, she’s never tried to avoid me and she still stays in close contact from college till now that she’s older and has kids which are in their teens. She recently confessed to me her fantasies were real since she was a little kid. Of course nothing did happen but it made me wonder how common but unspoken tensions father<->daughter relationships are.

At the end of the day it is ALL love, sometimes easy to mistake for lust. Especially for someone who bonds with you and looks so much like your wife when she was younger.

Please leave your judgements at the door, I have criticized myself for 47 years. You can't criticize me in a way I haven't thought of....

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Hey y'all. Just want to say and ask something. So i have a very very tiny boobs like you cant imaging and im 19 and lets not even start with my nipple cuties! Selachu they dont even exist???????? i have like 9 year old girl's boobs. Other than that everything about is actually amazing. I got a tiny waist and big ass( thank God for that)
But my boobs bother me a lot. And for the boys out there does it affect relationships mnmn and for the girls is there any solution other than surgery ????????????
Would really appriciate it if yall say something
Thanks for reading
And have an amazing year ????

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So the thing is am not the kind of girl who plays hard to get I mean if I like some guy and he flirts with me I flirt back, and am the type of person to be open about what I feel and am really wild when it comes to the sex department. so my question is for the males here ena is it really bad that i go for the things I love because the ladies be like " you need to play hard to get if you want him to respect you" is it true? Like do you boys think like that I would appreciate it if you comment.
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Hey guys I have vent here about this thing but I came here to said it with different way I have been suffering from anxiety and depression lately and its harder more than I thought I am in highest level I can't talk about this thing to my family's not because they hate me or have no time for me just busy and ayrdugm manmn my friends dmo I have 5 friends 3 of them we are in different school and I don't even think they love me cause they don't show me and 2 of them are my gorbet I love them they love me betammm enkrarbalen gen yaw ensun maschgr alchlm wule uno ena idk my life is pretty messy rn I lost my mind I lose interest with the most things I love I don't have anything to be happy with please help me with ur beautiful advice........

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Well hello.....hope y'all are staying safe. This is a little complicated but I hope you guys can help untangle my situation.....ok so I am in my early 20's and i have know for a while about the fact that my bestfriend from high school has had feelings for me ever since high school(real legitimate feelings) and I didn't feel the same way no, i couldn't feel the same way because I only saw him as a friend but i genuinely cared about him so i didn't want to hurt him so i was honest with him. Now the tangling began when my longtime bf and I decided to take a break because things were hard with our relationship being long distance and all. So one day i casually meet my bestfriend for coffee right and things escalated and we wound up kissing and i hated myself after that because that meant that i was giving him a chance n i knew that was wrong because my heart still went out to my ex anyways i ended things, left things hanging but still ended things telling him i still have feelings for my ex and now i talk to my ex(normal conversations since we're both not intrested in having a relationship at the moment) but i also talk to my bestfriend and it is hard for him everytime he talks to me I can tell by the way he says things in the middle of conversations and all and ik i really really know that i am not gone end up with him because even tho we don't talk much about it my ex n I still love each other and wanna see where things go when he gets back after abt a year or so....

Bottom line is I need help with what i should do about my bestfriend cause it has been almost 8 years now n his feelings haven't changed if anything i think they've grown so what to do ppl help?!

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I need to ask my habesha society this question before i decide something, for a guy who hasn't got his shit together mentally,emotionally and financally which one do u think is more selfish being loyal in one r.ship because i want the girl to get me through my shit even tough it's draining her energy or being a player just having sex with girls and leaving so they can find somebody better ?

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So I have been seeing some sort of flash back from when I was a kid so I think it was when I was in kg 2 I am almost 20 now so that makes it 13years ago there was this kid who would ask me to go to the bathroom with him so one day he was playing in the zwazwe so he tells me that he will let me play if I go with him I remember playing in it and then he says we have to go now then I followed him we went in to the bathroom he closed the door and I remember him telling me to open my legs wider and my mind goes blank I don't know whether if it is real or something I created I don't know what really happened what could possibly happen we were kids and I have seen him around we live in same neighborhood and whenever i see him I just want to escape i feel suffocated I always felt that way about him when I see him around but I start remembering this last few years. I don't know what I am supposed to do. did something really happened that day or is my mind playing tricks on me??

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Hello everyone! I am a 21 year old girl who got something to vent here.. when I was 5 years old I had a fire accident that leaves me with a big scar from by butt down to my thighs and I always get scared when I saw my body.. deep down in my mind i think that no man would accept me because of the scar I have.

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Hey guys. I was thinking of moving in with my bf. He's an awesome guy n am just so in love with him. The thing is am a college student (20 yrs old). He has a job and we have a 6 and a half years age difference.
Wt I wanna ask you guys is do you think am doing the right thing? will he share responsibilities equally with me and that I will be able to finish my studies? Will a guy wait for 3/4 yrs if he's in such kinda situation?

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