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I'm kinda messed up rn... I'm sexually attracted to my brother. It started a year ago when I caught him jerking off I dont think anyone turned me on as much as he did that day. His dick was OMG I don't even know how to describe it it just makes me want to do a lot of stuff to it. It was weird after I saw him that day. keza yehone Ken film eyayen ngr things got heated ena we kissed and we do it all the time after that I'm even scared we might hv sex ena please help me I wanna stop but btm slemiasabd akategn what should I do?
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I'm kinda messed up rn... I'm sexually attracted to my brother. It started a year ago when I caught him jerking off I dont think anyone turned me on as much as he did that day. His dick was OMG I don't even know how to describe it it just makes me want to do a lot of stuff to it. It was weird after I saw him that day. keza yehone Ken film eyayen ngr things got heated ena we kissed and we do it all the time after that I'm even scared we might hv sex ena please help me I wanna stop but btm slemiasabd akategn what should I do?
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Hi. I'm 23 year old guy. This is my first time here so bear with me..
So I've never been a guy that's much into serious relationships. All my relationships have been sort of 'casual'. This is till i met this girl around the time i was 21. We immediately hit it off. The chemistry we had was amazing. Like I had never felt this sort of connection with anyone before. I could talk to her for hours and still never run out of things to talk about So it's easy to say I was head over heels for this girl. It was so unlike me. We started dating and things were great for the first year or so. Then there comes this friend guy 'friend'. They started hanging out a lot. She wouldn't stop talking about him. Now I don't get jealous usually but this guy, the way he looks at her, the way he hugs her when they say goodbye, the 24/7 texting.. I know for a fact what his intentions are, I'm a guy but of course my then gf keeps telling me he's a friend. Long story short, she cheated. She comes to me me one day and told me we need to talk. She told me he kissed her but nothing else happened. He's the one who kissed her and she didn't do anything wrong. I blew up, I said some hurtful things. She cried alot bcha the whole thing was very messy. Anywho she broke up with me. This was around 6 months ago. The break up hit me hard. I know she cheated but still idk i was in love with her i guess. All the time, i was thinking how could she do this to me.. I fell back into old habits. Drinking, smoking among other stuff. This was rock-bottom for me. Now a couple of weeks back, she texted me how are you mnamn.. We haven't talked after the break up. We talked and in the end she tells me she misses me, she's changed and asks me if I could forgive her and get back together? I don't know what to do. I love her but the things she did isn't something I could forgive. And if it was any other girl I would have said stay away from me but I don't know when it comes to her. I remember the good times then I remember all the things I did for her while she was doing God knows what with that guy and it boils my blood thinking what a fool i must have looked. I just don't know what to do. What would you do if you were me?
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Hi. I'm 23 year old guy. This is my first time here so bear with me..
So I've never been a guy that's much into serious relationships. All my relationships have been sort of 'casual'. This is till i met this girl around the time i was 21. We immediately hit it off. The chemistry we had was amazing. Like I had never felt this sort of connection with anyone before. I could talk to her for hours and still never run out of things to talk about So it's easy to say I was head over heels for this girl. It was so unlike me. We started dating and things were great for the first year or so. Then there comes this friend guy 'friend'. They started hanging out a lot. She wouldn't stop talking about him. Now I don't get jealous usually but this guy, the way he looks at her, the way he hugs her when they say goodbye, the 24/7 texting.. I know for a fact what his intentions are, I'm a guy but of course my then gf keeps telling me he's a friend. Long story short, she cheated. She comes to me me one day and told me we need to talk. She told me he kissed her but nothing else happened. He's the one who kissed her and she didn't do anything wrong. I blew up, I said some hurtful things. She cried alot bcha the whole thing was very messy. Anywho she broke up with me. This was around 6 months ago. The break up hit me hard. I know she cheated but still idk i was in love with her i guess. All the time, i was thinking how could she do this to me.. I fell back into old habits. Drinking, smoking among other stuff. This was rock-bottom for me. Now a couple of weeks back, she texted me how are you mnamn.. We haven't talked after the break up. We talked and in the end she tells me she misses me, she's changed and asks me if I could forgive her and get back together? I don't know what to do. I love her but the things she did isn't something I could forgive. And if it was any other girl I would have said stay away from me but I don't know when it comes to her. I remember the good times then I remember all the things I did for her while she was doing God knows what with that guy and it boils my blood thinking what a fool i must have looked. I just don't know what to do. What would you do if you were me?
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Helloo everyone. I hope we will have a better year in 2013. So I am from somewhere else and I study in Addis. So yehen Beal beteseb gar neberkugn ena ke friendoch gar tekemten and hulet eyalen eyetechawetin a group of 5 girls egna yalebet bar metew tekemtew meteta jemeru. Then all of my friends where wtffff setochu abedu ende ferat mnamn kere ende bka mnamn eyalu mashmuatet jemeru. Idk suddenly I got mad and what is wrong with it mnamn alkuachew keza tilk disagreement wust geban🤦♂. All of them Vs. only me malet new. What am saying is mnalebet bebeal ken sometimes ke friends gar honew bemefelegut mood feta belu? What is wrong with that. Egna kuch blen entetalen enechawetalen a, or weys enesu setoch selehonu new endzh seyadergu sew endemenak memokerew? Is there anyone who thinks like me koy? I was fucking alone yesterday. They mentioned setoch endezh aynet bota bekerebu kutr yemebelashet probablityachew yechemral so memtat yelebachewm, setoch ketetu le adega yemegalet metenachew yechemeral slezh aytetu ayzenanu ebet kuch yebelu mnamn...we r the danger here eko, we men are the danger who try to use advantages here aydel ende🤷♂. Tf is wrong with this generation. Come on society society eyetebale eskemech anget tedefto yenoral? Am sick of this shit man.
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Helloo everyone. I hope we will have a better year in 2013. So I am from somewhere else and I study in Addis. So yehen Beal beteseb gar neberkugn ena ke friendoch gar tekemten and hulet eyalen eyetechawetin a group of 5 girls egna yalebet bar metew tekemtew meteta jemeru. Then all of my friends where wtffff setochu abedu ende ferat mnamn kere ende bka mnamn eyalu mashmuatet jemeru. Idk suddenly I got mad and what is wrong with it mnamn alkuachew keza tilk disagreement wust geban🤦♂. All of them Vs. only me malet new. What am saying is mnalebet bebeal ken sometimes ke friends gar honew bemefelegut mood feta belu? What is wrong with that. Egna kuch blen entetalen enechawetalen a, or weys enesu setoch selehonu new endzh seyadergu sew endemenak memokerew? Is there anyone who thinks like me koy? I was fucking alone yesterday. They mentioned setoch endezh aynet bota bekerebu kutr yemebelashet probablityachew yechemral so memtat yelebachewm, setoch ketetu le adega yemegalet metenachew yechemeral slezh aytetu ayzenanu ebet kuch yebelu mnamn...we r the danger here eko, we men are the danger who try to use advantages here aydel ende🤷♂. Tf is wrong with this generation. Come on society society eyetebale eskemech anget tedefto yenoral? Am sick of this shit man.
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Listen since y’all are sooo opinionated about a woman’s body, why don’t you do as a favor and all get vasectomies as a mass? Like honestly lets make it a rule. Since a woman gets slut shamed for sex while you don’t and a woman gets called a murderer for dealing with the consequences of sex such as abortion while you get off scot free... lets try this. Vasectomies till you get married. Everyone wins. Take the burden with us eski since yall have a whole lot to us about our decisions while getting nothing but the perks of the action.
“Snip. Snap. Snip. Snap. Snip. Snap” bonus points for whoever can tell me whose quote this is lol
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Men... men, men, men
Listen since y’all are sooo opinionated about a woman’s body, why don’t you do as a favor and all get vasectomies as a mass? Like honestly lets make it a rule. Since a woman gets slut shamed for sex while you don’t and a woman gets called a murderer for dealing with the consequences of sex such as abortion while you get off scot free... lets try this. Vasectomies till you get married. Everyone wins. Take the burden with us eski since yall have a whole lot to us about our decisions while getting nothing but the perks of the action.
“Snip. Snap. Snip. Snap. Snip. Snap” bonus points for whoever can tell me whose quote this is lol
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hide my identity..so i have a gf and we have been together for 5 years..in the first 3 years what we had was more than love i swear u cant even imagine how much we loved each other i was so and only into her since she was my first and only..so the last two years she became a stranger that i dont know all she giving me is pain unbearable pain...her mood swings i tried to talked to her even egrwa laye wedke..but i guess she dont love anymore...but she wont break up with me because she likes to see me suffer,i gave her all my time my money my everything i left my family for her but all she giving me is pain...i wont break up with her because her response would be""😂😂😂okay bye""..so i wont let that happen i want a revenge giving her a pain that goes all long with her life. I might kill her then kill my self i dont know anyways..bye
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hide my identity..so i have a gf and we have been together for 5 years..in the first 3 years what we had was more than love i swear u cant even imagine how much we loved each other i was so and only into her since she was my first and only..so the last two years she became a stranger that i dont know all she giving me is pain unbearable pain...her mood swings i tried to talked to her even egrwa laye wedke..but i guess she dont love anymore...but she wont break up with me because she likes to see me suffer,i gave her all my time my money my everything i left my family for her but all she giving me is pain...i wont break up with her because her response would be""😂😂😂okay bye""..so i wont let that happen i want a revenge giving her a pain that goes all long with her life. I might kill her then kill my self i dont know anyways..bye
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I'm a teenage girl who recently became a vegan, and I'm really soft about it. I've always been a meat-eater, but now, I cry every time I witness a slaughter or any form of animal abuse. I know I can't do much about it, and it makes me more depressed everyday.
Please tell me what you think about animal rights. And fellow vegans, how do you deal with this nagging feeling and empathy?
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I'm a teenage girl who recently became a vegan, and I'm really soft about it. I've always been a meat-eater, but now, I cry every time I witness a slaughter or any form of animal abuse. I know I can't do much about it, and it makes me more depressed everyday.
Please tell me what you think about animal rights. And fellow vegans, how do you deal with this nagging feeling and empathy?
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Hello, 'am in need of your Help, esp protestant ppl appreciated. I grown up in a strict christian family. Lately I began to loss faith. Like I started to think anything about Christianity isn't right, life after death, heaven hell, bible stories, prophecy, healing and lot other stuffs
Prayer about resisting the devil
tekatel (yet) tewega(endet) and every day we do that he ain't going away.
Whenever I pray and read the bible i ended up saying this doesn't sound right.
I mean the life style the Bible teaches us is good but that doesn't justify every other stories. Plus I've no spiritual mentor to cries this out.
Beka, thanks in advance.
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Hello, 'am in need of your Help, esp protestant ppl appreciated. I grown up in a strict christian family. Lately I began to loss faith. Like I started to think anything about Christianity isn't right, life after death, heaven hell, bible stories, prophecy, healing and lot other stuffs
Prayer about resisting the devil
tekatel (yet) tewega(endet) and every day we do that he ain't going away.
Whenever I pray and read the bible i ended up saying this doesn't sound right.
I mean the life style the Bible teaches us is good but that doesn't justify every other stories. Plus I've no spiritual mentor to cries this out.
Beka, thanks in advance.
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I'm not going to write about my resentment towards my family because a single vent might not be enough. I'm just trying to ask, is it just my family or is your parents and siblings the most toxic people in your life too? I won't generalize it but honestly ende habesha welajoch chegr yalebachew welajoch alem lay yale aymeslegnem. Okay think about it... How many abortions happened because the girl was scared of disappointing her family? How many dreams fell short for parents with popular opinion based expectations? How many rape victims concealed their story in order not to bring shame to our parents? How many people denied their sexuality because they thought it would kill their parents? How many people hid their questions about religion and nonsense doctrines because they were scared that their families would silence them? Honestly, how many of us got personally and SERIOUSly bullied by our siblings and parents more than anyone else? Every problem we see in adults today has something to do with the way they were raised. Mothers laugh when their kids point at a "funny looking" man and say something mean and when that child grows up without empathy installed in their head, they'll hurt soooo many people's feelings. I'm not complaining. I'm trying to change something. Something little but might do something. Can you be a little kinder to your family? Your siblings, especially younger ones. Even just children around you. Those little kids mimic your actions like the way they learn how to speak from hearing you talk. If you have kids one day, dear readers, please next to giving them all the love in your heart, show them how to love others and how compassion and kindness can heal more wounds than painful words can cause. Let the change start in you, okay? I wish someone had told my family this because I wouldn't have been a wreck if not. That's all, have a great new year.
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I'm not going to write about my resentment towards my family because a single vent might not be enough. I'm just trying to ask, is it just my family or is your parents and siblings the most toxic people in your life too? I won't generalize it but honestly ende habesha welajoch chegr yalebachew welajoch alem lay yale aymeslegnem. Okay think about it... How many abortions happened because the girl was scared of disappointing her family? How many dreams fell short for parents with popular opinion based expectations? How many rape victims concealed their story in order not to bring shame to our parents? How many people denied their sexuality because they thought it would kill their parents? How many people hid their questions about religion and nonsense doctrines because they were scared that their families would silence them? Honestly, how many of us got personally and SERIOUSly bullied by our siblings and parents more than anyone else? Every problem we see in adults today has something to do with the way they were raised. Mothers laugh when their kids point at a "funny looking" man and say something mean and when that child grows up without empathy installed in their head, they'll hurt soooo many people's feelings. I'm not complaining. I'm trying to change something. Something little but might do something. Can you be a little kinder to your family? Your siblings, especially younger ones. Even just children around you. Those little kids mimic your actions like the way they learn how to speak from hearing you talk. If you have kids one day, dear readers, please next to giving them all the love in your heart, show them how to love others and how compassion and kindness can heal more wounds than painful words can cause. Let the change start in you, okay? I wish someone had told my family this because I wouldn't have been a wreck if not. That's all, have a great new year.
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Hello everyone ,i hope you're all doing fine.This two years have been really tough for me but,thanks to a friend of mine who has been there for me on my hard days,I actually started to feel like i belonged in this world.But lately I've been feeling weak and emotial,my mood siwng is in a whole new different level.I have no idea how to cope with this.I can't always go to my friend and ask for his help, i don't want to be a burden to him. Beside he has been real distant and I don't even know why.I have no idea why i'm venting this and yea that's all and thank you in advance.
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Hello everyone ,i hope you're all doing fine.This two years have been really tough for me but,thanks to a friend of mine who has been there for me on my hard days,I actually started to feel like i belonged in this world.But lately I've been feeling weak and emotial,my mood siwng is in a whole new different level.I have no idea how to cope with this.I can't always go to my friend and ask for his help, i don't want to be a burden to him. Beside he has been real distant and I don't even know why.I have no idea why i'm venting this and yea that's all and thank you in advance.
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So I'm 20 years old and I've been in a relationship before but we broke up 😃 since I don't want to do all the things girlfriends are supposed to do I guess like I will never kiss someone ,hold hands or do anything sexual cause it's just not the way I express my love it may be weird I guess gn mn ladrg I'm not comfortable about those things I could be head over heels for u but I still won't do those things,I'm not exaggerating when I say I've had sooo many chances to be with guys they fall in love but then I leave cause I don't think anyone would be accepting of me😔is there a chance that there are dudes who accept me with my boundaries or am I dreaming ,don't insult me please tell me guys🥺
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So I'm 20 years old and I've been in a relationship before but we broke up 😃 since I don't want to do all the things girlfriends are supposed to do I guess like I will never kiss someone ,hold hands or do anything sexual cause it's just not the way I express my love it may be weird I guess gn mn ladrg I'm not comfortable about those things I could be head over heels for u but I still won't do those things,I'm not exaggerating when I say I've had sooo many chances to be with guys they fall in love but then I leave cause I don't think anyone would be accepting of me😔is there a chance that there are dudes who accept me with my boundaries or am I dreaming ,don't insult me please tell me guys🥺
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Hey so am a girl in my early 20s. This might be so triffling compared to what most people vent abt buhh idk what to do. Soo here is the deal, my sis and her bf broke up a year back . Buhh the break up went a lil hard on him compared to her ,he got depressed and shit . Him being that way started affecting her so i decided to head in and idk make shit better. Plus we are in the same college and i used to hang out with them while they were together so i thought it was a great idea and I started talking to him keza through time he became better and better which led to her feeling less guilty . Everything was good until he said he was having feelings for me and atfirst i turned him down jockingly and stuff buhh through time he started getting serious and saying that if i wont be with him that he will hurt himself. And i have always been that girl who is a pushover and easily manipulated . So inorder for him to not be hurt i became involved with him . Through time i started developing self hate .. i just couldnt bear the fact that am with my sisters bf. And the fact that he manipulated me into the r/nship made it even worse. She compeletly moved on from the r/nship (in a serious r/nship)buhh still feel bad .So a few months ago i came to the verge of ending it but he started to selfharm .so i didnt end it . Anyways why are men so toxic and manipulative ? Bicha in conclusion idk what to do ..please give me some advice ,anything would do .????
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Hey so am a girl in my early 20s. This might be so triffling compared to what most people vent abt buhh idk what to do. Soo here is the deal, my sis and her bf broke up a year back . Buhh the break up went a lil hard on him compared to her ,he got depressed and shit . Him being that way started affecting her so i decided to head in and idk make shit better. Plus we are in the same college and i used to hang out with them while they were together so i thought it was a great idea and I started talking to him keza through time he became better and better which led to her feeling less guilty . Everything was good until he said he was having feelings for me and atfirst i turned him down jockingly and stuff buhh through time he started getting serious and saying that if i wont be with him that he will hurt himself. And i have always been that girl who is a pushover and easily manipulated . So inorder for him to not be hurt i became involved with him . Through time i started developing self hate .. i just couldnt bear the fact that am with my sisters bf. And the fact that he manipulated me into the r/nship made it even worse. She compeletly moved on from the r/nship (in a serious r/nship)buhh still feel bad .So a few months ago i came to the verge of ending it but he started to selfharm .so i didnt end it . Anyways why are men so toxic and manipulative ? Bicha in conclusion idk what to do ..please give me some advice ,anything would do .????
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So here me out I'll tell u how my whole 20 years have been I was born outside of adis and I came here when I was like 2 I grew up here and I had a few friends first one thought it was a good idea to tell everyone in class I was poor I promise I wasn't even that poor so everyone decided to make fun of me and kick me out of free periods ikr messed up well life continued and I forgave her cause people didn't like her for long they said she was some things I can't say and then she decided to have relevance by telling my class mates I had fistula mind you I've never even heard of that word at that time so I was basically bullied to a point where I had to change school and then guess who decided to fall in love with a dude out of my league ☺️ me again so well turns out my bsf also liked him so...uk I dropped it then I changed school again people bullied me for having an affair with my teacher my freaking teacher and I was only in grade 5 it was just that I liked science and he liked me cause I was smart changed school again lost all hope so I stopped having friends people don't seem to let me go tho,girls get jealous of something I don't even have( beauty),and literally all my boy friends were like "I have feelings for u"I was so harsh with my words damn but anyways if u guys saw me ud be like tf is wrong with them why they simping over this but trust me idek and then time passes I'm now 20 with no friends lonely asf on my bed 🛌 rethinking life so yeah thanks for listening 🎧
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So here me out I'll tell u how my whole 20 years have been I was born outside of adis and I came here when I was like 2 I grew up here and I had a few friends first one thought it was a good idea to tell everyone in class I was poor I promise I wasn't even that poor so everyone decided to make fun of me and kick me out of free periods ikr messed up well life continued and I forgave her cause people didn't like her for long they said she was some things I can't say and then she decided to have relevance by telling my class mates I had fistula mind you I've never even heard of that word at that time so I was basically bullied to a point where I had to change school and then guess who decided to fall in love with a dude out of my league ☺️ me again so well turns out my bsf also liked him so...uk I dropped it then I changed school again people bullied me for having an affair with my teacher my freaking teacher and I was only in grade 5 it was just that I liked science and he liked me cause I was smart changed school again lost all hope so I stopped having friends people don't seem to let me go tho,girls get jealous of something I don't even have( beauty),and literally all my boy friends were like "I have feelings for u"I was so harsh with my words damn but anyways if u guys saw me ud be like tf is wrong with them why they simping over this but trust me idek and then time passes I'm now 20 with no friends lonely asf on my bed 🛌 rethinking life so yeah thanks for listening 🎧
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Hi everyone, so a question i wanna ask for religious people, because idk I'm Confused i think...why do you believe in God? Does it make sense to believe in a God that has seen so many horrific acts on humanity yet done nothing? Like growing up i was an orthodox Christian but lately i just don't see the point. Malet why would I believe in him if he never helps me or anyone for that matter? Just so that i could get into heaven? Doesn't that make it a transaction.. Do this for me and you'll get this.. If my simple Parents can love me unconditionally without asking for anything, Why can't he love us all without all the tests, all the rules or the preconditions? Why can't he make our life easier...
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Hi everyone, so a question i wanna ask for religious people, because idk I'm Confused i think...why do you believe in God? Does it make sense to believe in a God that has seen so many horrific acts on humanity yet done nothing? Like growing up i was an orthodox Christian but lately i just don't see the point. Malet why would I believe in him if he never helps me or anyone for that matter? Just so that i could get into heaven? Doesn't that make it a transaction.. Do this for me and you'll get this.. If my simple Parents can love me unconditionally without asking for anything, Why can't he love us all without all the tests, all the rules or the preconditions? Why can't he make our life easier...
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Hey it's not my first time Venting here but I think it's time I did it again. Now I'm here because I'm an 18 year old boy who is always an introvert, I never really stood out, I never real fit in anywhere and I didn't hate it, but when time came by i had a crush on the most beautiful girl i have ever seen, I swear she has the prettiest smile, but I never dared to talk to her, I was just too afraid I don't know what to say to my close friends let alone my crush, I really need your help, is it ok to be like this, I would really love answers
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Hey it's not my first time Venting here but I think it's time I did it again. Now I'm here because I'm an 18 year old boy who is always an introvert, I never really stood out, I never real fit in anywhere and I didn't hate it, but when time came by i had a crush on the most beautiful girl i have ever seen, I swear she has the prettiest smile, but I never dared to talk to her, I was just too afraid I don't know what to say to my close friends let alone my crush, I really need your help, is it ok to be like this, I would really love answers
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My life is a wreck, I hate it, I was hoping 2013 was gonna be a good year with good opportunities and new things but it might be even worse than 2012, I can feel it, why do the good and nice guys has always to suffer ha, why???... I'm interested in a girl so is my friend, he is a player but am a nice guy, she fall for him knowing he is a player, you know what I think it's time to quit being nice, it's very hurt ful, why does other ppls plans succeed but mine, doesn't matter what the plan is, he plans to sleep with her... mission success, I plan to sleep with her, for me a wishful thinking, you know I don't even have idea why it's hurting she has the right to kiss him and be interested in him but not me, am only sexually attracted to her, so is he, succeed for him, the nice guy is always the one who get hurt, and the girl feels sorry for me demo lol so funny, the worst part I live together with them...any ways it is what it is life goes on...I want u guys to give me advice how to be an alpha male, nice guy is who I have always been and will be, it's who I am.
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My life is a wreck, I hate it, I was hoping 2013 was gonna be a good year with good opportunities and new things but it might be even worse than 2012, I can feel it, why do the good and nice guys has always to suffer ha, why???... I'm interested in a girl so is my friend, he is a player but am a nice guy, she fall for him knowing he is a player, you know what I think it's time to quit being nice, it's very hurt ful, why does other ppls plans succeed but mine, doesn't matter what the plan is, he plans to sleep with her... mission success, I plan to sleep with her, for me a wishful thinking, you know I don't even have idea why it's hurting she has the right to kiss him and be interested in him but not me, am only sexually attracted to her, so is he, succeed for him, the nice guy is always the one who get hurt, and the girl feels sorry for me demo lol so funny, the worst part I live together with them...any ways it is what it is life goes on...I want u guys to give me advice how to be an alpha male, nice guy is who I have always been and will be, it's who I am.
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Hi.
I'm a liar, I lie constantly not that it want to but it makes it easier to deal with things, the guilt that comes with it is mine to take care of.
I lie to myself, I don't believe in my thoughts, there are so many kinds of me when I'm thinking or in a situation, every one of myself tells me so many different things that I completely don't understand what to do.
I went to therapist not really sure what for, his behaviour made me feel like I've made up everything about my problems, nothing felt real when I told him.
He referred me to some other place, and that's it. That was when I broke.
I stopped opening up. Now that I talk to myself I don't remember what I was feeling to begin with and I forget what should I do. It sounds so simple but the problem is I have to deal with everyone I can't hide even if I want to. And that's makes it more difficult. I don't understand human things. It's so difficult. I don't understand the way humans work, it has pressurised me to such an extent that I don't understand what I am doing anymore.
I simply rely on instructions that makes it easier.
I don't know what my problem is what I actually want to talk about, it seems there are thousands of problems but when I open my mouth I've nothing to say.
If I tell myself it's all in my head, I'm good. But I can't close my mind, I don't understand what is happening.
I don't understand why do I need someone to listen to me, why is it necessary? I don't understand anything. I'm so confused.
I don't understand. I know for a fact this won't be approved but that's ok. I don't know what hashtag to use. I don't know what I'm feeling. I'm crying while writing this but i don't believe in my emotions I feel like they are delusional as well, a pretentiousness.
#Adult
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
Hi.
I'm a liar, I lie constantly not that it want to but it makes it easier to deal with things, the guilt that comes with it is mine to take care of.
I lie to myself, I don't believe in my thoughts, there are so many kinds of me when I'm thinking or in a situation, every one of myself tells me so many different things that I completely don't understand what to do.
I went to therapist not really sure what for, his behaviour made me feel like I've made up everything about my problems, nothing felt real when I told him.
He referred me to some other place, and that's it. That was when I broke.
I stopped opening up. Now that I talk to myself I don't remember what I was feeling to begin with and I forget what should I do. It sounds so simple but the problem is I have to deal with everyone I can't hide even if I want to. And that's makes it more difficult. I don't understand human things. It's so difficult. I don't understand the way humans work, it has pressurised me to such an extent that I don't understand what I am doing anymore.
I simply rely on instructions that makes it easier.
I don't know what my problem is what I actually want to talk about, it seems there are thousands of problems but when I open my mouth I've nothing to say.
If I tell myself it's all in my head, I'm good. But I can't close my mind, I don't understand what is happening.
I don't understand why do I need someone to listen to me, why is it necessary? I don't understand anything. I'm so confused.
I don't understand. I know for a fact this won't be approved but that's ok. I don't know what hashtag to use. I don't know what I'm feeling. I'm crying while writing this but i don't believe in my emotions I feel like they are delusional as well, a pretentiousness.
#Adult
Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Hey so I've never exactly vented before so sorry if this is messy
So I'm a guy 18 never actually been in a relationship I mean I think I'm decent looking been mentioned before😅
I don't know if it's being a good guy but nothing I ever really wanted happens to me I've been in love twice I don't even beg like other people do if it's a no I just respect the decision and keep hurting by myself
I don't think I could ever be loved especially in this quarentine everything is just I'm spending too much time in my head no one to vent It to every girl that approaches me for a certain thing just leaves after getting to know me
And I don't even open up to anyone it takes me much time to do but after I do when i need that emotional support that I've seen other girlfriends give to their bf
Idk won't let keep blabbing 😅
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Hey so I've never exactly vented before so sorry if this is messy
So I'm a guy 18 never actually been in a relationship I mean I think I'm decent looking been mentioned before😅
I don't know if it's being a good guy but nothing I ever really wanted happens to me I've been in love twice I don't even beg like other people do if it's a no I just respect the decision and keep hurting by myself
I don't think I could ever be loved especially in this quarentine everything is just I'm spending too much time in my head no one to vent It to every girl that approaches me for a certain thing just leaves after getting to know me
And I don't even open up to anyone it takes me much time to do but after I do when i need that emotional support that I've seen other girlfriends give to their bf
Idk won't let keep blabbing 😅
#Teen
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I am lazy. I have a lot of expectations from myself, that I don’t meet of course. I also have self doubt. the funny thing is I want to be influential, I want to motivate people and stuff. However my motivation is just occasional. that alone kills my motivation to motivate others.
some part of me tells me that I can make this thing work, that I can teach people how to live a happy life and how to win ...some part of me thinks that’s a bullshit!
I want you guys to share me your ideas, including the negative shifts
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I am lazy. I have a lot of expectations from myself, that I don’t meet of course. I also have self doubt. the funny thing is I want to be influential, I want to motivate people and stuff. However my motivation is just occasional. that alone kills my motivation to motivate others.
some part of me tells me that I can make this thing work, that I can teach people how to live a happy life and how to win ...some part of me thinks that’s a bullshit!
I want you guys to share me your ideas, including the negative shifts
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My parents specially my father had been through a lot while raising me up. they sacrificed many of their things for z sake of mine and my siblings' future. I mean only my dad had a job and he was the only provider for the family.. for some reason he hadn't gone farther in his school so he didn't want his kids to suffer as much as he did, he wanted us to be excellent in our education and now his struggle seems to bear a fruit; i'm learning medicine, my siblings are also in a good place. but our economic status is not still good. nobody has got a job yet and started to help my dad in providing for z family
and from z way my parents specially my mom talks, i can c dat i'm their hope in assisting my dad in providing for z family and that was my primary goal too, and i thought nothing is gonna prevent me from doing so. But lately, i started dating this girl and i began to think what and how my life's gonna be when i get married and it made me feel awful, i'm afraid that i will let my parents down cuz they expect much from me and obviously getting married isn't one of those, at least not yet.
so what do u think?
Thanks in advance for ur advice
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I need to vent
My parents specially my father had been through a lot while raising me up. they sacrificed many of their things for z sake of mine and my siblings' future. I mean only my dad had a job and he was the only provider for the family.. for some reason he hadn't gone farther in his school so he didn't want his kids to suffer as much as he did, he wanted us to be excellent in our education and now his struggle seems to bear a fruit; i'm learning medicine, my siblings are also in a good place. but our economic status is not still good. nobody has got a job yet and started to help my dad in providing for z family
and from z way my parents specially my mom talks, i can c dat i'm their hope in assisting my dad in providing for z family and that was my primary goal too, and i thought nothing is gonna prevent me from doing so. But lately, i started dating this girl and i began to think what and how my life's gonna be when i get married and it made me feel awful, i'm afraid that i will let my parents down cuz they expect much from me and obviously getting married isn't one of those, at least not yet.
so what do u think?
Thanks in advance for ur advice
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Hi there
It’s my first time to vent
So I don’t know how to tell this cuz it’s just so confusing to me. But this time i ll try to vent it all since it’s been 7 months since i knew my biggest nightmare. I had been in this relationship with this guy I loved for like 2 years. He is literally the most toxic person I have ever seen. It was like hell like he just turn simple situations in a big ass fights, he’s a control freak. He don’t wanna me to hangout with my girl best friends..and don’t even think about male best friends . I literally stopped all my connection with friends. He would beat me , insult me.... and when i tell hem that this has to stop he would literally cry begging me to stay with em. Like every goddamn time! So long story short I found the courage to break things with him before 11 months and i was doin fine.mind you am not that type that someone would control me and do all that stuff normal buhh for em it’s like easy . I accept it as if it’s ok. Then after 4 months of the break up i discovered my worst nightmare which is my mom was abused by my father before they divorced and left me.... i was a kid when this happened like 4 year mnamn ena she was literally crying when she told me that. And my dad who has been my hero in my life was that narcissistic person for her. And raising me .... he told me how my mom left me... how he begged her to stay with em bla bla... that she is selfish and arrogant....and I hated her for this matter. But now am like she did the right thing to do on her place. I don’t want her to sell her life for me by living with someone who abused her mentally and physically. So this” having a narcissistic parents sets you up to accept abuse in later relationships “ thing makes me wonder a lot cuz before 1 month that dude called me and begged me to be with em and that he’s changed bla bla.... the city we live in is so far from other but he even came to see me. Bla bla . And yes my dumb as forgived em for the millions times and am with him now. But I couldn’t be like before anymore...... and i am watching his narcissistic behaviors come up with time..... and any one with narcissistic divorced parents and toxic people and has moved on from the trauma please help me out 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
#Family #Relationship #Adult #Agitation
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
Hide my identity.
Hi there
It’s my first time to vent
So I don’t know how to tell this cuz it’s just so confusing to me. But this time i ll try to vent it all since it’s been 7 months since i knew my biggest nightmare. I had been in this relationship with this guy I loved for like 2 years. He is literally the most toxic person I have ever seen. It was like hell like he just turn simple situations in a big ass fights, he’s a control freak. He don’t wanna me to hangout with my girl best friends..and don’t even think about male best friends . I literally stopped all my connection with friends. He would beat me , insult me.... and when i tell hem that this has to stop he would literally cry begging me to stay with em. Like every goddamn time! So long story short I found the courage to break things with him before 11 months and i was doin fine.mind you am not that type that someone would control me and do all that stuff normal buhh for em it’s like easy . I accept it as if it’s ok. Then after 4 months of the break up i discovered my worst nightmare which is my mom was abused by my father before they divorced and left me.... i was a kid when this happened like 4 year mnamn ena she was literally crying when she told me that. And my dad who has been my hero in my life was that narcissistic person for her. And raising me .... he told me how my mom left me... how he begged her to stay with em bla bla... that she is selfish and arrogant....and I hated her for this matter. But now am like she did the right thing to do on her place. I don’t want her to sell her life for me by living with someone who abused her mentally and physically. So this” having a narcissistic parents sets you up to accept abuse in later relationships “ thing makes me wonder a lot cuz before 1 month that dude called me and begged me to be with em and that he’s changed bla bla.... the city we live in is so far from other but he even came to see me. Bla bla . And yes my dumb as forgived em for the millions times and am with him now. But I couldn’t be like before anymore...... and i am watching his narcissistic behaviors come up with time..... and any one with narcissistic divorced parents and toxic people and has moved on from the trauma please help me out 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
#Family #Relationship #Adult #Agitation
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Have u ever thought what life would have been like if we were always honest with all that matters or atleast honest enough to be ourselves? Even when we meet new people instead of giving them the sugarcoated side of ourselves wouldn't it be easier more certain they will stay if we were honest.
Hi I'm Ma. I'm cheerful, passionate, good hearted, friendly, kind and warm person also real jealous, pessimist, lost, overthinker, emotional and miserable. I love surprises nature and art and I hate stupidity, judgement and not being center of attention. I'm too hopeful to believe in true love & destiny and too desperate to have kissed handful guys to know they arenot the one. I'm too smart, assertive & observant enough to give mind blowing advices and to stupid enough to procastinate everyday. Im dark & twisted. I would say pleased to meet u but I'm not sure....
This would be my greeting
I dont know yours but this is me.
Who would you be? Does it scare you? Is that all you are? Would I run away if u show me your true self? Would you?
If we were honest maybe it wouldnt be that big of a problem.
#Agitation
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
Have u ever thought what life would have been like if we were always honest with all that matters or atleast honest enough to be ourselves? Even when we meet new people instead of giving them the sugarcoated side of ourselves wouldn't it be easier more certain they will stay if we were honest.
Hi I'm Ma. I'm cheerful, passionate, good hearted, friendly, kind and warm person also real jealous, pessimist, lost, overthinker, emotional and miserable. I love surprises nature and art and I hate stupidity, judgement and not being center of attention. I'm too hopeful to believe in true love & destiny and too desperate to have kissed handful guys to know they arenot the one. I'm too smart, assertive & observant enough to give mind blowing advices and to stupid enough to procastinate everyday. Im dark & twisted. I would say pleased to meet u but I'm not sure....
This would be my greeting
I dont know yours but this is me.
Who would you be? Does it scare you? Is that all you are? Would I run away if u show me your true self? Would you?
If we were honest maybe it wouldnt be that big of a problem.
#Agitation