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Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am Ruti
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Hey guys how u doing will am not fine I am girl 17yrs old the thing is I always feel like lost,alone,unloved, unhappy I really tried to have hope live longer but my relationship with my Family n friends is the worse I always make a mistake am always wrong about every thing any one don't deserve me am so disc ousting thing ever there is no one helping me naw am so alone I don't know how but I need help pls pls help me am giving my self another chance not to die
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The thing is that i am a boy...22 years old and never been in any relationship or never had any sex life it's because of that am afraid to try cause i think am not good enougn in every department..am short,slim and not a good looking guy so my heart always fear that no girl wants to have a date with me. I feel like am left behind coz my friends and even my younger relatives have the life that i always wanted to see...the other thing is i was very obsessed with masturbation while watching porn and now am afraid to have sex with girls.. i have been in bed with two girls for hours and can't even make any move coz i didn't know how..can any one help me please??
girls what do you have to say for a guy like me??
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Hi am guy 24. Long story short my friend has a crush on a girl who loves me and me too. but I did not tell my friend that. And am scared of losing him. sometimes we date but immediately I start regretting like jelesen yekadekute ayenete semete new missemage. pls what should I do?

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Soo here's my story as weird and bizarre as it sounds, I'm struggling badly. Before corona came i was fairly happy, I worked out, studied and I dated many women. Corona came i sat home i read books and stayed active, nothing unusual. One day as i was reading a book in isolation in my room i had a thought "what if I'm gay?"I don't know why but I freaked out about that, because i never liked a man that kinda way. I always thought i find the right woman marry her and have kids. always liked women to the core, it triggered a never stopping 2-3 week long anxiety. Then I learned it might be a form of OCD(psychological problem) then i did what the books and and internet told me and managed it. But even after the anxiety is gone the thoughts are still in my head and i feel like I'm going crazy(literally). i look at the women I've dated, and my eyes feel up with tears. I overthink everything all day, from dawn to dusk, my heart is always beating, my family knows there's something wrong with me and they try to figure it out, gn mn teblo ynegeral, i don't understand it either. Mind you I'm not homophobic..Please, please help me out. I think i need professional help, if there's anyone out there help out

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I am a man i'm 27, i would like your opinions members, Thankyou for your time in advance.
I have been in a relationship for 6 years it has been good overall, except on one thing sexual experiences my girl has always been slow at this things it took many months just to kiss her many more months just to go to French ( you get the pace), sex was off the table until i got my own place (felt like something she said to delay & i didn't want to rush her if it wasn't her interest) so i did, i rented out to an apartment 2 years ago and yet nothing has happened we tried sex twice but she got too scared to enjoy anything i didn't even finish.
Now i don't want to push i have stopped asking day by day it has been worse for sexual experience we kiss 1-2 times a week and we meet a lot!, i am losing my good man character a week ago i invited a girl who is a friend to see my apartment i didn't really cheat but we were hugging and holding hands, touching faces as we were watching a movie it was all i could think about after she left, yesterday i asked her if we could watch another move after work and we did we both liked the touching and hugging and it felt like i was on the brink of cheating i hated myself, i don't want to be this man i want to be good and loyal, so my question,
should i demand that i need sexual experiences if we are to continue our relationship? Can you rly demand this kinds of things? Do you think breaking up is a solution if she is still not interested in sex? Or should i just let feelings take their course and find physical pleasures elsewhere(cheat)?

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Trust trust trust....hardest thing in the world its like you give your trust once then what you see the world like a place where you only got yourself wellll yes trust is hard for me how do y'all trust eachother esti I want this answer malete whp do you trust these days?who is trust worthy for me only God,I wish someone could tell me how the hell you give you trust somebody this days😂😂I know its fucking funny but I just wonder how it happenes again once its broken like a broken glass opps its fucking down broken and then what another person comes along and tells you to trust you no fuck that shit i only got me on this world yes the world is a lonely place its fucking lonely and what i hear this days is silence girls come with their shit and boy with their bullshit trying to use my fucking body its hard to find somebody who is true and genuine there is only God ok am I wrong?thats what ive been seeing in my young age im too young for bullshit like this I feel so fucking lonely so so so fucking lonely there is nobody out there who I could trust,tell me how to trust 😔yes im hurting fuck it.

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I'm the type of girl who loves watching shows and browsing the internet. My friends and classmates on the other hand enjoy posting on social media and they're very active. When I see their posts I feel like I'm missing out on something. I also don't text ppl that often and I'm lazy about it even with my bestfriends. I'm also not interested in dating nor have I ever dated. I've had crushes but relationships are a whole different thing. Most times I'm okay with it. I tell myself that I have my own thing going on and don't necessarily have to be like ppl on social media. But once in a while, it hits me. What if I am missing out on something?
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I'm 24...something happened to me when I was 10 years old. I never talked about this with anyone I try to google it but there is no real answer. The thing is i lived in my aunt house for some time and her son did something while I was sleep. I sometimes wakes up with no underwear....my question is if he did something to me how come I didnt feel pain? Shouldn't it be so painful that I will not forget. Now i work in International company I have nice job good personality but I never been in relationship never even kissed even if guys are into me. always afraid what if I am not V. Bicha this always bothers me ...can you please gives me some answers

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I am Michelle
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nowadays, i can't help but to feel like i'm a burden to the people i love and using them as my rant reliever. i can't help but to feel like i'm adding my life problems, no matter if they are about personal issues, uncontrollable emotions or sharing my noisy thoughts. they're a bunch of busy people so everytime i start talking to them, i end up the conversation with arguments, negative thoughts or feeling like i'm such a disappointment to them as a friend. i keep worrying about such issues until i forget to cherish their presence sometimes and notice the importance of doing so when everyone is gone and i'll be left behind, sitting in an empty room and think of why the hell didn't i follow my friend's advice or whatsoever when all they would do is help. i hate being alone. i hate using them as my listener. i hate throwing more fire into their fire but me being me, to push them away. this cycle will keep repeating itself for as long as i'm alive, round and round like horses on a carousel. sigh.

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Am just writing sth complicated or maybe it only for me here it goes. Am in lv with someone who knows me on TG ena ahun am in lv with him we hadn't seen each other but we are like best friends.. bzu erasu alaweranm almost 4 month if i tell him i know we will be together gn like relationship for fun neger yan demo alfelgewm.. for real thing am not he's type.. as i said we talk freely we say what we want.. ena mnm andebabekm gn i know the type of girls that he lv but the truth hurts.. i tried to tell him last night ena he feel like am joking ena am like ya am kidding.. buh it hurts too..
Pls guys what should i do?

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So here is the thing... I have a guy bestfriend and One day he told me about a girl he dated when he was 2nd year in campus. She was his first and he was hers. Ena gen he was dumb enough to break up with her when she got a scholarship Ena didn't even say goodbye when she left. She begged him gen keledobat sedbaw kortolat tezegagu keza when she is gone he missed her. He hurt himself by reading the texts(insults) she sent him 4 years ago so often and by making her picture his wallpaper. I told him "if u really feel that bad and u love her y don't u talk to her now... She will be here next year. I'm sure she will be happy to be with u again..." Menamen gen he said she deserve better Ena I felt it in his voice how hurt he is and how he meant those words. Plus he said he is afraid he might lose this feeling if she forgives him Ena they r back together and hurt her bedigami. Kesua behuala I've talked to many girls gen none of them r like her. No one can replace her. The only girl that come closer is u.

Gen I want to convince him to man up and at least get some closure but ik the guy better than anyone sew milewn ayisemam... So wat do I do... I don't want to see him like this. He doesn't deserve it by any means. And I can't make him forget her. Ik that for sure.

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Girl,20 Am tired of crying over something I couldn't change. Am insecure about my height, am short. Have you ever thought of your words, have you ever thought how hard your making my life, I know am short but hearing it from you really hurts,hearing it from someone really hurts, it's not me who did this, it's God's work, what can I do,how can I change it. The worst part of the pain is that I still couldn't accept myself. Am not that short, but can be called short. It's a real case, am really suffering from your words, it really hurts. They say that they wish they had my shape n beauty, they say that the world is lucky to have me but this all doesn't come into account when someone says your short. "Out of 10 people if 9 of them told you that your beautiful and the remaining 1 told you that u r ugly, your gonna keep overthinking about this one person." And this is what's happening to me. Planned of talking to a psychiatrist, then asked a friend who once visited a psychiatrist but she laughed and said "it's not something that needs a psychiatrist they're gonna laugh at you, nothing happened to you eko yedelaw muq yagnekal alu" Are you guys gonna say the same, did I really have to wait until something happens to me? Am grateful for everything, am not complaining, I know I can wear heels but it still hurts when someone says shorty. I just laugh and joke with you when you say this but cry to death when I am alone, crying over something you couldn't change it really hurts, it's another level pain. It's really painful. This all happens cause of your simple yet painful words. Please don't say it to your friends, family or anyone. We all laugh with you while dying inside. What can I really reply when you say "your short " other than laughing with you. I couldn't say I know since we're close, or friends or family...I don't wanna reply you with rude words or show you am mad cause that doesn't make any sense for you since you just said it for fun. Think before you speak, words might kill or heal. I know you guys say it for starting conversation or for fun I know you guys don't say it to hurt me but it really hurts, couldn't explain the pain in words. It's fun for you, it's pain for me. Btw am still grateful for everything, I still won't complain though am in pain, am still gonna laugh with you. At least try not to say it...it's just seconds of fun for you while it's days, weeks, months and years of pain for me since I can't change it, I always be thinking about it rather than working for it.
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There is something I want to shed a light on..
That is agony which is my life

I'm gay and I didnt choose to be and I wasn't converted.. I was born that way and people should get that in their heads, HOW COULD I CHOOSE TO BE GAY IN THIS COMMUNITY?!! And I do not live a happy life never have and I've accepted that I never will even my family has turned a blind eye to me since I came out to them and its expected ETHIOPIA is the Homeland of Homophobia.. I've already accepted everything but I just dont want to other people to suffer the way I've suffered... I've attempted suicide so many times now ive lost count, so PLEASE!!! Just don't be closed to people with a different sexuality than your own.. I dont want people to suffer the way I suffered, and for all the comments I know is gonna be said which is "ITS A SIN" If God doesn't want me to to be Gay why would he make me like this I didnt as for any of this. IM just So tired so This is my last message , PLEASE ITS TIME FOR CHANGE..

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Hey

Since Corona started I have been reading plenty of books and articles and I have found that there personality types and that your behaviour is fixed hence your life is determined by your personality which you have no control of and never chose ,and I been really depressed since it seems hopless that we are bound to always act according to our personalities and that we have no control over it ,so what do you guys think is it true do you think personalities could be changed or are we destined to be what we never chose to be ,people who read a lot about this stuff only answer no personal opinions plz

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um hey guys not my first vent here just wanted some help regarding my relationship so here we out and any advice is appreciated tnxs in advance.... so here's the thing I have a boyfriend which I love honestly and I think he loves me back but always let's his ego take the best of him we've been going going out for 7 months now and we haven't been rly that close I mean we don't normally talk personal stuff or what we like and hate abt eachother so practically there's the feeling but not just opened and every other thing a couple should do so we don't usually spend time in eachothers company I guess that is what led to the space between us he's kinda a player from what most ppl who knows him tell me but I just don't know what to think I know his a player but if I could get him to spend time with me I know I could make him all mine since he has interest and loves me but that's not the case here we broke up a few days back and I was hurt but then he called me after 3 days late at night and said if could come over to my house ye came but he wasn't sober bcha we talked mnamn made out and had sex and maked up so we got back together and the nxt day he left twat then I txted him later that day which he replied after long hours I did the same and this kept going on for 2 days but then I thought this was creating space between us so I called which he didn't reply so tewekut waiting for him to call but he didn't and it's been 2 weeks now and I miss him what should I do shall I call him or just leave it be and move on I rly don't want to lose him tho but would like to here what u guys think abt it anyways I know this was long and tnxs for bearing with me

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Thinking negative things and hearing too...makes me hopeless i Mean give me hope about life...i keep thinking that we people die..i mean thats obvious but i makes me hopeless on everything and i keep having depression thinking too much about the fact that we people die ...i want to be normal person like i was before...i just dont want to over think...make me think positive and how do i forget all this bad things?i even have apetite loss and i pray to god and at the same time i need people to motivate me... to be normal like i was before..to forget what i think right now

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Let me just get start to my point here. Do soulmates rly exist? Take it when I say I never used to believe in that bs but everything changed when I met this guy. From the very first moment we met I just knew my life wouldn't be the same after. I knew I was already in love with him but I just kept on denying coz it all made no sense. We've got completely different personalities but in a way we're both the same. We fight and argue like shit but we both can't seem to let go. Everything I have with him is a mess. All this makes no sense to me....movies and songs make it seem like soulmates are that perfect being that come into ur life and make everything easier for u.This is when I decided to find out more about this silly situation I got myself in. I couldn't believe what I was reading he checked everything on that list every single one...one thing I read that stuck in my head is "soulmate relationships are the hardest and most challenging one you'll ever face. Dont walk away cause it's all worth it in the end.They come into ur life to change u and make u a better u. U either evolve together or u split." I felt like I got ever question I got answered. I'm a grown ass woman and here I'm asking about soulmates but i'm just so confused So ppl tell me has anyone of u guys gotten yourself in a place like this? Is this just an illusion or could this actually be true?

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Hey there l hope u all r doing okay
I wanted advice from u guys... so my prob is that l tried so bad to make my online social life better nd it's getting worse. Idk if it them or me ? It keeps happening to me, every stranger l meet online ignores me with in 3 or 2 days nd today I got ignored with in a day... l try to be friendly but it doesn't work nd am feeling lonely. Nd every time they don't reply I physically feel some kinda pain in my chest nd sometimes shortness of breath. Am normal senior high schooler. I try but it doesn't work
Am worried that I can't have social life pls help !!! I only have one friend to talk to nd he's not even here... is what am feeling normal ?

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Hey everybody..... Am a girl n am student. My families r pushing me to marry someone.... I have a lot of dreams....I think everything is disappearing... I told them I don't want to marry but they r not listening me...n he is 14 years older than me...he is controlling their mind they do what ever he say.... Please help me....what should I do?

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I am 21 girl University student and I didn't know my feelings before two years I don't impressed by boys and later I realized that I am lesbian and I can't announce to my family u know the consequences and am afraid they want me to marry after 2 years if I marry a boy in this situation I am sure I won't be happy but it's shame too to say I will stay with a girl.
if my family once know my situation they will understand me or they will tell me am not their kid anymore....I need some advice please

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Hey I'm 21 yrs old virgin guy. I'm a protestant guy and was brought up in strict religious family. I'm good religiously too. And I always thought every person in a r/ship Ethiopia wist stayed a virgin till marriage. Gin leka I was so naive. I didn't go out with anyone, even w guy friends to hang out till I was in 12th grade. Nw I'm 3rd yr in University I'm understanding that ppl actly do it, and zat it's rly great. I mean ofc it is. Keza I started sexting w girls, I ask them abt sex and like 80% of the girls I talk to akababi have done it. Ena dirom I had huge sex drive gin I watch porn masturbate and move on, & watching porn & masturbating was like a way to keep me from having sex lene, it still sin but... And now after sexting w girls most are like agreeing to meet and say I have a kinda large penis. Even ones in r/ships are cool w meeting. But if I do sex I'm thiking God would turn his face on me & I'm scared. Gin day after day my interest is rising. So I rly wanna try it betam so should I do it.. I rly want ur mikir the female and male perspective plz.

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