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Why me? Why am I supposed to pass through this all pain like whyyyyy... I don't even know the exact reason behind my pain but am really feeling the pain in my heart it's really painful that I have no words to express it... it's obviously something but couldn't figure out the exact point since I have passed through many painful situations though am really grateful for everything but I don't know why am crying for.. is that because I have lost my trust on someone I called my sister maybe it's because she's jealous but that won't change anything,is that because I have lost my trust on someone who I would do anything for...he used to say I was his everything but left me as if we were nothing.... btw am already over him but wanna know the reason behind this breakup scenario as I vented before but u know what he asked for forgiveness now...he said that he have lied many things before but I really don't care about him like I don't want him but I have lost my trust cause of him.. just wanna know the reason why would u guys lie?? Am really disappointed like why would u guys lie like why... does that make u feel better... do u think that makes u a hero?? Am I the only girl whose passing through this...I would appreciate if I could get someone who can advice like brother and sister... thanks in advance
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Why me? Why am I supposed to pass through this all pain like whyyyyy... I don't even know the exact reason behind my pain but am really feeling the pain in my heart it's really painful that I have no words to express it... it's obviously something but couldn't figure out the exact point since I have passed through many painful situations though am really grateful for everything but I don't know why am crying for.. is that because I have lost my trust on someone I called my sister maybe it's because she's jealous but that won't change anything,is that because I have lost my trust on someone who I would do anything for...he used to say I was his everything but left me as if we were nothing.... btw am already over him but wanna know the reason behind this breakup scenario as I vented before but u know what he asked for forgiveness now...he said that he have lied many things before but I really don't care about him like I don't want him but I have lost my trust cause of him.. just wanna know the reason why would u guys lie?? Am really disappointed like why would u guys lie like why... does that make u feel better... do u think that makes u a hero?? Am I the only girl whose passing through this...I would appreciate if I could get someone who can advice like brother and sister... thanks in advance
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hey i wanna know what is father love like ena I really need advise how to build that feeling with my father
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hey i wanna know what is father love like ena I really need advise how to build that feeling with my father
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Am 26 years old Man. I dont know if this helps, but God am drifting, Nothing I try to do doesn't work out!!! It really sucks, i was energetic, get inspired, creative...none of the would matter. I try and am failing. And my colleagues are getting in line with their careers, r.ships and .... Mee, i don't even know where i am at any more. What I am trying to achieve? Am starting to lose it.
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Am 26 years old Man. I dont know if this helps, but God am drifting, Nothing I try to do doesn't work out!!! It really sucks, i was energetic, get inspired, creative...none of the would matter. I try and am failing. And my colleagues are getting in line with their careers, r.ships and .... Mee, i don't even know where i am at any more. What I am trying to achieve? Am starting to lose it.
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HEY guys first time venting
Iβm a girl and I just started a new relationship with this person who i just love. The thing is I do this thing where I hate him for like a day. I want to break up for a day and I treat him bad and I say bad things for a day. Then the second day Iβm back to loving him. I say good things to him and just be good girlfriend to him I feel like I have mood swings it hurts because Iβm hurting him and myself cause i canβt face the consequences of my actions Iβm really messed up cause my ex really abused me and this is like the best relationship anyone can get and I donβt want to fuck it. I canβt think of breaking up cause I love him but sometimes I think Iβll just make the decision when Iβm feeling like I hate him. Iβm miserable how do I make myself better for him I want to cuz he always gets confused and ask me what my problem is anyone can relate? Advices pls and be Good
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Iβm a girl and I just started a new relationship with this person who i just love. The thing is I do this thing where I hate him for like a day. I want to break up for a day and I treat him bad and I say bad things for a day. Then the second day Iβm back to loving him. I say good things to him and just be good girlfriend to him I feel like I have mood swings it hurts because Iβm hurting him and myself cause i canβt face the consequences of my actions Iβm really messed up cause my ex really abused me and this is like the best relationship anyone can get and I donβt want to fuck it. I canβt think of breaking up cause I love him but sometimes I think Iβll just make the decision when Iβm feeling like I hate him. Iβm miserable how do I make myself better for him I want to cuz he always gets confused and ask me what my problem is anyone can relate? Advices pls and be Good
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Quick question, guys you have a friend thatβs a girl and you guys are pretty close and then you end up getting a girlfriend but she says you need to stop whatever you have with the friend that is a girl what do you do?
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Quick question, guys you have a friend thatβs a girl and you guys are pretty close and then you end up getting a girlfriend but she says you need to stop whatever you have with the friend that is a girl what do you do?
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Hey so here is the thing there was this neighbor of mine which I am starting to like and I letter found out that he has a girlfriend and all the felling that I don't know I have started to came out I don't know if it's because of all the stress and tension becouse of corona coused it or I have been trying to avoid it but I started to feel like I am unworthy and nobody would ever date me I started to think all the past crushes that I have and believe me none of them were interested in me and I started to feel out places between my friends and I start avoiding mirrors and whenmy friends tried to explain to me that I am beautiful I started to think it was because they felt sorry for me and now I don't rly know what to do am I rly starting to get worried about my self but I still feel like I should have a bigger ass I should have longer hair...etc I complain about everything can u guys help me I feel like I am digging my own grave but there is nothing I can do I lost my self confidence what should I do plssss help me
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Hey so here is the thing there was this neighbor of mine which I am starting to like and I letter found out that he has a girlfriend and all the felling that I don't know I have started to came out I don't know if it's because of all the stress and tension becouse of corona coused it or I have been trying to avoid it but I started to feel like I am unworthy and nobody would ever date me I started to think all the past crushes that I have and believe me none of them were interested in me and I started to feel out places between my friends and I start avoiding mirrors and whenmy friends tried to explain to me that I am beautiful I started to think it was because they felt sorry for me and now I don't rly know what to do am I rly starting to get worried about my self but I still feel like I should have a bigger ass I should have longer hair...etc I complain about everything can u guys help me I feel like I am digging my own grave but there is nothing I can do I lost my self confidence what should I do plssss help me
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This is my first vent so be kind. About 4 years ago i was a senior in highschool i was in love with the most beautiful amazing girl. She was the best thing in my life she treated me so well and even if we werent together for that long we had a lot of great memories. Then school endend and she went abroad for college but she made me promise that we would stay together and that i would wait for her until she came the next summer. But a lot things changed after she left she got rly busy with school i guess and she couldn't give me the love and attention she used to so i got very frustrated and I cheated on her. Ik i messed up rly bad so i told her what I did and she forgave me just like that but i just couldn't forgive myself so i broke it off. Ever since then haven't been the nicest guy to be with I've been selfish, heartless and I've hurt a lot of ppl that didn't deserve it. But time went on and i found someoene else that was right for me I've been faithful to her and done my best to do right by her. The girl i broke up with in higschool and I still keep in touch and about a month back she came back home cuz of the whole situation. After she came we started spending a lot of time together and she told me she still has all the feelings she had for me and she hasn't moved on. A part of me hasnt moved on either, ik I'm with someone else now but i can't help how I feel. She told me she's back for good now and she won't leave me a second time but idk it feels like I'm screwing over another person i rly care about whatever decision I make. And i can't do that again.
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This is my first vent so be kind. About 4 years ago i was a senior in highschool i was in love with the most beautiful amazing girl. She was the best thing in my life she treated me so well and even if we werent together for that long we had a lot of great memories. Then school endend and she went abroad for college but she made me promise that we would stay together and that i would wait for her until she came the next summer. But a lot things changed after she left she got rly busy with school i guess and she couldn't give me the love and attention she used to so i got very frustrated and I cheated on her. Ik i messed up rly bad so i told her what I did and she forgave me just like that but i just couldn't forgive myself so i broke it off. Ever since then haven't been the nicest guy to be with I've been selfish, heartless and I've hurt a lot of ppl that didn't deserve it. But time went on and i found someoene else that was right for me I've been faithful to her and done my best to do right by her. The girl i broke up with in higschool and I still keep in touch and about a month back she came back home cuz of the whole situation. After she came we started spending a lot of time together and she told me she still has all the feelings she had for me and she hasn't moved on. A part of me hasnt moved on either, ik I'm with someone else now but i can't help how I feel. She told me she's back for good now and she won't leave me a second time but idk it feels like I'm screwing over another person i rly care about whatever decision I make. And i can't do that again.
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Hi okay is there anybody here to help me grow or change I got major mental issues please I need help dont say a therapist if you are willing to help please please help me tips if yr an adult betam yimeretal I'm going crazy please
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Hi okay is there anybody here to help me grow or change I got major mental issues please I need help dont say a therapist if you are willing to help please please help me tips if yr an adult betam yimeretal I'm going crazy please
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There's an untold story about beauty, one that is shared and experienced by many, but acknowledged by a few. So here it goes. Being attractive is lonely. I know most of you will roll your eyes while reading this but you'll only be proving my point. If you're attractive, you have no right to complain because your life is supposed to be perfect, so no one will show you empathy. When you claim that you're going through some shit, some will think that you're just seeking attention and others think you deserve it (yes, simply because you're attractive). If you speak with confidence, you'll be told you're arrogant so you always need to appear "unreasonably" humble. People also think that you're dumb, because hey you can't have both, and if you display your intelligence you become more of a threat, especially at the workplace. People expect you to succeed at everything but hope you fail so they can go on saying "of course she or he is just a pretty face". Members of the opposite sex are intimidated by you and when you do get approached, you know that they are not interested in what you have to say because to them you're just an object of admiration. I was not always attractive, I was a late bloomer and I know what it's like on the other side of the attractiveness scale. But before, I knew at least that people liked me for who I was, now I have trust issues. Of course there are advantages to being attractive, I won't list them because they're obvious. However, attractive people know that their looks won't last forever and fear that they'll just be an object that people idolize but one that they will throw away after it gets rusty. I'm trying to show some perspective to those who think that looks will solve their social life, because I was once of them , and look at me where I am today.
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There's an untold story about beauty, one that is shared and experienced by many, but acknowledged by a few. So here it goes. Being attractive is lonely. I know most of you will roll your eyes while reading this but you'll only be proving my point. If you're attractive, you have no right to complain because your life is supposed to be perfect, so no one will show you empathy. When you claim that you're going through some shit, some will think that you're just seeking attention and others think you deserve it (yes, simply because you're attractive). If you speak with confidence, you'll be told you're arrogant so you always need to appear "unreasonably" humble. People also think that you're dumb, because hey you can't have both, and if you display your intelligence you become more of a threat, especially at the workplace. People expect you to succeed at everything but hope you fail so they can go on saying "of course she or he is just a pretty face". Members of the opposite sex are intimidated by you and when you do get approached, you know that they are not interested in what you have to say because to them you're just an object of admiration. I was not always attractive, I was a late bloomer and I know what it's like on the other side of the attractiveness scale. But before, I knew at least that people liked me for who I was, now I have trust issues. Of course there are advantages to being attractive, I won't list them because they're obvious. However, attractive people know that their looks won't last forever and fear that they'll just be an object that people idolize but one that they will throw away after it gets rusty. I'm trying to show some perspective to those who think that looks will solve their social life, because I was once of them , and look at me where I am today.
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okay am 19 and I've a big problem ....i can't say anything NO to anyone i know coz if i said no i think am gonna hurt their feelings but after saying yes i always regret it.... mareg yemalfelgewn neger alfelgmmm endlachew efelgalehu gn alchlm i don't know whyyyyy π© and this hurts me soo much i need ur advice π
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okay am 19 and I've a big problem ....i can't say anything NO to anyone i know coz if i said no i think am gonna hurt their feelings but after saying yes i always regret it.... mareg yemalfelgewn neger alfelgmmm endlachew efelgalehu gn alchlm i don't know whyyyyy π© and this hurts me soo much i need ur advice π
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Yes it's me... I'm sure most of you seeing this vent have known me for sometime... For those of you who do & remember me you'll know that I didn't have a happy & successful life... My life was full of pain abuse betrayals heartbreak & most of my life I was truly alone... I've had 19 years of my life till today full of loneliness & false hope & I've had enough... I'm tired of all the times I looked at my phone waiting for a call or text from someone who just wants to say hi or check on how my day was... I'm tired of all the forgotten birthdays I had when all you had to do was send a simple wish... I'm tired of all the times I could have went out with someone but stayed home 'cause I didn't have anyone... I'm tired of all the times wasted on making my music & designs for no one to even bother to see or even appreciate... I'm tired of all the times I just needed to talk to someone but no one was there to even try to care... So from now on you'll never hear from me ever again I'm gone forever... I'm done being underestimated & unappreciated by all of you who never gave me the chance to show you what I'm made of... You've used me... betrayed me & never gave me the chance to be somebody 'cause obviously nobody cares about a nobody like me... So this is my goodbye and farewell to you all... thanks for nothing... You lost someone who never deserved to be hurt & alone in this world full of people
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Yes it's me... I'm sure most of you seeing this vent have known me for sometime... For those of you who do & remember me you'll know that I didn't have a happy & successful life... My life was full of pain abuse betrayals heartbreak & most of my life I was truly alone... I've had 19 years of my life till today full of loneliness & false hope & I've had enough... I'm tired of all the times I looked at my phone waiting for a call or text from someone who just wants to say hi or check on how my day was... I'm tired of all the forgotten birthdays I had when all you had to do was send a simple wish... I'm tired of all the times I could have went out with someone but stayed home 'cause I didn't have anyone... I'm tired of all the times wasted on making my music & designs for no one to even bother to see or even appreciate... I'm tired of all the times I just needed to talk to someone but no one was there to even try to care... So from now on you'll never hear from me ever again I'm gone forever... I'm done being underestimated & unappreciated by all of you who never gave me the chance to show you what I'm made of... You've used me... betrayed me & never gave me the chance to be somebody 'cause obviously nobody cares about a nobody like me... So this is my goodbye and farewell to you all... thanks for nothing... You lost someone who never deserved to be hurt & alone in this world full of people
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The human behavior is too hard or
i guess am too easy or i have problems everyone i meet says your a good hearted person, you care about others you are perfect, you inspire others to do well and stuff but at the end of the day they end up leaving. im confused i really am i try my best to make the people surrounding me loved, cared for and appreciated but turns out people hate that.after a while they tell me we are different, im a nice person but they dont see a future with me or they say i will hurt you and leave what is wrong with me i really dont understand i fight for my friends, i make them feel special but the fact that im not worth Half of that makes me feel broken
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i guess am too easy or i have problems everyone i meet says your a good hearted person, you care about others you are perfect, you inspire others to do well and stuff but at the end of the day they end up leaving. im confused i really am i try my best to make the people surrounding me loved, cared for and appreciated but turns out people hate that.after a while they tell me we are different, im a nice person but they dont see a future with me or they say i will hurt you and leave what is wrong with me i really dont understand i fight for my friends, i make them feel special but the fact that im not worth Half of that makes me feel broken
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Hey guys,I'm 20 and a boy
So thing is i've never had a girlfriend nor any girl that had an interest with me but I have friends who are girls but it has been just that, And so i try so hard to impress every girl that comes my way and i know am gonna fall with slightest smile and start picturing her in a wedding dress,π And i think what led to this is the fear of rejection and being shy i guess am not shy but like i said when she smiles MyGod! I dont know what to do, and this is serious guys i think i might never meet someone so Plss i need help
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Hey guys,I'm 20 and a boy
So thing is i've never had a girlfriend nor any girl that had an interest with me but I have friends who are girls but it has been just that, And so i try so hard to impress every girl that comes my way and i know am gonna fall with slightest smile and start picturing her in a wedding dress,π And i think what led to this is the fear of rejection and being shy i guess am not shy but like i said when she smiles MyGod! I dont know what to do, and this is serious guys i think i might never meet someone so Plss i need help
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Ene Orthodox nege btm mwedat mafkrat sw gn Muslim nat fkr slachu bka letewat malchilew aynet I know hatyat endhone gn I can't esuwan mtew ksuwaga liyalyayun michilu chigroch eyalu enkuwan esuwan mlyt alchilm familywoch yawkalu endlyat nw miflgut yswam endzaw gn btm afkratalew what should I do
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Ene Orthodox nege btm mwedat mafkrat sw gn Muslim nat fkr slachu bka letewat malchilew aynet I know hatyat endhone gn I can't esuwan mtew ksuwaga liyalyayun michilu chigroch eyalu enkuwan esuwan mlyt alchilm familywoch yawkalu endlyat nw miflgut yswam endzaw gn btm afkratalew what should I do
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Guys help me out here..... So I was in a relationship with this dude for 2 years. He was my second. I was in love with him and so was he with me. We weren't just bf and gf! We were best friends! But we couldn't agree with smth and so we broke up! So there is no hatred between us; well at least not on my part. And we also don't talk anymore. The thing is I can't bring myself to date anyone! I might like a guy but when he comes to talk to me, I shut down! I start building a wall and push him away! When I start taking to other dudes, I just get tired of thinking that I am gonna have to do everything I did with my ex all over again! I don't feel like I wanna start over from scratch with anyone! Bcuz when I do, I can't stop thinking about him! My first ex was nth compared to him! Idk how but he made me forget about him in an instant! But he also made it hard for me to get anyone close to my heart.... Wtf should I do!!!!??
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Guys help me out here..... So I was in a relationship with this dude for 2 years. He was my second. I was in love with him and so was he with me. We weren't just bf and gf! We were best friends! But we couldn't agree with smth and so we broke up! So there is no hatred between us; well at least not on my part. And we also don't talk anymore. The thing is I can't bring myself to date anyone! I might like a guy but when he comes to talk to me, I shut down! I start building a wall and push him away! When I start taking to other dudes, I just get tired of thinking that I am gonna have to do everything I did with my ex all over again! I don't feel like I wanna start over from scratch with anyone! Bcuz when I do, I can't stop thinking about him! My first ex was nth compared to him! Idk how but he made me forget about him in an instant! But he also made it hard for me to get anyone close to my heart.... Wtf should I do!!!!??
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Hey....have you ever wondered why life is something we make have you ever wondered is there someone out there going through what im going through right now hiding in a big smile like never been hurt before showing your kindness like you have never been hurt beforeβ€οΈβ€οΈthat smile you make when you see a little kid...that innocent smile that makes you smile yes sometimes you keep moving giving all your worrys to God but making it day by day like nothing happened but you know what you make a choice everyday everysingle day of your life to keep moving seeing the positive is good right?wishing for better days is better right??
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Hey....have you ever wondered why life is something we make have you ever wondered is there someone out there going through what im going through right now hiding in a big smile like never been hurt before showing your kindness like you have never been hurt beforeβ€οΈβ€οΈthat smile you make when you see a little kid...that innocent smile that makes you smile yes sometimes you keep moving giving all your worrys to God but making it day by day like nothing happened but you know what you make a choice everyday everysingle day of your life to keep moving seeing the positive is good right?wishing for better days is better right??
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Am 18 ,man
I went through shitty stuff growing up from physical to emotional abuse.
My parents hated each other and me, blaming me I ruined there life because they were teen parents.
They eventually split up and I stayed with dad. But they were still toxic by the time in was in grade 10 I longed for campus just to get away.
This eventually changed me emotionally betam I have frequent minor depression episodes together with insomnia. I literally can't sleep all night and day and whenever my mind is free am hunted by negative thoughts my parents say. Its like am a slave being torched by own brain, its feels like never ending.
But last year I met this girl and she was soooooooo sweet and positive she gave all the love I needed and now after quarantine she is totally blowing me off living me on deliverd.
And now the depression episodes last longer in stead of all night now its 24 hours long of pure hell feeling worthless and constantly wishing someone just killed me. 2 bullets to the chest.
I just need to be loved unconditionally is that so hard to come by
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Am 18 ,man
I went through shitty stuff growing up from physical to emotional abuse.
My parents hated each other and me, blaming me I ruined there life because they were teen parents.
They eventually split up and I stayed with dad. But they were still toxic by the time in was in grade 10 I longed for campus just to get away.
This eventually changed me emotionally betam I have frequent minor depression episodes together with insomnia. I literally can't sleep all night and day and whenever my mind is free am hunted by negative thoughts my parents say. Its like am a slave being torched by own brain, its feels like never ending.
But last year I met this girl and she was soooooooo sweet and positive she gave all the love I needed and now after quarantine she is totally blowing me off living me on deliverd.
And now the depression episodes last longer in stead of all night now its 24 hours long of pure hell feeling worthless and constantly wishing someone just killed me. 2 bullets to the chest.
I just need to be loved unconditionally is that so hard to come by
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Hey there, i just wanna know sth,am a girl n i've no plan to have sex before marriage z way i grown up n my religious view won't make me to do zat but i heard ppls sayin it might gonna be all weird if i don't know how things goin on wiz him before.what do u guys say
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Hey there, i just wanna know sth,am a girl n i've no plan to have sex before marriage z way i grown up n my religious view won't make me to do zat but i heard ppls sayin it might gonna be all weird if i don't know how things goin on wiz him before.what do u guys say