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Hi guys, I'm a dude, 19
And lately I've been so fucking frustrated ????
I just can't seem to find anyone on my level. I'm not talking about looks or pockets. I'm talking about brains. I just can't find a girl I can have an intellectual conversation with. Girls my age just want to talk about superficial nonsense, stuff they won't even remember the next day.
I'm so fucking scared that I'll have to settle for someone and that I'll resent them for the rest of my life.
Or this might as well be, me having a "pre-quarter life crisis"???? if that's even a thing
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Hi guys, I'm a dude, 19
And lately I've been so fucking frustrated ????
I just can't seem to find anyone on my level. I'm not talking about looks or pockets. I'm talking about brains. I just can't find a girl I can have an intellectual conversation with. Girls my age just want to talk about superficial nonsense, stuff they won't even remember the next day.
I'm so fucking scared that I'll have to settle for someone and that I'll resent them for the rest of my life.
Or this might as well be, me having a "pre-quarter life crisis"???? if that's even a thing
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OK, I've never told about it to anyone. Here's z thing I met my best friend 2 years ago and from z start I didn't wanna be friends at all coz of her vacillating behavior. Everybody hated her & although I didn't wanna be frnds I pitied her, I guess my pity is now the thing that I hate so much coz it got us besties.whenever I tried to tell her z truth she becomes so sweet that I forget all of her disgusting flaws. Ya Ik that I'm not perfect but she's beyond annoying. She always tries to hurt my feelings, she's never respected me in public or even when we hang out wiz other friends and the worst thing is she tries to act like we're couples whenever we are out , I mean I'm not a lesbian and I'd never be. I told her to stop doing that but she keeps telling me that I shouldn't care about z society. My bf even asked if she is in love wiz me ? Crazy, right ? She always create a fake story and drop it when we're having a good time with other frnds and she always get jealous of me when I hang out with ppls. She never cared about me for even a sec. I always listened to her & her fucking dramatic shits but she ain't got time for me. I told her z worst thing that happened to me and she laughed and said don't exaggerate and I swear it's not a thing to exaggerate abt . she got her bf to make me jealous, why would I be jealous ? As long as I remember, she's always ruined my plans. Honestly everything about her is z worst. Now, I know why everybody hates her. She even hates it when I'm wiz my bf , she actually blackmailed him to leave me. He even told her to leave me alone but she didn't. I'm praying hard to get far away from her coz Ik she would never leave me. One time I told her I didn't want her and then after like 2 days she came to my home like everything is normal b/n us & that was weird. Basically the 1 reason am afraid to avoid her is coz of her dad. He's truly a good man. He perfectly knows her ???????? behaviors and loves me coz of staying wiz her knowing everything. He always appreciated & thanked me for being frnds wiz her .I'm soooo tired of her.
So guys pls comment me and thank u so much ????????
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OK, I've never told about it to anyone. Here's z thing I met my best friend 2 years ago and from z start I didn't wanna be friends at all coz of her vacillating behavior. Everybody hated her & although I didn't wanna be frnds I pitied her, I guess my pity is now the thing that I hate so much coz it got us besties.whenever I tried to tell her z truth she becomes so sweet that I forget all of her disgusting flaws. Ya Ik that I'm not perfect but she's beyond annoying. She always tries to hurt my feelings, she's never respected me in public or even when we hang out wiz other friends and the worst thing is she tries to act like we're couples whenever we are out , I mean I'm not a lesbian and I'd never be. I told her to stop doing that but she keeps telling me that I shouldn't care about z society. My bf even asked if she is in love wiz me ? Crazy, right ? She always create a fake story and drop it when we're having a good time with other frnds and she always get jealous of me when I hang out with ppls. She never cared about me for even a sec. I always listened to her & her fucking dramatic shits but she ain't got time for me. I told her z worst thing that happened to me and she laughed and said don't exaggerate and I swear it's not a thing to exaggerate abt . she got her bf to make me jealous, why would I be jealous ? As long as I remember, she's always ruined my plans. Honestly everything about her is z worst. Now, I know why everybody hates her. She even hates it when I'm wiz my bf , she actually blackmailed him to leave me. He even told her to leave me alone but she didn't. I'm praying hard to get far away from her coz Ik she would never leave me. One time I told her I didn't want her and then after like 2 days she came to my home like everything is normal b/n us & that was weird. Basically the 1 reason am afraid to avoid her is coz of her dad. He's truly a good man. He perfectly knows her ???????? behaviors and loves me coz of staying wiz her knowing everything. He always appreciated & thanked me for being frnds wiz her .I'm soooo tired of her.
So guys pls comment me and thank u so much ????????
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So its about my mom. My mom do not encourage me or appreciate me for the things ive done or im doing. She's not bad but when i do something silly or unusual she just start to insult me dedeb, matreba, dngay and more worse. So im always upset by this she just want to raise me by the ways she didnt get raised and want to raise me as "sreat yalew" child actually esua mtasbew and i am sreat yalat girl and when i score good or average on exams she would rather search for smth bad than appreciating me. But does y'all's moms do like this? Im one of good childs but i dont know guys i dont know what she want me to be. When i do smth bad she starts to megelamet me n saying bad words and more
Im sick of this sometimes she likes to be treated as a friend and when i treat her like that she again start to protect her pride and as a mom she's good i mean she does almost everything i want but morethan that my psychology is useful and she dont see it that way.
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Hey!
I think this venting might help and thats why im here
So its about my mom. My mom do not encourage me or appreciate me for the things ive done or im doing. She's not bad but when i do something silly or unusual she just start to insult me dedeb, matreba, dngay and more worse. So im always upset by this she just want to raise me by the ways she didnt get raised and want to raise me as "sreat yalew" child actually esua mtasbew and i am sreat yalat girl and when i score good or average on exams she would rather search for smth bad than appreciating me. But does y'all's moms do like this? Im one of good childs but i dont know guys i dont know what she want me to be. When i do smth bad she starts to megelamet me n saying bad words and more
Im sick of this sometimes she likes to be treated as a friend and when i treat her like that she again start to protect her pride and as a mom she's good i mean she does almost everything i want but morethan that my psychology is useful and she dont see it that way.
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Hey everyone does anyone have experience with therapist please tell me I want to go but I am scared cause they deal with real crazy people so what if they misdiagnosed me I want someone to help me see my own mind help me deal with my trauma and negativity in head I want to take my sister there too I think she need help but I don’t know how to tell her what if she misunderstand it guys tell me your opinion ?🙏
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Hey everyone does anyone have experience with therapist please tell me I want to go but I am scared cause they deal with real crazy people so what if they misdiagnosed me I want someone to help me see my own mind help me deal with my trauma and negativity in head I want to take my sister there too I think she need help but I don’t know how to tell her what if she misunderstand it guys tell me your opinion ?🙏
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Hi everyone am a girl. Ena everyone has a his/her dream girl/boy right?? Well I hv one too kerase yemewedew tsebay ena binorgne noro beye kememegnw ngr asebe I always wanted a loving SMART guy with bright future,matured,caring who is not addicted,guy who can dominate me,older than me,who give value to his religion. But this is becoming a barrier in my relationships. Endemasbew aynt sew alagnewm I know life doesn't give u what u want gn relationship west yalachu bemulu yemetasebuten aynet sew agenetachu nw??or is it only me endza yemasebew??
Tnx for ur time...stay home stay safe????hulachenenm amlak yetebeken
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Hi everyone am a girl. Ena everyone has a his/her dream girl/boy right?? Well I hv one too kerase yemewedew tsebay ena binorgne noro beye kememegnw ngr asebe I always wanted a loving SMART guy with bright future,matured,caring who is not addicted,guy who can dominate me,older than me,who give value to his religion. But this is becoming a barrier in my relationships. Endemasbew aynt sew alagnewm I know life doesn't give u what u want gn relationship west yalachu bemulu yemetasebuten aynet sew agenetachu nw??or is it only me endza yemasebew??
Tnx for ur time...stay home stay safe????hulachenenm amlak yetebeken
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I really hope this gets through🙏So I used to date this guy it's been like 2 years since we broke up.... When we were dating, I don't think that I have ever met a guy like him! I have always thought that he was toooo perfect for me! I mean, he was! He really was! He never treats me wrong! He always supports me on everything! He was everything that I ever wanted in a guy! But around the time that we were seriously dating, a lot of things started to happen to me! specifically, my family! Well, in Ethiopia, something's are just bound to happen to you just because you're "a girl".... And so, with all those things in my mind, I started to divide my life into, my life with him and my life at home.... So when we talked or met, I don't tell him about what was going on with me and my family. And tbh, he always made me forget about them and I thought that he wouldn't see me the same way if I told him about the darkness of my family... But that wasn't reality! And after sometime, I started to break little by little and I stared to change! I became a pessimist and hated my life plus anxiety and depression were my best friends... But he still had no idea what was happening to me.... I got to the point where I almost tried to kill myself.... He still had no idea.... I wanted to keep what was between us neat and clean!.... Long story short, I realized that I was selfish and that I had to choose between, letting him in or letting him go... And my selfish ass chose to let him go.... That was the worst mistake I have evermade in my life and I still regret it to this day...he is still "the one that got away"....and tbh I don't think that I will be with another person and am okay with it.... I am sure that he is happy rn! And just thinking that he's happy, makes me happy..... 🙂
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I really hope this gets through🙏So I used to date this guy it's been like 2 years since we broke up.... When we were dating, I don't think that I have ever met a guy like him! I have always thought that he was toooo perfect for me! I mean, he was! He really was! He never treats me wrong! He always supports me on everything! He was everything that I ever wanted in a guy! But around the time that we were seriously dating, a lot of things started to happen to me! specifically, my family! Well, in Ethiopia, something's are just bound to happen to you just because you're "a girl".... And so, with all those things in my mind, I started to divide my life into, my life with him and my life at home.... So when we talked or met, I don't tell him about what was going on with me and my family. And tbh, he always made me forget about them and I thought that he wouldn't see me the same way if I told him about the darkness of my family... But that wasn't reality! And after sometime, I started to break little by little and I stared to change! I became a pessimist and hated my life plus anxiety and depression were my best friends... But he still had no idea what was happening to me.... I got to the point where I almost tried to kill myself.... He still had no idea.... I wanted to keep what was between us neat and clean!.... Long story short, I realized that I was selfish and that I had to choose between, letting him in or letting him go... And my selfish ass chose to let him go.... That was the worst mistake I have evermade in my life and I still regret it to this day...he is still "the one that got away"....and tbh I don't think that I will be with another person and am okay with it.... I am sure that he is happy rn! And just thinking that he's happy, makes me happy..... 🙂
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Meaning is a mode of safety and survival. Culture and religion is what you learned from the cummulative knowledge of your ancestors on how they figured is best for harmony and order.You have an ideology of what is right?? Guess what??? ?Thats a mode of survival that serves you best just as i a have an ideology that is also a mode of survival ......Its alllll a mode of survival for the Ego.....There is No such thing as objectice Truth as perceived by science.Its alllllllll an abstraction of the mind to avoid suffering and disorder!!!!! But the big question is Why is there an existence of tendency to select the best version of something in evolution? Or is the question of "why ???"" by itself is an Error in our species?..... Quarentine though
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Meaning is a mode of safety and survival. Culture and religion is what you learned from the cummulative knowledge of your ancestors on how they figured is best for harmony and order.You have an ideology of what is right?? Guess what??? ?Thats a mode of survival that serves you best just as i a have an ideology that is also a mode of survival ......Its alllll a mode of survival for the Ego.....There is No such thing as objectice Truth as perceived by science.Its alllllllll an abstraction of the mind to avoid suffering and disorder!!!!! But the big question is Why is there an existence of tendency to select the best version of something in evolution? Or is the question of "why ???"" by itself is an Error in our species?..... Quarentine though
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Hey I always judged people when they said I was born in a womans body but I am a man or the reverse besmab but now I curse the day I was born why am I a girl eyalku I ask god day and night I hate my body beyond measure chirash guys how they belittle bezaw lay the beauty standards I dont get it if you dont wear revealing clothes your too much of a good girl guys insult you if you wear degmo guys try to fuck and treat you like trash and the men manged lay cat call eyeselatchew yemiskaku they say good and bad stuff I just hate my body god why why I cry a lot why am I like this I might be enough for my boyfriend today but not tomorrow had to get this off my chest if you relate comment if you dont dont judge
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Hey I always judged people when they said I was born in a womans body but I am a man or the reverse besmab but now I curse the day I was born why am I a girl eyalku I ask god day and night I hate my body beyond measure chirash guys how they belittle bezaw lay the beauty standards I dont get it if you dont wear revealing clothes your too much of a good girl guys insult you if you wear degmo guys try to fuck and treat you like trash and the men manged lay cat call eyeselatchew yemiskaku they say good and bad stuff I just hate my body god why why I cry a lot why am I like this I might be enough for my boyfriend today but not tomorrow had to get this off my chest if you relate comment if you dont dont judge
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Please admins approve my vent ... okay so I am a girl,19 n I really need help...I am having a serious issue with mom I work my ass off at home just to make her happy n everyone at the house beu she keeps judging n hits me n leave me with a scar all over my body n she tells me I am ugly because I am fat...n it's really fucking me here I cry n cry n cry till my head explode she's all I got kmr gn she doesn't give a damn about me...I live with my stepdad n my brothers she thinks her life went off cause of me.She thinks I am jealous of her mnamn I am 12 now I couldn't study n I need a friend who can help me out plss help what should I do?I have bad childhood memories from boys...I hate my dad n now my mom doesn't want to see me????????????????????????
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Please admins approve my vent ... okay so I am a girl,19 n I really need help...I am having a serious issue with mom I work my ass off at home just to make her happy n everyone at the house beu she keeps judging n hits me n leave me with a scar all over my body n she tells me I am ugly because I am fat...n it's really fucking me here I cry n cry n cry till my head explode she's all I got kmr gn she doesn't give a damn about me...I live with my stepdad n my brothers she thinks her life went off cause of me.She thinks I am jealous of her mnamn I am 12 now I couldn't study n I need a friend who can help me out plss help what should I do?I have bad childhood memories from boys...I hate my dad n now my mom doesn't want to see me????????????????????????
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24 was confusing to say the least. I never knew who I was, what my dreams were and what I was doing. I spent so much time pleasing people. I didn't make time for myself. I didn't listen to me and my dreams.
I was depressed, still am. Nothing changes in one day, but it showed me what a horrible year would look like. I was also a suspect in the COVID case so had to spend two days in a freaking Ebola Center with just my parents knowing. This thought me the only two people that would understand is them. Next, I think I gained 12kgs this year. Bad eating habits plus no exercise did that to me. Past traumas also showed up everyday of my life. I was sexually abused as a kid so I never performed well in my relationship. I am never satisfied and I don't believe she is too even though she says she is. I also flirted with addiction so much.Sexual,material,substance.....they all crossed paths with me this year. Albezam lol
There were positives in the past year too. Finished major coursework at AAiT but withdrew to start again abroad. I am also on the verge of moving out. 😀 My family members are healthy. I still don't know who my true friends are but I have some people that I care about and all are doing ok. I experienced a bit of life through this adventure. I really hope it continues 🙏.
My aspirations for 25 are simple. Don't repeat 24. I was lousy, emotional and never made myself a priority. This year I will work harder and smarter. I will protect my emotions from toxic people. And I will make sure I work on myself and only on myself. I want to drastically change my relationship with God. I want to thank him for all he has done for me and ask him guidance in moving forward. I want to lose weight. I want to save money. I want to see new places. I want to make new friends. I want the childhood me back. I want my confidence back. I want my smile back. I want to be that go to friend for everyone. I want to help friends and family. Not be the one that begs for help.
Today, on quarantined and solitude birthday, I promise to stop letting myself down. I will grow up to be a good engineer, businessman, teacher, spouse,father, brother and son. I want to repay my parents for all the faith they have put in me. 🥺
I am alone but it's fine. 😀😁
Happy Birthday to me. 2️⃣5️⃣
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24 was confusing to say the least. I never knew who I was, what my dreams were and what I was doing. I spent so much time pleasing people. I didn't make time for myself. I didn't listen to me and my dreams.
I was depressed, still am. Nothing changes in one day, but it showed me what a horrible year would look like. I was also a suspect in the COVID case so had to spend two days in a freaking Ebola Center with just my parents knowing. This thought me the only two people that would understand is them. Next, I think I gained 12kgs this year. Bad eating habits plus no exercise did that to me. Past traumas also showed up everyday of my life. I was sexually abused as a kid so I never performed well in my relationship. I am never satisfied and I don't believe she is too even though she says she is. I also flirted with addiction so much.Sexual,material,substance.....they all crossed paths with me this year. Albezam lol
There were positives in the past year too. Finished major coursework at AAiT but withdrew to start again abroad. I am also on the verge of moving out. 😀 My family members are healthy. I still don't know who my true friends are but I have some people that I care about and all are doing ok. I experienced a bit of life through this adventure. I really hope it continues 🙏.
My aspirations for 25 are simple. Don't repeat 24. I was lousy, emotional and never made myself a priority. This year I will work harder and smarter. I will protect my emotions from toxic people. And I will make sure I work on myself and only on myself. I want to drastically change my relationship with God. I want to thank him for all he has done for me and ask him guidance in moving forward. I want to lose weight. I want to save money. I want to see new places. I want to make new friends. I want the childhood me back. I want my confidence back. I want my smile back. I want to be that go to friend for everyone. I want to help friends and family. Not be the one that begs for help.
Today, on quarantined and solitude birthday, I promise to stop letting myself down. I will grow up to be a good engineer, businessman, teacher, spouse,father, brother and son. I want to repay my parents for all the faith they have put in me. 🥺
I am alone but it's fine. 😀😁
Happy Birthday to me. 2️⃣5️⃣
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Hi everyone.😊
This is my first day venting. After thinking a lot I decided to vent. I hope you guy be positive and help out.
I’m a girl 22 years old I have a BF🥰. We have been dating for about 4 years and half now. I’m like an open book to him I express all my feelings and I’m honest with him.
He know that I love him so much. Knowing this he don’t treat me like before🥺 sometimes he makes me feel sad 😔. I think he is thinking that I would never leave him. He is thinking like (she loves me she’ll never leave). I love him and i don’t want to leave him but i want him to fear that he could lose me, but I don’t know how to do that. Guys give me some ideas how to do that.
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Hi everyone.😊
This is my first day venting. After thinking a lot I decided to vent. I hope you guy be positive and help out.
I’m a girl 22 years old I have a BF🥰. We have been dating for about 4 years and half now. I’m like an open book to him I express all my feelings and I’m honest with him.
He know that I love him so much. Knowing this he don’t treat me like before🥺 sometimes he makes me feel sad 😔. I think he is thinking that I would never leave him. He is thinking like (she loves me she’ll never leave). I love him and i don’t want to leave him but i want him to fear that he could lose me, but I don’t know how to do that. Guys give me some ideas how to do that.
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Hello my pips, hope ur safe out there.
Well lately i been feeling a little bored i mean it might be the quarantine with half the blame but I started thinking but me bout what i ve achieved through out my 21 years on this planet like nothing that much fun mean my high school life was full of regrets and missed opportunities i was average student and very shy around girls i mean never asked them out been asked 3 or 4 times by them but i bitched out but think im tibaram and college years are worse than highschool im became anti social i dont now what the fuck happened and i sweat during awkward situations and the insecurities don’t go away sooner or later i dont think bout my future no ambitions just PURPOSELESS!!please say something.
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Hello my pips, hope ur safe out there.
Well lately i been feeling a little bored i mean it might be the quarantine with half the blame but I started thinking but me bout what i ve achieved through out my 21 years on this planet like nothing that much fun mean my high school life was full of regrets and missed opportunities i was average student and very shy around girls i mean never asked them out been asked 3 or 4 times by them but i bitched out but think im tibaram and college years are worse than highschool im became anti social i dont now what the fuck happened and i sweat during awkward situations and the insecurities don’t go away sooner or later i dont think bout my future no ambitions just PURPOSELESS!!please say something.
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Hope y’all are doing good and staying safe:)
Here is the thing, I can’t seem to stay in a relationship. I go on dates lead them on, make them feel like I’m interested and then ghost them. I can’t seem to figure out why I do that?! I keep thinking maybe it’s because I travel a lot and deep down I know relationships are just ideal, or maybe I’m just an attention whore who is afraid of being alone. Help me help my self figure this out guys,please!
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Hope y’all are doing good and staying safe:)
Here is the thing, I can’t seem to stay in a relationship. I go on dates lead them on, make them feel like I’m interested and then ghost them. I can’t seem to figure out why I do that?! I keep thinking maybe it’s because I travel a lot and deep down I know relationships are just ideal, or maybe I’m just an attention whore who is afraid of being alone. Help me help my self figure this out guys,please!
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I'm 23 .I grew up with my stepmother. I grew up being criticized for the little things. cause of this I am very depressed and irritable.. men would like me first and they will avoid me when they see this behavior. . As a result, I have experienced 3relationship fail. .boys you don't like a depressed woman, right?i hate my upbringing. this has made me lose a lot..i want to change but I know I won't change if I don't get out of that house because I've tried so many times..i don't know what to do😢😭
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I'm 23 .I grew up with my stepmother. I grew up being criticized for the little things. cause of this I am very depressed and irritable.. men would like me first and they will avoid me when they see this behavior. . As a result, I have experienced 3relationship fail. .boys you don't like a depressed woman, right?i hate my upbringing. this has made me lose a lot..i want to change but I know I won't change if I don't get out of that house because I've tried so many times..i don't know what to do😢😭
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Okay so this a question for mainly girls but everyone can answer...let’s say you were in a situationship with a nigga and you decided to stop everything and continue as just friends. You’ve caught feelings but you still want to continue as friends. Obviously the feelings aren’t gonna disappear right away, it takes time. So my question is how do you lose feelings while still talking to the guy?like nothing’s changed except the sex part and stuff like that...I’m really trying to get over him and I have made some progress but I always take two steps back when he comes back talking about other girls he’s talking to and obviously as a friend, I’m not supposed to feel any type of way about it but I end up comparing how he treated me vs. how he does shit with the new girls and it’s like kim wedemeyaz ehedalehu neger and I don’t want that, I honestly want that friendship.
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Okay so this a question for mainly girls but everyone can answer...let’s say you were in a situationship with a nigga and you decided to stop everything and continue as just friends. You’ve caught feelings but you still want to continue as friends. Obviously the feelings aren’t gonna disappear right away, it takes time. So my question is how do you lose feelings while still talking to the guy?like nothing’s changed except the sex part and stuff like that...I’m really trying to get over him and I have made some progress but I always take two steps back when he comes back talking about other girls he’s talking to and obviously as a friend, I’m not supposed to feel any type of way about it but I end up comparing how he treated me vs. how he does shit with the new girls and it’s like kim wedemeyaz ehedalehu neger and I don’t want that, I honestly want that friendship.
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I'm 24 and I need a suggestion from those with matured and experienced ones.
My ex is begging me to give him another chance after I gave him 2nd chance and haven't changed much. The problem I break up with him was he was not ready to be in relationship while he still have sex and didnt claim it as a relationship because he scared of relationship and the other reason is he's not settled yet because he moved from abroad to here in Addis in less than a year. Plus he usually calls me to his home and not outside and dont talk about us at all but he calls me 2x a day and we talk about how the day went we meet 1 or 2x a week at his home so this things didn't gave me comfort. I feel like I'm being used.
My question is since I didn't ask him to marry me why is that so hard to claim it as relationship? The other question is, he begged me which is unlike of him ( and he's stubborn bzw)and seems to be carrying and asked me to be his gf when I finally decided to meet him can I trust him and try again? Because he's still asking me to come to his home even if he asked a permission for things he wanted to do . Is he using me for his needs only or what is it? He used to ask for other chance since we break up(7mon ago). This time would be hes 3rd time. Please I need an advice.
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I'm 24 and I need a suggestion from those with matured and experienced ones.
My ex is begging me to give him another chance after I gave him 2nd chance and haven't changed much. The problem I break up with him was he was not ready to be in relationship while he still have sex and didnt claim it as a relationship because he scared of relationship and the other reason is he's not settled yet because he moved from abroad to here in Addis in less than a year. Plus he usually calls me to his home and not outside and dont talk about us at all but he calls me 2x a day and we talk about how the day went we meet 1 or 2x a week at his home so this things didn't gave me comfort. I feel like I'm being used.
My question is since I didn't ask him to marry me why is that so hard to claim it as relationship? The other question is, he begged me which is unlike of him ( and he's stubborn bzw)and seems to be carrying and asked me to be his gf when I finally decided to meet him can I trust him and try again? Because he's still asking me to come to his home even if he asked a permission for things he wanted to do . Is he using me for his needs only or what is it? He used to ask for other chance since we break up(7mon ago). This time would be hes 3rd time. Please I need an advice.
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Okey here is the thing...i don't know where i start. It bother me since the day i know about my mom.
She is taking some medicine pills for over 10 years. We start living together 10 years ago...so i know that pills since the day we live together . And i asked her what was those drug and she says it was ( yesamba beshita medhanit) befit yamat endeneber awkalehu....then one day i googled the name of that pills and i found it was for HIV.
I get tested many times coz of some serious health case so i am negative.
The thing is am really scared. Balawek yeshalegn neber....always she try protect me but i asked her why u do this you are my mother eko mnamn. Ahun hulum gebtognal. Too much eyechenekegn nw when ever i see her face and she had diabetes so mnm endawekugn endetawk alfelekum so i shut my mouth. But am really hurt seeing her this much suffering. I don know how to treat her, i don know beka....chenkognal ematat eyemeselegn nw. Help me to managed my mind. I don have anybody to tell i don even have family only me and mom. Thank u for ur help tho😔
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Okey here is the thing...i don't know where i start. It bother me since the day i know about my mom.
She is taking some medicine pills for over 10 years. We start living together 10 years ago...so i know that pills since the day we live together . And i asked her what was those drug and she says it was ( yesamba beshita medhanit) befit yamat endeneber awkalehu....then one day i googled the name of that pills and i found it was for HIV.
I get tested many times coz of some serious health case so i am negative.
The thing is am really scared. Balawek yeshalegn neber....always she try protect me but i asked her why u do this you are my mother eko mnamn. Ahun hulum gebtognal. Too much eyechenekegn nw when ever i see her face and she had diabetes so mnm endawekugn endetawk alfelekum so i shut my mouth. But am really hurt seeing her this much suffering. I don know how to treat her, i don know beka....chenkognal ematat eyemeselegn nw. Help me to managed my mind. I don have anybody to tell i don even have family only me and mom. Thank u for ur help tho😔
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I am in a relation ship i mean we r almost 1 year soon but i am not sure about us .i do like him gn i never trusted him his words and actions never met we even forget each other some times we spend a day mnamn with out communicating and this days i feel literally nothing about us i mean i tell other guys am single i forget him talking to other guys and i am being swayed comparing the efforts other guys make and his but he is way to un attantive he even leaves me on seen i just wanna know how i can know if he is serious about this thing between us or wanna know if i should end it cause i am not attached that much tnx
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I am in a relation ship i mean we r almost 1 year soon but i am not sure about us .i do like him gn i never trusted him his words and actions never met we even forget each other some times we spend a day mnamn with out communicating and this days i feel literally nothing about us i mean i tell other guys am single i forget him talking to other guys and i am being swayed comparing the efforts other guys make and his but he is way to un attantive he even leaves me on seen i just wanna know how i can know if he is serious about this thing between us or wanna know if i should end it cause i am not attached that much tnx
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i am in very hurtful pain
but i am thinking i am pretending
i am weak
useless
Worthless
Its hard to live here
I need ppl n love the but no one gives fuck
Idk how to continue living
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i am in very hurtful pain
but i am thinking i am pretending
i am weak
useless
Worthless
Its hard to live here
I need ppl n love the but no one gives fuck
Idk how to continue living
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Hey i am 23 n female...we have been together with by bf for 3 years he knows me well..he is an angel enji..with all the rumors he was told about me he should ve left me yane.the guys that i have never talked before say that i flirt with them ,friends biye masbachew enkuan teru sew hogne kawarawachewe it will be taken as flirt eyareku endehone why?? yihen were feriche kehulum ga sikoraret demo they created a fake account chat with them selves like i did it then they will send it to my bf for a year and half endi siyaregu neber some others also talked that they had sex with me..But God know he is my first n he knows it..my bf dont care about these things but me i am kind of person who cares about people opinions am sensitive and it hurts me gin is this common why are they doing this what should i do
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Hey i am 23 n female...we have been together with by bf for 3 years he knows me well..he is an angel enji..with all the rumors he was told about me he should ve left me yane.the guys that i have never talked before say that i flirt with them ,friends biye masbachew enkuan teru sew hogne kawarawachewe it will be taken as flirt eyareku endehone why?? yihen were feriche kehulum ga sikoraret demo they created a fake account chat with them selves like i did it then they will send it to my bf for a year and half endi siyaregu neber some others also talked that they had sex with me..But God know he is my first n he knows it..my bf dont care about these things but me i am kind of person who cares about people opinions am sensitive and it hurts me gin is this common why are they doing this what should i do
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so I'm a med student and recently be TV mnamn they keep telling us that if the disease becomes more than the docs can handle, they will call us in to help and this will be a mandatory service. Semonun most of us have actually listened to the stay at home order from the gov gn there are still people who don't give a shit ena endewm stesheshachew memiteguh neger alachew
Memarbet yeneberw hospital wst demo corona geba sibal I swear they gave masks to the whole staff except the med students and this happened before there was such a shortage of equipments.
So my question is like why the hell should we risk our life for people who don't give a fuck about their own health??? Egnam endeh bekentu benmot meyaleksuln and mekebrun enat ena abat yalen sewoch nen 😡.we don't owe u or anyone our lives eko
So pls before u go out mnamn lerasachu hiwot kalchenekachu think about us, the people u are going to affect by ur actions. please make smarter decisions 🙏🙏
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Hey guys
so I'm a med student and recently be TV mnamn they keep telling us that if the disease becomes more than the docs can handle, they will call us in to help and this will be a mandatory service. Semonun most of us have actually listened to the stay at home order from the gov gn there are still people who don't give a shit ena endewm stesheshachew memiteguh neger alachew
Memarbet yeneberw hospital wst demo corona geba sibal I swear they gave masks to the whole staff except the med students and this happened before there was such a shortage of equipments.
So my question is like why the hell should we risk our life for people who don't give a fuck about their own health??? Egnam endeh bekentu benmot meyaleksuln and mekebrun enat ena abat yalen sewoch nen 😡.we don't owe u or anyone our lives eko
So pls before u go out mnamn lerasachu hiwot kalchenekachu think about us, the people u are going to affect by ur actions. please make smarter decisions 🙏🙏
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