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Am 20 n a girl. I really need help. Here is z thing, we were bestfrnds on fb for 2yrs. I wsnt madly in lv wz him but I knew he wouldn't hurt me so, I didn't even had thought abt it properly. We started relation. He ws my 1st, I ws very happy. N after few months I just started to doubt my feelings for him. I started to stop him when he trys to kiss me or even touches me in a romantic way. I told him wat I felt n I saw him getting hurt. I didn't last a day I begged for an apology n we were back. N zs thing kept repeating over n over lyk 4 times till now...It has been 2yrs since we were in zs R/nship already. He kept forgiving me coz he really lvs me. N me am very sure when I tell him am not in lv n should breakup n when we get back again I'll also be very certain zat I lv him. Wats happenning? Nomatter hw hard I try I just never find answers in me. I don wanna lose him wz out being sure n I don wanna hurt him everytime either. Am losing my mind here. What should I do? Am I suffering wz a disorder or sth? Plz Help!
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so am 25 ...almost ...and i have a boyfriend am graduating in a months time..i mean i don't know what life holds after i graduated but i kinda have planned everything out ..and among those plans of mine one is to get married at the age of 30-32 and have kids up until 36...yes amo get busy ????...anyways jokes aside i need help..more of idea input from ya'll ....so the guy am seeing is like this amazing smart handsome as shit man ..and i love him dont get me wrong...i enjoy every moment with him..he is the only guy i truly enjoy having sex with ..to add all that and i got me a perfect match
????..buttttt... here are the problem lists i have 1.he is damn young (okey i might be exaggerating a bit..he is one year younger than me
2. he is not u know financially established (meaning if am marring him thats like ...the point is i want to be taken care of
3. he gets jealous so easily and he has this immaturity features ...like i am an out going person i drink i smoke i have ppl i hang out w ...
anyways....fuck the list i cant list em all ...its just what do i do ...its like i love him but i have needs and i wana be treated in a certain way ...fancy way if u will..i know my worth and why should i settle for ntg less...or should i settle ....its so confusing

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I've been friends with this guy for almost 3 years now. We're betam great friends he's my best friend. I'm closer with him than my girlfriends. I can tell him anything. Family problems guy problems like everything. He also trusts me with everything. Our relationship is purely platonic.
I have had a boyfriend for 5 months now, but he's been single. Over the summer he was telling me about this girl he likes ena I've been giving him advice on how to approach her and how to ask her out. I even planned their date. Ena when he told me the date was a success and they're now officially dating. I don't know why gn I felt a little pang of jealousy. I don't think I like him like that. I think it felt like now he'd trust someone else more than me and he'd care less about me. Enenja.. it's confusing
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Am so ready to die i don knw why god won't just take me😒
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Do you ever have a good day go bad? Or a bad day turn good? I try to live in the moment but this rollercoaster of emotions that fill life is making me tired. And all I wanna do is sleep. This is life and I should get used to it right? But I can't seem to. I just wanna curl into a ball and cry the tiredness out or maybe a tight hug..idk. I'm so tired to the point I'm not scared to die. Because that's rest. And I want to rest.
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I've only been going out for my boyfriend for about 5 weeks and we started making out like 2 weeks ago...
this will be a bit explicit...sorry but I kind of feel like a slut ????

when we make out, it's a bit intense but we have not like had actual sex : but he doesn't just kiss my mouth but my neck and the area around my boobs or my actual boobs (not the nipple...). And we "grind" when kissing or whatever. Sometimes he rests his hands on my inner thighs etc.

Is this normal to do after 5 weeks? or is it a bit too early? would you describe a girl like this as "easy" or slut-like?

I have no problem with it but after it happens e.g. the morning after, I feel so guilty and I feel a bit sluttish. I'm 19 and this is my first boyfriend/kiss/everything and I used to be so prudish before...I said I wouldn't kiss a boyfriend until 1 month, make out after 6 months, sex after marriage but all my views are changing and i don't like it.

I remember always having the opinion that any girl who makes out with her boyfriend before at least 6 months is a major slut and has no self respect.

I feel like I've lost my innocence a bit...I hate feeling really sluttish after a make out session because I actually really enjoy it while it happens and I really like my boyfriend... If my parents knew what I was doing, they'd murder me - actually murder me, and that's a part of the guilt, that and the fact that I feel....no longer innocent.

How do I stop feeling this way?

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I am a 25 years old male. I have a good job or at least i think i do. Life is turning out just okay. I just have difficulty with my sexuality. Clearly I am attracted to women but I am only turned on by a dominant woman. I am submissive and the only thing that turns me on is being dominated by a woman. I dont think I will ever get the kind of girlfriend who shares my fantasy ( a dominant girl who would dominate me sexually. I am in to foot fetish, spitting and other humilliations. I already know I am weird so please do not insult me. Tnx

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This couple of days i have been in a bad place ena i noticed i have been stressing alittle abt class but i didnt know it was this serious i have no apetite for food i dont eat that well ena i dont even get hungry and i just have this feeling that i am abt to brust out of tension plus my hands and legs get stingy and i cant move them and i cant stop shaking as if i got a bad fever ena if anyof u guys know anything abt it just tell me what to do.tnx
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Hello guys.
I love to hear your comments about me.
I am very addicted of chatte , beer , alcohol, weed.
And people many of my friends around me pushed me to be here .
They think me as a bad guy .
That I am very cruel .
But I do good as much as I can
To make them happy help them when they need anything . But my return is these . 🤔
Then now I think the world has no place for good deeds .
I have become like opposite to everybody . I donot give help when needed .ignore when every one needs me .
I donot know when my negativity will last .
I donot give a respect either they are above my age or not.
And guys give me some suggestion I don't think these world have no place for good peoples.
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Greetings fellow men, it was only a matter of time until someone took the initiative to post about how dating works in our current climate. Some of us are nice, and we think it's working against us. You then try to be asshole but that never really plays put well, does it? This post isn't for Greek god looking guys blessed with the best genes. This post isn't for the guys complaining about how their girl is too conventional in the bedroom. This post isn't for the guys who are looking to have threesomes. This post is for the guys who just want a nice girl in their life, if they could just last until the third date, it's a success. It is awesome that we have this platform to share our thoughts we probably wouldn't share in person. For such guys, all I have to say is, hang in there. Work on yourself. Polish your skills. Don't make your life revolve around women. Getting laid might seem the epitome of pleasure when you haven't done it, but the second you have a taste of that p***y, you soon realize it's not what it's cracked up to be. Hollywood has sold up sex and love a lot because they realized it was a good way to make money. But it's still great, don't get me wrong. My advice would be don't take social media platforms as a way to score chicks. What most guys fail to realize is that these girls are chatting up 10-20 dudes at the same time and you're just another one on the pile. You might be the cool guy she's been looking for but you honestly can't get her to commit enough to have the connection required. You do land dates using social media, but it's really not your best bet. For my fellow introverts, I understand how socializing could be a daunting task on it's own right, and add flirting with an attractive woman to the mix and it's surely doomed to fail, unless you polish your communication skills, your flirting skills. In my experience, the best way for introverts to do this is to hang in groups. Start hanging out in groups of guys and girls and the pressure is significantly less. Show your true colors, don't act like someone you're not to impress a girl, or don't say you like this or that just because she said she did. In fact, oppose her when you don't agree. Show her you are ok with, or without her. Don't reek of desperation. SHOW THAT YOU ARE A CONFIDENT MAN WHO CAN STAND ON HIS OWN TWO FEET. By this, I do not mean be an asshole. Girls who go for the asshole are usually ones who have an insecurity of their own, beggar you would never want to see come out. Quality women can see through your bullshit, be a jerk to them and they'll shrug it off like it was nothing. These are the women you want. They don't want the asshole, they want the guy who could be an asshole if he had to. The guy who controls his asshole nature, the guys who's grown out of his assholness. These women want the guy who could protect them, but wouldn't because he knows they can take care of themselves. Aim to be this guy. You have a set of values that you live by, and you won't excuse shitty behavior from anyone. Being with you is an honor, you are a one of a kind, kinda guy. If she says something you don't like, call her out on her bullshit. The fact that you risk losing her, and could walk out at anytime says a lot about your character. It shows you want options. And EVERYONE wants the one with options, not the one kicked to the curb alone crying about being lonely. I'm sorry to break it down to you.
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It's Bpd awarness week. Just wanted to share my side of story a bit. I have been diagnosed with bpd almost a year ago it has been a long road since then and the most hard part was people. Some think your attention seeker some will think your crazy and will avoid you and being alone is a big challenge. And I believe this because they don't have that much knowledge regarding mental illness as a whole. But if anyone of you reading this if you know a person that's going through a rough time just give time to listen to what they have to say them and trying to understand someone would make a lot of impact.
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I hv stage fright.. It might seem silly gn im 3rd yr uni student(bout 2 graduate) ena defence endet lakerb endemechel alakem.. Present argi mnamn sbal betam nw panic maregew i even cried 2nd yr hogne enaa i dont knw wat 2 do.. Plsssssss help!!!
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Never vented before first time venting here i fucking go

So to get to the point im very angry at everyone like makew sew lay becha sayhone every motherfucker i see on the street and i wanna just slith their throats specially if they are lookin at me just for 1 second i just wanna stone them to death i got in some argument with some oldman on a taxi i dont even remember what he even did to get me angry i just went all phyco on him and he just took it and didnt say anything i wanted to stab him in the fucking neck or fucking through him over the fuckin window
if i keep doin shit i might do something i might regret

If any one has thought like this or had them it would be helpfull i think
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I'm really sad 😔 i feel like i have lost a big part of myself. when u can't have someone u love more zan anything in z world, just because u r nothing but a joke to zem, it does zat to u. I swear I'm never going to love again, ever!! Love, all it does is just ruin u in z worst possible way, shatter u into pieces😢. I wish i was never born.
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Here is the thing.. i hate my family.. i know it sounds like im a troubled and horrible person (maybe i am) but i have my reasons.this is gonna be long but please hear me out. Ever since i was young my mother was super hard on my and always destroyed my self confidence saying i was fat and evil and i had a bad heart if i did stuff like forgetting to wash the dishes and stuff like that. She would even go out of her way to get my friends to hate me just cuz. She once got all my friedns to ignore at my own damn birthday. Im 20 now(im female btw) and im in uni but since im learning in z same place i grew up i see her all z time and to this day she still treats me like crap. But other ppl would nvr know cuz she's super nice to others. My dad is a passive dude who wont say shit if my lil bro makes a mistake but wudd flip if i did. He still hits me to this day for shit like eg. if i open z door a lil later than he expected . I cud except z fact zat my parents r bad if they were like this to my younger sibling but no...they love him and raise way better zan they ever did with me and idk why but it makes me feel worse cuz i think "am i really a horrible person?" Plus z little monster is super disrespectful to me even tho im like 12 years older zan him and my mom just loves seeing us fight (not physically)but she loves seeing him disrespecting me and treating me like shit. So that's what i have to deal wz.. im glad i let this out
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Hi I know that a lot of u guys might think I am a dramatic person but hear me out before u say anything well I feel like god rly hates me I know it sounded over dramatic but I have been wanting something for like my whole life I think the only reason for my existence was because of that job and for the last 3 weeks I have done nothing but pray I even eat once a day u know I was so sure that I would get that job I had my full faith in him but he didn't even gave me a chance I know it sounded pathetic but I was hoping for miracle and hoped that for once in my life I wouldn't feel bad abt my self I thought maybe this job might be my chance to make my family proud but I lost it not only did I lose the job I lost my faith in god too I feel like I have no reason to live pls help me I feel like I am gonna lose my mind how am I gonna face my family now I rly have no clue what to do pls help me
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I know i made a mistake being in a relationship knowing we don’t have future. At first we both agreed we don’t want to be in one but we couldn’t just stop not falling for each other. The person had no problem of having future with me but for me it means i have to lose everything i know. I asked this person to give me time to come in terms with how i am going to go with it but this person wanted it their way which is as soon as possible. That brought the toxic side of both of us and it was just pain. I decided to end things, which hurted a lot like someone was squeezing my heart and just nothing like i have experienced before.To be honest I don’t regret it at all . But that person just completely stopped talking to me and denied my friendship offer. It’s been 6 months already but I still care how that person is doing why is hard to be friends with ex?
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