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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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Men.
They spend a good part of their life trying to woo the girl they like, but end up being friendzoned. Sometimes, they don't even tell about their feelings because it would hurt us. They take us out on dates and movies, even when they don't have enough money to buy themselves a shirt. They change themselves to be the best guy they can be, just to make us happy. Once they are in love, there is no turning back, they will always love you no matter what. At times, they give up on their (lesser paying) dreams because they have the responsibility of a family. They make sure you're on the safer side of the road. They leave the last piece for you.
As women are under scrutiny all the time, Men are laden with expectations. They are expected to get better marks to get a job, then expected to get a better job for high pay because they are expected to be the bread-earners, they are expected to be physically stronger than the women around, not to mention they can’t cry their hearts out. They are expected to be better drivers and to know directions. Once married, they are expected to make enough money to take care of their family, and what not. They also get hurt. They also breakdown. They have their mood swings too. They feel insecure about their bodies too. They listen to your problems, but keep their problems within themselves most of the times. How often have you heard your dad complaining or crying about things?
Women are awesome, I never fail to talk about it. But men are awesome too, I don't remember the last time I said this.
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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Women
I see men calling women sluts bitches and hoes and it hurts for one thing they dnt deserve it at all and for a second they make us guys look bad
Its though on women they have to struggle through a primitive backward society who thinks they are not equal to men they are forced to act a certain way, be passive or they will intimidate men
I mean we men never have to deal with some of the shit they. Have to..including something as hard and as painfull as giving birth
They over think whether a guy likes them or not whether we guys are really saying what we mean and I dnt blame them bcoz they are frequently let down disappointed and heart broken by the ppl they hold dear

so nxt times u men call a girl by a name remember that your mom or sister or aunt ur insulting....
So I ask guys to be easy on girls they have to go thru a lot also shout out to the selfless girl who posts bout men ur an inspiration to all ...ps.luv rules..
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ugh....i mean honesly i really don't think i have it in me to go through another year... i am not complaining... i just truly don't... i can't put on a fake smile and pretend...the thing is it's just too much somtimes like too many thoughts at once... too fucking many...and i am not just saying that ... that's why it frustrates me when nobody sees what goes on inside you know... like if i don't see another person for the rest of my life it would be too soon ...i have all the voices to keep me in plenty company..music is the only thing that dulls it and even that doesn't help somtimes.... i don't want to do it but i feel like it will be more than i can handle someday soon and i would just want out.. i don't want to just bear it for them you know... it would be easier if you could see inside so you would belive what i am saying is true ...🀯
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Honestly I think some of u forget the use of this channel I believe it was created for ppl to experience themselves with out feeling or being judged but y'all haters taking this chance to show the real ugly you and feel proud. I bet y'll just miserable and wish u had the courage to speak or accept urself. Hating on the LGBT, girls who explore their sexuality(I'm not gonna add boys because u dumb fucks are allowed to fuck whom ever you want right?πŸ–•)when ur telling the girl who got raped it's her fault but tell the guy who RAPED her it was nature and she provoked him , depression or any kind of mental illness. I mean with all of u haters out there Ethiopia won't change and will never change how can make big decision if u can't even start with you're community?
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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Instead of being a channel i can use as a shoulder to cry on to it has become something, something so different and so judgmental. I cant tell people my problems and expect advice because most of you just want to insult others as if you are a saint, i think judging people makes you feel better about yourselves. if it does, dont forget we are all going to hell, it is just how it is, in this generation i dont think there is anyone who hasn't sinned, and ya'll are in your high horses looking down and judging people like u aint done shit (at least they admitted it and are asking for help) and news flash judging is another sin
And about the LGBTQ community:- commenters, you are not being asked to comment on your status or if you want to be gay or a lesbian the venters are just "VENTING" that is literally the point of the channel. But if you have the absolute urge to comment why dont you comment smthing like "that is a sin" or " Ethiopia doesnt accept stuff like this" or " the bible said ....."
You dont have to call them mean words and to go die they are human too, they feel like us
And to the girl who cheated:- first of all commenters..WTF i haven't seen so much hate in a whileπŸ˜‚ what is wrong with you koy it isn't mandatory to comment eko you can just say nothing
Demo remember this
"Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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I gotta get this off my chest
He cheated so I heard so I told him, I ended it, maybe it is my pride but he never appologized not a single word as if I meant nothing,he just let it be ,now I am left here feeling cheap, hurt and ashamed. Hating on every new possible relationship life throws at me and ever time I see him it makes me feel bad,I feel like I am worthless like I am nothing, it is like my confidence breaks like peace of glass ,
I don't want him back minamin gin it hurts I don't know why but it really hurts.
Even made me cry writing this stupid confessions"
Guys cheat guys do it worst
so she doesn't have to go die or it doesnt mean she is a hoe cause she enjoyed it (sex is about pleasure)

So people just try to be nice i seriously dont get why you get riled up when someone opens the gates to vulgar language

Mama always said "if you have nothing nice to say Dont say it at all"
P.s i k am gonna get a lot of shit from hater but what ever
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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To all the people against the LGBTQ+ , I Just want to say something. LGBTQ+ is not for you to accept or reject. It's not for you to judge. If you don't like them it's cool. I mean i have kinds of people i don't like too, you know like people who do plastic surgery solely for cosmetic purposes. I don't like it but u know what? That stuff is not about me. Regardless of people going plastic, my life has not been altered in anyway. Its the same situation here, those ppl loving each other has not hurt me or you in anyway. So really whatever you do to try to stop them is basically a witch hunt. You can infect them with HIV all u want. But they'll always be here just like how us straights will always be here. And as long as they're here, they'll fight to be able to exercise one of their basic human rights. Yes, you read it right it's one of their basic human rights. And if history has taught us anything, these people are going to openly express themselves one day. just like how black people were not considered human and got enslaved, just like how women weren't allowed to work outside the house, and just like every other right that had been suppressed in the history humanity. These people will also overcome. You best believe that.
For those saying it's a sin, God will judge them not you.
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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Not a customary vent but I felt like I should do this,I was a person with chronic depression and as I read through most vents I realized holy shit there are hundreds of us yet somehow our depression is able to convince us that we're the only one, so the purpose of my vent is to share some ideas that helped me out of my depression.
1.Quit social media(minimize at least)- the constant exposure to ur friends carefully curated positive portrays of their lives can lead u to feel inadequate and increase rates of depression.also life with out social media can be quite productive,the first 2 weeks are gonna be hard ur gonna feel like ur missing a limbπŸ˜‚but when u don't have the constant humming interruption that fragments ur attention u get a lot of stuff done.it's surprising how much u could get done in 8 hr day if u give each task Intense concentration and intensity can be traded for time.finally the worst thing u can do on social media is develop an inflated self from online affirmation (be it flirting, mejenajen ....)
2)ignore the siren's songsπŸ˜‚seriously tho all the negative thoughts and addictive action patterns that kick in from time to time are just caused by the primitive lizard brain trying to force action by magnifying the tiniest problem.
3) be comfortable with failure- if u really want to get out be prepared to stumble and fall on ur face and feel like shit but eventually u will wake up and say thank god I NVR quited and u will realize it was worth it.
I have a lot to say but if ur depressed its a miracle u read this farπŸ‘πŸ‘hang in there and ride it out
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what is all this talk about LGBTQ thing cause it is not happening in Ethiopia soon or later
Saying that they can love whomever they want didn't you think they might have feeling for straight people
Which don't want anything to do with them
We dont want them to get in prison or killed since they are human just like us
I believe this psychology problem and they should get help
People who are commenting here are so called the educated part of the country
Meaning there is high illiteracy problem
also people who are really religious who find this as something that couldn't change
Don't hate this commenters they are giving you a good advice
If this issue comes out Ethiopian will unify and com against you forgetting all the race conflict
You should Google the LGBTQ right in Ethiopia 97% didn't accept it up to 15 year imprisonment (much more years than killing someone here )
We dont want our kids to be like that
We dont hate them we hate what they are doing the sin not the sinner
Psychology problem it is
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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I miss my bestfriends. I miss them so much. But we fell into an argument cause I said something I shouldn't have. Even though I meant it. I felt left out. Idk. And now we don't talk. At least I dont let them talk to me. I just beleived that maybe we would be better off apart. But I can't do anything with out them. And it's killing me. But my pride won't talk to them. What do I do...
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Hey guys
This is more of a question rather than a vent.i have a friend and she was in a bad place for couple of years .on top of that she failed Med school.and her family got no money to send her to normal private college (let alone to medical college) .so her only option is to take the grade 12 entrance exam again but that shit doesn't have a grant that she will get in.when we asked the educational office they said people who take the entrance exam by private cannot apply for university .but i heard a rumor campus kids actually take the exam(to change there fields) and apply for university.anyone please if you know any thing about taking the entrance exam in private please tell me. Thanks a lot.
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It's not an easy thing falling for someone , it takes time and courage to that take that leap , and am not saying it's some kind of crush , where you say damn she's hot or he is hot and obssess about how they are in bed , falling for someone is the pain you feel when you are not around them , it's the constant joy they bring you for just being alive and breathing , it's the enjoying and accepting of every flaw they have , but falling for someone can be a a huge , changing mistake to , you would think "hey " their out searching for love right , but I love them so they'll be mine , it makes perfect sense to basics of it all , but when you love a person who doesn't understand it , which is almost everyone lately it starts to change you for the worst , make you loose sight of what you were , makes you even forget happiness , since all everybody wants what they can't have , reaching towards a fantasy , hurting and playing with the people that actually do love them , it's a never ending cycle of misery and stupidity , what happend to the good old romance them if you like them and they'll love you on how you end up treating , why the lies , the envy the need to make everyone else feel shitty about their lives for them to see you shine , where being a golddigger is considered the why to be , where having multiple guy friends in the freindzone is considered a skill where trying to fuck a girl just cause she has numerous Instagram followers so can brag to your friends , it's disheartening to see what it all has come to , don't get me wrong I understand it's something that came with the generation and you'd be a fool if you didn't adapt , well fuck adapting if it means you don't even know the person your being pathetic for cause they are just showing you what they think you'll like so it can put them on top their non exsisting social hierarchy its tragic really
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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So if she is in a relationship and i had sex with her knowing she is in a relationship whose fault is it?
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Omg!! Do u guys hear urselfs sometimes? Just take 2 fucking seconds to think before u open ur mouth. This is why our country will never have freedom, because of people like u. I mean u go around and hating people just because their gay?? EVERYONE should be allowed to do what makes them happy EVERYONE should be with the people they love ,who the fuck are u to say no to that? U don't even have a real reason to hate them and u definitely don't know what they feel and u keep saying they need God and that they should be embarrassed of themselves. Being gay is not a fucking choice u don't wake up one day and decide to be gay, just as ur attracted to the opposite sex their attracted to the same. I just don't understand why u guys get so mean sometimes
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Not make things worse or anything but this argument about gay ppl it makes me laugh coz I was reading the comments and most of u are just playing god πŸ™„. Yes being gay is a sin but I bet u guys don't think murder, rape, lying etc not a big deal right like u won't go to hell for that. Just chill and like whatever their lives it don't make u a better person hating on them!!
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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Its been a while I started to search for someone special.tho I always think I found her but it ends up badly...like most of us.
I'm different most guys fall on love with the church girl... Or with some one well mannerd...
But me I don't like that kind of girls... Mostly l develope a feeling for a girls who ppls call "bitch", "lust" or " gold digger "
Is this normal guys?
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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Ohhh God what is wrong with u guys when did we become like this idk call me old fashion but this LGBTQ bullshit has got u gazed up.. Like when did we stop fearing God like one of u said that they can do what they want cause of their feeling and stuff ur the kinda person who would allow gun in schools.. Their was a guy who vented hear that he almost raped his friend - i quote " I have kissed and even tasted his dick" okay that is so fucked up and ppl fuckoff with that don't judge bullshit.
God is a forgiving father but we all know how he destroyed those 2 city
PS. Just ppl pray to God and hope he forgives u and try to cleanse u souls
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Hey Unihorse πŸ¦„.
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Hey guys
Its not a vent but more off a "u should know"
First of all u all need to stop arguing about the homo shit, seriously
It aint about freedom bla bla

So keep on ur vents n stop this homo shit to get attemtion

πŸ“ And for those of you guys who think homosexuality is OK, God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve
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Hey there so here is my story I have been in relationship with my BF for about 1 year and then he started acting weird and needy telling me what to do and stuffs he told me that I can't have friends and make me loose OK of them and then he told me he wants to he more than my family... One day my mom was really sick and I told him that I should stay with her and then he told me that I should leave he there alone and go to him.... In short we Broken up but I still love him and it's been only 1 monz since we Broken up but he started seeing some one else and I am dying inside I rely am I don't nw what I should do
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its fake it till you make it, its my life. I am so fake that i dont remember my real me. I lie and i pretend and i fake haha. And when the time goes by trust me you forget what the truth and what the lie was. Here is the deal, i just want to be rich and happy. B/c now am poor and sad. And there are my friends rich, fancy,happy and everything that i am not and everything i want. But they still fucking complain. So i never told them how broke i am. They dont know i live the complete opposite life. But still i fake it. I steal stuffs and when i cant steal i ask for my parents crying and ... i disappoint my parents. They spend their earnings on me, every penny and dime, for my expensive school fee, my hand money and shoes and cloth ... they just want to see me happy but i live to disappoint them. I was never happy when i am with them. But with my friends, the happiest girl in the world. Its just am so tired i want to run away from all of this. I just want things to change. Because i know the reason i am sad is not b/c i am broke its b/c am denying what i am. Its b/c am living a life which is fake and am terrified that one day my friends will know about it and hate me. Not b/c am poor but b/c everything i did was fake and everything they know about me was a lie. What can i possibly do to change this?
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Hey guys I'm sorry to say this but I feel like there is a vicious destructive cycle being galvanized around this channel.most of the vents here are starting to originate from the intention of feeding our resistance and using it as an excuse.and I get it life inevitably comes with some degree of misery and I get it for many of u things have happened in the past that are unspeakable and whether that something is big or small each one of us has something that hurts its something that we wish it weren't so, it's smt we think abt when we are alone but I also know that inside each of us is something beautiful so if u allow ur self to focus on that and feel the joy not just think abt it but feel the joy it will start to crowd out the pain,so for all of u trying to create smt beautiful in ur life don't waste time trying to tear down the old, look for permission and approval no matter how much it is intoxicating to be loved instead spend all of ur time on what u want to create in ur life.so I say welcome to the human condition no one is going to give it to u even the people that love u,all they're handing u is limitation with the best intention and love cuz people can't see past their own limitations and realize that its u who can fix ur life
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Hello evry1...frst I wanna say happy New year for all Ethiopians...this is more of a question..hmm the thing is I don't know the meaning of "zemut mefesem" and I am afraid to ask my mom cos she'll be like why are u asking this type of questionπŸ˜’...the problem is I don't understand whether it means cheating or having s** before marriage or if it has other meaning pls help me out
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