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Can we talk about how painfully hard it is to make friends as an adult especially after your life completely changes
Back in school making friends felt so effortless I used to have so many people around me But ever since I gave my life to Christ and became a Protestant everything shifted I drifted from my old circles and now I honestly feel so lonely🤷‍♀️
I am a member at ECRC Everlasting Christ Revelation Church and I am part of the Bible study and choir But guys walking into those Bible study nights has become so anxiety-inducing for me While everyone else is laughing talking and easily connecting I freeze Smiling feels like a heavy chore and interacting with people drains me so much I sit there quietly and when it is over I just rush out I have not made a single real connection and the greeting part before or after service gives me actual panic
Looking ahead I catch myself worrying When I get married who is going to be my bridesmaid Who is going to be that real girl friend I can call late at night pray with binge-watch movies with or just decompress with on a lazy weekend
I am so tired of feeling like an outsider in rooms full of believers If you have ever felt this kind of social anxiety or found yourself completely isolated after a major life change how did you survive it How do you actually build genuine friendships when your social battery is at zero and you are too shy to make the first move I really need advice or just to know I am not the only one💔

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Need a hacker right now. Literally immediately. Someone just took over a whole Telegram account, changed the username, and locked everything down. The stress is unreal and getting it back is the only thing that matters, just name a price, seriously. Paying whatever it takes to get this fixed right this second is no problem. Please, if anyone can actually do this, just help.

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am 24M 1.80 dark skin university student...hold on am not here for your attention and am here for your advise ..am thinking that with my appearance by sth am good at it should make some decent am really struggling financially should i use my appearance by dating some old girls am totally confused help your brother out

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I am a 20 year old virgin waiting for marriage before getting layed, and I am having this issue:

I get bricked up. Everyday, I would say I get an erection every 15 to 20 minutes, and they last for about 3 to 5 minutes. It is too much I cannot control it.

I experience this 30 to 40 times a day. part of it might be because i don’t watch porn or mastrubate and am wondering if this is normal or if it requires a medical procedure.

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There is an issue we all should talk abt. Idk maybe it's just in ma mind but i feel like ppl who r in their first relationship think that their relationship should lead to marriage . Correct me of I'm wrong but i have noticed it not only in ma friends but also in ma own life. Im in ma first serious relationship and instead of enjoying what i have i find myself repeatedly stressing over how i should make this permanent . I know its common to struss over this but im stressing my self more than experiencing to be loved and to love someone deeply. And the tiktok videos and reel i watch r not helping . Everyone is telling me what to avoid in a relationship . How to know ur man is tired of u . And i know deep down they all r just content creators trying to go viral but some part of me still believes what they say. And all of this plus my strict attitude abt marrying the first guy i date is killing me. Especially when ppl talk abt their relationship status how they r struggling to handle it , it always makes me feel too uk fool to think that this might last and that feeling is killing what i have with ma man . And i have started to uk overthink every word he say and everything he does and i guess that's putting him under pressure that i don't want him to feel . Tbh i don't even know why I'm sharing this here .byeeee

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So i got over my ex eventually and i started talking with other men. But everytime i keep self sabotaging things one time there was a guy i liked we talked mnamn he is abroad he's busy gn yaw enawra nbr and yehone ken he disappeared and i said things i didn't mean to its like i was expecting him to ghost me and turns out his grandma died so i felt bad tried reaching out but it didn't work
And also there is this other guy we talked for couple of months we spend a night together and he disappeared for the whole day i said somethings cuz i was mad that ended and after sometime he was saying sorry mnamn for along time and we wanted to try things again and after some time we slept together he disappeared again which made me question things so i insulted him ( am not mad that i did that btw) but he said he has a reason but i don't believe him

My point is i feel like am self sabotaging things do you see a pattern here? Or am just thinking it? If am self sabotaging things how can i stop like i don't wanna be someone who talks bad things towards ppl ... I wanna control what i feel but I don't know how

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Okay I am 23 f gonna start my job as a cabin crew and I want to know the dating market there I saw many marrying a pilot on YouTube that's cool but I heard that most pilots use hostess as there side chick and you know bcha eski ngerugn about the job I want to imagine my life one thing about me is I think I will marry or date someone I work with bcoz I don't easily get along or chat with people unless I spend the day together with them or work do that to us you know and yeah I think aviation is a better choice to Meet a disciplined man with a good pocket but there ego God😂 so tell me about cabin crew, the dating possible ways to change my life bcha tell me did I make a good call...and Is that possible to be influencer side by side on social media promotions vlog modeling stuffs? Tell me what's on your mind🙏 don't dare to skip this vent with out commenting😉

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ሰው እንዴት ነው ማይገባው ገና ሰውም ሀገሪቷም በማደግ ላይ እያሉ ጦርነት ሌብነት ሰብዓዊ መብት ጥሰት ሀጢያት blah blahእንደማይቀር...
ሰው እንዴት 3000 ዓመት ታሪክ አለን ከሚለው ከራሱ ሀገር አይማርም ቢያንስ ይሄ ነገር 50+ ዓመት ሊቀጥል እንደሚችል እንዴት አይገነዘብም ትልቅ ስልጣን ያላቸው 5 ሰዎች እንደ ካርታ ሀገሪቱን መፐውዝ እንደሚችሉ ግልፅ አይደለም ወይ?

ሰው በሚታወቅ ቁስል መድሀኒት ሳይሰጥ ማርከሻ ሳያገኝ ቁስሉን በመነካካት ብቻ መታወቅ ወይም ገንዘብ ማግኘት ይፈልጋል?

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I am 27M
Last week i saw my gf's phone and i saw texts with a random guy she met in taxi and he followed her ig and she followed back and they he starts complimenting her and she was open with him and he asked for her number and she gave him and her snap and tiktok too and he at some point he texted her "don't even know your personality yet, but something tells me you're gonna be my girl at the end of the day". and guess what she replied "Don't get ur hopes high it's gonna take a lot of effort😅" and they started talking abt movies and work stuff and he asked her how was ur day and she tells him like in detail and she also replied "what about urs" she was like talking him like she don't have a bf and he sent her a reel that says "what do u want for ur birthday" and she replies "a lot of things😭 gn gena new" and i didn't tell her until now but now she deleted all the chat. I can't believe this shit what to do now?

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Is it only me i am 22 M I just rrally don't want any marriage or any womens things in my life sex or snything i just want simple peacful life bcz now a times love is filled with drama and some bullshit so any mens like me living your life happly with GOD

And also now a times "LOVE" the thing we call it now it doesn't satisfy me as reading my old country history when i see mariage(new ones) it makes me puke 😂

Any mens like me ?

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23 M
I don't usually post personal stuff but I honestly don't know where else to say this
I'm 23 My mom basically raised me alone. My father left when I was very young, so I never really knew him. We spent years in Egypt, and sometimes I'd work small jobs to help myself and my mom
Then one day after almost 20 years, my uncle called me for the first time
He said, Your father died. Come to Jigjiga immediately There's a serious problem
I didn't even know what to think. I just went
For the first time in my life, I finally saw my fathe
but he was already dead.
That alone messed with my head.
Then I found out I had three brothers from another mother. They had grown up knowing my father. I basically came into their lives as the son who had been away for almost 20 years
Then came the crazy part
My father had apparently built serious wealth land, property, businesses, and other assets. And according to what I was told, he wanted his four children to share it equally
I thought, okay, maybe this is where the family comes together
I was completely wrong 💀
The oldest brother didn't want that. He has strong connections with influential people, including government connections, so he was very confident that I wouldn't get an equal share.
Then I started asking questions.
Suddenly everybody had a different story about the land, the documents and what my father actually owned.
One person literally told me
Be careful who you trust. You're asking too many questions.
That's when I realized this wasn't just about money anymore
I came to Jigjiga thinking I was coming to bury my father
Instead, I found out I had a family I barely knew, an inheritance I never knew existed, brothers who didn't want me involved, and a whole situation I wasn't prepared for
And honestly, I don't even know who is telling me the truth anymore
I'm not trying to take everything from them. I just want to understand what my father actually left for all of his children and whether his wishes will be respected.
So if you were in my position, what would you do?
Would you fight for your legal share, try to settle things peacefully with the brothers, or just walk away from the whole situation?
I genuinely need advice.

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19M here.... I'm genuinely thinking about ending it all. The only thing holding me back rn, as dumb as it sounds, is the fact that I've never experienced the joy of receiving head (bj). I think I'd pay any amount in the world to get a good top, and would gladly leave this horrid world literally the day after😭

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I have a sweating problem and I want to smell good like my friends, I shower every single day but I live in a hot place so I sweat thorough out the day.

I asked my parents to buy me deodorant and perfume and they think it's luxury.

Please help me out, I don't want to lose my self esteem😭

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Hey guys am haramaya uvi GC student this year beka lnazez nw gn i need your help am confused gn beka betam debari sew negn gn dont judge me mtasbutn bcha advise argugn....... there is a girl that we meet at university and now we stay almost three years or two together she was not vergin when i meet her thats why i dont think marriage with her but she love me as hell but i cannot say that i love her in confidence we argue a lot cause of my issue and also she creates some problem she lies me about her past cause i said once i do not marry a girl that have background with mens she said she had a sex with one but i dont think that is true and also I broke up with her when we back to home for the summer for my freedom .. we are in distance she is in dredawa and am in arround addis abeba at that time there is guy that has money i think diaspora and she slept with him and she lies about this also and gn ymeslegnal tnsh ego slalebat ena sletegodach ymeslegnal yhen yaregechw .. keza bewala endewm yegna tl eko breack up aymeslm slat are bakk sasalefkutn ene negn makew tlegnalech ...atnagerm mkniyatum tnsh ego alebat but i told her am not like the other guys you fuck with dont try to fool me i need honest with you and she said am afraid of loosing you but she did not admit it ...andande romantic shonlat hulem lemn endezi alhonklgnm nbr hulem tamriyalesh lemn atlegnm nbr hulem attention asetegnm nbr tlegnalech like alsasatm nbr meselegn mtlew ...... she put a lot of effort in our r/ship but i dont in some case and i can not broke up totally with her cause she is good at sex ...betam yamegnal bla btchohm eskchers ttebkegnalech .... yhe leloch setoch ley yatawt neger nw beka siyamachew makom nw mifelgut and also she is so supportive about my dream but i said a lot of disgusting words through our R/ship but slemafekrk new yhe hulu yechalkut tlegnalech she is right betam aschegari behari nw yalegn i had trust issue in all people enam mnm attention alsetatm even siyamat rasu bzum care alsetatm gn yhen hulu chla koytalech kenega...enam behywetua yetegodach ymeslegnal malet family mnamn teleyaytewal enatua beljnetua abatuan lash bla mnamn agbta lela weldalech but she is so supportive to the other her sisters hulet ehtoch aluat and demo ye enat ye abat wendm alat betam twedewalech beka gn life tnsh complicated yehonebat ymeslal but i dont care gn betam tenkara tmeslalech ena ahun breck up mimesl nger ley new yalenem ..betam alemefeleg endisemat argiyalew ena midebru negeroch tenagriyatalew and adrgiyalewm leza eyawerachgn aydelem ena demo enem betam ego alebgn meshenef alodm ..... ,and there is also other girl that when i meet her she was vergin she doesnt even know how to sex i was her first by everything and we spent almost 4 or 3 n half year but she is so hot like she is the girl that every men wants to have her as his wife teym ,rezem yalech ,sewnetua miyamr beza ley vergin neberech sagegnat....I dont know how i managed this two girls ychignawa kezach tnsh yewah nat enam betam twedegnalech rezem lale gize broke up argen nbr cause of my issue gn andm wend alnekatm she refused to be touched yhenn aregagchalew and now we back together mnkniyatum uvi Lnchers slehone i have to stick to the right girl endene emnet by the way the second girl is not in uvi with me she is gena uvi ltgeba nw .......ena mewesen akategn please esti advise stugn beka dont judge me gn advise felgalew

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I want to vent, so here it is.
Hey you 😊 Yes, I do like you. You’re a little different from other people you’re kind and quirky,.... I love that about you. I liked your voice, your masculine energy, and the way you treated me. I know you love me.
When we first started talking, you told me, “I love Jesus” Now you say you don’t believe in Him. Listen, Jesus isn’t just someone I follow because He’s part of my family or because I was raised that way. Maybe that was true at first, but now I know Him for myself, and I love Him. I can’t live without Him. I truly can’t!  Because of this, I feel as though I no longer understand who you are, and perhaps you feel the same way about me.Honestly, I really want to be submissive to my husband. I want to trust his leadership and let him guide me. I want to be with someone whose values and intentions I don’t have to question. I know the kind of man I could submit to, and I don’t want a husband who doesn’t believe in Jesus.
That’s why I’ve distanced myself from you.
But I still pray for you. Sometimes I want to ask about the things you’ve told me before your job, your family, and your friends but I’m afraid of hurting your feelings. That’s why

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21F. Looking for Genuine Friends (Preferably 25+ F/M)
Honestly, just putting this out there, because completely over superficial connections that fizzle out after two days of dry texting. Bringing real energy to the table and don't have time for fake interactions, just heavily value people who can be upfront and hold a genuine conversation. I'm just curious to see if there are still people out there who want to build a real, natural connection without making things complicated or forced.
I’m looking for a consistent, low maintenance but high loyalty dynamic. Let's completely bypass the awkward, polite interview phase and just vibe. I'd love a genuine friendship where we can stay up for late night calls, talk about random things in life, share what we are working on, or just casually vent to each other after an exhausting day.
If you value reciprocity, match energy, and have a good sense of humor, feel free to reach out, with whatever random thought is on your mind ccurrently, and let's see where the conversation leads.🤍

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Hi. I’m 23 f, and I’m writing this because I honestly don’t know what to do anymore, and I really need advice.
I’ve struggled with insecurity about my body for many years. I’m naturally very thin, and when I was younger, I was bullied and rejected because of my weight. Some of my friends made fun of me and treated me differently, and those experiences stayed in my mind. I grew up hiding myself, staying at home, avoiding people, and feeling like I was missing out on my childhood and life.
The difficult thing is that I know I’m beautiful in many ways. I like my face, my eyes, my teeth, my nose, my lips, and my hair. My friends and other people around me also tell me that I’m beautiful. But inside my mind, I still hear the things people said to me when I was young.
I’ve also been trying very hard to change my body. I’ve tried eating more food, increasing my protein, drinking protein shakes, and doing things to gain healthy weight and become more confident in my body. But it hasn’t been easy. I’m also struggling financially because I’ve been trying to start an online business, but it didn’t work out. I don’t have enough money to consistently buy the foods I feel I need, so eventually I had to stop trying so hard. That makes me feel even more hopeless because I feel like I’m trying, but I don’t have the resources to do what I want.
My relationships have also been affected by my insecurity. I loved the two people I was in relationships with, but I constantly compared myself to other women. Their exes or the women around them seemed to have beautiful bodies and shapes, and I felt like I couldn’t compete with them. Even though I was loved and people told me I was beautiful, I was always afraid that I wasn’t enough. I eventually ended those relationships because I was scared of being treated as less important or not being good enough.
That’s the part nobody really understands. When my friends look at me, they see a beautiful girl and tell me I have nothing to worry about. But they don’t feel what I feel inside. They don’t understand how deeply these childhood experiences affected me.
I cry a lot, I isolate myself, and I feel like I’m wasting my life. I see other people going out, having fun, having relationships, working, and building their lives, while I feel stuck inside my own mind. Sometimes I feel like I hate my environment and even my country because I desperately want a fresh start somewhere else.
I don’t want to get married just because I’m afraid of being alone. I want to be respected, loved, and treated well. I also want to leave Ethiopia someday, build a career, become financially independent, and experience a different environment.
But I’m starting to realize that maybe changing my country or my body alone won’t fix everything I’m carrying inside.
So I’m asking for honest advice. How can I heal from years of bullying and body insecurity? How can I stop comparing myself to other women? How can I learn to enjoy my life and go outside without constantly worrying about how people see me? And how can I build my confidence when I’m also struggling financially and don’t have the resources to completely change my body?
I’m not looking for judgment. I just want someone to understand what I’m feeling and tell me what steps I can take to start living my life again.

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Hey endet nachu is there any one who want a friend 😊
mn meselachu i just end a talking stage/date with this guy tnsh rezem lale gize koytual  ena you know  there is some kind of attachment bzum bayhon  gn ala almost hule kemawrat to completely wede alamawrat nw yegebahut ena ahun lay am kind of feeling lonely sra saynorgn siker ala bcheyen shon mnamn ydebregnal gn sra sinor sweta mnamn no i don't feel that way ena till i get over it is there any one who wants to chat kehonem i prefer someone smart so we can talk about some intellectual things adis neger makew des ylegnal any topic lay mawrat echlalew  and  if you want to talk about God mnamnm des nw milegn (Orthodox ) keza wuchi demo am not looking for a date eshi just someone who can talk who is nice ena decent ! so some one older is preferable  I am 22 and GC student Leloch detail'ochn we will discuss it later
  Thanks ❤

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Ok now am pissed like wtf is it me or do I have a bad luck every guy I talk to just ghost me like this not my first 😑 like wth wrong with u guys is this a flecks or a game to u like wth the fuck at think point am starting to hate man rly.....am losing interest on dating or anything else ere.....am so done. I tho is it me wth did I do or do wrong but look like there taking this ghosting shit as a game will thank u.....u just gave a girl the trauma and lose hope on dating and finding love.....so fuck all of u man rly...idc if u come at me on the comments I said wth I said bc it true....am done

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So the thing is I don't really know if am beautiful or not so I bet y'all good at imagining so...here it goes

green flag(proud abt myself)🤭✅
Preety brown eyes👀, nice curly hair, brown skin tone, big🍒(not that big big honestly), big thighs, cute feet and nice lips👄and eyebrows too

Red flags(insecurity)🤧🚩
Weird face card, face fat, double chin, hyperpigmentation (discoloration (, hairy body(like a lot on arms and legs) , hip dips, flat ass🍑, belly fat

Guys no hate and help your gurl out, sometimes I feel nice sometimes I don't and I am kinda insecured And also proud sometimes so tell me if am chopped or not. I gotta make sure

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Baby, you are the most beautiful human being I had ever seen. it isn't because i knew you close, it is because our eyes met. it was always you. let me remember you before you fade so entirely. man, i loved you so much. i can't even imagine loving again like that. you had taken my soul from my body. there is no other standard. there will never be another person that can reach. i still blush when i think about you. every moment i craved you so bad i had to physically stop myself from reaching out to touch you. let me remember you one more time because this happened 8 years ago and it is fading from me. i had fought to forget you and now i am at time i can't help forgetting you. my love, you have made the mornings so bright, the summer a time to fall in love, the winter the time for longing. i don't remember well but i know that i can't love again like that. i just can't. this has happened once and it will never happen again. you have changed me completely effortlessly without even touching me without saying a single word to me. and i know what love is for first time because you awoke something in me that made me realize i am straight.

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