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Definition - Dating anyone above 4- 5 years give and take is dating an older guy

The libido just isn’t there in that age gap maybe? Or am I hyper sexual? Maybe he is just not attracted to me anymore? I have never been one to invest in my looks but I have been told I look good, my skin and eyes help but maybe I should work on my posture and get a bit more muscle, be more flexible! Idk but it’s not like his going to the gym or getting his hair done for me but I understand him uk then what is it! Why aren’t we fucking like bunnies right now! Why you asleep?! We never go out anymore, not that we really did before! You never initiate stuff! I feel old I am not that old lol! Do I not strive in committed relationships!? Can I not commit? Why am I so scared? What if he proposes? I am bored! It’s kinda peaceful now we don’t fight as much but I am kinda just bored! I need more in my life, and I am trying to do shit but I kinda feel like you drag me down! Like get out the house sometime! I sound crazy because I knew he was an introvert and he is productive even at home but like I wanna do shit in the relationship then watch a movie while he sleeps mid film! But like is that cause he is older? He is just seen it all neger? I do go out with my friends and shit but like I want flavor in my relationship you know what I mean! Eyekebetku new ?! I mean we have a pretty good life thank God buttttt also like what do you say? How do you communicate this?! It feels lacking? Also he said he would get married if I died so that’s a red flag, and he also was hollering at some girl he had “drinks” with telling her she fine or whatever in her DMs but then I went on a dating app so we both kinda fucked up anyway!

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Hey,
is it normal that whenever I start developing feelings for someone yewededkewu yemeselgn, and then when they tell me they’re in love Wiz or fkr siyabezubegn mideberugn, ymr felegiwu adelm gn chenekegn? I don’t know why this happens to me. ymr I don’t want to hurt anybody gn, but I can’t control yehen sebayen. I genuinely don’t want to hurt anyone or lead anyone on, but somehow, once they start feeling the same way about me, I lose the feelings I had for them. Please, what can I do about this? How can I control it?

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I’m 28M and I’ve never been in a relationship.

Most of my life these past few years has basically been work, learning and trying to figure out my future. I’m into AI and tech, so I spend a lot of time learning, listening to podcasts, reading books and articles, and going down random rabbit holes about things I find interesting.

I live alone too, so I’m pretty used to doing things by myself. Coffee alone, eating alone, watching something, reading, thinking about life, then doing it all again the next day.

And honestly, I don’t hate it. But sometimes it gets lonely.

Sometimes I just want someone I can talk to about random stuff. Not work, not career, not what I’m learning. Just normal conversations. Maybe go for coffee, walk around, joke about stupid things and get to know each other.

I’ve never actually asked a girl out before 😅. I guess I was always thinking I had to get my life together first, and dating could come later.

Now I’m starting to think maybe that’s not how it works.

So yeah, I’m not really looking to force anything. I’d just like to meet someone and see if we get along. Friendship is completely fine too.

I’m in Addis Ababa. If you can relate to any of this, feel free to message me

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I got a question on how you can desexualize yourself cause my sexual appetite is getting out of hand idk if it’s weird but im super attracted to huge clits i get so fucking hard for them i love sucking on them and i know how to work them ,i have a massive oral fixation i love anything oral especially when i am the one giving it ,i like eating a girls out if she has a big clit demo that’s a jackpot. Even when i watch porn i only watch girls with massive clis that’s the only thing that gets me hard. I have such a foul mouth and im very spontaneous and unpredictable most of the girls i have been with have told me that it is an exciting trait.
I really need to feel like it’s real i feel like it will make euphoria with my future intimacy.

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Please don't judge me. I met a girl older than me last year while working on a charity project. When we returned to university this year, we started talking often. I noticed she wasn't doing well, so I reached out first. I fell in love with her in a deep, best-friend way and wanted to treat her better than anyone else. I am quiet by nature, but talking to her felt easy. I admired her from afar, but when I teased her about missing her, she said she wanted my loyalty. I told her I cared about her deeply and wasn't joking. She struggles to express feelings, so she didn't say it back, but I didn't mind. I was always the one reaching out, waiting for replies, and calling first. Whenever she initiated contact, it was usually just about charity work. I always felt nervous around her.
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​Over semester break, she stopped replying for days, which was unusual. I felt like I was being too much, so I backed off. When I stopped texting, she asked why I was ignoring her. Her noticing made me feel like she cared, so I resumed normal contact. Back at uni, I would stay up during dorm sleepovers just to keep her company while she studied. But I was constantly hurt when she ignored my texts or didn't visit, even though we lived on the same floor. Over the next break, I realized I was double-texting just to get a reply. She claimed she forgot, but feeling ignored killed me. I tried to excuse it because she has six or seven siblings and a busy life, but when I finally went home and stopped texting, ten days passed before she noticed.

​When she finally called, I couldn't act normal because I struggle to be myself around family. I started calling her rarely. She invited me to a friend's wedding, but I declined using my dad as an excuse because I didn't want to see her. She just said "okay," and we stopped talking. Later, when she checked in, I mentioned needing time for myself, and she went completely silent. I felt guilty and texted her a week later. Recently, she asked if I could take her ID and register for her at uni. I didn't want to, and my dad would be upset, so I asked if someone else could do it. She replied, "It's okay, I'll ask someone else." I panicked and sent messages saying I loved her and would do anything for her, but she didn't reply. I feel unworthy and confused about how to handle seeing her back on campus without making things awkward.and am i exaggerating?

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Hello there, I’m 30+ M Muslim, I’ve been feeling like I’m missing a genuine connection with someone I can talk to openly and comfortably. I’ve been carrying a lot of thoughts and emotions by myself, and sometimes I just wish I had someone who could listen without judging me.

I value trust, honesty, privacy, mutual respect, and meaningful conversations. I’m not looking to rush anything or force a particular kind of relationship. I simply miss having someone I can talk to, understand, and connect with on a deeper level.

Sometimes it feels difficult to find people with whom you can genuinely be yourself. I just wanted to get that feeling off my chest.

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honestly just need to vent for a minute.

23m Lately I’ve been feeling like I don’t really want a traditional, serious relationship. I’m not necessarily looking for someone to immediately call my partner or make huge promises with. I think I just want someone I genuinely connect with—someone I can talk to, laugh with, hang out with, and feel comfortable around.

I miss having someone who actually wants to spend time together without everything becoming complicated. Someone who can respect boundaries, communicate honestly, and enjoy each other’s company without unnecessary drama or pressure.

Maybe I’m just tired of relationships where everything has to be so serious all the time. I want something simple and honest. If we enjoy talking, we talk. If we want to hang out, we hang out. If we need space, we give each other space. No pretending, no games, and no making promises we aren’t ready to keep.

I know this probably sounds confusing because I don’t even completely understand what I want myself. 😅 Maybe I’m just looking for companionship and a connection that feels natural instead of forced.

I also don’t want to lead anyone on. I’d rather be honest from the beginning about what I’m looking for and let the other person decide whether they’re comfortable with it.

I guess I just want to meet someone who gets that sometimes you can care about someone and enjoy their company without immediately knowing where everything is going.

Am I the only one who feels like this? 😭

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What up what up peeps. This isn't really a vent I think :-

Male, 24. I'm looking for people my age to go out partying with on Fridays/Saturdays. My social life is kinda fucked up atm cause I don't have friends that go out or work a similar job than me and I'd like to go out at least a couple of times a month.
I'd like to go out with people and make friends rather than going by myself.

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What is the point of having a religious structure in Ethiopia and I mean all religions? If they can't give us peace, that is the bare minimum a religious structure should do. The leaders are the safest people in Ethiopia, even safer than the Prime Minister, so why would they give a shit about what is happening to the people?

If I am against them, it doesn't mean I am against God.

Something always on my mind is why religious institutions aren't audited for all the money they get. Why aren't the leaders stepping down with limited term intervals of constant duration? They are not holy guys. If a leader were holy, he should be in a cave praying God is more there than here not at 4 Kilo living a luxury life. This goes for all religions.

We have believed in God for almost 3,000 years, but we still fight and don't have peace. How many generations does 3,000 years mean? Please don't tell me "this is for a reason."

This is my opinion. I am not an atheist; I believe in God, but not with this structure of religion anymore.

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Helloo 21 F
So.....the thing is...I don't even know where to start. I'm collage student and I have great grades, awesome friends and an amazing bf who is such a great human being overall. And.... everything is great. But the problem is....I have a history of sexual assault. I was raped when I was just 6 years old and no one has ever found out. The guy was a very close family friend and I was just a kid to realize what was happening at that time. So I knew what happened was an assault when I was big like 15 and 16 and when I had my first phone got on social media and started knowing more about sexual stuff. And that fucked me up. I hated myself for a really long time and.... it was such a difficult moment for me and what made it harder for me was I never wanted to tell anyone because I was scared and thought it was already too late. So I tried to live my life and pushed the memory to the back of my head and things started getting better(retrospectively speaking, it actually wasn't a good reaction) Fast forward with my bf...he is the first ever person I opened up to and....he was the comfort I never knew I needed. He said all nice things and told me there is absolutely no rush between us and he doesn't care how long it takes me to be open for physical things. And he meant it. So when we got more comfortable a year in our relationship, I wanted to test myself and see my boundaries so yk we started kissing for longer time and I was progressively testing myself (and we are no sex before we are stable emotionally and financially and everything else because there is always risk of pregnancy) but the problem is.....I don't feel anything. Either my mind goes back to my 6 years old self when we get physical or I simply zone out. And I'm thinking there is something wrong with me. I literally feel zero emotions sometimes I catch myself thinking what I would have to do once it's over rather than being present in the moment and he notices so he slows down and tells me it's okay but I feel bad and tell him don't worry😭😭😭 I'm starting to think I'm asexual but I feel soooo content when we r just cuddling yk...I crave the physical connection but not that type. So yeah.....do I need therapist?😭🤧

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I’m the older daughter in my family, and I have a younger brother who I’ve always felt responsible for. And now with my family out of the picture now i’m the sole gurdiam. He is 22 now, but, most times it feels like he is still 14.

He has basically no ambition, no real interest in life, and no idea what he wants to do with his future. The only things he seems genuinely interested in are anime, his phone, and his computer. That’s pretty much his entire life.He doesn’t eat much either, and while he doesn’t have any kind of substance abuse problem or anything like that, sometimes his appearance and behavior honestly make him look like someone who is going through an addiction or withdrawal. He has a very pale face, doesn’t take care of himself, and whenever we try to put some structure or limits on his life, he reacts in a way that makes it extremely difficult to deal with him.

Throughout his childhood, my parents and I tried different approaches. At first, we basically left him alone and hoped that he would eventually grow out of it or become more mature on his own. That didn’t happen. Then we went in the opposite direction and tried to control almost everything he did, hoping that forcing him to develop better habits would help. That didn’t work either.

Now he has taken the 12th grade university entrance exam again this year, and he failed. He failed it last year too. What worries me most isn’t even that he failed. It’s that he doesn’t seem to care. There is no visible disappointment, no feeling that he is falling behind his peers, and no sense that he needs to do something differently. It’s almost like the result means nothing to him.

He doesn’t seem to have any ambition or even a basic idea of what kind of life he wants. He doesn’t seem interested in getting a job, going to university, learning a skill, becoming independent, or really doing anything. Socially, he also seems very immature for his age. He doesn’t seem to pick up on social cues very well when interacting with friends or people his age. He mostly talks about anime or fantasy worlds and things that, honestly, I feel like most people his age have grown out of. It’s like he is still mentally in the stage where it was exciting to talk about what supernatural power you would have or which fictional character you like.

He also has basically no confidence, but at the same time he has this strange kind of confidence in his own ignorance. He can know very little about something and still be completely unwilling to acknowledge that he needs to learn or change. Nothing seems to motivate him.

Even basic personal hygiene is a problem. For example, if a 22-year-old guy is told that he smells and needs to shower, you would normally expect him to at least feel embarrassed or self-conscious about it. He doesn’t seem to care. He can go several days without showering. He can spend days lying in bed, watching things on his phone or playing on his PC, and he puts almost no effort into his appearance. He doesn’t care what he wears, how he looks, or how other people perceive him. I feel like there has to be something deeper going on psychologically, although obviously I’m not qualified to diagnose him. I’m starting to wonder if this is more than just laziness or immaturity.

I was really hoping he would pass the exam this year because I had hoped he could get into a military/defense university in another town that I’ve heard about. I thought that kind of environment might actually help him because it would give him structure, discipline, education, physical activity, and some responsibility. But now that he has failed the exam again, that option isn’t available right now.

And now, I really don’t know what to do next.

I’m not just looking for advice on how to get him into university. I want to know what kind of environment or program could actually help someone like him become more independent, disciplined, socially capable, and interested in life.

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In this day especially in this bot girls say I’m FemDom I’m dominant and then when u talk to them they are beggars that they expect man beg them and their language is same don’t waste my precious time huh really?? U need to stand on poll on night not here

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So im a women and im in to this thing yk findom and fendom and it's not that much popular in Ethiopia but im kinda addicted to it and the problem is many ppl come like ppl can't afford me and im not a person to snatch that money from those ppl yk and they r begging and begging and Idk what to do and how to deal with those ppl

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I'm a girl and I think I'm a Coward. Because I feel this urge to have sex. I've never had a bf but I wonder what it would feel like. Just because I'm to afraid of taking any actions, I fantasize about it. And I'm afraid it has gotten too far. I have weird fetish. Very weird. I don't know if I can come back from it and have an actual decent relationship.

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22f let me make it quick i need girl friends to talk with menamen 😭😭😭 endeeee it's too much bekagn bekagn bechayen mehon i wanna form a girls group sooooo if any girl is interested let's try it eski🫶

pls feel free to dm if ur interested🫶

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I am female...my question is for male especially those who are between 25 and 30. So do you guys wanna have sex with a woman you wanna marry or have serious relationship with? Because lately all the men i am finding are like i wanna date you i want to wife you blabla but end up talking about sex and i am seriously tired. Please give me your honest opinion. Thank you

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21 F

Honestly, I don’t even know how to write this without feeling embarrassed, but I really need to try.

I’m a student and I’ve been struggling financially lately. I only have one source of income, and unfortunately, it hasn’t been going well at all. I help people with healthy weight loss, but this whole year I’ve only had one client.

It’s honestly been really stressful, and I’m just trying to figure things out and find a way to support myself while I’m still a student.

If anyone knows how to actually get clients, grow a small online service, or even boost TikTok views and reach, I’d genuinely appreciate any advice. I feel like I’m trying, but I honestly don’t know what I’m doing wrong. 🥲

I don’t usually talk about my financial problems, but I felt like I needed to say it somewhere. 🙏

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Uff I'm tired of this life, I always mess up, I always ask God forgiveness but I'm always there doing the same sin over and over, what will he even said of me

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where is he? I'm 21, I know exactly what I want, and every guy I meet is either terrified of a woman with a strap or thinks "dominant" means I just want someone who will do what i ask . Boring.🥱

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I don't like walking through a crowd alone. When I'm with my friends, everything feels different. I feel comfortable, confident, and secure, as if nothing and no one can bother me. But the moment I step into the city alone, something changes inside me.
I become insecure and uncomfortable. I start thinking about how I look, how I walk, and what people might think of me. I look at others and compare myself with them. Slowly, I begin convincing myself that I'm ugly, unattractive, or simply not good enough.
The strange part is that I don't even know what those people are thinking. Maybe they aren't thinking about me at all. But when I'm alone, my own thoughts become louder than reality.
Then I return home, and instead of feeling relieved, I become angry with myself. I hate the way I felt, the way I thought, and the way I saw myself. Sometimes, that anger becomes so deep that I end up hating everything—including myself.
Maybe I'm not really afraid of the crowd outside. Maybe I'm afraid of the crowd inside my own mind.
Because sometimes, the hardest person to face isn't a stranger in the street.
It's yourself.

Is there anyone who can relate?

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It is hilarious how these basic, so called men automatically assume a woman must be broken or hurt just to be totally disgusted by them. Their fragile, huge egos cannot understand that anyone could look at their constant, embarrassing laziness and just make a smart, logical choice to leave them alone. They walk around acting like kings demanding to be taken care of while doing less than the bare minimum. They act like helpless toddlers who need women to fix their lives when they should be fully capable of taking care of themselves. Honestly, they should have been the ones carrying babies since they have nothing else going on. Instead, they completely fall apart and cry over a common cold, completely forgetting that if women weren't here, they wouldn't even exist. They couldn't last an hour dealing with the real physical pain and exhaustion of a period. That is not an insult, it is just a fact about their total lack of strength. By calling a woman's normal anger "trauma" or asking a pathetic "who hurt you?", they try to turn a fair critique into an emotional breakdown just to avoid looking in the mirror and seeing how useless they are.Their immediate trick is always to flip the script. The second you hold them accountable, they try to make you look crazy just to protect their own pride. They want to be in charge but have zero ability to look at their own faults. It is sad to watch grown adults throw hidden tantrums because they cannot survive without a woman's constant praise and endless patience to keep them going. Now it’s your turn to feel what girls feel every single night. For once in your life, you need to know exactly how it feels to look over your shoulder and be scared just walking out of your own front door. Every single one of you haters needs a massive reality check. Maybe getting shipped off to the army would finally force you to learn some basic decency, respect, and how to act like a real adult. Let’s see how tough you are now that the tables are turned and men aren’t safe out there either. Any defensive, mad thing they try to comment on this just proves the whole post is 100% right. So before any of these clueless Kens, short or tall men, even think about opening their mouths to leave a weak, predictable comment, they need to look at how much they fail to help, swallow their pride, and don't even bother.

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