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Hello, I am 24F and I need your advice or experience. Please skip if you're going to be negative or insulting.

I have never dated and nor do think I will in the near future.That's troublesome and comforting at the same time. I think I have some sort of social anxiety coupled with people pleasing behavior. So I don't really want to go out of my way to interact with people but I love helping out even going out of my way to do so. I go above and beyond and it has caused me pain in the past. I think I might have trauma of past sexual abuse, I have vague memory of it happening but I have never told a soul. The abuse was by a cousin that's a bit older than me who is now married with a kid. The memory of the abuse was too vivid to be a dream and still to vague to figure out what actually happened. It might have caused the problem I will explain to you right now, but it's all guess work.
I don't have male friends currently but I would like to have it. I think I associate male friendship with attraction level and my obsessive thoughts constantly go to the conclusion that I don't have male friends because they don't find me attractive enough to approach me as a friend let alone for something more. Two things I think of this scenario ; one is that I am glad and thankful that I don't have the weight of being with someone either romantically or platonically, the second is that I must be unbelievably unattractive or just give off ugly vibes. I don't know honestly.
Most days I am grateful that I am not dating because it makes me anxious having to call and text with someone on the daily and then meet up with them as well.
Other days I get frustrated because why do people don't approach me even as friends?
Another thing that is maybe related to my abuse is, every interaction I have with guys I get this nauseating feeling that they might be into me. I am not hyping myself up as I say this, but like every interaction feels like someone is making a move on me and it disgusts me. Even knowing that I am imagining it, it gives me the creeps. Be it a relative, an old friend or acquaintance. My theory is that because I have been taken advantage of as a kid by a relative, my mind takes any signs or behavior like this as a danger alert? If that makes sense. It disgusts me and yet again I find myself craving that same attention. I don't know where to get treated for this type of nonsense disease. Help me out with your opinions, ask me more or ask me to clarify in the comments if you'd like. Thanks in advance

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Lately something sexual is fucking with my head. Im 21 M, and Im into girls but i cant seem to stop thinking about getting pegging by a woman. Only by a woman. The whole point of it being sexy goes out the window if it's not by a woman. I never had these kinda thoughts before and it's a bit weird i know but I wonder how it would feel to give all control of one's body to her and letting her do whatever she wants with it.

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Ive tried venting a lot of times about this issue but it seems to get rejected everytime i try to speak it. More like it's a fantasy tho. Im 21 M, and Im into pegging. I've never tried it before and lately i cant seem to stop thinking about it. Im straight as a poll but something about a woman taking control of my body turns me on. I know it's weird but i find myself wondering how good it would feel, had the opportunity present itself.

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Hello 22 F recently I have bought personal stuff from Dubai(dil...) and I couldn't use it Idk why maybe because of some beliefs in me.
Now I cannot keep it in house I am scared my family will see it and Idk what to do since I bought it like 20k kinda expensive
Give some opinion I expect from girls with some experiences

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Hey, I am in an abusive relationship with my co worker. She always picks on me cause of my weight, I ain't even that fat,threatens to beat me up,then she proceeds to giving me seductive eyes. what shall I do? does she like me or she just a crazy person.

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I’m 23, recently graduated, and I’m Muslim. I’ve never been in a relationship or dated before, and that’s been a conscious choice on my part because I’ve always believed that dating isn’t something I want to be involved in.

I honestly don’t even know if this is the right place for what I’m looking for, but there’s a small part of me that feels like I should at least try, so here I am.

I’m hoping to find a sincere connection with someone who is mindful of the akhirah, honest, thoughtful, and emotionally mature. Someone I can have meaningful conversations with, but also laugh with and talk about the most random things. Someone I can learn from, grow alongside, and eventually build something meaningful with, inshaAllah.

I’m not looking for casual conversations, passing time, or anything without a clear intention. If you’re genuinely serious about marriage and want to get to know someone respectfully and in a halal way, you’re welcome to reach out.

If that’s not what you’re looking for, I completely understand, but please don’t reach out.

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Lowk abortion should be more normalized, I don't want no kids and Idt anyone should have kids either. We should all go extinct as a species and the way we do that is by aborting every pregnancy. Some could suggest abstinence or maybe protection but nah nothing feels as good as raw sex.

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I just wanna vent my frustration on how hard dating is as a 26 m who wants a female who is also athiest and doesnt want kids , blud i tried tinder it never worked out although i have multiple matches, i tried dating in the wild all ended up not working out and apparently deep in the relationship they change their mind and want kids , i think ima be single forver at this pace or ima gonna post an ad on newspapers or radio

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Hey am a 24 years old HIV positive man get mother to child am a single children for my parents and they expect morely my mom I give her a child but I don't have girlfriend am lonely guy and if there is a positive girl and open for relationship ask my ID

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hello 25F here why is it soo hard for a single mom to start another life again my first husband was hella toxic verbally and physically abusive i got out of that marriage to save my life and my son .......but after that i really am giving up on dating cause every man that i met for some reasons they just want to sleep with me ? why is there something that am doing wrong

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Where to start love love love I was 22 when my mom and aunt made me meet someone for process he took me somewhere abandoned and raped me but he didn't only rape me he inserted stuff in my private parts and made me want to dissappear at the spot I hated myself i still somehow fear those abuse hurt my body after that I stopped believing in love or genuine guys my heart was broken and I hated my body I'm 25 now and I don't see men the same way i discussed this with my mom which made her cry and i stopped i dont know who to vent to i do need advise after 2 years im still left with memories of it😔💔

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Just in this silent night listen to Abeba Desalegn's  "ሙሽራዬ ቀረ" song and see if u don't feel sad.

ዜማው ውስጥ ያለው ሀዘን፣ የድምጿ ልስላሴ፣ ወደ ራስህ አለም ወስዶ ያስተክዝሀል። ከራስህ ብትወጣ በገጸባሕርይዋ እጣፈንታ ታዝናለህ።

It's just like a saddening slow lullaby, you go to and fro like pendulum from one side to another. ምሽቶች ያላቸው ዝምታ፣ ከጥሩ ሙዚቃ ጋር ሲደባለቅ ማለት የእኛነታችንን ሥር ዘልቆ የሚሰማን ጥልቅ ስሜት ይመጣል።

በስልኬ የከፈትኩት ሙዚቃ ወደ ሌላዋ ሜክሲኮዋዊት የነፍሴ ዘፋኝ Carla Morison ዘፈን ላይ ደርሷል። "Dejenme IIorar"( Let me cry) ወይም ላልቅስ ተወኝ እያለች በለስላሳ ዜማ ታንጎራጉራለች።

እኔን ወደ ውስጥ ታስለቅሰኛለች። ናፍቆቴን፣ መከፋቴን፣ መከዳቴን ሁሉ ታስታውሰኛለች። ይህቺ ሴትዮ ቀላል ሴት አይደለችም፤ ዘፈኗን ከሰማሁ ወዲህ ስፓኒሽ ለመማር ስጋጋጥ አዲስ ግኝት ያገኘሁ ያህል አዲስ ቃል ስለምድ ፈንጥዣለሁ፤ ቋንቋዋ ሳይገባኝ በዜማዋ መሰላልነት በቋንቋዬ አዝኛለሁ፤ ሰው በመሆን በኩል የደረሰንን ጻማ በየቋንቋችን አማርረንበታል።

ወይ ሙዚቃ!

ሙዚቃዬ ካሳ ጋ ደርሷል። ካሳ ማለት በልዝብ ዜማ የሚያምጽ፣ እያባበለ እምቢ የሚል ባለ ታላቅ ተቃርኖ ነው። አንጀቴን እያንሰፈሰፈ የሚያሸብር ነው። ለእሱ ብዙ የምለው አለኝና ምንም አልልም ለአሁኑ።

ቁስሌን በሌሊት በሙዚቃ ኖታዎች፣ በዜማ ጭረቶች እያከክኩኝ ይህን እጽፋለሁ። ቢኖርም ባይኖርም ሙዚቃን የፈጠረን አምላክ አመሰግናለሁ።

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Hey guys you can't believe me my story I am 26 years old I have a girlfriend she is 33 years old and she is single mom she have one baby her baby father is not live in addis almost breakup with her mom

Guys I'm in love with her be honest I'm live with my family she live with her baby know she is pregnant 2month I'm so confused what can I do guys her religion is catholic I am ortodox sooo guys what can I do pleas answer me be polite and understanding pleasssssssss

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My girlfriend and I have been together for more than two years . She is V and has always been clear that she doesn’t want to have sex before marriage. I’ve respected that completely as from the beginning I approached her with serious intentions.
The original plan was to get married/live together this year, however she has decided that she wants to finish her masters first, which means waiting for another two years. By then she’ll be almost 31.
I’m 31 btw financially stable, settled in life, and at a point where I feel ready for marriage. At the same time I have to be honest about how I feel. I was sexually active before, ready to start a family. But now the thought of putting everything on hold for another two years has left me questioning things.
So I’m genuinely interested in hearing from people who have been in a similar situation. What will you do if you were in my position or her position?
Open for genuine convos advice and tips cheers.

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I don't want to be alive anymore. I don't want this body. I don't want to think the way i do. Nobody wants to be around me. I have always been depressed and idealised suicide but it has never been this bad, its different now. For the first time i actually want to do it. I don't think im making it to my next birthday

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