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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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እሺ፣ ሰሞኑን I have been thinking about our communities views on sex እና ምንም ያህል እንደ ሀገር ብንሽኮረመምም ጉዳዩ ሲነሳ፤ we all in tho that shit I mean listen to the music and the movies! ውስጣችን ነው! Anyways I recently read something online about how woman who waited for marriage and I think it was like a survey or something anyways they said the men had less libido than the woman! And that was so crazy to me I mean do older men feel like this uk after the whole fire age thing!? What about girls who waited? Was it all you ever expected? Or was it awkward? I am in a toss up should I wait or should I not, I generally don’t care about the whole virgin infatuation but I am curious to know if there are any other benefits to waiting or if there are any consequences? It’s kinda of a tough decision when you don’t care about social norms or the religion aspect of it so what should I do?

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Am i a bad or a good sister
I(25f) and my brother ( 18m) ሬዲት ስትይል 😁
We r very very very close some of the things could weird u out
I tell him about my masterbations and the guys i made out wz and all of my sexual histories
He tells me in his own word ሲጠበጥብ as well and abt all the girls that he talks to that he got rejected by and he rejected as well

We talk about anything and everything, i tell him things i don't want to admit even to myself and he gives me both the tough and the smooth love
He he so damn mature i can give him that even sometimes more than me i have moments that i act so childish ( in a fun way usually 😅 i just allow myself ) and he's the one who'd insult the fucking hell out of me and gets me back on track
Bcha the guy all he wants is to fuck he is 18 all his hormones are ganging up on him and tbh I'd like it if he can hold it to himself ( bcz i don't want him to catch an std or get some girl preg😭at this age ) atleast for a while but he told that i can go and fuck myself and that he would do it without my tips or helps so yeah what else can i do yesterday i bought him a condom and we went out to take a look at pensions that he could possibly bring the girl into 😂

So am i a bad sister or a good one
Yaw it's just to hear ur opinion enji i feel like am the best ( i mean he would have done it wz or wzout me so 🤷‍♀️)

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Hey 😊 I’m 21 F and looking for a guy friend around 20–25, but just for a genuine friendship I’m an introvert at first but once I get to know you, I open up more I’m not interested in anything sexual or that kind of relationship I’d love to have someone to talk to joke around with, share random thoughts and build a genuine, respectful friendship If you’re looking for the same feel free to message me 🤍

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M 22 So guys yhe new negeru ene eyob ebalalew ena i was in relationship for like 2 straight years ena so ahun break up adrgiyalew so the reason was esua betam social media stuff tabeza neber like eyetegelaletech mnamn at first normal neberku gn sayachew attention seeking yemeslal ena senegrat akumi bye tegachen mnamn keza erasu lemakom wesna kegna rship emdemaybelt amna tetaw neber yhe malet ke 4 month befit mnamn new ena beka selam nebern btw distance new rshipachn gn be amet west atleast 3 gize engenagnalen ena i was loyal asf maryamn 1d set awrche alawkm kene gar close yehonu sewoch yawkugnal ena this week i found out lela tik tok acc endalat ena block adrgagnalech ene endalay be jeles selk servhe sayew bezu vid lekalech almosk 1.6k follower yalew acc neberat ena i end our relationship ena esuam tekebelech ende normal ena betammmmmm new yetedeberkut like mawrat type maderg michl sew adelewm gn kene endetmaru ena eski bene bota bethonu mn decide tadergu neber

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23F giving this a shot because apparently this isn’t where u find your person but there are a lot of people here so why not 😭 I’m not the most social person and I’ll probably be awkward at first so it takes me a while to really get comfortable with someone but once I do they’re hearing every stupid thought that crosses my mind I joke a lot and I care a lot too I want someone I can do all the silly married couple things with watch an anime or some random movie at 2am and somehow end up talking about life for hours but when life gets heavy I want him to know he has someone he can come home to someone he can count on even on the days when he feels like he has nobody... I want to learn a lot from the person I love especially in deen and I’d love for him to be my teacher while we keep growing together maybe Rumi was right about what is meant for us finding its way to us and maybe there’s something beautiful about being understood deeply and still being chosen freely I’m trying to become a better version of myself too so maybe we can figure out the rest together

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Hey idk how imma explain something that was going on for years but i have this ex who i love more than anything despite how bad he used to treat me we used to go to same school i knew him when i was 16 and now…
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Guys, it didn’t get any better 😭 I still think about my ex, then I met someone who was nearly perfect and did everything a bf was supposed to do… and I CHEATED 😭 IKKK, don’t come for me.I broke up with him because he deserved better. Then the guy I cheated with and I agreed it was casual, but I caught feelings, asked “what if?” and he still didn’t want a relationship, so I left😭Now I can’t seem to like anyone. Nice guy? “He doesn’t have a car.” Guy with everything? “I don’t like him.” 😭 I want someone to grow with, but I also love my freedom and genuinely want to keep myself for me. But it’s nice to have someone too uk so what do I do or what’s my issue 😭

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Hey My husband and I have been together for 4 years, and we’ve been married for 1 year now. But there’s something I’m really struggling with, and I honestly don’t know what to do.

He never listens to other people or accepts that he might be wrong. In his mind, he is always right, and his family is always right or perfect. I don’t understand why.

Before I got married, my whole family—my dad and my mom—always told me that I was a good cook and that they loved my food. But my husband always makes fun of my cooking and tells me that I’m a terrible cook. I’ve tried to change and improve myself because of what he says, but he still finds things to criticize.

He also shouts at me a lot, but he acts like it’s just a joke. I’ve told him many times that I don’t like it and asked him to stop, but he never does. He keeps doing it.

Sometimes he acts in ways that I find really foolish or embarrassing, and I honestly don’t understand him. He was born and raised in Addis, but sometimes he acts like someone who is trying too hard to act like an "አራዳ" trying to look smart,cool, street smart and he does things that make no sense to me.

The confusing part is that at the same time, he treats me like a princess and can be very good to me. That’s why my mind is so confused. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, if this is normal in a marriage, or if there is something wrong with the way he treats me.

I really need honest advice from people who have experienced something similar. What should I do? Malet chger yemaymesel chger new maryamn betam eyaschnekegn new endet new yemnketlew ene comfort eyataw even I don't have friends he hate them 2 neberu enesum yelum jeloch nachu wereyachu hulu negerachu eyale yenen neger yatatlal hule betam yekefagn demo my mom ke ruk hager legna bla yametachewn neger yihe bakesh ayrebam wedeza argiw megbunm aybelam
Le sra botaw megb sekuatrelet eshi egziabhern berbere 1 kilo le huletachyn ke 20 ken ayasalfegnm ene yagegnehutn ebelalew yelegnal gn seseralet ere wedeza yilal😭emebeten eyekefagn new lemn selew hulunm wedene yazorewal

Ene yemamakrew sew yelegnm
yerasen food house mekfet felge gn ..... maryamn yalegnen hulu muya yatahu yahel tesemagn

Eshi endet lasdestew hule enatu nat lek hule ehtu nat lek hule yesu yeguadegna mistoch nachew lek enena bezuryaye yalut dedeboch nen lesu he think ye hiwetn menged ejen yizo yemimeragn 😭😭eski baletedaroch yehone neger belugn

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ACCORDING TO THOSE PPL
Imagine a greedy CEO
...Well, I could hire a woman to do this job for 20,000, or I could hire a man to do the EXACT SAME WORK for 100,000... But because I love my fellow men so much, I am going to voluntarily burn 30,000 of my company's profits every single year just to keep a guy employed

AND THESE PEOPLE ARE VOTERS DEMO

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የምር ግን አንዳንዴ መኖር ምንድነው... በጥያቄ የተሞላ የህይወት ጉዞ? ወይ ደግሞ በሄድንበት ሌላ መሄጃ ምንፈልግለት ኑሮ! ሽሽት ነው? እስከ እርጅና ማይድን ቁስል መሸከም ነው? ወይስ ልጅነትን ሳይኖሩ ሌሎች በፈጠሩት ዝባዝንኬ ራስን መዝፈቅ ነው! መኖር ምንድነው? መኖር ከመሞት የተሻለ ነው ብዬ አስብ ነበር ግን ሁኔታዎች ያንን ያስቀይሩኛል፣ ምናለ እግዜሩ ደስታን ባይሰጠኝ እስከ ወድያኛው ቢያስርፈኝ... መስማት ማንፈልጋቸው ድምጽ መኃል መኖር... ማንወደውን ህይወት ማየት.... ይህ መኖር ነው? ይህ መኖር ከሆነ ይሁን ካልሆነ ግን ሞችያለው

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I’m 24F, and let me tell u about my dream guy🤗

I’m genuinely attracted to a dominant man not in the BDSM sense or anything like that it’s completely d/t from what I mean(idk even how normal person enjoy this)🙄...I’m talking about a man who is strong, confident, influential, decisive ,capable of leading. A man who truly deserves to be ye bet ras …self respect yalew i find these things rly attractive😊
I’m a feminist, but I don’t personally believe that a marriage needs to have a 50/50 split in leadership where both are constantly competing over who gets the final say mnamn😒 I believe one person better than the other and personally I like when my man is better than me beastesasebm and also by age
And when i say a leader doesn’t mean being controlling🧐 I want a good leader someone who communicates, listens, takes responsibility and resilient. I don’t like a man when instructed by a girl to go here and there mnamn i feel like they lose masculine energy ena yemer yasaznugnal😢... demo I’m not looking for someone to take responsibility for my entire life…I’m smart, independent, hardworking, and confident in myself. I can handle my own life brag lemaderg aydelm i am like that..But having a man who is genuinely better will add sth on me

But nowadays gentle and emotionally mature men are hard to find many of them are either act like a girl💅 or they are ሽልጥልጥ 😭 ere be gentle give us አባውራ vibe... i am sure a lot of girls attract to this
Demo don say ask my id i am not here to find my man🙄
Thanks for reading

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am 19🙄 12 ahun new yechereskut egzyabher ymesgen sra alegn☺️ ena ahun lay fkregna felgalehu cuz yewedefit balen kahunu bawkew btewawekew gizew eskiders be emnet befkr bekbr bnkoy elalehu🙄 ena wdu baltebete😌 yet endehonk balakm🤔 entewawek😌😌 (arfesh srashn sri kes blo ydersl mil mkr ltmekrugn tchlalachuh gn beka alakm lemetewawek tkklegnaw sat new bye asbalehu)...............lefkregnnet mtteykegn set mn aynet thon kalk tamagn akbari sew wedad techawach kena lb yalat sew negn🤔 negeregnam ehonalehu andande🙂 ena ebd negn des bemayl menged sayhon ebdet myamrbat set negn ebd negn blm gn😌 yemadergewn awkalehu lelawn sntewawek☺️................

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31,F living abroad
It is been 3 month since am married but happiness mn malet endehone teftobgnal I LOVE HIM BETAM i am obssessed  destaye esu new hiwote wust alegn yemilew tilku neger esu new am afraid yalesu rasen maseb.
We have been in long distance last year he proposed and after 1 year married.do you know what happened i dont have a reason but i had no plan to marry now may be next year but when i went to ethiopia and shimagle lilak sil bezaw kelebet yemadreg hasab meta tewesene yaw long distance lay slalen shimagle telko kemikoy lela gize kemtibek megelagel yishalal bemilew.bcha eth kehedku behuala bekebabad tetaltenal yeneberegn gize achir slenebere arif gize basalf yshalal bemilew endelelaw gize alakorefkum tolo endininegager neber yefelekut bcha bemehede yetekochehubet gizem neber because leshimglna neber yhedkut familye aweke enji ykr beka shimglnaw yemil nidet agatmogn neber after all tegaban be kurban & i was v...after a week i found out he have been cheating on me,awkward!mn endetesemagn meglets kebad new ene malet hule sle cheating yemkeraker mechem ykr yemaybal sihtet bmot yeml sew neberku & i was deadly sure esu mechem cheat endemayareg set yemaymechew bige new hula masbew ene kostara endehone new makew anyhow.emagine 31 old female dekama enat yalat betesebochuan betam yasdesetech slagebach yhe neger siyagatmat kemnm belay yemtafekrut sew sikedachihu asbut,temtatabgn.i confronted him ykrta teyekegn temelesku wede wuch kene derso bchayen shon na negerun sasbew labd dereku ezi bchechinetu dbrtu ale enenja tesfa bis honku saleks neber mwulew fetarin endigedlegn tseleyku mnamn i know i am heart broken but esun yemetew akim demo yelegnm mnm aytayegnm tesfa 0.meleyayet asebku but guadegnoche yesew were ye family desta plus be kurban agbche mefatat lene betam kebad new betechemari akmen aladeberkum yalesu lifen lemaseb.
Ahun alakm mn endemasib hiwet ketloal gn endedro endalhonku ysemagnal afekrewalew ko gn beka endedro negn bye alasbm dro betaaaam destegna neberku besu esun bemagignete mdr lay edlegnawa set endehonku neber mikotrew kelbe astawsalew betaam des bilogn slesu misemagnin text mitsflet btayut God ahun esu yelem ena meles biye lemn endet agebahu elalew bizu sew slagebahu edlegna nesh yilegnal but i dont feel that way.the love of her life yagebach set betam destegna new mehon yeneberebat adel ena kagebahu behuala ezi smet wst new mehon yeneberebgn elalew.alakm mn endemareg abezawt sry

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Looking for an online friend who’s actually down for random conversations 😭
Like, you should be okay with me randomly texting “WAIT, I JUST THOUGHT OF SOMETHING” and then asking the most unnecessary question ever 💀 I want someone I can joke around with, talk about life, share random thoughts with, gossip a little, have deep conversations one minute and be completely stupid the next 😭
You don’t have to be super talkative or anything. Just be yourself, have a sense of humor, and actually enjoy talking. Please don’t be the type to reply “haha” and disappear for a week 😭
Basically, I just want someone I can talk to about literally anything—random thoughts, dumb jokes, late-night conversations, weird questions, little life updates, or those random moments when we suddenly start questioning our entire existence 💀
If you can match my energy and don’t mind a little chaos, I think we’ll get along pretty well 👀

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Hey guys endet nachu Please don’t just read and scroll I really need your advice
am 22F and a private university student so you probably know how expensive tuition can be in Addis ena I really want to support my mom especially ye tmhert bet kefeya lay ena i started home tutoring but the income isn’t enough to cover my tuition So I’m thinking about starting something else ke class gar abre mareg yemechlew nger ena am interested in events ,event planning and organizing gen I haven’t studied any courses related to events or worked in this field before so honestly endet ena yet edemejmer alakm So endze aynet nger lay experience yalachu sewoch please share your advice How did you get started? Where can I find opportunities in Addis as a student? And is it realistic to do this alongside university?
I’d really appreciate any advice ,experiences u can share Even if endze aynet nger lay yemesra sew yemtaku kehone please let me know thank you.

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Almost 24 F
I love him, he treats me well, he is fine shyt, he is good at everything, he accepts criticism openly whenever he gets wrong and apologizes , he is also not hesitant to point out my mistake ,.... He totally what I could ask for

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Im 28M and i cannot get into a longterm relationship it seems. I'm white, 6'4, work out, and i do not think I'm below average looking. I worked pretty much day and night till i was 25 to get a well paying position, somehow made it (i realize I'm lucky) and am able to buy my own place and sustain a family. Before that i had two short relationships that went nowhere due to my work schedule. When i became 25 i got back into dating, and met several girls i really liked and didn't see any red flags in. Each time i took care of everything without second thought. The first one had high medical costs and needed a surgery. I immediate paid, stayed with her for 2 months after to help her, as soon as she was better she went back to an ex. The second one had debt, cleared it, a month later she broke up because "im looking for a more exotic situation" , whatever that means. Third one was the same, except she wanted to travel around the world, which will did for 6 weeks, much to the dismay of the second one. (I had no contact with her, she contacted my collegue.) Again, after traveling she told me my issue was "Everything is already taken care of, it feels too safe" i have now started looking around online, but i feel like im a walking temporary solution. Am i just doing it wrong, or do i need to start spraying tropicana parfume while running around with scissors.

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I grew up in addis ababa with a single mom my parents divorced when I was 12, and my mom struggled financially, sacrificing almost everything she had to raise me and support my education.
Thank God, I recently graduated, but I’m currently struggling to find a job plus rent fee is getting out of hand and my mom is still strugling to feed us i can't handle the stress So I’m considering working as a club waitress for now
People around me say that working in clubs in Addis around bole can earn around 50K birr per month, including tips. Is that actually true?
For those who have experience or someone you know what are the pros and cons? Is 50K realistic, and what should I know before starting?

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Please address me as Ni. I am an eleventh-grade student, seventeen years of age, and female.

I experience significant hesitation regarding self-care and the effort required to improve my appearance. In contemporary teenage culture, it is common to utilize basic cosmetic products, such as lip gloss and eyeliner. While I recognize that these practices are widespread and appear to be a standard norm among my peers, I find myself unable to adopt them due to an unexplained sense of discomfort.

I observe that many of my classmates and neighbors utilize simple cosmetic combinations, which elicits feelings of envy. As the upcoming academic year approaches, I am eager to undergo a significant improvement in my appearance. Therefore, I respectfully request guidance from individuals under the age of twenty-five. Specifically, I seek confirmation that these practices are considered normal, as well as recommendations for essential materials suitable for a teenager to facilitate this transformation, excluding broader mindset considerations.

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M 25
Lately, it's just me, myself, and way too much silence. And I'm tired of pretending that doesn't get to me. I'm not lonely in the dramatic sense I'm lonely in the restless way. The kind where you've got energy, desire, things to say and no one to aim them at. I miss the late-night conversations that drift into dangerous territory. The kind where you're not sure if you're laughing or flirting, and it doesn't matter because both feel electric. I miss someone who can match that. Who isn't afraid of a little tension, a little edge. Right now, it's just quiet. And honestly? I'm over it.

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Honestly just trying to find my people online and build a genuine, long term friendship or a tight knit crew that goes way beyond surface level small talk. I am completely over those superficial internet connections that start off strong but completely fizzle out after two days of dry texting. I want to connect with creative, passionate people who actually want to stay close, match each other's energy, and be a reliable presence in each other's digital lives.Whether you love screen sharing your video editing workflows, debating completely useless pop culture theories, trading custom music playlists, or streaming niche horror movies late at night, I'm down for it all. I really value loyalty, reciprocity, and a good, slightly unhinged sense of humor above everything else. If you are tired of shallow online interactions and want a true friend to hop on Discord voice chats with, play some games, share rare internet finds, or just casually vent to after a long, exhausting day, hit me up. Let's skip the awkward, repetitive "how are you" phase entirely, just message with an introduction about your actual creative interests, what projects you're working on, or a hot take you genuinely believe in, and let's start talking about things we actually care about, preferably girl.

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