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Hey Unihorse 🦄 I am 🎭 ጎዳና I need to vent ዲር ፓይሰስ... ፆም ገባ እኮ አትፆሚም ይሉኛል:: እቺን መከረኛ መሀተብ ካንገቴ እያዩ ...በረቡእ አጣፍጬ በጠበስኩት ጥብስ ጣእም ያጣ ህይወቴን ላጣፍጥ አድፍጬ ሲያዩኝ ተገርመው እየፆምኩ እኮ ነው:: አንተ በሌለህበት ምን ፍስክ አለና? ከፍቅር ...ከእቅፍ ...ከመሳም ከመተሻሸት ...ከድምፅህ ...ከቅርበትህ ...ከጠረንህ ...ከሜንት…
Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am 🎭 ጎዳና
I need to vent
ስለ ጥሩዎቹ ቀኖች አስባለሁ። ደስ እንል ነበር። በጣም። ቢሰምርልን ታሪካችን በየጎጆው እንደተቀለሰው ከአንድ ባህር የተቀዳን አንድ አይነት አልነበርንም። በተደላደለ ልብ ማንንም ባልተፈላሰሰበት ሞልቶልን የተዋደድን አልነበርንም። ካለቀበት ፍቅር ላይ ተፈናቅለን በየአንካሳ ልቦቻችን ነበር የገጠምነው። ስባሪዬ ከስባሪው የገጠመ ነበር። ወጣት እና ቆንጆ ስንሆን ግዜን በኪሳችን ቀብድ ሰጥተን ያስቀመጥናት ይመስለናል። አማራጮች ያሉን ፤ ቡኒው ቢቀር ቀዩ የሚመጣ አይነት ህም... አንዳንድ የማይደገሙ ሰዎች አሉ። ስለመውደድ ስናስብ በሰባራም ልብ ቢሆን አእምራችን ሮጦ የሚቆምባቸው፤ የልባችን ግድግዳ ላይ በትልቁ ፈርመው ያለፉ... እንደእሱ እና እንደ እኔ ያለን መንገድ አንዴ የሚያመጣን ክስተቶች ...በሄድንበት መንገድ መመለስ ሽንፈት የሚሆንብን አለን።
እንደማይረሳኝ አውቃለሁ። እንደማይመጣም አውቃለሁ። ይቅርታ ለደካሞች አትሆንም። ለእኔም ለእሱም። ግን እውነት ደካሞች ብቻ አይደለንም፤ ቂም ላይ እንዴት ያለን ጎበዞች ነን! ሁላችንም ብርቱ ጎን አለን አይደል? አዎ እኔም እሱም ቂም ላይ ብርቱዎች ነን። ህመማችንን እንደገና ዛፍ ፣እንደቄንጠኛ ሴት ገላ፣ እንደ ጋለሪ ግድግዳ ስናሸበርቀው ጎበዝ የሆንን። ገነትን እያሳዩ ቃል ቢገቡልኝ ይቅር እንደማልለው አውቃለሁ። ይህንን ማጅራቱን ተብሎ ተስፋውን የተሰረቀ ይረዳኛል። የምፀልየው ጌታ በልቡ አድሮ ለይቅርታ ደጄ እንዳይደርስ ነው። አምላክዬ ሆይ አደራህን ቂሜን እንዳታስፈታኝ እለዋለሁ። እንዳይረሳ ደጋግሜ ደጋግሜ አስታውሰዋለሁ። ሲበላ፣ ሲራመድ ፣ የሌላ ሴት የዳሌ ቅንብብ ሲያይ ትዝ እንደምለው አውቃለሁ። በየሴቷ ጉድጓድ ውስጥ እንደሚፈልገኝ አውቃለሁ ምናልባት አንዷን <<እንደሱ አትሳቂ>> ብሏት ይሆናል። የእኔን ፈገግታ አስታውሶት፣ ምናልባት አንዷን ቀጥሯት ቀርቶ ይሆናል፤ የምወደው ቦታ ላይ ቀጥራው.. የሚረሳኝ አይነት ቀላል ቁርኝት አልነበረንም፤ ሊረሳኝ ግን እየለፋ ነው። ያለመምጣቱ ነገር የሚያስመጣው ምክንያት ጠፍቶ ወይ የተሸረሸረች የፍቅር መንገድ አጥቶ አይደለም። አብረን የረመረምናትን መንደር እንዳይረግጣት እየለፋ ስለሆነ እንጂ። አደራህን ጌታሆይ ጥረቱን ቁጠርለት፤ ደግ ምስሌን ሰርዝና አእምሮው ላይ ክፋ ክፋዬን አትምበት። እሱን ይቅር ካልኩ ራሴን ይቅር አልልም። ከእሱ ተጣልቼ መኖር ችዬበታለሁ ከእኔ ጋር ግን አልችልም።
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ለይቅርታ ደጄ እንዳይረግጥ
እኔም አልሄድ አልረሳለት።
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I need to vent
ስለ ጥሩዎቹ ቀኖች አስባለሁ። ደስ እንል ነበር። በጣም። ቢሰምርልን ታሪካችን በየጎጆው እንደተቀለሰው ከአንድ ባህር የተቀዳን አንድ አይነት አልነበርንም። በተደላደለ ልብ ማንንም ባልተፈላሰሰበት ሞልቶልን የተዋደድን አልነበርንም። ካለቀበት ፍቅር ላይ ተፈናቅለን በየአንካሳ ልቦቻችን ነበር የገጠምነው። ስባሪዬ ከስባሪው የገጠመ ነበር። ወጣት እና ቆንጆ ስንሆን ግዜን በኪሳችን ቀብድ ሰጥተን ያስቀመጥናት ይመስለናል። አማራጮች ያሉን ፤ ቡኒው ቢቀር ቀዩ የሚመጣ አይነት ህም... አንዳንድ የማይደገሙ ሰዎች አሉ። ስለመውደድ ስናስብ በሰባራም ልብ ቢሆን አእምራችን ሮጦ የሚቆምባቸው፤ የልባችን ግድግዳ ላይ በትልቁ ፈርመው ያለፉ... እንደእሱ እና እንደ እኔ ያለን መንገድ አንዴ የሚያመጣን ክስተቶች ...በሄድንበት መንገድ መመለስ ሽንፈት የሚሆንብን አለን።
እንደማይረሳኝ አውቃለሁ። እንደማይመጣም አውቃለሁ። ይቅርታ ለደካሞች አትሆንም። ለእኔም ለእሱም። ግን እውነት ደካሞች ብቻ አይደለንም፤ ቂም ላይ እንዴት ያለን ጎበዞች ነን! ሁላችንም ብርቱ ጎን አለን አይደል? አዎ እኔም እሱም ቂም ላይ ብርቱዎች ነን። ህመማችንን እንደገና ዛፍ ፣እንደቄንጠኛ ሴት ገላ፣ እንደ ጋለሪ ግድግዳ ስናሸበርቀው ጎበዝ የሆንን። ገነትን እያሳዩ ቃል ቢገቡልኝ ይቅር እንደማልለው አውቃለሁ። ይህንን ማጅራቱን ተብሎ ተስፋውን የተሰረቀ ይረዳኛል። የምፀልየው ጌታ በልቡ አድሮ ለይቅርታ ደጄ እንዳይደርስ ነው። አምላክዬ ሆይ አደራህን ቂሜን እንዳታስፈታኝ እለዋለሁ። እንዳይረሳ ደጋግሜ ደጋግሜ አስታውሰዋለሁ። ሲበላ፣ ሲራመድ ፣ የሌላ ሴት የዳሌ ቅንብብ ሲያይ ትዝ እንደምለው አውቃለሁ። በየሴቷ ጉድጓድ ውስጥ እንደሚፈልገኝ አውቃለሁ ምናልባት አንዷን <<እንደሱ አትሳቂ>> ብሏት ይሆናል። የእኔን ፈገግታ አስታውሶት፣ ምናልባት አንዷን ቀጥሯት ቀርቶ ይሆናል፤ የምወደው ቦታ ላይ ቀጥራው.. የሚረሳኝ አይነት ቀላል ቁርኝት አልነበረንም፤ ሊረሳኝ ግን እየለፋ ነው። ያለመምጣቱ ነገር የሚያስመጣው ምክንያት ጠፍቶ ወይ የተሸረሸረች የፍቅር መንገድ አጥቶ አይደለም። አብረን የረመረምናትን መንደር እንዳይረግጣት እየለፋ ስለሆነ እንጂ። አደራህን ጌታሆይ ጥረቱን ቁጠርለት፤ ደግ ምስሌን ሰርዝና አእምሮው ላይ ክፋ ክፋዬን አትምበት። እሱን ይቅር ካልኩ ራሴን ይቅር አልልም። ከእሱ ተጣልቼ መኖር ችዬበታለሁ ከእኔ ጋር ግን አልችልም።
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ለይቅርታ ደጄ እንዳይረግጥ
እኔም አልሄድ አልረሳለት።
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Hi People ✌️i just want some online friends based on these conditions (don't say i am weird just asking😁)
1,I need an online girl that can cheer me up,talk to me and other (NOT GIRLFRIEND JUST SISTER Vibe girl i don't care about her age just if there some who could talk they can)
2,i need any one who plays blood strike game(a shooting game like pubg)so i just want to play while communicating with each other
#these winter is so boring that why its time to make new friends if you interested put your username so i can contact you guys ✌️
Notice:i classified the gender here because most online game players are boys📱📱📱🍱
#Friendship #Adult
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Hi People ✌️i just want some online friends based on these conditions (don't say i am weird just asking😁)
1,I need an online girl that can cheer me up,talk to me and other (NOT GIRLFRIEND JUST SISTER Vibe girl i don't care about her age just if there some who could talk they can)
2,i need any one who plays blood strike game(a shooting game like pubg)so i just want to play while communicating with each other
#these winter is so boring that why its time to make new friends if you interested put your username so i can contact you guys ✌️
Notice:i classified the gender here because most online game players are boys📱📱📱🍱
#Friendship #Adult
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Honestly don’t even know how to salvage friendships with Nimo10...anymore, and it is just devastating to realize how incredibly selfish people has become. It is deeply exhausting to always be the one reaching out and holding the bond together, only to realize that some people truly don't know how to appreciate the people in their lives until it's too late. Finally done making excuses for people's behavior, because watching a close friendship turn into a one way street where they only care about themselves is just too painful. One day, the hype will fade, they'll will look around their empty life, and finally realize that they traded genuine loyalty for absolute nothingness and by then, nobody will be left to care that Nimo is entirely alone.🖤
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Honestly don’t even know how to salvage friendships with Nimo10...anymore, and it is just devastating to realize how incredibly selfish people has become. It is deeply exhausting to always be the one reaching out and holding the bond together, only to realize that some people truly don't know how to appreciate the people in their lives until it's too late. Finally done making excuses for people's behavior, because watching a close friendship turn into a one way street where they only care about themselves is just too painful. One day, the hype will fade, they'll will look around their empty life, and finally realize that they traded genuine loyalty for absolute nothingness and by then, nobody will be left to care that Nimo is entirely alone.🖤
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It is genuinely exhausting dealing with people who claim to be expert software engineers but just use AI to copy paste garbage code, vanish, or stall the second it's time to actually get the work done. If you are going to take on assignments, agree to the terms, and accept payment strictly after the project is 100% completed, then actually show up and do the work instead of wasting everyone's time with AI generated templates that don't even compile. Don't hide behind a bio full of technical skills if you can't even write original code, handle a simple upfront negotiation, or deliver a working codebase when it matters most. If you want to discuss the price and project details in the inbox, then be responsive and professional about it, because some of us actually have deadlines to meet and don't have time for your lazy prompts and endless waiting games.
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It is genuinely exhausting dealing with people who claim to be expert software engineers but just use AI to copy paste garbage code, vanish, or stall the second it's time to actually get the work done. If you are going to take on assignments, agree to the terms, and accept payment strictly after the project is 100% completed, then actually show up and do the work instead of wasting everyone's time with AI generated templates that don't even compile. Don't hide behind a bio full of technical skills if you can't even write original code, handle a simple upfront negotiation, or deliver a working codebase when it matters most. If you want to discuss the price and project details in the inbox, then be responsive and professional about it, because some of us actually have deadlines to meet and don't have time for your lazy prompts and endless waiting games.
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Honestly, I really just need to be around live music again. I’d love to pull up to a Christian band’s jam session or worship rehearsal, even if it’s just sitting in the back taking it all in while they practice. As a musician myself, I’m so ready to connect with other faith-based artists and make some real musician friends. If anyone knows a group jamming or practicing, hit me up!"
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Honestly, I really just need to be around live music again. I’d love to pull up to a Christian band’s jam session or worship rehearsal, even if it’s just sitting in the back taking it all in while they practice. As a musician myself, I’m so ready to connect with other faith-based artists and make some real musician friends. If anyone knows a group jamming or practicing, hit me up!"
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The absolute audacity of the average guy is honestly a psychological mystery. Like, where does that unearned confidence even come from? It is a universal human experience to watch a man walk into a room, take up three seats, and immediately start lecturing everyone on a topic he literally looked up two minutes ago on his phone. They have this bulletproof self assurance that they could somehow fly a commercial plane in an emergency or fight off a wolf, but the second they stand in front of a brightly lit, fully stocked refrigerator, they become legally blind. They will stare directly at the butter, scream that it doesn't exist, and act like the entire household is gaslighting them.And don't even get me started on the weaponized incompetence. They will botch the simplest task like putting a single bowl face up in the dishwasher so it fills with dirty water just so they never get asked to do it again. It’s a flawless strategy disguised as being clueless. But if they do manage to do something basic, like take out the trash, they expect a literal parade and a medal for bravery. Meanwhile, heaven forbid they catch a minor head cold. The entire world has to stop. They act like a stuffy nose is a terminal illness requiring ambient lighting and whispered voices, while women are out here running entire operations with a high fever without saying a word.The egos are just so incredibly fragile. Try giving a guy a tiny piece of gentle feedback, and you’re suddenly trapped in a three hour debate bro trial where he uses fake logic to prove he's mathematically incapable of being wrong. Or, he just goes completely silent and pouts for two days. They genuinely love to call themselves the "logical, rational gender," completely ignoring the fact that screaming at a television screen because a guy dropped a sports ball is a literal toddler temper tantrum. They just coast through life letting the women around them handle 100% of the emotional labor, remembering birthdays, buying gifts, managing schedules, only to sign their name on the card at the last second and take half the credit. They walk down crowded sidewalks expecting everyone else to step into the mud to let them pass, and they confidently interrupt actual experts just to repeat the exact same point louder. It is just an endless, exhausting cycle of selective blindness, and honestly, it’s a miracle they were ever put in charge of anything. Seriously, what kind of broken simulation are y'all even trapped in to be walking around with that much unearned, trashy confidence?
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The absolute audacity of the average guy is honestly a psychological mystery. Like, where does that unearned confidence even come from? It is a universal human experience to watch a man walk into a room, take up three seats, and immediately start lecturing everyone on a topic he literally looked up two minutes ago on his phone. They have this bulletproof self assurance that they could somehow fly a commercial plane in an emergency or fight off a wolf, but the second they stand in front of a brightly lit, fully stocked refrigerator, they become legally blind. They will stare directly at the butter, scream that it doesn't exist, and act like the entire household is gaslighting them.And don't even get me started on the weaponized incompetence. They will botch the simplest task like putting a single bowl face up in the dishwasher so it fills with dirty water just so they never get asked to do it again. It’s a flawless strategy disguised as being clueless. But if they do manage to do something basic, like take out the trash, they expect a literal parade and a medal for bravery. Meanwhile, heaven forbid they catch a minor head cold. The entire world has to stop. They act like a stuffy nose is a terminal illness requiring ambient lighting and whispered voices, while women are out here running entire operations with a high fever without saying a word.The egos are just so incredibly fragile. Try giving a guy a tiny piece of gentle feedback, and you’re suddenly trapped in a three hour debate bro trial where he uses fake logic to prove he's mathematically incapable of being wrong. Or, he just goes completely silent and pouts for two days. They genuinely love to call themselves the "logical, rational gender," completely ignoring the fact that screaming at a television screen because a guy dropped a sports ball is a literal toddler temper tantrum. They just coast through life letting the women around them handle 100% of the emotional labor, remembering birthdays, buying gifts, managing schedules, only to sign their name on the card at the last second and take half the credit. They walk down crowded sidewalks expecting everyone else to step into the mud to let them pass, and they confidently interrupt actual experts just to repeat the exact same point louder. It is just an endless, exhausting cycle of selective blindness, and honestly, it’s a miracle they were ever put in charge of anything. Seriously, what kind of broken simulation are y'all even trapped in to be walking around with that much unearned, trashy confidence?
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Are there any other girls out there who are just completely exhausted by how people treat us for loving fiction? It feels like the second you mention you like reading, people either call you basic, treat your hobbies like a joke, or assume you’re totally detached from reality. I’m so tired of the double standards and the constant side eye just for enjoying a good story. If any girls are interested in screaming into the void about this or just want a safe space to talk about our favorite books without the judgment, please let me know. I really just want to find my people.
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Are there any other girls out there who are just completely exhausted by how people treat us for loving fiction? It feels like the second you mention you like reading, people either call you basic, treat your hobbies like a joke, or assume you’re totally detached from reality. I’m so tired of the double standards and the constant side eye just for enjoying a good story. If any girls are interested in screaming into the void about this or just want a safe space to talk about our favorite books without the judgment, please let me know. I really just want to find my people.
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ታውቃላቹ ዩኒቨርሲቲ ለመጀመርያ ጊዜ በዚህ አመት ስገባ i was so excited ግን በጊዜ ሂደት በጣም ከመጠን በላይ ሰው ማጣት እና የብቸኝነት ስሜት ይሰማኝ ነበር so as a normal person ቤቴ መመለስ ይናፍቀኝ ነበር በጣም በተለይ ከ እናቴ ጋር መሆን ግን እዚ ለክረምት ስመጣ ለምን እዛ የሰው ሀገር ቤቴን ትቼ መሄድን እንደወሰንኩ ነው ያስታወሰችኝ እናቴ ናት ። እነደ እናት ሳጠፋ መናገር ልክ አላት ግን ጭቅጭቋ በሆነው ባልሆነው እነሆነ መጣ አሞኝ ስተኛ እንኳን "አንድ ገንዘብ የተባለ እንዳጠይቂኝ ...የፀጉር ...የልብስ ምናምን..." mind you እኔ ሲበዛ ሼመኛ ነኝ እንኳን ከባዳ ከገዛ ወልጆቼ ብር ለመጠየቅ እሳቀቃለው ከቻልኩ ሰርቼ አመጣዋለው ካልሆነ ይቀራል ። ግን እንዲ ስትናገረኝ ለሰማ በወርቅ አንባር አጊጠውኝ እኔ እጅ እግሬን አጣጥፌ ምኖር ነው ሚመስለው ነገሩ ግን የተገላቢጦሽ ነው ኑሯችን ጥሩ ሆኖ ሳለ የምለፋው ግን በተለየ ነው ። ይሄን መሏን ስለማውቅ ከ ዩኒቨርሲቲ የመጀመርያ አመት ትምህርቴን ጨርሼ ስመጣ ክረምቱን ለማረፍ እራሱ አልሞከርኩም ወዲያው ነበር ስራ ማፈላለግ የተያያዝኩት ሆኖም ሳላገኝ ወር አለፈኝ በመጨረሻ ግን አገኘው ስራው ጥሩ ሆኖ ሳለ የደሞዝ ጊዜው መስከረም ግማሽ ላይ ሆነብኝ የዛን ጊዜ ደግሞ እኔ ዩኒቨርስቲ መሄጃ ጊዜዬ ነው እናም withdrawal አርጌ አመት ሰርቼ የሆነ ያህል ገንዘብ ሰርቼ ለመሄድ አማከርኳቸው ግን አልተስማሙም ሆኖም አሁን የዩንቨርስ ወጪሽ በዛ እያሉ መጨቃጨቁን ተያይዘውታል። ቢኖረኝ እግሬ ከቤት በወጣ ተመልሼ ወደኋላ ባልመለከት እላለው ጠልቻት አይደለም ሲበዛ እወዳታለሁ ግን ከሷ በኩል ለተመለከተው ከኔጋር ያያያዛት የእናትነት ግዴታ እንጂ ፍቅር ወይ ውዴታ አይ መስለም። በርግጥ ኑሮ ላይ ብዙ ሚያሳስባት ነገር ሊኖር ይችላል ከዳር ሆኜ መፍረድ አልችልም ግን ሳልመርጥ የተወለድኩባት ባመጣችው ጣጣ እኔላይ መበርታቷ ይገርመኛል። having a toxic family isnt for the weak ብዙ ነገር አበላሽቶብኛል my mental health , relationship , friendships , my confidence ....እና ብዙ ብዙ ...እሺ ማን ላይ ልፍረድ ለማን ልናገር ። አሁን እራሱ ዩኒቨርስቲ ሄጄ ለ እርፍት ጓደኞቼ እና የዩንቨርስቲው ተማሪዎች ወደየቤታቸው ሲመለሱ እኔ እዚህ ያለውን ነገር ፍራቻ ለብቻዬ እዛ እደምቀር ሳስብ ይከፋኛል ። የምኖርበት ቤት የ ምስቅበት , የማዝንበት ,ሲከፋኝ የምሮጥበት ሊሆን ሲገባው .....የተገላቢጦሽ ከዚ መራቅ መጥፋት መፈለጌ ያሳዝነኛል ሲበዛ ። i just wish deep in my heart ልቧን እንዲያራራልኝ otherwise ከዚህ አርቆ እንዲወስደኝ💔
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ታውቃላቹ ዩኒቨርሲቲ ለመጀመርያ ጊዜ በዚህ አመት ስገባ i was so excited ግን በጊዜ ሂደት በጣም ከመጠን በላይ ሰው ማጣት እና የብቸኝነት ስሜት ይሰማኝ ነበር so as a normal person ቤቴ መመለስ ይናፍቀኝ ነበር በጣም በተለይ ከ እናቴ ጋር መሆን ግን እዚ ለክረምት ስመጣ ለምን እዛ የሰው ሀገር ቤቴን ትቼ መሄድን እንደወሰንኩ ነው ያስታወሰችኝ እናቴ ናት ። እነደ እናት ሳጠፋ መናገር ልክ አላት ግን ጭቅጭቋ በሆነው ባልሆነው እነሆነ መጣ አሞኝ ስተኛ እንኳን "አንድ ገንዘብ የተባለ እንዳጠይቂኝ ...የፀጉር ...የልብስ ምናምን..." mind you እኔ ሲበዛ ሼመኛ ነኝ እንኳን ከባዳ ከገዛ ወልጆቼ ብር ለመጠየቅ እሳቀቃለው ከቻልኩ ሰርቼ አመጣዋለው ካልሆነ ይቀራል ። ግን እንዲ ስትናገረኝ ለሰማ በወርቅ አንባር አጊጠውኝ እኔ እጅ እግሬን አጣጥፌ ምኖር ነው ሚመስለው ነገሩ ግን የተገላቢጦሽ ነው ኑሯችን ጥሩ ሆኖ ሳለ የምለፋው ግን በተለየ ነው ። ይሄን መሏን ስለማውቅ ከ ዩኒቨርሲቲ የመጀመርያ አመት ትምህርቴን ጨርሼ ስመጣ ክረምቱን ለማረፍ እራሱ አልሞከርኩም ወዲያው ነበር ስራ ማፈላለግ የተያያዝኩት ሆኖም ሳላገኝ ወር አለፈኝ በመጨረሻ ግን አገኘው ስራው ጥሩ ሆኖ ሳለ የደሞዝ ጊዜው መስከረም ግማሽ ላይ ሆነብኝ የዛን ጊዜ ደግሞ እኔ ዩኒቨርስቲ መሄጃ ጊዜዬ ነው እናም withdrawal አርጌ አመት ሰርቼ የሆነ ያህል ገንዘብ ሰርቼ ለመሄድ አማከርኳቸው ግን አልተስማሙም ሆኖም አሁን የዩንቨርስ ወጪሽ በዛ እያሉ መጨቃጨቁን ተያይዘውታል። ቢኖረኝ እግሬ ከቤት በወጣ ተመልሼ ወደኋላ ባልመለከት እላለው ጠልቻት አይደለም ሲበዛ እወዳታለሁ ግን ከሷ በኩል ለተመለከተው ከኔጋር ያያያዛት የእናትነት ግዴታ እንጂ ፍቅር ወይ ውዴታ አይ መስለም። በርግጥ ኑሮ ላይ ብዙ ሚያሳስባት ነገር ሊኖር ይችላል ከዳር ሆኜ መፍረድ አልችልም ግን ሳልመርጥ የተወለድኩባት ባመጣችው ጣጣ እኔላይ መበርታቷ ይገርመኛል። having a toxic family isnt for the weak ብዙ ነገር አበላሽቶብኛል my mental health , relationship , friendships , my confidence ....እና ብዙ ብዙ ...እሺ ማን ላይ ልፍረድ ለማን ልናገር ። አሁን እራሱ ዩኒቨርስቲ ሄጄ ለ እርፍት ጓደኞቼ እና የዩንቨርስቲው ተማሪዎች ወደየቤታቸው ሲመለሱ እኔ እዚህ ያለውን ነገር ፍራቻ ለብቻዬ እዛ እደምቀር ሳስብ ይከፋኛል ። የምኖርበት ቤት የ ምስቅበት , የማዝንበት ,ሲከፋኝ የምሮጥበት ሊሆን ሲገባው .....የተገላቢጦሽ ከዚ መራቅ መጥፋት መፈለጌ ያሳዝነኛል ሲበዛ ። i just wish deep in my heart ልቧን እንዲያራራልኝ otherwise ከዚህ አርቆ እንዲወስደኝ💔
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So, I recently changed my job and my salary is almost 3× higher but I’ve never felt this unhappy at work. I used to be confident, motivated and one of the best performers in my previous job. Now I constantly doubt myself, especially because of the comments and attitude I get from my boss.
The money is great, but I’m starting to wonder: is 3× the salary worth losing your peace, motivation and confidence?
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So, I recently changed my job and my salary is almost 3× higher but I’ve never felt this unhappy at work. I used to be confident, motivated and one of the best performers in my previous job. Now I constantly doubt myself, especially because of the comments and attitude I get from my boss.
The money is great, but I’m starting to wonder: is 3× the salary worth losing your peace, motivation and confidence?
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 I am θεός I need to vent 3. እናንተዬ ስለ ተተው ነፍሶች መቼ ነው የምናወራው….ዓለም ወረተኛ ናት እኮ ኣ ? በብልጭልጭ ትታለላለች….ድሮ ላይ በአብለጭላጭነቱ አጀብ የተባለለት የነበረ ሁሉ ዛሬ አንዱ ጥግ ተወርውሮ ነው የሚገኘው። ሁሉም የቀደመ ነገር አዲስ ተሽሎ በቀረበ ይተካል። አዲስ ቤት ፣ አዲስ አልጋ ፣ አዲስ ቲቪ ፣ አዲስ ጫማ ፣ አዲስ ልብስ ፣ አዲስ…
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ከቅርብ አመታት ወዲህ…ረዥም ዘመን የኖራችሁ መስሎ አይሰማችሁም ?
የገዜ መለኪያ የሚባሉት (ሰዓት ፣ ወራት ፣ አመታት) ከምንጊዜውም በላይ እየፈጠኑ ነው በሚባልበት በዚህ ጊዜከላይ ያነሳሁት ጥያቄ ከዚህ የዘመኑን መነጋገሪያ ጉዳይ ጋር ፈፅሞ የሚቃረን ይመስላል ግን አይደለም። አዎ የጊዜመፍጠን በዓለም ዙሪያ ሳይቀር ትልቁ መነጋገሪያ ጉዳይ ነው። እንዲህም ሆኖ ግን ወደኋላ መለስ ብላችሁነገሮችን ለማስታወስ ስትሞክሩ አያሌ ክስተቶች ከመከሰታቸው የተነሳ ረዥም ዘመን በምድር ያሳለፋችሁሊመስላችሁ ይችላል።
መስከረም ላይ የሆነን አንድ ክስተት ወደኋላ መለስ ብለን ስናስታውስ በዚህኛው ይሁን ባለፈው አመተ ምህረትእንደሆነ እስኪያወዛግበን ድረስ ሩቅ ጊዜ መስሎ ነው የሚሰማን።
ይሄንን ነው እያልኩ ያለሁት!! ጊዜው እየፈጠነ ነው ግን በዛው ልክ ወደኋላ ተመልሰን ስናስበው ደሞ ሩቅ የሆነመስሎ ነው በአይነ ህሊናችን የሚታየን። ይሄ ቀረብ ባለ ጊዜ የቀረበ ምሳሌ ነው። 5-10 አመት ወደ ኋላ ብንመለስደሞ አያሌ አመታትን የተንሸራተትን ነው የሚመስለን። እሱንም ከ10 አመት በፊት የነበሩ ጉዳዮችን ማስታወስከቻልን ነው።
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በዘመናችን መረጃ በገፍ ነው ወደ እኛ የሚፈሰው። የሚጠቅመንም ፣ የማይጠቅመንም ፤ የሚመለከተንም ፣የማይመለከተንም መረጃ በየቀኑ አሸን ሆኖ ከቤታችን ይፈሳል። በቲክቶኩም ፣ ፌስቡኩም ፣ ዩቲዩቡም አዳዲስአጀንዳዎች እየተፈበረኩ ከኛ ዘንድ ይደርሳሉ። በየቀኑ በእጅ ስልካችን ከሚደርሱን መረጃዎች ውስጥ እኛንበቀጥታ የሚመለከቱ ጉዳዮች በፐርሰንት እናስቀምጣቸው ብንል 1% የሚሞሉ አይመስለኝም። ሌሎቹ ግንየአእምሯችንን ሼልፍ ከማጨናነቅ ያለፈ ግብር አላቸው ብዬ አላስብም።
ምን ልላችሁ ነው መሰላችሁ…እነዚህ ወደ ውስጣችን የሚገቡ መረጃዎች ቢሆኑስ “ረዥም ዘመን” የኖርንመስሎ እንዲሰማን ሚያደርጉን። ራሳችንን በሶስተኛ ወገን ሆነን ካየነው ማህበራዊ ሚዲያ ላይ በማይመለከቱንነገሮች ላይ ነው “ስናዝን ፣ ስንደሰት ፣ ስንነታረክ” የምንገኘው። እነዚህ በእጅ ስልካችን ውስጥ ያሉ መረጃዎችበተጨባጩ አለማችንም ላይ አውርደናቸዋል። በቀን ተቀን ኑሯችንም ላይ ስለእነሱ ስናስብ ፣ ስንወያይእንገኛለን። የራሳችንን ብቻ ሳይሆን የብዙዎችን ኑሮ ነው አብረን እየኖርን ያለነው።
ታዲያ አእምሯችን ከልክ በላይ መረጃዎችን በየደቂቃው መቃረሙ ብሎም እኛ በንቃት ሆነን ካላገድነው ደግሞየሰማውን ሁሉ ወደ እውነታ አለማችን ላይ ማምጣቱ እና በአካል የማናውቃቸውን ሰዎች ኑሮ አብረን የኖርንያህል እንዲሰማን መሆኑ ከላይ መነሻ ላደረግሁት ጥያቄ አንዱ ምላሽ ነው ብዬ አስባለሁ።
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ከቅርብ አመታት ወዲህ…ረዥም ዘመን የኖራችሁ መስሎ አይሰማችሁም ?
የገዜ መለኪያ የሚባሉት (ሰዓት ፣ ወራት ፣ አመታት) ከምንጊዜውም በላይ እየፈጠኑ ነው በሚባልበት በዚህ ጊዜከላይ ያነሳሁት ጥያቄ ከዚህ የዘመኑን መነጋገሪያ ጉዳይ ጋር ፈፅሞ የሚቃረን ይመስላል ግን አይደለም። አዎ የጊዜመፍጠን በዓለም ዙሪያ ሳይቀር ትልቁ መነጋገሪያ ጉዳይ ነው። እንዲህም ሆኖ ግን ወደኋላ መለስ ብላችሁነገሮችን ለማስታወስ ስትሞክሩ አያሌ ክስተቶች ከመከሰታቸው የተነሳ ረዥም ዘመን በምድር ያሳለፋችሁሊመስላችሁ ይችላል።
መስከረም ላይ የሆነን አንድ ክስተት ወደኋላ መለስ ብለን ስናስታውስ በዚህኛው ይሁን ባለፈው አመተ ምህረትእንደሆነ እስኪያወዛግበን ድረስ ሩቅ ጊዜ መስሎ ነው የሚሰማን።
ይሄንን ነው እያልኩ ያለሁት!! ጊዜው እየፈጠነ ነው ግን በዛው ልክ ወደኋላ ተመልሰን ስናስበው ደሞ ሩቅ የሆነመስሎ ነው በአይነ ህሊናችን የሚታየን። ይሄ ቀረብ ባለ ጊዜ የቀረበ ምሳሌ ነው። 5-10 አመት ወደ ኋላ ብንመለስደሞ አያሌ አመታትን የተንሸራተትን ነው የሚመስለን። እሱንም ከ10 አመት በፊት የነበሩ ጉዳዮችን ማስታወስከቻልን ነው።
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በዘመናችን መረጃ በገፍ ነው ወደ እኛ የሚፈሰው። የሚጠቅመንም ፣ የማይጠቅመንም ፤ የሚመለከተንም ፣የማይመለከተንም መረጃ በየቀኑ አሸን ሆኖ ከቤታችን ይፈሳል። በቲክቶኩም ፣ ፌስቡኩም ፣ ዩቲዩቡም አዳዲስአጀንዳዎች እየተፈበረኩ ከኛ ዘንድ ይደርሳሉ። በየቀኑ በእጅ ስልካችን ከሚደርሱን መረጃዎች ውስጥ እኛንበቀጥታ የሚመለከቱ ጉዳዮች በፐርሰንት እናስቀምጣቸው ብንል 1% የሚሞሉ አይመስለኝም። ሌሎቹ ግንየአእምሯችንን ሼልፍ ከማጨናነቅ ያለፈ ግብር አላቸው ብዬ አላስብም።
ምን ልላችሁ ነው መሰላችሁ…እነዚህ ወደ ውስጣችን የሚገቡ መረጃዎች ቢሆኑስ “ረዥም ዘመን” የኖርንመስሎ እንዲሰማን ሚያደርጉን። ራሳችንን በሶስተኛ ወገን ሆነን ካየነው ማህበራዊ ሚዲያ ላይ በማይመለከቱንነገሮች ላይ ነው “ስናዝን ፣ ስንደሰት ፣ ስንነታረክ” የምንገኘው። እነዚህ በእጅ ስልካችን ውስጥ ያሉ መረጃዎችበተጨባጩ አለማችንም ላይ አውርደናቸዋል። በቀን ተቀን ኑሯችንም ላይ ስለእነሱ ስናስብ ፣ ስንወያይእንገኛለን። የራሳችንን ብቻ ሳይሆን የብዙዎችን ኑሮ ነው አብረን እየኖርን ያለነው።
ታዲያ አእምሯችን ከልክ በላይ መረጃዎችን በየደቂቃው መቃረሙ ብሎም እኛ በንቃት ሆነን ካላገድነው ደግሞየሰማውን ሁሉ ወደ እውነታ አለማችን ላይ ማምጣቱ እና በአካል የማናውቃቸውን ሰዎች ኑሮ አብረን የኖርንያህል እንዲሰማን መሆኑ ከላይ መነሻ ላደረግሁት ጥያቄ አንዱ ምላሽ ነው ብዬ አስባለሁ።
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 I am 🎭 ጎዳና I need to vent ስለ ጥሩዎቹ ቀኖች አስባለሁ። ደስ እንል ነበር። በጣም። ቢሰምርልን ታሪካችን በየጎጆው እንደተቀለሰው ከአንድ ባህር የተቀዳን አንድ አይነት አልነበርንም። በተደላደለ ልብ ማንንም ባልተፈላሰሰበት ሞልቶልን የተዋደድን አልነበርንም። ካለቀበት ፍቅር ላይ ተፈናቅለን በየአንካሳ ልቦቻችን ነበር የገጠምነው። ስባሪዬ ከስባሪው የገጠመ ነበር። ወጣት እና…
Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am 🎭 ጎዳና
I need to vent
The rebelious neck...
I was 21 in a ሙሽራ ቀሚስ, when you told me "ልኬ ነሽ" so I played right into your fantasy፣ I was a good girl so I sit tight ከልክህ ላለመውጣት፣ አመሸህ ካላልኩ then we can’t fight, I was just a word in a your sentence that fills your blank, የአንተን የአባወራዬን ቡራኬ ከእጅህ ተቀብዬ እንደከንፈር ወዳጄ ስሜ አፌ ልከት የተሰየምኩ፣ ስትፀልይ አሜን፣ ስትቆጣ እሺ፣ ስታዝ ይሁን ልል የተመደብኩ፣ ድምፅህን ከፍ ስታደርግ ድምጼን ዝቅ እንዳደርግ ሲነገረኝ የኖርኩ፣ ልጆች እንድወልድልህ፣ ሲያመኝ ላስታምምህ ፣ህመሜን ረስቼ እንድስቅልህ፣ ደክሞኝ ምግብህን እንዳሞቅልህ፣ ደብሮኝ ልብስህን እንዳጥብልህ የተሰራሁ ረዳት ተዋናይ። "እንዴት? ለምን? አይሆንም!" ጥያቄና ውሳኔ ያላቸውን ቃላትን እንዳላነሳ "ወንድ ልጅ የቤት ራስ ነው!" እየተባልሁ የተገሰፅሁ፡፡ አንገትነቴን የናቅኩ ታዛዥ ሎሌህ ነበርኩ።
I was never the girl ነጠላ ለብሳ ቄጤማ አንጠልጥላ አንገቷን ወደግራ 67 ዲግሪ ዘመም አድርጋ በሰንበት ጥግ ጥጉን ፤ ከጥጉም የአባን ስብከት ላለመጣስ በቀኙ ጥግ የምትሄደዋ ሄዋን፡፡ እምልበት በነበረው ጭቁኑ መልአክ ልማልልህ ያንንም ለአንተ ብዬ የሞከርኩ ነበርኩ። ያልሆንኩትን ልሆን ስንቱን ሱሪዬን ለሰው መፀወትኩ፣ እግሮቼ ደስ እንዳላቸው እንዳይረግጡ አሳቀኳቸው፣ ከፊትና ሁዋላ እንደተሰሩ ነገር አቀዳደምኳቸው፣ አንገቴን ደፋሁ አይኖቼን ሰበርኩ፣ ሁህ በረዳትነትም ቢሆን መተወን እንዴት ይከብዳል አንተው? No i was never that girl.
I looked in the mirror now I can’t believe, I forgot I was a bad bitch,
tragic,
breaking all the rules cause they were only habits.
I am the bad guy ገድሉ እንደማይወራው የቅኔ ፃህፍት እንደዘነጉት ተዋነይ፣ I am the bad bitch as Lilith the holy bible denies.
ልክህ ቦታህ ጠቧታል።
Eve is dead now.
Lilith killed her፡)
Call me the rebelious neck that keeps crushing all the stupid heads.
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I am 🎭 ጎዳና
I need to vent
The rebelious neck...
I was 21 in a ሙሽራ ቀሚስ, when you told me "ልኬ ነሽ" so I played right into your fantasy፣ I was a good girl so I sit tight ከልክህ ላለመውጣት፣ አመሸህ ካላልኩ then we can’t fight, I was just a word in a your sentence that fills your blank, የአንተን የአባወራዬን ቡራኬ ከእጅህ ተቀብዬ እንደከንፈር ወዳጄ ስሜ አፌ ልከት የተሰየምኩ፣ ስትፀልይ አሜን፣ ስትቆጣ እሺ፣ ስታዝ ይሁን ልል የተመደብኩ፣ ድምፅህን ከፍ ስታደርግ ድምጼን ዝቅ እንዳደርግ ሲነገረኝ የኖርኩ፣ ልጆች እንድወልድልህ፣ ሲያመኝ ላስታምምህ ፣ህመሜን ረስቼ እንድስቅልህ፣ ደክሞኝ ምግብህን እንዳሞቅልህ፣ ደብሮኝ ልብስህን እንዳጥብልህ የተሰራሁ ረዳት ተዋናይ። "እንዴት? ለምን? አይሆንም!" ጥያቄና ውሳኔ ያላቸውን ቃላትን እንዳላነሳ "ወንድ ልጅ የቤት ራስ ነው!" እየተባልሁ የተገሰፅሁ፡፡ አንገትነቴን የናቅኩ ታዛዥ ሎሌህ ነበርኩ።
I was never the girl ነጠላ ለብሳ ቄጤማ አንጠልጥላ አንገቷን ወደግራ 67 ዲግሪ ዘመም አድርጋ በሰንበት ጥግ ጥጉን ፤ ከጥጉም የአባን ስብከት ላለመጣስ በቀኙ ጥግ የምትሄደዋ ሄዋን፡፡ እምልበት በነበረው ጭቁኑ መልአክ ልማልልህ ያንንም ለአንተ ብዬ የሞከርኩ ነበርኩ። ያልሆንኩትን ልሆን ስንቱን ሱሪዬን ለሰው መፀወትኩ፣ እግሮቼ ደስ እንዳላቸው እንዳይረግጡ አሳቀኳቸው፣ ከፊትና ሁዋላ እንደተሰሩ ነገር አቀዳደምኳቸው፣ አንገቴን ደፋሁ አይኖቼን ሰበርኩ፣ ሁህ በረዳትነትም ቢሆን መተወን እንዴት ይከብዳል አንተው? No i was never that girl.
I looked in the mirror now I can’t believe, I forgot I was a bad bitch,
tragic,
breaking all the rules cause they were only habits.
I am the bad guy ገድሉ እንደማይወራው የቅኔ ፃህፍት እንደዘነጉት ተዋነይ፣ I am the bad bitch as Lilith the holy bible denies.
ልክህ ቦታህ ጠቧታል።
Eve is dead now.
Lilith killed her፡)
Call me the rebelious neck that keeps crushing all the stupid heads.
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This is for the girls only please i need you opinion on something and idk like try to understand where im coming from.
So here is the thing there is this girl that i really really love like we been together for almost 3 years and we been friends for over 2 years before that and i love her so much. I have a job but i won't lie i don't have much money saved, i don't have a house or a car or anything else but im a hard working guy im on medical field. Im 26 yo and she's 22, 2nd year student. We(i) used to argue about getting married i mean i wanna marry her but she told me to wait imagine it isn't a one time thing i have asked her multiple times for 1 year and half to be exact, i even said to her that at least let us tell to our families( introduce them) like idk putting on a promise ring and stuff that her and my parents know about but she said no to this too. I get it she might be young and still studying and im not financially stable i get that. I kinda understand her on some ways but idk lately I'm developing this fear like what if she doesn't love me like how i love her. For real I would do anything for her i even i didn't ask her to be intimate with me like i have never pushed her to do anything that she doesn't want to within this 3 year being together. Now the thing is i want her to be intimate with me like i want the experience and all but im afraid to ask her to do anything she doesn't want to with me, i mean what if she think i was with her for just to get to lay down with her and on the other hand i real wanna see if she's willing to do that because idk in some kinda way i would make me feel that she really loves me and she really meant it when she told me to wait everytime i asked her to marry me. She tells me that she loves me amd i do believe her i know she loves me but no to the point that it will make me believe her to be with me if she found someone better and stable. What do you girls think, should i ask her or not? And please please im not using her or anything i mean i want to marry her it isn't like im only here to use her or anything so
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This is for the girls only please i need you opinion on something and idk like try to understand where im coming from.
So here is the thing there is this girl that i really really love like we been together for almost 3 years and we been friends for over 2 years before that and i love her so much. I have a job but i won't lie i don't have much money saved, i don't have a house or a car or anything else but im a hard working guy im on medical field. Im 26 yo and she's 22, 2nd year student. We(i) used to argue about getting married i mean i wanna marry her but she told me to wait imagine it isn't a one time thing i have asked her multiple times for 1 year and half to be exact, i even said to her that at least let us tell to our families( introduce them) like idk putting on a promise ring and stuff that her and my parents know about but she said no to this too. I get it she might be young and still studying and im not financially stable i get that. I kinda understand her on some ways but idk lately I'm developing this fear like what if she doesn't love me like how i love her. For real I would do anything for her i even i didn't ask her to be intimate with me like i have never pushed her to do anything that she doesn't want to within this 3 year being together. Now the thing is i want her to be intimate with me like i want the experience and all but im afraid to ask her to do anything she doesn't want to with me, i mean what if she think i was with her for just to get to lay down with her and on the other hand i real wanna see if she's willing to do that because idk in some kinda way i would make me feel that she really loves me and she really meant it when she told me to wait everytime i asked her to marry me. She tells me that she loves me amd i do believe her i know she loves me but no to the point that it will make me believe her to be with me if she found someone better and stable. What do you girls think, should i ask her or not? And please please im not using her or anything i mean i want to marry her it isn't like im only here to use her or anything so
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I honestly dont understand how our brain works when it comes to intimacy🤣. I have been sexually active since i was 23 and with every single woman i have been with, it is the same gimmick everytime. We start slow and nice then it gets really really rough, it is like i cant control myself then after it ends it is back to cuddling and being warm/intimate. How does our brain change so fast from Normal to absolutely crazy! Dimo iko it isnt just me it is also the women i have been with, indwm one girl was insistent on me being rougher during the deed and after she is cuddly asf and wants to be treated with the utmost care, which i find hot but it is still so crazy how a person is completely different during intimacy. I have many life stories and evidences regarding this but that would be too long.
Anyways can someone tell me the science behind this and dont say it is about trauama. Becasue it is not both me and them dont have a single trauma, we have loving families. Also No media brainwashing either. So why is it?
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I honestly dont understand how our brain works when it comes to intimacy🤣. I have been sexually active since i was 23 and with every single woman i have been with, it is the same gimmick everytime. We start slow and nice then it gets really really rough, it is like i cant control myself then after it ends it is back to cuddling and being warm/intimate. How does our brain change so fast from Normal to absolutely crazy! Dimo iko it isnt just me it is also the women i have been with, indwm one girl was insistent on me being rougher during the deed and after she is cuddly asf and wants to be treated with the utmost care, which i find hot but it is still so crazy how a person is completely different during intimacy. I have many life stories and evidences regarding this but that would be too long.
Anyways can someone tell me the science behind this and dont say it is about trauama. Becasue it is not both me and them dont have a single trauma, we have loving families. Also No media brainwashing either. So why is it?
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Hey lovely people. If you’re anyone who’s had any mental health struggles please read this. I moved to the US for my studies years ago and i’m graduating with a psychology degree. My dream is to make mental health more accessible and less stigmatized in our community and i’m interested in researching how our community deals with these issues to better provide support. I’ve experienced first hand how our society invalidates, shames, and disregards mental health issues. For those of you living in Ethiopia, have you found any professional support like therapy, counseling, or medications? what are some of the barriers you’re facing regarding getting support? are people more open to hearing you out or is it still hostile? what do you think would help you feel more supported?
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Hey lovely people. If you’re anyone who’s had any mental health struggles please read this. I moved to the US for my studies years ago and i’m graduating with a psychology degree. My dream is to make mental health more accessible and less stigmatized in our community and i’m interested in researching how our community deals with these issues to better provide support. I’ve experienced first hand how our society invalidates, shames, and disregards mental health issues. For those of you living in Ethiopia, have you found any professional support like therapy, counseling, or medications? what are some of the barriers you’re facing regarding getting support? are people more open to hearing you out or is it still hostile? what do you think would help you feel more supported?
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Im female 26 and written by gpt but the idea is mine 😭
So here’s the thing… I really like this man It’s been a year since we’ve known each other, and I’m really comfortable with him. He’s amazing tall, handsome, attractive, hardworking literally everything But the problem is, I feel like I can’t be as open with him as I want to be
It’s not that I don’t enjoy being around him or that I don’t like talking to him. I just don’t know… I’m like that in my head. In my mind, I know what I want and what I feel, but when it comes to actually expressing it, I struggle so much. I don’t know if it’s a communication problem or what sometimes I just don’t have the energy, and sometimes I genuinely don’t know what to talk about.
I’m not even shy, that’s the funny part. I just don’t know how to be social or how to keep a conversation going. I’m really not that sociable, and I hate that sometimes because I know I have so much in my head, I just don’t know how to get it out.
And honestly, I don’t wanna lose him because of this. I can tell he’s getting annoyed because he’s always the one carrying the conversation and keeping things going. I really do understand why that would be frustrating for him, and I wish I knew how to help. It’s not because I don’t care or I’m not interested. I really do want to change and get better at communicating with him. I just don’t know how to start 😭
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Im female 26 and written by gpt but the idea is mine 😭
So here’s the thing… I really like this man It’s been a year since we’ve known each other, and I’m really comfortable with him. He’s amazing tall, handsome, attractive, hardworking literally everything But the problem is, I feel like I can’t be as open with him as I want to be
It’s not that I don’t enjoy being around him or that I don’t like talking to him. I just don’t know… I’m like that in my head. In my mind, I know what I want and what I feel, but when it comes to actually expressing it, I struggle so much. I don’t know if it’s a communication problem or what sometimes I just don’t have the energy, and sometimes I genuinely don’t know what to talk about.
I’m not even shy, that’s the funny part. I just don’t know how to be social or how to keep a conversation going. I’m really not that sociable, and I hate that sometimes because I know I have so much in my head, I just don’t know how to get it out.
And honestly, I don’t wanna lose him because of this. I can tell he’s getting annoyed because he’s always the one carrying the conversation and keeping things going. I really do understand why that would be frustrating for him, and I wish I knew how to help. It’s not because I don’t care or I’m not interested. I really do want to change and get better at communicating with him. I just don’t know how to start 😭
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21F, So the thing is ig leloch setochm relate yaregutal yhen neger like kebet senota mnmn taxi west menged lay mnmn senhed leloch setoch gelmetmet miyaregun lmndnew endee whats wrong with you guys metgelamtu setoch mn aregnachu new yetlye yetganene neger salbes enkuan ayaders new as a muslim women hijab ale kemis ale mnmn fite bitay new nothing special gn gelmchaw betely muslim set le muslim set mnale selam alykum benbabal kmngelmamet lmangawm adebu!!!
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21F, So the thing is ig leloch setochm relate yaregutal yhen neger like kebet senota mnmn taxi west menged lay mnmn senhed leloch setoch gelmetmet miyaregun lmndnew endee whats wrong with you guys metgelamtu setoch mn aregnachu new yetlye yetganene neger salbes enkuan ayaders new as a muslim women hijab ale kemis ale mnmn fite bitay new nothing special gn gelmchaw betely muslim set le muslim set mnale selam alykum benbabal kmngelmamet lmangawm adebu!!!
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I'm Highschool student n I'm kinda sekay kemibalu iska 10th class n 10th lay i started enjoyn n chilln life wz them n sus mna mn wustm gebiche tebeleshaw fr😭 n now I'm 12 i wanna prepare exactly for entrance, but i can't study, alchalkum after yehone minute wede scrolln wey demo lela negr lay i waste ma time, plzzzzzz help me🥲
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I'm Highschool student n I'm kinda sekay kemibalu iska 10th class n 10th lay i started enjoyn n chilln life wz them n sus mna mn wustm gebiche tebeleshaw fr😭 n now I'm 12 i wanna prepare exactly for entrance, but i can't study, alchalkum after yehone minute wede scrolln wey demo lela negr lay i waste ma time, plzzzzzz help me🥲
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I am just curious: what percentage of women do not want to have children?I want a couple to spend all their time, energy, and money on each other. I want the relationship to be the most important thing. I do not want parenting to change that. Simply put, I want the honeymoon phase to last forever.I dated a girl. We met because of a friend I met on a bus. I do not know all the details, but that friend said great things about me to her group. The girl I dated became curious and messaged me online. She was very bold, and we were intimate on our second date. She told me to stop talking to her friend, so I blocked the friend.At that time, I felt she was exactly what I wanted. I was totally focused on her. I texted her "good morning" and "good night" every single day. I replied to her messages in less than a minute. I complimented her in person and on every photo she posted. I called her more than four times a day, and I always wanted to see her. However, I am not always this romantic. I become cold when she does not want to have sex. But she never received this much attention from other guys, so she always came back to me.During sex, I was always very careful. I always used a condom. I have never had unprotected sex in my life because I am deeply afraid of making someone pregnant. I was so careful that after sex, I filled the condom with water and squeezed it to check for tiny holes.After three years, her parents started pressuring her to get married and move out. During our three years together, her family did not know I existed. We kept our relationship a secret. She pressured me to marry her, but I said no. She loves kids very much, and I do not like kids at all. That is when our arguments started. The fights got worse, and we finally broke up.I did everything I could to keep her, so I do not regret anything. I only wanted to give her my all and wanted her to do the same for me. I did that, but I could not make it last for the long term because of these differences.
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I am just curious: what percentage of women do not want to have children?I want a couple to spend all their time, energy, and money on each other. I want the relationship to be the most important thing. I do not want parenting to change that. Simply put, I want the honeymoon phase to last forever.I dated a girl. We met because of a friend I met on a bus. I do not know all the details, but that friend said great things about me to her group. The girl I dated became curious and messaged me online. She was very bold, and we were intimate on our second date. She told me to stop talking to her friend, so I blocked the friend.At that time, I felt she was exactly what I wanted. I was totally focused on her. I texted her "good morning" and "good night" every single day. I replied to her messages in less than a minute. I complimented her in person and on every photo she posted. I called her more than four times a day, and I always wanted to see her. However, I am not always this romantic. I become cold when she does not want to have sex. But she never received this much attention from other guys, so she always came back to me.During sex, I was always very careful. I always used a condom. I have never had unprotected sex in my life because I am deeply afraid of making someone pregnant. I was so careful that after sex, I filled the condom with water and squeezed it to check for tiny holes.After three years, her parents started pressuring her to get married and move out. During our three years together, her family did not know I existed. We kept our relationship a secret. She pressured me to marry her, but I said no. She loves kids very much, and I do not like kids at all. That is when our arguments started. The fights got worse, and we finally broke up.I did everything I could to keep her, so I do not regret anything. I only wanted to give her my all and wanted her to do the same for me. I did that, but I could not make it last for the long term because of these differences.
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Yo guys so I was talking to this 1 girl we weren't in a relationship but we were very close to each other at first i used to pull back because she was all over me and that felt weird how fast she became attached to me then after a while i let my guard down and became attached to her too to the point that she's always in my mind but after some time she jus started getting colder and colder towards me she replies to my message after a day or two i called her yesterday and she literally hang up on me but everytime i say I'm done and i leave her alone she texts me and calls out of nowhere ..i always keep thinking of what exact moment lead to this what did i do wrong but i don't get it she probably an avoidant that's what im thinking I'm not sure tho
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Yo guys so I was talking to this 1 girl we weren't in a relationship but we were very close to each other at first i used to pull back because she was all over me and that felt weird how fast she became attached to me then after a while i let my guard down and became attached to her too to the point that she's always in my mind but after some time she jus started getting colder and colder towards me she replies to my message after a day or two i called her yesterday and she literally hang up on me but everytime i say I'm done and i leave her alone she texts me and calls out of nowhere ..i always keep thinking of what exact moment lead to this what did i do wrong but i don't get it she probably an avoidant that's what im thinking I'm not sure tho
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We broke up, still loving each other. Has anyone been here?
I'm 25. I fell in love with a woman who, like me, grew up without her whole family around her. I didn't either. I grew up without the full family behind me, learning early to stand on my own and build things with no one to catch me if I fell. She came from the same kind of emptiness. And somehow, that made us love each other harder, two people who'd never been fully held, finally holding someone.
But here's the twist. From the exact same wound, we drew opposite conclusions.
I decided: I'll build the safety net myself. Love me through the hard years, and we'll be safe on the other side.
She decided, "I'll never stand somewhere I could fall with nothing beneath me." Build it first, and then I'll step in.
I offered her the climb. She needed the summit. I was still building when she needed it already built. So we let each other go. Not because the love died; it didn't. But because two people shaped by the same emptiness had learned to survive it in opposite ways.
She wasn't too much. I wasn't too little. We were just the same storm, breaking in different directions.
And now the hope is the part that's killing me. Not the anger, not the closure, but the hope. The part that still whispers, maybe.
Has anyone else been through this? Two people who both grew up without their whole family, who loved each other, and who still had to let go? How did you survive the hope?
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We broke up, still loving each other. Has anyone been here?
I'm 25. I fell in love with a woman who, like me, grew up without her whole family around her. I didn't either. I grew up without the full family behind me, learning early to stand on my own and build things with no one to catch me if I fell. She came from the same kind of emptiness. And somehow, that made us love each other harder, two people who'd never been fully held, finally holding someone.
But here's the twist. From the exact same wound, we drew opposite conclusions.
I decided: I'll build the safety net myself. Love me through the hard years, and we'll be safe on the other side.
She decided, "I'll never stand somewhere I could fall with nothing beneath me." Build it first, and then I'll step in.
I offered her the climb. She needed the summit. I was still building when she needed it already built. So we let each other go. Not because the love died; it didn't. But because two people shaped by the same emptiness had learned to survive it in opposite ways.
She wasn't too much. I wasn't too little. We were just the same storm, breaking in different directions.
And now the hope is the part that's killing me. Not the anger, not the closure, but the hope. The part that still whispers, maybe.
Has anyone else been through this? Two people who both grew up without their whole family, who loved each other, and who still had to let go? How did you survive the hope?
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent ምን አይነት Relationship ውስጥ ሆናችሁ ታውቃላችሁ ወይም አይታችሁ? ዘግናኙን ልንገራችሁ - የሀይማኖት፣ የብሔር፣ የቦታ ልዩነት (ፕሮቴስታንት ሲዳማ አዲስ አበባ vs ኦርቶዶክስ ጉራጌ ሶዶ) wtf combo, ደግሞ ኮኔክሽኑ አይጣል ነው። 5 አመታት ቆየን በአካል ተለያይተን እንኳን ሳንለያይ። በደንብ አልተገናኘን ወይ አልተለያየን…