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Hey guys i hope y'all are doing good. What im about to say is kinda selfish and i might maybe doesn't make a sense but please let's keep it positive and try to understand me a lil bit. And ladies i want you opinion on it.
So im 25 yo guy kinda of a hard worker but couldn't be able to save a penny because of helping my parents. It's been almost 2 year since i started working but i have nothing saved on my acc. So let's get back to what i wanna say, i had a girlfriend, she wasn't my type or a girl that i thought would be my friend let alone be with her, we become friends an expectedly, i was super into gambling and stuff back then and she used to send me money and stuff and like i would ask her whatever i want and she will do that so i thought to my self if i make her my girlfriend i won't even think about money or things anymore and i asked her ti be my gf and she said yes. I was so shocked i mean i wasn't expecting her t say yes because i was like not in a good place back then, i was kinda depressed too and that was why i wanna her to be with me more then money because she keeps me company and after that yes it was hard for me i was even thinkingabout a way of breakingup with her without hurting her because she was all in and i couldn't love her even the smallest bit. But i used to care for her because she was 17-18 and i was 21.Some way a long the way my love for her got like crazier level like i couldn't even spent a day without talking to her like man the way she misses me like the way i imagine us in the future together, i basically day dream about her( ik it weird of me saying this, some guys might see me as this simp but man when i miss her it'll make me cry like i couldn't control my self) and we used to get into a fight because of that i mean she used to cry whenever i didn't picked up the phone or something but when i loved her harder her love seemed like nothing for me like i started getting mad and stuff, it seemed like she doesn't love me anymore. I even told her that and she said that i don't believe her and i have a trust issues. Becha fast forward we are no longer together anymore, i broke up with her because i was mad, because i thought i meant nothing to her compered to what i was doing to be with her. but i really really love her very much, all of my girl friends friends(2) we were friends like childhood friends they don't want her for me they kept telling me that she isn't beautiful bech the kept tellme her flaws loke how her hands aren't clean or how a girls hand should looks like and hiw short she is.( guys please please im not body shaming or idk what it's called but im not saying anything bad 😔) i mean i loved her still do with all of those flaws. I kinda looks good compered to her i even had beautiful ex's but man idk what she did to me i couldn't stop thinking about her( imagine she is the total opposite of someone i thought i would end up with) but lately i kept thinking that i might find someone more beautiful and my type but uff man that's so scary because i don't wanna lose her i wanna marry her( this other finding a beautiful girl feeling came because whenever we break up she wouldn't do anything about it, i mean if i say let's break up she'd say okay, and when i ask her to get back she'd say okay, like that got me worried you know what uf she doesn't love me anymore. Our love is full depends on my want and i didn't like that, imagine i have a chance of being with someone else but i kept breaking up with her then getting back together
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Hey guys i hope y'all are doing good. What im about to say is kinda selfish and i might maybe doesn't make a sense but please let's keep it positive and try to understand me a lil bit. And ladies i want you opinion on it.
So im 25 yo guy kinda of a hard worker but couldn't be able to save a penny because of helping my parents. It's been almost 2 year since i started working but i have nothing saved on my acc. So let's get back to what i wanna say, i had a girlfriend, she wasn't my type or a girl that i thought would be my friend let alone be with her, we become friends an expectedly, i was super into gambling and stuff back then and she used to send me money and stuff and like i would ask her whatever i want and she will do that so i thought to my self if i make her my girlfriend i won't even think about money or things anymore and i asked her ti be my gf and she said yes. I was so shocked i mean i wasn't expecting her t say yes because i was like not in a good place back then, i was kinda depressed too and that was why i wanna her to be with me more then money because she keeps me company and after that yes it was hard for me i was even thinkingabout a way of breakingup with her without hurting her because she was all in and i couldn't love her even the smallest bit. But i used to care for her because she was 17-18 and i was 21.Some way a long the way my love for her got like crazier level like i couldn't even spent a day without talking to her like man the way she misses me like the way i imagine us in the future together, i basically day dream about her( ik it weird of me saying this, some guys might see me as this simp but man when i miss her it'll make me cry like i couldn't control my self) and we used to get into a fight because of that i mean she used to cry whenever i didn't picked up the phone or something but when i loved her harder her love seemed like nothing for me like i started getting mad and stuff, it seemed like she doesn't love me anymore. I even told her that and she said that i don't believe her and i have a trust issues. Becha fast forward we are no longer together anymore, i broke up with her because i was mad, because i thought i meant nothing to her compered to what i was doing to be with her. but i really really love her very much, all of my girl friends friends(2) we were friends like childhood friends they don't want her for me they kept telling me that she isn't beautiful bech the kept tellme her flaws loke how her hands aren't clean or how a girls hand should looks like and hiw short she is.( guys please please im not body shaming or idk what it's called but im not saying anything bad 😔) i mean i loved her still do with all of those flaws. I kinda looks good compered to her i even had beautiful ex's but man idk what she did to me i couldn't stop thinking about her( imagine she is the total opposite of someone i thought i would end up with) but lately i kept thinking that i might find someone more beautiful and my type but uff man that's so scary because i don't wanna lose her i wanna marry her( this other finding a beautiful girl feeling came because whenever we break up she wouldn't do anything about it, i mean if i say let's break up she'd say okay, and when i ask her to get back she'd say okay, like that got me worried you know what uf she doesn't love me anymore. Our love is full depends on my want and i didn't like that, imagine i have a chance of being with someone else but i kept breaking up with her then getting back together
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I'm 23F and I've never been in a relationship.
A few weeks ago I started talking to a guy, and for the first time I genuinely understand why people fall for someone. He's kind, emotionally available, funny, intelligent, patient, and we seem to share a lot of values. We talk almost every day and I honestly look forward to hearing from him.
The problem isn't him.
It's me.
I've spent most of my life avoiding dating because I always felt like I needed to "fix myself" first.
I have social anxiety. My confidence isn't where I want it to be. I'm only now starting my career and trying to build discipline, improve my appearance, take care of my health, strengthen my faith, and basically become the woman I've always wanted to be.
My biggest fear is that if I start a relationship now, all of my insecurities will come with me.
I'll compare myself. I'll need reassurance. I'll overthink. I'll worry that he'll eventually realize I'm not enough.
I don't think it's fair to expect a partner to heal insecurities that I should be working on myself.
So I'm stuck.
I like this man enough that I can genuinely imagine building a future with him if he continues being who he seems to be.
But I also don't want to unintentionally pull him into a situation where I'm emotionally unavailable or constantly afraid.
Has anyone else delayed dating because they thought they needed to become a better version of themselves first?
Did waiting actually help?
Or were you just postponing vulnerability?
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I'm 23F and I've never been in a relationship.
A few weeks ago I started talking to a guy, and for the first time I genuinely understand why people fall for someone. He's kind, emotionally available, funny, intelligent, patient, and we seem to share a lot of values. We talk almost every day and I honestly look forward to hearing from him.
The problem isn't him.
It's me.
I've spent most of my life avoiding dating because I always felt like I needed to "fix myself" first.
I have social anxiety. My confidence isn't where I want it to be. I'm only now starting my career and trying to build discipline, improve my appearance, take care of my health, strengthen my faith, and basically become the woman I've always wanted to be.
My biggest fear is that if I start a relationship now, all of my insecurities will come with me.
I'll compare myself. I'll need reassurance. I'll overthink. I'll worry that he'll eventually realize I'm not enough.
I don't think it's fair to expect a partner to heal insecurities that I should be working on myself.
So I'm stuck.
I like this man enough that I can genuinely imagine building a future with him if he continues being who he seems to be.
But I also don't want to unintentionally pull him into a situation where I'm emotionally unavailable or constantly afraid.
Has anyone else delayed dating because they thought they needed to become a better version of themselves first?
Did waiting actually help?
Or were you just postponing vulnerability?
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent I am a black guy, I love my color and I am obsessed with black girls! I just got done with my finals and I was relaxing, which usually involves binging Kingdom Sound, Christian song videos on YT. I then came…
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When writing the vent, I did not expect that I would be inviting all the wannabe psychotherapists to throw around all the buzz-words they know yet can not explain any further, to try psycho-analyze me. I mean y'all tried sooooooooooooo hard😭 I will not bother myself with this anymore. God damnnnnn...
And funny to think black people themselves calling me insecure and shit while I was there to try and express the beauty in their color... Go deal with that giant on your own, but please don't smear that shit on me.
Yeah, I might have sounded I have some hate towards LS people, but if you could process more than 3 lines of thought at a time(why I break my writing into paragraphs btw😂), it was very evident that I loved them as much as DS people. White boys coming in my comment section and being whiny bitches is all on you.
I tried very hard to not make things personal. I felt the need to be humble. But to hell with that since I am being accused of insecurity and since everyone was trying to make me feel that way. I got no reason to be, never been concerned about my appearance. I have always been beautiful, it is something I knew and heard all my life since childhood; dimples, big eyes, beard, jawline, dark curly hair, smart brain, sense of humor, and cherry on top, I am 6 foot 3! I am down-right a charming person who is automatically admired by women and men wherever I go. I am a socially high-performance person who command and cultivates respect, love and admiration wherever I go with whomever I end up with, old or young. Never felt like anyone was better than me(I am sure you will still keep seeing insecurity, only because that is what you want to see and you have your own stuff to deal with). I am just acting this way to drive a point home enji, I never think anyone is lesser than me, I am actually an empathic and kind person who helps people feel beautiful, appreciated and loved; that is my personality. Simply beautiful inside and outside with absolutely no reason to hate myself and all the reasons to be mad in love with myself.
As someone who views my color as beautiful as any other, and as someone who has accepted himself as who he is for who he is outside his physical appearance, my sentiment towards myself would have been exactly the same, whether if I was lighter or darker.
And the way y'all took the line about my mom "ruining" my dads "black genes", it might be just a miscommunication or a concerning peek towards your very limited context windows. It was taking my next generation in to consideration, and I have expressed it will be great either way right then and there. I love any woman the same just for who she is regardless of her color and the color of the kids we can have.
My only concern, if it can even be classified as one, was that other DS people did not share such a sentiment. After reading the og vent, it made me look back at my own dating history and everyone that expressed their interests. It made me realize most of them were highly LS girls, even arabs and caucasians. I admired everything about them, our color did not matter the least in our relationship. But this history also made me think, compared to what I have with the LS girls, the chemistry I have with DS girls was almost non-existent. It made me feel like the sentiment described in that girl's vent might be shared by more people than I realized, or maybe I am just not their type, and guess what? I AM OK WITH IT! May be ample amount of DS girls feel like they are lesser and feel the need to "fix" their children with a LS person, and I was trying to point the wrong in that, trying to help them find their own beauty and love it.
Anyways, what a futile attempt, am I right?
Final assignment, define slave mentality; without ChatGPT, of course. By that, I also don't mean you can use another chatbot, use your brains please.
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When writing the vent, I did not expect that I would be inviting all the wannabe psychotherapists to throw around all the buzz-words they know yet can not explain any further, to try psycho-analyze me. I mean y'all tried sooooooooooooo hard😭 I will not bother myself with this anymore. God damnnnnn...
And funny to think black people themselves calling me insecure and shit while I was there to try and express the beauty in their color... Go deal with that giant on your own, but please don't smear that shit on me.
Yeah, I might have sounded I have some hate towards LS people, but if you could process more than 3 lines of thought at a time(why I break my writing into paragraphs btw😂), it was very evident that I loved them as much as DS people. White boys coming in my comment section and being whiny bitches is all on you.
I tried very hard to not make things personal. I felt the need to be humble. But to hell with that since I am being accused of insecurity and since everyone was trying to make me feel that way. I got no reason to be, never been concerned about my appearance. I have always been beautiful, it is something I knew and heard all my life since childhood; dimples, big eyes, beard, jawline, dark curly hair, smart brain, sense of humor, and cherry on top, I am 6 foot 3! I am down-right a charming person who is automatically admired by women and men wherever I go. I am a socially high-performance person who command and cultivates respect, love and admiration wherever I go with whomever I end up with, old or young. Never felt like anyone was better than me(I am sure you will still keep seeing insecurity, only because that is what you want to see and you have your own stuff to deal with). I am just acting this way to drive a point home enji, I never think anyone is lesser than me, I am actually an empathic and kind person who helps people feel beautiful, appreciated and loved; that is my personality. Simply beautiful inside and outside with absolutely no reason to hate myself and all the reasons to be mad in love with myself.
As someone who views my color as beautiful as any other, and as someone who has accepted himself as who he is for who he is outside his physical appearance, my sentiment towards myself would have been exactly the same, whether if I was lighter or darker.
And the way y'all took the line about my mom "ruining" my dads "black genes", it might be just a miscommunication or a concerning peek towards your very limited context windows. It was taking my next generation in to consideration, and I have expressed it will be great either way right then and there. I love any woman the same just for who she is regardless of her color and the color of the kids we can have.
My only concern, if it can even be classified as one, was that other DS people did not share such a sentiment. After reading the og vent, it made me look back at my own dating history and everyone that expressed their interests. It made me realize most of them were highly LS girls, even arabs and caucasians. I admired everything about them, our color did not matter the least in our relationship. But this history also made me think, compared to what I have with the LS girls, the chemistry I have with DS girls was almost non-existent. It made me feel like the sentiment described in that girl's vent might be shared by more people than I realized, or maybe I am just not their type, and guess what? I AM OK WITH IT! May be ample amount of DS girls feel like they are lesser and feel the need to "fix" their children with a LS person, and I was trying to point the wrong in that, trying to help them find their own beauty and love it.
Anyways, what a futile attempt, am I right?
Final assignment, define slave mentality; without ChatGPT, of course. By that, I also don't mean you can use another chatbot, use your brains please.
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Hey everyone, I'm a 22M, and I've been struggling with masturbation for the past six years. During that time, I feel like I've lost many opportunities and important parts of my life. Right now, I'm feeling shocked, hopeless, and ready to give up.
I had big dreams when I was a child, but now I feel like they're slipping away. Has anyone been through something similar? What can I do to overcome this and get my life back on track? Any advice or encouragement would mean a lot to me.
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Hey everyone, I'm a 22M, and I've been struggling with masturbation for the past six years. During that time, I feel like I've lost many opportunities and important parts of my life. Right now, I'm feeling shocked, hopeless, and ready to give up.
I had big dreams when I was a child, but now I feel like they're slipping away. Has anyone been through something similar? What can I do to overcome this and get my life back on track? Any advice or encouragement would mean a lot to me.
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Hey guys,I'm 27 F ,I really need your advice to make a decision ,ena tarikun asatre snegrachihu kelju gar abren new yemnseraw betegenagnen be 3 werachin fkr jemern ena ahun amet limolan new ene lesu yefkr smet endalegn awkalehu gnnn ye edme gap alen esu 41 ametu new ena yhe neger yrebshegnal esum yeteredagn ymeslegnal gn be edme mknyat titeshign kehedsh egodalehu ylegnal esu betam yewah tru afkari ena smeten yemiyakebr melkam sew new esun sasib degmo edmewun eresalehu gn ahun lay gra gebtognal pls mn endemtasbu ngerugn 🙏
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Hey guys,I'm 27 F ,I really need your advice to make a decision ,ena tarikun asatre snegrachihu kelju gar abren new yemnseraw betegenagnen be 3 werachin fkr jemern ena ahun amet limolan new ene lesu yefkr smet endalegn awkalehu gnnn ye edme gap alen esu 41 ametu new ena yhe neger yrebshegnal esum yeteredagn ymeslegnal gn be edme mknyat titeshign kehedsh egodalehu ylegnal esu betam yewah tru afkari ena smeten yemiyakebr melkam sew new esun sasib degmo edmewun eresalehu gn ahun lay gra gebtognal pls mn endemtasbu ngerugn 🙏
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if i had to say anything i deserve it, i had no idea what i put you through, im very selfish and maybe its time that life teaches me that i should care deeply about peoples feelings as much as mine.I WILL FORGIVE YOU. ;)
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if i had to say anything i deserve it, i had no idea what i put you through, im very selfish and maybe its time that life teaches me that i should care deeply about peoples feelings as much as mine.I WILL FORGIVE YOU. ;)
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Here to vent about my recent fumbling incident.
2 weeks ago ,I was at the bank and I was kind of vibing with the mobile banking lady. She was giving me special treatment and all. And at the end she slips me a paper with a number with her name on it. My dumb ass figured she wanted me to repay her kindness and I end up sending her some cash on telebirr. I figure today she wanted me to ask her out😅.
Might as well die virgin at this point.
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Here to vent about my recent fumbling incident.
2 weeks ago ,I was at the bank and I was kind of vibing with the mobile banking lady. She was giving me special treatment and all. And at the end she slips me a paper with a number with her name on it. My dumb ass figured she wanted me to repay her kindness and I end up sending her some cash on telebirr. I figure today she wanted me to ask her out😅.
Might as well die virgin at this point.
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent I don’t want casual love or meaningless relationships. I want one man — my husband — someone I can trust, someone who loves me deeply and cares for me completely. I imagine him being tall and gentle, holding my…
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I just want to confess something on this vent channel.
A while ago, I posted about my dream guy, intimacy, and being single. Honestly, I never expected even one person to comment, "Ask my ID." I even said I wasn't posting to ask for men's IDs, but surprisingly, that luck came anyway. 😁
I tried to reply to everyone who asked for my ID. None of them actually approached me seriously. I wasn't expecting anything serious in the first place, but I still talked to all of them.
One thing I learned is that not everyone who's single and says they want a relationship is actually ready or committed to one. Sorry, but that's just what I experienced.
I'll keep posting here, but please... don't comment "Ask my ID" anymore. At all. 😂
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I just want to confess something on this vent channel.
A while ago, I posted about my dream guy, intimacy, and being single. Honestly, I never expected even one person to comment, "Ask my ID." I even said I wasn't posting to ask for men's IDs, but surprisingly, that luck came anyway. 😁
I tried to reply to everyone who asked for my ID. None of them actually approached me seriously. I wasn't expecting anything serious in the first place, but I still talked to all of them.
One thing I learned is that not everyone who's single and says they want a relationship is actually ready or committed to one. Sorry, but that's just what I experienced.
I'll keep posting here, but please... don't comment "Ask my ID" anymore. At all. 😂
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I am afraid that the population difference between the male agnostics and female agnostics is too wide, I don't see myself married. I don't want to settle on a religious woman, definitely on an atheist tho. I can't sat this confidently but I don't think agnostic or athiest girls would even want to start a family and have kids.
Real concern
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I am afraid that the population difference between the male agnostics and female agnostics is too wide, I don't see myself married. I don't want to settle on a religious woman, definitely on an atheist tho. I can't sat this confidently but I don't think agnostic or athiest girls would even want to start a family and have kids.
Real concern
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I really was in love with a single mom last whole 2 years who got 3 kids i know when we got in relationship that i know she had kids but i didn’t realized that i would fall in love deeper this much ….as a single mom she was so nice to me wifey material she take care of me a lot when i needed her she is always there for me …my sexual thing with her was wild asf we used to had sex ly 4-5 days per weeks and 4-5 round per day crazy shit tho as man being sexual interacted make u so comfortable and open up your self then i fall in love with her and my family found about us that she had kids mnamn they don’t wanna call me as their son if i got married to her and want me to break up with her i had a fight with my mom 2 month we didn’t talk becha i become conscious i had to put my family first then i break up with her everything is great now with fam the really problem is i really missed her so much hulem ke gone selnberche mesa yemebelat bota chill yemargebet bota my house sehed mnamn tez telgnalche …. Am trying to control my sexual desire since we had sex addict with her but beside sex i miss her i know this is not normal i don’t know what to do its been 4 month since we broke up ena family masazen yelebgem need your advice tho
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I really was in love with a single mom last whole 2 years who got 3 kids i know when we got in relationship that i know she had kids but i didn’t realized that i would fall in love deeper this much ….as a single mom she was so nice to me wifey material she take care of me a lot when i needed her she is always there for me …my sexual thing with her was wild asf we used to had sex ly 4-5 days per weeks and 4-5 round per day crazy shit tho as man being sexual interacted make u so comfortable and open up your self then i fall in love with her and my family found about us that she had kids mnamn they don’t wanna call me as their son if i got married to her and want me to break up with her i had a fight with my mom 2 month we didn’t talk becha i become conscious i had to put my family first then i break up with her everything is great now with fam the really problem is i really missed her so much hulem ke gone selnberche mesa yemebelat bota chill yemargebet bota my house sehed mnamn tez telgnalche …. Am trying to control my sexual desire since we had sex addict with her but beside sex i miss her i know this is not normal i don’t know what to do its been 4 month since we broke up ena family masazen yelebgem need your advice tho
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Hello everyone,
I really need your advice because I'm struggling with something.
I love my girlfriend very much, and we have a good relationship. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about her past. Before we met, she had previous relationships. I asked her about them, and she was honest with me. I appreciate her honesty, but after hearing the details, I became deeply hurt.
Sometimes I hear people talking about her and her exes, and it makes me overthink even more. I keep asking her questions about her past, even though I know the answers only make me feel worse. I don't want to hurt her or damage our relationship, but I can't seem to stop thinking about it.
I don't want to leave her because I truly love her. I just want to find a way to accept her past and stop letting it control my thoughts and emotions.
Has anyone experienced something similar? How did you overcome these feelings? Any sincere advice would mean a lot to me.
Thank you for reading.
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Hello everyone,
I really need your advice because I'm struggling with something.
I love my girlfriend very much, and we have a good relationship. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about her past. Before we met, she had previous relationships. I asked her about them, and she was honest with me. I appreciate her honesty, but after hearing the details, I became deeply hurt.
Sometimes I hear people talking about her and her exes, and it makes me overthink even more. I keep asking her questions about her past, even though I know the answers only make me feel worse. I don't want to hurt her or damage our relationship, but I can't seem to stop thinking about it.
I don't want to leave her because I truly love her. I just want to find a way to accept her past and stop letting it control my thoughts and emotions.
Has anyone experienced something similar? How did you overcome these feelings? Any sincere advice would mean a lot to me.
Thank you for reading.
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