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Fyi (I am 1.83 so this is not a jealousy post)
most women now a days state they want to date or marry a guy who is equals to 1.80 or above.
Over years when I go to any public places in Addis, I mostly noticed tall men are rare, e.g in taxi ሰልፍ, group of 20-25 men, ብዙ ግዜ 3-5 men are tall from that crowd including myself. Ofc, there were exceptions sometimes.
So I decided to do the maths.
Ethiopian men average height 1.70 (even ethio airlines is set to that standard)
desired height for the trend 1.78 or above
Addis population is around 5.5 M, women are slightly higher but let's be kind and round that to 50%
From total population of men, around 15% are 1.78 or above
Narrowing it with age (18-40) = it will become 7.2% rounding to 8%
If 3% of them are Married= it would be around 5% for the tall singles.
18-40 (37% of total population / 1M women ) from total 2.75M = if 50 % are single which be 500K single women

If 20% of the single tall men are financial stable due to difficult economic status

Resulting 20 to 25 women competing with 1 tall single financial stable man.

If we add being handsome or religion or any vibe, the man starting to be like unicorn.
Maybe, 20 - 50 tall handsome men are already dm to you every day but don't you think 90% of them wants to smash and not to settle. Cause most tall men knew they have demand in the market so they are using it to be a fck boy. Which most women here vent about. There are exceptional good God fearing tall rich men, they exist. And Normally women in avg are shorter. So most men with 1.70 are already taller than most women. But,
if women are so obsessed lifting up the requirements of height way above. it is like narrowing the probability of finding the other qualities from these men.

Superficial ለሆኑ ወንዶችም, i will be back for part 2 with another maths. 😅

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Heyyy
( i just saw a girl post the same as mine so I thought why not give it a try😌) anyways I’m 22F in need of new friends. Not gonna lie, I have an old friend group, but we’ve kind of outgrown each other.completely banzegagam we meet call mnamn but still you know…. Anyways I need 😭 friends “girl” friends not boy beka genuine yehone abren maturedm weirdm act mareg mnchl also like someone who can grab coffee or drinks(I promise betam techi adlewm don’t judge😂) or zm beln walk eyaregn slnefelf simple hangout ke class mels or andande yetekabdede😁 aynet mareg mnchl dressed mnamn honen aleaaa the girl vibes bcha positive genuine yehone girl friendship amrognall not toxic pls ena if you’re in need of new friends like me ofcourse😂 pls dm you know… new circle aykefam😌

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Wtf is wrong with men these days?
They all don't like "going outside "
They all invite you over at their "house"
They all want to "watch a movie "
They all want "home cooked meal"

What happened to have coffee, let's have dinner at some restaurant or even have a damn walk?

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I don’t even know where to start for the girls how did you get over that first love in you 20s

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የማደርገው ግራ ስለገባኝ ነው የምፅፍላችሁ የእውነት እርዳታችሁ ያስፈልገኛል ብቸኛ ነኝ ከጎኔ የሚቆም ማንም የለኝም ብቻዬን ነው የምታገለው በጣም አቃተኝ ምን እንደማደርግ ግራ ገባኝ ማርያምን ግራ ገባኝ ለፋሁ ለፋሁ አቃተኝ የመጨረሻ አማራጭ ብዬ የያዝኩት እራሴን ማጥፋት ነው ክርስቶስን ሁሉ ነገር ድክም ብሎኛል ሰው ወዶ አደለም እራሱ ላይ የሚጨክነው እኮ የእውነት ግራ ቢገባው ሚያረገው እንደኔ ግራ ሲገባው ነው እርዱኝ በማርያም የእራብን ስሜት የሚያውቀው የራበው ሰው ብቻ ነው እዚህ ውስጥ ተቸግራችሁ የምታውቁ ግን እግዚሀብሄር ችግራችሁን ያስረሳችሁ በብዙ ድካም ብቸኝነት አልፋችሁ እዚህ ያደረሳችሁ እናንተ ትረዱኛላችሁ እባካችሁ ያላችሁን እርዱኝ በማርያም እኔም እንደናንተ ይህን ቀን አልፌ ሰው ልሁን እርዱኝ🙏

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Guys how do you move on from someone like it has been 3 years but i still think about the same person

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Hey guys endat nachu ena mn meselachu i can't stop thinking about money all day from dusk till dawn bewnet yehen milachu yetena adelem beka kenun mulu slegenzeb nw masebew am a 3rd year uni student ena as u know ahun break lay nen ena kenun mulu beka esun maseb honual siraye btw sira bizu yelegnm alfo alfo sigegn nw enji kuami sira wef ena the worst part i lost all my flagot for girls lemn betammm mitamer mesmerizing konjo set athonm endederow megerem lemawrat mefeleg mnamn wef plus sew siaweragn hula slegenzeb kalhone yastelagnal mnamn ena mndnw mareg yalebegn beziew keketelku yehone crime hula lisera chilalew genzeb lemagegnet😭😭😭

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Hey endet nachu i want an advice on something there was this guy i met in tg we talked for a year and he was very handsome and had a good personality we never met for a year but i found out we were in the same campus the whole time we vibed alott and one day he insisted me to meet on some cafe and i agreed i couldn't meet him that day bc my phone died all of the sudden but luckily i saw him from distance and called his name we hugged but class was about to start so we couldn't talk much
I was happy that i met him
And i thought there will be future possibility that we will meet again but nothing after that
he then one day texted me happily and told me he met someone and had a good time with them i was thinking of random date but he slept with that person
It has been 2 weeks since we stopped talking but i always wonder why did he tell me that

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Am I the bad person in this?
We are a group of three friends and have known each other all our lives, but let's focus on this girl. Let's call her Selamawit.
Throughout our friendship, Selamawit always acted like she was more of a friend to our other friend than I was. At some point in elementary and high school, I decided to mingle with other people, and eventually I became closer with the new people than with them. But the two of them always remained friends.
Fast forward, we became close again in 12th grade, and then university separated us. Here, note that I have always been the friend who does things and reports back, and never asks for advice in advance. During university, I tried to catch up with both of them, but life got in the way.
We all met new people and made new friends, but unlike us, Selamawit started dating this guy who became her whole world, and the only time she called was to ask for some cash. I was cool with it, but by our senior years I was so broke that I barely had enough for food and necessities.
Fast forward again, we all graduated and ended up in the same city and stuff, and suddenly she started claiming that she had cut off her campus friends because we were her real friends. She started blaming us for having other people we hung out with.
I am a depressed person, so I have cancelled plans with her multiple times. She never understood how I was as a grown-up and always took it as me not wanting to do things with her or preferring my other friends. I feel like she wanted me because our other friend was no longer available, making me the replacement.
So, a few months ago, I tried to get the issue out in the open, and our other friend said the reason she got close to new people was that she felt Selamawit was only available when she wanted some cash. This broke Selamawit, and she cut ties with her. She said she felt like she was being judged because of her financial status.
By the time I tried explaining that, from our point of view, it felt like that, she got offended with me too. I called her a couple of times, and after seeing her attitude, I just continued with my life. The thing is, I had multiple shit things that I was going through, so I did not have any extra space to comfort her or push her to talk. I still felt the problem was her not trying to see things from our point of view.
Fast forward to today, she texted me for money. I refused and told her that she hadn't been a friend to me for a while, and I was done.
Selamawit said she was just testing me. 😂
Glad I failed!

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Hello am female 22
Here's my vent i got in to this relationship month ago smth I love this guy alot but I dont feel the same way alakm I feel like he's pretending or smth kemr ena demo idk where it comes from gn I am developing fear for him beka not yihe desta mistemagh ferhat its like lejoch eyalen mnferaw ferhat he hv dated alot of girls before me ena I feel like hes pretending or smth I cant feel hes presence with me rly idk what to do 😭

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Protecting others isn't about being thanked it's about carrying burdens they will never see i have watched the people i love live peacefully😊 unaware of what it cost and that was enough sometimes saving others means letting them believe the worst about you it means letting them hate you while you continue to love them in silence that is the choice i made a choice that took everything from me... except the hope that their future would be brighter than my own🙂 not every hero is remembered some of us disappear quietly☺️ knowing we saved them even though they would never save us...

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Hello Hello, hope you all are doing fine as you’re.

I'm a highschooler from Ethiopia. Been following this channel for a while. Normally I havent made a post before and especially personal stuff but I'm in a real tuff like very tuff spot and just need to vent, maybe get some advice or even help I don’t know.

So here's the deal: I've been grinding for years like an entire years of highschool to get into a US university for some social studies or tech major. Somehow to my very surprise I‘ve managed to get waitlisted at Yale University and Columbia University even though I got rejected later. (hell I cried my ass off when I first saw the waitlist letter because like was I this close?😭) My friends are going to prestigious schools like MIT, Princeton and harvard and I'm literally saying goodbyes to them rn which is a proud bro moment and a bit sad actually

Ena yihen amet degmo I am all in, but the problem is I need to like have to take the SAT exam to get really confident in my application and to stand competitive like others (my friends had it which I didn’t have one and was applying test optional schools) The fee is $111 = 18,000 in birr. That's more than my family can afford rn which is so sad I swear. My mom is a sole provider in the family and she’s already drowning in my university expenses. Asking her for this degmo feels very ridiculous. Imagine asking someone who can barely pay for economy class to book business class, insane right? Yeah man I know I know

I already have strong grades, exceptional honors, crazy extracurriculars, a decent essay just everything except this one exam. Imagine standing at the finish line but a single cost blocks you. That's me on God

Anyway If you're reading this and can help out even a little or point me to someone who can, it'll literally change my life. I’m venting this because it literally is my last chance. If not, no worries I just wanted to get it off my chest. You all keep making cool vents lately tho. Stay up⚡️

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Hey everyone um I need you guys to help me out on something. First time venting and I'm an IT 3rd yr student ena I don't code mnm malet nw ena I'm not even trying and I'm starting to get stressed dmo bahun seat rasu ala temre bcharis will I get sra even internship? Idk ena mn lmar like cyber security eyasebku nw cuz bzu sew vibe coder eyehone silehone ena gn idk from where to start idk my interest bka hule mechenek bcha nw sraye dmo since its IT people always say ur gonna be a teacher ena pls cyber security mimar sew or slesu miyak sew pls let me know in the comments. I really need this help me yemtchlu

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It's incredibly frustrating for a 26-year-old dominant sadist  man who can't seem to find women interested in BDSM. Despite putting in the effort to communicate clearly, establish trust, and understand the nuances of a healthy BDSM relationship, it often feels like a dead end. The dating scene can be tough already, but adding the layer of BDSM makes it even harder. There's a constant battle against stereotypes and misconceptions, and it's exhausting having to explain that dominance isn't about being abusive or controlling in a harmful way. Instead, it's about providing a safe space for a partner's desires and boundaries. It's disheartening to be misunderstood or judged before even getting a chance to show who you really are and what you stand for in a BDSM context. It often feels like there's a lack of understanding and acceptance, which only adds to the frustration and loneliness.

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Hey Dad,
I know you'd probably never read this, and even if you did, I don't think you'd care. So I'll just say it here.
For 24 years, all I ever wanted was for you to love me the way you loved my sisters. Everything I did was to make you proud. I even studied the degree you wanted because I thought maybe then you'd finally see me.
Maybe being the only child you had out of wedlock was enough for you to decide I wasn't worth much. But I never asked to be born.
I still remember being at university, so sick I couldn't eat for days. My friend had to call you because I couldn't even help myself. I'll never forget that day.
You had money. You still do. You spoiled my four sisters, drove them to college every morning, gave them everything they needed. Meanwhile, I couldn't even afford a taxi. Sometimes I'd beg you for money, and if you sent anything, it'd be a little once in a while just to get by.
It's been a year since I graduated. I'm still unemployed. I'm sleeping on someone else's couch. I never thought I'd know what it feels like to be broke while having a rich father.
The crazy part is you could never deny I was your son. I look exactly like you.
Maybe that's why I've promised myself something. When I have a family, my kids will never have to wonder if their dad loves them. They'll never have to earn my attention or beg for my approval. My wife will never feel alone while I'm still alive. I'll give them everything I spent my whole life looking for.
I'll make it out of this. I have to.
I just wish I knew what it felt like to have a father.

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Hey, 19f here
So CAN I FKING HAVE SOME FRIENDS.

Like gender doesn't matter to me at this point you can even identify as I dog, we can go and take a walk together. I can communicate my feelings and thoughts, but if your head hard as a rock, I'm gonna smash that sht with a hammer.

I'm coming here because it's so damn tiring to "build" relationships now a days, that's why I'm coming clean. I really am an open person, weirdness, strange thoughts, or anything you think will drive people away, WILL MAKE ME WANT TO KNOW YOU BETTER.

you a woman? Hella good, let's do our makeup together, go out for drinks, gossip our ears out, do cooking classes and try new things and share weird sht together.

You a man? Let's go do some sports, give advice to each other on dating life, pour our heart and have like a genuine connection.

I can do both with anyone, but what's sad is, trying to find genuine people is so damn hard. Just take the risk, be yourself, and enjoy whatever there is. If not, just run away (I'll follow up dw lol).

This isn't some recruitment post or anything, tbh I take friendships seriously, more than any s3xual relationships and can think if you would REALLY value a friend it can last a life time of a beautiful life events that will last with you more than anything.

Soooooooooo wanna friend zone each other in the best way possible?🙄
And i live in d.d😭✌️

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Wendoch ebakachu don’t be Cinderella have some balls ende how do you expect a woman to approach you text you call you first mnamn besmeab mn yilutal ehen ya’ll are leaders initiators women reciprocate you don’t even know how attractive a guy is when he knows what he wants and diligently go for it like self respect noruachu you can be yearning eko ehe mucheh malet desperate mehon sayhon beka በmoderation … the chemistry tension mnamn noro ende highschoolers koy esua text targ eyalachu😭😂
Ladies tesfa yelenm lemangnawm

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I am sending notice to my Ethiopian weebs out there. Did I miss the plot or am I right for thinking that JJK and solo leveling are overrated. Not just overrated, almost batshit. I don't understand all them niggas that have satoru and itadori as their profile pictures. Girls with satoru profile pictures are understandable and if you are a guy with his picture, hey, it ain't too late to come out of the closet. Don't get me started on the jinwoo kids they are the worst. I struggled to watch anything past the first season of both anime and got peer pressured into watching them and continued with the second seasons and it just reinforced my hate for both. At first I was thinking they were just finding their identity in the first season which I thought was excusable but solo leveling somehow continued to be the MC just going in gooncaves guns blazing and coming out stronger with no story behind it and jjk just seems like it is trying to force grief and plot twist by killing off characters and desperately trying to make itself look good without any of the deaths making sense or adding anything. Just killing characters for the sake of killing them. I got through the second seasons and I told the dudes who recommended me to watch them to never give me anime recommendations again. It is not that I don't respect them or anything, it is that their opinions isn't worth respecting at all. These two anime taught me that even on topics that are considered subjective taste, your opinion can still be objectively wrong. Not just anime, I don't understand why so many motherfuckers like the GTA franchise of games too. Same game with different graphics recycled over and over again. Played GTA 5 for 20% completion and dropped it because of how boring it was. This seriously isn't a rage bait or me trying to be different. I just don't understand all them niggas tastes. I can sit here and talk about music but I think I am also going to upset Taylor swift glazers. Also, fuck y'all mfers who couldn't help riding Thanos' purple cock, he is the worst marvel villain. Prove me wrong, his motivation doesn't make sense and exposes the writers for being dumb.

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Hey guys i hope y'all are doing good. What im about to say is kinda selfish and i might maybe doesn't make a sense but please let's keep it positive and try to understand me a lil bit. And ladies i want you opinion on it.
So im 25 yo guy kinda of a hard worker but couldn't be able to save a penny because of helping my parents. It's been almost 2 year since i started working but i have nothing saved on my acc. So let's get back to what i wanna say, i had a girlfriend, she wasn't my type or a girl that i thought would be my friend let alone be with her, we become friends an expectedly, i was super into gambling and stuff back then and she used to send me money and stuff and like i would ask her whatever i want and she will do that so i thought to my self if i make her my girlfriend i won't even think about money or things anymore and i asked her ti be my gf and she said yes. I was so shocked i mean i wasn't expecting her t say yes because i was like not in a good place back then, i was kinda depressed too and that was why i wanna her to be with me more then money because she keeps me company and after that yes it was hard for me i was even thinkingabout a way of breakingup with her without hurting her because she was all in and i couldn't love her even the smallest bit. But i used to care for her because she was 17-18 and i was 21.Some way a long the way my love for her got like crazier level like i couldn't even spent a day without talking to her like man the way she misses me like the way i imagine us in the future together, i basically day dream about her( ik it weird of me saying this, some guys might see me as this simp but man when i miss her it'll make me cry like i couldn't control my self) and we used to get into a fight because of that i mean she used to cry whenever i didn't picked up the phone or something but when i loved her harder her love seemed like nothing for me like i started getting mad and stuff, it seemed like she doesn't love me anymore. I even told her that and she said that i don't believe her and i have a trust issues. Becha fast forward we are no longer together anymore, i broke up with her because i was mad, because i thought i meant nothing to her compered to what i was doing to be with her. but i really really love her very much, all of my girl friends friends(2) we were friends like childhood friends they don't want her for me they kept telling me that she isn't beautiful bech the kept tellme her flaws loke how her hands aren't clean or how a girls hand should looks like and hiw short she is.( guys please please im not body shaming or idk what it's called but im not saying anything bad 😔) i mean i loved her still do with all of those flaws. I kinda looks good compered to her i even had beautiful ex's but man idk what she did to me i couldn't stop thinking about her( imagine she is the total opposite of someone i thought i would end up with) but lately i kept thinking that i might find someone more beautiful and my type but uff man that's so scary because i don't wanna lose her i wanna marry her( this other finding a beautiful girl feeling came because whenever we break up she wouldn't do anything about it, i mean if i say let's break up she'd say okay, and when i ask her to get back she'd say okay, like that got me worried you know what uf she doesn't love me anymore. Our love is full depends on my want and i didn't like that, imagine i have a chance of being with someone else but i kept breaking up with her then getting back together

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I'm 23F and I've never been in a relationship.
A few weeks ago I started talking to a guy, and for the first time I genuinely understand why people fall for someone. He's kind, emotionally available, funny, intelligent, patient, and we seem to share a lot of values. We talk almost every day and I honestly look forward to hearing from him.
The problem isn't him.
It's me.
I've spent most of my life avoiding dating because I always felt like I needed to "fix myself" first.
I have social anxiety. My confidence isn't where I want it to be. I'm only now starting my career and trying to build discipline, improve my appearance, take care of my health, strengthen my faith, and basically become the woman I've always wanted to be.
My biggest fear is that if I start a relationship now, all of my insecurities will come with me.
I'll compare myself. I'll need reassurance. I'll overthink. I'll worry that he'll eventually realize I'm not enough.

I don't think it's fair to expect a partner to heal insecurities that I should be working on myself.
So I'm stuck.
I like this man enough that I can genuinely imagine building a future with him if he continues being who he seems to be.
But I also don't want to unintentionally pull him into a situation where I'm emotionally unavailable or constantly afraid.
Has anyone else delayed dating because they thought they needed to become a better version of themselves first?
Did waiting actually help?
Or were you just postponing vulnerability?

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When writing the vent, I did not expect that I would be inviting all the wannabe psychotherapists to throw around all the buzz-words they know yet can not explain any further, to try psycho-analyze me. I mean y'all tried sooooooooooooo hard😭 I will not bother myself with this anymore. God damnnnnn...

And funny to think black people themselves calling me insecure and shit while I was there to try and express the beauty in their color... Go deal with that giant on your own, but please don't smear that shit on me.

Yeah, I might have sounded I have some hate towards LS people, but if you could process more than 3 lines of thought at a time(why I break my writing into paragraphs btw😂), it was very evident that I loved them as much as DS people. White boys coming in my comment section and being whiny bitches is all on you.

I tried very hard to not make things personal. I felt the need to be humble. But to hell with that since I am being accused of insecurity and since everyone was trying to make me feel that way. I got no reason to be, never been concerned about my appearance. I have always been beautiful, it is something I knew and heard all my life since childhood; dimples, big eyes, beard, jawline, dark curly hair, smart brain, sense of humor, and cherry on top, I am 6 foot 3! I am down-right a charming person who is automatically admired by women and men wherever I go. I am a socially high-performance person who command and cultivates respect, love and admiration wherever I go with whomever I end up with, old or young. Never felt like anyone was better than me(I am sure you will still keep seeing insecurity, only because that is what you want to see and you have your own stuff to deal with). I am just acting this way to drive a point home enji, I never think anyone is lesser than me, I am actually an empathic and kind person who helps people feel beautiful, appreciated and loved; that is my personality. Simply beautiful inside and outside with absolutely no reason to hate myself and all the reasons to be mad in love with myself.

As someone who views my color as beautiful as any other, and as someone who has accepted himself as who he is for who he is outside his physical appearance, my sentiment towards myself would have been exactly the same, whether if I was lighter or darker.

And the way y'all took the line about my mom "ruining" my dads "black genes", it might be just a miscommunication or a concerning peek towards your very limited context windows. It was taking my next generation in to consideration, and I have expressed it will be great either way right then and there. I love any woman the same just for who she is regardless of her color and the color of the kids we can have.

My only concern, if it can even be classified as one, was that other DS people did not share such a sentiment. After reading the og vent, it made me look back at my own dating history and everyone that expressed their interests. It made me realize most of them were highly LS girls, even arabs and caucasians. I admired everything about them, our color did not matter the least in our relationship. But this history also made me think, compared to what I have with the LS girls, the chemistry I have with DS girls was almost non-existent. It made me feel like the sentiment described in that girl's vent might be shared by more people than I realized, or maybe I am just not their type, and guess what? I AM OK WITH IT! May be ample amount of DS girls feel like they are lesser and feel the need to "fix" their children with a LS person, and I was trying to point the wrong in that, trying to help them find their own beauty and love it.

Anyways, what a futile attempt, am I right?

Final assignment, define slave mentality; without ChatGPT, of course. By that, I also don't mean you can use another chatbot, use your brains please.

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