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Y'all guys endet nachu
Wede gudaye segeba befkr tesfa kortachu takalachu ene ahun eza state lay negn berasem hone besew kayewt ngr sew yemiwedewn i mean eachother miwaded sew andlay yhonal bye alasbm bzu gize and sew ga melkamnetun or yemisetachewn care bcha aytew andlay mehonu ymeslegnal ena andu sew ygodal hule sechi yhonena yemigebawn fkr kepartneru ayagnm ena I'm girl btw ena bzu gize sibal msemaw miwedshen enji mtwejiwn atagbi yilalu lene this is totally selfish mehon new yewdedegn sews kene zelalemun fkr eyetebeke bene response eyetegoda yenur mejemeryawn yelelewn tesfa alemestet enji guys what do you think negerugn sewoch huletum ekul tewadew relationship wist ygabalu eski hasabachun negerugn and snt sew new endemefelgew semrolet yenorew 🫶☺️

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23M, እንደ ቀልድ የጀመርኩት weed is about to ruin my life I need help!
I started smoking weed on 3rd year of campus at that time it was not a problem i did it once a week or twice a week after completing tasks, exams or as a reward. Life was good i didn’t crave it on summer breaks it was manageable and fast forward to this summer I graduated a month ago with my shitty engineering degree applied jobs and interviews no nothing the offered pay was max 10k it got me depressed and i started to miss my crutch ሽጣሩ ሊገለኝ ደረሰ since i graduated i didn’t have access to my plug so to quench my thirst i started smoking normal cigarettes out of desperation it felt good then i tried khat at my dad friend crib then gulping alcohol excessively just to feel something again (I swear I was not like this before) finally bought some weed from some shady neighborhood (i will not mention name) made edibles and started eating massive doses everyday now i can’t function properly it’s been week taking few bites out of it barely functioning in life my family is becoming suspicious because of my behavior.
How can I get out of this hole I’m starting to become a junkie😭😭😭

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so the thing is I'm in relationship like for 5 years ena befit enem esum temari selnbrn financial issue alnbrm malt gedeta income yenurew or stable yehun weym sera yesera alelm because temari selnbr ahun gn ketemerke 3 ametu ena sera betam yemertal chgr yelwm yehone yetshale ngr eskimeta ders sera yetgnnewn selew ayhonm yelal yehen melew lerase sayhon lesu nw malt ene betsboche yebirr chgr yelbachewm enem temari hogne rasu temariwochn astenalew online sera eseralew mnm kesu metbkew ngr yelm but ene next year graduate adrgalew ena mnm beka Addis ngr ylm ewnet betam sera yemertal maritime rasu exam alfo alhedem belo nw ykrew even esun lemagnet rasu betam nw mesakekew beka birr miyametabet way selele ene lekefel selew demo yedbrwal idk bcha beka yebkan sera mimeret sw alfelgm beye breakup lrmadrg asbena selmewedew demo etewewalew ahun gn betam yedebrgn nw what should I do future rasu endet nw mihonnw endiw keketele gize setchew leyew or mn telugnalchu
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its about ድንግልና! protect it, as a Christian, I 100% assure you, የእግዚአብሔር በረከት በብዙ ያሰጣል! ካልሆን ደግሞ መራቅ(from ዝሙት) like ለእግዚአብሔር መታዘዝ! የሰማይ በር ይከፍታል! be aware of it, may be if we are highly tempted by losing it,we shall just go and bend kneel and ask God's help, there's no one we is highly favored by lord
than who is virgin, protect your body,

I am venting this because I have a plenty of friends who are መፀፀት after loosing it,
and I understand that we love God but because of temptation we break his law, so brothers and sisters keep shining with your virginity... it is a gift of God🌟☀️🌟

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I wonder where i lost my spark along the way... the time where nothing was strained  or forced.. where i accept  what came and let go what don't  want to stay, where once it is peaceful  to be me as it is, no pretence, no hiding....it was easier to accept things, to let them be as they are .....and now?? Boy, every minute that passes is a rope twisted and twisted enough that it will snap, every smile is forced, every action is a calculated  reaction, the silence is forced, the voice is a whisper .... everything is a blur  ...going annd  going without me noticing  it ....too afraid  to be bold, too shy to say things i wanna say...walls building high up so nobody can enter ...i can't  even enter to see my rotten side, to wash away my sin.... i am just some  one who fading away little by little ... losing me... losing my ideas...my wants ...my regrets ...my thoughts. Nothing really feels real, it is like very little bricks  are building a heart of stone ...where nothing can go in and where there is no way out ... .. who do i blame? Me or the world ?

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So idk who to blame. My father or the fcked up generation before?

Hey, I'm 19f and having mixed feelings about this situation (crying rn btw). I've four siblings in total with me five. I'm the youngest and have a ten year gab with my previous sibling (let's call them all A, B, C, D).

As we all my do or most, I didn't question my parents age or anything but today me and my friend watched a tiktok of a guy panicking to whom his wife was telling him she was pregnant of their thrid child as a prank. (Mind you, there first is 1 year and 10 months, the second is 10 months so this woman didn't get even 5 month gab to rest for her previous pregnancy let alone a third one, do the maths and you'll get it.)

So both me and my friend thought it was bad that the husband didn't think of his wife's health then something clicked to me, I heard my family talking how my mom had children in a young age so I called my eldest A asking "so when did mother get pregnant with you" then next answer got me questioning my father and.....disgusted. SHE WAS FCKING 14. Then idk why I asked the next question, "so how many years gap do you, B, C and D have?" The answer made me silent "Oh, me and B has an 11 month gap, B and C has 1 year gap, after 5 years she had D then finally you after ten year."

HOOOOOOLD OOOOON, so my mother was a 14 year old girl that play professional volleyball (heard this from her) and father a 20 YEAR old guy who is a referee there. HE got her pregnant at 14 then after birthing A she was pregnant again with B JUST after 2 months, THEN after birthing B she rested for ONLY 3 months got pregnant again with C. I was shocked. I questioned many things "is father a pedo?" Ofc "did he r@pe her" I don't think so bc her family was close with her so he can't threaten her. Might she have a crush? Even HOW ON 14.

Idk how to feel, i cried for hours in front of my friend saying we robbed her but turning so see her smiling with my siblings and then again for her to have me after 10 years made me think, she chose this life. For us.

Now I can't see father the same way. Yeah, he is a caring one for us, he treats her right and make her happy too. But I don't can't imagine her being in pain at 14 then again at 15 then again at 16, being stressed over half @ssed babies.

Fcked up old gen and Fcked up pedo father. I want to see my mom play again, be a pro in what she likes, have her teenage years with joyful teenage memories, not smelly dipers. Marry at appropriate age and all.

Mom, I'm sorry. I'm sorry for everything, if I can just turn back time, I would do ANYTHING to stop all this, even k¡ll that bastard.

Sorry dear mother.

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well all this venting shi isnt doin much alku lerase, kalehubet frustration ena anxiety yemer melakek yememchelew zemmmmbeye yebat yekotun eyaweraw yerasen chenket wedenante bemagarat sayhon wederase hiwet temelkeche lerassssew hiwet cheger endewend solution sefeleg new ena...... it worked lene ......ena eski andande try that for ur self, ik beeetam cheeenk r/p west or mental health west endihum sera ,temehert , family....all over life fucked up eyaregachu yehonal gn deeep down takutalachu meftehew men endehone, men lek endehone ena endalhone lebachu yenegrachual ena yetekemengen lagarachu beye new😊

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Gobez zare yehonech lij eyeteyayen salawerat koyehu misa seat lay esua keguadegnochua gar tesebsba eyebelach neber gn bemehal zor eyalech tayegnalech.ohh my God she was the center of attention for every body beka esuan mawurat alebgn ene demo ayinafar ayinet wond negn...gn endet lanagrat wondmoche ehtoche eski mela belugn

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U have no idea how much i have fallen head over heals for u right?

U know i have to control my self to not be noticed by my coworkers when i see u pass by my work area.

I have to avoid u as much as possible with out being cold to u because if i became near u i can't  help but be mesmerized by u to the point i look like a fool. I even started eating lunch  so far away to prevent this but uuu don't know.

U have no idea how i wait for ur dms when i get home. I look like a kid waiting for his mom on the door steps.

Nowadays even a late night chat with u feels like a hardcore cardio because i have to choose my word correctly to show u i live u with out saying i love u in my all weird ways. The funny thing is u take them well u reciprocate what is say but sometimes i don't know i feel like u don't get it.

And all the people who are reading this hr thinking why don't u tell her.
Really 😂!? It is fucking scary i have never felt this it feels stupid. I can't lose her no......what i mean is i don't wanna lose her. At the same time I can't let another man take her from me. For now there is no man on her radat(at least as far as i know).

she told me all the thing about not falling in love and alot other staff.I really tried not to fall for her but i couldn't she is just to hard not to love.

Yeah i gusse this much os good enough to vent.......yeah

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I ended my relationship with my ex almost 2 years ago on bad term, but out of nowhere I am having this thought or felt heavy on my heart. I wanted to check on her but I don't want to reopen an old wound. What do you think should I do?

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Another Almost Roll

As I sit here again, frustrated by my plug who was suppose to diliver my drugs last night for me to watch porn and jack off to girls that will never show any interest in me. I contemplate what all this means.

What am I scared of? What is all this really? And do I care ? In all honesty I do care. I just wanted to have great sex and be beautiful but apparently that's very expensive. People keep telling me life ain't easy and that everyone struggles, but then I wonder.....if everyone knew this then why do people keep having kids?

It is here now I realize the answer which is loneliness. Life is so bad and people need a reason to keep doing it. Otherwise they would have nothing to suffer for. And apparently I'm the reason for some deadbeat lawyer and some illiterate 19 year old to get together and find a reason to not put a rope around their necks.

The real fear now is being poor and having to beg people for money. Did I wake up too late to the realities of adulthood? Have I masturbated too much to trans porn? Or is this just a result of me spending too many hours in front of my computer watching the matrix on directors commentray, waiting to have a 'eureka' moment, that's gonna finally make all this make sense to me.

The only thing I learned so far is that, this is all about survival. Ultimately in the end people just don't wanna die. Everything else is cope.

In the end, all I want is to have sex with beautiful women and have the world like me. And then maybe be white and not black. Also maybe be Superman too. But I'll never have any of that.

They say suicide is unforgivable but murder is if you really repent. I wonder why. When I ask my dads they tell me its cause your life is not urs but belongs to God and ergo you can't take it and so its wrong. But when you take someone else's life he may forgive u? Hmm something is fishy here.....

Suicide is unforgivable cause when you do it.... You spit on the dillusion and suffering of everyone else. You show them that there is an easy way out, but everyone is scared to look down that aisle. In the end we do this shit for eachother.

I think about all the girls I wanted to fuck in high school. I genuinely wonder what the sex would be like. Maybe then I'd be a winner.

Sometimes I wonder about who I don't think about fucking ......and laugh!

I also think about the hoes that love hozier.....performative!

Bathroom is getting pumped today, as I sit here, smelling the feacal matter and toxins that come out of our household, I wonder if terds are psychic waste and if all your bad emotions and ruined orgasms and frustrations and secret cigarette addiction are somehow embedded in your shit. And the sewer is a giant reservoir full of that part of you that you never wanted to face. The part that makes you feel like your going crazy when your home alone on a Wednesday and its 7:pm

I'll never be a poet. Shit I won't even be on Sefu show on EBS. But I bet there is that one girl, with low self esteem who would sleep with me, until she realizes she can do better and leaves. Ugh.... Dating is hard. U know what else is hard? Me for Me. Nails.

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I need to vent. My name is M. I would like to express some feelings that have been weighing on me. It has been four months since my marriage, and I am experiencing emotional distress due to my husband's difficulties with intimacy. He often loses his erection when we are about to engage in sexual activity, and he rarely initiates intimacy approximately once every three days. When I attempt to initiate, he tends to reject me. This situation has left me feeling confused, rejected, and longing for a deeper connection. I can't help but wonder: does this mean he doesn't desire me or is not attracted to me?

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I have a question.

So I'm a 4th year university student and I have a girlfriend. We're the same age, come from similar family backgrounds and all that.

The thing I'm struggling with is...she's broke. Like...can't even pay for taxi broke. And before anyone comes for me I come from the same kind of family. The difference is I work while I'm in college, so at least I have enough to cover my own expenses.

She doesn't work. She just... exists. Sometimes she'll leave the house with literally no money, fully expecting that either I'll pay for her taxi and food or one of her friends will. Honestly I find it so embarrassing.

I'm not expecting her to be rich but at some point shouldn't an adult at least try to be responsible for themselves? It feels less like she's struggling financially and more like she's just gotten comfortable treating everyone around her like a backup wallet.

Do you think I should confront her about it? Because at this point, I'm starting to think I'm dating potential instead of an actual functioning adult. I didn't realize "having money for your own taxi" was setting the bar too high.

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I honestly havent left my room in like two weeks and I dont have anyone to talk to so Im just typing this out because my head is just spinning. before I left the country for school I was talking to this girl and my life was a complete mess back then, I was broke as hell and just so insecure but she just latched onto me and I ended up doing all this stupid stuff I would never normally do. like I hate the bus but I was taking this awful 2 hour bus ride every single weekend just to sit on her couch and do nothing, I kept wrecking my sleep schedule staying up til 3 am and just to keep a conversation going with her. I remember sitting on that bus feeling so annoyed wondering why the hell am I even doing this because I kept telling myself we had no future and I was gonna end it anyway, so it made zero sense why I was putting myself through all that for a girl I was planning to drop. but eventually I just felt like such a loser next to her so I kept pushing her away and telling her I litereally had nothing to offer, I gave her that bullshit line about how I was doing it for her own good. she would just cry and say she didnt care about money or any of that and she just wanted me to let her in, but then I got accepted to study abroad and just used it as an easy way out. I told her things were going off the rails and she was just a distraction, and when she just wanted to talk and understand why I was acting so cold I just ghosted her and ignored her messages and eventually blocked her on absolutely everything so I could force myself to move on. And for a while I really thought I did, I was over there for school and I just put my head down and focused on getting my degree and my life sorted, just put her out of my mind and honestly thought I was over it. but I moved back recently and I was at this family gathering just sitting there having a normal day and my cousin casually brought her up, just randomly said it was such a shame what happened to her. I just looked at him and he told me she took her own life a year ago while I was away. I went completely numb. I quietly made an excuse and left early and came home and I honestly havent left the house since. the pain doesnt even feel like normal sadness it just feels like my chest is hollowed out and empty. I cant eat and I cant sleep, I just lie here in the dark imagining how different things would be if I had just given us a chance. I keep replaying every single time she begged me to just let her in and I just selfishly shut the door in her face. She was brave enough to want to risk everything for us and I wish I was as brave. I keep hearing my own voice telling her I cant give her what she wants and it litereally eats me alive, I just stare at the ceiling for hours trying to figure out how I could be so cruel to the one person who actually saw me when I had absolutely nothing. I feel like I killed the person I loved the most just because I was an insecure coward. I keep hallucinating my phone buzzing and I immediately check every app thinking its a text from her even though I know shes gone, my brain just wont accept it. I would give litereally anything to just go back in time and accept whatever she said, to just agree to everything she asked and do anything for her, I would take back every single excuse I made. The sickest part is looking back now I realize the whole time I was abroad grinding for my degree, I was subconsciously just trying to become a guy that actually deserved her. I thought I was moving on but I was really just trying to build a life I wasnt embarrassed to offer her. and now I got the degree and the life I thought I wanted and Im just rotting in silence because shes gone and its completely my fault. Everything I did feels like it was for nothing. I dont see any hope for myself. I hate who I am. I hate what I did. I hate how much of a coward I am. I want her back so bad. I want to hear her voice again. I want her to scream at me again. I just want her back.

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Hey y'all just a random guy here about to be 27 soon. i wanted to share my experience for those who might relate to it and let it out too
So here is the thing I've been in in relationships,situationships, and casual random dates, but i can't seem to be enough for what the game requires. Lately I've stopped all those efforts and tried to focus on work chirash shit got real and those randoms wave loneliness started to become a tsunami and all i can do about it is finding something to make myself busy with and yet it still grows stronger. You might say meeh couldn’t be me believe it or not you will be cause i used to say that too. a little bit of advice for the younger ones' please hold on to the woman you cherish and love no friendships and this casual thing dont last forever it will end someday and you will find yourself standing in the middle of the road and asking yourself when did starting to fell off. Might come back soon with more until then goodbye.

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ሴቶችዬ ዛሬ እስኪ ስለ ቁመት ላውራችሁ::
Fyi (I am 1.83 so this is not a jealousy post)
most women now a days state they want to date or marry a guy who is equals to 1.80 or above.
Over years when I go to any public places in Addis, I mostly noticed tall men are rare, e.g in taxi ሰልፍ, group of 20-25 men, ብዙ ግዜ 3-5 men are tall from that crowd including myself. Ofc, there were exceptions sometimes.
So I decided to do the maths.
Ethiopian men average height 1.70 (even ethio airlines is set to that standard)
desired height for the trend 1.78 or above
Addis population is around 5.5 M, women are slightly higher but let's be kind and round that to 50%
From total population of men, around 15% are 1.78 or above
Narrowing it with age (18-40) = it will become 7.2% rounding to 8%
If 3% of them are Married= it would be around 5% for the tall singles.
18-40 (37% of total population / 1M women ) from total 2.75M = if 50 % are single which be 500K single women

If 20% of the single tall men are financial stable due to difficult economic status

Resulting 20 to 25 women competing with 1 tall single financial stable man.

If we add being handsome or religion or any vibe, the man starting to be like unicorn.
Maybe, 20 - 50 tall handsome men are already dm to you every day but don't you think 90% of them wants to smash and not to settle. Cause most tall men knew they have demand in the market so they are using it to be a fck boy. Which most women here vent about. There are exceptional good God fearing tall rich men, they exist. And Normally women in avg are shorter. So most men with 1.70 are already taller than most women. But,
if women are so obsessed lifting up the requirements of height way above. it is like narrowing the probability of finding the other qualities from these men.

Superficial ለሆኑ ወንዶችም, i will be back for part 2 with another maths. 😅

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Heyyy
( i just saw a girl post the same as mine so I thought why not give it a try😌) anyways I’m 22F in need of new friends. Not gonna lie, I have an old friend group, but we’ve kind of outgrown each other.completely banzegagam we meet call mnamn but still you know…. Anyways I need 😭 friends “girl” friends not boy beka genuine yehone abren maturedm weirdm act mareg mnchl also like someone who can grab coffee or drinks(I promise betam techi adlewm don’t judge😂) or zm beln walk eyaregn slnefelf simple hangout ke class mels or andande yetekabdede😁 aynet mareg mnchl dressed mnamn honen aleaaa the girl vibes bcha positive genuine yehone girl friendship amrognall not toxic pls ena if you’re in need of new friends like me ofcourse😂 pls dm you know… new circle aykefam😌

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Wtf is wrong with men these days?
They all don't like "going outside "
They all invite you over at their "house"
They all want to "watch a movie "
They all want "home cooked meal"

What happened to have coffee, let's have dinner at some restaurant or even have a damn walk?

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I don’t even know where to start for the girls how did you get over that first love in you 20s

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የማደርገው ግራ ስለገባኝ ነው የምፅፍላችሁ የእውነት እርዳታችሁ ያስፈልገኛል ብቸኛ ነኝ ከጎኔ የሚቆም ማንም የለኝም ብቻዬን ነው የምታገለው በጣም አቃተኝ ምን እንደማደርግ ግራ ገባኝ ማርያምን ግራ ገባኝ ለፋሁ ለፋሁ አቃተኝ የመጨረሻ አማራጭ ብዬ የያዝኩት እራሴን ማጥፋት ነው ክርስቶስን ሁሉ ነገር ድክም ብሎኛል ሰው ወዶ አደለም እራሱ ላይ የሚጨክነው እኮ የእውነት ግራ ቢገባው ሚያረገው እንደኔ ግራ ሲገባው ነው እርዱኝ በማርያም የእራብን ስሜት የሚያውቀው የራበው ሰው ብቻ ነው እዚህ ውስጥ ተቸግራችሁ የምታውቁ ግን እግዚሀብሄር ችግራችሁን ያስረሳችሁ በብዙ ድካም ብቸኝነት አልፋችሁ እዚህ ያደረሳችሁ እናንተ ትረዱኛላችሁ እባካችሁ ያላችሁን እርዱኝ በማርያም እኔም እንደናንተ ይህን ቀን አልፌ ሰው ልሁን እርዱኝ🙏

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Guys how do you move on from someone like it has been 3 years but i still think about the same person

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