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Wait wait wait!!! Can we all take a second and breathe? Actually I will just do the breathing. Why in the freaking hell is my friend a giggling mess because the guy she been messing with told her she is a wifey material after she told him she cooks and bakes??? Note that, they have been having a conversation with depth and they been interviewing eachother. She cooks and bakes and suddenly, he decides to say “oh you are a wifey material”. She is the most intelligent( actually take this back because she can’t see the stupidity in him), morally strong, reliable, hustler, responsible and independent person I have seen. I am so sure he realised this on their first link up. But after all that, the cooking is what makes her a wife. Dedeb respectfully, go and do acrobat in hell. I am fuming!! I told her that’s a red flag and now this stupid ass thinks I am just hating on men. I mean that’s true 😂😂 but not in this scenario. Those men who see the “wifeness” in a woman just because of her ability to cook and clean is sick. It is not that I have issues with the “wife material” comment btw. I received that but I got that after they saw me working for more than 12 hours or I was hospitable when guests came to my house or I prepared a whole body and face care treatment with the massages for them after a long day or I booked an appointment with a business and talked with them for my partners or I take over and do it for them when they are negligent. I am going to be present and available but ain’t no way, a man will see me as a wife just because I cook. I told all men I have dated so far that I can’t cook and don’t like washing dishes during the pursue time. You would be surprised to know the amount of men who see wife as a home care provider I filtered. I can cook. I can throw down Ethiopian and western food but hell no I will place myself on a platter to be chosen because of that. Well guess what, the real ones stayed. The ones who want a partner in life and not Yebet serategna. They were all amazing. Never had a toxic r/s. Not even once. Ofc we don’t talk anymore but I still admire and wish all the best to my exes. We both did the cooking together while they cleaned the dishes (can’t do dishes at all. Love my hand so much for that😅). More than the wife material comment I liked these more tho 😂😂
“You are difficult”
“ uffff it takes a lot to satisfy you”
“Damn it is like, I already have a wife and a daughter”
“You are like a lemon with sugar”
“Chemlaka nesh but I can handle you”
And all of them were said during lovey dovey times not during fights. Ain’t gonna lie made me love them more 😂 you see how beautiful they sound 😂😂😂 Regardless of these remarks, they treated me the best. They were lovely until I realised we are not compatible long term and I cut it off.
PS: this is to my amazing ladies, please please don’t be fooled with the wife material comment. Gauge the context. And most of all, don’t be too nice. Don’t do too much at the beginning stage. You don’t give them space to prove themselves. I know when we love, we want to do all but bite yourself and keep it. Let it flow slowly. Keep being sour and bitter until they earn the sweetness. Even that, you will start with a spoonful of sugar a day and increase it gradually depending on what they show you. 🤗 have a lovely day ❤️
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Wait wait wait!!! Can we all take a second and breathe? Actually I will just do the breathing. Why in the freaking hell is my friend a giggling mess because the guy she been messing with told her she is a wifey material after she told him she cooks and bakes??? Note that, they have been having a conversation with depth and they been interviewing eachother. She cooks and bakes and suddenly, he decides to say “oh you are a wifey material”. She is the most intelligent( actually take this back because she can’t see the stupidity in him), morally strong, reliable, hustler, responsible and independent person I have seen. I am so sure he realised this on their first link up. But after all that, the cooking is what makes her a wife. Dedeb respectfully, go and do acrobat in hell. I am fuming!! I told her that’s a red flag and now this stupid ass thinks I am just hating on men. I mean that’s true 😂😂 but not in this scenario. Those men who see the “wifeness” in a woman just because of her ability to cook and clean is sick. It is not that I have issues with the “wife material” comment btw. I received that but I got that after they saw me working for more than 12 hours or I was hospitable when guests came to my house or I prepared a whole body and face care treatment with the massages for them after a long day or I booked an appointment with a business and talked with them for my partners or I take over and do it for them when they are negligent. I am going to be present and available but ain’t no way, a man will see me as a wife just because I cook. I told all men I have dated so far that I can’t cook and don’t like washing dishes during the pursue time. You would be surprised to know the amount of men who see wife as a home care provider I filtered. I can cook. I can throw down Ethiopian and western food but hell no I will place myself on a platter to be chosen because of that. Well guess what, the real ones stayed. The ones who want a partner in life and not Yebet serategna. They were all amazing. Never had a toxic r/s. Not even once. Ofc we don’t talk anymore but I still admire and wish all the best to my exes. We both did the cooking together while they cleaned the dishes (can’t do dishes at all. Love my hand so much for that😅). More than the wife material comment I liked these more tho 😂😂
“You are difficult”
“ uffff it takes a lot to satisfy you”
“Damn it is like, I already have a wife and a daughter”
“You are like a lemon with sugar”
“Chemlaka nesh but I can handle you”
And all of them were said during lovey dovey times not during fights. Ain’t gonna lie made me love them more 😂 you see how beautiful they sound 😂😂😂 Regardless of these remarks, they treated me the best. They were lovely until I realised we are not compatible long term and I cut it off.
PS: this is to my amazing ladies, please please don’t be fooled with the wife material comment. Gauge the context. And most of all, don’t be too nice. Don’t do too much at the beginning stage. You don’t give them space to prove themselves. I know when we love, we want to do all but bite yourself and keep it. Let it flow slowly. Keep being sour and bitter until they earn the sweetness. Even that, you will start with a spoonful of sugar a day and increase it gradually depending on what they show you. 🤗 have a lovely day ❤️
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I am a 29-year-old male living alone in Koye Fech. My work is also around here, and life has become just going to work and coming home. I need some good friends for conversation and to grab some coffee.
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I am so lustfull I can't control it...I hv given up...idk my be creat a club for ppl like me..I don't know how to continue living fighting am 29 male since I was 12....things only get worse freaky and more perverted idk ..
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I am so lustfull I can't control it...I hv given up...idk my be creat a club for ppl like me..I don't know how to continue living fighting am 29 male since I was 12....things only get worse freaky and more perverted idk ..
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hey 25f i met this guy he is my friends stepbrother astewawekchin ena one lead to another we start dating he is nice guy smart n someone who knows what he wants but he has a best friend who’s with him 24/7 which was weird at first ke gize bewala i get used to it he became my friend too but the problem is i started to notice sth like his best friend compliments me more zan he do n do things for me my man should’ve done n i keep telling him ante mareg yeneberebhn eko new esu eyarege yalew kelel arge but he was okay with it ay esuko she is the right one for him blo slewededesh new yilegnal gn not only me my friends also start to notice that n it became concerning sngenagn sostachin his best friend is the one who told me that he miss me andande n notice every lil change in me n give me compliments he don’t mind drinking my drinks they live together ena wn i sleep over tewat egna yalenbet room lemgbat alga lay kegnaga kuch malet megadem aydebrewm actually both so yene tyake wt shld i do is this thing normal ik it’s not gn why r they acting like it’s normal
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hey 25f i met this guy he is my friends stepbrother astewawekchin ena one lead to another we start dating he is nice guy smart n someone who knows what he wants but he has a best friend who’s with him 24/7 which was weird at first ke gize bewala i get used to it he became my friend too but the problem is i started to notice sth like his best friend compliments me more zan he do n do things for me my man should’ve done n i keep telling him ante mareg yeneberebhn eko new esu eyarege yalew kelel arge but he was okay with it ay esuko she is the right one for him blo slewededesh new yilegnal gn not only me my friends also start to notice that n it became concerning sngenagn sostachin his best friend is the one who told me that he miss me andande n notice every lil change in me n give me compliments he don’t mind drinking my drinks they live together ena wn i sleep over tewat egna yalenbet room lemgbat alga lay kegnaga kuch malet megadem aydebrewm actually both so yene tyake wt shld i do is this thing normal ik it’s not gn why r they acting like it’s normal
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Hey everyone 26 f here , look I am a smart ,sexy and determined kind of girl like the full package and I thank GOD for everything I mean I love how my mind works and how I am down to earth and get my hands dirty or hustle to build my life yet still keep this smoking feminine side of me you know , here is the problem I have tried to build business for the past few years like good lead major types of businesses Garment and furniture products and i have lost everything this past year it’s not like both were fully built and structured yet but I believe in starting small and growing which has worked for the first 2 years and I thought I was on the right path but now you all know how the system and the market is killing small businesses and here I stand in the middle of debts and the coming government taxes, I have managed most of it as in machines sheche mensmen but you know dekemegi ahun as in it’s killing me too slow I have lost my motive on any thing really and I am the type of person who would find her way out from anything ; I guess not from everything and learning this is humbling! I want to live life to the fullest as in try everything, do everything ,go out , date, change my families life , do something valuable blah blah … but now 🙄 God I don’t know what to do I hate asking for help or be like ብልጥ as some girls and get money from a man I think I can do it easily befeleg but the thought of it rasu makes me want to vomit I do want a man who is provider and a leader you know wend yehone gobezo miyagobez kind of partner that’s what I want yet esun mefeleg rasu leal tarik new yehonebegi at this point 😅 ዉሀ ቅዳ ዉሀ መልስ new yehonebeg everything I swear I want like some savior out of these ,some guardian angel because being tide financially in your pick years 😣 menor eyefelegu menore alemechale is the worst! I haven’t been dating for the past 4 years cuz this isn’t the person or the life I want to put out and share with someone and I have been bowing down to fix my finances since it’s the major issue in my life during these past years because I know I am so much more than this like so much more yet here I stand in the middle of kisara no one to lean on or advice to . God help me eji ene alakem and I never say alakem i thought you could make things work if you work smarter and harder and as it is to all of us surprise surprise politics can really suppress you uffffffff……any how do I feel like I need ከወለድ ነፃ አራጣ አበዳሪ 😁 I mean I am a very trustworthy person and have good loan records so if some one can lend me money serche mekefelew let say in 3 years that would be great😁 or let’s make it ኳስ በመሬት እና if I get a good paying job like a high paying any position to help me pick my self up , thank you for your advice too
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Hey everyone 26 f here , look I am a smart ,sexy and determined kind of girl like the full package and I thank GOD for everything I mean I love how my mind works and how I am down to earth and get my hands dirty or hustle to build my life yet still keep this smoking feminine side of me you know , here is the problem I have tried to build business for the past few years like good lead major types of businesses Garment and furniture products and i have lost everything this past year it’s not like both were fully built and structured yet but I believe in starting small and growing which has worked for the first 2 years and I thought I was on the right path but now you all know how the system and the market is killing small businesses and here I stand in the middle of debts and the coming government taxes, I have managed most of it as in machines sheche mensmen but you know dekemegi ahun as in it’s killing me too slow I have lost my motive on any thing really and I am the type of person who would find her way out from anything ; I guess not from everything and learning this is humbling! I want to live life to the fullest as in try everything, do everything ,go out , date, change my families life , do something valuable blah blah … but now 🙄 God I don’t know what to do I hate asking for help or be like ብልጥ as some girls and get money from a man I think I can do it easily befeleg but the thought of it rasu makes me want to vomit I do want a man who is provider and a leader you know wend yehone gobezo miyagobez kind of partner that’s what I want yet esun mefeleg rasu leal tarik new yehonebegi at this point 😅 ዉሀ ቅዳ ዉሀ መልስ new yehonebeg everything I swear I want like some savior out of these ,some guardian angel because being tide financially in your pick years 😣 menor eyefelegu menore alemechale is the worst! I haven’t been dating for the past 4 years cuz this isn’t the person or the life I want to put out and share with someone and I have been bowing down to fix my finances since it’s the major issue in my life during these past years because I know I am so much more than this like so much more yet here I stand in the middle of kisara no one to lean on or advice to . God help me eji ene alakem and I never say alakem i thought you could make things work if you work smarter and harder and as it is to all of us surprise surprise politics can really suppress you uffffffff……any how do I feel like I need ከወለድ ነፃ አራጣ አበዳሪ 😁 I mean I am a very trustworthy person and have good loan records so if some one can lend me money serche mekefelew let say in 3 years that would be great😁 or let’s make it ኳስ በመሬት እና if I get a good paying job like a high paying any position to help me pick my self up , thank you for your advice too
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I love them, they’re my childhood friends. But whenever i hangout with them, i feel like we grew apart. Whenever i make a joke, they make me feel like i said something dumb or ridiculous. Now am slowly starting to compare them to my college friends whom i vibe with and click 💯!
Dont get me wrong i love my childhood friends too, but i feel belittled and small with them. Esp 1 girl in particular keeps making comments in things i did and they laugh. I genuinely am considering not hanging up with them as much regardless of the history we got.
I am always the sensitive one when am with them and it’s time to respect myself.
Idk maybe its all in my head
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I love them, they’re my childhood friends. But whenever i hangout with them, i feel like we grew apart. Whenever i make a joke, they make me feel like i said something dumb or ridiculous. Now am slowly starting to compare them to my college friends whom i vibe with and click 💯!
Dont get me wrong i love my childhood friends too, but i feel belittled and small with them. Esp 1 girl in particular keeps making comments in things i did and they laugh. I genuinely am considering not hanging up with them as much regardless of the history we got.
I am always the sensitive one when am with them and it’s time to respect myself.
Idk maybe its all in my head
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Hey there, esti lets talk
I want to know how life is after marriage, specially in this generation like their daily life , household and work , marriage before babies and after babies and also sexual life (how often u do it ), plus connection with your family (parents) becha i wanna know every thing
I don't get a chance to see mom and dad marrige life as my dad died when i was 8...berget our parents don't tell us detail about this..
I feel like marriage is a big thing, that u creat ur own family so i am curios to know the life so tell me what are the good things you get? The real joy and struggles endezi benaderg noro more happiest enhon neber mitlut
if u are divorced (and nowadays there are so many divorces), what things led u to divorce? Can it be fixed? like how much u try to fix plus do u regret it later like i wish i did this mnamn
Now adays marriage sound like a terrible idea fr as we all exposed to social media it really affect our thought .. but we know this is the future of many of us, So I wanna hear real and thougtful response from people who have experienced it or from what u have heard from ur closest
Thanks for ur answers
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I want to know how life is after marriage, specially in this generation like their daily life , household and work , marriage before babies and after babies and also sexual life (how often u do it ), plus connection with your family (parents) becha i wanna know every thing
I don't get a chance to see mom and dad marrige life as my dad died when i was 8...berget our parents don't tell us detail about this..
I feel like marriage is a big thing, that u creat ur own family so i am curios to know the life so tell me what are the good things you get? The real joy and struggles endezi benaderg noro more happiest enhon neber mitlut
if u are divorced (and nowadays there are so many divorces), what things led u to divorce? Can it be fixed? like how much u try to fix plus do u regret it later like i wish i did this mnamn
Now adays marriage sound like a terrible idea fr as we all exposed to social media it really affect our thought .. but we know this is the future of many of us, So I wanna hear real and thougtful response from people who have experienced it or from what u have heard from ur closest
Thanks for ur answers
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I am 26 male ,i just graduated although it was a night program so the pressure of finding job have always been there since i came from uni first year my family thinks i am fucking lazy i have tried many jobs for the past 5 years always starting and just leaving it i can't focus on things , memory problems , being impulsive thought i could fix it my self went to ፀበል a lot of times although i am kind of agnostic ,meditation none of worked so i went to a psychiatrist and diagnosed with chronic anxiety since i have started the meds its been great when i am off them spiral to same old me now i feel like i wasted my best years and have to start over which is fucking ዝገት my plan was after graduation going to sheger and work at a good company or starting my own i never thought of doing anything other than being a software dev but considering the job market i might have to start የቀን ስራ i am depressed i don't think any drug or alcohol is gonna make a difference also i have been so horny for so long i think my dick is shrinking
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I am 26 male ,i just graduated although it was a night program so the pressure of finding job have always been there since i came from uni first year my family thinks i am fucking lazy i have tried many jobs for the past 5 years always starting and just leaving it i can't focus on things , memory problems , being impulsive thought i could fix it my self went to ፀበል a lot of times although i am kind of agnostic ,meditation none of worked so i went to a psychiatrist and diagnosed with chronic anxiety since i have started the meds its been great when i am off them spiral to same old me now i feel like i wasted my best years and have to start over which is fucking ዝገት my plan was after graduation going to sheger and work at a good company or starting my own i never thought of doing anything other than being a software dev but considering the job market i might have to start የቀን ስራ i am depressed i don't think any drug or alcohol is gonna make a difference also i have been so horny for so long i think my dick is shrinking
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I can only speak for myself but YES!!! I love chubby girls. Whatever you call them . . . thick, fat, obese, bbw, plus size. I got extreme love for them, I never mind their belly fat. I enjoy their everything.
I love plus size I was very attracted to soft plump body and womanly curves.
I hope to find that woman who is happy in her own skin, does NOT want to go on a diet and can be her true self. I want her to be happy with who she is, know that I love her fat chubby body exactly as it is and see her as sexy and beautiful.
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I can only speak for myself but YES!!! I love chubby girls. Whatever you call them . . . thick, fat, obese, bbw, plus size. I got extreme love for them, I never mind their belly fat. I enjoy their everything.
I love plus size I was very attracted to soft plump body and womanly curves.
I hope to find that woman who is happy in her own skin, does NOT want to go on a diet and can be her true self. I want her to be happy with who she is, know that I love her fat chubby body exactly as it is and see her as sexy and beautiful.
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I am a guy who has been in solitude for quite some time now for different reasons.
Now it feels like time for me to travel and enjoy yk ena my plan is to do it alone from scratch.
So people who visit other places, attend events alone etc... Please show me the ropes on how you do it also other groups to do that.
I really have the need/confidence to do it alone but i want do it the right way yk without making myself look like a creep and actually having fun.
So any adivce here means alot!
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I am a guy who has been in solitude for quite some time now for different reasons.
Now it feels like time for me to travel and enjoy yk ena my plan is to do it alone from scratch.
So people who visit other places, attend events alone etc... Please show me the ropes on how you do it also other groups to do that.
I really have the need/confidence to do it alone but i want do it the right way yk without making myself look like a creep and actually having fun.
So any adivce here means alot!
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Hi guys. I hope you all are doing ok. M 27. I have a job and earning medium. Recently, i tried to aproach some womens for ጅንጀና። and came across a lot of womens who misrepresenting me as a cheater, drunk, and dishonest by just hearing that I'm passive believer while I'm not that type of man. . The fact that I'm not religious man doesn't mean I'm a bad or evil guy. I'm just lojical and reasonable man with a good understanding of feeling of others. But these days people are valuing worth of someone by looking at how much closer he/she is to her religion practice when it comes to relation ship. I just wanna be with a women who doesn't require strictly my complyance to religious stuffs.
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Hi guys. I hope you all are doing ok. M 27. I have a job and earning medium. Recently, i tried to aproach some womens for ጅንጀና። and came across a lot of womens who misrepresenting me as a cheater, drunk, and dishonest by just hearing that I'm passive believer while I'm not that type of man. . The fact that I'm not religious man doesn't mean I'm a bad or evil guy. I'm just lojical and reasonable man with a good understanding of feeling of others. But these days people are valuing worth of someone by looking at how much closer he/she is to her religion practice when it comes to relation ship. I just wanna be with a women who doesn't require strictly my complyance to religious stuffs.
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hey peeps. 24 male here.
so I work in a remote job and I am kinda struggling with my social life. no friends, my last relationship ended badly so I am not thinking of opening that door anytime soon lol and I was just looking to make some friends, I live by myself and I am getting ridiculously bored out of my mind. So if you guys can recommend any good places to make friends or socialize, i'd be more than happy to take your suggestions. I went from a pretty social and community based job to working 24/7 by myself so my mental health is deteriorating alarmingly and I'll be more than happy to hear what you guys have to say. thanks
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hey peeps. 24 male here.
so I work in a remote job and I am kinda struggling with my social life. no friends, my last relationship ended badly so I am not thinking of opening that door anytime soon lol and I was just looking to make some friends, I live by myself and I am getting ridiculously bored out of my mind. So if you guys can recommend any good places to make friends or socialize, i'd be more than happy to take your suggestions. I went from a pretty social and community based job to working 24/7 by myself so my mental health is deteriorating alarmingly and I'll be more than happy to hear what you guys have to say. thanks
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not sure this channel still works like it used to but finally I'm here with my veryyy first vent ever... cuz loneliness finally hit.
call me BLUE cuz I'll probably be sharing a lot of stories here using this name.
So here's the thing... I'm 25F, an only child, and I grew up in a miserable family with separated parents. I used to do really well in school while my cousins didn't, and somehow that turned into this weird, unhealthy competition between our families. every little thing their kids did was compared to me. I graduated, and now one of my cousins the same one who used to hate my major so much is getting the exact same degree next year...😂
The worst part has always been my relationship with my mom. She can love me one day and hate me the next. whenever things got bad between us, those relatives somehow always found a way to make it worse instead of better. And now... she literally kicked me out.
I've been staying at my aunty's house..the only aunt I genuinely love and the only one that actually feels healthy to be around. The crazy part? Before all this happened, I was planning to surprise her(my mom) with a big celebration for her 50th birthday. now those same relatives are the ones throwing the party... and they even invited me. 😂 Like... they don't even care what situation I'm in right now.
FYI, I'm unemployed, completely clueless about my life, and already broken enough. But somehow it feels like they're still finding new ways to remind me that I don't belong anywhere.
Anyway... that's enough trauma dumping for my first post. BLUE has a lot more stories to tell—probably starting from when I was one year old. 😂 I'll see if this channel still gives the kind of engagement it used to. If it does, I'll keep sharing... one story at a time.. also since am homeless and i need money for atleast to rent home should I sell the Gold my dad gave me??
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not sure this channel still works like it used to but finally I'm here with my veryyy first vent ever... cuz loneliness finally hit.
call me BLUE cuz I'll probably be sharing a lot of stories here using this name.
So here's the thing... I'm 25F, an only child, and I grew up in a miserable family with separated parents. I used to do really well in school while my cousins didn't, and somehow that turned into this weird, unhealthy competition between our families. every little thing their kids did was compared to me. I graduated, and now one of my cousins the same one who used to hate my major so much is getting the exact same degree next year...😂
The worst part has always been my relationship with my mom. She can love me one day and hate me the next. whenever things got bad between us, those relatives somehow always found a way to make it worse instead of better. And now... she literally kicked me out.
I've been staying at my aunty's house..the only aunt I genuinely love and the only one that actually feels healthy to be around. The crazy part? Before all this happened, I was planning to surprise her(my mom) with a big celebration for her 50th birthday. now those same relatives are the ones throwing the party... and they even invited me. 😂 Like... they don't even care what situation I'm in right now.
FYI, I'm unemployed, completely clueless about my life, and already broken enough. But somehow it feels like they're still finding new ways to remind me that I don't belong anywhere.
Anyway... that's enough trauma dumping for my first post. BLUE has a lot more stories to tell—probably starting from when I was one year old. 😂 I'll see if this channel still gives the kind of engagement it used to. If it does, I'll keep sharing... one story at a time.. also since am homeless and i need money for atleast to rent home should I sell the Gold my dad gave me??
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We haven't really been part of each other's lives, and it's been years since we last had any real connection. But even with all that time and distance, I felt like I needed 2 tell u something I've never been able 2 fully put into words.
I've already told u how I feel, so this isn't really about trying 2 convince u of anything. It's just me being honest. I love u, and for a long time I've carried those feelings quietly.
There's one thing I've never explained. I've always had a split mentality. One part of me hoped that maybe, somehow, life would give us a chance and that one day u'd choose me. The other part of me always believed u deserve someone better than me someone who can give u everything u've ever dreamed of.
It wasn't because my feelings weren't real or because I didn't value myself. It was because I cared about ur happiness more than my own hopes. I never wanted my feelings 2 become a reason for u 2 settle or feel pressured.
So I've lived with both thoughts at the same time: hoping for us, while also hoping u find whatever and whoever truly makes u happy. That's what I mean by my split mentality.
I don't know what the future holds, and I'm not expecting anything from u. I just wanted u 2 know the truth about how I've felt all this time. No matter what happens, I'll always wish u happiness, peace, and a life full of love. Ass
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We haven't really been part of each other's lives, and it's been years since we last had any real connection. But even with all that time and distance, I felt like I needed 2 tell u something I've never been able 2 fully put into words.
I've already told u how I feel, so this isn't really about trying 2 convince u of anything. It's just me being honest. I love u, and for a long time I've carried those feelings quietly.
There's one thing I've never explained. I've always had a split mentality. One part of me hoped that maybe, somehow, life would give us a chance and that one day u'd choose me. The other part of me always believed u deserve someone better than me someone who can give u everything u've ever dreamed of.
It wasn't because my feelings weren't real or because I didn't value myself. It was because I cared about ur happiness more than my own hopes. I never wanted my feelings 2 become a reason for u 2 settle or feel pressured.
So I've lived with both thoughts at the same time: hoping for us, while also hoping u find whatever and whoever truly makes u happy. That's what I mean by my split mentality.
I don't know what the future holds, and I'm not expecting anything from u. I just wanted u 2 know the truth about how I've felt all this time. No matter what happens, I'll always wish u happiness, peace, and a life full of love. Ass
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I’m a woman in my late 20s, and I’ve never been in a serious relationship. When I’ve tried to date, things tend to move toward sex very quickly, but I find that I’m not able to get in the mood in those situations. Because of that, I haven’t slept with anyone.
Over time, I’ve come to understand more about myself and what I’m attracted to. I tend to feel turned on when I have a sense of control or when I take on a more dominant role—being able to guide the dynamic and be very aware of my partner’s responses. I’m especially drawn to partners who are sensitive to touch and responsive, as that kind of connection is what really works for me.
The challenge is that I haven’t been able to find someone who understands or is open to this. Most of the men I meet try to rush into sex before there’s any real communication about preferences or boundaries. I want a serious, meaningful relationship, but I’m struggling to find someone who accepts and respects what I need.
So I guess my question is: what should I do, and where can I find someone who’s open to this kind of connection?
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I’m a woman in my late 20s, and I’ve never been in a serious relationship. When I’ve tried to date, things tend to move toward sex very quickly, but I find that I’m not able to get in the mood in those situations. Because of that, I haven’t slept with anyone.
Over time, I’ve come to understand more about myself and what I’m attracted to. I tend to feel turned on when I have a sense of control or when I take on a more dominant role—being able to guide the dynamic and be very aware of my partner’s responses. I’m especially drawn to partners who are sensitive to touch and responsive, as that kind of connection is what really works for me.
The challenge is that I haven’t been able to find someone who understands or is open to this. Most of the men I meet try to rush into sex before there’s any real communication about preferences or boundaries. I want a serious, meaningful relationship, but I’m struggling to find someone who accepts and respects what I need.
So I guess my question is: what should I do, and where can I find someone who’s open to this kind of connection?
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I(M25) was talking to my friend yesterday ena he was telling me about his experience with his gf and he told me he couldnt make her finish, mind you they been dating for a while and intimate for a while now. It has always bewildered me when people say that, i have been with 2 women romantically and sexually and not once did i have a problem with pleasing them. I was able to make them finish first day we were intimate. This isnt to brag at all, i have not doing anything special or anything like that. It is honestly a few things you need to do as a man to please your woman. First and most important thing is to have them relax and want to do it, in our culture women are thought it is taboo to have any sexual relation, no matter their orientations, and because of that it is after a lotta push from their man that they agree. It is to say most of the time they are anxious of the consequences after so yea it is your job to make her want it and not force her into it. Second foreplay more foreplay and even more foreplay, this could be makeout or if you are comfortable going down on her(shower before) if you are good enough at this and do it well she might finish just from the thought of doing it. Finally during the main action, DONT RUSH IT!. Take your time and enjoy it, edge yourself if you have to. Trust me this will change your life and you will see how easy it is.
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I(M25) was talking to my friend yesterday ena he was telling me about his experience with his gf and he told me he couldnt make her finish, mind you they been dating for a while and intimate for a while now. It has always bewildered me when people say that, i have been with 2 women romantically and sexually and not once did i have a problem with pleasing them. I was able to make them finish first day we were intimate. This isnt to brag at all, i have not doing anything special or anything like that. It is honestly a few things you need to do as a man to please your woman. First and most important thing is to have them relax and want to do it, in our culture women are thought it is taboo to have any sexual relation, no matter their orientations, and because of that it is after a lotta push from their man that they agree. It is to say most of the time they are anxious of the consequences after so yea it is your job to make her want it and not force her into it. Second foreplay more foreplay and even more foreplay, this could be makeout or if you are comfortable going down on her(shower before) if you are good enough at this and do it well she might finish just from the thought of doing it. Finally during the main action, DONT RUSH IT!. Take your time and enjoy it, edge yourself if you have to. Trust me this will change your life and you will see how easy it is.
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I was in a 1 year short program in france. And while i was their i met this girl she was a bit of freak anyways this isnt a vent about her instead i wanna talk about what we did. So we were heavily into bdsm and till this day i still have the tools and toys we used. Anyways im back in ethiopia and it has been more than a year since i returned and i have convinced some women into it but they never seem to commit like the french girl. It always seems like they are doing it for me and they arent having fun, which is boring as hell. Anyways i have tried dating sites and even a Fet but not a single girl in ethio i have found is deeply into it.
So i got a question how do you guys that find girls like this do it?
Also are ethio women not into this shit?
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I was in a 1 year short program in france. And while i was their i met this girl she was a bit of freak anyways this isnt a vent about her instead i wanna talk about what we did. So we were heavily into bdsm and till this day i still have the tools and toys we used. Anyways im back in ethiopia and it has been more than a year since i returned and i have convinced some women into it but they never seem to commit like the french girl. It always seems like they are doing it for me and they arent having fun, which is boring as hell. Anyways i have tried dating sites and even a Fet but not a single girl in ethio i have found is deeply into it.
So i got a question how do you guys that find girls like this do it?
Also are ethio women not into this shit?
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I work in an office, and there's a guy I get along with really well. We talk almost every day, joke around, and sometimes flirt a little. I started to like him because we seemed to have a good connection, and I enjoyed spending time with him at work.
The thing is, when it comes to dating, I'm someone who likes to take things slowly. I want to get to know the person first, build trust, and see if we're a good match before anything physical happens. That's just how I am.
A few days ago, we agreed to meet outside of work early in the morning before our shift started. I thought we were just going to spend some time together and get to know each other better. Instead, he surprised me by kissing me. I wasn't expecting it at all, and it made me feel uncomfortable because I wasn't ready. It felt like things moved too fast for me.
Since then, I can't stop thinking about it. I feel like he may be more interested in the physical side of a relationship than actually getting to know me, and that has changed the way I see him. Now things feel awkward between us at work. I don't know how to act around him anymore, and I find it hard to even look at him. I also don't want things to become uncomfortable since we work together.
Am I overthinking this, or is it reasonable to feel this way? What would you do if you were in my situation? So what should i do?
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I work in an office, and there's a guy I get along with really well. We talk almost every day, joke around, and sometimes flirt a little. I started to like him because we seemed to have a good connection, and I enjoyed spending time with him at work.
The thing is, when it comes to dating, I'm someone who likes to take things slowly. I want to get to know the person first, build trust, and see if we're a good match before anything physical happens. That's just how I am.
A few days ago, we agreed to meet outside of work early in the morning before our shift started. I thought we were just going to spend some time together and get to know each other better. Instead, he surprised me by kissing me. I wasn't expecting it at all, and it made me feel uncomfortable because I wasn't ready. It felt like things moved too fast for me.
Since then, I can't stop thinking about it. I feel like he may be more interested in the physical side of a relationship than actually getting to know me, and that has changed the way I see him. Now things feel awkward between us at work. I don't know how to act around him anymore, and I find it hard to even look at him. I also don't want things to become uncomfortable since we work together.
Am I overthinking this, or is it reasonable to feel this way? What would you do if you were in my situation? So what should i do?
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I just needed to get this off my chest I'm a 22 years old woman and I feel so shitty life is very scary sometimes and sometimes I feel like I'm taking it lightly. I am in school but I feel like that's not going to do me any good well it's better than nothing but how am I going to make a living out of that. How am I going to be rich? It hurts so bad cuz it feels like I have so much to offer and none at the same time. When I first decided to join medical school everyone advised me against it but I still chose it because I thought I had the passion for it maybe I still do. the issue is that I'm the kind of person who suffers from procrastination and so I really can't get myself to be disciplined and work hard so my grades are not much right now. So There Goes My Hope of being exceptional doctor out the window. So now what's left for me I'm confused my parents expect a lot from me they want me to be rich not only that but also they want to be prioritized and so if I get an ounce of money before I do anything for myself I have to give it to them this has been messing with my mental health so bad I really don't even want to live in this world anymore cuz everything is just so stressing I feel so worthless and the people my parents are comparing me to.. well I just can't keep up ymr. One of my mother's best friend's child which also happens to be my ex's brother bought a car for his parents I can't lie the jealousy is going to kill me right now. not only that but the pressure my parents are placing On Me by comparing me and my sister to the dude who bought a car for his parents is crashing. Funny thing is I don't even need a low paying job right now I freaking need something big. And I feel like that's unrealistic I believe I have so many talents and that I am a quick learner so if there is any path for me please let me know.
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I just needed to get this off my chest I'm a 22 years old woman and I feel so shitty life is very scary sometimes and sometimes I feel like I'm taking it lightly. I am in school but I feel like that's not going to do me any good well it's better than nothing but how am I going to make a living out of that. How am I going to be rich? It hurts so bad cuz it feels like I have so much to offer and none at the same time. When I first decided to join medical school everyone advised me against it but I still chose it because I thought I had the passion for it maybe I still do. the issue is that I'm the kind of person who suffers from procrastination and so I really can't get myself to be disciplined and work hard so my grades are not much right now. So There Goes My Hope of being exceptional doctor out the window. So now what's left for me I'm confused my parents expect a lot from me they want me to be rich not only that but also they want to be prioritized and so if I get an ounce of money before I do anything for myself I have to give it to them this has been messing with my mental health so bad I really don't even want to live in this world anymore cuz everything is just so stressing I feel so worthless and the people my parents are comparing me to.. well I just can't keep up ymr. One of my mother's best friend's child which also happens to be my ex's brother bought a car for his parents I can't lie the jealousy is going to kill me right now. not only that but the pressure my parents are placing On Me by comparing me and my sister to the dude who bought a car for his parents is crashing. Funny thing is I don't even need a low paying job right now I freaking need something big. And I feel like that's unrealistic I believe I have so many talents and that I am a quick learner so if there is any path for me please let me know.
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Lately I been noticing men, men who are attractive successful but I see their interaction with women or I see their conversations and they don't know what to do they don't know how to make her interested on them they're begging for dates they're buying the girl's stuff and the girl likes the things and the attention so she gets close to them but it's obvious she's not interested and they invest their time and money with hope she changes her mind after time and she might but she's not likely to. My friends think the girl I interact with are interested in me because of my looks but it's because I have studied about girls for 2 years now I studied about seduction almost everything I do with women is some how calculated even though it's not a script but it's based on some points based on the women.
And the girls I seduce give me access to their ig accounts to show me how many guys pursue them and some guys they talk or have talked to that treat them nicely like queens guys that are way richer than me guys who buy them tremendously expensive gifts and I have these girls obsessed with me to the point when I wanna break up i have to do anti-seductive things for atleast a month for the girls to stop being interested in me and even then even after all the anti seduction I do their feelings will fade but wont disappear.
But one of the main things I recognize is when I see couples and she does something which he should recognize to capitalize on to seduce her and he doesn't I wish I could tell him what to do but I can't. Please if you're in a relationship 85% of relationships end in breakups if you truly love her study about women, women too if you love him study about men guys who have tried to pursue relationships and have given up because girls aren't interested you it's not your looks it's just some part of your behaviour you need to fix so study about women. And please once you know you can do this very easily and you start getting all the attention from girls and they're obsessed with you don't play with them so please use it on someone you are sure you love, you are in a relationship with
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Lately I been noticing men, men who are attractive successful but I see their interaction with women or I see their conversations and they don't know what to do they don't know how to make her interested on them they're begging for dates they're buying the girl's stuff and the girl likes the things and the attention so she gets close to them but it's obvious she's not interested and they invest their time and money with hope she changes her mind after time and she might but she's not likely to. My friends think the girl I interact with are interested in me because of my looks but it's because I have studied about girls for 2 years now I studied about seduction almost everything I do with women is some how calculated even though it's not a script but it's based on some points based on the women.
And the girls I seduce give me access to their ig accounts to show me how many guys pursue them and some guys they talk or have talked to that treat them nicely like queens guys that are way richer than me guys who buy them tremendously expensive gifts and I have these girls obsessed with me to the point when I wanna break up i have to do anti-seductive things for atleast a month for the girls to stop being interested in me and even then even after all the anti seduction I do their feelings will fade but wont disappear.
But one of the main things I recognize is when I see couples and she does something which he should recognize to capitalize on to seduce her and he doesn't I wish I could tell him what to do but I can't. Please if you're in a relationship 85% of relationships end in breakups if you truly love her study about women, women too if you love him study about men guys who have tried to pursue relationships and have given up because girls aren't interested you it's not your looks it's just some part of your behaviour you need to fix so study about women. And please once you know you can do this very easily and you start getting all the attention from girls and they're obsessed with you don't play with them so please use it on someone you are sure you love, you are in a relationship with
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You might not like it but it's the truth, a woman who hates all men, and a man who hates all woman, are by far the most low iq and ilitrate person on these galaxy.
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You might not like it but it's the truth, a woman who hates all men, and a man who hates all woman, are by far the most low iq and ilitrate person on these galaxy.
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