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Yk what I miss...life before high-school. It was just simple I was happy grateful full of dream and life. I miss that. Growing up sucks

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M, 27. I see lots of vents on this channel about people wanting to be dominant or sometimes submissive. Or some might be neutral. I dont understand how they are able to decide on one thing they want. Im very confused, most times i feel like being dominant just like grabbing her and softly wrapping my hands around her neck. i just like the idea of pleasing someone. I feel like bdsm has gotten out of had a bit. Or maybe my definition of it is different and i cant even find myself being strictly one sided. So can a person actually be both? And not even want to be extreme?

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Well, what am I venting here? Idk. Just feeling lonley these days. I'm waiting on God's timing to find my woman but it is taking soooo long. I sometimes wonder will I ever be privillaged to be loved and cared for, to have a marriage, blessed kids and beautiful life? I just wonder.
I feel lonlely and depressed not having love intimacy thinking that i have some sort of problem. And these days are silly, have nothing interesting and fake.
Help me out y'll, give me some advice.
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A year ago, I came here convinced my life had hit the loading screen.
I was 23. No job. No income. A notebook full of ideas and a brain full of overthinking. I thought everyone else had the user manual for life except me.
Fast forward to today.
I'm 24.
I'm working as a software developer, earning over 100,000 ETB a month.
Plot twist: I still don't have life completely figured out.
The bugs didn't disappear—they just moved from my life into my code. 😅
I'm still learning. Still building. Still failing. Still fixing things. Some products are still unfinished, and some dreams are still bigger than my current reality.
But one thing changed:
I stopped waiting until I felt "ready."
If you're reading this while feeling lost, unemployed, or convinced you're behind everyone else, remember this:
A year can rewrite your story.
Keep learning. Keep applying. Keep building. One day you'll look back at the version of yourself who thought it was over... and smile.
Sometimes life is just debugging you before the next release. 🚀

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Hey. U can call me Hana. I live in tigray, mekelle. U guys know the situation we r in right now ig ena i cant leave for some reasons. We r not going out as there is "afesa" and almost all my friends have left Tigray. Im so bored and idk what to do. If anyone of u want a friend, through text, maybe?

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Recently i have come to the conclusion that most performative religious people are the most evil ppl you ever meet‼️‼️i swear…
Nowadays, especially girls yemr like they act religious but deep down they’re pick meeee asf…i am not saying all but most really do act that way just to have a male validation or to be choosen by him mnamn..

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Wassgood yall need help lets get straight to the pt. I met this guy in chess club (btw i lowkey love chess) n he’s a 👨‍⚕️in chess his elo is like 2000+ if yk abt chess.
But this mr chess player is kinda a weirdo. We play OTB and on chess.com bla bla... and as time went on... ngl I wasn’t even thought fall for him but time does things tbh. he’s not even good looking but he got that wild dark humor, acts like a philosopher, n has cool hobbies like drawing. He even speaks perfect Japanese.
So one day I asked him to be my bf. He’s 24 n I'm 20 he said no tbh I’m literally so pretty I lost count of how many guys try to take me out mamn plus I’m an orthodox zemari But he really said hell nah😥Yall have NO idea how heartbroken I am. I have so many reasons to hate him even he’s an atheist but I just can't move on. I even text him at 8pm cuz I can't control my mind. Btw nothing changed on his end he’s chilling but I can't keep living like this. Guys pls help.

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24 f
We're lovers of long distance, we talked everything out and how it is gonna work and we are committed, but I would like to genuinely ask who are/were in the same situation...how do u guys manage long distance relationship?
Please help your friend out 🙏

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Of all the best friends I’ve had so far, Grief is the GOAT!

My dear… I am sorry to tell you that folks don’t care. Don’t get me wrong, of course you are loved. People will show up here and there they will show care, they will hug you tight, and they will tell you that you matter.
And of course, you really do matter. However, no matter what, once grief visits, the pain will remain longer than all the hugs.
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The pain will never leave. He will be your best friend, (please allow him to be) the one with whom you talk deeply up until you fall asleep. The one who will wake you up in the middle of the night just to make sure you cried. A friend that will eventually become your soulmate, with whom you have your lifetime's best talks about existence, love, poetry, beauty, God, empathy and many more…
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And what do we do when grief visits for the first time? We hate him! ውጉዝ ከመ ሞት ራሱ! The second time, we negotiate a little. And the third? We welcome him. We say to him, “Oh, my dear best friend, you are still here to check on me? How loyal!” And we will leave one room open for him to stay. No, no, no, we don’t try to run away this time.

Because now we know, for a while, it’s okay to be sad. It’s okay to lose the compass to navigate. It’s all fine to be miserable. It is okay to cry, it’s okay to be mad at God, it is okay to do the stupidest deeds of your life. It’s okay to give up, it’s okay to disappear, it is okay to be angry at everyone around. It is okay, it is okay, it’s all fineeeeeeee.
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For a fragile ፍጡር like you and me, who is closer to our hearts than he is? Who is loyal enough to make sure to visit everyone? He is! ሀዘን is!

Who else comes across as boring, only to end up making us the funniest and goofiest people on earth?

I told you, He is the GOAT
I hope you keep him dear 😊

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Hello, 👋 Gen Zs , I have read most of your vents here for almost a year. Teens and 20s who are very stressed why they fail in life, career and relationships. Thinking there would be no tomorrow for them, like the end of the world 🌎

I am M in my 30s and let me give you life advice.
As everyone around me said, I was a very gifted kid. I am not a book 📖 person, but I see things differently. Not exaggerated, but for real everyone I knew expected me to be one of the most influential person 🏅🏅🏅 in the country. I did some good achievements 🏅 in my 20s and got to the point of big connections preceeding even my senior people (who are in their 40s) in my career, call me Lamine Yamal 😁. Then boom 💥 💥, My 20s, career, relationships, connections got destroyed within less than a year. Then, I got burnout, still do.

Now, I don't have job, active connections, no relationship, no money, living with my parents, being a failure every day.

People who knew me before dropped awe what happened face when they see me walking in street. I even ghosted from social media since most people that knew me there check so often on me trying to find an update, wondering what happen to that young fella that they knew years ago.

But one thing I don't lost is my faith ⛪️ ✝️ and hope ❤️ on God. That is the most important thing in your life. (I am not even that much religious ✝️ person, I am very weak in my religion but still won't let go my faith)
The main thing in your life is to go to heaven. Nothing else matters to that level.

Back to my career and life, I knew I am in my weakest form right now but my gut always tells me that I am going to make it one day in future maybe not today or tomorrow but one day. God will help me to build everything starting from scratch.

So thanks for long reading and my point is don't ever give up !!!! 🤞🤞💪💪💪
The main thing is your relationship with God. The other things will follow, you will build it from scratch. Just, have that winning mentality. And it is called to refuse giving up even if you lost more than 1000 times.

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Im m,big 27 ,adama
Kinda difficult to make friends for me im even concerned about my future guys ..help ur bro

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Hey guys so idk if its the weed but I’ve been feeling really disconnected lately. Back in high school and college, it was so easy to connect and make new friends because we all spent time together. Now that im 25 and i spend most of my time at work,I realize I’m really disconnected from the fun side of life.Going out, having those long nights, playing games, just being with people. And honestly, it’s easier for me to date women than it is for me to make friends, and that’s really concerning.It’s really important to me that I find friends who have similar goals,people I can actually look up to but i find it really hard to find people like that. I just wanted to say this out loud because I want to get back to those spontaneous moments,I just don’t know where to start.

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Hey yall i wannna hear ur thoughts so me and this guy have been dating for a while and I have strict family we meet in person kesent and ken like once in a week or 2 week so he kissed me on my lips but I feel nothing for him but deep down after that kiss I know he will ask more and guess what he did its because am v and he was like let me hit mnamn so weird sijmer am kinda lonely girl I have no friends mnamn ena thats why I talk to him and be with him the whole time without loving him i know u will guys say is she alright mnamn i get  it ena am just bored dmo we talk every single day ena i kinda attached to him yesterday we meet in person and he jokes some weird jokes and it make me nauseous like vomit because he was joking about physical intimacy soo weird besmam and he was like when r we gonna make out i was wtf nigga I dont even like u deeply eko enkuwan make out lenareg and I told him am not gonna do anything before marriage and he was like I cant wait eskeza enem yeraseh guday alkut I count the day we start dating kza he changed immediately he was like we're not that much close all this months mnamn we dont even make out endzi aynet relationship aychem semechem alakem zm kalnew amet nw mihonew bezi aynet kza he ask if I was happy and I said yeah esum endzaw after some mins he changed and say am not happy and I was like kemeche jemero selew alakem gn bka am not happy ale I was like okey and he was like told u u r not ready for relationship and lij neshe gena because I didn't sleep with him and meet him in a room kza enem okey this is how it ends beye tewkut kza befit gonen nekagn ena he was like ur not v because mnm selalalku like girls will be loud gonachewn setnkuwachew mnamn yebalal even one of my relative  gonuwan setnkuwat techihalech guess wat she have a child ena sele chohachu mnamn adelm and I said to my self this is how it ends and leave him there I know i made a right decision but i just want someone to talk...don't call me ras wedad dmo pls eshi ena when i think about him it made me nauseous, vomit and I can't even eat yastelagnal megbu rasu it gives me a headache and je said its not gonna work out mnamn so tell me about ur experience mnamn as a big sis or brother advice ena do u guys think he might comeback again just asking...thanks for reading  yall

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It's the middle of the night right now I got home after chilling with my homies and all of a sudden the silence in my head feels heavy.
I'm feeling so lonely that I have no one to text like no one. I feel so alone to the extent that living doesn't mean anything for me.
You ever felt like this?

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22 M here

I want to preface this by saying you have free will to do whatever you want but I still want to put this perspective out there because I have seen one too many times when certain universally agreed upon advice clash with the objective reality.

1. Don't fall for survivor bias, just because Person X made it doesn't mean you will too. It is just the hard truth, statistically speaking plan A rarely ever works out. I have had so many people tell me "give it your all" while I did and thankfully it didn't end in catastrophe for me, I still think having a plan B is a necessity in most cases. An advice from a person who succeeded at something won't serve you as much as you think it would, for every one person who did what he did and succeeded, there are 10+ others that followed the same method and failed miserably, it is just that none of those people are around to tell you what not to do. Many successful people go around saying "give plan A your all" while the correct advice should be "it is always advised to have plan B but don't let it be an excuse for you to half-ass plan A".

2. "Comparison is the thief of joy": most of the time it isn't. While what you do in a certain career is limited to what you can do, no one cares about that. No one is going to bat an eye to you when there is better competition. You should strive to be better and out-do others.

3. "Hardwork pays off"...most times it doesn't. It is the survivorship bias that I talked about earlier, hard-work is a common trait among many successful people that being said it doesn't guarantee success. I am not saying you shouldn't work hard, at least seemingly it is a prerequisite for success. So the better advice is "hard work is required to succeed but in multiple cases, hardwork alone won't lead you to success"

4. Understand ROI (return on investment) there is a famous saying by Bruce Lee that I see everyone using "I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times." It sounds good on the surface but it is one of those traps where you waste a huge amount of your time investing towards something that is only going to make marginal differences and sometimes even none instead of investing towards something that will have better return. Actually speaking, someone who practices 100 different kicks 100 times will wipe the floor with each dude. You just can't continue to get better at something infinitely, you will plateau quickly than you realize. To make it more relatable, you are better off studying a new topic for an exam 3 hours before it starts than you are trying to master the micro details on a topic you studied for 60 hours. And for the gym bros out there, you are better off doing 6 sets per muscle per week and saving your time to focus on other areas of your life than you are living in the gym and doing 20 sets to "maximize" muscle growth🥀, you are doing triple the amount you were doing to go from 80% to 95-98%. Past a certain point, something just becomes not worth investing towards. I don't know what the girl equivalent is but it is like spending 3k ETB on your hair alone instead of allocating the $2,000 budget on nails and make-up instead...idk😭✌️

5. Stop comparing apples and oranges and waste your time answering dumb hypotheticals "what is better love or money?"...since when is this question even a debate? Having one won't lock you out of having the other. You just won't be faced with this question and the objective reality is that money and love really are apple and oranges...incomparable.

6. Karma rarely ever happens. Let's be real, on a completely secular ground (if we were to not consider religious stuff like heaven or hell), statistically speaking whether you do good or bad towards other people, the chances of you meeting a good fortune or a bad one probably isn't statistically significant to even matter.

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I am going to explain something that happened in the course of 2 and half years.

Please keep in mind that I do not believe a lie was told. But help me understand if it can actually happen and everything could be true at the same time.

So we met via a common friend and bonded right away on common grounds. The first three months we met quite a lot and I used to tell him about my past about my past boy best friends and how it got messed up with them catching feelings and exes stuff like that. So by the end of 3 month he said he will be a better friend for me because i deserved it. And we kept getting closer and closer. Started spending almost all time together. Then after a year of us meeting a lot happened and he said he has fallen in love with me(before this we already was saying i love you but I thought that as a platonic thing) the messed up part was i was in relationship. So the whole confession was filled with apologies. Shortly after he saw me get jealous and asked if that was normal in friendships and I said it could happen and he had the revelation that he didn't fall in love with me he just felt uncomfortable with my interactions with other guys than my boyfriend. Then 4 months passed and my boyfriend and I broke up by totally unrelated reasons. By this time my friend was worried and even offered to be a rebound which kinda broke the way I see him. (He wasn't like trying to take the opportunity) and I know u reading this makes me look like i am being lied to but it wasn't like that.
Fast forward to another four months and I asked him out but he rejected me. Then two months later I was meeting new people and going on dates and me and my friend cut contact (after telling me that he loves my soul and saying i have a beautiful mind) which broke me. I was totally in love with him because he was kind to me on many occasions. I fell hard for his soft personality. After like 2 months we linked again and by this time it has been 2 years since we met. We cut contact again reconnected and cut ties again which brings me to today.
I believe everything he said to me. I believe in every stage he told me what he knew to be true, when he wanted to be a very good friend I believe he meant it, when he confessed i believe he believed he was in love, when he said it was a mistake I believe he was being honest, when he said to be a rebound, I believe he cared so much that he was trying to be there for me (he called it some sort of "ultimate friend "). What i don't understand is why he rejected me. I don't understand when he said he loved my soul. I don't understand why he always chose to end things (3 times)

What was that all about? Was it too delulu? What is real and what is not? Was he ever in love me?
He was never cruel to me and always put me first and looking back i just don't understand how things just flipped. Last thing I said was that I hate him.
I just don't know what was and what wasn't

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