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Hey everyone👋 I’m a 24 F and V and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I haven’t even kissed anyone or makeout . It’s kind of funny to see 17 and 18 yrs worrying about r/n ship status 😁indeed  I believe that everything happens in its own time. I'm focused on working on myself for now.
Some of the reasons are my problem🫣 like getting easily bored when talking to someone, not initiating conversations, and struggling to show commitment. Plus "if you want to leave, you can" attitude, and I am somehow overthinker,  I want to work on these issues and improve myself.

On the other side, some guys really make me lose interest. I can't refer to them as guy1, 2, 3. Instead, I'll describe their behaviors and the way they approached me initially, as we don't have any established r/n🤭 Who z hell r u to judge mnamn endatlugn just kagetemegn new i am sure a lot of girls face this kinda situation

1. The to the point guy - These guys are all about sex and try to kiss on the 1st or 2nd day they met🙄 (idk if i call it date).....it may be ok for some girls but not for me and some other coz  i wanna do this after marriage ..so 1 st u hav to know her intention and understand her feeling before jumping to the point
These guys also want to marry v 🤧

2. The over flirty guy: They talk in a way that’s just too much everything is an exclamation like 'cherekawan sayat teza alshign'😏 I don’t know what kind of girl finds that impressive, but it really drains my energy. Kezi yezendro pickupline yeshalal😂

3. The ''i am rich" guy: This guy constantly brags about his money and tries to show off in every situation. Conversations with him is really boring🥱 as he often focuses solely on material possessions. Some even act like they can buy you, bro go and buy a bitch. Honestly, they are not my type😒

4. The poor mentality guy : This type keeps reminding me that he’s poor Like, dude, I get it! u don’t have to say it every day🙄 'ik i can't give u the life u desrve '  well go and leave me alone If you’re already losing hope for ur future, don’t dim mine too. awkeh rich negn kalalk besteker ik so don't have to say u can't just  akmh michelewen adrg
When i say rich guys are not my type i don't mean sira maysera sew yemechegnal 😒 it is a huge red flag. he have to be hard worker and hustle to change his future and I prefer someone who earns more than I do, as this creates a better balance and matching energy between us.

5. The many girls like me guy - Idk what he expects me to say. Am I supposed to be happy that I have a chance to be one of them?🤔 He makes me assume that he is typical player

6. The 'ur my gf' guy - If u give them ur number or talk to them once, they act like ur in a r/n already. They expect u to treat them like a boyfriend right away, even sending fake “I love u , i miss u” texts to show commitment. Like wtf🤦‍♀

Becha these thing rly makes me lose interest and don't take it personal ..i am just reflecting my feelings
what do u all think ?  I rly wanna hear
Sry for z long text😊

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Sup guys
Lately i became so delusional like i see myself way far from reality.
Ontop of that am using psychedelic drugs, am trippim so much 😭

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Hey y'all I'm 19 F
lowkey I’ve been feeling kinda lonely lately and I really miss having a close girl best friend I can talk to every day, hang out with, and just do life with 😭
if anyone here is also looking for a close friendship, I’d love to connect and see if we vibe 🫶
it would be even cooler if you’re from ASTU so we could actually hang out in real life too
Thank youuuuu ❤️

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22M

Hey guys, I really need your inputs in this because it is bothering me so much.

I don't know if it is something other guys experience too but even otherwise a really calm dude, I am noticing myself feeling this hidden and buried rage and it started in my early 20 and am carrying it now too. I would see another dude and I immediately start sizing him up and wonder if I could beat the ever living shit out of eachother in a fight. The scariest part is most times in these scenarios, people generally imagine themselves being the one doing the blows but in my case it goes either way. It is not just letting the rage out and beating someone else that motivates me but it is the overall theme of being in a fight that does.

I think it has something to do with how I grew up and how I was easy to pick on when I was a kid where I used to get bullied because I was scrawny and you know how puberty works, suddenly my balls got larger, so did my muscles and now I feel this sudden spark of beating respect into someone who might pick on me.

I admit, I have hardly ever been in a fight even as a kid but now I think I am "dematuring" (don't know if it is a real world) into a child at a time where my life and social skills have genuinely improved. I also think that it is because I see the need to size someone up and prepare in case I need to defend myself against them (even when they are completely friendly). I don't go out looking for trouble with them but I really can't stop myself from wondering if I could beat them up if they picked on me.

Anyways, this is a really random vent and I let my intrusive thoughts win, do any of you get the same urges?

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Need an advice Listening to Eyob Musika: yetweshgn bota lay yemilewn music Youtube lay enaaa lemn endehone erasu alawkm (awkalehu deep down) kefagn ena lemn altsfm biye new. edmeyachu sihed frachachun endet new yetelemamedachut? As a person in her early twenties betam new miferaw especially the fear of being unsuccessful ena alea useless hogne sra alagegn yihon mnamn eyalku asbalehu. I want to be this independent woman who has her shits figured out, I'm doing well academically in hopes to get a better future ena edmeyachu 27 ena keza belay yalachu sewoch especially women how are you guys figuring it out? How has life and your expectations been ? Thank you

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ከጎኔ ድራፍት እየጠጣ 30 ደቂቃ አካባቢ ስልክ እያወራ ነዉ ይሄን ሁሉ ደቂቃ ቆይ እሺ አንዴ እኔን ስሚኝ ነዉ የሚለዉ
እስካሁን እሷ ብቻ ናት የምታወራዉ 😂😂😂😂😂
አቤት የወንድ ልጅ መከራ😥

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ሰዎች እኔ አንድ ነው ምመስላቸው ከነሱ ጋር ። ግን ብቻዬን ኩርምት ብዬ እንደምሞት አልገባቸውም ። የነሱን የህይወት ሀዲድ ምኖረው ለነሱ ብዬ እንደሆን አያውቁም ። የኔ ትልቁ በሽታ ሰው ማፍቀሬ ነው። ቤተሰብ እወዳለሁ ። ወደውስጤ እንደተሰደድኩ ግን አያውቁም ።ለዛ እያዬኋቸው እንደራቀ ሰው እናፍቃለሁ ። አብረውኝ እያወጉኝ ቢያድሩ እወድዳለሁ ። ያ እያለ ብቸኝነቴ አስገዳጅ የህልውና አደጋዬ ነው። ሁሌ ሚመላለስ ። በዛ ውስጥ ያቀመሰኝን ግጭት ልነግራቸው አልችልም። አፍራለሁ ። አያውቁትም ። ተራ ምክንያት መስሎ ይቀልላቸዋል። ያበድኩ ወይ የማብድ ያክል እያዩኝ ጸበል ሂድ ወይ ቤተስኪያን ሳም ይሉኛል ። ግን እኔ ከነሱ በላይ እግዜርን በየቀኑ ስሞግተው በኔ መስተሃልይ መመላለሱን ማን ይንገራቸው? እናቴ ስትለኝ እየደበረኝ በነጠላ ተጎፍኜ እሄዳለሁ ።
ቁሜ ምለው ይጠፋኛል ።
ዝም እለዋለሁ ደብሩን ዝም ። አፈጣለሁ ።
ውጣ ከዚ ሚለኝ ይመስለኛል። ምክንያቱን ከሄድኩ አላወድሰውም አልወቅሰውም ቁሜ እታዘበዋለሁ ። በአይኔ'ቂጥ አየዋለሁ ።
የደብሩ ቆሞስ ወልደሰማያት በማይኩ
"ወንድሞቼ አለምን አትውደዱ አለም አላፊ ጠፊ ናትና!"
ስለሚለው የቅዳሴ ሱባኬ ይፈክራሉ ..

"አለም ስጋ ነው
የስጋ ስራ ነው መበስበስ ነው ትርፉ ፣
መዘሞት፣ መርከስ፣ ጣዖትን ማምለክ ፣ማሟረት፣ መጣላት ፣ መከራከር .."

".. አድመኝነት .." በፍጹም ልቤ አልሰማውም ።

ድንዱን ልብ ስላለኝ ሳይሆን ስለማውቀው ነው የምንበሰብስ ሙታኖች ካለነዚ መኖር እንደማንችል ። ተፈጥሮን በምን ይዋጉታል? በጠበል ፣ በዘምዘም? በጸሎት ወይስ በምን?
ግን ቢሆንም ጠበል እሄዳለሁ ። ልጅነቴ እዚያ ነው የቀረው ። ንጹህ እንደሆነ ያለው ገብሬል ጠበሉ ቦታ ነው። እዛ ብቻ ነው ገብሬል ያለው።
የህይወት ሰንከልካላው ሲበዛብኝ ደብር ወይ መስጊድ እሄዳለሁ ። እንድጽናና አደለም ዝም ያለ ንዴት ይዤ ልመጣ ነው ። ማይገነፍል ቁጣዬን አርግዤ ወጣለሁ ።

ህይወት ደንታ ስለማታውቅ እኔም የሷን አካሄድ እንደልጅ አስመስላለሁ ። የቄንጥ አይሉት ወይ የተቻኳይ እንደፋደፋለሁ ።
ስርዓት አታውቅም ጸሎት ዱዓ አታውቅም ጠበል አታውቅም ቁርዓን ማስቀራት አታውቅም ..
ሳታውቅ እንሰይምላታለን እኛ ሞኞቹ ..
በመለዬት በመዘወግ መጋኛ መች እንደተመታን ሳናውቀው ክፍልፋዩ ቁጥሩ የትዬሌሌ ገባ  ።
ምንድነው እኔን የለዬኝ ለማለት ማን ልብ ሰጠን?
ግን ቢሆንም ነፍሳችን እንደ ጉጉት በየፍርስራሹ በየጥጋጥጉ ለምትወሸቅ ለኛ ማን ይፈርድብናል?
እኛ ሳናውቀው ነው ነፍሳችን ተነጥሎ ሊሞት የደረስነው ።
ብቻውን በበረሃ ውሃ ጥም ሲመጠው ዝም እንዳንለው ነው ልዩ ነን ያልነው ። ውነታችንን ብቻችንን ነው አቡክተን የጋገርነው ። አደለም እንዴ?
እህ ሚስማማ የለም?
አያችሁ አደል ለምን ስለሆንኩት እንደማልነግራችሁ ዲንጋ ላይ ውሃ ማፍሰስ ስለኾነ ነው ፤
ቋንቋ አርቆ ስለቀበረኝ ወይ ስላሰደደኝ

"ሚዳንሱትን አይተው እብድ ናቸው ሚሉት ሙዚቃውን የማይሰሙት ናቸው።

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Hi. I'm a 22 year old girl who has somehow gone her entire life without having a neighborhood bestie. Like... how is that even possible? 😭

If you live in Bole Arabsa and you're in your early to mid 20s, please come collect me. I'm tired of romanticizing solo walks and pretending I don't wish I had someone to randomly grab coffee or ertib with, gossip, go on late night snack runs, or just rot together with.

No weird vibes, just looking for a genuine friend because apparently im going nuts here alone. 💀

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. 🤍

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Hey everyone, this is emergency

I’m 25 years old, and I really need to vent. I want to hear from mature people, especially women, about friendship.
I know I can be stubborn, but I don’t feel guilty about it. I’m confused about what real friendship is. What does a healthy and genuine friendship look like?
I don’t know where to start, but here’s what’s on my mind…ልጅነቴን ስመለከተው የብዙ ጓደኛ ባለቤት ነበርኩ አሁንም ነኝ። ሁሉም ቦታ ጓደኛ የነበረኝ ነበርኩ። እንዴት ጓደኝነቱን እንደምጀምረው ባላውቅም ግን በቃ በየቦታው ጓደኛ ይኖረኛል። ክረምትን ለማሳለፍ የምሄድበት የአያቴ ቤት አከባቢ ጓደኛ አለኝ አንድ ምናምን አይደለም ሁለትና ምን አልባትም ከዚያ በላይ አክስቴ ቤትም ከሄድኩ እንደዛው በተማርኩበት ትምህርት ቤቶች ሁሉ ጓደኞች ነበሩኝ። ነገር ግን በተማሪነት ዘመኔ ሁሌም እያስታውኩ የምደውል አይነት በጣም attached የሆንኩኝ አይደለሁም። ስገናኝ ጓደኛ ነኝ ስርቅ እርቃለሁ ያለኝ ባህሪ ያለኝ አመለካከት አይለወጥም ከብዙ አመት ቡሃላ ሳገኛቸው እንደዛው ነኝ ጓደኝነቴ እኔ አይምሮ ውስጥ እንደተጠበቀ ነው። ሌላው ግልፅ ነኝ ብዬ ባስብም ሁሉም በልክ ሲሆን ደስ ይለኛል ስለ ቤተሰቤ በውስጤ ስለሚሰሙኝ ስሜቶች አላወራም(ምን አልባት አልፎ አልፎ) ...እና ሰው ቸል ያለኝ ከመሰለኝ እና በትክክል ግንኙነቱን እያስቀጠለ እንዳልሆነ ከተሰማኝ ከቦታው ድራሼን አጠፋለሁ አልገኝም በቃ ማብራርያም አልጠይቅም (ምን አልባት እኔ አስቀይሜም እኮ ሊሆን ይችላል ግን ልክ አላልፍም ብዬ ስለማስብ በቃ እጠፋለሁ), እና ሴት ጓደኞቼ ምን ሆነሽ ነው ብለሽ እንኳ አትጠይቂንም? በሌላ ምክንያት እኮ ነው እንደዛ የሆነው ብለው የሚነግሩኝ እራሳቸው መጥተው ነገሩ ካለፈ ቡሃላ ነው, ሌላው ደሞ በጣም ትልቁ ጉዳይ ልክ ነው ወይ? እናንተም ጋር አለ? ብዬ መጠየቅ የምፈልገው እኔ ከእኔ ጋር በጣም ደስተኛ ሰላማዊ ነኝ ምን አልባት አስተዳደጌ ሊሆን ይችላል በቃ ማንም ባይኖር ችግር የለውም ደስተኛ ነኝ በዛ ምክንያት አብዛኛው ነገሮቼን ብቻዬን እራሴን ችዬ አደርጋለሁ ያ ደግሞ ደስታ ይሰጠኛል ሴቶች ደግሞ በጋራ መሄድ (ሽንት ቤት እንኳን) በጋራ ጉዳያቸውን ማድረግ ይወዳሉ እኔ ማንንም እንደዛ አላስቸግርም በውዴታዬ ካልሆነም ደግሞ ለማድረግ ፈቃደኛ አይደለሁምም ያበሳጨኛልምም። ምን አልባት እቤት ገብቼ መተኛት ይሆናል እኮ ግን በቃ ያሰብኩት እሱን ከሆነ ያንን ነው ማድረግ የምፈልገውም የሚያስደስተኝም እሱ ነው። አሁን ትልቅ ስሆን ደግም ነገሮች እየባሱ መጡ እኔ እስካሁን ልክ ነኝ ብዬ ባስብም ሴት ጓጀኞቼን ማስቀየሜ ግን አልቀረም እና ምን የሚል መልስ ነው ለራሴ የምሰጠው በቃ እኔ እንዲ ነኝ የማንንም ተቀባይነት ማግኘት አይጠበቅብኝም ይላል ውስጤ። በተመሳሳይ መልኩ ደግሞ ማንንም ሰው በኔ ምክንያት ማሳዘን አልፈልግም። እና እሺ ሰላሜን ልጣ?
እኔ እነሱ የሚሉትን ሁሉ አከብራለሁ አንዴ ሲነግሩኝ መቶ ጊዜ እረዳቸዋለሁ አከብርላቸዋለሁ ለኔ መልሰው እንደዛ ለምን አያደርጉም?
እኔ :- ነገ ትመጫለሽ ?
እሷ(እነሱ):- አይ ጉዳይ አለኝ አይመቸኝም
እኔ:- ነው እንዴ በቃ እሺ
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እኔ:- አይመቸኝም/አልሄድም
እነሱ:- ለምን፣እንዴት፣ወዴት፣ኧረመምጣትማ አለብሽ፣ተጣልቼሻለሁ፣አስደበርሺኝ፣አንቺማ የምትገርሚ ሰው ነሽ፣ኧረ የምን ጉዳይ ነው ትተሽው ነይ እንጂ፣መምጣትማ አለብሽ፣እቤት እመጣለሁ አብረን እኔዳታለን......

እንዴ ወገን ትልቅ ሰው ነኝ እኮ በቃ አላደርግምም አደርጋለሁምም ስል በቃ ለኔ አሳማኝ ምክንያት አለኝ...
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I need to vent
Hey guys. So I'm 22 F, a virgin and I wanna start having sex with my bf. But the thing is I have irregular cycke and idk how to track my ovulation. So postpill might still not eork if i ovulate. So I want to ask girls with irregular cycle how you guys do it. Any tips?

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