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heyy lately I'm getting a little bit lonely I have people around me but they aren't people I trust that much I had a girlfriend but we broke up for a lot of reasons I'm not rich guy but I do relatively well for myself I after I broke up with my gf I constantly crave physical intimacy we used to do freaky stuff and I don't have the energy to get into another relationship and I'm not a night life guy either for a one night stand I've tried massage parlors but the experience wasn't that great and now I'm thinking about escorts I don't even know if there is such service available in Ethiopia anyways I'm just a guy craving something I just wanted to put it out there it's eating me alive

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I was so confused after we had this conversation with the friend group and lowkey made me judge them too like are you all fr 🤨 So here is what went down. It was one of my closest guy friend’s birthday. I know the guys don’t do birthdays and they were just going to hang out and eat lunch or dinner. But what’s a birthday without a cake so I sent the money to a bakery and told them I just want them to pick up the cake and take it to him because I wasn’t in the city. They were so stressed. They keep saying men don’t do this tho 😂 at the end, I set them straight and forced them to take it with the candles. They sent me the video after and the first thing they said when they meet him is “here is your cake. No homo. She sent the cake” and just dropped the cake on his hand like 🤣🤣 it is not that deep. So later on, I brought up the conversation with other friend circles. We were having a discussion about fragile masculinity and topics like that. I wanted to see if their fragile masculinity and humanity actually matched up, so I posed a question to them. This is the scenario. “Your best friend whom you see like a brother is very sick and needs to go to the toilet to pee. He can stand up with a little support but his hand doesn’t work. Usually, when men pee, they have to hold it up straight so it won't ruin their clothes or whatever. Because his hand doesn't work, he can't do this himself.” So the question is, would you do it for him? I wanted them to consider that this is not a normal scenario where they are doing it for games or sth. This is a serious problem. I was flabbergasted when all of them said HELLL TO THE NOOOO. One said, “he can soil himself for all I care.” One said “I will pray to God so he can give him the power to hold it on his own” one said “I will hire someone to do that” one with so much hesitation said “I will hold it with tongs” one said “if it is my brother, I will do it with gloves” whattttt??? I swear I was hoping they would get out of this ridiculous fragile masculinity mentality when it is a sick friend. But no, they resisted till the end. I said I would definitely do it for them even if it is a little awkward and they retaliated, they would definitely help me if I need help with the toilet too but they just wouldn’t go as far as holding their guy friends like that. Okay well the other girl friends said they would definitely hold their girl friends’ dress for her and sit her on the toilet. And if needed, they would even clean her up with a tissue after. And I 10000% will do this too. So the question is, would you all men here think the same or am I in the wrong friend group? 😂😂 if yes, why are you exactly so against this?

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22 M here

I am not ashamed when I say, I feel absolutely zero sense of patriotism for this country. I would say this out loud if I could but some mfers probably are going to virtue signal and Tell me "but the society that fed and raised you", first of all; I can without a doubt say that the only people I owe something to are my parents. The only two people I would give my life for are my dad who got screwed out of his hard work and money when he was younger when he made the mistake of starting a business with someone with no proper legal contract, the man who had multiple businesses destroyed because he refused to bribe his way to success and set an example for his kids and earn them a better life and my mother who woke up at 4'O clock after 3 hours of sleep, worked as a secretary from 8 to 5'O clock till her fingers cramped just to make minimum wage and get her son's ass educated thinking he would be successful just for him to end up in med-school and probably earn minimum wage by the time he graduates and not be capable enough financially to retire her.

I have been trying to make a side income while I study for 2 straight years only to see a big L after another big L and when things finally started to click, I realized that I can't even use the money I worked hard for to buy the things that I wanted as long as I lived in this country and now I have came to the decision of just packing it up and leaving.

Ethiopia, I know you aren't out there to reply to what I am about to say but it is from my heart, from top to bottom when I sincerely say SCREW YOU.

I don't want to "love" a country for the sake of saying it when I sincerely hate the people living in it. The kind of society that defaults to "devil's influence" whenever someone says something out of the ordinary, the kind that treats ignorance and stupidity as a badge of honour, the kind that still brags about what his fat ancestors who have nothing to do with him were able to accomplish, the dumbasses who still haven't moved past crying about which ethnicity has done which literally 200 years ago.

Screw you and the second I get the chance, I am leaving😭

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Used to be a lover boy Fallin for potentials i used to love the idea of love write poetries and songs with inspiration of love , i love love i love serving love but when the realization sets in we live in a world where on could love with out their options the high they still chase the attention they want to get fed any hoo i dn blame none knowing thy self is not to condemn others rather to make choices that wisely and thats how i came to this new born personality with a hint of sight of mismatch misalignments and so i make sure i dn waste both our times i end it right there it doesn't take long as they said to know sm one i stoped looking to uncover smth and started accepting what they project is what they are and that my story and my relationship with love i dn mind not the one what matters is me not lossing my self trying to find the one

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So I'm a guy, 26.
I'm into both dominating and being submissive but both has limit. Bezum deep algebam, I just want the energy and the intimacy. My role will depend on the girl but sometimes I can be dominant if teased.
Also I never had sex but did oral stuff .
The question is, what do girls think about a guy being both dominant and submissive..

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Hi, my name is coby(ilia). I had this gc and all my friends in it. I created it and was like the center of attention or smth and it was way too fun. It was all i had and tbh i had no other friends other than them. Now, they all kinda hate me and being passive aggressive towards me. I believe the reason to be they found someone wayy more fun than me. I even tried to vent to them about this and they just didnt care. I dont know what to do anymore. I have a lot of work around(exams,money problems,family problems) and im losing my "friends" too. I really feel like im not a good human being and i cant have a stable friendship with people. I feel like the reason they hate me is i care too much and lovedump them too much that i become boring and hateful. I dont know what to do anymore

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I 22f desperately need friends. I always thought I had friends leka I hv acquaintances,classmates or old high-school friends who I meet once a yr or stb... notice saderg weekend lay enkuan dewye enchebs or buna aflche sew enma yemelew sew yelem😂jk jk I don't even hv smn to go out for a walk with lol

I need yeset jema of 5 or 6..u hv no idea how jealous I am when I see group of gurls laugh hangout mnamn😭....we'll hv big plans like birthdays, galentines, cinemas, bowling,posting cute stories , try new trends, hangout at eachother's place mnamn...also ppl who aren't scared of exploring the nyt life like bermel fest or concerts mnamn once we trust and get to know eachother well ofc...bcha am in desperate need of friends who wants to hv fun...if u are interested and a girl above 20 ..ask my id belugn...we'll form a group ketemechachen within a week mnamn we'll plan a fun hangout😁if we all vibe ofc

Gn demo hule yetekabede nefs yemiaschenk hangouts mnamn alfelegm..sth casual yaltasebe ketero yelem after class mnamn catchup madreg or weekend lay big plan baynorm abro kuch blo medeber...am usually alone so I'd love any type of company at any time 😂ena bchegnet bekremt defa kena yaregachu ehtoche let's gather here😂ena mela mela enbelew..please dm if u are as desperate as I am hehe

Thnxx xoxo

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Hi, can I get you guys opinion on something.
What could be a reason to stop dating someone? Cheating, lying, difference in opinion on important things like religion, financial problems, physical attraction?
Or being late 45 minutes for a date?

No huge context but I had a date scheduled before hand at mata 1:00. He always says why so late why can’t we meet keza befit but I had work and bet gebiche eskiweta 1:00 yihonal so we confirmed the date earlier in the day and I was caught up by work till 12:45 mnamn and I communicated that I was leaving work and am coming to the place. He also said he will go home and leave his car at home in case the place had no parking and we agreed to go be ride.
When I got home it was almost 1:30 but he’s also home so I called and tell him am leaving and we can drive by his house and pick him up and he got so angry that I don’t value his time and he left his friends coz he had a plan with me mnamn so all and all when I said am coming and ahun tiwetaleh alku he got angrier and anchin aydel mitebkew endiyawm almetam ciao ale. Mind you the ride is outside, am all dressed and he said he doesn’t wanna go out now. I literally begged him and he said no and not just to go out now but he doesn’t wanna see me again and we should end things right now over the phone. I pleaded with him beka yezarew plan yikir am sorry let’s try to fix it biye and he said he doesn’t want to date me anymore mayet alfeligm and strangers nen kahun wedi. Mind you it’s gena 1:45 at this point and sidewil silk yizegal and he literally said zimblesh nw mitlefiw am done and when I asked him if he wanted to talk tomorrow he said he has nothing left to talk about between us and aygebashim alfelgim malet ale.

Am I the only one who thinks this is over reacting? I mean late mehon liyabesach yichilal or betam tilik kehone yezan ken yaserizal enji overall yakorarital ende 45min late mehon? It’s not like in a restaurant bichawn eko bet tekemto 45min?? Oh and he said the reason is he doesn’t want anyone that has this much power to make him angry and disturb his peace.

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I made myself a promise on my last birthday: I wouldn't turn 24 without having sex.

Months passed. Nothing changed.

At some point, desperation replaced pride, and my search led me to sex workers.

I was nervous. Embarrassed, even. It felt like I was stepping into a world where I didn't belong. At least, that's what I believed.

The strange part is, I'm not a bad-looking guy. I've seen men with no jobs, no ambition, and half the self-awareness find relationships without trying. Watching that happen over and over created a kind of internal confusion. If they could, why couldn't I?

After work one day, I finally went.

They were everywhere—standing in doorways, leaning against poles, waiting on street corners. Every time I walked past one, I couldn't even look her in the eyes. They felt too close. I panicked and started walking away.

Then I saw one woman standing alone. No crowd around her. No passersby. Just silence.

I walked past her.

Stopped.

Turned around.

Greeted her.

Asked how much.

From that moment on, it was strange. It felt like I had detached from myself. Instead of living the experience, I was watching myself go through it, like I was observing someone else.

She led me inside.

We did what I had spent years imagining.

I paid.

I left.

The entire time, I wasn't chasing pleasure. I was analyzing. Watching. Comparing reality to years of expectation.

And that's when I realized something.

Sex isn't what I imagined it to be.

For years, my mind had built it into this almost mythical experience because of desire, curiosity, and anticipation. I thought it would change something inside me.

It didn't.

In the end, it felt surprisingly ordinary. Physically, it wasn't much different from masturbation.

Maybe the mystery was better than the answer.

People spend so much time chasing sex as if it's the peak of human existence.

After finally experiencing it, my conclusion is simple.

It's overrated.

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ትዝ ብሎኝ ነው እኮ

ልጅ እያለው እንደኔ የተቀጠቀጠ የለም በሲሊፐር , በ ቴፕ ሶኬት በ ልምጭ , በ ጭድ ከዛ ደሞ የፋዘር ጠረባ ምን ቀረ እንደ ቴኒስ ኳስ እያነጠሩ ያሳደጉኝ actually most በኛ እድሜ ያለ እንዲ ያደግነው እና ፋዘር እንዲ ከ ነብስ ማጥፋት መለስ ያሉ ቅጣት እየቀጣ አሳድጎኝ ቅድም ትንሿን sister ኮስተር ብዬ ስቆጣት
"ተው ለ ስነልቦናዋ ጥሩ አደለም" ቢልስ

Wdym ስነ ልቦና 😂😭😭 እኔ እንደራግቢ የተወረወርኩትስ

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Hey everyone👋 I’m a 24 F and V and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I haven’t even kissed anyone or makeout . It’s kind of funny to see 17 and 18 yrs worrying about r/n ship status 😁indeed  I believe that everything happens in its own time. I'm focused on working on myself for now.
Some of the reasons are my problem🫣 like getting easily bored when talking to someone, not initiating conversations, and struggling to show commitment. Plus "if you want to leave, you can" attitude, and I am somehow overthinker,  I want to work on these issues and improve myself.

On the other side, some guys really make me lose interest. I can't refer to them as guy1, 2, 3. Instead, I'll describe their behaviors and the way they approached me initially, as we don't have any established r/n🤭 Who z hell r u to judge mnamn endatlugn just kagetemegn new i am sure a lot of girls face this kinda situation

1. The to the point guy - These guys are all about sex and try to kiss on the 1st or 2nd day they met🙄 (idk if i call it date).....it may be ok for some girls but not for me and some other coz  i wanna do this after marriage ..so 1 st u hav to know her intention and understand her feeling before jumping to the point
These guys also want to marry v 🤧

2. The over flirty guy: They talk in a way that’s just too much everything is an exclamation like 'cherekawan sayat teza alshign'😏 I don’t know what kind of girl finds that impressive, but it really drains my energy. Kezi yezendro pickupline yeshalal😂

3. The ''i am rich" guy: This guy constantly brags about his money and tries to show off in every situation. Conversations with him is really boring🥱 as he often focuses solely on material possessions. Some even act like they can buy you, bro go and buy a bitch. Honestly, they are not my type😒

4. The poor mentality guy : This type keeps reminding me that he’s poor Like, dude, I get it! u don’t have to say it every day🙄 'ik i can't give u the life u desrve '  well go and leave me alone If you’re already losing hope for ur future, don’t dim mine too. awkeh rich negn kalalk besteker ik so don't have to say u can't just  akmh michelewen adrg
When i say rich guys are not my type i don't mean sira maysera sew yemechegnal 😒 it is a huge red flag. he have to be hard worker and hustle to change his future and I prefer someone who earns more than I do, as this creates a better balance and matching energy between us.

5. The many girls like me guy - Idk what he expects me to say. Am I supposed to be happy that I have a chance to be one of them?🤔 He makes me assume that he is typical player

6. The 'ur my gf' guy - If u give them ur number or talk to them once, they act like ur in a r/n already. They expect u to treat them like a boyfriend right away, even sending fake “I love u , i miss u” texts to show commitment. Like wtf🤦‍♀

Becha these thing rly makes me lose interest and don't take it personal ..i am just reflecting my feelings
what do u all think ?  I rly wanna hear
Sry for z long text😊

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Sup guys
Lately i became so delusional like i see myself way far from reality.
Ontop of that am using psychedelic drugs, am trippim so much 😭

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Awo  yan yahl tru wend adelehum gn bzu edelochen agegnche neber mn yaregal endet mechereshaw aysakam yasebkut date tru yhonal wededkush elatalew esum wesjehalew telalech kezas saskat ewlalew tru enhedalen kezas wede kiss mnamn tru yhedal beka ende wend lij yaneger lay lnders gizew sikareb yehone gergr neger ale etalalew ehh 3tegna set ga yehe tefetere frank besnt mekera meto 4 ena ke5 date behuala lemareg maseb sjemr kene wey kenesu teb ynesal koy lemn?? Yaleflagote v hogne kerehu manm sayredagne ahun lay gn selechegne beka almokrm mechereshawn awekut beka eski careless hogne misaka kehone yisakal kalhone ykeral menor nw tkureten mela ga adrge gn yanadegnal andande sasbew awkalew beketay eko room erasu lemayaz birr lalagegne endemchil temari negne demo bezih wendnet ale ayiii mn yiashalal balekulawoch

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Hey y'all I'm 19 F
lowkey I’ve been feeling kinda lonely lately and I really miss having a close girl best friend I can talk to every day, hang out with, and just do life with 😭
if anyone here is also looking for a close friendship, I’d love to connect and see if we vibe 🫶
it would be even cooler if you’re from ASTU so we could actually hang out in real life too
Thank youuuuu ❤️

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22M

Hey guys, I really need your inputs in this because it is bothering me so much.

I don't know if it is something other guys experience too but even otherwise a really calm dude, I am noticing myself feeling this hidden and buried rage and it started in my early 20 and am carrying it now too. I would see another dude and I immediately start sizing him up and wonder if I could beat the ever living shit out of eachother in a fight. The scariest part is most times in these scenarios, people generally imagine themselves being the one doing the blows but in my case it goes either way. It is not just letting the rage out and beating someone else that motivates me but it is the overall theme of being in a fight that does.

I think it has something to do with how I grew up and how I was easy to pick on when I was a kid where I used to get bullied because I was scrawny and you know how puberty works, suddenly my balls got larger, so did my muscles and now I feel this sudden spark of beating respect into someone who might pick on me.

I admit, I have hardly ever been in a fight even as a kid but now I think I am "dematuring" (don't know if it is a real world) into a child at a time where my life and social skills have genuinely improved. I also think that it is because I see the need to size someone up and prepare in case I need to defend myself against them (even when they are completely friendly). I don't go out looking for trouble with them but I really can't stop myself from wondering if I could beat them up if they picked on me.

Anyways, this is a really random vent and I let my intrusive thoughts win, do any of you get the same urges?

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Need an advice Listening to Eyob Musika: yetweshgn bota lay yemilewn music Youtube lay enaaa lemn endehone erasu alawkm (awkalehu deep down) kefagn ena lemn altsfm biye new. edmeyachu sihed frachachun endet new yetelemamedachut? As a person in her early twenties betam new miferaw especially the fear of being unsuccessful ena alea useless hogne sra alagegn yihon mnamn eyalku asbalehu. I want to be this independent woman who has her shits figured out, I'm doing well academically in hopes to get a better future ena edmeyachu 27 ena keza belay yalachu sewoch especially women how are you guys figuring it out? How has life and your expectations been ? Thank you

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ከጎኔ ድራፍት እየጠጣ 30 ደቂቃ አካባቢ ስልክ እያወራ ነዉ ይሄን ሁሉ ደቂቃ ቆይ እሺ አንዴ እኔን ስሚኝ ነዉ የሚለዉ
እስካሁን እሷ ብቻ ናት የምታወራዉ 😂😂😂😂😂
አቤት የወንድ ልጅ መከራ😥

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ሰዎች እኔ አንድ ነው ምመስላቸው ከነሱ ጋር ። ግን ብቻዬን ኩርምት ብዬ እንደምሞት አልገባቸውም ። የነሱን የህይወት ሀዲድ ምኖረው ለነሱ ብዬ እንደሆን አያውቁም ። የኔ ትልቁ በሽታ ሰው ማፍቀሬ ነው። ቤተሰብ እወዳለሁ ። ወደውስጤ እንደተሰደድኩ ግን አያውቁም ።ለዛ እያዬኋቸው እንደራቀ ሰው እናፍቃለሁ ። አብረውኝ እያወጉኝ ቢያድሩ እወድዳለሁ ። ያ እያለ ብቸኝነቴ አስገዳጅ የህልውና አደጋዬ ነው። ሁሌ ሚመላለስ ። በዛ ውስጥ ያቀመሰኝን ግጭት ልነግራቸው አልችልም። አፍራለሁ ። አያውቁትም ። ተራ ምክንያት መስሎ ይቀልላቸዋል። ያበድኩ ወይ የማብድ ያክል እያዩኝ ጸበል ሂድ ወይ ቤተስኪያን ሳም ይሉኛል ። ግን እኔ ከነሱ በላይ እግዜርን በየቀኑ ስሞግተው በኔ መስተሃልይ መመላለሱን ማን ይንገራቸው? እናቴ ስትለኝ እየደበረኝ በነጠላ ተጎፍኜ እሄዳለሁ ።
ቁሜ ምለው ይጠፋኛል ።
ዝም እለዋለሁ ደብሩን ዝም ። አፈጣለሁ ።
ውጣ ከዚ ሚለኝ ይመስለኛል። ምክንያቱን ከሄድኩ አላወድሰውም አልወቅሰውም ቁሜ እታዘበዋለሁ ። በአይኔ'ቂጥ አየዋለሁ ።
የደብሩ ቆሞስ ወልደሰማያት በማይኩ
"ወንድሞቼ አለምን አትውደዱ አለም አላፊ ጠፊ ናትና!"
ስለሚለው የቅዳሴ ሱባኬ ይፈክራሉ ..

"አለም ስጋ ነው
የስጋ ስራ ነው መበስበስ ነው ትርፉ ፣
መዘሞት፣ መርከስ፣ ጣዖትን ማምለክ ፣ማሟረት፣ መጣላት ፣ መከራከር .."

".. አድመኝነት .." በፍጹም ልቤ አልሰማውም ።

ድንዱን ልብ ስላለኝ ሳይሆን ስለማውቀው ነው የምንበሰብስ ሙታኖች ካለነዚ መኖር እንደማንችል ። ተፈጥሮን በምን ይዋጉታል? በጠበል ፣ በዘምዘም? በጸሎት ወይስ በምን?
ግን ቢሆንም ጠበል እሄዳለሁ ። ልጅነቴ እዚያ ነው የቀረው ። ንጹህ እንደሆነ ያለው ገብሬል ጠበሉ ቦታ ነው። እዛ ብቻ ነው ገብሬል ያለው።
የህይወት ሰንከልካላው ሲበዛብኝ ደብር ወይ መስጊድ እሄዳለሁ ። እንድጽናና አደለም ዝም ያለ ንዴት ይዤ ልመጣ ነው ። ማይገነፍል ቁጣዬን አርግዤ ወጣለሁ ።

ህይወት ደንታ ስለማታውቅ እኔም የሷን አካሄድ እንደልጅ አስመስላለሁ ። የቄንጥ አይሉት ወይ የተቻኳይ እንደፋደፋለሁ ።
ስርዓት አታውቅም ጸሎት ዱዓ አታውቅም ጠበል አታውቅም ቁርዓን ማስቀራት አታውቅም ..
ሳታውቅ እንሰይምላታለን እኛ ሞኞቹ ..
በመለዬት በመዘወግ መጋኛ መች እንደተመታን ሳናውቀው ክፍልፋዩ ቁጥሩ የትዬሌሌ ገባ  ።
ምንድነው እኔን የለዬኝ ለማለት ማን ልብ ሰጠን?
ግን ቢሆንም ነፍሳችን እንደ ጉጉት በየፍርስራሹ በየጥጋጥጉ ለምትወሸቅ ለኛ ማን ይፈርድብናል?
እኛ ሳናውቀው ነው ነፍሳችን ተነጥሎ ሊሞት የደረስነው ።
ብቻውን በበረሃ ውሃ ጥም ሲመጠው ዝም እንዳንለው ነው ልዩ ነን ያልነው ። ውነታችንን ብቻችንን ነው አቡክተን የጋገርነው ። አደለም እንዴ?
እህ ሚስማማ የለም?
አያችሁ አደል ለምን ስለሆንኩት እንደማልነግራችሁ ዲንጋ ላይ ውሃ ማፍሰስ ስለኾነ ነው ፤
ቋንቋ አርቆ ስለቀበረኝ ወይ ስላሰደደኝ

"ሚዳንሱትን አይተው እብድ ናቸው ሚሉት ሙዚቃውን የማይሰሙት ናቸው።

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Hi. I'm a 22 year old girl who has somehow gone her entire life without having a neighborhood bestie. Like... how is that even possible? 😭

If you live in Bole Arabsa and you're in your early to mid 20s, please come collect me. I'm tired of romanticizing solo walks and pretending I don't wish I had someone to randomly grab coffee or ertib with, gossip, go on late night snack runs, or just rot together with.

No weird vibes, just looking for a genuine friend because apparently im going nuts here alone. 💀

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. 🤍

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Hey everyone, this is emergency

I’m 25 years old, and I really need to vent. I want to hear from mature people, especially women, about friendship.
I know I can be stubborn, but I don’t feel guilty about it. I’m confused about what real friendship is. What does a healthy and genuine friendship look like?
I don’t know where to start, but here’s what’s on my mind…ልጅነቴን ስመለከተው የብዙ ጓደኛ ባለቤት ነበርኩ አሁንም ነኝ። ሁሉም ቦታ ጓደኛ የነበረኝ ነበርኩ። እንዴት ጓደኝነቱን እንደምጀምረው ባላውቅም ግን በቃ በየቦታው ጓደኛ ይኖረኛል። ክረምትን ለማሳለፍ የምሄድበት የአያቴ ቤት አከባቢ ጓደኛ አለኝ አንድ ምናምን አይደለም ሁለትና ምን አልባትም ከዚያ በላይ አክስቴ ቤትም ከሄድኩ እንደዛው በተማርኩበት ትምህርት ቤቶች ሁሉ ጓደኞች ነበሩኝ። ነገር ግን በተማሪነት ዘመኔ ሁሌም እያስታውኩ የምደውል አይነት በጣም attached የሆንኩኝ አይደለሁም። ስገናኝ ጓደኛ ነኝ ስርቅ እርቃለሁ ያለኝ ባህሪ ያለኝ አመለካከት አይለወጥም ከብዙ አመት ቡሃላ ሳገኛቸው እንደዛው ነኝ ጓደኝነቴ እኔ አይምሮ ውስጥ እንደተጠበቀ ነው። ሌላው ግልፅ ነኝ ብዬ ባስብም ሁሉም በልክ ሲሆን ደስ ይለኛል ስለ ቤተሰቤ በውስጤ ስለሚሰሙኝ ስሜቶች አላወራም(ምን አልባት አልፎ አልፎ) ...እና ሰው ቸል ያለኝ ከመሰለኝ እና በትክክል ግንኙነቱን እያስቀጠለ እንዳልሆነ ከተሰማኝ ከቦታው ድራሼን አጠፋለሁ አልገኝም በቃ ማብራርያም አልጠይቅም (ምን አልባት እኔ አስቀይሜም እኮ ሊሆን ይችላል ግን ልክ አላልፍም ብዬ ስለማስብ በቃ እጠፋለሁ), እና ሴት ጓደኞቼ ምን ሆነሽ ነው ብለሽ እንኳ አትጠይቂንም? በሌላ ምክንያት እኮ ነው እንደዛ የሆነው ብለው የሚነግሩኝ እራሳቸው መጥተው ነገሩ ካለፈ ቡሃላ ነው, ሌላው ደሞ በጣም ትልቁ ጉዳይ ልክ ነው ወይ? እናንተም ጋር አለ? ብዬ መጠየቅ የምፈልገው እኔ ከእኔ ጋር በጣም ደስተኛ ሰላማዊ ነኝ ምን አልባት አስተዳደጌ ሊሆን ይችላል በቃ ማንም ባይኖር ችግር የለውም ደስተኛ ነኝ በዛ ምክንያት አብዛኛው ነገሮቼን ብቻዬን እራሴን ችዬ አደርጋለሁ ያ ደግሞ ደስታ ይሰጠኛል ሴቶች ደግሞ በጋራ መሄድ (ሽንት ቤት እንኳን) በጋራ ጉዳያቸውን ማድረግ ይወዳሉ እኔ ማንንም እንደዛ አላስቸግርም በውዴታዬ ካልሆነም ደግሞ ለማድረግ ፈቃደኛ አይደለሁምም ያበሳጨኛልምም። ምን አልባት እቤት ገብቼ መተኛት ይሆናል እኮ ግን በቃ ያሰብኩት እሱን ከሆነ ያንን ነው ማድረግ የምፈልገውም የሚያስደስተኝም እሱ ነው። አሁን ትልቅ ስሆን ደግም ነገሮች እየባሱ መጡ እኔ እስካሁን ልክ ነኝ ብዬ ባስብም ሴት ጓጀኞቼን ማስቀየሜ ግን አልቀረም እና ምን የሚል መልስ ነው ለራሴ የምሰጠው በቃ እኔ እንዲ ነኝ የማንንም ተቀባይነት ማግኘት አይጠበቅብኝም ይላል ውስጤ። በተመሳሳይ መልኩ ደግሞ ማንንም ሰው በኔ ምክንያት ማሳዘን አልፈልግም። እና እሺ ሰላሜን ልጣ?
እኔ እነሱ የሚሉትን ሁሉ አከብራለሁ አንዴ ሲነግሩኝ መቶ ጊዜ እረዳቸዋለሁ አከብርላቸዋለሁ ለኔ መልሰው እንደዛ ለምን አያደርጉም?
እኔ :- ነገ ትመጫለሽ ?
እሷ(እነሱ):- አይ ጉዳይ አለኝ አይመቸኝም
እኔ:- ነው እንዴ በቃ እሺ
እነርሱስ
እኔ:- አይመቸኝም/አልሄድም
እነሱ:- ለምን፣እንዴት፣ወዴት፣ኧረመምጣትማ አለብሽ፣ተጣልቼሻለሁ፣አስደበርሺኝ፣አንቺማ የምትገርሚ ሰው ነሽ፣ኧረ የምን ጉዳይ ነው ትተሽው ነይ እንጂ፣መምጣትማ አለብሽ፣እቤት እመጣለሁ አብረን እኔዳታለን......

እንዴ ወገን ትልቅ ሰው ነኝ እኮ በቃ አላደርግምም አደርጋለሁምም ስል በቃ ለኔ አሳማኝ ምክንያት አለኝ...
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Hey guys. So I'm 22 F, a virgin and I wanna start having sex with my bf. But the thing is I have irregular cycke and idk how to track my ovulation. So postpill might still not eork if i ovulate. So I want to ask girls with irregular cycle how you guys do it. Any tips?

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