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she say ድንግል ነኝ but she have 2 ex boyfriend ከኔ በፊት, እናም i respect her boundary about sexual activity, i want to merry her, we are now 3 years in relationship without sex totally ከ 20 ምናምን ቀን በላይ አብረን አድረናል በተለያዩ ጊዜ እና አጋጣሚ ግን when we are in some ስንሳሳም መተሻሸት ምናምን ስሜት ውስጥ ስንገባ she was actively participated ከኔ በላይ እና ይገርመኛል ወድያው ወደ sex ስጋብዛት she say 'No' እኔም okay ብዬ አረጋግቻት እተዋለው ነገር ግን ዝም ብዬ አንዳንዴ ነገሮችን ገጣጥሜ ሳስብ i was confused i think she have experience on sex እናም መጀመሪያ ድንግል ነኝ ስላለችኝ እና የኛም ቅርበት እስከ family ድረስ በመዝለቁ shame ይዟት መስሎ እየተሰማኝ ነው ይሄን የምለው ከምላቹ ነገር በተጨማሪ ያለነገርኳቹ የተወሰኑ ነገሮች ስላሉኝ Btw
ስለምወዳት ብትሆንም ባትሆንም ለኔ ለውጥ የለውም ነገር ግን እሷ ሳታውቅ ይሄን ነገር እንዴት ማወቅ ችላለው any physical or pathological የማውቀበት መንገድ ካለ?

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Gre geban eko wegen Am ready to build something with girl , to do the mundane and the magical with someone who’s equally invested, while it feels like so many others are just… window shopping.

And it’s deeply human to want that commitment. It’s wanting safety, depth, and a witness to my life. I deserve a love that doesn’t leave you questioning your worth or decoding mixed signals.i deserve woman who looks at me and thinks, Absolutely, yes. I’m not going anywhere.

I’m sorry it’s been frustrating and lonely. The waiting can be the hardest part, especially when you have so much love to give and a clear vision of the partnership you want. It’s okay to be tired of the shallow end.

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Heyy everyone ,how are you doing
The thing is tefetnacihu takalacihu befikir i mean i hv been praying my whole age bzih guday ena when it finally comes ….bka tru sew gn different religion he’s Protestant i am orthodox
We are not dating gn we have feeling to eachother ena I am so scared I am starting to have feelings for him
Some advice please

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I feel lonely sometimes

Yeah that's a cap,i actually feel lonely all the time at the congregation there are girls my age not just my age,we literally grew up together but literally all of them r rich and I'm not and idk when we were kids we didn't care about that stuff but now,we do,at list they do i think

Yeah the only place i feel like i belong is at my college, it's literally my first year and i met the most amazing 2 girls,i can just be my self when I'm around them and they actually understand me like,🫶
Specially one of them i truly luv her like she so nice honest and caring
Mnm atawkm beluat beka,

Even tho i have them when i get to sit alone at the house or when I'm going somewhere even when I'm sleeping all i can think about is being rich,then i want to see those girls at church,like r they gonna try to be close with me again or r they just gonna keep it that way
Right now i just want a girl that i can talk to like someone that i can yapp to, tell my feeling,cry if i have to yk i want that friendship i really do
I have been holding my emotions for so long i need to let it out

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ከአንቺ ጋር የጋገርኩት የትዝታ እንጀራ ጎደሎ ባለ አንድ አይና ሆኗል!
መሀሉ የተንቦረቀቀ ክፍት....
እጅሽን ይዤ ህይወት ላይ አሰፋሁት ያልኩትን....ሁሉ ማን እንዲህ ቆርሶ ጨረሰው?
የሄድንበትን በጠቅላላ....ያጠፋን ሰላቢ ምን ስም ላውጣለት?
አላየናችሁም ያሉትን ምስክሮች....ስንት ስለት ባለው ጉጠት ልውጋቸው?
''እንዲህ ተያይዛችሁ'' ፣ ''እንዲህ ጨፍራችሁ'' ፣ ''እንዲህ ስመሽው'' ፣ ''እንዲህ አስቃችሁን''.....መባልን ሰዎች ነን ካሉ እንደምን አላወቁትም?
አላፈቀሩም? አልተንገበገቡም?
በስንቱ የንጉስ ታሪክ የሚሞሻለቅ ህዝብ እንዴት አንዷን ታሪካችንን በልቡ ይዞ ማስታወስ አቃተው?
እኔና አንቺ የሆነው....ወይራ በሚታጠን የፍየል ቆዳ ይደጎስ ዘንድ ምን ጎደሎ አለው?
ማንትስ....ተብላ ወገብ ተይዞ ተራራ ከሚወጣላት ቅድስት አንቺ በምን ታንሻለሽ?

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ፍራቻዎቻችን በሙሉ ጥግ ጥጉን ያስጉዙናል...በህይወት ያደረግነው ጠጋ ብለን ብናይ ጥቁር እና ኦና ገዋ ይንገዋለልበታል።
እንዴት ስንኖር ቆርሰን የምንበላው ደህና የትዝታ እንጀራ እናጣለን?
ከአደባባይ ሰልፍ እና የልጇን ሞት ጥርሷ መሀል ከምታንቀራጭጭ የእናት ድምፅ ሌላ እንዴት ምንነግረው ፣ ምንሰማው እናጣለን?
በለቅሶ ነፍርቀን....የእጆቻችን ንፍጦች ሳይደርቁ ወገቦቻቸውን ለእስክታ ከማዘጋጀት ውጪ....አጣጥመን የጨረስነው ሀዘንም ሆነ ደስታ የለንም!
አብድ እንደሚዘግነው....በሶ አበታተናችን ያሳዝናል!
ለመያያዝ ነፍሶቻችን አልጠኑም....ስጋዎቻችን ውስጥ የወረት ነፋስ ተደላድሏል።
ብንለቀቅ ወደየትም ለመሳፈፍ....ብንበሳ ትንቡክ ብሎ ከመምዘግዘግ አላመለጠንም።

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ክዳኑ እንደጠፋ የስኳር እቃ የታላላቆቻችንን አፎች በዝንብ ዝዝታ እና በቁጫጭ ትርምስምስታ ተሞልተዋል።
ቅዱሱን ነገር ጣዕም የማይለዩ አፎች ቀምሰው አበላሽተውታል።
ትዝታ ማለት ለመብላት ጓግተን የወረረውን እሽ! ብለን የምናባርርለት ሳይሆን....ተፀይፈን አውጥተን የምንደፋው የተበላሸ ጣፈጭ ሆኗል!
ጎዳናዎቻችን ሁሉ.....ተባይ ባረፉ ጣፋጭ ትዝታዎች ተጥለቅለቀዋል።

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አንድ ቀን....አንድ መጠጥ ቤት ውስጥ በስካር ጮኸን.... አንድ ሙዚቃ አስከፈትን....ቤቱ ውስጥ ካሉ ጓደኞቼ ጋር በሙዚቃው ተደጋግፈን ጨፈርን። ተያይዘን ተመሰጥን...
ታድያ ምንሆነው ከጥግ የሚታዘብ አንድ ሰው....በሙዚቃው መሀል ድንገት ገብቶ እንባውን እየጠረገ እያቀፈ ሳመን!

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ከየት ናችሁ? አለን

ከዚሁ...ከእንትን ፣ እንትን

እኔማ ከልቤ በኩል በየት ቀዳችሁ ወጣችሁ ብዬ ደነገጥኩ! ረዥም ግዜ በሙዚቃ ከጨፈርኩ....ልቤ ላይ ግን ከጠዋት - እስከ ሌት በዚህ ሙዚቃ በትዝታ አሁን በህይወት ከሌሉ ጓደኞቼ ጋር አብሬ እጨፍር ነበር።
ይሄን ውበት ከልቤ ውጪ ሌላ የምድር ቦታ ላይ አየዋለሁ ብዬ አንድም ቀን አስቤ አላውቅም ነበረ!
ከኔና አሁን አጠገቤ ከሌሉ ጓደኞቼ ውጪ ይሄን ማን ይደግመዋል ብዬ አስባለሁ?
ይሄ ትዝታ ማለት....ለማን ላውርሰው ብለው ታማኝ ልጅ እንደሚፈልጉለት ውድ ነዋይ ማለት ነው ለኔ!
አይደለም አብሮ ለመጨፈር....የሆንኩትን እንኳ ለመስማት ትከሻዬን የሚነካ የለም።
ቆንጆ ወጣትነት ሲኖራችሁ ዳንስ እና ሙዚቃችሁን ሁሉ ምታወርሱት የሚወደድ ልጅ ትፈልጋላችሁ።
ይኸው....እናንተን ዛሬ አገኘሁ! ከእንግዲህ ቶሎ ሞቼ ለነዛ ውብ ጓደኞቼ ስለእናንተ የሆነውን እስከንግራቸው ብቻ ነው የምቸኩለው።
አንዴ ብቻ ግን ሙዚቃውን ደግመን አብረን እንደንስ....ደግሜ ያንን ዳንሳችንን ከዛ ሙዚቃ ጋር... ከነዛ ወጣቶች አብር ደነስኩ ብዬ ጓደኞቼን ማስቀናት እፈልጋለሁ። ሄሄሄ!

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John Cheever ''beauty is like war'' ይላል።
ከአንቺ ጋር ያደረግነው ውብ ነገር ከማድረጌ በፊት....በስንቱ ህይወት በላከችብኝ ታጣቂ የገጠመኝ ወታደሮች ተባርሬያለሁ?
ዓለም ከተስማማበት ቁምነገር ተብዬ ነገር ለመምለጥ ስንቴ ፀጉሬን ተላጭቻለሁ?
በተዘጋ ፍርግርግ ከሚደረግ ቀሽም ደስታ ለመራቅ....ስንት የሀዘን ዛንጊባዎችን ዘረጋሁ?
እንደነሱ ሁንልኝ....የሚሉ ማዕረጎችን ስንቴ አጋዥ ባጣ ትከሻዬ ገፍቼ ጣልኳቸው?
በረንዳ ላይ ጋዜጣ እያነበቡ ቡና መጠጣት የሚያመጣውን ደስታ ለማወቅ....በራሴ ጥፍር ስንቱን የልቤን ግርግዳ ቧጥጬ አድምቼዋለሁ?
እህ! ብሎ ግጥም ለመስማት የሚያቅበጠብጠኝን ጉጉት ለማግኘት....ስንት ከእኩዬቹ የመጡ ግብዣዎችን በር ዘግቼባቸዋለሁ!

ከንፈሮቼ በለስላሳ ጠይም ስጋ ብቻ አልተገነቡም....ስንቱን ሙዚቃ ፣ ስንቱን ግጥም ፣ ስንቱን የሀዘንን ጨዋታዎች አስርፀው ይዘዋል!

ለዛ ነው ስስምሽ....ያለሽበት የሚጠፋሽ! ሂሂሂ!
ይሄ አይንሽን እያየ የሚስምሽ ልጅ ወጣት ጤይባ ብቻ አይደለም.....ህይወት ላይ ቆንጆ ነገር ለማድረግ ሲል ዓለም ድንቅ ነው ብሎ ካሰለፈው ጋንታ ጋር ጦርነት የገጠመ ሀዘንተኛ መኮንን ጭምር ነው!

በይ ነይ ደግመሽ ሳሚኝ☕️

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I’ve been noticing a lot of girlies talking about light skinned men like they are sent from heaven 😏 like every girl be like ‘light skin this’ ‘light skin that’ ‘light skin saved my life’ relaxaauhhh 😭
Can we talk abt the real national treasure that is a tall brown handsome man who looks like he could fix ur life and also ruin it a little🫶🏽😭.My tall brown muscular handsome men who look like they cld lift me, my future and past with their pinky ahh. The ones with deep voices that make u forget what u wanna say 🤎. The ones who look scarier bur softer for uuu😭🤎🫶🏽🫶🏽. I mean why is nobody talking endee the fact that a tall brown man will stand there looking like a whole golden protector mean while light skinned looking like meehhh iswwwtggg they no masculine energy not for me ahh.
Im tired of pretending likeee I’ll take my tall brown muscular handsome man whose world revolves around me any day and nighttt.
Live long my brown king 🤎🤎🫶🏽.

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Dear Myself,

I think I’m very depressed. I think I’m very sick. My body feels tired all the time. I messed up my chances. I don’t think I have a future. I don’t think I will ever get married or have children. I don’t think anybody loves me. I don’t think anyone understands me. I feel like a miserable person.

I have no one to talk to, and I don’t want to talk to anybody. I think this is my fate, to suffer on my own and die on my own. I have to endure this pain in silence. I have to bear it alone… because I am a man.

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This is for the non-social people out there.

Why do we suck at holding a simple conversation? What’s your reason? Let me share mine.

I’m very judgmental. As soon as I meet someone, I assign a certain value to them based on their looks, clothes, and confidence. If my brain decides their value is higher than mine, it starts going crazy, lol. I run out of things to say, I zone out mid-conversation, and so on. Especially when it comes to chicks, bruh. Like damn.

The other day, a friend of a friend called me. She said hi, I said hello. She said she got my number from a friend and wanted to talk. Then my brain went completely blank and I didn’t know what to say, so I just started interrogating her about who gave her my number. Keza demo there was an awkward quiet period, mnamn. Oh my fuck, it was so cringe, bruh.

The weirdest thing about this is that if I assign them less value than me, I’m the most extroverted guy you could ever meet.

I know this is bad, and definitely not kind. But that’s just how I am.

I’m not here looking for help. I just want to know whether this is something common among socially awkward people or if it’s just my version of it.

Share your reason down here, and let’s see if we relate, eski.

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So hey u guys lemme ask u something there's a guy that am dating ena when I meet him in person my body start to shake lebe cherashe letota nw emtdrsew cherashe when he hug and kiss my cheeks tewgn bka malt my nerves endet shake endmiyareg i was like did he notice that am nerves beye feraw ....ena idk why this happening kza he was trying kiss my lips its my first time ena i was like hell noo we just started dating eko beye salasata zor alku malt nw 3 months nw date yargnew gn be 3 month kesent and nw menegenagnew because we both have work mnam and i have strict family soo kza mate txt lake ena we talked mnamn and he said i was trying to kiss u know that ale and i said yeah but is that why u come and see me awo alegn my stupid ass think he miss me and come and see me and i was happy but i dont think anymore then he said U blew ur vhance and I said maybe I wasn't rady yet and he said i was but not anymore then he said sry I ask for wat he said for trying to kiss you then I ask him will he be my safe place and he say i don't really know right know and i was like i know it ur not the one eko u just know how to pretend u know i have childhood trauma ena am afraid like what if he just wanna be my first kisser then leave me i don't wanna keep him for that but I don't think thats how good and mature relationship made he have to respect my boundaries and make me safe around him right yenanten idea dmo tell me ke experience gar this is gonna my last time because of him my dad is not talking to me ke café seweta when the guy hug me aytogn tekoteto mnamn ena this is my last time fr

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I literally just wanted to be loved. To feel good enough without having to offer my body or sacrifice my morals
But you let go of my hand
I don't miss you much but everything that I am reminds me of you. I wasn't good enough, I left coz i felt that I was better off alone.
Now you're not here and I'm still not good enough
I don't want to do this to myself. I keep ignoring my feelings and pretending like I'm okay and that nothing matters and I'm not hurting inside.
But I am, I'm so dead inside.
The thing is, I don't even want you back in my life I just with you never let go of my hand. Wish you didn't hurt me or scream at me, wish you loved me instead of my body. I wish I never met you because you made me hate myself even more and push people away because I believed every bad thing you made me think about myself.

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You know it's strange but i felt kind of relief when i got diagnosed with MDD now atleast i know I'm not crazy or weird.

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I am a 26-year-old young woman, and I currently work in business. I am in a relationship, and it has been about one year now. He is a very kind person, and he makes me feel loved and cared for. I love him very much too.
However, there is something that often makes me think and raises questions in my mind. Many times, when we are together, he brings up things related to physical intimacy. He often asks about kissing or having sex. As for me, I do not agree with kissing or having sex before marriage.
We have talked about this, but he still likes discussing such things. He even wants to have sexual conversations over the phone, but I do not want that either. When I refuse, he gets upset. I do not want him to be upset, but at the same time, I do not feel comfortable with those things.
Sometimes I wonder if he truly loves me or if he is mainly interested in those physical aspects of the relationship. What advice would you give me about this situation? I would really appreciate your thoughts and opinions.

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Hello everyone. I’m a 22 F (almost 23) recent graduate I’ve been feeling lost and stressed since graduation😭 because I’m not sure what I want to do with my life. Recently, I’ve been thinking about becoming a hostess i am tall (1.76cm )but I have no idea where to start.
If anyone has experience or knows about the process, I would really appreciate your advice.
Like is it better to join self sponsored training or wait for their vacancies I am also curious about how long the whole recruitment and training process take and how much self sponsored training cost . Also after that did they actually hire you? Pls help me out

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i need a help guys ASAP please so here's the thing my sister and i are the only one for our parents okay and i was an outstanding girl and still am like in university got good grades mnamn even though once there was my down moment thanks to god now am doing and getting great but my little one isn't she doesn't have the courage for study and school related topics and her grades are going worse and worse we have tried every possible ways for her to change and as an elder i did what i am supposed to do i mean i talk to her with the most open and free way of sisterhood not as an elder or whatever but as a bestfriend as a partner in crime as a person who will never let her down in whatever the reason is and she kept getting worse by every aspects she does not have good relationship with my parents even though they are the most charming and friendly parents that i have ever seen and also with me she chooses to be harsh in every aspect and we fear to be hard on her i mean you know these days evil thoughts suicide and stuff and her grades are at their lowest like LOWESTTT!!! and my parents expect i mean they don't want to pressure her on but i mean they spend on her and when their expenditure losses its value they feel really really upset and sad and i make myself guilty for that and i found out that she was going messy behind i found things on her phone teenage faults and now i am lost lost in hell like what should i do how can i redirect her how can i save her i have responsibility and am not succeeding on that so elderlies tips sisterhood any of it please please send your help

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Hey everyone I'm a guy in my mid 20s and I was dating this girl whose a couple years younger than me. Things was going pretty good between us, but then I find out she still talks to all of her exes. She's actually really close friends with one of them too. She always has a reason for it and tries to explain why they still keep in touch, but honestly I see that as a pretty big red flag. Am I overthinking this or is it a valid concern? Ladies, I'd like to hear your perspective on it. Thanks.

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Graduated few months ago and I got a job. I have never worked my whole life and I'm anxious about it. Any advice for my first day at work or any advice in general Please 😭.

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i need to vent am 28 female ተቀጥሬ መስራት ከጀመርኩ አራት አመት ሊሆነኝ ነዉ ባንክ ዉስጥ ነዉ የምሰራዉ። እስካሁን ግን ህይወቴ ላይ ለዉጥ የለም በግሌ ስራ ለመጀመር ሞክሬ አልተሳካልኝም የባሰ እዳ ዉስጥ ከተተኝ አሁን እዳ እየከፈልኩ ከወር ወር መድረስ ከብዶኛል ቤተሰቤን መርዳት ባለብኝ ልክ እየረዳሁ አይደለም አይናቸዉንም ማየት ይከብደኛል አንድ አንድ ግዜ ምን አልባት እዳ ዉስጥ ባልገባ እንዲ አይሰማኝም እላለሁ።
ታምናላችሁ ወደ ስራ መሄጂያ የታክሲ ብር እስካጣ እቸገራለሁ ከምታስቡት በላይ ሞክሬያለሁ አዳዲስ skillኦችን ለመማር እሞክራለሁ እቃ ከብዛትነጋዴ ወስጄ ለመሸጥ እሞክራለሁ ልጆች አስጠናለሁ በቃ በጣም እየጣርኩም እየጋርኩም ነዉ ለዉጥ ግን ወፍ። ከቀን ወደቀን እየባሰብኝ ነዉ እንደዉ በእናታችሁ የሆነቀን አስፓልት ላይ ራቁቴን መሄድ እንዳልጀምር ምን ላድርግ

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I am 23 years old.
He just makes me happy, I feel at peace when I am around him, I knew that I was cooked the moment I found myself wanting to spend every second with him. I feel genuineness, he is so supportive, he treats me with respect, his consistency, he communicates, he is ambitious...in the beginning I was suspicious but nowadays i just chose to enjoy every moment i have with him no matter what tomorrow brings to our lives.

I think I just love this man❤️

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Guys, I need your advice. I earn 46,000 birr monthly, and I have been earning this for a year, but currently, I don't have any savings in my bank. What should I do to save some money? My greatest expense is 12,000 birr for house rent.

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Why is it so hard to find an easy flowing love? Here is the thing i've been in two different relationships at different times there is like 2 year difference between them the first one lasted for 6 months and the second one lasted for around 3/4 months tbh i blame myself for both of them to not workout i take the responsibility but here is what i think for why it doesn't workout: in both situations there was a chasing situation like before we get into the relationship there is a period of chasing that i'm chasing them (Nb: they showed interest but they were hesitant to commit) so the thing is after we get into the r/ship i feel soooooo tired like i get tired of them, even it annoys me when they use love words or call me in affectionate names  (Nb: i used to call them in affectionate names and use love words during the chase), so when they start to show commitment i lose interest on them like i really get tired of them, so what i found out is the chasing part makes me so tired it just drained me so i lost the interest and they became too ordinary, i know it's all my fault but i couldn't help it, so i think sometimes one of the reasons we mens lose interest in a girl is not because we didn't love them at the first place we do but if there is some chasing part it just consumes our energy🔋 and that all love that we can give if not for the chasing go to waste and when finally the girl starts to show commitment we're in a battery low mode and not much to give, so i feel like it's sooo hard to find an easy flowing love that doesn't need so much conviction that's smooth, easy going and that doesn't need so much hard work to finally find commitment something that you start being on the same page with the other part it's hard to find huh?

so my question is does something like this happen to you?

And for girls why you make it so hard for us at the start? Why it took you so long to commit even having an interest? Why leave us with a doubt at the start?
Isn't it better that you conserve our energy?

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