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Am i the only habesha antinatalist out there? So anti-natalism is the concept that life inherently had suffering woven into it and so, it is not morally acceptable to bring an non-consenting innocent beings onto this world where suffering is guaranteed and existence ultimately ends with death.
Living in Ethiopia with this ideology is hard sometimes🥲 i feel like an outcast. Explaining it to family and friends feels like talking to a wall and my dating life well it is almost nonexistent. I always wonder especially in this day and age in Ethiopia, why people continue having kids and don't think twice about it?? 😭 it is very slefish and irresponsible imo.

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Hey guys, please no negative energy here only leave a comment if you have something helpful to say. Thanks

So, there is this girl I’ve been making eye contact with for a while ena I finally got the opportunity to talk to her, and we are officially in the talking stage. This is actually my first time trying to date or like pull a girl, and i am like noticing that there is a sign on her side. and we’ve only been talking for a few days, but I really want to ask her out on a date. What do you guys think? Do you have any recommendations or advice on how I should ask her out? Like should i ask her i.g and ask on a text or should i still keep talking through phone for a while if so how long talking stage is enough to ask for a date ? brodies help your brother🙂 Thanks!

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sooo guys mn meselachu yemeslegnal beka single hogne memote nw😭 wey gudee sometimes rasen sasbes do i have" አይነጥላ" type shit attache alhonem fkr ayzegnm menamn kemanm gar endew belolegn relationship bejemr rasu the next day nebse letweta nw metdersew gurllll run out of this thing 🏃‍♀‍➡️nw melew lerase keza demo i feel sooo bad lerasem abrogn lihon leneberewm sew rejem gize bekoyem ena bedemb attached behon rasu it's sooo easy for me to let someone go and move on min yibalal eshi ehe😭 hulum sew lebe dendana nesh nw milegn liredagn ayfelgem enem felgew eko adelem becha do i need a psychiatrist or ፀበል menamn aleza ዘሬን ሳልተካ lemot nw or it's Normal🙄helllll nah normal demo lihon aychelem ena mn telalachu a BIG apology kerezeme 😊
FYI demo i don't have any trauma or family things menamn

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So, i know this guy for 3 years mnmn ena he's married gn married endehone sew behave ayaregm i know his wife on tiktok ena hes been asking me tp become hes 2nd wife ena i said no obviously gn bka sera guday yagnagenal ena gedeta bka mistun sayat tasazngalech balfew she reposted a post that says " cheers balachen kerasu belay lemiweden ena lemiyakbren" mtsm hes 35 and am 20 imagine and ofc be 16 or 17 amet jemro new makew gn bka yedewlal setota yelkal mnserabt bota (family business) atakm esua bengrat dmo tedarachews becha wellahu ya'elm.

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Yalagebachu wendoch like le tedar emotionally, financially zegeju honachu gn yalagebachu how do u get ur spouse ofc dua enargalen tahajjudm yenoral leyl ale gn kza betchemari in real life amd yagebachuts dua endaregachutlat aynet set new yagebachut?

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Hey, I just wanna vent about something that’s been lowkey bothering me. I’m 21F, almost 22, and I’m a university student. I still have a long way to go in my career, so I’ve been trying to focus on that and sacrifice other things, you know?
The thing is, I’ve never been in a real relationship. And before anyone assumes stuff, it’s not like I’m lonely or that no one’s interested in me 😭 I do get approached in real life, and I’ve had crushes and talking stages before, but nothing ever became serious.
I remember one talking stage where this guy was begging me to be his girlfriend even though we never went on a date or even talked in person. He just saw me at church. And honestly, I don’t really trust online guys like that, and meeting someone I only know from chatting terrifies me.
I know it’s not because of my looks, because guys do approach me in public sometimes. One time I was walking to gebi and this guy said, “ለከፋ አይደለም ግን honestly you’re so pretty,” and I literally thought it was lakefa at first 😭 I got nervous and tried to change direction he didn't follow or try anything never saw him again.
I also think I have avoidant issues. Like one time I had a huge crush on this guy, and after a while I think I started giving signals or energy or whatever 😭 then he started getting closer to me… and what did I do? I ran every time I saw him. Maryamen 😭
I genuinely don’t know what’s wrong with me. I want a relationship, but at the same time I avoid every chance I get . Sometimes I wonder if it’s insecurity or fear or something deeper. Like… who am I waiting for exactly?
Even people in my neighborhood have started making “you’re next” wedding jokes, saying maybe next year and stuff. And I’m just there like 🤨

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Mejemerya lay kemeret tenesta enleyay alech denegetku mnamn ene yane yehone suprise mnamn lareg tef tef eyalku neber bergit 1 -3ken ghost argiyat neber keza behuala lemn erefi blat alsemachim hedech keza block aregechegne behulum social media keza ke2 samnt mnamn behuala  story areku slerase staff mnamn neger keza sewoch storye lay reply karegut ga flirty message melalak jemerku keza yesuwa  guadegna  weym esuwa endehonu betyakewechuwa leyehuwachew ena sle esua setykegne mnamn endebakene gize slekoterkut r/ship wust alneberkum mnamn beye bzu washew esuwan lemanaded keza guadegnawa negne  atgebatm wusha mnamn yesdb aynet weredebgne koy esuwa kehedech kome melemen nw yalebgne move on mareg nw yalebgne message telakelgne awerahu bzu washehu  demo mebte nw beguadegnochuwam mnamn enen block argewgnal mn atefaw koy kome lekr ede koy setoch alfelgm blachu kehedachu behuala lemndn nw drama mtserut???

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For God, for St. Gabriel,
Your son is unwell, uncomfortable here, living in struggle. I want to change myself and try to write my future with my own hands, but I feel trapped here, surrounded by haters trying to bring me down. I am circled by devils and hatred, and I have no clue how to defend myself.
I tried everything. I called upon the names of all the angels, even You, God, but no one seems to reply. It has been four years. You know I have no one to rely on, but You left me alone, and my life completely changed. I experienced deep trauma that may stay with me for a lifetime.
Now I feel like I am at the end of everything. Every hope I had in You is vanishing. If You are not around when I need You the most, then why is Your presence in this world?
St. Gabriel, I do not want to speak badly about God for the rest of my life, but I am losing everything. I am losing myself every day, digging my own funeral deeper every day, and my time feels like it is getting closer to the finish line.
There will be no cross on my neck. There will be no God’s name in my mouth. There will be nothing at all.
But before that happens, please save me. Help me. Time is running.
One day, I may decide.

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I believe in Ghosts

Because unresolved things, ideas, passions are ghosts. They haunt me nearly everyday, and I visibly wince when they thrash in my mind.

They're literally abominations; undeveloped and decaying, they float in the void of the subconscious and occasionally break through into the conscious to take a gulp of air, and then they sink back again.

Sometimes they escape the gravity of the subconscious and come as a band of headless men and women, launching themselves against the inside of the skull.

For the sake of my sanity, I should probably give them good closure; it's not fun having a haunted mind.

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Why are we here👀
I mean exist maregachen tergum alew?
‘Yetftrnlet ngr ale’ or Lelam meknyat yenoral gn esu meaning berasu yerasachen aydlem

Exist aregen suffer aregen success agegnen or suffer eyaregen motn then what? Ik n I believe in genet and seol but what the point

Ene huletunm I mean broke season Ena stable yehonkubachew season och alu ahun yemsgen wede broke temelshalew🤭 but tbh kom blachu as achu tawkalachu

Sometimes bzu tebazu medrenm muluat milew wede mergemt yazenblebgnal

Bezan👩🏾‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾 tebazan 👨‍👩‍👦 medren Molanat Ena mn teftre?🤦🏾‍♂️

Our parents lenesu future life(ለመጦ’ር) weledun then yegna life berasu confuse argon enesu belje yalflegnal blew yasbalu enesun blame eyareku aydlem but exist yemadreg yemasdereg hasabu Mnm sense aysetm it’s so boringgg🥴

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ሰውን judge አላደርግም ለዛም ይመስለኛል ብዙ አይነት ጓደኛ የነበረኝ ሱሰኛ አጫሽ ጠጪ ሌሎች ብዙ አመሎች ያሏቸው ነገር ግን እኔጋ መተው ሁሉንም ይነግሩኛል እነሱም እኔም ይገርመናል ለምን እንደሆነ ግን እኔም እነሱም አናውቅም የእውነት በውስጤም ቢሆን ኮንኛቸው አላውቅም። ልክ እንዳልሆነ እንደ ሚጎዳቸውና ማቆም እንዳለባቸው ከማበረታታት በቀር ..በዚህ ሁሉ ውስጥ ግን እኔ የተለየሁ እንደ ሆንኩ አስብ ነበረ እኔጃ ውስጥ ውስጡን መልአክ እንደሆንኩ ተሰምቶኝ ይሆናል😁, እናሳ አይደለሁም ለካ አንድ ጥግ ላይ እራሴን ወድቃ ባገኛትስ የከፋ አወዳደቅ እንደ ዲያቢሎስ ተፈጠፈጥኩኝ በጣም እንደማላደርገው እርግጠኛ የሆንኩበትን በሃሳቤ መቶ እንኳን የማያውቀውን ተግባር ፈፀምኩ..የተለየሁ መስሎኝ ነበረ ወይም የተለየ አኗኗር ያለኝ ግን ሳልሳሳት አልቀረሁም አዝናለሁ እንግዲህ ብዬ ነበር ያን ማታ የተኛሁት, guss What ደገምኩት
ድሮ ልጅ እያለሁ አስራዎቹ ውስጥ መፅሐፍ ቅዱስ ውስጥ ስለ ሳምሶን ሳነብ ሳምሶን ግን ጅል ነው እንዴ እንዳልኩ አስታውሳለሁ ድክመትህን ንገረኝ እንደ ሌሎች ሰዎች ተራ የምትሆንበት ሚስጥሩ ምንድነው ብላ ስትነዘንዘው አይገባውም እንዴ እያልኩ ሳምሶን ሞኝ ነው በቃ ብዬ ነበር, እኔም ደሊላዬ ጋ ላጥ ላጥ ብዬ እንደዚህ እንደ ቀልድ ልሄድ(ደሞ እኮ እንደ ሳምሶን ፍቅር ቢኖረኝ ጥሩ አልነበረ) ስለዚህ እኔ ከእርሱም የምብስ ጅላጅል መሆኔን አውቂያለሁ። ለሶስተኛ ጊዜ ሄጄ ሌላ የባሰ ችግር ከማምጣቴ በፊት እና ጅላጅልነቴ የማንነቴ አካል እንዳይሆን ሀጥያቴን አምኜ ሳለቅስና ስናዘዝ ስወስን ትዝ አለኝ 2አመት ሊሞላው ነው ይሄ ታሪክ። በእግዚአብሔር ፊት እንዴት እንደዚህ አይነት በደልን  እሰራለሁ ብሎ ማንም በሌለበት ለእግዚአብሔር የታመነውን ዮሴፍን አስታውሼ ቀናሁበት , ዮሴፍ የሰውየውን ሚስት ሀሳብ ቢቀበልና አብሯት ቢተኛ ምን አልባት ንግስናው ቀርቶ ውሽማነት ይሆን ነበር መጨረሻው እናንተ አቋም ግን ከአቅም ይበልጣል አቋሙ አነገሰው ህልሙን ብቻ አጥብቆ ያዘ ፀዴ ፍፃሜ ሆነለት።
ዛሬ ይሄ ሁሉ ትዝ ያለኝ አንድ ፊልም አይቼ በሰውየው ድካም ውስጥ ሁሉ የኔ ድካም እንደ አዲስ ታየኝ, የስጋን ምኞት መከተል መጨረሻው አጉል ስብራት ነው አለ አይደል በቃ አጉል አጉል ለታሪክ የማያምር ሲታሰብ አንጀት የሚያበግን ብቻ ከህይወት ንፅህና ቅድስና ጋር ተያይዞ የእግዚአብሔርን ህግጋት ወደዋለሁ በጣም at the end እግዚአብሔር የለም ብባል (definitely አለ!) እራሱ እሱን አስቤ የኖርኩትን ህይወት ወደዋለሁ።
ግን በትልቁ ያስተዋልኩት እኔም እንደ ሳምሶን ደካማ ሰው መሆኔን በጉብዝናዬ የማልመካ እራሴን በጭራሽ የማላምን አንዳች ብቃት የሌለኝ የእግዚአብሔር ምህረት እና ፀጋ ላይ ወጣትነቴን የጣልኩ አደራ ያልኩኝ ዮሴፍን ሆኜ መጨረስን የምሻ ሰው መሆኔን ነው።

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I am a male, specifically twenty-nine years of age. Are you aware of the difficulty inherent in being a virtuous man in contemporary society? Do you comprehend the profound loneliness and sorrow experienced by men? This sentiment is particularly acute for men who are honest, kind, and loving. It remains unclear why many women claim to desire such a man yet reject him upon approach. I assert that most women actually desire a troubled, chaotic man who causes them distress and whom they cannot control, only to fall in love with the very inability to control him, despite their continued attempts. They merely wonder and ponder. Consider the man who avoids drama, shares everything about himself, listens attentively, and expresses love; he often receives the worst treatment and may even be cheated upon. Why is this the case? Ladies, what is the issue? Are you well? Must we be toxic? Please examine yourself and conduct a background check on your own narrative; you are aware of your actions. Furthermore, you know I am correct. Peace ✌️

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Yealemaweq teg

Juice bet gebeche Strawberry mojito mil anebebku

Teyekwachew, Mojito yelal alcohol alew? Yelewum gen kefelek yezegajal

Keategeb yeteqemetew sewye, ay eswa ema Lene nat

Esu yetegenezebew, alcohol alew beye seteyeq endaynorew yefelekut meslot mehonu new. Macho lemehon demo, alcoholnes legna tewut neber ababalu

Mojito men endehone sayaq, keza ateyayeqe saygebaw erasun lemekab mokere. Yealemawequ teg.

Weynes, gebtot new still endezi yalew? Ene new yalawekut? Aymeslem gena?

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