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Hey so there was this guy we had a genuine friendship gen he was so kind and caring ena I feel like my self kesuga sawera mnamn gn I had a bf too gn there was no chance kezignaw lijga romantic relationship west mngbabet gn my bf said I don’t want u to talk with any guy kza ene demo esu milgnen nger salangerager new maregew so I blocked him mnm salelew bka beseatu I was trying to make my bf happy yaw priority migbawm lsu selhone gn I can’t believe that I lost something really important I can feel it in my chest esun matat alnberebgnm all his kindness Ena demo he’s was treating me like a queen bka keftognm ayakm ene bemlashu mn setehut …. So ahun it’s been a while ketegnagnen bka bzu gize hononal bka esum he left me ene ahun with my bf destegna ngn gn I couldn’t get relief bka mn larg I tried to text him gn he avoided me 💔

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This is just a midnight thought, feel free to pass. Is it wrong to prefer a man who's not available all the time? Slachu beka ye field sra yalew sew or wuchi yemihed (le genzeb biye aydelem please don't get me wrong here) alea I discovered I have avoidant attachment issues mnalbat kesu gar yetegenagne lihon yichlal gn beka I prefer to have my own personal space and get to be with that person kehone kehone gize buhala while still being fully committed. Does anyone feel the same way weyis chgr alebgn?

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I get so horny when my period is about to come like for 5 days straight I keep thinking abt masturbating any other girls like me? nd is it normal?

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Hello M 21
I’m just going to vent for a second because the long form video creation is hitting me hard today. Scripting, filming, editing it is so isolating trying to build a video channel from scratch. I genuinely believe that if a few of us who are just starting out actually came together to support and elevate each other's content, we’d all hit our goals so much faster. But finding people who are actually serious about making videos and share that same drive is a nightmare. I don't care if you're a guy or a girl, or where you're located we don't need to meet in person to act as one cohesive group team online. I just want a digital circle where we genuinely push each other's production value because we're stronger together. Doing this completely alone is just draining. I wish if there was someone in the same situation as me.

(i'm reposting this b/c it was deleted immediately after it was approved)

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Lemindn yemanfelgachew sewechi betedegagami be hywetachin wst yemigebut ?

lemin egna yemnfelgachew sewechi tolo kehywetachin ywetalu?


what should i want from life? like which things should actually make us excited to live in this time?

i believe in god's help and god's work in our lives, but i don't see mine...

i'm 23f and i don't have any life that excites me.
just living by expecting a miracle to happen in my life...

is there anyone else who believes like this? like you know god works, you know what excitement does for someone's life, but you still don't see your own role in this life?

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A 27 year old Male unable to find a girlfriend that is compatible with my way of thinking. I'm gonna quit this search for a partner while I'm ahead, and for anyone wondering what tf could this nigga be looking for, it isn't fucking looks, status or appearance, it just an Ethiopian girl preferably same age but non religious, an atheist or agnostic. Here in this country I guess that is nearly impossible. Is there anyone else having this issue or is it just me. Demo when I say atheist or agnostic ppl usually assume I'm like that because I want someone slutty or evil/devilish or smtg ,which is a lame ass stereotype by the Habesha ppl. This helped already

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Hello people,
So the thing is gibi eyalew i dated this guy who i loved the most (i hv never felt like that in my life) but he used to give me mixed signals..at some point he became toxic ena bemiyastela huneta teleyayen...and there was this girl who was my classmate behuala we became bestfriends and i told her everything about him..and even after breakup we used to talk kesuga ena behone agatami astewawekuachew and guess what they become bestfriends...while i was struggling to move on enesu betam tegbabu..ke guadegnaye ga and lay nbr menbelaw, menatenaw and her bed lay nbr ena lay metegnat slematod enega nbr metegnaw we were together the whole day ena they were always texting and calling each other beza seat misemagn feeling beyesusm it was soooo hard ene lemersat semoker esua everytime remind eyaregechign nbr...so betam sikefegn i asked my other gibi yalneberech friend and she told me esua endeza feel taregiyalesh bela lataseb techelalech so tell her what u  feel bela gn lenegrat alkuna hule esu txt siyareg tedebkewalech slkuan, she will start smiling mnamn, sidewel rota tewetalech so i thought normal bihon why would she act like that lmn ene fit ataweram? and if u say yedebreshal bela then why is she talking to him endemidebregn kawekech...becha gibin struggle arge salekes  besent tselot temerekeu...and now its benn bezu gize esun block arg,e move on arge, serious relationship lay negn (>2yrs) gn when ever i meet with my gibi jema she is also in it i love her gn there's something tebasa yalew feeling lesua..ahun teru lay behonm ende lelochu guadegnoche full adelem lesua yaleg feeling gn i don't want that how should i fix that erdugn

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Why are Ethiopians racist?

When people thought i'm the same ethnic group as them they start to talk and say wild things about other Ethiopians! If you believe in what you say why don't you say it confidently in public and defend your stance?

Most of them don't even realise they're being racist. Recently a girl had a crush on one of our friend and ask us for his number, then she learned that he is from ethnic X then she was like "ahhh really? He's from ethnic X ..." and got turned off.

People randomly dropping the most racist things has become a norm in my life, even against my own ethnicity. Guys who are like this, please know that you'll have no idea about the identity of the person sitting next to you and mind your words. This is the 21th century!

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After reading through the replies, I’ve been thinking about this a bit more.

One thing that stood out is how one sided the responses are. Some people genuinely believe men should be more open and talk about what they’re going through. Others feel like not every person or relationship is actually equipped to handle that level of emotional weight, even if the intention starts off good.

Of course That actually made me reflect on my own experience with opening up.

I mean don't get me wrong, I no longer believe in bottling everything inside just because u r a man. I still believe men should be able to express what they’re going through instead of holding everything in. But I also understand more now that vulnerability isn’t just about whether you open up, it’s also about where you open up and who is actually able to hold that space.

At the same time, I don’t think anyone should feel like they have to suffer in silence or ignore what they’re going through just because of how people might react.

There has to be a balance somewhere between bottling everything up and oversharing in spaces that can’t handle it.

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ላናዝንባችው ነው so bear with me 😭😭😭
I am the type of girl that always wanted love but only attracts dude who just wants to fuck. Especially after this December.... beyesuuuuuuus semmmmmm every guy that came in my life wants to get into my panties. FYI I am good looking but not thaaaaaaaaaaaat good looking like I am not lightskin , super curvy with big boobs and ass that turns everyone head. I am literally the opposite of that. I am just a regular girl who is skinny and tall. I want to break this cycle like real bad. Am I the problem like am I sending out a desperate energy? I am super focused on other aspects of my life. I like to be in control of things but my love life is just comedy show atp. It's funny but deep down I hate that I can't do nth about it. So what's the solution???????

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I’m  MAN am  really struggling with how "all or nothing" the casual dating scene feels. It’s frustrating because I crave that physical closeness—cuddling, long make-out sessions, and just being near someone—without it being a race to the bedroom. It feels like as soon as you mention a "Friends with Benefits" dynamic, people delete the "Friends" part and the "Affection" part, and just focus on the "Sex."
Is it really that rare to want the intimacy of touch without the pressure of a full-on hookup? I just want the comfort of another person’s presence and some genuine physical warmth. It’s exhausting trying to find a middle ground where you aren't forced to choose between total isolation or a high-pressure sexual encounter. I know I’m not the only one who feels touch-starved, yet finding someone who actually values the slow, affectionate side of things feels like looking for a needle in a haystack.

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I had one hell of a year man. Look before you go ahead and judge, you need to understand that it's extremely tough to lead a decent life in Addis as a young male. So I decided to abandon all my occupations, as well as the folks in my life, drop out of college, and do the most stupid thing I could possibly think of; joining the police. We trained for about half a year in extreme conditions, at some desert. Regardless everything passes and I made it out alive, more or less. Now the issue here is that
1; I lost almost all my friends
2; Family situation is complicated
3; I don't know what the job will bring in the future.(I didn't sign up for the military but it's heading in that direction)
4; I can't seem to find a person to relate too here.

Everyone here is groupin' with their own ethnicity, there's little sense of unity. My former friends are degenerates and I see no benefit in reaching out to them since I made a decision to part ways for a reason. Now I live at camp and rarely visit my family since work hours are tight.

I wish I could find someone to confide in, someone to speak with without any reservations.

You might think this is all bullshit but I'm serious.
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Selam endet nachu bizu Gera yegebugn ñegeroch alu ena bekenenet melesulgn fkregna alegn already 3 amet limolan nw ena I think I waste my time ke fkregnaye gar Arif neger ley neberen gn long distance nw ena esua lesera Lela Hager sehted tey abreshiw atewayi kemelat wend gar walk weta awekubat beza teleyayten enem esuam Lela relationship wust geban ena le 1 wer koyen ena yehone gize ley tebeday Ene hogne sawerat Lela wend gar kiss adergiyalew alechign btmmm tegodaw same neger aderku ena koyten kezan tareken gn eske ahun sasbew Lela wend gar kiss endadergech btmmm tastelegnalech gn afkratalew ena hulet hasab mehal hogne kerew kezan bizu gizewoch alfew ahun ley Sera kenun mulu tewelalech kezan 11 tewetana bet gebat lek mawerat endejemeren enkilfe meta telalech ena eshi beye ewetalew yehe neger btm tedegageme ena ke akme belay hone kezan I told her kekortkugn almelsem selat yazugn lekekugn alech azura erasuan tebeday adergech bcha selchitognal hulum neger maderg yalbign neger Gera gebtogn nw esti same situation ley yalachu weyim yalefachubet give me advice.......thanks

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I need to vent for a second, and I honestly need a reality check from anyone who uses the @MayaExclusiveDatingBot on Telegram.

So, I’ve been using this bot because it explicitly markets itself as an exclusive platform for people who have a stable life and are strictly on the "street to marriage." Because they gatekeep everything—you only get 2 or 3 free likes before they force you to pay and choose a class membership like Glass, Gold, or Diamond—you kind of expect the guys on there to be high-quality and serious, right?

Well, I matched with this guy who is a "Diamond" member. Since the bot claims Diamond is the absolute top-level, premium tier for established people, I thought, okay, let me give him a chance.

But oh my god, he is doing the ABSOLUTE MOST. He is constantly showing off about how incredibly rich he is, bragging about his money, his lifestyle, and acting like he's god’s gift to earth. It is so exhausting.

It makes me wonder: Should I actually trust this guy just because the bot verified him with a premium Diamond badge, or is this heavy showing-off a massive red flag?

Has anyone else actually upgraded on this bot or dealt with these "premium" tiers? Can anyone confirm if the people behind the paywall are actually stable, serious, and established, or can literally anyone just buy a Diamond membership to use it as a license to show off?

Let me know what you guys think, because I am so annoyed right now.

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Alright so am talking to a guy that i really like after he confessed his feelings recently after years of መማቀቅ ( his own words ) 😁. Enem beka i like him uhhhhh so much 😭 Anyways that's not the point we both ስራ fets cuz we graduated recently so we talk all day everyday for the past few days and we talked about everything that we can come up with and there comes the topic of kids ( i know i know maybe too much for a week or so long talking stage😅 ) i knew from previous discussions i had with him like 4 years back mnamn he didn't want kids and i didn't want kids back then myself ( the very reason that made me crush on him instantly btw 😂) but yeah i had a change of mind now and i want my mini ውጤቶች of me and hubby's u know u know 😁 and tbh i didn't think much of it and when the topic was raised he told me that he really inclines towards not having kids at all still now, mind u we r adults i don't think it's the the child in him talking am 25 and he's 26,and tbh yea i might be getting ahead of myself too much gn he is someone i can see myself being in a committed relationship with ( I've never felt like this wz no one tbh ) so yeah he might not be super strict abt it while he was telling me but i know for a fact he doesn't want kids he just didn't want to ruin the harmony neger. Me demo tbh i don't have a baby fever like other woman, i don't like or hate kids am indifferent tbh 😅, my uterus doesn't tingle by the thought of them gn demo the idea of making the guy that i love a father excites me more than being a mother ( weird right 😂) yeah i mean imagine the guy that i love loving another human being we created together playing with her being obsessed with her mnamn ewyyyyy ( enough of my fantasy😅) bcha wede realityw smeta my boy there doesn't want that i don't want to try to change his mind mnamn it's not upto me to do that at the end of the day this is a major life decision and he gotta do it by himself also i asked myself if i can compromise bcz like i said am not a type of person who absolutely adore kids mnamn but nahhh the answer very unlikely የቅድሙ fantasye hula ቢቀር tbh i believe this world yale ልጅ አይገፋም plus having kids gives you purpose it helps u grinde more ( do i think these reasons are justified to bring a soul into this earth..... Hmm not necessarily 🙄 but it is what it is ) i like family i love LOVE be it romantic, family love mnamn ena i don't see myself being a child free person. Gn demo even before he came i sometimes had talks wz myself abt the type of life i could possibly live if am a child free person ( no attachment, no suffering, freedom of life, minimal stress, bcha bzu are they worth it hmm🙄 ) And for now i don't want to think about the future what would happen bcz of this mnamn milewn 😁 I'll just go with the flow ሆ we haven't kissed hula eko ተረጋጊ girl fulfill that fantasy of urs first 😁

Just give your ideas u know esp if you are on the side of no child u r very welcome 😊 I've no open minded friend to discuss this types of topics that's why i brought it here ( sijemer they hate my boo enkuan ልጅ አልፈልግም blogn ይቅርና 🤣)

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Whatever u do don't let ur child get fat
So all my life and teen years I've been fat the covid came and i lost around 23 kgs still had to lose some and tbh if it was upto me and not some fuck up health condition that i have i would have kept myself like this. Idk mann 🙄 so let me tell you how i feel when i look at the mirror 😅 istg i really like what i see u know i have almost no ቦርጭ just some cutie rolls that pop up when i sit, have slimmer waist compared to my thighs and hips which are thick gn yaw in a very hot way 🥵 ohhh well chubby cheeks ( that's the only thing that i don't like ) gn demo since I'm ቀይ u know it gives me that adorableeee ግመጣት ግመጣት ሚያስብል look calm down these are my thoughts about me beka u know am not forcing shit istg that's how i feel abt myself and yesew asteyayet after i lost my weight..... Well at this point bragging slemimesl I'll leave it but let's just say the majority is in the sense of እውሽሽሽ ሽታምል 😅 if u get what i mean


So why am i venting? to brag? ofc not like i said at the start of the vent I won't ever let my child get fat why u may ask? It will take a toll on your confidence even through ur adulthood. Bro like i said i really really like what i see in the mirror gn whenever a guy leaves or if i get even the slightest bit of uninterest my mind would automatically think what if its bcz am fat..... Trust me yan yahl ahun wefram mbal hognem adelem ewnet 😐 gn beka i relate everything esp dating related to that. U know growing up i was a nerd and i didn't pay much attention to how i look till that covid time and not only did i lose the weight but worked on my skin, hair and yea i look lela sew😅 and tbh regarding the looks aspect I was not concerned at all yan yahl ፈላጊም አልነበረኝም back then😭😂 and i didn't mind at all i was that ትምህርቴ hiwete girl 😂 so beka the mental image of me is still like that meselegn i still find myself shrinking my ownself. I get approached a lot tbh bzu u know at the gym, church, randomly meged ley😅 mnamn after the glow up but yeah even if some inconvenience tefetro if i can't get along with a guy my mind would automatically assume it's easy to leave or not persue bcz am chubby and it's so tiresome 😐 yes am trying to lose weight but like i said not for aesthetic reason i reallllllly realllllllllly like what i see in the mirror I'd just stare at me for hrs i swear gn idk tbh even if i lost all the fat i don't think it'd solve my issue of deep insecurity

Anyone in the same condition?

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Some days the process of building a long form content channel feels way more lonely than people realize. Spending hours scripting, filming, editing, rewatching, fixing mistakes… then doing it all again by yourself can get mentally exhausting.
I keep thinking about how much more enjoyable this would be if a few creators who are serious about long form videos actually worked together online instead of everyone trying to do everything alone. Not even in person either just people from wherever they are, all hungry to improve and create.
I honestly don’t care if someone’s male or female, just that they have that same drive and want to build something. When people work as a group, the whole process feels stronger, more creative, and honestly way more fun than sitting alone behind a screen every day.

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It took me years to finally understand. It might be a few random words to you, but it took me so much of my time and questioning to get it. I was so scared of being loved so tremendously in the way that you loved me. It'd be easier for me to believe if someone told me I'm not worth loving, than to be told that I'm loved especially by someone like you. The fear inside of me was so overwhelmingly big that it outweighed my patience to believe you and let you stay by my side because you can't be with someone who wants to be left alone. I could just say I was young and stupid but I feel like it doesn't explain it enough. Nothing really does. It broke my heart when you said you were with someone else but that's just for me, for the now non-existent us who could've built a life together. I wouldn't want you to stay in the same place I left you in, and I'm so happy for you because you found someone new. I know you wouldn't give any girl a chance if you didn't see something special in her. But I'm so mad at myself that it took me so long to wake up. If I were to go by the books, and I love you, I would've let you go. But I can't. I don't know how. I don't know where to start, how to move my legs forward when my other foot is still stuck at the back. And part of me doesn't want to because if I was somehow miraculously successful, it'd mean I'd cut the only thread that keeps me connected to you. How can I?You're the only evidence I have of the love a true gentleman can give. I don't think I'll ever love another man's soul the way that I love yours. And I promise not to break someone else's heart until I get you out of my system, which is probably never. For all of you who're avoidants in here, I pray you wake the fuck up and think of the person you have before you lose them for good. It's not a joke. Or idk you can learn the hard way, which I don't recommend.

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The thing is I was in relationship for small period of time at the time he was so it's not like if he wanted he would kind u know he was so busy and stressed and I had anxiety so we broke up it was for our own good but I can't move on like I tried so hard but I can't now for some reason I may not see him again should I tell him how I feel or should I just keep quiet ee boys how would u feel if someone confess like this.

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Hey! This is doc, under 25M

This is my second time venting here. Had spoken about the issue of dealing with a dismissive avoidant back then.

How are you guys doing? Been nearly 6 months time, flies indeed.

I came here to share insights on how the past 6 month been post breakup with my former DA. It has been one hell of a journey, my learning curve about human psychology, defectiveness-schema, attachment theory and basic human behavior have went parabolic. I tried to find answers to what I had went through and make sense of it.

Love isn’t enough to sustain a relationship, this is simply a harsh truth, no matter how much you love a person, Love alone will never been enough. People need to see each other without shame, judgement and disappointment. Being vulnerable, being accountable and commitment to keep one’s word even when things don’t look good are the core stone.

Shared vulnerability, shared emotional accountability and Commitment in the face of chaos will do more to keep one’s relationship than a mere love. Love without sacrifice/Pure effort is just emotional attachment. Loving someone isn’t easy at all. It requires you to be seen and to be vulnerable , which has its own risk but there is no way other than this.


Unfortunately, my former GF truly failed to understand this, She for some reason, didn’t choose to be seen. She rather dismiss what happened as “ ፈጣሪ አልፈቀደም።” than to take accountability and be a better person. Which honestly is a disappointment for me to say the least, but I understand her PoV, her brain 🧠 had adapted a survival mechanism which says “ I do not need anyone” which in return pushes people when ever someone is close to them.

Why do DA people punish those who truly love them? She literally pushed me to the edge just because I genuinely wanted to be with here and trust me, I try my best to be emotional mature as much as possible.

You see, underneath their brains is a core wound. A wound that is created by a deep belief that they are unlovable, unworthy of love and something wrong with me. So, whenever people get close with them, they panic. They assume, if people get to close to me, they will see I am defective, unloveable and unworthy, so this will never ever end well, so before they ditch me, let me ditch them, they will eventually ditch me so why wait😂😂


This is exactly what happened with me, I am wishing her all the best and hope she heals, cause she definitely need it

I have moved on but this is interesting

If you guys want to tell you more about this, like this and I will share

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I need to vent
ሰላም ሰዎች አማክሩኝ
በቅርብ የማገኘው ገንዘብ አለ በቃ እቁብ በአሪፉ ይደርሰኛል ለእናቴ ለቤተሰብ መጀመር የፈለኩትን ቢዝነስ ነግሪያቸው ደስተኛ ነበሩ,, እናም የቤተሰቦቼ ቤት ውስጥ የተወሰነ መስተካከል ያለበት ነገር እንዳለ አውቃለው ነገር ግን አሁን ከቤት ልወጣ እንደሆነ እና ራሴን ችዬ መኖር እንደምጀምር ስነግራት ለእናቴ በጣም ተናገረችኝ እኛን እዚህ ቤት ጥለህን እኔ ለአንተ እንዲ ራስህን ታወጣለህ ምን ምን ሆኜ ብቻ ፀያፍ ነገር ተናገረችኝ ከልጅነቴ ስሰማው ስላደኩ it's ok ብዬ አለፍኩ, ግን እኔ ሀሳቤ የነበረው አሁን የማገኘውን ብር ሙሉ ለሙሉ ባሉት ክፍተቶች ላይ ካዋልኩ ይሄን ብር ድጋሚ ለማግኘት ብዙ ጊዜ ይወስድብኛል , ነገር ግን ከስራዬ ጎን ለጎን ያሰብኩትን ቢዝነስ ብጀምር ከማገኘው ገቢ ቀስ በቀስ ነገሮችን አስተካክላለው ሀሳቤም እንደዛ ነበር ላስረዳት ሞከርኩ ሌላ ታሪክ ተፈጠረ ነገር ግን ይህን ሁሉ ያለችው ቤት ልከራይ ነው ስላልኳት እንጂ መጀመሪያ ሀሳቤን ስለ ቢዝነሱ ስነግራት ደስተኛ ነበረች,,ዕድሜዬ 30ዎቹ መጀመሪያ ነው ጓደኞቼ ሁሉም አግብተዋል ወልደዋል እኔ ብቻ ነኝ የቀረውት እሱም አልተሰማኝም ነገር ግን የእናቴ ቤት ልከራይ ነው ማለት በዚህ ልክ እንዲ ያናግራል?? እስኪ ትንሽ ሀሳብ ስጡኝ

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