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I recently deconstructed Christianity after being born and raised in a Pente household, and I haven’t been the same since. For the first time, I feel mentally free from constantly fearing hell, worrying about offending God, feeling responsible for “lost souls,” and being told as a woman that I must submit to a man. I can finally enjoy simple things that were once considered sinful, like listening to secular music and making my own choices.
But nobody around me knows. I’m still “undercover.” Since I recently graduated and am unemployed, I still live with my deeply religious family, and I know I can never openly tell them the truth. I don’t want them terrified that I’m going to hell, especially because I know how painful that fear feels. I also fear they may reject me completely if they find out, i'm not a person who says i can sacrifice anything for my freedom i'll be absolutely crushed if my family would reject me because i love them dearly and they're all i got.
Lately, i'm feeling trapped because I have nobody to talk to. My mom already noticed I stopped going to church and told me, “You haven’t been the same since you came back from university.” As long as I live under their roof, I feel like I can’t truly live freely. Bezalay , I live in the kiflehager. I would really love to hear stories from others who are in this exact same situation. I wish there was a support system where we could encourage one another, because I can't handle this isolation anymore.😭😭😭

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Yoooo it's ya boi but fr tho I really need advice from hoes from both genders, no offense of course. Look I tried relationships before and they didn't work out so I decided to focus on myself. So boom your boi landed an impressive promotion glory be to the Father.

Then I upgraded my gym location and got into this fancy gym. Lot of ppl tho and three girls where I work out asked me to work out together since the coaches need to be paid

so I let them work out with me, and we got along. Day by day passed, and I got closer with one of those girls. We started going out together. On the second date since this girl talks too much, I thought arsenal lay abragn endetkuater yezat wetaw, and it almost worked until it didn't. Then tnsh kemamesen ena she kissed your boi, and we went and did belgena ngr👌👈


Look since I knew they're gonna cook me if I didn't perform, I gave it all mine Your boi was up bouncing on that till kelelitu 9 seat Then days later, mekret jemerech ena we started working out with her friends. I didn't even say anything flirty but they turned out pretty friendly and flirty and started talking online with her friend for like a week and got close and cracked her friend too. Like bro I never got this lucky before and I started to realize they've done turned me into a hoe😭. Bruh like If my calculations right nahh I can't be used like this. I already know the third girl gonna crack me up to... Oh no TF you won't😭. I can't be for the streets i swear All I wanted was to improve myself.


Don't get me wrong shits nice and all, but I can't be the ball that they pass around. And the first girl sent me a text saying "I love you" i mean come on😭 how can you be in love with your coach that you only know for 2 weeks!!! it's gonna be a matter of time till things get sticky and it's my first time is this the time that I should start ghosting or what😭 I need an experienced hoe advice😭

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Hey folks! How y'all doin'? I want genuine advice on something.

I'm a high school senior. So, uhh... I do well in school, I have a bunch of hobbies, and I'm introverted but with an interesting personality (according to people). Everyone around me thinks of me like this perfect nigga I'm not because of all this. I know many of you probably go through this. This puts so much pressure on me, and lately, I've been really worried about my future. The problem is that if I don't really, genuinely, absolutely like something, I can't quite force myself to do it. Well, yeah, basically I'm immature. I can't fucking control myself. And for this, I envy the people that envy me. Quite crazy, I know, but the people I get a chance to become acquainted with usually have way more control over their minds than me.

The question I have for you guys is: how do you develop this drive in you that keeps you awake at nights, that reminds you to keep going when your brain wants to stop, and that says NO to things that you know are bad for you?

Thanks 🙏

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I started to write but my mind had a hard time to choose.
When I thought I was finally over my anger issue , it happened so suddenly and I ended up eating my words of change. Now I can't pray because I am still mad, and I tried to forgive but I knew it wasn't genuine so I stopped praying all together.

So pray for me.

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Hey I just wanna talk about something I hear a lot of people killing them self ( suicide) specially people in there 20's and I was always saying are they fool or something I will never do such a thing ... Hhh now I really understood them why they did it ...now all I wanna do is die but guess what I can't even do that bc am scared to do it and also I have a mother who sacrifice everything for me all I wanna do is making it for her give her the life she deserve but I can't.... I start trading 2 years ago to change my mom's life but guess what life get worse I lost everything I have I don't got no job am not learning shit am just existing all I think of is my mom will be better without me...but ik am fooling my self the reason I wanna kill my self is bc I can't just seat and watch her suffer am a loser I deserve to be in hell and burning rest of my life .... All I want to ask u guys is if u r on ur lowest like me what's making u keep living? What should I do to stop thinking this just give me ur opinion the honest one even if u think I should end it ... tnx

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Hey guys yemr gn hiwot endi nat andande mtadalam ymeslegnal gn beka ydekmal yemr dekmognal amognal asteltognal andande zm blo meweded felgalew beka mnm judge sayareg miyadamtachu ende lbachu mtonubet tdarn asbachu sikefachu mtsnanubet gn demo yne fkr ena hiwot hulum gar yelem beteley lene may be almetadel yhonal kezi belay bzu chgr alebgn eko hiwot erasu ykebdal eko gn demo biyans and miyasdestachu mtarfubet sew enkuan chgrachu hasabachun mtagarut sew saynor ykebdal andande kalemenor menor yasferal

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Yo what's good my niggas I'm 25, living in Addis Ababa. I got a girl but I'm tired of only seeing her on weekends, I need proper male friends to chill with during the week too when i say proper no gay , bi things ok . My current bros are all work colleagues, so it feels weird meeting them almost every day. Looking for new real bros (age 23-28) to build with. We gon organize weekly meetups eat, drink, talk shit, vibe and have fun. Straight bros only. No gay or bi stuff.
If you super religious,or don't have good sense of humor this ain’t for you, just pass. If you in Addis and down, drop your username so I can dm you.

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Hey guys, so Idk why I'm even writing this, it's not something that's huge. I have a bf he is so lovely, it's both of our 1st time being in a relationship. I've never had any desires for sxual relationships or even never been attracted to people I like in that way, and I've always thought something was wrong with me. I thought after I get married I would sleep in separate bedrooms and not even kiss my husband, I just want to be best friends with him with the title 'husband' and just someone I loved spending time with and not check the time and hours feel like seconds. My friends even used to say 'liyaysh new tadiya yemiyagebash?' Idk, I guess sex had been a taboo topic and it's like this disgusting thing you should avoid, and somehow people want you to forget all society has been teaching you and get straight to it once you get married. And now I've got a bf, I am attracted to him and its a very weird feeling, our relationship was a slow burn we both liked each other and we couldn't talk about it for some reasons, and we thought we didn't see each other that way but finally we confessed on the 3rd year and have been dating since. My problem is, I love him I do and I am attracted to him and so is he, I guess I've had such a negative connotation about sex that when I got these feelings towards him I feel like I'ma bad person. I don't want our relationship to be sxual only, where all you think about is those things, since he is the type of person I want to spend the rest of my life with, we should like spending time alone and talk about whatever and we used to do that, we kind of still do, but it's not like to the point where I don't check the time and want to go. He is the 1st person I see that way and it's just really scary, maybe I'm just experiencing something real idk, what do you think?

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Hey 28 male here
I am sexually very freaky and it is getting out of hand, I am tall and handsome girls like me but I got so twisted sexually I started enjoying watching or listening my girs get fucked by other men... Its very weird that i don't find cheating offensive am very open minded and it is very hard to fit in with our Ethiopian norm...am i in the wrong planet or do I need help??

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This is a cry for help pls mtaku kehone atlefugn 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

So I've lost around 20 kgs and i didn't need any discipline for that idk it was a piece of cake but after that it was back and forth you know i gained 12 back then lost it. Gained 12 back again and lost it like cycle continued for like 5/6 times. Then now thanks to God am at the 20 kg loss point but still in order for my fat percentage to drop still gotta lose a lot 10-15 kg
And I've tried istg with all i can so the problem here is not strategy like i said i can lose whenever i want, the prob here is discipline. After all that determination now i got nothing in me, I'd just binge eat cry or get depressed then swear that next time is gonna be different then next times comes then boom after 2 days of consistency I'll just fail. ያለማጋነን ይሄ cycleን atleast 30-35 gize degagmewalew and i swear am so tired. I have tried starting a tiktok so that it'd hold me accountable..... Didn't work, i started the same journey with my friend who has similar goals qgain and again still failed, cheat bareku kutr በቅጣት accoountable endiyaregegn my brother arge jemerku still mnm tkm yelewm ewnet am really tired befetari mn yshalegnal 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Don't just say just do it alright it's easier said than done. Betam betam erasen diciplined maregu kebedegn pls endene chgr wst yeneberachu pls tell me anything that has worked for u

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I am not lucky በቃ I tried so deep. በቃ ምንም ማድረግ አልቻልኩም!
she is now Gone I can't stop her from going out
I knew you all might say be man, I knew I am man, and I am not crying, but remembering every time I spent and the energy I lost, it is a permanent trauma, but Moving to someone can't cure this can't help this, I can't got my time and energy back.,it(T & E) was delivered from lord. she was good though, she is still good, but she betrayed me by marrying another boy,how long will it take to fully recover from this traumatic experience. I am kindly asking please! thanks

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LUffff kehone lj ga date wetche he fucked my mind i swear to god ahun mnm wend altmsh endaylegn feraw 😅 beyesus sm
I swear I've never read dark romance fictions, i don't like movies at all gn lju i think he is that type neger
Let me explain
He is dominant, rude, bad boy ( meselegn atleast in my case ), doesn't give a shit abt societies opinion, lives in his own world, angry at people, angry at life, he is a rebel, confident Ofc, he doesn't take no bullshit from no one u know. The muscles the tattoo and that kumet techemro i swear i can't lmot new😭
I had i workshop this week and 2 cute normal guys approached me got my number and we r talking mnamn but no my mind is stuck they r just too basic and boring for me i swear
I mean i always knew that am not into normal rule follower guys the guys that I'm always drawn to are usually red flags for my friends it's just i can't help it
Me on the other hand everyone describes me as softie, calm, mskin, but i have a rebel personality inside that I've hidden could that be the reason why... And no daddy issues i promise idk why😂
Eshi ahun mn abate larg i couldn't get attracted to other guys after him.... I think i should just give it time right..... Btw i don't love him or stg ( he got a literal ass for a behavior ) gn beka the attraction is massive i swear i crave him like a drug
IT'S OKAY CALM DOWN GIRL IT'S JUST THE DOPAMINE TAKING.
just tell me that it'll get better pls tnk u 😭
And also any girl like me? Negerun demo yekefa miyaregew am not a teenager am not even in the early twenties ወይኔ በላቸው 😅

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24 F,Can't believe I only have about a year left until graduation 🎓 It's crazy because can we talk about how everyone at campus assumes I’m in a relationship? 😭 Let let alone the girls even the boys think I have someone for some reason..Truth is I'm just very intentional about who I date because my ultimate goal is marriage so I've preferred to wait. Definitely hoping to find my person eventually but first, I need the campus to realize I’m actually single! 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Hello. I am a 29-year-old woman. Before this, I was hurt deeply in love. Then recently I got close to another person — we work together. At first, he was the one pushing for the relationship, while I was very shy and afraid because of how much I had loved someone before and how badly I was hurt.
But the relationship we started became something that made me happy. It felt good, peaceful, and loving. However, now he has become distant. It has been about a year. Still, during the past 6 months, I feel like I’m the only one trying. It’s not that he clearly said he doesn’t want me, but I sense that he no longer wants the relationship. I keep feeling hurt and emotionally exhausted because of the uncertainty.
The problem is, I can’t fully understand what’s happening. He says he has no time because of other issues and spends time with his friends, but I don’t know anymore. I trusted him completely. I’ve already been hurt in love before, and now I’m scared of getting hurt again. What should I do?

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Hey everyone .I am 22 M university student  I'm HIV positive. I got it from my parents. Growing up was not easy for me.

I've been through a lot of struggles to stay alive.I don't blame anyone I just accepted it this thing is keept always as a secret for long. No one knows except our family.

It's hard to leave like that.Knowing that I'm different from my friends. its so hard to accept.

I don't know anyone who is HIV positive at my age, and I wish I could have someone like me... Please leave your contact in the comment section if someone my age is willing to get in touch.

I never have girl friend befor because of this thing and still now this thing is pushing me not to approach girls that i like. Some girls try to approach me and talk to me but, i push them because of this.😔

May be it's not right to say for your self that i am this and that. But i think i have a very good things. People wants to make me thair friend even before they know me.

It's so hard to live like that.....😔💔

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Is there any consistently profitable forex trader in this channel? I currently have funded accounts, but my performance has been struggling for months. I’d really appreciate some help or guidance.

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23 F here, even though i was all Suspicious and uncertain about it, just went to therapy and got my day ruined. I just wanted to see what it was and to get meds so that i can abuse them. I said some of the things i never said to anyone. As soon as i stepped out of the office i looked around and felt paranoid everyone whose working there and the whole institution seemed to carry this dark twisted propaganda collecting data about your inner self your name and everything is on that goddamn server, could be traced back to the jews idk i felt so nauseous that i immediately got sucked out of the maniac episode i was having for a month. Never ever go to therapy embrace your mania, compulsion even if you are a schizo (maybe not if you are severely depressed) or maybe just lie and get you meds. Do not fall for this industry ‼️

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ሰላም ሰዎች ጥያቄዬን ብቻ አማክሩኝ ! 🙏🏾

የሆነች ልጅ ነበረች አንድ ትምህርት ቤት ነን ግን አንድ ክላስ አደለንም እና በጣም ተመችታኝ አናገርኳት ስልኳን ጠየቋት እና ግን እምቢ አለችኝ አንዴ ነው የጠየኳት (ምናልባት መግደርደር) ይሆናል ብዬ ድጋሚ ልጠይቃት ስል የሆነ ነገር ተፈጠረና ተውኩ በጊዜው ከዛ ቡሃላ ስንተያይ በደንብ ሰላም እንባላለን እንደውም እኔ ካላየዋት ጠርታ ሰላም ትለኛለች ምናምን እና ድጋሚ ስልኳን ልጠያቃት አስበኩ እንደምንም Egoዬን ሰብሬ😅 ግን አሪፍ ሁኔታ አልገኝ አለኝ ሁልጊዜ ከጓደኞቿ ጋር ነች አንድ ወይም ሁለት ቢሆኑ እኮ Norm ነው ግን 4-5 ናቸው እና እሱ ነገር ደበረኝ እስኪ ምን ላድርግ reject ብደረግም ችግር የለውም እተዋለሁ.... ግን እስኪ ምን ላድርግ አማክሩኝ በናታቹ🙏🏾🙂

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Hey, I’m a 25-year-old girl, and I need to confess something. I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 years. And like for one years , we were in a long-distance relationship, and we argued a lot. Back then, I thought everything would become better once we met again, but somehow I slowly lost my feelings for him.
I don’t know why, and he is truly loves me so much. He’s such a good person, and he treats me really well. But now, all the love I had for him feels gone. I’ve tried to bring the feelings back, but I can’t. I still act like everything is the same, but deep down, I don’t feel the same anymore.
The problem is that he’s very sensitive when it comes to me. He even talks about marriage, and I feel guilty because I’m not sure I can love him the way he deserves. I’m also scared that I may never find someone who treats me as well as he does.
I think the distance and all the hard times affected my feelings. Sometimes I think about breaking up, but even when I joke about it, he reacts very emotionally and seriously.
What should I do? I feel guilty for not loving him anymore. Please give me advice without judging me

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Yo I'm 23M and I've got a bit of a problem. I nut way too quick, plus my dihh isn’t staying hard. I had a girlfriend for a bit, but we haven’t had sex yet. Tried a couple times, but I messed it up and even ended up nutting just from making out lmaoo😭. I used to masturbate a lot, and now my dick is super sensitive like once it gets to the puhh, I'm done. She wants to hook up, but I just can't make it happen. I'm in uni heading home soon, and she's in my city, so I really want to make it work this time. I’m thinking about taking Viagra but my heart's been kind of off and I'm worried it might cause problems. I’ve got a week until I see her
So Just to break it down, my dick gets hard, but I nut in seconds once I'm inside her. Tried using condoms, but still can’t go for round two. I’ve tried a lot of things, but nothing’s worked. I don't wanna lose her, so I could use some tips. If taking Viagra's the way to go I might just do it since this is serious help yo brother out

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Is it just me or do anyone of y'all wonder this too? So, when I am outdoor commuting I always think what a blessed country we have because of all the beautiful habeshan girls like I never went out and got back without seeing a couple of pretty ones even the guys I see handsome men here and there and since I am a man myself when I see a cute girl I say to myself "I wish this girl was mine" 😅 similar to me do you guys think that too? Even the girls do you look at a guy you find handsome and say I wish this guy was mine? Someone I find attractive may not always be attractive to you and likewise but there is always someone out there thinking oh this person looks nice. To us and all our secret admirers 😁.

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