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M26 look, I have a girlfriend I love the most, we been together for 2 years, but lately we have been fighting a lot, and the reason is MONEY. I have a job, and she is in college, and I make around 30k a month. i know i'm not doing anything special for her, you know, even though I want to, I can't. But I do take her out to normal places menamn give her gifts only on special occasions, but from what I've observed, she wants me to spoil her. btw this wasn’t a problem because she was a kinda person who gets happy with little things until i mention something someday on the phone.
Look, besides my current job, i do things on the side, and things weren’t good that day, and i was feeling down and everything. i got comfortable, and i asked her, “if i don make it, are we still gonna start living together and build together?" the reason i asked this was because we planned to get married as soon as she graduates, and by then I will also be in a better financial status. and she said "i don't know… this is hard … i don want this kinda of life." she said everything but "we will grow together," which I wanted to hear, i think. This would really strengthen me, but her answer broke me be eyesuse sem.
Then she changed! .. dry texts, some day she is in a good mood and when everything feels alright dgmo she acts cold and mean. and i asked her what was wrong, and she said it was about the financial thing we talked about. and i tried to comfort her menamn. i said everything ymer. this much act miasderg aydlem the worstcase scenario hula mn aynet life offer endemadereg aserdahuate (which is the basics) then she seems normal menamn and we moved on. months passed with her still being up and down, and after months, she brought it up again yesterday. and we argued. i don even knw mn eyalechgn hula endehone.i mean, im working for a better future, and she knows that, but i don't knw what she wanna hear.
Im really overwhelmed right now. i don't knw what to do. I can't take her mood swings anymore also; it is really affecting me badly. and knowing she is acting like this because of the way she is being treated financially is really killing me. but i want you guys to help on this. Was I wrong to ask that question to a woman? Can the situation be fixed?
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M26 look, I have a girlfriend I love the most, we been together for 2 years, but lately we have been fighting a lot, and the reason is MONEY. I have a job, and she is in college, and I make around 30k a month. i know i'm not doing anything special for her, you know, even though I want to, I can't. But I do take her out to normal places menamn give her gifts only on special occasions, but from what I've observed, she wants me to spoil her. btw this wasn’t a problem because she was a kinda person who gets happy with little things until i mention something someday on the phone.
Look, besides my current job, i do things on the side, and things weren’t good that day, and i was feeling down and everything. i got comfortable, and i asked her, “if i don make it, are we still gonna start living together and build together?" the reason i asked this was because we planned to get married as soon as she graduates, and by then I will also be in a better financial status. and she said "i don't know… this is hard … i don want this kinda of life." she said everything but "we will grow together," which I wanted to hear, i think. This would really strengthen me, but her answer broke me be eyesuse sem.
Then she changed! .. dry texts, some day she is in a good mood and when everything feels alright dgmo she acts cold and mean. and i asked her what was wrong, and she said it was about the financial thing we talked about. and i tried to comfort her menamn. i said everything ymer. this much act miasderg aydlem the worstcase scenario hula mn aynet life offer endemadereg aserdahuate (which is the basics) then she seems normal menamn and we moved on. months passed with her still being up and down, and after months, she brought it up again yesterday. and we argued. i don even knw mn eyalechgn hula endehone.i mean, im working for a better future, and she knows that, but i don't knw what she wanna hear.
Im really overwhelmed right now. i don't knw what to do. I can't take her mood swings anymore also; it is really affecting me badly. and knowing she is acting like this because of the way she is being treated financially is really killing me. but i want you guys to help on this. Was I wrong to ask that question to a woman? Can the situation be fixed?
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You guys…what is love really? 😭
Is it supposed to feel like this?
How can something that is supposed to make you happy also make you lose yourself… your confidence… your spark? 😂😭😭
How can love feel so deep that you start forgetting who you were before it?
Am I the only one who loves this hard?
Is it normal to give your whole heart like this and still end up feeling empty inside?
And if love is real… then why does it hurt like this?
How do I heal from it?
How do I forget someone I still care about?
How do I move on and continue life like nothing happened when everything inside me feels changed?
Please…how do people do this??😌
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You guys…what is love really? 😭
Is it supposed to feel like this?
How can something that is supposed to make you happy also make you lose yourself… your confidence… your spark? 😂😭😭
How can love feel so deep that you start forgetting who you were before it?
Am I the only one who loves this hard?
Is it normal to give your whole heart like this and still end up feeling empty inside?
And if love is real… then why does it hurt like this?
How do I heal from it?
How do I forget someone I still care about?
How do I move on and continue life like nothing happened when everything inside me feels changed?
Please…how do people do this??😌
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22 M here...but anyway
So, how do I say this. People with the role of older siblings might relate to my situation. The only thing worse than having to deal with an infant younger sibling is having to deal with a younger sibling going through puberty 😭. They are at that age where they shouldn't be allowed to give consent but are developing characteristics that pushes them to give those consents.
My younger brother (he is 13) was playing Minecraft and while I was doomscrolling on my phone lying on the bed, I heard him say something than an older siblings fears to their core through telegram voice chat with his friends. Yes, he was talking about girls 😭
And no, our generation is very different from theirs. I remember being laughed at back in 8th grade because I chose to sit next to a girl (my friend group was being dorks at that time, you know how they just look your way during class and you just can't control your laughter?...yeah, they intentionally were trying to make me laugh and i couldn't stand them)...but anyway, the newer gen-alpha has moved past having secret crushes into rating the girls in their class. And he was talking about sum wifey material and I just turned my head like "nigga what?".
I am a university student and the only time I get to talk to him is during breaks and since I had nothing to do anyway, I just knew I had to take his mind off the internet world and told him "let's go get you a burger you little rascal". We went to a restaurant that my broken budget can afford. We sat down and after a moment, two girls passed by our table (I could have sworn they were older than me) and he said the Amharic equivalent of damn (forgot what he said, I think he said "weyne" or sum). My innocent brain didn't catch up so I turned around to look at what he was looking at that made him say it...you can tell what I saw 🥀. At that point I went "bro might actually be cooked" and apparently, friends and other older family members reinforced the idea that these things were kinda cool so I asked him "tf did you just say?"...and he was proud of what he said😭
He started giggling and stuff and I kicked him below the table and went "hey, who said you are allowed to say that" and I tried to say it in my most serious face but he really didn't think there was anything wrong with what he said so I told him "I will order for both of us and i won't be saying key words like double or special for your dumbass" (I was trying to show him how serious the matter was (fitting his order within my budget in the process😂)
We finished up and went home and he hit me with the good ol' "it's not that deep bro" when I tried to talk about our previous mishaps. Like nigga, I am trying to prevent underage promiscuity and pregnancy here, why does he think it isn't that serious (yes, he does talk about freakier stuff).
But anyway, I want to know what y'all's experience with this kind of behaviour is. How do you navigate having to deal with a freaky ass younger sibling that barely started going through puberty?
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22 M here...but anyway
So, how do I say this. People with the role of older siblings might relate to my situation. The only thing worse than having to deal with an infant younger sibling is having to deal with a younger sibling going through puberty 😭. They are at that age where they shouldn't be allowed to give consent but are developing characteristics that pushes them to give those consents.
My younger brother (he is 13) was playing Minecraft and while I was doomscrolling on my phone lying on the bed, I heard him say something than an older siblings fears to their core through telegram voice chat with his friends. Yes, he was talking about girls 😭
And no, our generation is very different from theirs. I remember being laughed at back in 8th grade because I chose to sit next to a girl (my friend group was being dorks at that time, you know how they just look your way during class and you just can't control your laughter?...yeah, they intentionally were trying to make me laugh and i couldn't stand them)...but anyway, the newer gen-alpha has moved past having secret crushes into rating the girls in their class. And he was talking about sum wifey material and I just turned my head like "nigga what?".
I am a university student and the only time I get to talk to him is during breaks and since I had nothing to do anyway, I just knew I had to take his mind off the internet world and told him "let's go get you a burger you little rascal". We went to a restaurant that my broken budget can afford. We sat down and after a moment, two girls passed by our table (I could have sworn they were older than me) and he said the Amharic equivalent of damn (forgot what he said, I think he said "weyne" or sum). My innocent brain didn't catch up so I turned around to look at what he was looking at that made him say it...you can tell what I saw 🥀. At that point I went "bro might actually be cooked" and apparently, friends and other older family members reinforced the idea that these things were kinda cool so I asked him "tf did you just say?"...and he was proud of what he said😭
He started giggling and stuff and I kicked him below the table and went "hey, who said you are allowed to say that" and I tried to say it in my most serious face but he really didn't think there was anything wrong with what he said so I told him "I will order for both of us and i won't be saying key words like double or special for your dumbass" (I was trying to show him how serious the matter was (fitting his order within my budget in the process😂)
We finished up and went home and he hit me with the good ol' "it's not that deep bro" when I tried to talk about our previous mishaps. Like nigga, I am trying to prevent underage promiscuity and pregnancy here, why does he think it isn't that serious (yes, he does talk about freakier stuff).
But anyway, I want to know what y'all's experience with this kind of behaviour is. How do you navigate having to deal with a freaky ass younger sibling that barely started going through puberty?
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Selam 22 F
Zare mother's day new most people posting there mom mnamn nger des silu ena enm be akeme for my mom gift setehuat ena gn 2 nger tinsh askefagn
1 my mom didn't look happy idk most of the time endi her feelinga aweta react metaderg set selalhonch yhonal gn demo ke kerb ametat befit fitua akababi ena dertua lay hyperpigmented honual ena yegezahulat gift kemis new esun setelebes esun nger remind aderguatm kehone.enja becha gn yekefat meselgn ena azenku
2 most ppl post endadergut enm badergat des balgn gn fitua photo endetenesa rasu atefegem enm endzaw cuz she was betammmmm konjoooo key set ahun gn kemelachu belay her skin tebelashtual ik abregn kegone menorua beki new le ene wanaw tena dehna hona tenurelgn gn yachi zenach web set bedenget endzi aynet nger meto kesemuan sebr adergo yale edemewa moraluan eyneka asrejtuat mayet yekefal
Bezi agatami betam arif metelutn mefteh metaweku wedi belugn hekimna bzu gize mokeren alhonm tho
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Zare mother's day new most people posting there mom mnamn nger des silu ena enm be akeme for my mom gift setehuat ena gn 2 nger tinsh askefagn
1 my mom didn't look happy idk most of the time endi her feelinga aweta react metaderg set selalhonch yhonal gn demo ke kerb ametat befit fitua akababi ena dertua lay hyperpigmented honual ena yegezahulat gift kemis new esun setelebes esun nger remind aderguatm kehone.enja becha gn yekefat meselgn ena azenku
2 most ppl post endadergut enm badergat des balgn gn fitua photo endetenesa rasu atefegem enm endzaw cuz she was betammmmm konjoooo key set ahun gn kemelachu belay her skin tebelashtual ik abregn kegone menorua beki new le ene wanaw tena dehna hona tenurelgn gn yachi zenach web set bedenget endzi aynet nger meto kesemuan sebr adergo yale edemewa moraluan eyneka asrejtuat mayet yekefal
Bezi agatami betam arif metelutn mefteh metaweku wedi belugn hekimna bzu gize mokeren alhonm tho
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Sometimes I feel weird for wanting people’s opinions when I already talk to myself make dua and try to handle things privately but at the same time humans aren’t meant to live only inside their own heads I think sometimes I just want to hear how other people see things because maybe someone out there understands in a way I didn’t expect I don’t even always want advice sometimes I just want interaction that feels real like we’re all living on the same planet trying to figure life out so maybe hearing strangers thoughts can make things feel lighter or clearer I just graduated and I’m trying to find a job and honestly I hope to find my person one day too Reading people’s posts here made me realize I’m not the only one struggling because everyone has something they’re carrying When we walk outside we all seem normal or okay maybe it’s not pretending maybe we’re genuinely trying to be okay but I honestly don’t think I know a single person without problems And somehow that comforts me because we all share that in common People still hope and plan and work hard and keep trying to build a future for themselves even when life feels uncertain One comment that stayed in my mind was someone saying they wouldn’t want to meet their future person in a channel like this but strangely this channel made me appreciate people more Seeing strangers be vulnerable hopeful and supportive reminded me how human everyone really is and honestly I’m glad to be here because even if it’s anonymous it feels nice to share thoughts and comfort people with words✨
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Sometimes I feel weird for wanting people’s opinions when I already talk to myself make dua and try to handle things privately but at the same time humans aren’t meant to live only inside their own heads I think sometimes I just want to hear how other people see things because maybe someone out there understands in a way I didn’t expect I don’t even always want advice sometimes I just want interaction that feels real like we’re all living on the same planet trying to figure life out so maybe hearing strangers thoughts can make things feel lighter or clearer I just graduated and I’m trying to find a job and honestly I hope to find my person one day too Reading people’s posts here made me realize I’m not the only one struggling because everyone has something they’re carrying When we walk outside we all seem normal or okay maybe it’s not pretending maybe we’re genuinely trying to be okay but I honestly don’t think I know a single person without problems And somehow that comforts me because we all share that in common People still hope and plan and work hard and keep trying to build a future for themselves even when life feels uncertain One comment that stayed in my mind was someone saying they wouldn’t want to meet their future person in a channel like this but strangely this channel made me appreciate people more Seeing strangers be vulnerable hopeful and supportive reminded me how human everyone really is and honestly I’m glad to be here because even if it’s anonymous it feels nice to share thoughts and comfort people with words✨
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I’m a 4th year Software Engineering student, and I work on backend development. My CGPA is currently very low, around 2.3 now. And next year I’ll be graduating, so I feel like it’s already too late to fix it. I’m honestly stressing about it more than you can imagine.
And to the seniors already working in tech, when it comes to getting hired, what kind of GPA does the market actually expect right now? Ik everyone says grades don’t matter in tech fields, but I wanna know the reality from your real life experience. Please share honestly.
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I’m a 4th year Software Engineering student, and I work on backend development. My CGPA is currently very low, around 2.3 now. And next year I’ll be graduating, so I feel like it’s already too late to fix it. I’m honestly stressing about it more than you can imagine.
And to the seniors already working in tech, when it comes to getting hired, what kind of GPA does the market actually expect right now? Ik everyone says grades don’t matter in tech fields, but I wanna know the reality from your real life experience. Please share honestly.
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Hi guys nothing in my life excites me anymore i don't wanna go out i sleep all day if i don't have work i don't talk to my friends anymore i just wanna be alone always is this normal
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Hi guys nothing in my life excites me anymore i don't wanna go out i sleep all day if i don't have work i don't talk to my friends anymore i just wanna be alone always is this normal
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Hey, I am undergrad student and there's this guy yayehut lemejemerya gize gbi new and guys i have a crush on him like for 5 or 6 months kemejemrya kayehut ken jemro, he is not yan yahl konjo or something girls can be attracted too gn idk how i ended up loving him like this guys, and I just don't know if I should stop loving him or I don't know what to do i mean... I do love him betam and the worst thing is that I think he feel the same way I do which is completely lame cuz ik he doesn't even care about me I am not even sure if he knows my name and it sucks guys what should I do help ur girl please I am fucked up I think about him day and night
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Hey, I am undergrad student and there's this guy yayehut lemejemerya gize gbi new and guys i have a crush on him like for 5 or 6 months kemejemrya kayehut ken jemro, he is not yan yahl konjo or something girls can be attracted too gn idk how i ended up loving him like this guys, and I just don't know if I should stop loving him or I don't know what to do i mean... I do love him betam and the worst thing is that I think he feel the same way I do which is completely lame cuz ik he doesn't even care about me I am not even sure if he knows my name and it sucks guys what should I do help ur girl please I am fucked up I think about him day and night
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i experienced everything too early ,
am a 23 year old guy , who is working in billion dollar sector and currently is booming around ethiopia , i started working at the age of 19 and now i do part times in the proffession making roughly in between 60k - 100k a month and i can say am comfortable , also i have launched my own consulting firm with my frind and that making me recognized in my proffesions community ( idk if thatss a word ) ,
fo the past 2 years since i was making an okay money i tried to get in to the dating world and it has been hard because i started dating first since i was 15 and except sex i can say i have experianced most ( not being proud ) , but after 19 i focused on work and never dated anyone but now i have lost my charm my ability to communicate with woman , i am a protestant guy and obviously same religion is a must , but it's hard to even initiate even that kind of interest ena ik am still young and at this rate my work is going to consume me and am afraid of that ,
ig this is a cry for help on how to chat to woman😫
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i experienced everything too early ,
am a 23 year old guy , who is working in billion dollar sector and currently is booming around ethiopia , i started working at the age of 19 and now i do part times in the proffession making roughly in between 60k - 100k a month and i can say am comfortable , also i have launched my own consulting firm with my frind and that making me recognized in my proffesions community ( idk if thatss a word ) ,
fo the past 2 years since i was making an okay money i tried to get in to the dating world and it has been hard because i started dating first since i was 15 and except sex i can say i have experianced most ( not being proud ) , but after 19 i focused on work and never dated anyone but now i have lost my charm my ability to communicate with woman , i am a protestant guy and obviously same religion is a must , but it's hard to even initiate even that kind of interest ena ik am still young and at this rate my work is going to consume me and am afraid of that ,
ig this is a cry for help on how to chat to woman😫
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Hey guys I’m 22F, so here’s my story… stuck with z and y so I’ve known y for like 2 years N 3yrs older we’re in a stiuationship. We become close one year ago. Sometimes he cares sometimes he doesn’t. It’s really confusing to tell what he’s thinking. One time we hangout with his friends then they treated me like I’m his gf menamn. Esunm he acted like that. It’s not simple to end things with him. Too much intimacy🤦🏼♀️then Mr z came like 7 month ago he’s so decent. Emotionally intelligent, cares for me, understands me and remembers every single thing I tell him. Guess what they know each other. Then I kinda had to make a decision so I texted y and how I feel menamn he left me on seen then start sending me reels menamn as if nothing happened. Mr z is saying he wants to take this seriously. There’s no chemistry between me and him so what should I do? Boys I need your opinion…
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Hey guys I’m 22F, so here’s my story… stuck with z and y so I’ve known y for like 2 years N 3yrs older we’re in a stiuationship. We become close one year ago. Sometimes he cares sometimes he doesn’t. It’s really confusing to tell what he’s thinking. One time we hangout with his friends then they treated me like I’m his gf menamn. Esunm he acted like that. It’s not simple to end things with him. Too much intimacy🤦🏼♀️then Mr z came like 7 month ago he’s so decent. Emotionally intelligent, cares for me, understands me and remembers every single thing I tell him. Guess what they know each other. Then I kinda had to make a decision so I texted y and how I feel menamn he left me on seen then start sending me reels menamn as if nothing happened. Mr z is saying he wants to take this seriously. There’s no chemistry between me and him so what should I do? Boys I need your opinion…
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Girls often tell me that they like my personality. Sometimes they say that to my friends mnamn... just yesterday i met a new girl and she was praising me infront of my friends. For some context, we were talking about love, relation etc and i was giving my honest thought on it and she said she like my views and that she thinks i'm the most mature off all my friend...(in front of my friends). I know that sometimes girls have a twisted mind where they talk say something but deep down they feel the total opposite. Don't get me wrong, i also believe that i'm somewhat mature, handsome mnamn but for some reason my mind is suspicious of all this girls complement. A couple days ago it was some girl who was telling me that i'm good at holding a conversation, yesterday another girl, and other girls saying the same things behind my back... this is nothing serious but these days i am finding it very hard to trust any girl.
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Girls often tell me that they like my personality. Sometimes they say that to my friends mnamn... just yesterday i met a new girl and she was praising me infront of my friends. For some context, we were talking about love, relation etc and i was giving my honest thought on it and she said she like my views and that she thinks i'm the most mature off all my friend...(in front of my friends). I know that sometimes girls have a twisted mind where they talk say something but deep down they feel the total opposite. Don't get me wrong, i also believe that i'm somewhat mature, handsome mnamn but for some reason my mind is suspicious of all this girls complement. A couple days ago it was some girl who was telling me that i'm good at holding a conversation, yesterday another girl, and other girls saying the same things behind my back... this is nothing serious but these days i am finding it very hard to trust any girl.
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Hey! So i met a friend from hghchool after 6 years ena back in the days i was not interested in her but now...damn! I want to be with her so bad! She's classy and lovely... we talk everyday, day and night. I don't know how she thinks about me but why would a girl give this much attention to a guy that she's not romantically interested in? We were not super close when we were in highschool. We talk for hours every day. I don't know what to say to her...
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Hey! So i met a friend from hghchool after 6 years ena back in the days i was not interested in her but now...damn! I want to be with her so bad! She's classy and lovely... we talk everyday, day and night. I don't know how she thinks about me but why would a girl give this much attention to a guy that she's not romantically interested in? We were not super close when we were in highschool. We talk for hours every day. I don't know what to say to her...
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Ok I am Male in my late twenties. And ever since i started my sexual life i have been struggling with lasting longer and i have figured out sex is not just penetrating my d. Then i started to enjoying other stuff and i become good at it. And now i don't like penetration sex just other stuffs. Enjoying womens body.
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Ok I am Male in my late twenties. And ever since i started my sexual life i have been struggling with lasting longer and i have figured out sex is not just penetrating my d. Then i started to enjoying other stuff and i become good at it. And now i don't like penetration sex just other stuffs. Enjoying womens body.
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The more u mature the more u understand that nobody really cares, everyone is in their own mind all of the time everybody has thier own ሸክም and a lot of problem to deal with and i just want you to know that. Be free.
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The more u mature the more u understand that nobody really cares, everyone is in their own mind all of the time everybody has thier own ሸክም and a lot of problem to deal with and i just want you to know that. Be free.
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I need to vent, 18F here, so here is the problem i have been depressed these days, i don't know if i can call it depression the voices in my head are getting louder and louder this constant sobbing inside my head, i have neglected myself completely the things i used to do don't feel as good and as exciting as they used to before i feel lost and mom also noticed it and when she asked me i tried to open up for her but well she tries to fix it rather than listen and be there for me just physically and i think i got her a bit stressed and for that not to happen i am trying to act as if i am okay(not trying to be corny) idk i can't get myself to do stuff and no one to reach out too i do have a bf but we are in a long distance relationship we might meet once a month but that's all about it i could talk to him but i am scared of getting rejected i have a hard time trusting people even the once who are close to me. What would i tell him, i am depressed help me? I can keep up with the act but i started to be a bit absent and i fear that might affect our relationship.
What should i do?
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I need to vent, 18F here, so here is the problem i have been depressed these days, i don't know if i can call it depression the voices in my head are getting louder and louder this constant sobbing inside my head, i have neglected myself completely the things i used to do don't feel as good and as exciting as they used to before i feel lost and mom also noticed it and when she asked me i tried to open up for her but well she tries to fix it rather than listen and be there for me just physically and i think i got her a bit stressed and for that not to happen i am trying to act as if i am okay(not trying to be corny) idk i can't get myself to do stuff and no one to reach out too i do have a bf but we are in a long distance relationship we might meet once a month but that's all about it i could talk to him but i am scared of getting rejected i have a hard time trusting people even the once who are close to me. What would i tell him, i am depressed help me? I can keep up with the act but i started to be a bit absent and i fear that might affect our relationship.
What should i do?
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Lately I’ve been feeling really stuck in the same routine every single day. I work from home, and even though I’m thankful for the job, it’s honestly made my life feel kinda boring and lonely. Every day feels the same — wake up, sit on my computer for hours, finish work, sleep, then do it all again the next day. I barely go out anymore, I’m not meeting new people, and it feels like life is just passing by while I’m sitting in the same place all the time.
I miss actually having fun and doing random things with people. I wanna go to new places, try new things, make memories, and just feel alive again instead of feeling stuck in this cycle. I think what I miss the most is having a real friend group — people to laugh with, talk to every day, go out with, and just enjoy life around. It gets tiring when your whole life is just work and staying inside. I don’t want my life to feel this dull at this age.
So yeah, I really just wanna meet new people and change things up. Boy or girl, if you wanna talk, hang out, become friends, or even just vibe and do random stuff together, text me. Maybe we both need new people in our lives.
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Lately I’ve been feeling really stuck in the same routine every single day. I work from home, and even though I’m thankful for the job, it’s honestly made my life feel kinda boring and lonely. Every day feels the same — wake up, sit on my computer for hours, finish work, sleep, then do it all again the next day. I barely go out anymore, I’m not meeting new people, and it feels like life is just passing by while I’m sitting in the same place all the time.
I miss actually having fun and doing random things with people. I wanna go to new places, try new things, make memories, and just feel alive again instead of feeling stuck in this cycle. I think what I miss the most is having a real friend group — people to laugh with, talk to every day, go out with, and just enjoy life around. It gets tiring when your whole life is just work and staying inside. I don’t want my life to feel this dull at this age.
So yeah, I really just wanna meet new people and change things up. Boy or girl, if you wanna talk, hang out, become friends, or even just vibe and do random stuff together, text me. Maybe we both need new people in our lives.
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It's my birthday today may12 and i realized i had no one beside me i stayed up until midnight like someone special is good to text me but no nothing happened
It really hurts
Ppl i don't call my friends like snap friends and my new college friends wished me well
But the ppl i call my friends,i don't even think they remembered it, specially that one person who i used to wish him well everyday,i never skipped his birthday but he did and i realized it was just a one side wish
Becha choose your friends wisely, choose someone that will choose you too that will be there for cuz me i don't want non of this ppl to even stand on my grave cuz they weren't with me when i was happy why would they be with me when it dead!!!
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It's my birthday today may12 and i realized i had no one beside me i stayed up until midnight like someone special is good to text me but no nothing happened
It really hurts
Ppl i don't call my friends like snap friends and my new college friends wished me well
But the ppl i call my friends,i don't even think they remembered it, specially that one person who i used to wish him well everyday,i never skipped his birthday but he did and i realized it was just a one side wish
Becha choose your friends wisely, choose someone that will choose you too that will be there for cuz me i don't want non of this ppl to even stand on my grave cuz they weren't with me when i was happy why would they be with me when it dead!!!
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Is there any one who got a parent that got HIV specifically a mother ?she got it from my dad. he didn’t tell her when he first married her. she was only 16 years old. Anyways she thought i might have it too but after a fear of getting me checked my whole life she finally did when I was 18 and I had no idea . she just told me it was a whole checkup for a process to go abroad and thank God i didn’t have it now i want her to get married because of this she doesn’t pursue any relationship i want her to get married at least have one child I’m the only child btw so i don’t know how to find a group that are in the same situation to actually date and stuff so if you guys know a group or a platform can you please send me
Thank you
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Hey y’all
Is there any one who got a parent that got HIV specifically a mother ?she got it from my dad. he didn’t tell her when he first married her. she was only 16 years old. Anyways she thought i might have it too but after a fear of getting me checked my whole life she finally did when I was 18 and I had no idea . she just told me it was a whole checkup for a process to go abroad and thank God i didn’t have it now i want her to get married because of this she doesn’t pursue any relationship i want her to get married at least have one child I’m the only child btw so i don’t know how to find a group that are in the same situation to actually date and stuff so if you guys know a group or a platform can you please send me
Thank you
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I am most probably ending myself anytime this week but before I do let me confess. I never was perfect but I tend to do my best, I had many things to be thankful for now I have very few. I used to work employed, got fired, had a girl, got cheated, borrowed 100k to invest and do something then the material I bought got destroyed so in debt with no income, worked hard and sold many things and made roughly 200k and bought a computer with it for work, that got destroyed too (CPU shorted) in 2 weeks. Got health issue called costochondritis for over a year now and I don't think it'll ever go away, mom is very sick and I don't have a father or anything so it's my responsibility to take care of her but I literally am left with only 2k birr right now so I can't do much. I live in a horrible horrible area that is so far away from the city it's hard to travel and work, I was going to sell my computer for the same price (200k) and start working as a ride driver with a rental but it's all gone now. I have a really really really amazingly good voice, I've tried working with it but as you know you need connections for literally everything in this forsaken country so I couldn't make money with it and it pains me to think about that. Recently after many years I started going to church (am Orthodox) and it's peaceful there and I started praying although I don't know if I am properly doing it because nothing had changed so far. I wanted to use my voice as an MC or Host at stages and clubs or lounges but I need connections and stable income for transportation for that. My younger sister as well is affected by the area we are living in now and her life is hell as well. All my kins and families are greddy as FUCK, if they see us dying they'd rather bury us on the spot than pay for a funeral. So at this point no one can save or help me but me and I don't know what to do I'm already 27 it's too late for everything. God I once was the most beautiful and loved mama's boy I never thought my life would turn out to be this, it's so unreal past 2020 years were like a dream. 6 years I was in agony, 6 whole years I was betrayed, sold, neglected by whom I called "friends" or "loved ones". My old classmates, friends, and best friends turned their back on me at their lowest but meh I don't blame them it's our nature as humans. I cried not once but twice and I refuse to cry again, no amounts of "It's alright buddy God has plans, this will pass" type of fake motivation shit would do anything to me at this point. I've tried praying, and I've tried doing it alone. With or without God nothing is happening and I am so fucking mad because I know my potential. I know what I'm good at, I know I am good at my fucking acting and voice over talents, but born in the wrong country I suppose..or something else I don't know. It doesn't really make sense I did what I was supposed to do and got nothing except agony and despair out of it. I should've been rich, successful, married, looking after my family, have a stable income....but instead I'm so eager to join my father up there.
Sometimes I think "what would've happened if my father was alive? Would I be less discriminated? A better life? Would I not be treated badly for speaking Amharic and not their language? Would have I ended up in the area I'm living in right now?" I guess we'll never know.
Anyways this was me and thanks for reading I guess...
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I am most probably ending myself anytime this week but before I do let me confess. I never was perfect but I tend to do my best, I had many things to be thankful for now I have very few. I used to work employed, got fired, had a girl, got cheated, borrowed 100k to invest and do something then the material I bought got destroyed so in debt with no income, worked hard and sold many things and made roughly 200k and bought a computer with it for work, that got destroyed too (CPU shorted) in 2 weeks. Got health issue called costochondritis for over a year now and I don't think it'll ever go away, mom is very sick and I don't have a father or anything so it's my responsibility to take care of her but I literally am left with only 2k birr right now so I can't do much. I live in a horrible horrible area that is so far away from the city it's hard to travel and work, I was going to sell my computer for the same price (200k) and start working as a ride driver with a rental but it's all gone now. I have a really really really amazingly good voice, I've tried working with it but as you know you need connections for literally everything in this forsaken country so I couldn't make money with it and it pains me to think about that. Recently after many years I started going to church (am Orthodox) and it's peaceful there and I started praying although I don't know if I am properly doing it because nothing had changed so far. I wanted to use my voice as an MC or Host at stages and clubs or lounges but I need connections and stable income for transportation for that. My younger sister as well is affected by the area we are living in now and her life is hell as well. All my kins and families are greddy as FUCK, if they see us dying they'd rather bury us on the spot than pay for a funeral. So at this point no one can save or help me but me and I don't know what to do I'm already 27 it's too late for everything. God I once was the most beautiful and loved mama's boy I never thought my life would turn out to be this, it's so unreal past 2020 years were like a dream. 6 years I was in agony, 6 whole years I was betrayed, sold, neglected by whom I called "friends" or "loved ones". My old classmates, friends, and best friends turned their back on me at their lowest but meh I don't blame them it's our nature as humans. I cried not once but twice and I refuse to cry again, no amounts of "It's alright buddy God has plans, this will pass" type of fake motivation shit would do anything to me at this point. I've tried praying, and I've tried doing it alone. With or without God nothing is happening and I am so fucking mad because I know my potential. I know what I'm good at, I know I am good at my fucking acting and voice over talents, but born in the wrong country I suppose..or something else I don't know. It doesn't really make sense I did what I was supposed to do and got nothing except agony and despair out of it. I should've been rich, successful, married, looking after my family, have a stable income....but instead I'm so eager to join my father up there.
Sometimes I think "what would've happened if my father was alive? Would I be less discriminated? A better life? Would I not be treated badly for speaking Amharic and not their language? Would have I ended up in the area I'm living in right now?" I guess we'll never know.
Anyways this was me and thanks for reading I guess...
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i am 24M 1 For the past few years, my mind has never truly been at rest. It keeps asking questions endlessly, especially late at night. To escape that constant noise, I started going to bed early, hoping sleep would quiet the thoughts.
2 I also trained myself to stay away from relationships. I kept telling myself that love wasn't worth it, that it would only distract me from my goals and leave me broken. Eventually, I reduced every relationship to the same cynical conclusion: every girl is just water from the same sea, and I'm sorry for all the hearts I broke.
3 For a long time, my purpose was clear. I was focused on earning my degree, passing the exit exam, and maintaining a strong CGPA. I achieved those goals. On paper, I should feel proud. Instead, I feel like I lost something important along the way. Without a goal to chase, my idle mind has become toxic.
4 Things that once gave me energy now feel like burdens. Managing my family's businesses, spending time with friends, and even simple daily activities feel like obligations rather than sources of satisfaction.
5 Most days, I stay in bed. I read, watch movies, football, and anime, but none of it gives me enough motivation to get up and do something as basic as making breakfast.
6 I've also withdrawn from almost everyone. My phone is off I've ghosted my friends, and I don't even use social media entirely no Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, or anything. Somewhere along the way, I began to feel that every person comes with invisible strings attached.
7 My faith in God has weakened too. Seeing what happens to people, combined with reading philosophy and questioning everything, has left me uncertain. I no longer know what I believe. My family doesn't seem to care much about religion either; everyone has their own beliefs.
8 Lately, I feel detached from the person I used to be. I'm not sure if I'm simply exhausted, depressed, or lost, but I know that something inside me has changed. And honestly, I don't know what to do next.
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i am 24M 1 For the past few years, my mind has never truly been at rest. It keeps asking questions endlessly, especially late at night. To escape that constant noise, I started going to bed early, hoping sleep would quiet the thoughts.
2 I also trained myself to stay away from relationships. I kept telling myself that love wasn't worth it, that it would only distract me from my goals and leave me broken. Eventually, I reduced every relationship to the same cynical conclusion: every girl is just water from the same sea, and I'm sorry for all the hearts I broke.
3 For a long time, my purpose was clear. I was focused on earning my degree, passing the exit exam, and maintaining a strong CGPA. I achieved those goals. On paper, I should feel proud. Instead, I feel like I lost something important along the way. Without a goal to chase, my idle mind has become toxic.
4 Things that once gave me energy now feel like burdens. Managing my family's businesses, spending time with friends, and even simple daily activities feel like obligations rather than sources of satisfaction.
5 Most days, I stay in bed. I read, watch movies, football, and anime, but none of it gives me enough motivation to get up and do something as basic as making breakfast.
6 I've also withdrawn from almost everyone. My phone is off I've ghosted my friends, and I don't even use social media entirely no Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, or anything. Somewhere along the way, I began to feel that every person comes with invisible strings attached.
7 My faith in God has weakened too. Seeing what happens to people, combined with reading philosophy and questioning everything, has left me uncertain. I no longer know what I believe. My family doesn't seem to care much about religion either; everyone has their own beliefs.
8 Lately, I feel detached from the person I used to be. I'm not sure if I'm simply exhausted, depressed, or lost, but I know that something inside me has changed. And honestly, I don't know what to do next.
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I’m a uni student and I try my best to be independent. I don’t ask my parent for support because I know things are already hard at home. My mom carries most of the responsibility becuz of father's narcissistic behavior and I can see how stressed she gets sometimes so I always try to help her when she needs it.
The issue is,I also try to keep something aside for myself so I can manage my stuffs during the month. But whenever I see my mom struggling I end up giving it away.Then, I'll left with nothing for myself, and I just feel drained in the same cycle every time.
I haven’t really shared this with my friend because I feel like she won't fully understand it.
Rn I just feel mentally tired and confused about how to survive for the month without being stressed
I’d really like to hear how others would handle something like this.
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I need to vent
I’m a uni student and I try my best to be independent. I don’t ask my parent for support because I know things are already hard at home. My mom carries most of the responsibility becuz of father's narcissistic behavior and I can see how stressed she gets sometimes so I always try to help her when she needs it.
The issue is,I also try to keep something aside for myself so I can manage my stuffs during the month. But whenever I see my mom struggling I end up giving it away.Then, I'll left with nothing for myself, and I just feel drained in the same cycle every time.
I haven’t really shared this with my friend because I feel like she won't fully understand it.
Rn I just feel mentally tired and confused about how to survive for the month without being stressed
I’d really like to hear how others would handle something like this.
#Family
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