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Hey everyone Need advice on this.... especially someone who been through and over this
so I'm 24 M i have a deep insecurity about trust in relationships I've ruined even a really good one's because growing up i covered for my mom while she was cheating just to not see my family broken and I've tried but i can't just trust women in that deeper relationship level at all what to y'all think i should do?

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I was Wondering how much does " your type " matter to you cz based on my experience i was that person who'd say I'd rather die than being with someone who is not my type that was in my late teens and early 20s but as i get to know more people those " standards " just kinda faded. U might find me obsess over someone who is the complete opposite to my type esp if we vibe gn still when i meet people who are my type one thing I've noticed is i would find it easy to like them right from the beginning so what's your take on this? I mean does it matter long term? It might be different from a guy and girls perspective so would like to hear from both esp those that are older 😊

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Bruv, it’s okay. I know it feels like nothin’s really working out right now. Always out here hopin’ someone sends a lil cash just to even go church, stuck in the yard all day feeling drained and alone. Couldn’t even finish the driving licence cause money’s tight. That one hurts differently still.
But I hear myself. I know this ain’t how life’s gonna stay forever. One day I’m gonna look back at this vent when God finally opens that door for me, and it’ll all make sense.
Right now it’s just one of them rough chapters. I can’t give up yet. I’ve come too far for that. I got this. Thank you Jesus

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I just hate myself. Been doing that since I was a kid. I am ugly, have barely any friends or people to even think of me which honestly atp I don’t even blame them, I am not worth it. Complicated relationship with parents, mediocre at everything, got no talent or any skills and honestly I am tired of even living. I got no energy left in me to even try. I am surviving.

Went to therapy but It honestly didn’t really help. I am thinking of maybe changing my therapist…

I am almost 21 but for me life is already over. Each year seems to get worse. Proof I am not meant to be here.

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If God really exists and loves me, He won't test me like this, giving me this kind of pain that can't be fixed even after begging for more than a year. If He is looking at me, He won't make me suffer like this. I am sorry for myself, but I gave up on myself and God.

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I have no one to talk to about this and I swear I'm not making this up, but I went through an OBE(out of body experience) today in the morning. Some of you might say that I slept while thinking about it, or that I have been reading about it or exposed to it's content somewhat recently and that's why I ended up "dreaming" about it, but no it's been ages since I've read anything about this nor shown interest in it. It just happened randomly after I slept late around 5 am in the morning. Just wanted to share this.

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Helppp I am 26F
Got Hiv test at tenatabiya by health officer and they said all 3 tests show reactive so i have hiv confirmed and did a 4th one that shows how recent it was and said it is long term more than a year I could not accept the diagnosis because i never had sex parents dont have hiv (mom died of some respiratory condition after traveling to country side and got sick for a month) and  although i got blood splashed on me from patients none of them was postive( atleast that is what thier chart said) so i did not take prep(I am a healthcare student fyi). this was done 5 month ago and i did not start medication because i wanted to retest  at a private labratory. I went to tsebel for a week and then I got a pcr test and it come back detectable with low numbers than expected around thousands .
I am out here calm I have this unexplainable peace that only God could give but still conflicted I was single my whole life I am scared to start medication I am scared of side effects I am scared if I will ever find love have a family live normally I am scared to accept the diagnosis.
People taking the medications help me out on what to expect how to accept
other than that I recently also learned that my grandparents and aunt used to mamlek chele mnamn ena they stopped long time ago and had repented but this things have some consequences. I have always grown up as orthodox so this is complete news to me but idk i am conflicted. As some one very well educated i dont want to believe in such things but idk i have prayed in tears for past 5 months before pcr but idk where to go so any orthodox here pray for me advise me
also People living with hiv also in health care share your stories what was it like when you started meds and what should i do

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M26 look, I have a girlfriend I love the most, we been together for 2 years, but lately we have been fighting a lot, and the reason is MONEY. I have a job, and she is in college, and I make around 30k a month. i know i'm not doing anything special for her, you know, even though I want to, I can't. But I do take her out to normal places menamn give her gifts only on special occasions, but from what I've observed, she wants me to spoil her. btw this wasn’t a problem because she was a kinda person who gets happy with little things until i mention something someday on the phone.


Look, besides my current job, i do things on the side, and things weren’t good that day, and i was feeling down and everything. i got comfortable, and i asked her, “if i don make it, are we still gonna start living together and build together?" the reason i asked this was because we planned to get married as soon as she graduates, and by then I will also be in a better financial status. and she said "i don't know… this is hard … i don want this kinda of life." she said everything but "we will grow together," which I wanted to hear, i think. This would really strengthen me, but her answer broke me be eyesuse sem.

Then she changed! .. dry texts, some day she is in a good mood and when everything feels alright dgmo she acts cold and mean. and i asked her what was wrong, and she said it was about the financial thing we talked about. and i tried to comfort her menamn. i said everything ymer. this much act miasderg aydlem the worstcase scenario hula mn aynet life offer endemadereg aserdahuate (which is the basics) then she seems normal menamn and we moved on. months passed with her still being up and down, and after months, she brought it up again yesterday. and we argued. i don even knw mn eyalechgn hula endehone.i mean, im working for a better future, and she knows that, but i don't knw what she wanna hear.

Im really overwhelmed right now. i don't knw what to do. I can't take her mood swings anymore also; it is really affecting me badly. and knowing she is acting like this because of the way she is being treated financially is really killing me. but i want you guys to help on this. Was I wrong to ask that question to a woman? Can the situation be fixed?

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You guys…what is love really? 😭
Is it supposed to feel like this?
How can something that is supposed to make you happy also make you lose yourself… your confidence… your spark? 😂😭😭
How can love feel so deep that you start forgetting who you were before it?
Am I the only one who loves this hard?
Is it normal to give your whole heart like this and still end up feeling empty inside?
And if love is real… then why does it hurt like this?
How do I heal from it?
How do I forget someone I still care about?
How do I move on and continue life like nothing happened when everything inside me feels changed?
Please…how do people do this??😌

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22 M here...but anyway

So, how do I say this. People with the role of older siblings might relate to my situation. The only thing worse than having to deal with an infant younger sibling is having to deal with a younger sibling going through puberty 😭. They are at that age where they shouldn't be allowed to give consent but are developing characteristics that pushes them to give those consents.

My younger brother (he is 13) was playing Minecraft and while I was doomscrolling on my phone lying on the bed, I heard him say something than an older siblings fears to their core through telegram voice chat with his friends. Yes, he was talking about girls 😭

And no, our generation is very different from theirs. I remember being laughed at back in 8th grade because I chose to sit next to a girl (my friend group was being dorks at that time, you know how they just look your way during class and you just can't control your laughter?...yeah, they intentionally were trying to make me laugh and i couldn't stand them)...but anyway, the newer gen-alpha has moved past having secret crushes into rating the girls in their class. And he was talking about sum wifey material and I just turned my head like "nigga what?".

I am a university student and the only time I get to talk to him is during breaks and since I had nothing to do anyway, I just knew I had to take his mind off the internet world and told him "let's go get you a burger you little rascal". We went to a restaurant that my broken budget can afford. We sat down and after a moment, two girls passed by our table (I could have sworn they were older than me) and he said the Amharic equivalent of damn (forgot what he said, I think he said "weyne" or sum). My innocent brain didn't catch up so I turned around to look at what he was looking at that made him say it...you can tell what I saw 🥀. At that point I went "bro might actually be cooked" and apparently, friends and other older family members reinforced the idea that these things were kinda cool so I asked him "tf did you just say?"...and he was proud of what he said😭

He started giggling and stuff and I kicked him below the table and went "hey, who said you are allowed to say that" and I tried to say it in my most serious face but he really didn't think there was anything wrong with what he said so I told him "I will order for both of us and i won't be saying key words like double or special for your dumbass" (I was trying to show him how serious the matter was (fitting his order within my budget in the process😂)

We finished up and went home and he hit me with the good ol' "it's not that deep bro" when I tried to talk about our previous mishaps. Like nigga, I am trying to prevent underage promiscuity and pregnancy here, why does he think it isn't that serious (yes, he does talk about freakier stuff).

But anyway, I want to know what y'all's experience with this kind of behaviour is. How do you navigate having to deal with a freaky ass younger sibling that barely started going through puberty?

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Selam 22 F
Zare mother's day new most people posting there mom mnamn nger des silu ena enm be akeme for my mom gift setehuat ena gn 2 nger tinsh askefagn
1 my mom didn't look happy idk most of the time endi her feelinga aweta react metaderg set selalhonch yhonal gn demo ke kerb ametat befit fitua akababi ena dertua lay hyperpigmented honual ena yegezahulat gift kemis new esun setelebes esun nger remind aderguatm kehone.enja becha gn yekefat meselgn ena azenku
2 most ppl post endadergut enm badergat des balgn gn fitua photo endetenesa rasu atefegem enm endzaw cuz she was betammmmm konjoooo key set ahun gn kemelachu belay her skin tebelashtual ik abregn kegone menorua beki new le ene wanaw tena dehna hona tenurelgn gn yachi zenach web set bedenget endzi aynet nger meto kesemuan sebr adergo yale edemewa moraluan eyneka asrejtuat mayet yekefal
Bezi agatami betam arif metelutn mefteh metaweku wedi belugn hekimna bzu gize mokeren alhonm tho

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Sometimes I feel weird for wanting people’s opinions when I already talk to myself make dua and try to handle things privately but at the same time humans aren’t meant to live only inside their own heads I think sometimes I just want to hear how other people see things because maybe someone out there understands in a way I didn’t expect I don’t even always want advice sometimes I just want interaction that feels real like we’re all living on the same planet trying to figure life out so maybe hearing strangers thoughts can make things feel lighter or clearer I just graduated and I’m trying to find a job and honestly I hope to find my person one day too Reading people’s posts here made me realize I’m not the only one struggling because everyone has something they’re carrying When we walk outside we all seem normal or okay maybe it’s not pretending maybe we’re genuinely trying to be okay but I honestly don’t think I know a single person without problems And somehow that comforts me because we all share that in common People still hope and plan and work hard and keep trying to build a future for themselves even when life feels uncertain One comment that stayed in my mind was someone saying they wouldn’t want to meet their future person in a channel like this but strangely this channel made me appreciate people more Seeing strangers be vulnerable hopeful and supportive reminded me how human everyone really is and honestly I’m glad to be here because even if it’s anonymous it feels nice to share thoughts and comfort people with words✨

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I’m a 4th year Software Engineering student, and I work on backend development. My CGPA is currently very low, around 2.3 now. And next year I’ll be graduating, so I feel like it’s already too late to fix it. I’m honestly stressing about it more than you can imagine.

And to the seniors already working in tech, when it comes to getting hired, what kind of GPA does the market actually expect right now? Ik everyone says grades don’t matter in tech fields, but I wanna know the reality from your real life experience. Please share honestly.

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Hi guys nothing in my life excites me anymore i don't wanna go out i sleep all day if  i don't have work i don't talk to my friends anymore i just wanna be alone always is this normal

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Hey, I am undergrad student and there's this guy yayehut lemejemerya gize gbi new and guys i have a crush on him like for 5 or 6 months kemejemrya kayehut ken jemro, he is not yan yahl konjo or something girls can be attracted too gn idk how i ended up loving him like this guys, and I just don't know if I should stop loving him or I don't know what to do i mean... I do love him betam and the worst thing is that I think he feel the same way I do which is completely lame cuz ik he doesn't even care about me I am not even sure if he knows my name and it sucks guys what should I do help ur girl please I am fucked up I think about him day and night

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i experienced everything too early ,

am a 23 year old guy , who is working in billion dollar sector and currently is booming around ethiopia , i started working at the age of 19 and now i do part times in the proffession making roughly in between 60k - 100k a month and i can say am comfortable , also i have launched my own consulting firm with my frind and that making me recognized in my proffesions community ( idk if thatss a word ) ,

fo the past 2 years since i was making an okay money i tried to get in to the dating world and it has been hard because i started dating first since i was 15 and except sex i can say i have experianced most ( not being proud ) , but after 19 i focused on work and never dated anyone but now i have lost my charm my ability to communicate with woman , i am a protestant guy and obviously same religion is a must , but it's hard to even initiate even that kind of interest ena ik am still young and at this rate my work is going to consume me and am afraid of that ,
ig this is a cry for help on how to chat to woman😫

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Hey guys I’m 22F, so here’s my story… stuck with z and y so I’ve known y for like 2 years N 3yrs older we’re in a stiuationship. We become close one year ago. Sometimes he cares sometimes he doesn’t. It’s really confusing to tell what he’s thinking. One time we hangout with his friends then they treated me like I’m his gf menamn. Esunm he acted like that. It’s not simple to end things with him. Too much intimacy🤦🏼‍♀️then Mr z came like 7 month ago he’s so decent. Emotionally intelligent, cares for me, understands me and remembers every single thing I tell him. Guess what they know each other. Then I kinda had to make a decision so I texted y and how I feel menamn he left me on seen then start sending me reels menamn as if nothing happened. Mr z is saying he wants to take this seriously. There’s no chemistry between me and him so what should I do? Boys I need your opinion…

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Girls often tell me that they like my personality. Sometimes they say that to my friends mnamn... just yesterday i met a new girl and she was praising me infront of my friends. For some context, we were talking about love, relation etc and i was giving my honest thought on it and she said she like my views and that she thinks i'm the most mature off all my friend...(in front of my friends). I know that sometimes girls have a twisted mind where they talk say something but deep down they feel the total opposite. Don't get me wrong, i also believe that i'm somewhat mature, handsome mnamn but for some reason my mind is suspicious of all this girls complement. A couple days ago it was some girl who was telling me that i'm good at holding a conversation, yesterday another girl, and other girls saying the same things behind my back... this is nothing serious but these days i am finding it very hard to trust any girl.

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Hey! So i met a friend from hghchool after 6 years ena back in the days i was not interested in her but now...damn! I want to be with her so bad! She's classy and lovely... we talk everyday, day and night. I don't know how she thinks about me but why would a girl give this much attention to a guy that she's not romantically interested in? We were not super close when we were in highschool. We talk for hours every day. I don't know what to say to her...

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Ok I am Male in my late twenties. And ever since i started my sexual life i have been struggling with lasting longer and i have figured out sex is not just penetrating my d. Then i started to enjoying other stuff and i become good at it. And now i don't like penetration sex just other stuffs. Enjoying womens body.

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The more u mature the more u understand that nobody really cares, everyone is in their own mind all of the time everybody has thier own ሸክም and a lot of problem to deal with and i just want you to know that. Be free.

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