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Hey guys, i’m M... Please bezih nger advice stugn eski😭  i talk a lot, joke around a lot, and I feel like I have no stability in my character, ena ergata mibal yelegnm. If anyone here has ever managed to change this kind of personality, please tell me how you did it 🙏

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Sup. 18 y/o girl here. Joined AAU this year and things been going pretty good honestly, doing well academically and just enjoying life outside school too. I go out, smoke weed, only when I feel like it, I take ecstasy every 7 week as well (I'm well aware about the things I take and how chemically addictive they are) i started all of these a year and a half ago and I've never encountered any struggle or signs of addiction as I have solid self control and boundaries about it even if I've tried other things too. Ion do anything involving needles or snorting tho.

Anyway, later this year I’ve been growing more aware that a lot of the people around me(those I go out with) are becoming actual addicts, and it’s kinda weird watching how careless some people get with it. At first it was all just “for fun,” but now I’m seeing people who can’t really function without being on something, mixing whatever without caring what it does to them, or just constantly trying to escape reality through it. I’m not tryna act better than anybody or judge them, but it really made me realize how different my mindset is when it comes to consumption.
For me it’s more about knowing my limits, staying selective, and making sure I’m always in control instead of letting substances take over my whole life or personality.
I don’t like overdoing things, and I’ve realized the people you surround yourself with can influence you more than you think.

I'm just tryna connect with people with the same mindset rn. Ion mind a girl or a guy

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Ever thought maybe dating ain't for me i might just give up? I'm a hopeless romantic, i have never been in love but i really like the idea of love i want to make my partner happy, i want to be in love, i want to see them in love with me, i do believe in growing together ( not bashing my sisters who prefer a well off man ), i don't necessarily require him to be a specific way physically esp if we met inperson, like why is it so difficult i swear, it's not like i say he should be this, he should be that. Yea i mean I've that but nothing out of the ordinary i guess so like what the hell i swear to God 😅
I don't like saying i hate all men mnamn i still don't say that i believe i didn't came across wz a good man that i potentially like and liked by gn beka i swear to God am so tired. I just want to stop hopinh but i can't, I've a lot of love to give but no there will always be something to break us apart and am getting tired day by day. I just want to give up of temporarily and let it unfold by itself cuz shit is tiresome it just never works out

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So graduated in medicine recently and tbh i don't have any idea of my direction but lately I've been thinking of taking the USMLE path. I never thought I'd say that but yeah. But the thing is i don't want the internal medicine route that's an absolute no no for me and what i want is psychiatry how i love it😩, I'd do it for free but here comes the problem even tho it is one of the IMG friendly specialties it's getting competitive day by day. I don't have any research experience, no US clinical experience ofc, but i want it badly what should i do? Do you guys know anyone who went to the US to specialize in psychiatry from Ethiopia, pls say stng bcz am terrified before starting, if the chances were like IM i would have decided but.....
Anyways feel free to say anything also tell me how i can boost my CV esp regarding psych be it research, articles mnamn

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"Hi, I’m 25, a guy who’s proud of having a good job and clear goals. I’ve built stability and independence, but what I haven’t found yet is a real connection someone genuine to share life with. It feels like I’ve got the foundation, but I’m missing the partner who makes the journey meaningful.❤️

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I'm 26F..I don't have close friends to talk with that's why I'm here.matured negn blachu mtasbu sewoch amakrugn esti kumneger slehone.
here's the thing..I've a boyfriend ena next yr lemegabat plan alen.he's a good a guy everything is going well mnamn.the problem is ye ehtu 2 lijoch kesu gar nw minorut.ehtu arab hager nw mtnorew.llijochu ye 11th ena 7th temari nachew.so my boyfriend miyasbew sngabam kenesu gar endemninor nw.sefa yale bet tekerayten.don't get me wrong sew yemtela sew hogne adelem.It's just that I've never thought of marriage like that.yehone clean,des yemil bet wst kebale gar sninor mnamn mil ngr nw yalew in my head kedrom jemro.ena beka yehone deberegn ngr yemr.bcha snawerabet ena yet yihunu mn ladrgachew mnamn silegn enja figure out yehone ngr endezih comfort aysetegnm slew "endezih aynet sew atmesyignm nbr"alegn.ena ewnet denegetku.am I being "metfo sew"ende??esti setoch bene bota bthonu mn tadergalachu be honest midebr ngr aydelem?wendoch mist endthonachu yasebachuatn set endezih aynet ngr wst mektet fair nw?
ena esti hasabachun nigerugn without being disrespectful

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I am feeling all over the place I don’t even know what to say anymore I am only 20 but I think life forever is doomed for me it seems nothing goes right I have barely friends no talents nothing special and I can’t even find someone to love me mutually too . Depression is slowly taking over my life

I just don’t see the point anymore in this life

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At 29, I thought I would have figured this part of life out by now, but dating honestly feels exhausting lately I am not even looking for perfection anymore just a mature woman who knows what she wants, communicates properly, values loyalty, peace, effort, and actually wants something serious and it js frustrating how rare genuine connection feels now most conversations fade, people play games, avoid consistency, or don’t really know what they want meanwhile, I’m at a point where I genuinely want to build something real with the right person i know relationships take work, patience, and emotional maturity, and I’m willing to give that i just haven’t met someone who’s truly in to that sometimes it makes me wonder if I’m asking for too much, even though deep down I know I’m really not.

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Sup with the hoes these days. All fake wtf. I thought you was innocent, lil bitch. Turns out u was playn me huh. Enastbe.

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Hey guys i'm m 25 yrs old, I have no one to talk right i know i never been this depressed. I just lost my job 2 months ago, And just got back to my parents house. i'm not mad at it but after that i have applied for one job but the salalry is to low(10k), So i decide to work home try online stuff i have never leaved the house these 2 months and made around 100k. . but after that i thought i would be unstoppable and spend most of it just bought a phone some unnecessary stuff ps4 and shi i sold it again. And know i can't make the same money again. It was AI ofm but just got banned it's too much story, One thing i learned is online money is not constant, So i tried other stuffs i open 2 YT accounts, one is at 500sub and the other is around 1k. But the 1k one is  short  channel, I just uploaded 1 Ai short it blew up and gain the subs overnight. I know youtube is not gonna montized ai shorts i just did it for the subs, But i'm out of ideas to continue. The other 500 is where i uploaded long term videos. I have 2000 watch hours, It's so frustrating just making video to get 1 and 2k views most time, My biggest view is 25k . Sorry i'm just talking too much, And what i'm saying was guys like there is a fear in my heart what if this don't work out. What i'm i gonna do, My money is running out. But I'm sure don't wanna work for 10k a month. Now also P2P is banned it's really hard, this is some bullshit ass country man. If there is anyone who wanna work with me like yt and other stuff, Dm me let's do it. Let's exchange knowledge..

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Found this channel these days kinda good that ppl share advices and experiences here so why not hear other people thoughts and view in my problems i said to myself wanting share. I am 22M currently learning architecture in 4th year, i am doing good with it. But have you guys ever felt like you are being a parasite and load on your parents?? Specially how life is all about competetion and expensive things are going. I am feeling this immense amount of guilt being load on my parent. My mother is the strongest women i knew she raised me and my two younger siblings without our father(died when we were young) and sometimes neighbours and relatives ask me if i am working and helping to fulfill my filial duty. I actually am doing some video editings aside from my learning for some tiktokers and youtubers although it takes much time of my learning time and has little income i can atleast cover my transport,food and few other stuffs i need. But the college fee is increasing day to day i feel nothing but guilt all around. So grown adults and people at similar case of mine here how did you cop from this feeling of guilt and managed through it/

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Amakrugn pls, i hv a bf gn gena nen ngr but a month ago we planned to makeout mnamn ngr and his friends know me so manm endayak staff alkut eshi alegn then erob ken ngr tebabaln ena maksegnow lay my period came i told him ena beka schershi alegn then schers mnamn dgami ken wesenen ena like ke 2 ken befit ngr tegenagnen just for walk ngr then yehone bota arefn ena eyaweran ngr i have suddenly checked his phone before set mnamn yelem keza buhala beka asbew alakm then yeza ken kuch blen dnget slkun eyiw alegn my gut feeling keza eski slkhn stegn alkut ende normal okay blo kefto setegn ig ayew tiktok ayew mnamn mnm yelem tg kefetku mnm set yelem then what if tezegajtobet kehone beye ye jelesochun acc mayet jemerku mnamn lelochu ga normal nw andu lj ga gn slene awrtewal ngr he told him that he is gonna fck me room endeyaze mnamn and voice nw wederase forward arge zm alkut ebet sgeba i was crazy lakulet he beggedd me betamm esu bcha nw miyakew best friende slehone nw hulum ngr ykrbgn alnekashm bcha ykr beyign ale should i trust him??

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Hey everyone Need advice on this.... especially someone who been through and over this
so I'm 24 M i have a deep insecurity about trust in relationships I've ruined even a really good one's because growing up i covered for my mom while she was cheating just to not see my family broken and I've tried but i can't just trust women in that deeper relationship level at all what to y'all think i should do?

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I was Wondering how much does " your type " matter to you cz based on my experience i was that person who'd say I'd rather die than being with someone who is not my type that was in my late teens and early 20s but as i get to know more people those " standards " just kinda faded. U might find me obsess over someone who is the complete opposite to my type esp if we vibe gn still when i meet people who are my type one thing I've noticed is i would find it easy to like them right from the beginning so what's your take on this? I mean does it matter long term? It might be different from a guy and girls perspective so would like to hear from both esp those that are older 😊

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Bruv, it’s okay. I know it feels like nothin’s really working out right now. Always out here hopin’ someone sends a lil cash just to even go church, stuck in the yard all day feeling drained and alone. Couldn’t even finish the driving licence cause money’s tight. That one hurts differently still.
But I hear myself. I know this ain’t how life’s gonna stay forever. One day I’m gonna look back at this vent when God finally opens that door for me, and it’ll all make sense.
Right now it’s just one of them rough chapters. I can’t give up yet. I’ve come too far for that. I got this. Thank you Jesus

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I just hate myself. Been doing that since I was a kid. I am ugly, have barely any friends or people to even think of me which honestly atp I don’t even blame them, I am not worth it. Complicated relationship with parents, mediocre at everything, got no talent or any skills and honestly I am tired of even living. I got no energy left in me to even try. I am surviving.

Went to therapy but It honestly didn’t really help. I am thinking of maybe changing my therapist…

I am almost 21 but for me life is already over. Each year seems to get worse. Proof I am not meant to be here.

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If God really exists and loves me, He won't test me like this, giving me this kind of pain that can't be fixed even after begging for more than a year. If He is looking at me, He won't make me suffer like this. I am sorry for myself, but I gave up on myself and God.

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I have no one to talk to about this and I swear I'm not making this up, but I went through an OBE(out of body experience) today in the morning. Some of you might say that I slept while thinking about it, or that I have been reading about it or exposed to it's content somewhat recently and that's why I ended up "dreaming" about it, but no it's been ages since I've read anything about this nor shown interest in it. It just happened randomly after I slept late around 5 am in the morning. Just wanted to share this.

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Helppp I am 26F
Got Hiv test at tenatabiya by health officer and they said all 3 tests show reactive so i have hiv confirmed and did a 4th one that shows how recent it was and said it is long term more than a year I could not accept the diagnosis because i never had sex parents dont have hiv (mom died of some respiratory condition after traveling to country side and got sick for a month) and  although i got blood splashed on me from patients none of them was postive( atleast that is what thier chart said) so i did not take prep(I am a healthcare student fyi). this was done 5 month ago and i did not start medication because i wanted to retest  at a private labratory. I went to tsebel for a week and then I got a pcr test and it come back detectable with low numbers than expected around thousands .
I am out here calm I have this unexplainable peace that only God could give but still conflicted I was single my whole life I am scared to start medication I am scared of side effects I am scared if I will ever find love have a family live normally I am scared to accept the diagnosis.
People taking the medications help me out on what to expect how to accept
other than that I recently also learned that my grandparents and aunt used to mamlek chele mnamn ena they stopped long time ago and had repented but this things have some consequences. I have always grown up as orthodox so this is complete news to me but idk i am conflicted. As some one very well educated i dont want to believe in such things but idk i have prayed in tears for past 5 months before pcr but idk where to go so any orthodox here pray for me advise me
also People living with hiv also in health care share your stories what was it like when you started meds and what should i do

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M26 look, I have a girlfriend I love the most, we been together for 2 years, but lately we have been fighting a lot, and the reason is MONEY. I have a job, and she is in college, and I make around 30k a month. i know i'm not doing anything special for her, you know, even though I want to, I can't. But I do take her out to normal places menamn give her gifts only on special occasions, but from what I've observed, she wants me to spoil her. btw this wasn’t a problem because she was a kinda person who gets happy with little things until i mention something someday on the phone.


Look, besides my current job, i do things on the side, and things weren’t good that day, and i was feeling down and everything. i got comfortable, and i asked her, “if i don make it, are we still gonna start living together and build together?" the reason i asked this was because we planned to get married as soon as she graduates, and by then I will also be in a better financial status. and she said "i don't know… this is hard … i don want this kinda of life." she said everything but "we will grow together," which I wanted to hear, i think. This would really strengthen me, but her answer broke me be eyesuse sem.

Then she changed! .. dry texts, some day she is in a good mood and when everything feels alright dgmo she acts cold and mean. and i asked her what was wrong, and she said it was about the financial thing we talked about. and i tried to comfort her menamn. i said everything ymer. this much act miasderg aydlem the worstcase scenario hula mn aynet life offer endemadereg aserdahuate (which is the basics) then she seems normal menamn and we moved on. months passed with her still being up and down, and after months, she brought it up again yesterday. and we argued. i don even knw mn eyalechgn hula endehone.i mean, im working for a better future, and she knows that, but i don't knw what she wanna hear.

Im really overwhelmed right now. i don't knw what to do. I can't take her mood swings anymore also; it is really affecting me badly. and knowing she is acting like this because of the way she is being treated financially is really killing me. but i want you guys to help on this. Was I wrong to ask that question to a woman? Can the situation be fixed?

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You guys…what is love really? 😭
Is it supposed to feel like this?
How can something that is supposed to make you happy also make you lose yourself… your confidence… your spark? 😂😭😭
How can love feel so deep that you start forgetting who you were before it?
Am I the only one who loves this hard?
Is it normal to give your whole heart like this and still end up feeling empty inside?
And if love is real… then why does it hurt like this?
How do I heal from it?
How do I forget someone I still care about?
How do I move on and continue life like nothing happened when everything inside me feels changed?
Please…how do people do this??😌

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