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Hi, Iβm from Mumbai and Iβm into business. My wife is also a working professional, and we are not divorced yet, but I am seriously thinking about it.
The situation Iβm dealing with is that my wife has committed adultery, and I have proof to support it. If this were a general situation like most cases, it might have been easier for me to decide what to do, but my case feels different and more complicated.
The reason is that the other person is not someone from outside. He is actually from our relatives. He had come to Mumbai to do his MBA, which is where I live. Out of my goodwill, or maybe my mistake, I used to invite him to our home regularly for lunch or dinner, and I even included him in our family events.
I donβt know when or how things started between them, but my wife got involved with him. It has been very disturbing for me. I have proof, including intimate pictures of them.
I honestly donβt know what to do. This is completely new for me, and I have never faced or even read about something like this before. Iβm confused about what my next step should be and how I should handle this situation.
Just for some clarification, I have a 7-year-old daughter, and my wife is a doctor by profession.
Am not understanding what to do in this case.... Completely got blank and i can't share this with anyone in my real circle
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Hi, Iβm from Mumbai and Iβm into business. My wife is also a working professional, and we are not divorced yet, but I am seriously thinking about it.
The situation Iβm dealing with is that my wife has committed adultery, and I have proof to support it. If this were a general situation like most cases, it might have been easier for me to decide what to do, but my case feels different and more complicated.
The reason is that the other person is not someone from outside. He is actually from our relatives. He had come to Mumbai to do his MBA, which is where I live. Out of my goodwill, or maybe my mistake, I used to invite him to our home regularly for lunch or dinner, and I even included him in our family events.
I donβt know when or how things started between them, but my wife got involved with him. It has been very disturbing for me. I have proof, including intimate pictures of them.
I honestly donβt know what to do. This is completely new for me, and I have never faced or even read about something like this before. Iβm confused about what my next step should be and how I should handle this situation.
Just for some clarification, I have a 7-year-old daughter, and my wife is a doctor by profession.
Am not understanding what to do in this case.... Completely got blank and i can't share this with anyone in my real circle
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Never thought i'd feel this way or i thought i'd be happy one day, at this point. I didn't think i'd still be crying while craving a certain amount of joy and peace. I feel like i'm slowly driven to insanity and this feels like my last straw. My heart physically aches, i can't sleep, i can't think. I feel tears falling down my cheeks without realizing im crying. I feel suffocated and in a daze. I don't knw what to do. I laugh when i think of the pain and i feel detached and disoriented. I feel like a robot. I can't force a laugh anymore nor does my heart have the energy to care. If you'd see me you'd never know what's behind the facade. I fooled everyone and im not sure if i deserve a medal for it. I've prayed but im met with silence, talked to ppl but critcized and judged instead of being understood, needed a hug but got a lecture. Through out all this ive tried to be good and care for those close to me but dont seem to get the same care or love. I've passed through my teens, early 20's and now almost late 20's in the same state, hoping. But now it all seems hopless. I'm loosing it, i can feel myself loosing it and i'm scared.
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Never thought i'd feel this way or i thought i'd be happy one day, at this point. I didn't think i'd still be crying while craving a certain amount of joy and peace. I feel like i'm slowly driven to insanity and this feels like my last straw. My heart physically aches, i can't sleep, i can't think. I feel tears falling down my cheeks without realizing im crying. I feel suffocated and in a daze. I don't knw what to do. I laugh when i think of the pain and i feel detached and disoriented. I feel like a robot. I can't force a laugh anymore nor does my heart have the energy to care. If you'd see me you'd never know what's behind the facade. I fooled everyone and im not sure if i deserve a medal for it. I've prayed but im met with silence, talked to ppl but critcized and judged instead of being understood, needed a hug but got a lecture. Through out all this ive tried to be good and care for those close to me but dont seem to get the same care or love. I've passed through my teens, early 20's and now almost late 20's in the same state, hoping. But now it all seems hopless. I'm loosing it, i can feel myself loosing it and i'm scared.
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Hey,I just wanted to let this out,so I've seen u stare at this married girl a lot once I even caught u looking at her opening ur car door a little so u can see her without getting caught.u even go to her sefer and drink around there even after u stopped working around there, but u still don't get time for me like fr?u said ud text that uve been busy but when I went to her neighborhood ur there drinking with ur friends ur a psycho.
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Hey,I just wanted to let this out,so I've seen u stare at this married girl a lot once I even caught u looking at her opening ur car door a little so u can see her without getting caught.u even go to her sefer and drink around there even after u stopped working around there, but u still don't get time for me like fr?u said ud text that uve been busy but when I went to her neighborhood ur there drinking with ur friends ur a psycho.
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Hello everyone. I am a 26 year old female. I have always told myself this is not a real problem, since I and most people, have many problems worse than this but hear me out. I am highly educated (an honors student), at the top of my profession, and have a good income. I have been described as a very good friend in the past (which I think has become part of the problem). I am trying to rebuild my relationship with God. I am a textbook introvert, and I think I look fairly good on most days.
However, I have been struggling with loneliness. I donβt use social media, except LinkedIn, where I have more than the standard number of followers because of my job, but I donβt have a single close friend. I had best friends last year, but I had to cut them off because they were taking advantage of me. Since then, I have been very lonely, and it is messing with my mind.
My job allows me to interact with many people, but during breaks and after I get home, I have no one to talk to except my mother. I thought I could go through life alone, and on most days I manage, but I have to admit I struggle because I long for human interaction.
I am not looking for a romantic relationship, just simple friendships preferably with a woman older than me, someone I can talk to and build a genuine friendship with. If you want to be friends, let me know in the comment section and Iβll ask for your ID.
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Hello everyone. I am a 26 year old female. I have always told myself this is not a real problem, since I and most people, have many problems worse than this but hear me out. I am highly educated (an honors student), at the top of my profession, and have a good income. I have been described as a very good friend in the past (which I think has become part of the problem). I am trying to rebuild my relationship with God. I am a textbook introvert, and I think I look fairly good on most days.
However, I have been struggling with loneliness. I donβt use social media, except LinkedIn, where I have more than the standard number of followers because of my job, but I donβt have a single close friend. I had best friends last year, but I had to cut them off because they were taking advantage of me. Since then, I have been very lonely, and it is messing with my mind.
My job allows me to interact with many people, but during breaks and after I get home, I have no one to talk to except my mother. I thought I could go through life alone, and on most days I manage, but I have to admit I struggle because I long for human interaction.
I am not looking for a romantic relationship, just simple friendships preferably with a woman older than me, someone I can talk to and build a genuine friendship with. If you want to be friends, let me know in the comment section and Iβll ask for your ID.
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hi guys i hv vented several times here but now i am really tired of working hard for nothing guys just for nothing am 22 yrs old ena guys my entire life i havnt made money guys how boring it is its really shameful to hear from 22 aged yrs old guy i have tried learning skills i spent more than 6 month but i don know how to be good on it guys i am software engineering student at some third generation university guys u don have any information how free time i have we don have classess we re totally free so i was learning web development now i am stuck i wanted to learn new thing in tech but my location is really boring my circles are really boring just staring at desktop and scrolling tiktok guys the whole class do this i am tired of it i was thinkin drop out but i have no where to go i just don know what to do i am not comparin myself with others but i hv friends theyre in ASTU and theyre not evn software student but theyre making money building websites and automations guys i hate my self and my enviroment uni life supposed to be fun but mine is really depression guys i don know what to do some times i hv commitment on some thing but i am just working hard for nothingg guyss u don belive my routine i will leave dorm at 1 oclock and just stay at lab and ate dinner 12 oclock and go to dorm for sleep around 6 - 7 in the middle of night. and i hate this routine i don know what to do ive tried youtube but it didint work ive tried guitar none of it work ive jioned football club none of it worked i hate life for real the reason iam not givin up is only my mom and my dad i hate my life i hate it just trying for nothing working hard for 0
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hi guys i hv vented several times here but now i am really tired of working hard for nothing guys just for nothing am 22 yrs old ena guys my entire life i havnt made money guys how boring it is its really shameful to hear from 22 aged yrs old guy i have tried learning skills i spent more than 6 month but i don know how to be good on it guys i am software engineering student at some third generation university guys u don have any information how free time i have we don have classess we re totally free so i was learning web development now i am stuck i wanted to learn new thing in tech but my location is really boring my circles are really boring just staring at desktop and scrolling tiktok guys the whole class do this i am tired of it i was thinkin drop out but i have no where to go i just don know what to do i am not comparin myself with others but i hv friends theyre in ASTU and theyre not evn software student but theyre making money building websites and automations guys i hate my self and my enviroment uni life supposed to be fun but mine is really depression guys i don know what to do some times i hv commitment on some thing but i am just working hard for nothingg guyss u don belive my routine i will leave dorm at 1 oclock and just stay at lab and ate dinner 12 oclock and go to dorm for sleep around 6 - 7 in the middle of night. and i hate this routine i don know what to do ive tried youtube but it didint work ive tried guitar none of it work ive jioned football club none of it worked i hate life for real the reason iam not givin up is only my mom and my dad i hate my life i hate it just trying for nothing working hard for 0
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Hello 26 M
First time venting, Here is the thing i had a girlfriend we been together for almost 6 years on and off. We met when i was a freshman and she was grade 12. Gibi yetemedevkut enesu hager new. After a year she went to college too so most of our relationship time was a long distance. All those times i feel like i was the one keeping the relationship she want a breakup for no reason 3 to 4 times and i convince her to be together. Always when i ask her reason she goes like " I love you but i got a lot to deal with and i am not up for relationship" from what i observed and one of her friend told me that she got family issues. I have tried to make her open to me about it but she didn't. Fast forward i graduated got a highly paying Job abroad she did too so i expected things will get better and as we get older we need to think about marriage right? she still is not energetic about it. So i ended the relationship a year ago she was not happy with it but she accepted it. We sometimes update each other about life and she still want us to be together but she didn't actually say it. I also want us to be together but i don't want to repeat all what i've done before so we kept silent to each other about our feelings. I don't want to regret about my decision if everything had went well with her i would've married her. do you think starting over is a good idea? if we start over i need to make sure we both healed but i dont know how? Also i don't want to be the one to initiate the idea, but girls won't too. Just say sth on this.
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First time venting, Here is the thing i had a girlfriend we been together for almost 6 years on and off. We met when i was a freshman and she was grade 12. Gibi yetemedevkut enesu hager new. After a year she went to college too so most of our relationship time was a long distance. All those times i feel like i was the one keeping the relationship she want a breakup for no reason 3 to 4 times and i convince her to be together. Always when i ask her reason she goes like " I love you but i got a lot to deal with and i am not up for relationship" from what i observed and one of her friend told me that she got family issues. I have tried to make her open to me about it but she didn't. Fast forward i graduated got a highly paying Job abroad she did too so i expected things will get better and as we get older we need to think about marriage right? she still is not energetic about it. So i ended the relationship a year ago she was not happy with it but she accepted it. We sometimes update each other about life and she still want us to be together but she didn't actually say it. I also want us to be together but i don't want to repeat all what i've done before so we kept silent to each other about our feelings. I don't want to regret about my decision if everything had went well with her i would've married her. do you think starting over is a good idea? if we start over i need to make sure we both healed but i dont know how? Also i don't want to be the one to initiate the idea, but girls won't too. Just say sth on this.
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I used to think I was special and smart. When I was a kid, I got good grades without studying much. Everything seemed easy back then good grades, happiness, and I thought life would always be like that after I graduated. I was naive to believe people were honest as well.
But after graduation, everything changed. I ended up in a job I hated, and I wasnβt even making enough money. I learned that some people lie, especially men, they would do anything to get you in bed. I hate how things are now. I wish I could go back to when life was simple.
Now, I've lost my job (which I donβt regret), but I've also lost myself. I lost my spark and the meaning of life. I donβt trust men anymore. Iβve lost so much: my dad, my happiness, my familyβs trust, and friends. I keep wondering what I did wrong. Life was easy when I was a kid.
I feel like Iβm waiting for something good to happen, but miracles never come. I know that no one is coming to save me. But this time, I want to give life another try. I will gather my strength and try again. I hope I can make it this time.
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I used to think I was special and smart. When I was a kid, I got good grades without studying much. Everything seemed easy back then good grades, happiness, and I thought life would always be like that after I graduated. I was naive to believe people were honest as well.
But after graduation, everything changed. I ended up in a job I hated, and I wasnβt even making enough money. I learned that some people lie, especially men, they would do anything to get you in bed. I hate how things are now. I wish I could go back to when life was simple.
Now, I've lost my job (which I donβt regret), but I've also lost myself. I lost my spark and the meaning of life. I donβt trust men anymore. Iβve lost so much: my dad, my happiness, my familyβs trust, and friends. I keep wondering what I did wrong. Life was easy when I was a kid.
I feel like Iβm waiting for something good to happen, but miracles never come. I know that no one is coming to save me. But this time, I want to give life another try. I will gather my strength and try again. I hope I can make it this time.
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Ask ID mtlu F off & sorry for the graphic words I'll be using. Hv religious friends so can't bring it up to em
so I've been seeing a pattern in my dating life ena up to this point i thought i hv a bad luck but now am thinking what if there is a problem in me so i want you guys ( preferably 27 and above π) to see the patterns here and tell me if I'm the problem with out sugarcoating bcz this shit is making me sad yelele π
So in nutshell I'd meet a guy online ( i said online bcz the wz guys i met in person i never face such a problem ) he'd like my character usually saying am all sweet, caring, pretty, feminine, smart, lovely bcha i swear according to what i observed they would hate nothing abt me other than the one thing I'd mention later and they would start being all lovey dovey and then boom something would happen let me tell you specifically cuz this is sadπ
Guy1 introduced by a friend we have a lot in common we'd talk for hours on the phone gena from the start , liked him i believe he did too due to the actions he'd show me gn starting from the first phone talk he asked me for a pic alright understandable he wants to see whom he is talking to cuz i believe in physical attraction then i sent & he told me to send him kesr ( tafayen ) mnamn bedenb miyasay pic endlklet i resisted. Like i get it even i get curious on how tall he could be mnamn eko gn no I'd not make them uncomfortable by being so direct with it. He'd ask for my pictures daily u know eyedeberegn lkalew and sometimes I'd say no and he'd get mad. Then block & unblock me
Guy 2 met on IG things were smooth at first i can't say we had a strong connection but yeah i liked how he looks he is really hot yaw he liked me too endemilew kehone and things escalated and got sexual i told him i won't have sex with him i told him i am not down for a blow job unless am married to that person but u know i like doing other stuff that makes me happy like making out, getting touched on boobs, getting eaten out ( if i feel like I'm loved and too comfortable new esunm ) so yeah he'd block me then he'd come back bcz α₯αα yzotal. I understood what he was thinking..She just wants her comfort, only wants to do stuff that makes her comfortable mnamn blo.
Guy#3 ..I've never liked and trusted a guy that i met online endezi yefetene bcz i thought he was genuine. and things escalated and turned sexual met him did things that i liked and like the second guy told him my boundaries got mad calling me all corny and stuff like that. And yeah i hate how understanding I'm but i kind of understand him he is easily irritated by " how girls are entitled and delusional " but called me selfish, corny and things i forgot just bcz i said i want to give a BJ to a guy that I'm married to
Alright so slerase snegrachu... Yeah i like sexual activities, I'm always horny i want to makeout till my lips r dry, i want to get my boobs sucked ( that's how far i went ) and if i get a guy who i think genuinely likes me and is not rushing me and can keep up with my pace of things BEKA I WANT TO THINK THAT THE GUY IS FOR ALL THE RIGHT INTENTIONS i want to do all the foreplay things except penetration and giving bj ( this one i might even do it if I'm head over heels for him and want to make him the happiest ) gn beka i never met a guy who is willing to keep us with MY PACE ( selfish much π? no i don't think so I'm like this bcz I had some ppl in the past who i believe were only for the sexual part and i get defensive ) yeah the way i say things could make them mad but I'm wondering why am this unlucky all i want is to find a guy that i connect emotionally at first keza proceed to the sexual things at my own pace which i can't predict which is happening when cuz it depends on the level of comfort I've. Tbh never faced endezi aynet prob with the people i met in person they always understand istg idk wth is happening.
Could i be the problem? Not for z boundaries but maybe for the way i say/ handle things?
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so I've been seeing a pattern in my dating life ena up to this point i thought i hv a bad luck but now am thinking what if there is a problem in me so i want you guys ( preferably 27 and above π) to see the patterns here and tell me if I'm the problem with out sugarcoating bcz this shit is making me sad yelele π
So in nutshell I'd meet a guy online ( i said online bcz the wz guys i met in person i never face such a problem ) he'd like my character usually saying am all sweet, caring, pretty, feminine, smart, lovely bcha i swear according to what i observed they would hate nothing abt me other than the one thing I'd mention later and they would start being all lovey dovey and then boom something would happen let me tell you specifically cuz this is sadπ
Guy1 introduced by a friend we have a lot in common we'd talk for hours on the phone gena from the start , liked him i believe he did too due to the actions he'd show me gn starting from the first phone talk he asked me for a pic alright understandable he wants to see whom he is talking to cuz i believe in physical attraction then i sent & he told me to send him kesr ( tafayen ) mnamn bedenb miyasay pic endlklet i resisted. Like i get it even i get curious on how tall he could be mnamn eko gn no I'd not make them uncomfortable by being so direct with it. He'd ask for my pictures daily u know eyedeberegn lkalew and sometimes I'd say no and he'd get mad. Then block & unblock me
Guy 2 met on IG things were smooth at first i can't say we had a strong connection but yeah i liked how he looks he is really hot yaw he liked me too endemilew kehone and things escalated and got sexual i told him i won't have sex with him i told him i am not down for a blow job unless am married to that person but u know i like doing other stuff that makes me happy like making out, getting touched on boobs, getting eaten out ( if i feel like I'm loved and too comfortable new esunm ) so yeah he'd block me then he'd come back bcz α₯αα yzotal. I understood what he was thinking..She just wants her comfort, only wants to do stuff that makes her comfortable mnamn blo.
Guy#3 ..I've never liked and trusted a guy that i met online endezi yefetene bcz i thought he was genuine. and things escalated and turned sexual met him did things that i liked and like the second guy told him my boundaries got mad calling me all corny and stuff like that. And yeah i hate how understanding I'm but i kind of understand him he is easily irritated by " how girls are entitled and delusional " but called me selfish, corny and things i forgot just bcz i said i want to give a BJ to a guy that I'm married to
Alright so slerase snegrachu... Yeah i like sexual activities, I'm always horny i want to makeout till my lips r dry, i want to get my boobs sucked ( that's how far i went ) and if i get a guy who i think genuinely likes me and is not rushing me and can keep up with my pace of things BEKA I WANT TO THINK THAT THE GUY IS FOR ALL THE RIGHT INTENTIONS i want to do all the foreplay things except penetration and giving bj ( this one i might even do it if I'm head over heels for him and want to make him the happiest ) gn beka i never met a guy who is willing to keep us with MY PACE ( selfish much π? no i don't think so I'm like this bcz I had some ppl in the past who i believe were only for the sexual part and i get defensive ) yeah the way i say things could make them mad but I'm wondering why am this unlucky all i want is to find a guy that i connect emotionally at first keza proceed to the sexual things at my own pace which i can't predict which is happening when cuz it depends on the level of comfort I've. Tbh never faced endezi aynet prob with the people i met in person they always understand istg idk wth is happening.
Could i be the problem? Not for z boundaries but maybe for the way i say/ handle things?
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How do u actually go years without sex? Like, I know he respects my boundaries, but how do you handle his feelings about it?
Do you still spend time alone together, like in a room, N justβ¦ not cross that line? I feel like thatβs rly hard, especially when thereβs physical attraction
I wanna wait until marriage and keep it pure... but Iβm honestly struggling with how to control physical touch and stay consistent for ze next 3β4 years.
Any real advice?
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How do u actually go years without sex? Like, I know he respects my boundaries, but how do you handle his feelings about it?
Do you still spend time alone together, like in a room, N justβ¦ not cross that line? I feel like thatβs rly hard, especially when thereβs physical attraction
I wanna wait until marriage and keep it pure... but Iβm honestly struggling with how to control physical touch and stay consistent for ze next 3β4 years.
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So been reflecting on my life lately ena here u go. I was super religious ( Protestant ) while i was in highschool and went to UV and started to question things and yeah i got to this point of no turning back now I'm what u guys might call agnostic or stg ( tbh i don't like naming it cz i don't think it fully defines me but yea its the closest thing that i can come up wz ) ena i was Wondering if there is someone in the same position as me cz never met one tbh
So yeah i do pray, go to church sometimes and i believe in the possibility that there is a higher being but i doubt that it's exactly the God mentioned in the bible, i love the Protestant culture that i grew up in. I prefer to marry a Protestant guy who is not religious. Tbh i believe it'd αα¨αα¨α the hell out of me being wz a non pro guy i don't want a religious pro guy too and i want my kids to believe in the bible π i honestly wouldn't hate it if they are religious too bcz i know it had affected me in a positive way. But yeah there almost no chance of me returning back why ( this is upto another discussion so let me spare u z α΅α«α π)
Hmm current dating life?.... Not affected by it tbh.... The religious pro guys i met they'd get really curious and try to change me mnamn
The non religious pro guys...... U can say am the religious one here so we get along ao well in this aspect
The non pro guys like i said i don't prefer that whether they are chill or not bcz come on i don't want to complicate my life by entangling wz their fams mnamn gn when i liked them enough mnamn I'd just let it slide
Spiritual life?.... Jesus how i miss my religious life..... It was so peaceful, when it's preached that God allowed eyob to be miserable and all bcz he had faith in him the past me would pray ohhh pls make me like eyob α°αααα₯α mnamn bloπ z now me i nit pick on every word gn yeah i like the " delusion " cuz it gave me comfort and peace, no anxietu and a bliss of just thing happen for a reason. Since i was so entangled i find it hard to really detach. I really loved jesus how kind he was to the people, still i give credit for God for all z good things in my life.
Social life? ...... Still good i don't go to church as often, my friends kinda know my stance gn not as much but they are religious orthos and if i say am agnostic ohhh well idk i think they'd ααΈα½ me 40 ααα΅ π. My bro is like me so we get along very well , i believe my father is tooπ but he denies it just like I'd deny to my future kids
So anyone who can relate esp female cuz never met one female
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So been reflecting on my life lately ena here u go. I was super religious ( Protestant ) while i was in highschool and went to UV and started to question things and yeah i got to this point of no turning back now I'm what u guys might call agnostic or stg ( tbh i don't like naming it cz i don't think it fully defines me but yea its the closest thing that i can come up wz ) ena i was Wondering if there is someone in the same position as me cz never met one tbh
So yeah i do pray, go to church sometimes and i believe in the possibility that there is a higher being but i doubt that it's exactly the God mentioned in the bible, i love the Protestant culture that i grew up in. I prefer to marry a Protestant guy who is not religious. Tbh i believe it'd αα¨αα¨α the hell out of me being wz a non pro guy i don't want a religious pro guy too and i want my kids to believe in the bible π i honestly wouldn't hate it if they are religious too bcz i know it had affected me in a positive way. But yeah there almost no chance of me returning back why ( this is upto another discussion so let me spare u z α΅α«α π)
Hmm current dating life?.... Not affected by it tbh.... The religious pro guys i met they'd get really curious and try to change me mnamn
The non religious pro guys...... U can say am the religious one here so we get along ao well in this aspect
The non pro guys like i said i don't prefer that whether they are chill or not bcz come on i don't want to complicate my life by entangling wz their fams mnamn gn when i liked them enough mnamn I'd just let it slide
Spiritual life?.... Jesus how i miss my religious life..... It was so peaceful, when it's preached that God allowed eyob to be miserable and all bcz he had faith in him the past me would pray ohhh pls make me like eyob α°αααα₯α mnamn bloπ z now me i nit pick on every word gn yeah i like the " delusion " cuz it gave me comfort and peace, no anxietu and a bliss of just thing happen for a reason. Since i was so entangled i find it hard to really detach. I really loved jesus how kind he was to the people, still i give credit for God for all z good things in my life.
Social life? ...... Still good i don't go to church as often, my friends kinda know my stance gn not as much but they are religious orthos and if i say am agnostic ohhh well idk i think they'd ααΈα½ me 40 ααα΅ π. My bro is like me so we get along very well , i believe my father is tooπ but he denies it just like I'd deny to my future kids
So anyone who can relate esp female cuz never met one female
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it's just a useless vent but let me try it... i do day trading stuff not highly profitable but still making some money for day2day life α₯α α₯ααΉααα almost α¨ 24hr 10α°α α± α α₯αα αα ααͺα 14hr PC αα α ααα α₯ αα αα«ααα im From middle class family u know α αα°αΈα¨α α αα ααα³α» α¨αα α¨αα ααααα α«α ααα α₯α αΆα»α ααα α¨αα α¨α₯αΆαα α α°αα to find my womenπ€¦ββ im 24 btw and 171cmπ is there a chance to find my match in this group? 0.1% α’ααα 0 α₯α΅α«αα αααα αα π€·
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α₯αΈααα± outof this world and i love it bayze α ααΌα α³ααα α₯αα²α α αα ααα£αΉαα α΅α¬α΅ αα³α¨α α°αα½ αααα
α ααα α₯α α₯ααααα ααα α¬ α«α΅α°α αα³αΉ αΆαͺ α₯π
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it's just a useless vent but let me try it... i do day trading stuff not highly profitable but still making some money for day2day life α₯α α₯ααΉααα almost α¨ 24hr 10α°α α± α α₯αα αα ααͺα 14hr PC αα α ααα α₯ αα αα«ααα im From middle class family u know α αα°αΈα¨α α αα ααα³α» α¨αα α¨αα ααααα α«α ααα α₯α αΆα»α ααα α¨αα α¨α₯αΆαα α α°αα to find my womenπ€¦ββ im 24 btw and 171cmπ is there a chance to find my match in this group? 0.1% α’ααα 0 α₯α΅α«αα αααα αα π€·
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α₯αΈααα± outof this world and i love it bayze α ααΌα α³ααα α₯αα²α α αα ααα£αΉαα α΅α¬α΅ αα³α¨α α°αα½ αααα
α ααα α₯α α₯ααααα ααα α¬ α«α΅α°α αα³αΉ αΆαͺ α₯π
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Iβm 22M in college and lately Iβve been interested in having a FWB or just something casual. Iβm usually at home most of the time, so I honestly donβt even know where people find these kinds of situations naturally. Recently the desire kinda spiked and now Iβm just curious how people even meet someone for that without making it weird or forcing it. Are there apps or sth ?
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Iβm 22M in college and lately Iβve been interested in having a FWB or just something casual. Iβm usually at home most of the time, so I honestly donβt even know where people find these kinds of situations naturally. Recently the desire kinda spiked and now Iβm just curious how people even meet someone for that without making it weird or forcing it. Are there apps or sth ?
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Am F 22 years old the thing is i need a bestie girl bestie like kind of friend I can have fun laugh until I get my tears with am funny person too but I want a genuine friendship
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Am F 22 years old the thing is i need a bestie girl bestie like kind of friend I can have fun laugh until I get my tears with am funny person too but I want a genuine friendship
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Hey guys, iβm M... Please bezih nger advice stugn eskiπ i talk a lot, joke around a lot, and I feel like I have no stability in my character, ena ergata mibal yelegnm. If anyone here has ever managed to change this kind of personality, please tell me how you did it π
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Hey guys, iβm M... Please bezih nger advice stugn eskiπ i talk a lot, joke around a lot, and I feel like I have no stability in my character, ena ergata mibal yelegnm. If anyone here has ever managed to change this kind of personality, please tell me how you did it π
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Sup. 18 y/o girl here. Joined AAU this year and things been going pretty good honestly, doing well academically and just enjoying life outside school too. I go out, smoke weed, only when I feel like it, I take ecstasy every 7 week as well (I'm well aware about the things I take and how chemically addictive they are) i started all of these a year and a half ago and I've never encountered any struggle or signs of addiction as I have solid self control and boundaries about it even if I've tried other things too. Ion do anything involving needles or snorting tho.
Anyway, later this year Iβve been growing more aware that a lot of the people around me(those I go out with) are becoming actual addicts, and itβs kinda weird watching how careless some people get with it. At first it was all just βfor fun,β but now Iβm seeing people who canβt really function without being on something, mixing whatever without caring what it does to them, or just constantly trying to escape reality through it. Iβm not tryna act better than anybody or judge them, but it really made me realize how different my mindset is when it comes to consumption.
For me itβs more about knowing my limits, staying selective, and making sure Iβm always in control instead of letting substances take over my whole life or personality.
I donβt like overdoing things, and Iβve realized the people you surround yourself with can influence you more than you think.
I'm just tryna connect with people with the same mindset rn. Ion mind a girl or a guy
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Sup. 18 y/o girl here. Joined AAU this year and things been going pretty good honestly, doing well academically and just enjoying life outside school too. I go out, smoke weed, only when I feel like it, I take ecstasy every 7 week as well (I'm well aware about the things I take and how chemically addictive they are) i started all of these a year and a half ago and I've never encountered any struggle or signs of addiction as I have solid self control and boundaries about it even if I've tried other things too. Ion do anything involving needles or snorting tho.
Anyway, later this year Iβve been growing more aware that a lot of the people around me(those I go out with) are becoming actual addicts, and itβs kinda weird watching how careless some people get with it. At first it was all just βfor fun,β but now Iβm seeing people who canβt really function without being on something, mixing whatever without caring what it does to them, or just constantly trying to escape reality through it. Iβm not tryna act better than anybody or judge them, but it really made me realize how different my mindset is when it comes to consumption.
For me itβs more about knowing my limits, staying selective, and making sure Iβm always in control instead of letting substances take over my whole life or personality.
I donβt like overdoing things, and Iβve realized the people you surround yourself with can influence you more than you think.
I'm just tryna connect with people with the same mindset rn. Ion mind a girl or a guy
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Ever thought maybe dating ain't for me i might just give up? I'm a hopeless romantic, i have never been in love but i really like the idea of love i want to make my partner happy, i want to be in love, i want to see them in love with me, i do believe in growing together ( not bashing my sisters who prefer a well off man ), i don't necessarily require him to be a specific way physically esp if we met inperson, like why is it so difficult i swear, it's not like i say he should be this, he should be that. Yea i mean I've that but nothing out of the ordinary i guess so like what the hell i swear to God π
I don't like saying i hate all men mnamn i still don't say that i believe i didn't came across wz a good man that i potentially like and liked by gn beka i swear to God am so tired. I just want to stop hopinh but i can't, I've a lot of love to give but no there will always be something to break us apart and am getting tired day by day. I just want to give up of temporarily and let it unfold by itself cuz shit is tiresome it just never works out
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Ever thought maybe dating ain't for me i might just give up? I'm a hopeless romantic, i have never been in love but i really like the idea of love i want to make my partner happy, i want to be in love, i want to see them in love with me, i do believe in growing together ( not bashing my sisters who prefer a well off man ), i don't necessarily require him to be a specific way physically esp if we met inperson, like why is it so difficult i swear, it's not like i say he should be this, he should be that. Yea i mean I've that but nothing out of the ordinary i guess so like what the hell i swear to God π
I don't like saying i hate all men mnamn i still don't say that i believe i didn't came across wz a good man that i potentially like and liked by gn beka i swear to God am so tired. I just want to stop hopinh but i can't, I've a lot of love to give but no there will always be something to break us apart and am getting tired day by day. I just want to give up of temporarily and let it unfold by itself cuz shit is tiresome it just never works out
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So graduated in medicine recently and tbh i don't have any idea of my direction but lately I've been thinking of taking the USMLE path. I never thought I'd say that but yeah. But the thing is i don't want the internal medicine route that's an absolute no no for me and what i want is psychiatry how i love itπ©, I'd do it for free but here comes the problem even tho it is one of the IMG friendly specialties it's getting competitive day by day. I don't have any research experience, no US clinical experience ofc, but i want it badly what should i do? Do you guys know anyone who went to the US to specialize in psychiatry from Ethiopia, pls say stng bcz am terrified before starting, if the chances were like IM i would have decided but.....
Anyways feel free to say anything also tell me how i can boost my CV esp regarding psych be it research, articles mnamn
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So graduated in medicine recently and tbh i don't have any idea of my direction but lately I've been thinking of taking the USMLE path. I never thought I'd say that but yeah. But the thing is i don't want the internal medicine route that's an absolute no no for me and what i want is psychiatry how i love itπ©, I'd do it for free but here comes the problem even tho it is one of the IMG friendly specialties it's getting competitive day by day. I don't have any research experience, no US clinical experience ofc, but i want it badly what should i do? Do you guys know anyone who went to the US to specialize in psychiatry from Ethiopia, pls say stng bcz am terrified before starting, if the chances were like IM i would have decided but.....
Anyways feel free to say anything also tell me how i can boost my CV esp regarding psych be it research, articles mnamn
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"Hi, Iβm 25, a guy whoβs proud of having a good job and clear goals. Iβve built stability and independence, but what I havenβt found yet is a real connection someone genuine to share life with. It feels like Iβve got the foundation, but Iβm missing the partner who makes the journey meaningful.β€οΈ
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"Hi, Iβm 25, a guy whoβs proud of having a good job and clear goals. Iβve built stability and independence, but what I havenβt found yet is a real connection someone genuine to share life with. It feels like Iβve got the foundation, but Iβm missing the partner who makes the journey meaningful.β€οΈ
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I'm 26F..I don't have close friends to talk with that's why I'm here.matured negn blachu mtasbu sewoch amakrugn esti kumneger slehone.
here's the thing..I've a boyfriend ena next yr lemegabat plan alen.he's a good a guy everything is going well mnamn.the problem is ye ehtu 2 lijoch kesu gar nw minorut.ehtu arab hager nw mtnorew.llijochu ye 11th ena 7th temari nachew.so my boyfriend miyasbew sngabam kenesu gar endemninor nw.sefa yale bet tekerayten.don't get me wrong sew yemtela sew hogne adelem.It's just that I've never thought of marriage like that.yehone clean,des yemil bet wst kebale gar sninor mnamn mil ngr nw yalew in my head kedrom jemro.ena beka yehone deberegn ngr yemr.bcha snawerabet ena yet yihunu mn ladrgachew mnamn silegn enja figure out yehone ngr endezih comfort aysetegnm slew "endezih aynet sew atmesyignm nbr"alegn.ena ewnet denegetku.am I being "metfo sew"ende??esti setoch bene bota bthonu mn tadergalachu be honest midebr ngr aydelem?wendoch mist endthonachu yasebachuatn set endezih aynet ngr wst mektet fair nw?
ena esti hasabachun nigerugn without being disrespectful
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I'm 26F..I don't have close friends to talk with that's why I'm here.matured negn blachu mtasbu sewoch amakrugn esti kumneger slehone.
here's the thing..I've a boyfriend ena next yr lemegabat plan alen.he's a good a guy everything is going well mnamn.the problem is ye ehtu 2 lijoch kesu gar nw minorut.ehtu arab hager nw mtnorew.llijochu ye 11th ena 7th temari nachew.so my boyfriend miyasbew sngabam kenesu gar endemninor nw.sefa yale bet tekerayten.don't get me wrong sew yemtela sew hogne adelem.It's just that I've never thought of marriage like that.yehone clean,des yemil bet wst kebale gar sninor mnamn mil ngr nw yalew in my head kedrom jemro.ena beka yehone deberegn ngr yemr.bcha snawerabet ena yet yihunu mn ladrgachew mnamn silegn enja figure out yehone ngr endezih comfort aysetegnm slew "endezih aynet sew atmesyignm nbr"alegn.ena ewnet denegetku.am I being "metfo sew"ende??esti setoch bene bota bthonu mn tadergalachu be honest midebr ngr aydelem?wendoch mist endthonachu yasebachuatn set endezih aynet ngr wst mektet fair nw?
ena esti hasabachun nigerugn without being disrespectful
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I am feeling all over the place I donβt even know what to say anymore I am only 20 but I think life forever is doomed for me it seems nothing goes right I have barely friends no talents nothing special and I canβt even find someone to love me mutually too . Depression is slowly taking over my life
I just donβt see the point anymore in this life
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I am feeling all over the place I donβt even know what to say anymore I am only 20 but I think life forever is doomed for me it seems nothing goes right I have barely friends no talents nothing special and I canβt even find someone to love me mutually too . Depression is slowly taking over my life
I just donβt see the point anymore in this life
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